12 Ways to Expand Yourself | personal growth ideas & resources 🌟

[@lavendaire]

Hi loves! ✨ We just launched a new community program ft. masterminds and monthly live events for personal growth & wellness! Learn more & join here → lavendaire.com/DLC 🫶

[@liquidmessage]

Here's a quote I thought you might like: A ship is safe in the harbour, but that's not what ships are for.

[@lavendaire]

kreativkoma ooh I love that quote

[@laragutierrez8033]

that's so meaningful

[@priscillajimenez27]

Oh that's awesome! Despite the unknown and potential storms, sail out fir the journey. ☺️

[@moultonmayers5090]

People who linger in the shore sometimes get pulled in the current and drown; all of life's goodies lie in places where the waves seem rough and boisterous. Fortune favors the brave who is willing to brave life's rough and tempestuous waves.

[@NatashaLeecole]

If you aren't inspiration I don't know what inspiration is. I love how I'm always inspired and relaxed watching your videos.✨

[@Dreamsicelle]

I completely agree! Aileen's presence is so calming and uplifting. ✨

[@lavendaire]

So grateful to hear that! ✨

[@NatashaLeecole]

Dreamsicelle yesss! Very calming and uplifting exactly

[@NatashaLeecole]

Lavendaire 💛💛💛

[@mamathareddy1644]

Aileen..u r awesome.

[@caitlinryan4896]

The most influential TED talk in my life has been ‘How To Make Hard Choices’ by Ruth Chang. It really changed my perspective and I’d honestly recommend anyone had a watch!

[@THENOWCO]

That sounds like a good one to check out. Especially since we all could use some help with building up our decision making skills.

[@neelamdevkota6977]

Thank you I will check it

[@LyricWalker_]

HOW ARE HER VIDEOS SO AESTHETIC?!💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@F0reverblessed]

LifeWithLyric She was definitely made for this! 💕

[@aykaa0]

I stop the video after a minute. Because I already feel the spark to do something productive. Thank you Aillen!

[@sisterarmy2856]

The whole "stepping out of your comfort zone" thing is super scary, but also so empowering & life-changing 😭 Thank you for sharing your wisdom with us, Aileen ✨ P.S.: Your podcast is just awesome, btw 💕 (Fede)

[@lavendaire]

Sister Army agree! Thank you love 💕

[@sisterarmy2856]

@AuthenticallyShanell oh, that's so true :) embarking on a new journey always feels very daunting at first, but if you hold on, it does get easier! Best of luck to you 💜

[@F0reverblessed]

Sister Army Stepping out of your comfort zone can definitely be scary. However, I promise you, once you do... you’ll be on fire!!! It’s amazing. 💕

[@sisterarmy2856]

@@F0reverblessed wow, what an absolutely lovely thing to say, thank you 💜 (completely off-topic, but your smile is so pretty!)

[@F0reverblessed]

Sister Army You’re so sweet! thank you!! ❤️

[@lavendaire]

Vietnamese and Portuguese subtitles are available! Click "CC" and check the video settings. Thank you to the contributors listed in the description 💕

[@christinamariemoney]

The best way to start your Sunday? With a new inspiring lavendaire video ✨ ps I have a channel too ❤️

[@kindergartensaranya6708]

That's right..sure I will check your channel out

[@F0reverblessed]

Christina Marie Absolutely! 💕

[@lavendaire]

Hey guys, please check the description for links to resources & everything mentioned!! I saw a lot of comments asking for my fave podcasts & what tarot deck that is 🙃 Also, here’s a question I've always wanted to ask: What term do you usually use to describe this topic? I used to know it as "self improvement" "self help" or "personal development" when I first learned about it - then when I started Lavendaire I intentionally chose the terms "personal growth" and "lifestyle design" because I liked the sound of those better. I've noticed people outside the US call it "self development" and I've heard "self actualization" too. There are so many options - what term do you use the most?

[@CharmaineAlmasen]

Personally, i like the sound of personal growth and lifestyle design too! ❤

[@annabelmartinezlopez]

I loooove it, your really inspired me so i need to thank you for be, after all this years, a part in youtube with a beautiful channel. Thanks from BARCELONA, Spain.

