15 TYPES OF MEN TO AVOID!

[@cje7473]

1. Go with the flow 2. Mr emotionally unavailable (breadcrumbs you/ acts like he don’t need you) 3. Excessive baggage (issues with mum or women baby mama drama) 4. Mr inconsistent (on and off behaviour) 5. Mr unreliable (false promises, flaky) 6. Mr come on to strong (tells you he loves you in a week) 7. Mr flashy flashy 8. Mr passive (makes u more masculine.. don’t trust him to do what needs to be done) 9. Mr bitter (just ask him for his last relationship .. see if he takes accountability) 10. Mr separated/ mr I’m getting a divorce 11. Mr avoidant (diverts questions and keeps things aboveboard- doesn’t get deep) 12. Mr emotional (always crying .. no balance.. or stonewalling, anger, always negative.. doesn’t communicate 13. Mr my way or the highway (wants you to give away your life for him) secretly chauvinistic 14. Mr Unsure (in relationships past 3 years and doesn’t know if he’s going to propose or marry)

[@franciscansama3695]

Thankyou for writing this💀💀

[@geneviveross4234]

Thanks for this summary..❤️

[@geneviveross4234]

15; Mr. Insecure ( you can’t do this, you can’t talk to this person, you can’t wear that..etc)

[@joemtari]

Thanks! trying to avoid these women too

[@merouria6524]

2. Mr emotionally unavailable is a playa.

[@JIJII420]

" Never want to be with a man, more than you want to be by yourself " Breeny Lee

[@candacecasey5634]

I have always been far more afraid of losing myself to gain a man than I ever have of being alone.

[@alexb.california3933]

Some men are saying the same thing it’s crazy in a way. If someone can’t be by themselves, those men and woman hop on relationships ignoring red flags real quick😂

[@nataliemarie4325]

“Some people are so broke all they have is money” TRUUEEE

[@basicinfo2022]

If they’re generous with it, that’s a Good man

[@jackiek4159]

Amen to that girl! 👌🏻

[@XIX965]

Isn't that all women want? I mean yall won't date a broke nigga That's the reason men get money tbh They see women like money so we get money If yall didn't like money we wouldn't get money

[@beauwilliamson4336]

@@XIX965 hehe

[@melaniebrown1443]

@@XIX965 we do want a man that's financially well off, yes. But I'd take a broke dude with great character over a rich guy that's abusive and treats me like shit. You can always build with a dude that's broke. You CAN NOT build a man to have good character. Generally, women do want men that's financially well off, but that's not the ONLY thing we look for. You know how they make Jordans for cheap, for like $8, but they're sold for like $200-$300? People spend way too much money on these things but don't get a lot from them. A lot of these guys are like that, they may have a high market value, their bank account may be looking nice, but they have $8 worth of dependability, $8 worth of leadership, $8 worth of compassion, etc. Women want a dude with substance as well.

[@evdi553]

Once you stay rational in the beginning and pay attention to red flags before investing feelings in someone, you will no longer get heartbroken. Suffering ends when you‘ve learned to know your worth and set your inner principles.

[@user-gx5hf2fn9j]

This !!!!!!

[@fisf.2148]

200% You have to be deaf and completely detached in the beginning. I am now the slaughterer when i used to be the lamb waiting and smiling for slaughtering. It is all a game, I play to win and I will WIN.

[@evdi553]

@@fisf.2148 exactly. But sadly we have to act this way since there are many people looking out to use someone.

[@fisf.2148]

@@evdi553 I think too many steps ahead now to fall for shit anymore. I am the type of person that scams the scammer lol.

[@evdi553]

@@fisf.2148 hahah same

[@mauwsehayibor1944]

"And listen ladies, never want to be with a man more than you want to be with yourself. You put yourself in a vulnerable position "....Madam Breeny.....the Holy spirit spoke through you to give this message.

[@BreenyLee]

🙏🏾♥️

[@bernardtaylor1281]

😂

[@metsepoopedi4327]

Are you Christian?

[@mauwsehayibor1944]

@@metsepoopedi4327 yes please

[@ikedysonlive7511]

"And listen ladies, never want to be with a man more than you want to be with yourself. You put yourself in a vulnerable position " Yeah, right. Tell that to the woman who wants to move into my house because she needs a new place to stay. LOL.

[@21andstuff60]

5:45 "a woman is never crazy for no reason" - thank you!!!!!

[@clvn9ja]

This saying makes it look like there are no crazy women. There are crazy women out there just as there are men. The main thing to look out for is seeing if the person talking about their ex takes accountability of their own actions in the previous relationship which was also mentioned in the video.

