15 WAYS To SUPPORT Someone With DID! | Dissociative Identity Disorder | RE-UPLOAD

[@sezi9art]

As an autistic person, I don't liked being hugged or touched without someone asking first because it can cause me anxiety or sensory overload. It is a good idea to ask someone whether they want to be hugged or if their body language looks like they may be uncomfortable with a hug. I will keep all of this advice in mind should I ever befriend a system.

[@kalielik]

I hate it too, my mom has even said that I never liked cuddling, even as a baby.

[@Crypticdartfrog]

thank you❤

[@Tomehawk95]

Glad that this is back up! I hope you all are doing alright, and that you're finding ways to make your life work as best as it can with all the new changes. Best of wishes to you

[@rbene01]

Essentially, treat each altar as you should treat EVERY HUMAN BEING (because each altar is their own person): WITH RESPECT!!

[@EclecticallyEccentric]

Each alter is a piece of a person, including the host(s), not entirely separate people. But they should still be treated with respect and empathy.

[@natalie23569]

It is truly a blessing for the DID community to have your content back on KZbin. You all are so appreiceted and have been deeply missed. Such an empowering story we are able to unfold at the start of this year. We see you. We hear you. We are so proud of you for reclaiming what has been yours all along. I am in infinite awe of you Kya and company

[@indyfox9603]

7:20 - I've had this issue with friends before thinking it was funny when I'd flinch or get startled. I never really said why it bothered me or made me scared (not really a conversation I wanted to explain to them), but it did affect my trust towards them and the anxiety I'd get sometimes while around them. You'd think it would be obvious that people who flinch or get scared are doing it as a reaction to something negative, yet for some reason, some people just don't think that way. Also, great video. I plan on sending this video to a few friends tonight. I think it would help them better understand our roles and the etiquette everyone inside prefers. I'm sure it would help answer some of their own questions too. :)

[@Chaos_gamess]

I don't really see how people can find that funny, I myself don't have DID but I don't find that funny if I see them get startled I'm gonna be like "are you ok?"

[@rizen9457]

People should definitely be more in tuned when you flinch. Also, it is helpful if you can use your words to communicate what is going on for you.

[@curlysheep4623]

I'm so glad all these videos are being put back up. They are always so informative and important 💕

[@oliviam2623]

Thank you so much for all you do, literally yesterday, at 22, I found out that I am a part of a system. I believe to be the host and that I have OSSD. I , we, are so scared and confused and without all of this information I don't know what I would do. I don't have access to my therapist due to the Holidays and your videos are helping me, Olivia, and hopefully our system so much. I thought I was making this up but I,Olivia, don't think that I am anymore. I met 5 alters yesterday and experienced being co-con with 3 of them. I looked up how to communicate with your system because I felt their pain and feelings and they met my husband and they all had such different feelings towards him. It was so scary,but I felt so much love. I just want to learn how to communicate and let them know I love them too and I do understand they are real and I'm not "the original" they are them and I am I. I hope I can learn to validate and get it through to myself that I am not the only one dealing with this. That I too am an alter. They have thoughts and feelings and my goodness. They've been silent for so long, I can't imagine how that would be. Thank you so much, I can't thank you enough. I might spam this comment honestly, I just truly want you to know just how safe you've kept me. How much your videos have calmed my husband. I really can't put into words my appreciation. Thank you again -Olivia

[@thaqueenofchaos1]

So happy to see these video's back. Liking and commenting to get engagement and get you blessed by the algoritm :D

[@landtax9509]

and the universe ❤

[@sydalyssawatson2839]

I'm so glad some of these videos are coming back! I revisited your channel a week or two ago and was devastated to find most of the videos had been taken down. After hearing why, I really hope you're all safe and well. So glad that at least some of these are returning to where they belong. 🥰 Love you all and hope you're doing well. 🙂

[@amazingweirdows7190]

