12 Keys to Success: Habits & Lessons From My Journey

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more like a person who making a living or idk but using oir views to b succsful its my opinion

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@@sarrahpakawala901 and it's fair but the highlight here is that she choose the path of helping people to thrive.

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Habits I've started to change :- 1. workout + stretching 2. Drink lots of water all day 3. limiting sugar intake 4. Trying to love myself 5. Read books/ gain knowledge

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Sounds like Regina herself haha. We'll done though!!

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same! this changes made me a better person.

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Drinking water and getting a good night of sleep is so underrated and SO important

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You’re so right! 🥺❤️

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I’m feeling a little called out 😭😔

[@si__chouchou_5444]

Yes absolutely

[@qtcvvr]

My notes: -Define what success means to you-success is relative. -External vs. internal success- it's more important to be internal succsesful, external success is what material you have. You can be internal succesful right now, because it's just a feeling and when you feel it, you will be external succsesful too. Habits: 1. Control your mindset - 4:22 2. Follow your heart & intuition - 5:32 3. Belive in yourself. Trust your vision - 6:50 4. Act despite fear - 8:00 5. Willing to learn & figure it out - 9:00 6. Take action - 12:06 - negative feedback is more useful than positive one, because it allows you to know what your mistakes are and take action to avoid them and improve yourself. 7. Continious learning - 13:16 - read books, articles etc.| When you fail, it means that you've tried. And to fail is ok! It's productive experience. 8. Behave like a pro - 14:27 9. Consistency - 15:50 - small steps to your goal. | Showing up everyday is a *choice* 10. Being commited for the long term - 18:07 11. Leverage habits - 19:15 12. Don't go it alone. Connect & work with other people - 20:20

[@veganlunchmom]

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[@clAssIcAllymINdless]

Thank you!

[@Mia-lc3im]

Thank you🙏🙏

[@michellewanjiru2643]

So helpful 💛

[@hellogirl225]

Thank you so much!

[@beeba1717]

Summary: 1. Control your mindset🧠. 2. Follow your heart and intuition❤. 3. Believe in yourself💫. 4. Act despite fear😨. 5. Willing to learn and figure it out😈. 6. Take action🙋🏻‍♀️💃. 7. Continues learning📖📚. 8. Behave like a pro😎. 9. Consistency😀. 10. Committed for the long term🤝. 11. Leverage habbits🌟. 12. Don't go it alone🙅‍♀️ connect and work with others👭🏻👬.

[@repanajoyceannc.5097]

"If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." I love that! I'll always remember that.

[@archanagavhale7736]

" Success isn't always about greatness. It's about CONSISTENCY . Consistent hard work leads to success. Greatness will come. " - Dwayne Johnson

[@corrine.talbot8]

That's why I fell in love with him. His intelligence. His life wisdom. And good looks 😅🤩

[@lavendaire]

This!!

[@rudig5698]

Omg You’re so right! Thank you for sharing this! 😍❤️

[@MisterPol]

Success is a state of mind. It depends a lot on the person. For me, success is about pushing yourself and always do more than what you're asked to do!

[@MisterPol]

Thank you btw for this video, it's really motivating

[@si__chouchou_5444]

So inspiring your comment

[@shreyaarora7941]

Habits i have started:- 1.drinking more water 2. Reading 3. exercising. 4. Journal. 5. Postive self talk 6. good eating habits. 7. Singing (i love singing) Being 15yrs old teenager makes me feel proud of myself to build good habits 😴✌️

[@rachels.5887]

I started my first job at a gas station deli and all last week I would constantly say to myself, "I hate this, the co-workers are rude, the customers are creepy, and it smells so gross here". I need to stop. I am lucky to even have a job during this pandemic. I am bringing in my own income and my mindset is what really will define the job. I needed this reminder. Thank you So much!

[@romellamendoza4501]

im 19 and since quarantine, i decided to get aaaall my shts together. I wanted to start right now, be successful in my early 20s, be a boss of my self and Miss Aileen really helped me alot, her vids are so helpful for my mindset, it's therapeutic and soul-fulfulling. Thank you❣️ also your podcast, it's my lullaby whenever i go to sleep🥺✊🏼

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Hi! I wanted to know how can i get that podcast? I'll appreciate if u help

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[@sieunpark3436]

I am shocked about the process of Personal Growth Challenge. I did not expect a lot of people to quit later on. Keep going on one thing is not easy. The person who has consistency successes!