[@21andstuff60]

@@clvn9ja True to an extent, unless when the person is a master manipulator. When the person sounds like s/he is taking accountability in their relationship, it could just mean it "sounds like" it. There is nothing to help identify someone who intentionally plays a role to deceive you. So you can only know it by going through it. Just think about it, let's say the person has broken someone's arm out of the lack of impulse control, and now this person is paying for the medical fee for that broken arm of that person and the loss this person suffers in his/her life - does it make that person who is paying for the fee accountable?? NO. That is simply called damage control. It doesn't make anything okay. Don't trust a word anyone says. This saying is necessary for the women who are intentionally driven "crazy" or scapegoated by others whom were originally not crazy. Real crazy people are so irresponsible that they have a way of talking themselves out of taking responsibility for their own actions making themselves like the hero at the same time even when all they do is just making sure what they say helps them not take responsibility for the damages they have done to the people in their previous relationships. That's their damage control. They have made a hell of someone's life and all they care is how to minimise the consequences it has on "them". Everything they say is to make sure nothing gets to them as much as possible. And the ones that look crazy are actually the ones who have been accountable, but when they start talking about their experience, it sounds like they are blaming because they cared so much about someone who abused them and just used them until they moved on to someone else and left the abused stranded and alone. I really needed this saying at that point of complete weakness, it was like everything when nothing you explained to others made sense to anyone. But yes, there is no gender in this, it is about the type of the person, and the type is what one has to look out for. It's very hard because their motives are normally hidden, so there is no way to know whether it exists unless you've been shown, or that you have developed a bullshit detector within you due to your experiences earned by going through this nightmares many many times. So, to me, it's better just to take good care of oneself, make contributions to the unfortunate in the society (like animals in need), and not bother about any "relationship", then it's good. The agonies are just not worth it. Thank you for your comment, hope you are well and take good care of yourself, and focus on making a difference in life. Other things that is not within your control are just not worth it. I think if a relationship worked with someone, it comes with the right conditions. It is not an exchange. Don't get manipulated into spending your money, energy, and health on anyone else who is using you as an enabler, just remember that!! I made that mistake thinking it was how you love and care in a relationship, only to realise it was just me being an easy target. And since this is now forbidden in my mind, there is no relationship in my life. I am doing Ross Rosenberg's self love recovery (I basically just watched his 10stage video), and am on it for about 6 months. And he's right, you will lose at least 75% of relationships. For me, it was like, 100%?? Lol sosad. Anyways. But i am now enjoying the nostalgia of my old life before i got manipulated into all the mess. This freedom feels like your life is wasted on nothing for years when you choose to be yourself again, that's why it is so hard to learn to love yourself again because you have to face the reality of all the hard work going into disappearance. it feels like going back to square one. But then again, I'd rather be in square one than to spend one more moment on people who only want to use me. I am now falling in love with typing, it is so much more constant than human beings. It actually helps me focus on my own control.

[@donhouston916]

and does that justify craziness?. I could say the same about men, like Hitler

[@21andstuff60]

@@donhouston916 ummmm, reactive abuse is a reality. When being scapegoated, the victims are driven crazy. So, if you're purposely being driven crazy by abuse, would you be asking this same question? If you would ask this question, what'd your answer be?? Like, if you got slapped over and over, you screamed for the abuse to stop, and it wouldn't stop - is that crazy to be screaming for it to stop to begin with? If the answer is "no it's not crazy to scream", then your question of whether it's justified or not will dissipate, because crazy is no longer the premise... This is very complex and depends on the context. i think the focus should be redirected back on who is the abuser to begin with. And end it from there. No abuse should ever take place to begin with, it's sick.

[@123lxxx6]

A man is never crazy for no reason🤷‍♂️

[@vaniillary]

I've dated so many guys who praise their exes as a way of trying to make me jealous. And they also talk about how they've dated SO MANY women and it just didn't work out, and it makes me feel less than. So I'm learning that intention when bringing this topic up matters.

[@theunicornsin1144]

Girl it’s time to take a dating break

[@marleyhill34]

Trying to make you jealous and lower your self esteem. Nah boy bye! Middle finger up. Huge red flag.

[@shanadams8870]

Guys like to compare us

[@marleyhill34]

@@shanadams8870 they can compare how we dump their asses. lol!

[@shanadams8870]

@@marleyhill34 ahahh

[@Tam974eva]

"Mr go with the flow." They can act like they want to get to know you and start off as friends but will keep u in the friends zone for ages until they've had what they wanted, emotionally and/or physically, and WASTE your time! They come off like great people but they aint. lol.

[@jalisadavis4390]

Yes they really do come off as nice😭!!! Once they get what they want they switch up and leave

[@nwinyinyachidimma7269]

I flip the switch. I’m usually the one who wants to go with the flow, it makes guys want to commit. Like she said, being unavailable makes the other person put in extra effort. 😶

[@shalalala868]

Yup! This is one of the biggest red flags when I ask a guy what he's looking for. If he doesn't say someone to settle down with, I peace out. "See how it goes, take it a day at a time, etc." shows his intentions are most likely nefarious and he'll have you in the gray zone forever.

[@ayeisha9428]

Mr.Insecure will have you looking at yourself different

[@sosmybeautea]

4 realllll

[@aleaelizabeth2208]

Factssas

[@CeeceeH1819]

Fo real

[@BreaLinn]

Girl..... 💯💯

[@abdulc5726]

Insecure men are usually dressed up as the most confident ... are they heck.

[@slasher_thehashslinging]

A lot of people and myself sincerely appreciate this video. Relationships are difficult but all the signs are shown in the first month of a relationship, if you’re pay attention to what is beneficial for you.

[@BreenyLee]

Absolutely ♥️

[@alexb.california3933]

The red flags you ignore are most likely the same reason when a relationship ends. It’s better to make a friendship first for a foundation knowing you like the pros and cons.

[@justkimmying]

When people say why am 32 and still single it’s because QUALITY is just rare to find. A great majority of men in the dating pool are sadly like this. I really feel frustrated but just praying & asking God for guidance if it’s my luck to get married.