What happen? Can you to explain? It’s been awhile since Ive seen their videos

[@briannaduke7738]

Kya (the new host) has made a video recently for information. But basically there was a person that was working with dissosiadid after their break with videos and things and when Nin decided to stop working with him he copyrighted a bunch of videos

[@alondraamaya]

dissociadid!!! i'm so happy to see you again!!! ah you've all been such a help in breaking stigma and educating me and my peers. we love you ❤️thank you endlessly

[@belladonnablack8486]

This was extremely helpful! Thank you so much for these tips, I’ll make sure to keep them in mind when interacting with one of my best friends who has DID. I realize now that there are things I can do better to support them, thank you so much! A lot of love to you all, DissociaDID! ❤️

[@prettysparklez1195]

I'm so fucking happy to see all these back. These videos were so helpful for me and my now boyfriend who has DID, your system is very important to us! Edit: I typed had on accident Lol I fixed it

[@-Anoush-]

17:42 and 19:09: links to other videos are still missing but great that you managed to put these video's back up: so important!!!

[@oscarsharples6754]

ive been watching your channel for about 7 years i think! little did i know one of the closest people in my life would get diagnosed. im so grateful i had some knowledge beforehand and a way to continue learning. so thank you all so so much!

[@damisnap3452]

VERY proud of you for taking back your power and reuploading these videos that are YOURS. much love to you all!!!!!!

[@ykira77]

Esse canal me ajudou de tantas formas, fico muito feliz por estarem de volta!!! * This channel help me in many different forms, im really glad ta you all come back!

[@zuukiae9401]

I'm so happy those videos are back ! About a year ago I discovered DID thanks to your channel, and learned a ton ! Months after my now partner announced me he was part of a system, and thanks to your videos, i was able to meet the basic needs and have enough informations to understand him in the first place. It's only been a few weeks since we are officially partners, and these videos are coming back in a perfect timing, i will reexplore the channel to find more informations, thank you !

[@alondracoronado1491]

I’m sorry you guys have to go through all this mess. I love your videos ❤️ I’m glad to see u guys here again ☺️

[@amazingweirdows7190]

What happen? I haven’t heard from them till today.

[@Zehra-jf6gn]

You guys were the first channel we found when we started questioning ourself about DID and OSDD, so glad to see the videos we found comfort and explainations on our experiences that were confusing to us getting back! We've started therapy thanks to you!

[@retropockystick]

Gonna continue to sprinkle comments in here and there to support your videos!

[@cristeresa99]

I continue here to support you all o/

[@danielbarry63415]

Glad that these helpful videos are back up, hopefully people can learn what DID is in an objective manner again.

[@minikipp8549]

it's made me happy that my sun box is filled with old videos- hope you continue to make ground with youtube :D

[@arrrose]

Yay! Will used the re-uploads to make sure I never missed anything.

[@imanxious8215]

I watched this video a long time ago (before it was taken down) and i came back to it today because my best friend that ive had for years just got diagnosed with DID. I've had my suspisions and so it's not too big of a shock but i want to be prepared and to do my best to help him and the others lol.

[@kiramartinij]

A really great guide to common etiquette for interacting with system-mates/alters. :) Especially the touch and the snapping, I think many people assume those are grounding or will help a person "break out of it", but obviously that is not the case for all (probably most) alters or systems. Thank you for all the hard work that you do!

[@nerudaad]

Such valuable information! I'm glad that you got your videos back

[@laurazamudio3936]

Hope you’ll be able to re upload all of the videos taken down, I really love your content and will continue to support you no matter what.

[@Astro.or-Ash]

I started watching you a while back but eventually KZbin algorithm found new stuff. One of my friends told me to my had DID so this is helping. Glad to see your channel again

[@GrilledCheeseLover11]

My friend told me that they have DID and are a system recently, with at-lease 7 ( going off of my head ) different alters and having to make different schedules and who fronts in what place etc. Thank you for making this video because I have no idea on what is going on, whilst trying to be a good friend.

