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@reinaldofranco29662 жыл бұрын
I liked the video. The thing with me I’m unhappy due to a fiancée passing away 3 years ago and it still hurts and I miss her a lot 🥺🥺
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
My condolences on your loss. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@tnijoo51092 жыл бұрын
❤️
@thomasshaw93632 жыл бұрын
I'm sorry
@arnoldmeiring77102 жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes do you have videos on RJ OCD
@acer42372 жыл бұрын
So sorry for your loss, it’s grieving and overtime you will heal…she would want you to be happy and live life to carry on for both of you
@jolly77282 жыл бұрын
This is all well and good, but people need to understand that anger, unhappiness, depression, or whatever other emotion you wish to call it, are the emotions that give birth to the arts and sciences. All I'm saying is that if you're upset, go over to your easel and draw something lovely, or take out your pen and paper and write a wonderful sonnet, or go into your garage and create a one-of-a-kind bird feeder for your yard, or take out your sewing machine and stitch that blouse you've been contemplating. Put your emotions into something positive, and you will feel good, and you will continue to feel good the more you apply yourself in these ways. Your project can be small and almost cost-free. Utilize your creativity.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
Jolly, Anger, hatred and jealousy can lead to severe health issues. Be aware of what you feed your mind and then there will be no unhappiness. To feel better reduce negative thoughts and overthinking. Avoid comparing with others, reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed, avoid moving too much and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. You may reach a state of equanimity. Never meditate with expectations but with awareness. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Observe your breath sensations before sleep, in college, at work, taking a walk, when reading, etc.etc. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@chicagolandable2 жыл бұрын
Some emotions are bad. Plain bad. You can't be creative about them at all. Being positive about the negative is virtually impossible
@jolly7728 Жыл бұрын
@@shyaaammeneen63 And ride your bike safely, alone or with a like-minded companion. It works wonders. Make sure your bicycle is in good working condition and obey all laws. Have some peaceful fun and clear your mind.
@shyaaammeneen63 Жыл бұрын
@@jolly7728 Best wishes.
@davidthomas80832 жыл бұрын
Man. She hit the spot with this one. I have to quit thinking on things that make me angry.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@justbreakingballs2 жыл бұрын
Nahhh you can't do that. If it was that easy everyone could just stop thinking about anything they want to anytime. Thoughts appear spontaneously. So do moods like anger. The thoughts of something angry will arrive and you won't be able to stop them. Then you will become trapped being angry about being angry. All about not being able to stop being angry or thinking about something that makes you angry. Those thought will arrive you need the make space for them. Let them com through but don't get sucked in. A great talk on this it Michael Singer?? Think that's his name it called "not getting trapped on the waters of the mind" or something. Habe a listen to that on KZbin.
@shadowfax91772 жыл бұрын
I did this for a while. Then I realized I was rehashing old things that made me angry BECAUSE of the energy surge. I was literally using anger to fuel my day.
@kellylappin59442 жыл бұрын
@@justbreakingballs You can do that! Fill your time and your mind with positive thoughts. Everyone becomes angry of course, and sometimes it’s warranted! It’s not worth your time and energy to let it consume you. Get angry and then get busy with getting on with your fabulous life, you deserve better!