[@mayasheartdesiire]

Same 🙏🏾

[@theunicornsin1144]

I like your vision

[@marleyhill34]

I've given up and looking into IVF, fostering and adoption.

[@Reevay762]

Same here. I'm 32 on Valentine's and feel u good I let go of Mr. Unsure. Wasted time in my life.

[@AudAkos]

Where are all the good guys? They're hiding away 🤔

[@satine2342]

I realized a lot of this can also be applied to friendships, whether they are male or female! I’ve had toxic friends and they had many of the qualities you mentioned.

[@demetreana3397]

I agree

[@ruthnoruwa]

Samee

[@amazinggrace313]

Very true

[@annapuczyowska8772]

Same for me, can apply most of dating advice to general relationships and life 🤗

[@Amber_Liedel]

What to look for in a man? A man who initiates is Supportive ,a Gentleman, Cares about women, children, animals, Consistent Communication, involved. Someone who you trust, Is honest, loves God Loves you

[@marleyhill34]

A miracle. Lol!

[@daytodaygimp8377]

@@marleyhill34 Yep and when they see him, they try to destroy him.

[@markwhittaker6866]

But if a man is all those things, will he get that back in return?

[@marleyhill34]

@@markwhittaker6866 Hopefully a woman with the same characteristics will. However, everyone should seek to have these characteristics without thinking about what they will be "getting" back in return. Remember Jesus gave without expecting back in return.

[@lololo1670]

I went on a date with a serial rude and self absorbed prick, I mentioned something about dogs and he told me he wasn’t interested in this conversation and that dogs are stupid. I was like I’m tired, I’m going home 😐👊🏼

[@pamelanicoletv]

I just avoid MEN

[@BreenyLee]

hahaha

[@sw-hg8eq]

Best decision. I decided to heal myself and work on myself and I need lots of time for these. Every night, I tell myself how much I love myself. I hug myself and fall asleep ❤

[@charlineorozco]

Same sis 😂😂❤️

[@pamelanicoletv]

@@BreenyLee awe haha u replied love u Babe ☺️!!!

[@pamelanicoletv]

@@sw-hg8eq yessssssss!!!!!! So important!!!!! happy you did that ✨

[@ak-47intelligence75]

I used to be a magnet to almost ALL these types of men. It's been a few months now, I've stopped attracting these types. It's cause I have stopped being too accommodating and nice.

[@oompalompai2]

That's exactly what happened with myself as well. I started being myself holistically with some non-negotiable boundaries, applied pressure, and accepted rejection. My life has changed positively. The men who exhibited any of these 15 traits, walked out on their own.

[@sw-hg8eq]

These types of men are like 90% of men 😆

[@mayasheartdesiire]

This is the one right here! Lol 😆

[@nicksmith-cx1fx]

No it's not. If this is your reality it's going to become a self fulfilling prophecy. Have the mindset there is a abundance of high quality men and they all want me :)

[@mayasheartdesiire]

@@nicksmith-cx1fx honestly it’s not a lot when it’s not easy finding the right one but I get what you saying. Ofcourse should always think positive. Manifest. I thought she was being comical when she said 90%

[@najmaabdulahi7545]

No i dont think sooo.A lot off men are also good.

[@marleyhill34]

I was thinking only 15 types. Lol!

[@PelumiB]

mr inconsistent just wants to have access to you and keep you there

[@Ohemaamary]

You are not a mans therapist. Amen to that. I needed to hear this. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@moneygirlsandclothes]

Mary Adjei Mensah thats why both ya’ll single now lol

[@moneygirlsandclothes]

In my opinion a smart man wouldn’t get married its too risky now. The dis benefits outweigh the benefits

[@Ohemaamary]

@@moneygirlsandclothes that’s your opinion not facts so thank you good bye

[@XIX965]

@@Ohemaamary its not a opinion It's a bad investment You lose more then you gain

[@Ohemaamary]

@@XIX965 and again thank you for the advice but I’m good thank you

[@khadijaali9045]

Listening to this list I honestly feel like my ex had all 15 characteristics to avoid. He was a true narcissist. You can't save someone who didn't want to be saved, I pray I never meet someone that damage again.🙏🏽

[@demetreana3397]

I pray I never get into a relationship like that again. My experience with narcissist run deep. My mom, an ex friend and my recent ex. He was the worst!! I wouldn't wish a narcissist on anyone.

[@khadijaali9045]

@@demetreana3397 totally agree they are dangerous people.

[@dhaybarr]

That was me a week ago, it was rough. We are amazing valued ladies who deserve & will have more. Stay strong

[@khadijaali9045]

@@dhaybarr Your absolutely right sis, we do deserve better, time heals everything.🙏🏽

[@teemeey]

Same same. I pray I never meet such a terrible person again

[@tayasell]

I think every men is flawed in one of these ways as are women find somebody who you can work with and can work with you. Love yourself enough to know who is and isn't for you and self reflection is important as well.

[@TajLuvsJB]

Agreed!

[@LuvKitKatt]

@@TajLuvsJB you’re beautiful 🤎

[@TajLuvsJB]

@@LuvKitKatt thank you baby 💕

[@FuckFeminists]

Thank you, UB. Youre one of the only people on this video page who isnt talking like a 3 year-old chauvenistic megalomaniac.