[@morgzedits3190]

thank you for this! a few months ago one of my best friends revealed to me that they are a system. i am doing as much research as i can, but i’m so scared i’m gonna say something offensive or distasteful or ignorant on accident. i’ve asked questions in the most respectful way possible but i’m really scared i’m gonna screw up. i’ve only met about 2 of their alters and i believe the interactions went pretty well. i’m gonna try my best to make my friend feel loved and try my best to be a good friend bc i understand they’ve been through a lot.

[@jessicalingo4346]

I really like how you gave alternatives for requesting an alter out. I also say use their desired word usage. What i mean by that is some systems dont like the term alter (i dont. I use split) or some splits have different genders (or even species) and dont use the bodys gender as their pronouns. For me a trigger is people coming up behind me and touching my wrists. Im ok with hugs. So each person is definitely different. Thank you for these videos. Its definitely helping me with my own life and helping with my confusion around my did (undiagnosed but on the road to a diagnosis). These videos are very important to me

[@luluerror4048]

THE VIDEOS ARE COMING BACK LET'S FUCKING GOOOOO

[@twitoro3133]

aaa thank you!! my best friends are in a system and this is really helpful :)

[@ejavandycke]

Last night I had my first experience with someone who didn't know till then they were a system. I know what caused them all to come out. I won't share obviously but it was heart wrenching. I'm coming here to learn how I can support my friend while they get used to being not only a system but a coexisting system that isn't locking the others in so much. So far all the alters like me. Even the host seems okay with me and they don't come out often. I look forward to learning from you so I can be a better aunt/mom friend to this system and all of the alters in it. Even the standoffish folks in the system

[@alisterpavlov5534]

Glad to see the system back! Wishing everyone well and sending loving vibes 💕

[@Embeeech]

Omg I miss Chloe so much 😭 I don’t mean that in a negative or rude way at all. I just adored her… but I know their system has done what is necessary for their mental and emotional health and safety throughout the years including alters changing and/or integrating.

[@dusundavarfreohr3491]

How wonderful to see that the videos are back! 🥰🙏🏽

[@lieslringhofer162]

I don't know if anyone else has posted this in the comments yet but when you had trouble thinking of the third thing beyond Fight and Flight Response, I remember in my research that the third thing we can do in that response is FREEZE. So while I can't personally relate in terms of DID, I can empathize with the terror felt during the Freeze Reaction. You are stuck in what you want to run away from but can't. I'm sorry that people have done that to you 😔 But hey! You're back to help me learn about making a new group of friends at work! Keep up the good work! And thank you for all your advice and wisdom. You're amazing to be juggling having this disorder while managing a KZbin channel AND in a relationship....with ANOTHER system?! You're practically running circles around me and keeping me inspired!

[@rptdl1es]

as a person with a partner who has this, this is very helpful to me. i just found out my partner has this, and i want to support them and get to know and understand them better. this really helps.

[@jessicam3233]

So happy to see this!!!! And see that more videos uploaded!!!! Hope your situation is getting better, sending lots of love 💕💕💕💕

[@natalie4787]

Rewatching all of your re-uploads to boost your channel. Sending love to you all and wishing you a quick and fair resolution to this mess and much happiness in the coming year.

[@ttenrabdn]

I was so very confused to see Chloe again, I had to come back to the description to verify when it was created. 😅 Welcome back DissociaDID, you've all been missed!

[@JXC25]

13:27, I'm speaking to a girl who has this, and she tells me it's not me, it's hard to understand, but I refuse to give up on her. This video is exactly what I needed, thank you so much for elaborating and giving me hope again. I don't expect everything to just be okay again, but I really really care for her and am willing to understand and be as supportive as I can.