[@astronomicalliv]

Mine's life upgrade 😊

[@toppy13]

Maybe this is a bit too corporate, but in my company we use the term "Development Planning". As an L&D specialist, I like this from the perspective that it makes it *intentional* - if you plan for it, it happens. It could also be "Growth Planning" or "Upleveling" (I think I just invented this one :D).

[@paschalwalsh4300]

Personal growth depicts an image of a soul ever-growing and evolving which is why it’s my favourite 😊

[@myzone111]

Aileen puts so much work, love and beauty into her videos and video descriptions boxes. They are jam packed with great advice, resources and references too! I’m so grateful! 😍😭

[@lavendaire]

imrose thank you - I appreciate you!! ❤️❤️

[@F0reverblessed]

imrose Absolutely ! I am grateful too 💕

[@moultonmayers5090]

It is rather sad and pathetic that most people live their whole lives and leave this world without ever knowing that they were born rich, educated, and talented. Isn't that blustery and awful? You are richer and more prosperous than you would have ever thought in your wildest dream.

[@Bunnylovescoffee]

Recently I've been always feeling down or depressed, not sure it is because of the academic pressure that I face right now , the friendship among groups of people or anything else. Especially today is almost the Chinese New Year, but as an International student who study in US and cannot go back to my hometown to celebrate with my family, I experience a bad homesickness. However, after watching Lavendaire's video, I feel much better now. Gladly that your video always inspire me with all the positivity and organized strategies to help me put my life altogether. Thank you!

[@lavendaire]

Margie Z aww happy Chinese New Year, sending you love

[@Bunnylovescoffee]

@@lavendaire Wow thank you for your reply!!

[@F0reverblessed]

Margie Z You are strong! I can only imagine how difficult it must be for you to be away from home. But it’ll all be worth it in the end! 💕

[@Bunnylovescoffee]

D.E.Y.A Thank you! Lots of international students from Asia actually experience the same thing. Have a good day😇

[@F0reverblessed]

Margie Z Definitely! I hope you have a good day too 💕

[@cataleyasanchez459]

Seriously.... every Video is like I ordered it.... the universe has it's best Timing. Thank You for sharing this one, feel like I really needed it! 🙏🏾🌻

[@AdrianaGirdler]

Love your snowboarding example for doing something that scares you! It's always good to step outside of your comfort zone, even in little ways so you can gain new experiences. Cheers!

[@itsgiuliaab]

Hi wasn't sure about starting my own KZbin channel, but last year i decided to create one. I posted only 3 videos and then i spent 3 months without posting anything. Now I've started again and i honestly i'm happier with the result, even if i don't have a lot of views. Thank you so much for your words, Aileen✨

[@ghazalamemon4204]

Who watches Lavendaire instead of doing Homework? Me lol

[@arianaalmeida7425]

zam life why would u be doing homework at 6:00 am

[@ghazalamemon4204]

@@arianaalmeida7425 cause I live in India and its 7: 49 PM right now

[@thematchkookieisholdingins5542]

Same kinda I need to study for upcoming exams

[@F0reverblessed]

zam life Instead of dong anything else.. for sure! Lol

[@anetteglover21]

one of my favorites was learning a new language. i have recently been learning Korean and Russian. my friend is Russian so she helps me out a lot, but I’ve also listened to music in Russian and followed people who are Russian to expand the learning. same with Korean.

[@THENOWCO]

Are there any apps or courses that you used? Or is it simply participating in dialogue?

[@anetteglover21]

THE NOW CO. I use duolingo and drops to practice before bed and just whenever

[@THENOWCO]

Aniya Glover Great to know, thanks for your response

[@logicalthought4343]

You are very wise and highly intelligent along with open-mindedness!!! I know you will be a success in anything you do!!!

[@florrie.6377]

Every video of yours I watch makes me feel like I just got a free therapy session. 💗🐘

[@lavendaire]

elizabeth. Hehe 💖

[@bloominglotuz]

You provide guidance in such a beautiful way, Aileen. This “realm” of videos is my absolute favorite, and yours are always jam-packed with practical inspiration. Thank you for sharing your talents with the world!