@lindageiling59222 жыл бұрын
Are we born this way. I never realized how bad I was. And no wonder why people walk away from me. Who wants to be around someone like this. I'm going to work hard on this. I lost someone I love because of me . I've been crying alot n spending all my time alone. I've been this way since childhood. Negative family growing up did not help. A dad who never believed in me didn't help. A controlling mom didn't help. But I know that's over n I must work hard to change myself for the better.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You may want to look for a local, licensed professional counselor. It sounds like you have a lot to work through. Sounds like a tough childhood. -You can find other therapists via Psychology Today search: allceus.com/Psychology_Today_Therapist_Search Thanks for watching my video. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@Kaitlyn.Cole902 жыл бұрын
Thank you Doc Snipes! I have highly recommended your videos to my friends I was on and off medications for years with no help, the last six months I have watched your videos regularly with no medicine, lots of exercise, and healthy eating and this is the best I've felt emotionally since my childhood! You are amazing and I love your voice!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@debbie038642 жыл бұрын
I have come to realize that I'm a totally unhappy person I guess I do hide it very well and I hold it very well sometimes this time has been the worst for me I guess I'll get some work to do
@debbie038642 жыл бұрын
Thank you for being there and I enjoyed listening to your video and you I just don't know where to go to from here I'm at a loss
@loriellen27262 жыл бұрын
@@debbie03864 I feel you, Deborah. I understand that there are many like us. The work that we need to do, is sometimes called reparenting, re-wiring, know thy self, or awakening, etc. I believe that my happiness, my enthusiasm for life, my courage/confidence, my love of self and others, my true worth, is most abundant when I am simply TRUE TO MYSELF. For example, when I do something that I am not comfortable doing (because someone important to me wants me to), I don’t enjoy it, I feel guilt or shame, and I am teaching myself that I cannot and don’t trust my self to determine what is acceptable for/to me… I learned when I was young, that my feelings, thoughts, needs weren’t important, stifle them and put a smile on your face, or go away. It’s strange that as a youngster, I naturally empathized, consoled, encouraged, listened, and loved but didn’t receive the same. My caregivers weren’t equipped/capable of such. Anyway, I hope that you will apply yourself toward learning, understanding, awareness, knowledge; there is much true, accurate and important information available here on you tube, as well as elsewhere.
@466378112 жыл бұрын
Aloha Doc! Thank you for your videos. They are little gold nuggets. I appreciate you creating this channel and sharing your knowledge with low income people like myself. You are helping the poor improve their health and the quality of your life with your free videos. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Also, your new look is amazing. It’s a beautiful upgrade. You look great!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You are too kind. I appreciate your kind words, I am glad my videos can help. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
JH, Be aware of what you feed your mind and then there will be no unhappiness. To feel better reduce negative thoughts and overthinking. Avoid comparing with others, reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed, avoid moving too much and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Never meditate with expectations but with awareness. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Observe your breath sensations before sleep, in college, at work, taking a walk, when reading, etc.etc. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@loriellen27262 жыл бұрын
@@shyaaammeneen63 I am grateful that you have shared your beautiful sentiments and wisdom. I felt a sense of peace enter my being, as I read them.
@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
@@loriellen2726 Since many years I have made it a habit to observe my breath sensations even during my normal activities and I am feeling relaxed and healthy. Anywhere-anytime it can be done. The best part is nobody comes to know that you are doing the breath observing practice as there is no deep breathing or sound. Reduce watching negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind. For any problem of stress and overthinking read my msg and do the practice regularly to feel better. . Best wishes. Sr. Counsellor.
@loriellen27262 жыл бұрын
@@shyaaammeneen63 SINCERE GRATITUDE TO YOU ❣️
@abracadabra23372 жыл бұрын
I almost didn't watch this video because I've become a much happier person recently. However I'm glad I did because I now realize that there are still many things I can improve. Thank you
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@jc18652 жыл бұрын
Getting to the awareness of best quality of life in context of current experience is an eye opening thought for me from this today. I've been stuck lately and all the sudden my system responded.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@dannypalmer77012 жыл бұрын
Yep.Being Aware of your own thinking and problem helps you understand it.
@405OKCShiningOn2 жыл бұрын
I need to this lesson so much. For the last few weeks I'm at Jessica Heslop channel reparenting, doing affirmations for sleep. I wake different than I used to. I'm sad over hearing from family. I messed up their week and they are messing up mine-never ends. I just want my SSRI to work.
@hippietrap2 жыл бұрын
Your videos have had such a positive effect on me thank you so much Doc!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome. Thanks for being with the channel!
