12 Revealing Signs of an Honest Person

[@farazahmedkhan7907]

1-Give others benefit of the doubt 2-Don't shuffle your story 3-Respect others even if you have power 4-Thick skin (confident in who they are) 5-Close bonds with others 6-Recognize their mistakes 7-They value cooperation 8-They tell Incomplete/imperfect/jenuine stories not planned/perfect/manipulating 9-They're secure in who they're 10-Expressive emotionally 11-Selfless service 12-Genuine care

[@wesleytyler9599]

A MUST HAVE IN TODAY'S WORLD 🌎 IT SPEAKS FOR ITSELF IF YOU'VE BEEN PRACTICING AND LIVING IT .

[@thaitea9419]

This almost made me cry. All of these traits are something I’ve always been teased or picked on for being. And to hear it be articulated into what I’ve always tried to tell others how I’m being is a breath of fresh air. Thank you 🙏🏽

[@chiayamie]

Me too! You're awesome

[@emmanuelmahoo1250]

This is heart warming to read ❤

[@franksimmons9242]

Yeah some people use your honesty punish you these people have dark hearts and souls

[@PracticalInspiration]

Great list. The first point in how they treat others is excellent

[@saradashti7369]

Everyone looking for the honest person, nobody trying to BE the honest person.

[@jackwede_privet]

Lets not draw the line now. We can’t speak for all people out there. Were only us. We’ll have to se things with a bigger pitcher in mind.

[@flowerpower4944]

Honest .verses deceitful.i love honesty I m honest always ,💗💗💗🙏🏃🙏

[@RobertaNicholson1374]

Must be projecting

[@rejectwokeness1314]

That's why just don't trust anyone fully

[@MT-uf8xh]

@@RobertaNicholson1374 that's what I thought about.. for anyone liking this post. All dishonest people who think they deserve the truth, but aren't willing to give it.

[@tingtingwu.pianist]

An Honest person: 1. Benefit of doubt 2. The story shuffle 3. The inequality of power 4. Thick skin 5. Social trust 6. Recognizing mistakes 7. The value of cooperation 8. Incomplete stories 9. Outward praise 10. Emotional expression 11. Selfless service 12. Genuine care

[@actuallybusiness1622]

*Sometimes we have to stop being scared and go for it!!*

[@13zounds]

Truly. Live life.

[@deathbreach3448]

I’ve always seen myself as trying to do good and it turn out bad. As soon as I stopped trying, everyone started wanting to be around me more. I’m always trying make sure everyone feels completely included because I hate feeling excluded on everything. I hate being ignored so I respond to ppl who were cut off by someone before I listen to the other. My respect level is through the roof so much that narcissists think I’m the asshole.

[@pmp2559]

You can’t please everyone someone will always convince a group you’re an awful fake person.

[@jackwede_privet]

@the lone power ranger Then dont listen to what that person think. He is trying to drag you down cause he is jealous of you.

[@flowerpower4944]

Yes it's hard when people talk and continually cut in and don't listen or give you a turn to talk, Narcissist are like this,just run🏃🏃🏃🏃

[@deathbreach3448]

@@pmp2559 it’s a shame that many people who mean well are the Lone Rangers, and the ones who cause pain on others surround themselves with many

[@cindybalanon4809]

That was called empathy

[@jamesminichella9638]

Honesty won't get you many friends, but it will get you the right friends

[@davidbeal8715]

Perfectly said.

[@samza9622]

It's better to have a small amount of real friends then to have a huge amount of fake friends who will use you, talk bad about you behind your back and eventually betray you. Real friends are very rare and hard to find.

[@lindaraiha]

I think this video is named wrongly. It’s not about only honest people, it describes people with integrity and true confidence. Honesty is just a part of that.

[@kananparasapinas804]

true

[@genevieveharakidas7054]

Completely agree 👍🏻

[@Stierenkloot]

That doesn’t make the title wrong.