[@randomcarrot7970]

For me, the most relevant points discussed in this video are: 1.) Giving more importance to internal success rather than external success - I still struggle with it because my goals are often clouded by what I know will impress others. Even sometimes, when I actually make goals for myself and then they impress others, I forget my personal reason why I'm aiming for them. And then I begin to lose consistency. It's like the external validation from others makes me disconnected from my genuine intentions. 2.) Connecting with other people - I love the quote "If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together." I also struggle with thinking that I can do it all alone. I forget that things are always easier and more meaningful when they are done with other people, especially with those who will surprisingly get you a lot. It's magic when you meet people lof your tribe. So I should avoid closing my doors to everyone.

[@ShrutiSingh-ky2id]

0:38 I really liked it - " There is a difference between knowing the lesson vs living the lesson. " Great quote Aileen :)

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saw the notification on my phone, clicked right away, watched it, loved it, and posted a comment! I love you so much Aileen, you’ve helped thousands of people, including me. Sending love from China your way~ 💕

[@lavendaire]

Aw thank you Diella!

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[@lavendaire]

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[@simplicitbliss8190]

I love the part about the internal and external success. Doesn't matter how much you have, you have to feel successful and be proud of your achievements or progress. Progress counts too!

[@gracieller.9472]

i love how gentle this is. i had so much resistance opening this video thinking that it's just another one of those videos that would add to the "shoulds" of life to become successful. i'm glad i watched this

[@DaphneGsell]

This video was well needed this morning. I’ve been pressured to go into graduate school and I know I’m not ready. Today I will tell my dad that I just cannot do it at the moment.

[@khadhija7]

With that last habit, I have people I can connect with to help me but I'm so scared to include them in my projects because I'm scared they'll judge me or think that my projects aren't good.. I guess I'm just scared of criticism or that what I'm doing is worthless in the end... I feel like I need to work on my self confidence so that I can include others... thanks Aileen for this video 🤗🤗

[@lavendaire]

That’s understandable. Try to take that risk in a smaller way if you can - some you trust and aren’t too scared of their judgment. I also have lots of videos on self worth & confidence so you can search my playlists for that!

[@thenerdywalker516]

Hi Aileen. I just want to say thank you for your videos. As someone who was extremely shy and well nerdy in school, I was bullied often and as a result my self esteem has always been low. I even became a shut in for a few years. I've started to practice self love unconditionally and I've started to feel so much better. It's been an amazing journey though I still have a long way to go. The best thing about yourself is the way you speak in a way that we all can relate to. And I say this, even though I'm not in your target audience (I'm a guy in my early 30s).. Thanks again and continue your good work. You are an inspiration

[@apoorvasingh4431]

"Our success 💫 is determined by what , we do daily. Excellence then is not an act it's a habbit"🛣

[@Megpezz]

“you never will be led astray if you follow your inner compass.” yes 💜 thank you Aileen for sharing what you do and helping us connect to the wisdom we carry within. your authenticity and generosity are appreciated so much by myself and many others 💕

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Your voice is really soothing =) Playing this video while working

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You are the youtuber that I can trust and and take most of the advice from you.

[@DeaMathew]

Take action... act despite fear...Thanks for uploading this amazing video........Action cures fear, inaction creates terror. .......

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Hey Aileen ♡ You're one of my favorite youtubers and you've helped me get my life together but recently I've found something called "the new age " movement which includes astrology, law of attraction, tarot cards, meditation, yoga, and things like that and Ive kinda gained and learned about these things from you but I've found that they might be bad and... demonic I don't completly understand why. Since you're so cool and smart, do you mind making a video of your opinion on it? Or at least look into it yourself so you truly know. Ilysm and I love your videos 💕

[@MoonSignInsight]

These are so true! I've struggled at the beginning of my businesses and career because I thought I had to do it alone as well, but connecting with others has really helped me. I love having a community to support. I love that quote so much! Thank you for sharing this

[@lavendaire]

Yes!!