@torreygreen67942 жыл бұрын
Another awesome video, Dr. Snipes. Thank you! You are the only person who gives better advise than my mom, even though she wasn't the best parent when I was a child.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Too kind. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@wendylee39282 жыл бұрын
Not Cat Stevensvwho sang the song, " Cats in the Cradle!" It was Harry Chapin!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@Coach-j1h2 жыл бұрын
I just figured out this ptsd always has me analyzing people for threats(I forgot how to relax 🙄) Also having the words to explain how I see things is a big relief... Finding UNDERSTANDING about myself is like striking bloody GOLD mate... thanks again o.g snipes 🙏 still alot to learn 😎🤙
@jenniferarce69932 жыл бұрын
Its true this is jennifer a "fellow subscriber" i liked the way you said it "analysing people for threats" simple truthful, clear well spoken😊
@krash69512 жыл бұрын
Ptsd from where?
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
So glad this was helpful for you. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@Coach-j1h2 жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes thank you Dr snipes 🙏 (still tripping out 😱) Thanks for the comments guys appreciate it cheers 🥂
@TYGZus7772 жыл бұрын
A horrible childhood does not give one license to behave abusively to others in the present. It also does not excuse manipulation, gossip, or slander.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@timk70732 жыл бұрын
Looking back at troublesome things and trying to figure out what in the world was going on is important. That is different from wallowing in shame, regret, guilt, etc. Wonderful content. Thank you!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@That_Handle Жыл бұрын
~8:43 - practicing maladaptive deflection/distraction by way of engaging in preoccupations/procrastination from confirmation bias seeking exercises draws the mind and energy away from where it should be which is due diligence (if after a break from the emotions for a while first to down-regulate)
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@angelus_solus2 жыл бұрын
The only problem I have in this list is bottling. I have no choice but to pack my emotions away and store them, because I don't have anyone I can talk to them about. No one feels safe to at least. I'm sure it's part of the reason I've become emotionally dead. Worst part is, I've been doing it for so many years that I'm not sure if I would know how to do anything different.
@dot68232 жыл бұрын
Yup. Ive been bottling for pretty much my whole life too. It is very tiring and exhausting to deal with people who have to be right all the time, or people who are quick to tell you about yourself but they never wanna hear about themselves. I’ve concluded that since the powers that be have allowed all of us (in my family) to live like this for so long then he must be okay with this. But I’m not okay with keeping things in anymore. So I’ve resolved to very quietly save my money and disappear. Problem solved!
@angelus_solus2 жыл бұрын
@@dot6823 I honestly wish you the best.
@ceceliamoreno18452 жыл бұрын
This is so basic. I have a legitimate reason for being angry and have requested critical information in order to move forward from the person that made a horrible decision that caused my stress and anger. So far they have not provided what I have asked. So I know why I’m angry, I don’t feel guilty about it but I really need this information. What now??
@johndeal43812 жыл бұрын
You must be reading my mind! Great info.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@ChaptersHealth2 жыл бұрын
Great video! Mental Health awareness is so important.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@marianneellman4802 жыл бұрын
Thank you,this was very helpful... I have to find a way to become motivated in life again....🌻
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You can do it! Thanks for watching.
@loriellen27262 жыл бұрын
@Marianne Ellman • I hope you find life-giving inspiration/motivation.
@judithc23352 жыл бұрын
Many thanks Dr Snipes ☀️Just what I needed to hear! 😌
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Welcome. Glad it was helpful.
@rebeccarogan78972 жыл бұрын
Excellent overview . Bless you and thank you. Very helpful summary xo.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome!
@inaratkhan73482 жыл бұрын
There hasn't been a single day when I haven't watched at least one video and felt a composure and motivation to restart and try to make amends for myself. Much love. 💙
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You are so kind. Thanks for watching and being part of the channel. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@DavidMihaelovich Жыл бұрын
Thank you for these videos. I've been extensively unhappy for the past 3 or so years.
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching
@sterlgirlceline2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely LOVE Dr. Snipes! Stellar information and Dr. Snipes is so endearing 🌸
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Too kind. Thanks so much for being here.