[@michaelmarkspersonal]

Even though I wasn't truly looking for validation, this video helped me feel a lot better about myself. Despite some major issues and major mess ups, I align with being an honest person in most of these things. I always thought I was, but some personal issues sure changed that. It's good to know that I can get back to being 100% honest again. Thank you for this video.

[@joeyheller2995]

It starts with your parents. Then it just like covering your mouth with you sneeze. It becomes so ingrained. A dishonest person will remain the same.

[@honeybuzz5591]

My husband does all this I know he is an honest person ❤️ I love this about him

[@MT-uf8xh]

An honest person can and will judge and criticize a dishonest person. Sorry not sorry.

[@Paola01.]

What if your giving, giving and giving and you don’t expect nothing in return. The other person takes advantage of you. You can’t keep giving to a person when that person doesn’t want to give or put effort back like you. You are being used.

[@verycherry4459]

Then you are picking the wrong person or people. Change your mindset on who and what you will accept. Maybe they will change with your expectations. Make better boundaries and enforce them, always. You don't have to tell them that you have new boundaries or rules. Your actions will speak for themselves and your consistency will show that you mean it. That will become easy for you after a while. They will start respecting you. Being honest and setting boundaries that you keep doesn't mean everyone will like you but you will deep down have their respect. The reason some won't like these things about you is some people know they don't have those noble traits and never will. Don't compromise yourself and who you are and values and morals for anyone. It won't elevate them (it may temporarily their ego) and hurts you and they will lose respect and it will hurt your health. Not everyone will like you anyway (it's like that for everyone because no matter what we do we won't please everyone) so you might as well be happier and not drained while living your best authentic and honest life.🙂 The people who are meant to be in your life will stay exactly for however long they are meant to. The people who stay are meant to be there. If someone leaves they are making room for the ones who are coming for the better part of your life. Don't compromise yourself for others who may walk on you if you let them and they leave you feeling this way sad, frustrated, and depleted. Being honest, you can honestly say "no". People are expected to say no and they do it all the time. You can be a compassionate person and still say no. You don't have to even give a reason. Don't argue. You don't have to lie about why. You're allowed some "me" time or wind down time or time to wash your hair or do something to feel renewed or to just have some fun or do-nothing time. Everyone deserves to just be. They have their own life lessons to learn on their own. They do their own thing. Why shouldn't you? You can't fill someone else's bucket if you don't have anything left to fill your own. It's time for you now. Let the love you'd give someone else fill your own bucket.❤ They sound like they could be narcissists (or just clueless) and you are possibly an empath or highly sensitive person and either one (empath, highly sensitive) is a gift. You may wish to watch videos on that dynamic and see if it fits. Or trauma bonding or codependency. None may fit or one of them may. I'm just giving out ideas to start. I wish you the best because I know what it's like to run yourself into the ground not wanting to hurt or disappoint anyone, looking for validation or just enjoying the joy of helping others but finding it to be at my own detriment. It isn't until you find love and validation within yourself that you become strong and happy and have authentic friendships and relationships and relate with people in an open way feeling and coming from your place of growth and personal strength. Then you won't let this happen again. If you don't do something now you risk your health later on because stress over long periods of time is definitely not good and can turn into things. A therapist over live video sessions or in person can be really beneficail and shows strength too.

[@catalhuyuk7]

IOW an honest person is the polar opposite to a narcissist.

[@trustyourself-ashleyching3646]

If you don’t spot inconsistencies early, they’re probably honest

[@lalkawltirijongte5867]

Honesty must guide our choices all through life, not just in certain convenient moments. This is my motto ever.❤

[@nightfangs2910]

You know you have met an honest person when they tell you something that upsets you, but you know deep down they are right

[@ogagaoghenemartinsojake4510]

Not every critical statement is honest.