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[@dreamlikediana]

I definitely want to note that connecting with others is really vital. Getting through college, getting a specific position or career, or whatever is next in your life it really is important to stay connected. When I went back to school after originally dropping out for 5 years, I literally thought I was going to go to school and go home and do homework. And that's it. Yeah I didn't get very far with that mindset. I needed connections put myself out there to get to know my teachers, the staff, etc. And through that I was able to stay on top of sh*t and get through without many problems. Even now, I'm still connected to my old bosses, my old teachers, I'm applying to grad school and honestly if they didn't write me such amazing recommendation letters I probably wouldnt feel so certain. It probably wouldn't have looked well. But I helped them out they helped me out. I stay connected. I went through a bad year where sh*t hit the fan, my dad got hit by a car, etc I disappeared from everyone. But I came back I apologized I explained and they understood.

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"Showing up everyday is a choice." Thank you for so much helpful messages!!

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Thanks for being a teacher in my life . When ever I feel like I hate myself your videos inspire and motivate me to start loving myself again .... Thanks

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YOur voice is so soothing to listen and things you talk about are very inspirational and helps me. think positively.

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I'm reading Atomic Habits currently. It's been great so far. I have been thinking about habits, success and lifestyle for a few days and you made this video. It gave me a lot of clarity. So thank you and always love you❣

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She is such an amazing person..... ive never thought anything about what she talking about success. She is a true inspiration

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Thank you for enlightening me and my daughter. I am grateful for your sharing. ❤️

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Omggg I was just rewatching your 23 Habits of Successful People earlier and then you uploaded this. I feel extra motivated now 🥺🥰

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Found your channel a few days ago, subscribed right after watching the first video. You've changed my life in such a wonderful way. You emit vibes that are soooo positive that I feel wonderful right away. Thank you so much

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[@toetovocaloid]

Good advice I've learned lately: Play the game, but don't take it too seriously. Sometimes we forget in our daily hustles that life is short, and that life actually is hard. But we don't have to complicate life even further, we just have to do our best each day and trust that our work will get us somewhere 🌻 Lovely video again Aileen 💖

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U fail only when u stop trying....🌈 Aileen u r a true mentor💝

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sometimes i push myself too much .. after watch this, maybe i might to have a change step by step.. thanks to you

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I liked the 'consious stearing' part...it is a new mindset towards negative feedback...keep going Lavendaire....ur sound is calming nd inspiring

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A woman with wisdom 💕 been learning a lot and love to watch your videos. 🤗🙏

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Aileen plz make a video on your personality changes that you think you have got from past till now ? or what changes you find in yourself from the past in yourself ?

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I have watched alot of videos about self improvement but when i found your channel couple of months ago you are my favoriteand i really love this..

[@aida087]

Aileen I was guided in recently finding your channel so thank you SO much for this video and everything you said is SO true!! You are such a wise young woman!! I'm 57 years old and I'm just realizing what I need to be doing with my life but I'm a firm believer in that *it's never too late to achieve your dreams!!* I recently got into Meditation to stop the noise of the world, and to help me figure out myself and my LIFE!! Looking forward to watching more of your videos and yes, I'm a lifelong Learner always welcoming new things and ideas, LIFE is an everlasting lesson!!💖🤗🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Came across your videos and have been enjoying them. Thank you for sharing ♥️

[@djshikha]

You are such a brave beautiful bud and it feels so good to hear you early in the morning.

[@F0reverblessed]

Yes, yes, yes!!! The definition of success can be different for each person! A willingness to grow is a having a growth mindset. 🙇‍♀️ From a self love content creator to another- great video Aileen. So informative!! 💗

[@rudig5698]

So important! 🤗❤️

[@F0reverblessed]

RudiG Indeed!! :))

[@lavendaire]

🌼 Download the checklist on my blog: lavendaire.com/12-success-checklist What other video topics do you want to see coming up? Let me know below :)

[@chanelamber218]

When you fail and you encounter failure in life how do you stay strong? And like not give up?

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I’d love to see content about how to become a good team leader and work with others effectively from you

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How to overcome imposter syndrome

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This did not feel like a 20 minute video at all. Thank you so much! I love the points you made and the way you delivered them in a manner that is not condescending.

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Decluttering house 🏡

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A voice is a voice. Soft.

[@aishichatt]

You are such a beauty in heart and soul. Thank you for always inspiring us. Sending you lots of love and positive vibes 💛

[@Acrylara]

When she mentioned atomic habits I was like "I called it!" Heard everyone talk about it for forever and I finally bought it two days ago. Can't wait til it arrives!