@gabrielaarreola47572 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing your wonderful knowledge, it helps me a lot.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You are so welcome! Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@marcelasanchez78912 жыл бұрын
E X C E L L E N T !!! Very complete. I loved it. Congrats,
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@ye50692 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! This is very helpful
@christirose68132 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. This information is helpful and hope inducing. Sometimes even those of us who love Jesus Christ can tend to get comfortable with hearing from the Holy Spirit and we can tend to go on autopilot with Him and then autopilot with most other things. This is a nice reminder to come back to often to keep a spring in my step. I really appreciate your time and determination/care in sharing these videos to help those of us who are in need of it. Thank you again, May God watch over you and your family always. Christi 🌹
@puma54712 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your videos. I’m learning a lot. I came across one and I needed it so much!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@405OKCShiningOn2 жыл бұрын
Than you, i journaled this video. It helps me ask what or why I am upset or depressed and overthinking. Yes, the guilt for MDEs. I need to read about acceptance therapy. Im reading about heart based therapy. Radical acceptance and radical empathy help a great deal. I practice the envisioning my problems on a leaf and let it go upon a stream If I don't I ruminate. I'm sorting it out and loving my mind. Im listening to Jessica Heslop reparenting and motivation/Depression meditations. The eight hours sessions at night let me wake different. Physical Therapy is going well. Case mgmt/regular therapy gave me a tablet to stay in touch with and have journal homework. Fact based reasoning help me prove my Depression as untrue I can chose better or am doing better on reacting to the past. I decide to study/heal anna Runkle Patrick Teehan Jessica heslop school of life at youtube. I accept it's not mmay fault so I reason at 40+ I'm thankful to be these good environments.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@missmary88782 жыл бұрын
I wish you well you have worked a lot on yourself well done. Watch a comedy have a laugh if you are in a low mood or have a walk. I am no expert but thinking too much is unhealthy. Best wishes from Ireldand.
@sanivana2 жыл бұрын
Thank you for mentioning the things and resources that you tried, I had never heard of some of them. I am also working on healing ❤️🩹
@mrunixman15792 жыл бұрын
Expecting the worst is something I seem to do. I seem to have most of the characteristics. I now have professional workers now.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@jenniferarce69932 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr Snipes and friends online! Todays presentation was excellent! We are so blessed to have you Dr.Snipes you truly are "at least for Myself" an answere to my prayers !
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
So nice of you. Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@georgemusic4all4seasons2 жыл бұрын
Excellent and informative show, thank you
@idajj.16252 жыл бұрын
Amazing doc!!!!!! 🙌🙌🙌🙌
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@DanyalArcadio2 жыл бұрын
I love your videos. The knowledge you share helps me make sense of so much of what's going on in life. Although I am a student in information technology, I've always tried to be my own therapist, and if the situation enables it, I try to be a therapist to my close ones. I like to imagine that that's one of the best ways to make the world a better place.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@dariobotkuljak96732 жыл бұрын
This is a gem
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@Tyrone9502 жыл бұрын
Great video, Doc Snipes. Thank you 😊
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@gloriakurkowski1012 жыл бұрын
Your videos are so helpful, thank you.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Glad you like them!
@judithwallace20912 жыл бұрын
Love this! Thank you.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@nathangurevitch45062 жыл бұрын
I really love you unconditionally thank you for being there for all of us everywhere and i as you are all living together and we all love you unconditionally however I live in Dunoon Argyll in 2020’s Scotland 🏴 and I have never felt so dumb to say that I was not human and had no emotions but I’m yea human and a fleshy Sack o
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@missmary88782 жыл бұрын
Thank you for the very practical advice I needed this! Going for a walk with my beautiful happy dog now. Best wishes from Ireland.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Wonderful, walking your dog is great stress relief! I hope to get to visit Ireland one day. Thanks for watching.
@MsLeosmom2 жыл бұрын
harry chapin sang Cat's in the Cradle...thats not what we're talking about but my music nerd self just had to say that. i love your videos, most importantly.