[@nightfangs2910]

@@ogagaoghenemartinsojake4510 it is if it pertains to one of your shortcomings that you won't admit to yourself

[@davewelbylivinginhistinyti4796]

This video explains dishonesty in a very enlightened way 👍 except that a dishonest person who has no respect for others, can't have respect for themselves, contrary to what was stated in this video. A person lacking self respect tries to destabilize someone who has self respect. 💛

[@samza9622]

Wow so true!

[@elinasherpa2004]

So I am a honest person 🤧😢thanks for letting me know

[@manofsteelgoodmanll7925]

I'm a honest person I try to not see the worst in people before meeting them.In the work place I value my time before others like I work ,with someone who may have attitude problems or insecurities...I make mistakes but I do try to resort to something I've done wrong and fix it so I can feel better about it.

[@savannahm.laurentian1286]

Confidence and honesty are two different things.

[@RobertaNicholson1374]

Insecurity and dishonesty do go hand in hand though

[@RobertaNicholson1374]

Ariana Rose in 44 years on this earth I've been through hell and back. Born into an abusive family I was sexually abused as far back as I can remember. My mother beat us. My father was neglectful. I learned a lot in 44 painful years, with a few good years sprinkled in. 7 good years straight when I was in my 20s. My point being I have a ton of experiences. How or why I ended up a decent person nobody knows. I've always been soft lol. Insecure people do not have the strength to be honest. It is a strength. Just most of has that amount of strength. There are some who do not. Telling the truth is to be vulnerable. The deeply insecure cannot do that. My most recent relationship that is in the process of ending has lasted the last six years and he is deeply insecure. I learned how consistent this can be in someone. For them telling the truth is a risk they will not take.

[@RobertaNicholson1374]

Ariana Rose they just don't have the courage to tell their truth

[@RobertaNicholson1374]

Ariana Rose everyone is insecure to a degree....

[@rtphotos4691]

@@RobertaNicholson1374 - very well said.

[@Mark-eh3mv]

The dishonest person is the text book definition of all the Narcissists traits

[@sharonhubbard2035]

You can still act dishonest even if you are honest. This is mainly due to having to protect yourself in the working environment. The place makes you have to act like this just to keep your head above water and keep your job.

[@BeeNeeLimitless]

I’m 100% Confident 🕺🏽 Honest most of the time🤦🏽‍♂️

[@vanessabell7154]

Top thinker your the best. You explain things wonderful. I appreciate you.

[@robertverville2119]

This video makes it seem as if an honest person can only be one way.... I am an honest person but I don't necessarily fit this videos cookie-cutter formula for honesty...

[@coreyanderson1457]

Amazingly, we can often sense it when we are being jerked around. Something about being jerked around gives it away.

[@flowerpower4944]

I have been watching all ur old videos I loved the Empath one,.it's encouraging, it's not often people acknowledge us, Thanks 👍👍👍👍👍👍👍

[@sofiagoudaropoulou2392]

Honest persons do not wait anything in return,they respect others,and they are the best of themselves!!

[@driverslqqk7940]

If you have behavior consistent with good moral ethics and are honest just be yourself and you will have no problems at all with your character and if you have a strong character your personality should follow.

[@cindybalanon4809]

I think i have all this trait, but the disadvantage is everyone misunderstood me

[@neko0olaa]

I fail in number 7, 12 thanks for pointing that out. I do criticized my close friend about their lifestyle, even though I tried to encourage and support him to change, I think it was just try to manipulate him I guess.

[@kyg1954]

Respect is universal

[@FedUpWFat]

I feel you can be honest and still insecure. I'm an extremely honest person but I'm insecure in my physical appearance and I also don't trust other humans because I know I'm a rare breed and most ppl will lie for personal gain.

[@jackwede_privet]

Thank you. It was refreshing.

[@prashantrajbanshi6218]

I am here only to say that don't be so judgemental...even not about yourself....and have a good day.