[@Tasha90802]

I need to continue focus on god at this point

[@BreenyLee]

I know that's riiggght x

[@salsasoul4112]

GIRL!!!! SAY THAT 💯

[@lexielovingu206]

yesss as we should !!!

[@user-gx5hf2fn9j]

Best decision I ever made

[@Vera-dg3hf]

You can date and still focus on with God. Dating doesn’t equal sex or relationships

[@AudAkos]

I was treated like this before and I'm still hurt today. One day there will be a time where a wonderful man will come and treat me like a respectful queen.

[@natramires]

So accurate! There is “Mr. Combo” that comes with many of these types in one so run faster as you can!

[@gloriamudany4419]

2nd person she described is the guy I've had a crush on for the past 3 years. I've been on a tailspin for THE longest time. And now the 4th year being 2021, I've decided I can do better for myself. And that I DESERVE better for myself. Coz that merry-go-round shit is not for me.

[@walkthemoon6533]

At this point I just want to be alone until the guy I'm manifesting comes along, I really won't give anyone else much attention

[@cookwithdeedee_]

AMEN sister.

[@LibraQueen03]

Same 👏

[@kenishiagreen]

This!

[@sbqntlyawake3813]

If you believe in God you shouldn't manifest. It's a new age bullshit. And the guy that God intented for you supposedly isn't the one that you imagine. New age crap is stopping you from a real soul that is about be with you. Just think about it. Have trust in God.

[@ikedysonlive7511]

They have male blow-up dolls these days.

[@DeathAngleZoe]

23 years old here and have never even kissed a guy. Life is starting to feel so empty and hollow. I feel so inexperienced and don't even know how to behave around men, let alone be intimate with them and try to share my life with them. Yet, I want and long for love and physical touch so badly. 😣

[@theunicornsin1144]

23? Hm... why did you do that to yourself?

[@DeathAngleZoe]

@@theunicornsin1144 Guys don't talk to me. Lol. And if they do, I get horribly uncomfortable. I only went out with one guy my whole life and he was awful to me

[@marleyhill34]

@@DeathAngleZoe go to speed dating so you can learn. It's fun and there is less pressure.

[@DeathAngleZoe]

@@marleyhill34 Never. Lol. That stuff irritates me so much. I would never online date anyone either. This is why I'm single, lol 😂

[@shanadams8870]

You might like to watch Lani good video, on how she lost he v card, she has some advice

[@lejlacatic7367]

My boyfriend was at least two of the 15 but he's getting through a very low point in his life so i am getting through it with him. Depression is a real illness.Stay safe everyone 🤗 love your comments section breeny ❤️

[@lejlacatic7367]

@Shawny Love yeah I feel your pain, on the flip side I am getting things done,i got promoted at work twice while he lost two jobs..I hope the relationship works out for you and me too ,and if not I hope you have the strength to start all over again 🥰🔥

[@chrismonty5339]

Off topic but the way you said luxury 🤌🏼 chefs kiss 🥰

[@brittanybrisbon3095]

My brother's words still ring in my ear. As I was in search of a man to whom I'd just gave my time & attention, 22-year-old Gabriel Brisbon turned to me in his car and said, "Brittany...you need to be careful in the kind of men you choose." Well, that statement didn't hit me until my brother was no longer here on earth. Several days prior he had gone missing for almost a week, My family and I desperately searched for my little brother day and night. It wasn't until our second search, we found what we were looking for. Here I am, standing on the other side of the road, looking across to some abandoned trailers where all I could see was yellow tape. Was he alive? Standing there pregnant, full of excitement, I had yet to await some terrible news. It was there, where my little brother lied dead, face down on the ground covered up in leaves/dirt with toxic chemicals poured all over his body. He had been shot a total of 7 times, 5 times in the head and 2 times in the body. Who would have known 2021 would bring such a tragedy. 3 people involved in the murder of 22-year-old Gabriel Brisbon. One of which was our childhood friend.How heartbreaking... Meanwhile, the guy who I am now pregnant by, made it seemed like he cared in the beginning. Eventually, I found out he was laying up with another woman the day I found my brother dead. The fact that I remembered those words, tells me that my brother wanted soo much more for me. He saw my struggle in choosing all the wrong men. Now that I know it was really his desire to see me with the Man of God who would treat me the way I deserve, it makes me want to stop settling for less. My brother saw how much I was worth when I was too blind to see it myself. I will never forget his last words to me. He will forever be in my heart.

[@MegaDiva1999]

that is so poignant and emotional. So sorry for your loss.How are you ,baby and your family now doing? You deserve so much good, kindness, peace, joy and to be loved unconditionally .

[@lifewithktr]

This is very accurate and I been listening to BREENY AND lord knows my life has been curbing every guy that comes my way. It’s crazy how all of these men are the types to make us believe their bull.

[@slaughtah2o342]

So all you do is curve dudes? Is that helping your love life?