@aalloy68812 жыл бұрын
Yep. shawn daughton is correct. The song is still a good example of the impact of life imbalance either way.
@MsLeosmom2 жыл бұрын
@@aalloy6881 I couldn't decide if I should say anything about that but my musician self just had to. I love both harry chapin and cat Steven's. I totally understand how off-topic it is, but thanks for your comment! I'm learning so much from these videos.❤
@jimday2332 жыл бұрын
Thanks Doc, great info, fantastic apologies.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@lbbork2 жыл бұрын
Harry Chapin did Cat's in the Cradle. And yes, I am unhappy. LOL
@jenniferyeager35962 жыл бұрын
You have helped me so much... it's unbelievable ❤️. Thank you so, so much!!!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad! Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@b.questor2 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much. Advice well taken at the right time...
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@azaleataylor80312 жыл бұрын
When the same situations occurs throughout my life no matter how much I personally grow. Always get the same results doesn't matter how hard I work, love, compromise with others, even try to empathize with others. I'm always alone. When I try finding out what happened. I'll get excuses like I was controlling eventhough I'd leave because he didn't love me. He would came back and would change eventhough I'd leave him alone. Yet it's my fault he couldn't love me. Also been accused of being addictive like a drug. That he couldn't let me go these are excuses that I'll hear from men. Somehow it's my fault I don't want to be played. I even had someone tell me he misses me after he tells me he loves someone else. I told him to let go of the past and let me go because he loves someone else. I don't understand what I'm doing wrong because these patterns follow me. In love and work doesn't matter how honest and open about my boundaries. No matter how much I try working with others they try to take advantage of me. Considering I'm 50 and still haven't found love, stability, or a career makes me wonder what I'm doing wrong. Considering I moved alot growing up and the patterns are with different people and places of employment. It can't be just them and when I can't find solutions to problems. I like getting different perspective to help find solutions.
@michaelhuneke69502 жыл бұрын
Think less about how you feel in the moment. It's only a moment. How many moments in a day let alone a lifetime. Have no great ideal expectations and remember any time you experience another human being you are in a relationship. Go easy on them a little kindness erases a lot of imperfection and judgements
@nunya88432 жыл бұрын
It's not a matter of them letting you go, it's you not letting them go. People are in our lives for only a season. We grow they grow and letting relationships evolve is loving them and yourself. I'm a widow, I don't want to be alone and if God has another life partner for me our paths will cross if not I'll still be ok alone. I trust God only he knows the future.
@azaleataylor80312 жыл бұрын
@@nunya8843 the point I was making was people pretend to be something their not. I wanted to be left alone told them I wanted to heal first because I want love not lust. Got out of a bad relationship and just wanted to be left alone. The men I met would convince me of something they weren't just to get close to me. Then when the relationship started getting serious they'd bail with their excuses. I'm curious what I'm doing to attract the wrong men. That's why I took myself off the market refuse to date anyone until my heart is completely healed.
@azaleataylor80312 жыл бұрын
I'm also a widow how long have you been a widow? I'm sure there's someone for you in the right time. Just takes time to heal. I'm learning to love myself before finding a partner. Perhaps this is a time for you to find out who you are and what you want from a partner. Also our loving creator will put people or events in your life to help you heal. Your right we never know what our holy father has planned for us just have to look for the love he'd want us to have and give others. Just have to look for the love.
@ifyourepeatalieoftenenough85002 жыл бұрын
Talking bad about others, lie, wanting others to fail, projecting ones anger upon a sündenbock, complain a lot, being envious, addiction, etc (which applies to ppl depends on their character)
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@toxicwrap15822 жыл бұрын
Thank you, watching this really helped me recognize things I need to work on.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful! Thanks for watching.
@toxicwrap15822 жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes You are very welcome, and you are very good at what you do. I have recommended you to others. Thank you for spending time and energy to help others like me.