[@flowerpower4944]

Ha ha I remember years ago some insurance man called my mum told me to say she was out, I said to the man my mum said she is Out,

[@franksimmons9242]

I guess that's why it can feel so crushing when we are falsely accused

[@romariomatthews4896]

Genuine care is key 🔑

[@muziclearance1320]

I wasn't sure that I'm an honest person until I watched this video

[@stevef5812]

Only one flaw in your theory. You can trust them until they change their mind. And over time it can happen to any and everyone.

[@chirazbenabdelkader7294]

I don’t agree with many of these rules, they seem to confound honesty and self confidence.

[@flowerpower4944]

Thanks for your great videos, 👍👍👍👍👍

[@Rm-kr2bp]

I’ve seen and heard so many time dishonest people saying sorry.

[@margaretreefer1145]

Yeah, I know ppl that apologize but just turn around and do it all over again.

[@samza9622]

Yup can't stand liars who say sorry and then they betray you so easily. They are so fucking fake.

[@samza9622]

They betray you by doing the same shit they just said sorry for. They never learn and never even try to better themselves so that they don't do it again. Sure some people make mistakes and it might take them once or twice to learn a lesson but if you have a bad person doing the same thing over and over and over you have a problem if they are doing it to you because that person might be doing it to hurt you. Becareful who you trust lots of crazy and bad people around its hard to find the decent ones. Good luck everyone.

[@viola4701]

truth is someone csn feel not beatyful because someone is made someones value low for example partner truly some people csn tell stories and dont remmember well

[@alohamana]

Honest persons that you rarely meet at work... Because they're being eaten by the crabs!

[@stephenmaginn7247]

A little spliff will help me relax california all ready approve

[@lisalee2655]

Honest persons always put themselves at a disadvantageous position

[@brewdanny4988]

A honest person never looks at u while walking or driving

[@BroodallyHonest]

I don't see what giving others the benefit of the doubt has to do with me being honest.

[@candellina6]

If you know you are honest, then you will think it is possible that there are other honest people like you living among the billions on Earth. If you lie a lot, then you'll suspect that others are just lying all the time as well, because that is what you would have done.

[@user-zk8ss5ck3j]

THAT'S KOOL Y'ALL..💪🏽😎

[@rolansanchez7046]

I am always like this, but people at work always take advantage of me.

[@silkroad1201]

"So, why do we always assume the worst in people? Well, it's because you're garbage! That's it!"

[@mahbubhossainsamm]

Clearly understood I am not an honest person.

[@martineche3972]

Thank you very much I really appreciate your good service

[@kathleenpetty1926]

Some of these things are true and some are not. Som people are so shy that some of these catagories violate their reserved nature.

[@chiayamie]

This is me 100% honesty is the best 👌

[@michaeltaylor2015]

Great info here!

[@CappvirlightMagical72]

True honest people can't be easily swayed when it comes to their beliefs and opinions of others ! Your on point! 👍🏻👍🏻 Honest people are having fair judgements in everything= Integrity !

[@nifafernandes2649]

Wonderful facts of honest person.

[@SuperZippyzippy]

I give most people the benefit of the doubt.. except in traffic

[@soubanjaved5654]

Nice content!

[@skandha4265]

In a Dishonest World, An Honest Person will always be at cross and angry with everyone and they don't see wrong in being that way coz they beleive untill you point out the mistakes they are not going to learn and one who is criticised will not be happy about it. 1st hint of Honest People: Short Temper and Angry with people in public places. They don't sugar coat and are open to be judged. Your way of judging honesty is how Extrovert behave. Soft on the outside but angry on the inside. Passive aggressiveness. Huh! The world has both Introverts and Extroverts. Neither of type is wrong or right.