[@seemu2927]

Whenever I feel depressed or like a failure I watch your videos. You always lift my spirits.

[@LiahYoo]

Loved this!💕

[@astridverastegui]

My favorite Ted talk is Don't Ask Where I'm From, Ask Where I'm a Local. Your videos are so positive and relaxing. A great way to start my day. x

[@rithikakarwa1590]

The person who inspires me in my life is you. Its because of u that i don't lose hope n faith in myself,n yess.....after listening to your videos my lifestyle has change in good way...i mean a little better but a small step also helps alot💜💜

[@NatashaLeecole]

I've really been wanting to learn a new language, I just have to make time! There so many things I'm working on and trying to learn, so many on the list to dive in and discover.

[@roselmarie12]

I’m using the app Spar on iphone to keep me accountable in learning a new language :) highly recommended!

[@NatashaLeecole]

Goddess 18 this is a great idea! Thank you. I have an obsession with notebooks some need many ways to fill them up lol

[@NatashaLeecole]

Monica Rose there's so many apps I see for learning languages! I'll have to check that one out too, thank you.

[@F0reverblessed]

Moon Allured That’s Awesome!! You got this! 💕

[@priscillajimenez27]

I need to find someone to practice with

[@farida7148]

favorite documentaries: forks over knives, what the health, cowspiracy. i’m looking forward to watching the true cost (about fast fashion) and a plastic ocean next!

[@e.p.6573]

I recommend you one about sea animals in captivity "Blackfish" and one about horses "The path of the horse". And of course, "Earthlings" and "Dominion", but I think you already know them.

[@kimhyojong6539]

I watch this channel to improve my English listening skill, but I got much great information or tips that helpful in my life. Thanks for the nice video.

[@unleashingpotential-psycho9433]

2019 will be the year of growth for all of us! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@FullGlassDani]

This video got me thinking about where I was two years ago...I wasn't following hardly any of these practices. But since then (and since finding you on KZbin!) I follow almost all of these and my personal growth has skyrocketed! Thank you for the ideas and for all of your inspiration!

[@lavendaire]

Dani G Morris wow - so proud of you!! That’s amazing

[@surlespasdondine]

Learning languages is the best! Speaking 6 so far, and every different language has taught me so much!

[@HilmyA.S.]

Bruh how??? Is there a free way to do this? ps : i tried duolingo, but its very basic and we can barely hold a conversation with the knowledge

[@seanyraps]

@@HilmyA.S. try memrise it is so much better and goes by levels e.g A1, A2, B1,B2 etc

[@auraaura8876]

Her smile is everything. The way you speak,smiling makes me smile🤗😊 ily so much aileen💖💖💖

[@lavendaire]

Its Aurora 😸❤️

[@auraaura8876]

@@lavendaire 🤗

[@dnwanja]

Audible is everything. Podcasts are life as well....cheers to self growth.💃🏽

[@ElizaVanCort]

As I was watching this I kept thinking of this poem by Edgar Lee Masters, which is one of my favorites! It's about a man telling his story from the grave who never expanded himself, and egrets it. Thanks so much for this! I'm passing it on to my clients. Inspirational! GEORGE GRAY I have studied many times The marble which was chiseled for me-- A boat with a furled sail at rest in a harbor. In truth it pictures not my destination But my life. For love was offered me and I shrank from its disillusionment; Sorrow knocked at my door, but I was afraid; Ambition called to me, but I dreaded the chances. Yet all the while I hungered for meaning in my life. And now I know that we must lift the sail And catch the winds of destiny Wherever they drive the boat. To put meaning in one's life may end in madness, But life without meaning is the torture Of restlessness and vague desire-- It is a boat longing for the sea and yet afraid.

[@hannaivarsson95]

The best way that I've expanded myself was when I went vegan💚 my favourite ted talk is with Greta Thunberg and my favourite documentaries on Netflix are What the health, Forks over knives, Cowspiracy, The True Cost and Plastic Ocean.