[@oceans5253]

I have a question.. what do you do that makes you so great

[@NYCBJP]

@@oceans5253 mgtow alert mgtow alert!!! We have a bitter woman hater here

[@NYCBJP]

@@slaughtah2o342 yes it keeps her safe from the majority of men who do not have good intentions

[@slaughtah2o342]

@@NYCBJP one type of guy she says to avoid is one that lacks emotion. Later in this same video she says avoid the guy that is too emotional 🤦🏾‍♂️. As humans we ALL are both of these types at different times. She lost 12 reasons to just down dudes. Maybe 3 or 4 but 12?! Sounds like she’s tryna keep you single so you stay subscribed 😂😂😂

[@Jes8gy]

“The one that’s all of it at once”

[@Vera-dg3hf]

❌❌❌🚷🚷🚷🆘🆘🆘 EXACTLY and let me tell you THEY DO EXIST

[@elisuemiya2060]

Same😭

[@Eevanova]

Narsisstic disorder?

[@demetreana3397]

@@Eevanova Yes! I was thinking the same thing

[@liliosaverdeflor2954]

Probably the reason why I’m 28 yrs old and still single for 28 yrs / never been in a relationship. I’m always in an “almost in a relationship “ part because they become one of this 15 types⬆️ then I realized finding a quality man is like finding a dinosaur 🦖 🦕

[@khanyisamhlawuli5676]

I like that you have standards. Keep it up sis because the man for you will come

[@liliosaverdeflor2954]

Khanyisa Mhlawuli you are so sweet thank you dear😘♥️

[@nancyfancy1956]

🤣🤣🤣 The last bit tho

[@stabiledube9634]

I'm a Girl in my early 20s & l love your channel a lot So glad l found it cause l really learn a lot from your channel...which is essentially the point 😘

[@certifiedg7927]

You should be extremely focus on yourself. The average 26 yr old person hasn't really achieved much with their lives ... But most are willing to put tons of energy in to a r/ship and not in themselves

[@janasoleil4846]

I needed this so bad 🔥🔥🔥

[@iluvbeauty9676]

I feel like all 15 things describes a narc

[@valadilajla]

Just break up with narc, so glad that's the end 🙏🙏

[@iluvbeauty9676]

@@valadilajla good now your free and can be at peace 💕

[@Eevanova]

Yes. Most traumatized men.

[@demetreana3397]

@Jeremy S I just left my ex who is a narcissist and he has full custody of his 4 daughters. I feel so bad for them

[@way2girly]

A narc 😂

[@Killerkeller-r6j]

As a man I was the “Let’s see how things go!” And guess what me and my girlfriend are together for 3 years. I learned to be better for her. It’s ok to be that as long as your moving things forward.

[@PelumiB]

mr come on too strong is strange/scary tbh, what do you mean you love me after a week? What if I’m a witch

[@buns8612]

😭😭😭😭😭rightttt!!

[@lapx1]

He already knows that you are.

[@tahkeem_tha_dream3585]

He's just trying to let you know he's committed. Damn

[@ChideraaMary]

My goodness😂😂😂

[@Levedenn7730]

She just described all the men on earth...I'm screwed 😭😂😂😂

[@marleyhill34]

Lol! All the men over 35 at least.

[@Tammy-SophisticatedGlamGurls]

lol ahahhah I agree lol

[@iamchristineverified1293]

There must be a corner on earth we haven’t looked yet 😭

[@JoE-wd8qh]

@@iamchristineverified1293 lmaoooo

[@Infintekweyol]

I'M SCREAMINGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGG 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣

[@kaylawilliams90]

Definitely need to avoid the J’s

[@stephanieena8391]

Agreeing from experience 😭

[@saywhatondat]

Girl!

[@marleyhill34]

Lol!

[@frimunya]

Who are J’s?

[@kbr7625]

Fr

[@roxanniemiller1725]

17 and learning so when the time comes I am prepared to not be fooled by the devil .thank you bre

[@yu4070]

I'm a gay male, I watch your video because I think I bring the "feminine energy" in the relationship (not visually and stuff just energy-wise)and what you said at the end is so true that real men are visionaries - I notice that about myself that actually on the first date, I know if the other person is worth building together

[@blossombless401]

Breeny choose violence and I’m here for it🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@sorrynotsorry6373]

Me and this guy been texting for almost a month (not constantly tho). I'm usually the one who texts first but he always replies quickly and he seemed engaged in the conversation. yesterday I talked to him and asked him to be honest and tell me how he feels about me. He panicked, he thought I was asking him to marry me or something, I had to break it down to him and explain that I all I wanted to know was if he was interested or not so if he wanted to keep talking to me. He said "I don't know...it just seems like it's useless as if it ain't going nowhere" I go "so it's no" he goes "yeah". I'm done with him but the fact that he got so scared when I mentioned something that reminded him of...what commitment really is (tho that wasn't my question)...I'm glad I asked him tho cuz at least I wont bother texting someone who sees me an option anymore

[@X.Sheislia]

So like.. avoid men period? Thanks sis 🤣

[@bosshoggoutlaw1000]

As a man, If I'm honest I'm number 2. Me being so closed up is the reason I'm single today. Its ruined at least two of my relationships. Its hard to put a finger on why I am so emotionally unavailable. This video helped me recognise it. Thanks sis.

[@StoicBehavioR]

Women don't want honesty. They want to be told what they wanna hear, that why Steve Harvey and Derrick Jaxxn make a living out of. Kevin Samuels gives them the blunt and honest truth and they hate him.

[@melissamillion6869]

the second one hit hard...it took me 3 years to leave Mr Emotionally Unavailable and I know most of us can relate.