[@astonish_injurer5598]

As an extrovert myself, I'm tough on the outside, soft on the inside. There are 8 types of extroverts: ESTJ, ESTP, ENTJ, ENFJ, ESFJ, ESFP, ENTP and ENFP. The functions of each type respectively: Te, Si, Ne, Fi. Se, Ti, Fe, Ni. Te, Ni, Se, Fi. Fe, Ni, Se, Ti. Fe, Si, Ne, Ti. Se, Fi, Te, Ni. Ne, Ti, Fe, Si. Ne, Fi, Te, Si. I mention that because the child function (the third function in one's psyche), is the core of who someone is. I'm an ESTP, so I'm really soft at my core.

[@skandha4265]

@@astonish_injurer5598 I meant soft on outside with regards to the way they deal with people or Personality. In other words kind and polite or passive aggressive or tolerant till a point. About Myers type personality everybody knows. One cannot be 100% Extrovert or Imtrovert. It depends and alters based on environment. But being Introvert or Extrovert is to an extent wired based on tolerance level. You can alter it by consciously crossing and increasing it. Mostly it's Feminine to be introvert. But if you are put in an environment where you have to meet new people everyday. They change to Extrovert as daily you cross your tolerance level.

[@astonish_injurer5598]

@@skandha4265 I did not say anything about being 100% introvert or extravert. I was just saying that not all extraverts are soft on the outside, tough on the inside, as was implied by your initial comment.

[@skandha4265]

@@astonish_injurer5598 "As an Extrovert Myself". Were you 100% Extroverted when the test adjudged you as ESTP. Point I made was to point out, Extroverts are social and so have better inter personal skills. Which, by definition, is Personality and Not Character. So one not getting angry in front of 4 people, as said in the video is not the real Character but personality. I made Reference to that. Don't Judge a Book by its Cover is the Essential Truth.

[@astonish_injurer5598]

@@skandha4265 Once again, I never said anything about being 100% extravert or introvert. Me saying that I'm an extravert doesn't mean that I'm 100% extraverted. Furthermore, it was through videos here on youtube about type that I figured out my type, not from a test.

[@intelligence6743]

I have all these qualities but all the people I meet call me fucking stupid and fool and laugh and call me laier and not trustworthy person .

[@Karen-e1f]

Trust yourself.

[@anamazinglife5628]

Everything is so relatable. 😊

[@charlottepeukert9095]

Not everybody is keen on telling great stories about themselves. Some people just tell, what happened without engaging or dramatising a simple story. Not everybody likes to talk about him - or herself. What has this to do with dishonesty?

[@gloriatoo22]

I can see I have these characters thanks for enlightening

[@andyc9902]

I'm a good person but I can't keep Friendship

[@charlottepeukert9095]

It's not a wise thing to help people out of the godness of your heart. I did that often and the result wasn't praise or kindness, but blame and critisisem. The reason is simple: People who need help are rarely satisfied, with what they get. It's not enough, it's not professional enough, they expected more and, most of all, more permanent help. People in need don't hold themselves accountable for their situation.They think, if there's help, the person helping them, either has to gain something, has a helper syndrom or is rich and therefore, morally obliged to do, whatever is necessary to help them out. Once them learn, that there's an end to what others can or want to do, it's time to shame them. Envy is a powerful feeling, that keeps people from improving their situation.

[@astonish_injurer5598]

Am I the only one who noticed that #8 contradicts #2? Particularly as someone who grew up with a narcissistic mother, she has done #8 a lot. And narcs certainly are not honest people.

[@kritikriti2774]

Some are right but some are not enough

[@leoqueen7424]

I can totally relate to this💯💯💯

[@Hell260]

You can't have a bad day in traffic like you can't have a bad day while in the operating room while operating on a patient. In both situations people die. So, if a moron cuts my way in traffic while reading messages or thinking about how his girlfriend/wife broke up with them, I will break their legs.

[@soniacarbajal8313]

Thanks so much. 👏👏👏👍👍🐨🐨

[@Deb.2338]

Beautiful ❤️

[@lm2082]

I disagree with number 5. Social Trust. Most times, honest people have no circle of friends, because most people don't like to hear the raw truth. Being honest is a lonely life.

