12 Week Marriage Saving System & Online Marriage Counseling Services | Paul Friedman

Learn how Paul Friedman's revolutionary 12-week marriage-saving system creates a joyous marriage. It's an online service more effective than traditional, in-person marriage counseling or online marriage counseling services.
Paul will show you how we got to where we are today with our online marriage-helping system and services. This is the long version.
Here is the short version:
• 12 Week Marriage Savin...
I started out in the marriage business not as a marriage healer but as a divorce mediator.
I used to believe in divorce. I thought it was the right thing to do.
I got all of my referrals from therapists, from marriage counselors who had failed their
couple.
What happened was, a couple came to me and they said, "We don't know what else to do
so we're getting a divorce." And I responded, "Well, let me look into this. You know I'm
a great communication coach, let's see if we can't help you stay married."
So I began the process of developing what eventually became my marriage saving system.
The very first question that I asked myself was "Why do people get married in
the first place?"
The answer kind of surprised me because I had been married before and I was divorced and I wanted to know why didn't I ask myself this question.
The question is, why do people get married in the first place?
Most people say, "Well, she was the best woman I'd ever come across." Or, "He
was the love of my life, I felt so connected."
I'll tell you why, and it's so crazily simple. Because you wanted to be happy, right?
Everyone gets married for the purpose of happiness.
So now, what creates happiness? And I thought about the typical having a good family,
having nice communication, having harmony, a pleasant living environment. No, because all
of those can get changed in a heartbeat. There're are so many things that could interfere with these what turned out to be transient creators of happiness. But there is one form of
happiness that is not transient, right?
That is always going to make you happy no matter, what no matter who you are, no matter what you're going through, etc.
And you know what that is?
It's love, but let's take it a step further because love is such an easy word these days to confuse with other words you know.
"I love that dress" is not love. "I love this house" is not love. Those are heightened
expressions of liking something; of feeling and attraction to them.
Love is different.
Love is centered in your heart. You know, when you feel deep love you feel it here in
your heart, don't you?
It began to tie together for me. I start realizing that's the soul. Aha, soulmates.
Duh! So here it is. We get married in order to be happy by
achieving love, right?
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[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Sincere and determined people need truthful information and a good plan to escape the cycle and hole you are in. Incredible marriages ARE possible. They are achieved by: 1. Learning about the mind and mastering it so your changes are permanent and you are always growing. 2. Learning how to behave, and not behave in marriage friendly ways 3. Making unconditional love and ever-expanding happiness your primary and constant missions. Go to themarriagefoundation.org and get the course if you need it. Now is not the time to experiment. It is the time for positive action.

[@erichuff2538]

I like your message. But you got me all in when you said .. " God is love " God bless you brother,, and thank you.

[@shanemcdonald7071]

Thank you! You give me hope for my marriage

[@darmakiel]

Fantastic content Paul, thank you for making these videos. I am not married yet but will be early next year, and I enjoy learning from you about how to create a happy marriage for a lifetime. I have never received any guidance on marriage so it's really interesting to listen to your expert advice!

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Daz, go to our sister organization and get the premarital courses so you do not have to learn little by little. We made it inexpensive on purpose.

[@sgm6603]

What an amazing man!

[@sengphethkeopraseuth5646]

Thank you very much for sharing your wonderful thoughts

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

The channel is blessed by that which flows through it 🙏

❤Beautiful Sir/Soul, Are you telling me that I can give my unconditional love in the venue of marriage without ANY harm coming to me?🤔Hmmm, that must come over time once I've refined, and fine tuned the principles of this program.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Don't wait! Give it now.

[@betsycummings338]

Thank you 🎉❤ thank you Lord Jesus Christ 🎉❤

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Always a good thing to be appreciative to God, always!

[@catechesispost]

Very well said!

[@Pabl0lara]

I wish I'd found this 2 years ago.

[@40871279]

I am doing this system at the moment even though we are separated but within the same house. It is very hard given that while trying to do these things, there is a constant battle about what to do with child custody, financial separation, relocation (housing) and then divorce proceedings. Is it actually possible to recover a marriage whilst dealing with issues like this that are bound to cause arguments?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You must have just started because within hours or days there should be no arguments as this is literlly the first thing I cover with "The anatomy of a fight" and then the classes that follow.

[@Hs-ov5wu]

Any books you recommend on marriage / relationships?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

I wrote two that you can get from us or Amazon. themarriagefoundation.org/ under products or www.amazon.com/Breaking-Cycle-Marriage-Foundation/dp/0988594013

[@thuriaramadan7336]

🎉Hello. I am from Zanzibar. Do you have a website please I can share that link

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Sure, thank you, themarriagefoundation.org/

[@1Sun111]

what can be done in case a partner isn´t polite and respectful?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

The 3 killers of marriage are led by over-familiarity, which means that you take each other for granted. This is promoted in TV shows, movies and social in the form of fake humor. So, it is not easy to call it our in others. However, the communication within your marriage should be good enough that it can be mentioned, that something was hurtful. There is more success to be gained by learning better communication skills than by being confrontive or reactive.

[@bilkisusarkinhanya4150]

Mosque on Friday sir not Thursday

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

I do mix things up, but I also humbly apologize and hope you will forgive me.

[@bilkisusarkinhanya4150]

The Marriage Foundation ...not at all sir no offense, just an honest correction sir, just saying....Your talk are really very educative and “realistic” to be precised.Thank you, for the insight.

[@jacquelong8874]

Marriage counseling for wo.en course

[@LovingGod1]

Suppose you didn't get unconditional love from parents?

[@twinsoultarot473]

Not one person I have ever met was given continuous unconditional love by their parents.

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Mothers try and fathers try but we know what it should be.

[@bilkisusarkinhanya4150]

So where is the ink to join?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Go here themarriagefoundation.org/system/

[@hanantravels7607]

Can you Paul help me & my husband in our marriage directly? Can we set up a call with you?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

You do have the ability to schedule time with me but usually the courses are best, If you are set on setting a skype call, voice only, please go to this link themarriagefoundation.org/meet-with-paul-friedman/

[@sunshinedeleon599]

Can you send me the link for the course please

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Happy to themarriagefoundation.org/

[@tracirogers9719]

How much is program?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Go to our website to find the price and options. Its not at all expensive. themarriagefoundation.org/

[@LoveGodandLive]

How does the course work

[@LovingGod1]

And now we don't know how to give. It to our spouses. What can we do?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Great question asked all too often because we live in a world where this lack is handed down from one generation to another. If you have children you can experience it watching them sleep; it just comes. If not then you can find it within through patient outer steps, and always look for it popping up through compassion or other emotional triggers. Then 'remember' how it feels and nurture it.

[@LovingGod1]

The Marriage Foundation my husband is not affectionate. Unconditional love was not revealed to him from his parents and now he's married to me he doesn't know how to express it. He gets angry easily and not patience. I get frustrated easily and want to give up. But I love him. What can I do?

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

@@LovingGod1 The path most satisfying is where you yourself learn to love unconditionally. If you make this effort daily you will find that your own heart opens in ways you didn't expect and your husband will reciprocate to at least some degree. You can test this idea before you get the course by eliminating all your own negative expressions towards him for just three days and see how his demeanor towards you changes. If you can sustain that better way then just get one of the books for more guidance and many ideas. If you cannot sustain your efforts, as most cannot, then use the course as your self-help guide.

[@Fiawordweaver]

I wasn’t safe growing up. I don’t have that luxury

[@TheMarriageFoundation]

Your free will is stronger than the fears left from your upbringing.