[@marisahicken]

You are literally human sunshine ☀️ I just adore you

[@Katrica670]

@Marisa I totally agree! ☺️☺️❤️❤️

[@BreenyLee]

💋💋💋

[@lyssimull923]

Anyone know where to find or attract a simple traditional masculine man with an amazing heart and strong values, cuz I’m at a loss🤷🏽‍♀️

[@natasha2877]

@Lyssi Mull... When you find out please share the memo.

[@Candaicelovesjesus]

@@natasha2877 😳😂😅🤭

[@leocast2977]

Their souls been crushed by women and they joined MGTOW or AMS etc.

[@goldeneagle5999]

Traditional men marry virgins only

[@postagirl26]

If you're looking for a "high value man", then you will have to sift through most of every trait on the list. I'm fine with my average earning man, with a humble heart of gold. And treats me like a queen.

[@nataliemarie4325]

The fact that there are FIFTEEN men on this list cracks me up

[@FuckFeminists]

Clearly she wanted to cover everything, so she can destroy as many potential relationships as possible.

[@FaithUkwuomah]

The abusive ones and unsincere ones are among the worst

[@sisifina0923]

What about Mr it was never my fault " no to be like I am idolizing myself, but girls left me and did bad stuff to me"

[@magnolia2]

She spoke about him in the part where she said ask him about his ex’s and listen to his responses.

[@theunicornsin1144]

You should tell that guy that treating your new girlfriend the way his exes treated him is swooping down to their level and he’s just as bad as they are.

[@toriyt2714]

Sounds terrible

[@FuckFeminists]

Isnt that exactly what 99.9% of the women in the comments are doing?!

[@rodneytruitt9566]

Breeny Lee I think you're doing a great job on your channel with the issuance of your opinions. Just as women aren't "..crazy for no reason.." men aren't inconsistent/unreliable/unsure/flashy/passive/bitter and thereby controlling/ of low self-esteem with unresolved issues and thereby emotionally unavailable..for 'no reason' either. Your point is valid. We are not one another's therapist. However the advice you render without prejudice is the outgrowth of a need to self-preserve all while disparaging the man for exhibiting behaviors which are themselves extensions of the same need (elusive/unsure/inconsistent/low esteem). If you're presenting anyone (especially a man) with a 'time-stamp' ultimatum, you are in effect disavowing his right to need and take the same time to contend with himself as women often request for themselves and by so doing, you shame him for it ("...a REAL man would...") Why is he no longer a 'real man' or someone to 'avoid' when he expresses these same 'real emotions' that women do? He doesn't share these things with you not because he's incapable of communicating, but most likely because he knows you'll have 'that' covertly visceral reaction. I think the conversation you engage is needed. I pray we could engage more respectfully with one another.

[@OriginalCuukee]

Happy Valentine's day in advance my ladies.❤️

[@morenitaaa7575]

you should make a "questions to ask a guy on a date" video !!

[@Isabel-zq3vn]

Just went through a breakup 😫 soo confused and hurt because I broke it off but these videos help

[@theunicornsin1144]

After some time you will know why you broke it off. And after that, you’ll feel relieved and happy. I promise you. Just don’t go back to them or else you’ll never get to that point.

[@jazzymei]

Stay strong girl! It’s hard but you’re gonna get through it & receive clarification over time.

[@dannyt4027]

I know this will sound strange, and I hope you will get better as soon as take a good sleep, but breaking up is such a powrful and wonderful thing. Being strong and wise enough to let go of something or someone that doesn't make you feel happy or loved is a blessing! Don't cry over it. Be joyful thag you've made some space for yourself. The sooner we get out of relationships with the wrong guys, the sooner we will meet the right ones. Be proud of yourself and ask God for a relief. These two things always helped me. Idk if it would work for you, but you can still try. Sending you lots of hugs! 😘

[@shanxx3868]

Sometimes u have to end the relationship no matter how much u loved the other person, you always have to choose yourself first.

[@po3ticjustic32]

Ugh same

[@forevercrazy100]

I was expecting the infamous Mr. Struggle to be on the list haha

[@BreenyLee]

They are all Mr Struggle 😂

[@Reevay762]

I'm having the best valentine's day ever. Since it's my birthday and I'm single hahahahhaha yay. I said bye bye to Mr. Unsure (whose also is too attached to his mum toooooo much) Too much uncertainty and drama.

[@BreenyLee]

Happy birthday for tomorrow boo 💋

[@Val-on2bg]

@@BreenyLee 😭can you do a you tube channel for types of men to keep? 😂

[@jenni230]

The zooming-in when you say devil I‘m dead 🤣

[@iluvbeauty9676]

I have so much respect for you darling 🙌

[@BreenyLee]

Thank you dear xx

[@nahsei__]

A guy here and I thought I’d ask a question. So, I was dating this girl and everything seemed to be going well. We really liked each other. The connection was there and everything BUT she realised I had trust issues. She mentioned it to me and she gave me a few days to acknowledge it, and I did. I went back to her and told her that I was willing to work on it and make everything work between us. She gave me the thumbs up and we continued dating. Some few days before our 4th date (which I was planning to make her my gf), she comes to me saying she can’t see going further, and that, the trust issues is really bothering her. So my question is; was my trust issues really the problem? As I told her I was willing to work on it, which I was and I really prayed to God to work on me, everyday.

[@samiatheresa]

Never clicked so fast!