@awesomeorrin Жыл бұрын
Great info
@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
Very nice video. Be aware of what you feed your mind and then there will be no unhappiness. To feel better reduce negative thoughts and overthinking. Avoid comparing with others, reduce negative social media and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed, avoid moving too much and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Never meditate with expectations but with awareness. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Observe your breath sensations before sleep, in college, at work, taking a walk, when reading, etc.etc. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@deshaank91612 жыл бұрын
You keep saying very very old song but i very distinctly remember the songs and other references……and now i’m an old person….but also it helps me relate. so thanks.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
lol. Thanks for watching!
@malkaz91672 жыл бұрын
What is one to do when a loved one loses her temper, throw things, slams doors and screams and yells? How do I handle that? There are never any apologies later
@kingsdaughter98492 жыл бұрын
Demonic possession
@mehdidaneshvari43152 жыл бұрын
These suggestions are beneficial ( hopefully ) if one is to strive to have a better place in relationship with the others. But I happened to be agreed with Jean Paul Sartre the French philosopher who said : “HELL IS WITH OTHER PEOPLE.” you really don’t need them , believe me.
@leahblue11902 жыл бұрын
Who do you deal with? I have had good, neutral, and not good-at-all contact with other people---and myself. There are many possible tricky things in life, and people can be one of them, I've found, but they can also be helpful, supportive, kind, interesting, and interested in us too, or neutral. It's worth checking who you are around all the time and seeing if you can do something to improve this situation or your own repeated thoughts that hurt you. At least IMHO. Good luck, it isn't always easy, I know.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@leewagner29452 жыл бұрын
@@leahblue1190 You have better advice than the counselor! She gives platitudes for answers a lot!
@KellyGM8813 Жыл бұрын
I'm so thankful for u ❤
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thank you! I am grateful to be of help and I appreciate you watching the video
@neshayrobinson Жыл бұрын
I think I'm involved with a few unhappy people. 🙁 family, friends, SO ... oh boy.
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
I am sorry about that and I appreciate you watching
@snezhanagrant45592 жыл бұрын
Bravissima.thank you so much
@eiizabethj.collier79252 жыл бұрын
Cats in the cradle is by Harry Chapin Not Cat Stevens
@Red231652 жыл бұрын
watch you everyday thanks
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
That is too much me! j/k 😁 Thanks for your viewership!
@MiguelRodriguez-ok9rb2 жыл бұрын
We all like to get rid of problems it doesn't what it is never it to come up again that how we like to feel about it we got rid of it
@nirmaladrieskens43382 жыл бұрын
Great video ❤️❤️❤️
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!
@PS-xb9hc2 жыл бұрын
Great tips!😃💖
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@allysonleavitt68582 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed your video very much, thank you. I just wanted to mention the song, Cat’s in the Cradle, was song and written by Harry Chapin not Cat Stevens.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@nettiea93842 жыл бұрын
I choose to isolate from family more often in order to avoid getting triggered. It’s my way of getting some Control of my peace happiness and love as u say. Yes it is lonely but it’s also empowering. I just need a new family I guess or group of friends…
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@loriellen27262 жыл бұрын
😍👏🏻👍🏻Thanks Doc ❣️
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
So welcome
@mobiledetail4you Жыл бұрын
On point
@DocSnipes Жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching the video. What did you find most helpful from it?
@babysab80132 жыл бұрын
Mulțumim!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Wow! Thanks so much for the tip. I think this is the largest single tip I have gotten on KZbin. You are very generous. 😃
@yourbore2 жыл бұрын
the cutest doctor ever
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Too kind. Thanks for watching.
@avicohen30352 жыл бұрын
Wonder how long a person can be unhappy before it becomes the only way to be. He might not even remember what it is like to be happy. You can't miss it, and you don't know you are unhappy, because it is the only way to be. So some very unhappy people, don't even recognize that they are unhappy. There is no frame of reference, a memory of being happy.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@brendawolf68962 жыл бұрын
Thanks!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks SO much for your support of the channel. I really appreciate it. 😇
@skionen17812 жыл бұрын
Excellent info, is that list cognitive distortions ?