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You’ve just earned a new enthusiastic subscriber! I’m so ready to not only take the action but actually stay consistent and finish all I set my mind into! Thank you for encouragement.🕉

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Thank you for this. I want to start a KZbin channel but I keep putting it off because I’m afraid to start. Really glad you spoke about taking action.❤️❤️

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One of the best and practical video EVER. Thank you for sharing ❤❤

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Thanks for being so inspiring, this is really good lessons that everyone should hear, let's grow together

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Thank you Ms. Aileen, your vlog really helps a lot esp at this time. Godbless

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Love this what a powerful guideline for every aspect of our life Thank a you. So happy I found this ..

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I love your videos 💗 they have helped me so much. I went from such an awful place. My mind was a mess, my space was a mess, I didn't believe in myself, but you have helped me grow so much. Thank you so much. And I love your hairrrrrrr ☺️💗🦋

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You are so amazing. You help me to heal so much from within. Sending much love and positive vibes your way !!!

[@amyzee714]

Thank u for being where you are and what you are doing... u keep me going 😘 stay blessed

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It's so special for us to have a mentor and guider like you.....😀❤

[@RoannaFernandes]

... Aileen, you are so inspiring and warm and wonderful, and i have benefited so much (personally and professionally) from watching your videos. - I am so happy i stumbled upon your channel v randomly when i was once looking up resources and videos on astrology, tarot and such. Truly! I am happy for you and your successes, and for choosing to share your learnings with us all. //// The monthly reviews are the best, and my favourite exercise! And guess what, i completed 10 days of meditating, yesterday too (i started two days early incidentally) but now i want to do it today and tomorrow as well so that i can complete it with y’all (two bonus days)!!!! Honestly, it has been super doing it everyday instead of once or twice a week so yeah, i am hopeful i can add it to my daily self-care practice. Thank you! //// P.S. i love your hair here, and i would be so excited to own one of your journals. I hope to treat myself soon, they are so minimal and pretty. Lots of love!

[@RoannaFernandes]

*and for you choosing to...

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Why are you so inspiring?? Loads of love to the lavendaire family 🤗🤗🤗

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Thank you so much maám for sharing all your knowledge and experience. God bless!

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I love your videos. You work my brain and I love that! Also you have a very soft nature to you. Beautiful ❤

[@neigeelisabeth8693]

I think there is something about that phrasing "successful people" that's kind of excluding. Like there's "normal people" and "successful people", whereas i'm pretty sure we have all been successful somewhere in our life. I would say "success" instead of "successful people", maybe that would help us feel more "included". BUT that's said, it's really not a hate comment, it's just something i thought was worth sharing. I absolutely adore this channel, it is sooo inspiring and full of LOVE, the most important thing of all. Thank you for your beautiful content. ❤️❤️🌸🌼❤️

[@englishwithevgenia919]

I just want to thank you for your vwork. I can improve my listening skills by watching your amazing videos.

[@alexnik5132]

My favorite channel💖 The way you talk about everything, esp healing, motivating, and success related stuff it's not annoying at all which is I LOVE~××

[@annageorge1723]

You are one of the channels that I always come back to. Always learn something new or just refresh and get motivated to do what I already know. You're such a delightful gem! Thank you!

[@thunderandwriting]

All of this is SO TRUE. And everything you spoke about takes such consistent practice and attention to truly embody. Love it Aileen.

[@melaniegriesemer]

Thank you for pointing out the difference between external success and internal success! So important and not something many talk about or focus on. I often don’t even use the word “successful” because of so many people’s inability to differentiate the two.

[@jemaykeziah]

Thanks for this! Especially the one with the feedback 😊 Conscious steering ...

[@onehundredhourchallenge836]

Another great video, thanks Aileen. I also really liked the jazz piano riff at the very end.

[@duetchu1416]

Thank you for spreading the inspiration!! ❤️ You're full of wisdom, beauty and calmness as always. So thankful that I found you

[@AdrianaGirdler]

Another super motivating video! Having a clear vision and actually taking the time to build it really is one of the big keys to success! Cheers!

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My inner compass directed me to this channel and I agree we should believe in it ❤

[@jameshumphries5059]

I love how you have little to no ego! Great video and I’m typically critical of youtubers.