[@karinaal9333]

This year l've started to learn German and Spanish and it really expands borders of my life, l learned so many interesting facts in foreign language, that l even didn't know in my mother tongue.

[@ADea-hp3uz]

Definitely taking time to read books is my favourite, but lately I've been into listening to podcasts too. I like the idea of having deep conversation with a stranger or someone who you normally won't have a conversation with and sharing skills. Thank u for sharing, you are amazing, as always ❤

[@hajra637]

Thank you Eileen for setting positive thoughts and deeds into our lives. I don't know how to cure my panic attacks without watching your videos.... You inspire me so much and so often. I love how you always give us courage and love... And how you show us how to get a peaceful life and a peaceful society around us. Thank you Eileen❤️

[@neelamdevkota6977]

That is Aileen not Eileen

[@miscmiscellaneous30]

You are truly a pro when it comes to lifestyle and productivity.

[@AnjolaoluwaAwe]

I love this! Personal growth is so important 😀 💕

[@THENOWCO]

If we aren't growing, we're decaying.

[@avoryalya1429]

awalnya nggak sengaja muncul di beranda, makasih kak saya belajar banyak bahasa inggris melalui channel kakak. terimakasih kak❤️❤️❤️

[@katiegeraldi]

I love how you always put the resources in the description! A lot of youtubers just leave people in suspense so no one will skip through the videos but thank you for always providing everything you discuss plus links! We really appreciate it!!

[@valeriemaldonado1758]

I love your perspective on reading books! I’m an avid reader and it helps broaden a conversation with anyone. Thanks for a wonderful video as always.

[@xhvozy]

I'm learning English and I understand 90% what you said. It makes me feel more confident, ahah. Thanks for your cozy and useful videos

[@manjimaroy1164]

Suddenly feeling such a big urge to watch your video, and the need got so bad, started watching your old videos. Please , I need to watch you talking about so many things

[@SameeraAshiqa]

The best feeling is when you realize that you are changing into a better person after watching Aileen's videos...you make magic in everyone's life Aileen!the best way to end sunday(in India)😁🌻

[@PahlaB]

So many great ideas here. Reading more is actually a thing on my vision board this year because I've been neglecting it so long!

[@libbyyy1011]

I love TED talk!! I watch it everyday for few months now. Every speaker is great. Recommend Tshering Tobgay for now. Usually I will just listen when I get ready, help me with my eng and brain.

[@ailsaedgar4902]

You’re SO inspiring! I love u so much xx

[@user-zg2fh9cm9m]

First time I used the self improvement and self development and finally settled for personal growth..it feels like a something is blossoming 💚

[@Thefitty]

*Another day, another Lavendaire!* Thank you for inspiring me to share my own youtube story.

[@Dreamsicelle]

I am so grateful for you, Aileen! Your calming and inspiring presence is amazing. 💕 I always look forward to your videos so much that I will literally drop anything that I am doing to watch them 😂

[@lavendaire]

Dreamsicelle aww I’m grateful for you too!

[@Dreamsicelle]

@@lavendaire Ahh, thank you so much! You just made my day! ☺️💕I hope you're having a super Sunday! 🌸

[@camillegerst]

I love snowboarding as well! I was the same at first and kept falling when the lift arrived and it was a bit scary. But I stuck with it for many years and now there is no more fear, just fun!

[@afifahananda21]

I really love the way you talk, it's so clear

[@libbyyy1011]

Woah wait, I am like Aileen. I literally hate small talk as it just used up my energy without gettin any, deep talk and someone who gets my talk is really a gift

[@ncjohnson7]

You always have the best uplifting and empowering content. I appreciate your channel so much 🙏🏾

[@valentineguzniczak5246]

1-Do something that scares you 2-Read more books (check book recommendation video) 3-Listen to podcasts 4-Learn a new skill 5-Learn a new language 6- watch a new documentary or Ted-talk 7-have a deep conversation with someone new 8-try a new hobby 9-cook new recipes 10-commit to a mindful or spiritual practice 11-ask for feedback 12-exchange skills with a friend

[@forevermore9431]

I never expected this channel to have such a huge Impact on my life, but after I started the Artist of Life Workbook I really feel how I change my views and perspectives within a short time. This is amazing

[@kekelolo6471]

Last year I stated watching your videos and u changed my live so much Thank you for everything

[@lavendaire]

Keke Lolo Happy for you ✨

[@harshabonde532]

I usually never follow anyone on KZbin as I followed you. You really inspires me. I actually implemented so many things I learned from your videos. Thank you dear... God bless you.