@warrensebastian012 жыл бұрын
Hey doc, my name is Warren Sebastian from the Cooperative university of Kenya. So I have started a mental health awareness program and really need your help
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You are welcome to link to and share my videos. If you want to discuss anything else, email support@docsnipes.com
@queenr.4802 жыл бұрын
Needed this!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@reservist72 жыл бұрын
There are some many good points in this video. So many it's like right on the money for me. Is it possible to make specific video pertaining to each point? Maybe not all of them but I was curious what are some options to decide on those compartmentalized (bottled up) by the end of day. Meaning what can we do with them so they won't follow us the next day? Thanks much
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Great question. I can do a short video on that.
@bonniey72992 жыл бұрын
Can this video help people with severe TBI that no longer have tools for higher emotional reasoning...?
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
It depends on the person and what you mean by higher emotional reasoning
@hislamb45282 жыл бұрын
Listening to you is a happy experience!😃 you say your teachings well. I have a reputation for being joyful yet I can fight depression too. I’m known for being able to thrive in bad times. Listening to you gave me reasons why I have thrived. I give God the credit because He is my Joy but you also gave me tips on how not to be unhappy and it made me realize...wow! I’ve been doing those tips all along not knowing that I was! Now because of your explaining things very well I’ll be able to better explain to others what I’ve been doing right more specifically. Hopefully I made some sense. Moral to the story: Thanks for your great video and your wonderful way of explaining things!❤️🐑
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Too kind! Thanks for watching. 😃
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
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@WackadoodleMalarkey2 жыл бұрын
Happy happy joy joy 💯
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@thisisme32382 жыл бұрын
Like your style Doc! I subscribed too 👍
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Awesome, thank you!
@thisisme32382 жыл бұрын
@@DocSnipes yw
@danielraypickrel43162 жыл бұрын
This morning wrote it is possible you would not expect a person with a broken foot to pursue a career in carrying bricks.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@catherineto2 жыл бұрын
If we are born with this defence mechanism to feel angry to survive, why do we change it ?
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@laurenbatson59182 жыл бұрын
Why change it? There are things that we should be angry about. We should change if we are feeling angry when it isn't warranted. Or worse, taking unwarranted anger out on a person that did not actually cause your anger.
@ambrosehunter51642 жыл бұрын
I see London. I see France. I see Doc Snipes...
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@mccorklehometeam2 жыл бұрын
Great video!
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching.
@kimberlymccracken7472 жыл бұрын
This is excellent 👌
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
I'm glad you like it. Thanks for watching.
@strether522 жыл бұрын
Dr Snipes, fess up: you're really Kristen Wiig, aren't you? Kidding aside, this video is both charming and instructive. I learned a lot about myself from it. I've now subscribed to your channel, and I look forward to watching a lot more of your work.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Wow, thank you! Thanks for watching and subscribing.
@leewagner29452 жыл бұрын
@strether52 She is much prettier than Kristen Wiig!
@LoveLife-gv8jg2 жыл бұрын
Hello!! What kind of counseling do you provide? My son over analyzes and it had caused him to lock up in fear or trying. I have taken him to counselors that seem to fall short. Some of their responses are "he will grow out of it" " its just teenage stuff" No, it's not. He blows up in the face of criticism...especially from men. He gets along very well with women. His father is around but not enough. What "type" of counselor can help?
@mrs.joeschmoe56812 жыл бұрын
Hello Mrs. Snipes. If I have concerns about my mental health and want to inform my doctor where do I start? What types of lab reports should I request? Would a certain test provide a diagnosis? Would I need several tests? Thank you kindly.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Just write down all your symptoms and concerns ahead of time. Go over them with your Doctor. Possibly, even give your notes to your Doctor's receptionist when you check in....so your Doctor can read over them before he/she come in to see you. It is your Doctor's job to know the tests that are needed.
@SrinivasArnepalli2 жыл бұрын
Great video! I struggle with self care and good nutrition, any tips on how I can work on these?