[@annalisekathomi2336]

I feel you sis

[@zeep6068]

You know what the biggest problem is we have to all go through these men and women and you as a beautiful woman giving us advice to keep us on our toes because we do forget who we are when we’re in a relationship

[@musicianwren9248]

"A woman is never crazy for no reason." Yes, this 100% Also ... the only time I've ever heard this from a man he was projecting his own psychological instability.

[@ayana4601]

My gosh Breeny- watching this again helps me SO MUCH- I literally dated all 15 types of men in the 1 man that I loved- the only thing he didn’t have was crying- like ever- but omggg I’ve thought I was insane all these years but this man did NOT communicate at all- he avoided me- disappeared for days- I couldn’t get in contact w him he was totally unavailable and I must hv been vulnerable or stupid to think it wld work! But now I have accepted reality , wished him well and see the truth and light!!!

[@jayde-parisweatherly1011]

Happy Valentines Day Queens 💋

[@dominikar4969]

Thank you! I used to wonder why I developed such seemingly inexplicable hatred for the phrase "let's see where this goes" and it was my intuition all along, trying to tell me that it's going exactly nowhere. Also, most men I've met checked at least one of the 15 boxes, so I think I'll keep focusing on myself for a little longer.

[@marleyhill34]

Listen I have 50 matches in my Tinder and Bumble and all these men are men to avoid. They are looking for the weak women and that ain't me.

[@diletelliot9507]

So much problems with men these days I prefer stay single and trust God.

[@marieanne4117]

@ 😂 not me and I can’t find anyone

[@MasterJediPhil]

5:43 one thing I’d point out is that this goes with women as well. If she talks bad about her ex, usually that means she still misses him.

[@jazzyj7776]

Every time I start to develop a crush I watch Breeny. You just saved me from going on a date with a "Mr. Unreliable". He's cute but holy cow. You explained him down to the T.

[@marleyhill34]

I just don't have time or energy anymore and I'm 39.l ol!

[@jazzyj7776]

@@marleyhill34 I dont have the time or energy and im 24! lol

[@marleyhill34]

@@jazzyj7776 you are like my sister she is 30 and I have never met any of her boyfriends. Lol! My mother has just bought a puppy for a grandchild. Lol!

[@jazzyj7776]

@@marleyhill34 hahaha my mom said she would accept my two cats as her grandsons! She stopped bugging about me not having children yet when she realized i could be happy with just myself :)

[@a_la_drinah]

Preach sis. " Sometimes people are so broke all they have is.... MONEY 💰"

[@AboveRubiesTV]

Thanks, birthday twin!!! Happy Valentine’s Day 💕✨

[@KarmaCame]

Yes yes yes and usually one sign will lead to others so for me one is enough.If you say I'll be there at 3 and it's 315 and haven't called or text its time to go and MAYBE we can reschedule depending on the circumstances.Hence unreliable and unconsistant.If it happens again it's definitely a no for me especially without any accountability.

[@cjothTv]

i'm a guy and i agree

[@cjothTv]

and the 13th reason is why i'm still single 😂i'm not ready to give up my sporting and artistic ambitions for romance, yet.. working on it though 👍

[@seta5393]

Aw let's hope everyone can be accountable like you !

[@marleyhill34]

@@seta5393 nah the rest just want your cookie.

[@seta5393]

@@marleyhill34 lols I meant everyone as both genders

[@raissasmiley1586]

This lady is everything you need .Thanks .

[@latteswleah]

Sis you might as well say all men. This is 99.99% of the male population 😂😭😭

[@marleyhill34]

Lol! I was. Thinking there were more types. Mr. Bankrupt. Mr ex-con. Mr didn't finish high school. Mr cheater.... So many rejects.

[@BreenyLee]

Lord have mercy 😩

[@marleyhill34]

@@BreenyLee lol!

[@thenrealitysaid3609]

That sounds like a woman with no accountability and doesn’t want to admitt she’s the common denominator in all her relationships lol

[@XIX965]

If you're the common denominator u need to take a step back and look at yourself just saying

[@Ozzy4747]

This is the greatest video I've ever seen! Women are not attracted to clingy guys who text them all the time. All these personality types you've mentioned are probably more attractive to you than the so called 'man you want'. So if men actually follow your advice and do everything you're saying in this video, they won't get avoided by women, in fact... women will be head over heels for them.

[@kathyalex778]

I'm listening to you right now while I stretch before my workout ❤️Happy Valentine's Breeny!

[@joncena168]

I left my toxic family, and met a girl who helped me thru so much. I got a job working full time as a server, got my own car and own apartment and then I was able to have her over and have a awesome dating life when I could say “ come back to my place babe. You pretty much got me here” . I know it’s just an apt but hey your own place is awesome still. we are married now. Hope this little testimony helps. If a man does not have a job yet don’t overlook him . I just needed a hand back then and it was nice to have help. We both dated toxic ppl previously and by Gods grace we found each other. In general there’s something about when you work on yourself you also attract a good mate.