[@harinigopal8659]

the more the person is secured with themselves its more they are to be honest!

[@markmagician2471]

Ive just been stabbed in the back so many times I just try to be as honest as I can

[@skandha4265]

Personality is how behave infront of 4 people Character is how behave when no body watches you. Character doesn't change; Personality does get changed by outside influences. Your view is biased to Extrovert behavior.

[@alejandrocurado5134]

One thing is to give the benefit of the doubt and another totally different is to believe again and again in people who show the same pattern of dishonesty and phoniness that we know from previous experiences. Giving the benefit of the doubt there would be to waste time and energy. Just flee

[@TrenchCoatGang]

Very true

[@SuperZippyzippy]

If this list is true then there are a ton of dishonest people

[@davidbeal8715]

Yes there are.

[@flowerpower4944]

Yea it's hard to find good honest people, , INfjs are honest , we don't need validation

[@jackwede_privet]

What is a INfjs? Are you talking about a personality from the 16 personality test?

[@jackwede_privet]

Are you sure not needing validation isn’t a bad thing. If you dont need it then whos to say you wont make shit up as you go along. Would that make you dishonest? Genuine question, im not grefing i respect you as a individual, just curious.

[@jackwede_privet]

XD even subbed to you xD

[@jackwede_privet]

You want a email or some? Where your sending what ever you are sending?

[@flowerpower4944]

@@jackwede_privet try this for insights into more Personality types,(PSYCH-O Psychology) it's very informative, I don't have a channel or content ,

[@protoncoccus3229]

I'm trying to be honest...

[@karlachavez9947]

I am honest ❤️

[@wondah3058]

Carry on

[@ogagaoghenemartinsojake4510]

Only about 60% agreeable! 40% deceptive

[@ogagaoghenemartinsojake4510]

Everyone who is offended, and acts like it's nothing is dishonest not honest...it is called pretending...not honesty... nobody enjoys being offended...plus pretence is burden and the pretender will eventually burst.

[@ogagaoghenemartinsojake4510]

Eloquence and being articulate has nothing to do with honest... everyone who seriously tries to prepare are speech will most likely succeed...honest or dishonest. One can still be articulate and honest...honesty is a decision not a character flaw.

[@gtoguy7330]

So they have all these good traits but lie when they feel they will be judged or fear people's reaction. Admits they lie for those reasons. Someone explain that. Are they honest and have integrity or no.

[@lydiap9542]

Well I’m 💯 honest 🥰

[@elizabethannsmith5006]

Very true!!!!!

[@k.m.sinmotionkamosa]

I agree 100%

[@Saltynutz333]

Our former US President was a “honest” person. 😂

[@Joel_J779]

Fax tho

[@rgv23]

Yes he was compared to joe and his thugs!

[@robertlebacs3196]

no way

[@nonsense565]

🤣😂🤣 truth

[@rgv23]

@@nonsense565 and you're so proud of GRANDPA joe's and KAMELTOE'S destruction of this country right? You probably hate America too!

[@RuRu-gn7nf]

Okay, I am pretty honest I guess

[@SakiValo]

I just found out I am really honest

[@SakiValo]

I was also born in dragon years and dragon year means honest person.This one Time I found 2 bucks on the ground at school I gave it to my teacher I had some trouble diceding to do. What leave on the ground or give to a teacher I choose to give it to my teacher I feel proud :):)XD

[@deck614]

Ah yeah honest person doesn't need attention nor recognition? Are you talking about honest persons or about inerved slaves?

[@astonish_injurer5598]

No kidding. Everyone-good or bad, honest or dishonest-needs attention.

[@skorpiolovesmith]

Love it

[@switchbladeromance1466]

Sounds like Ned Flanders 🤣🤣🤣

[@yoyo0253]

F-n my life 100% thank you 🙏