[@oceanyuen8860]

Hi from Hong Kong. Add oil with your Chinese learning! You are so empowering and now I would also love to start learning Japanese and German. Thanks!

[@lavendaire]

Thank you!

[@evelyngonzalez4945]

You're amazing, I love your videos, definitly your voice and videos are very relaxed

[@day_dream]

I really hope you publish a book, you are such an inspiration, and has so much wisdom. Love ya Aileen

[@teejaycarter2842]

I have discovered your channel last year Lavendaire and I watched a lot of your videos.This is my first time to comment.I really love your positive ,kindness and creativity .You are such an inspiration .I’ve learned a lot from you.:)

[@carlyburr]

💛💕💛 best thing to wake up to on a Sunday morning. Reading more books is my favorite tip you shared, reading more books has changed my life!

[@lorenm3586]

I was really down these last few days, but after listening to your tips I'm more inspired to improve myself and my life

[@DrBiohack]

Aileen brightens Sunday afternoons 💞💜 I love the ideas you have and share, I hope people watching my videos on KZbin leave as inspired as I leave yours 😘💞

[@uwugrace2353]

Hi Lavendaire, I remember binge-watching your videos a couple of years ago before I went to Uni! I was so scared to make the leap and live away from home, but your videos excited and comforted me. I remember wondering why you didn’t have as many subscribers/views but now I know you were way ahead of our time back then and the world wasn’t ready for your wokeness 😂 I hope you’re happy and all the best for the future. I’m looking forward to your videos 💕

[@anilamalik8051]

U included both indoor and outdoor/physical activities! Like a complete package or steps to growth!

[@hoangtralinh]

i am learning english by your videos, Aileen

[@zaracapina7915]

watching this in 2020; thank you for inspiring us, your contents are so calming and i am grateful that i found you in this time of year ♥️♥️🌸

[@aiquesono]

this video came out at the right moment. I've always wanted to travel and explore the world but my anxiety never allowed me to, so this year I've decided I'm gonna go to Morocco, a country that will force me to get out my comfort zone, as its culture is totally different from mine and usually it's not the first option that people chose when going abroad.

[@mikalachristian6165]

All of those were great. I want to try them all this year! I have recently been rushing a lot in my life, but today after this video I am realizing that I need to continue to work inward so much more than anything else this year. Thank you!

[@cheshtachoudhury8735]

I'm a fairly new subscriber to your channel but I'm loving you! 💜 The vibes that your videos give are extremely positive and happy😁

[@lavendaire]

Cheshta Choudhury aww welcome!

[@cheshtachoudhury8735]

@@lavendaire ♥💜♥💜

[@jomoljoseph8714]

Hai, you are so cutest and astonishing. I really liked your videos and it is very informative . It's really mesmerizing to see your smiling till the end of your video.

[@livvyt1]

I'm so late on the podcast and audiobook train and I've been soaking in all sorts of content. I listen when I'm driving or cleaning.

[@sherrishao797]

you are so good!! Love watching your videos because they push me to be better and think more about my life, personalities. I am happy you are learning Chinese, and this year I wanna learn English well. Fighting!!

[@diviner2347]

I feel like I've hit the jackpot coming across this video. It's like a chest filled with a bunch of treasures! I followed all the podcasts you recommended.

[@lavendaire]

Divine Grace Rafanan enjoy!!

[@diviner2347]

Lavendaire currently enjoying your podcasts 😊

[@rachellewinters8473]

This year I want to learn embroidery. I bought a starter kit and I am very excited to get started. I also want to deepen my abilities in things I have been doing for a while but haven’t focused much on growth.