[@studytoreachsuccess]

Your hair is so damn gorgeous! Thank you for this video, it is so important to watch out for signs and choose the right type

[@Michelle-et6ru]

Emotionally unavailable are the worst 🤨👊🏼

[@kayedwards3588]

So glad i have found you.!!! You always give the best advice. Blessings to you.!!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽☺️☺️

[@RB-ly5ty]

All these in 1 man,thank God for I finally openend my eyes during lockdown after 8 years of marriage

[@Katrica670]

@11:00 "This is Not care!" "This is control!" (In Breeny's voice ) 🤣🤣🤣🤣😂❤️❤️☺️☺️

[@BreenyLee]

😁

[@Katrica670]

@@BreenyLee thank you Lotsa love! ❤️❤️🌟🌟

[@emily-hg3sx]

I remember my first relationship and I sent a photo to one of my male friends of a wall, yes a wall and he assumed I was cheating on him then act all sad so I would ask him are you okay? what's wrong? you can talk to me if something is wrong? and he would laugh at me and go I'm fine. The problem was he didn't ask me, he tried to catch me out and went to my best friend about it but would still see me and act as if nothing was going on which made me feel like an idiot. Major red flag so I ended the relationship and he had the nerve to say it's okay you need to love yourself first before you love someone else like I was the confident one in the relationship.

[@Daisytee1]

I'm early here yees. Your vids are so informative and real, you really inspire me with my channel

[@leonaandreea9335]

did anyone else hear her 'don't be with a man' or just me? I swear Breeny, there are no other men left out there and thinking how 'crazy' I have been due to my traumatic experiences (I am very communicative and open about my traumas, but if I smell all the things you mentioned above and I am already beyond the first few steps into a relationship, I lose it - I yell and cry and have so much anger.. I only experienced this with different types of man and yet cannot find one who really is what I need..)

[@abbigayledacres3653]

I haven’t even watched the video, but damn 15! 😅

[@BreenyLee]

It’s rough 😂

[@heavenlyjade3302]

There’s another type of toxic that I think deserves to be mentioned. The guy that triggers your ___ issues. From personal experience abandonment issues, gaslights you and guilt trips you While avoiding all accountability. It’s a big narcissistic tactic to keep control. Big red flag 🚩

[@charlineorozco]

Auntie Breeny with the 🔥🔥🔥❤️

[@Sweetsiren.1]

Cant even explain how helpful this is for me, considering the fact that I’ve been in a really unhealthy emotional state because of a guy. Thank you, you’re beautiful. All the love from Pakistan 🦋

[@bagoito1156]

Thanks for your advice Breeny❣ Now I know for sure I need to break up! 😒💔

[@jennyrodas2102]

So my question is, let’s say I’m dating this guy he’s talking about getting married in the future and he talks about his plans, and how he wants me to help him launch his business and be apart of everything but yet he’s telling me to return my car, get a different phone and give my 2 week notice at work so I can work with him just because he says I’m paying a lot for the things I have but yet I’m use to the lifestyle I have and this guy has no car. So what if we go on dates and he’s paying for it but I’m picking him up isn’t that me taking him out and not him taking me out? I’m also a mom of 2 so would it be wrong that I get upset because this guy seems good but he can’t pick me up for dates and i have to be driving all the time or he wants me to depend on him when we only started dating a month and half.... and just to think how does he have money but no car so how am I suppose to rely on him if my car was to break down or if I needed him to pick up my girls. Am I wrong for thinking this way ? Or am I being masculine for being firm for what I have and not giving it up...

[@lilbumbum6381]

Honestly he sounds more like a talker than a doer. I’ve dated someone like this. Promised me the world. Delivered shit. Maybe it’s not the case for you, but I’d start looking at how much he does vs how much he says he’ll do.

[@jennyrodas2102]

@@lilbumbum6381 yes your right thank you !

[@torodeedee]

Mr avoidant!!! Gosh! I have had encounters with those. Eww! They just want to talk about s*x. I’m done🙃

[@SavedByJesusHeimatLiebe]

My Beloved Man has communicated early on (after a Month) that we are in a Relationship. 😊💖 Plus he always told me His detailed Plans, Intentions and Emotions from Onset, without coming on too strong.

[@tarahbruno3793]

This sounds like most men. I’m starting to become hopeless 😒

[@Ru2tooru]

brooo.. i felt like she talking about my ex XD broke up yesterday though :)

[@FuckFeminists]

How about this: 1. Dont blindly follow a man-hating KZbinr 2. Look at men as - brace yourself - *humans*.

[@tahkeem_tha_dream3585]

You're looking for Mr. Perfect too...?

[@liveentertainment4841]

Omg!!! I met a Mr. Avoid!!! He had me so confused. He only came alive when I posted a picture or sent him a picture. He hardly shared information with me and yet I was telling him about myself. It took me 2 or 3 weeks before he told me what his job was. I was like if I am so confused with where I stand with you then that means you don’t like me💀💀

[@liveentertainment4841]

So I left

[@liveentertainment4841]

Rather ghosted😂😂

[@linolafraser6659]

So basically avoid all men? 🥲

[@tahkeem_tha_dream3585]

Mr. Perfect doesn't exist deal with it.

[@jessyonthego]

avoiding all men in 2021.just got out of a 6 month situationship pushing for it to become more and let me tell you...NEVER AGAIN!!im enjoying being at peace lool!! all lessons tho!LOVE YOU BREENY

[@mrs_mentalhealthsa]

"red flags detected at the beginning is good for everyone"🔥

[@Pr_20]

35 and still trying to find the right guy. thank you for this video as im glad my standards having dropped just because Im getting older!