@noahjames36122 жыл бұрын
There is some sites online for meal plans.Patrick Holford is good ,he distills alot of info ,into relatively easy to understand books.He started as a psychiatrist and became fed up with the drug/machine view bias so looked into how to optimize nutrition instead.Hope that helps bud.🙂
@marthawatkins71842 жыл бұрын
Hi. I know you weren't asking me, but I am really huge on self care...I don't know at what stage of life you are, but try spending a Friday night at home, eating your favorite healthy foods, drinking your favorite drinks, taking a bath/working out/doing yoga, or binge watching your favorite TV show, with candles lit for ambiance, whatever makes you feel good...and make it a tradition with yourself to celebrate it being Friday. It will become a comfort to you....then when you're feeling sad or upset, you can do the same routine and it will help you feel better. :) I do this and it's my favorite time spent, with myself just doing whatever I feel like doing whenever I feel like doing it! Some would say it seems like wasted time, but trust me it is the most valuable!
@shyaaammeneen632 жыл бұрын
Srinivas, In life there are only 2 problems--mind and the body. Be aware of what you feed your mind. Reduce negative thoughts and overthinking. Avoid comparing with others, reduce negative social media, daily morning sunlight walks and avoid constipation as it affects the mind instantly. Your breathing is closely related to the brain [mind] and gives relief from stress-anxiety. To relax sit on a chair or lie down, neck straight, eyes closed, avoid moving too much and observe the sensations of your incoming--outgoing breath at the entrance of the nostrils for 5-10-15 minutes or more. Never meditate with expectations but with awareness. You may reach a state of equanmity. Don’t fight your thoughts. With daily practice the mind will relax. No deep breathing needed. Observe your breath sensations before sleep, in college, at work, taking a walk, when reading, etc.etc. Like me, make this a lifetime daily habit to have a better life. Best wishes--Counsellor.
@chicagolandable2 жыл бұрын
Goodbye motivation hobbies interests passions goals future this that and whatever the #@$& else...so long as anxiety exists this list of this cannot exist
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@valenciawalker64982 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome! Thanks for watching.
@goodenoughgirl81022 жыл бұрын
Anger is not so bad for me. Once I “vent” I’m ok. Lol. I will very often vent rather quickly and get over it rather quickly. Most of the time tho, it’s def with good reason. Anger is like a good friend to me that lets me know when I should not just sit there and take any bs from someone or when I should step back and take “me time” or get some rest or say no to this or that “obligation.” Etc. And yah. I usually wind up venting in a support group or to a friend or just me alone. I try to get it out without harming anyone else, tho I have no problem with smarting off to some jerk who earned it tho. Lol. If someone obviously doesn’t care how I feel then why should I care if I offend them with giving them a good return on their “investment?” Besides, the way I see it is that it’s just their natural consequences anyways. If you wring a nose, it will most surely bleed.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@hope40942 жыл бұрын
Thank you
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You're welcome. Thanks for watching.
@carliebeau53292 жыл бұрын
I follow God. BE ANGERY but sin not. To many people ignore or stew for to long. If you can't solve your issuse. Let them go.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
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@grettalemabouchou67792 жыл бұрын
Madame....We have a neighbor who is unwell. She thinks I want her husband. So we built a wall.....today she flipped me the bird. I didn't respond....but advice?? Her man used to come over drunk and tell us how bad she is. Since the wall...nothing but she throws trash over the wall and seems to think this is normal behavior. The police cannot really do anything for this situation. We are praying for her though.
@user-xk4wj6ge5b2 жыл бұрын
I suffer fom OCD. i steal and buy items of interest. It's annoying bc I cannot get a handle on this.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching. Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
You may want to explore this with a professional counselor. You can find other therapists via Psychology Today search: allceus.com/Psychology_Today_Therapist_Search Wishing you peace, health, and happiness.
@dannypalmer77012 жыл бұрын
Listen to yourself and understand what your sayingm
@DocSnipes2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting.
@jackromolor96342 жыл бұрын
Thank you please skip the feed the donkey, you funny Doctor. Terrific.