[@yunzhezhou3341]

Congrats on picking up snowboarding again!! I'm also terrified of skiing so your story of not falling off the lift is quite inspiring haha - maybe I'll try again next year. Love how your theme is experience & explore (with the cute world map in the back;). I'm planning to take on your recommendation of having deeper conversations + asking for feedback. One exercise my friend and I have started doing is visualizing - what if this conversation was worth 10K? It helps us move past the small talk and be really present and grounded with each other :)

[@graciakinyanjui6937]

Watching from Nairobi Kenya... just landed here today Sept 11th i love everything, great lessons awesome

[@MarielaMerino]

whenever I want to feel inspired I know I can count on you 🌻🌻

[@Haily224]

Omg my inner fangirl freaked out when you were talking about learning a new language and you showed the Meteor Garden intro. I loved that drama.

[@lavendaire]

Haha me too 😂❤️

[@Haily224]

Omg I've been noticed 😭💕 Love you Aileen

[@nurilhamrich820]

Hi from Malaysia. Love to watch your channel. Very inspiring. Most important thing you remind me of spiritual things. I'm muslim and i believe spiritual motivation is a must to be better servant and human. When we are refresh enough, we will spread the positive vibes and happiness to others. I'll try my best to improve starting this year. Thanks for make me realize that. This year i want to improve my english language which i last used in 2012 (as a student).

[@payaltalekar1866]

I love to hear Ted talks and vedios from spiritual teachers to expand myself.. I love your channel, it give me some really useful tips to upgrade my life.☺️

[@deletemypast3333]

I will listen to podcast when i do housework 🐠 you always introduce us great tips 🧚‍♀️thanks 🙏🙏🙏 我真的非常喜欢你的动画短片！ 祝你的新年愉快，快乐，过的幸福！

[@lavendaire]

Delete Mypast 謝謝你💕 祝你新年快樂！

[@robincharmagne3137]

This video is not only inspirational but aspirational. I'm committed to a few of these already but adding a few more.

[@preetikaur6870]

There is something about you, I feel very positive after watching your videos and life seems easy💕

[@lavendaire]

❤️❤️

[@Kibenwa]

Great content as usual! It's rather difficult to pick just a couple of favourite TED talks. I watch at least 5 a week. My favourite podcasts for personal growth are: Stuff you Should Know, HIBT, Oprah's Masterclass, Great Women of Business, and most recently I added The Dave Ramsey Show, which is AMAZING. He gives great advice and insight about personal finance. I also listen to a few others for enjoyment. Modern Love, Criminal, This American Life, Serial, and Tales. I'm sure it goes without mentioning that I do listen to your podcast as well. Loved the most recent episode. Trying to find ways to be more careful with my purchases to reduce waste here in my country. 😊

[@anaisbarre246]

I'm not in the best place these days but your videos always inspire me and make me feel better so thank you so so much for being such a beautiful and pure human being ❤

[@mialynnrivera3700]

Haven't watched your videos in a long time! Glad I have a break to watch this one. Great video, as always! I love your videos like this one because it motivates me to take action and think differently.

[@firegoldluver]

Self improvement and personal growth are the words I use the most

[@Sophy2001]

I am never disappointed when I watch your videos, you are always giving good and meaningful tips and ideas.

[@praghalya]

Whenever I watch her videos, I receive loads of inspiration and positivity ❤❤ lots of love Aileen

[@shreyasharma1105]

Clubbing Yoga with Reiki healing is a spiritual practice I am committing to this year.

[@sairainbow2829]

I am filled with joy whenever I see you!!! Love you

[@lavendaire]

Sai Rainbow Studio love u dear ❤️

[@neelamdevkota6977]

I am learning Spanish thank you for tell me to listen the music of language you have learn I am going to use this ideas 💡 now

[@alahere]

Thank you for always inspiring me to be better and better

[@nadinanicolov7958]

As always, you inspire and motivate me with every video! Your videos are actually my "get motivated" kit. ❤️

[@trupscorner2989]

You are speaking so fast... Generally you speak so smooth and soft... But loving every changes... Thats life right...

[@22lanisha]

WOW. You are such an inspiration! You offered so many ideas I'll have a hard time choosing which to do first! Thank you for sharing such valuable information.