[@pleasehelp8436]

I’m going thru this right now and it’s hard. I care like you said but it HURTS when she doesn’t want anything to do with me. I get it’s a system and I’m “not supposed to take it personally” but how? Literally going thru this at the very moment…and I’ve messed up with being angry bcuz she switches so fast sometimes and I don’t even realize it.

[@Sandra-zu4ff]

Commenting for support! Glad some videos are back to you!! Thanks for sharing as always :)

[@kelseymw1991]

Watching your older videos really highlights how far you have come. So proud of you! 💕

[@LaurenandtheCrew]

Your voice is so captivating to listen to, glad to have these videos back once again!

[@isobel6480]

Omg. I'm so happy that your videos are being reuploaded! I love you all!!!!

[@cc1561]

Thanks you this is vary helpful my best freind of 13+ years just got dienoced and me and another friend are trying to help i learned a lot about DID from you in the past so thank you so much

[@Holy_Venom]

I am just understanding DID, my wife has it and I have IED (Intermittent Explosive Disorder) we love each other very much and I also love each of her alters the same I love her as a whole, how ever, both of our mental illnesses are clashing as well as other circumstances and situations that are causing both of us more stress than we can both handle and its gotten to the point almost of no return, I say almost because my wife sent me this video to help understand and support her more. Any tips on how to work together and move forward and become stronger together are really greatly appreciated... my relationship with my wife is hanging on half of a hair, I want to understand and her more and be a better supportive and attentive husband to her. Thank you for letting me share and Skylar if you ever see this comment, I'm sorry it took me this long to realize everything that has been going wrong and I love you and your alters ❤

[@JasmineS_12]

YES!! Thank you youtube for finally doing something right here

[@xPershionx]

Glad you made this video so people can better understand what's appropriate or not. Was very interesting to learn about.

[@jenplaysgames]

Kya I am so happy to see your videos back!!!! We have missed you 💗💗

[@KryssesU]

You have to watch a bit of the video. It looks bad to the algorithm if you click off quickly

[@KryssesU]

So please if you want to support her watch the video!

[@user-lm1np7hm5k]

2:07 so true, work takes sooo much constant switching. Exhausting.

[@alissa2722]

I’m glad the system is back ❤️

[@alexvictoria84]

They're all back! This is wonderful :D congratulations! 🤩

[@moniquem783]

That was so incredibly helpful. Thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you thank you.

[@GhastlyDr3ams]

My boyfriend has D.I.D and this was really helpful.

[@awesomediscussions]

15:33 a method I designed for who's fronting is that I designed different watch faces on my watch that represent a different alter. When people that know about my DID look at my watch, they can tell who is the host during that time.

[@anarchy_iter]

Thank you a lot for this and your other videos❤ I'm a singlet(?) who became pretty close friends with a system recently through the internet and is trying their best to make them feel comfortable with them :D When I first met them I luckily had some pre knowledge from systems I was friends with in the past but really only the basics like "alters are different persons" and "don't force a alter to front" but not much else so especially this video was a huge huge help to me c:

[@333Eriana]

So , i looked this video up to try to figure out how to help myself. i find that after i do some personal therapy i feel foggy and lost - like i don't know who i am to the point of feeling dull for days to a week. it's very disturbing. i don' t know how to connect with everyone inside, i really wish i did, and how to know if someone is fronting -sometimes i feel the someone near or sometimes more than one - but there are many and i'm caught between not wanting to assume one over the other kind of thing. Your videos and advice about this is gold.

[@ladylemon202]

omg yes! i’m glad the videos are being put back up

[@nanditarana261]

Welcome back 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@barbarapagnocca]

Yesss some videos are being brought back!!!!! You can do this DiassociaDID

[@momoateappa3420]

This is a really informative video, thank you!

[@marckold36]

99% of this video you can apply to anybody, regardless of whether they have DID or not.

[@wadecohagan2388]

Thank you for this!! My friend has one that is really short with me. I am not sure if they don't really like me or they think one is getting to close. still sort of new to this.

[@leobeboop4944]

Good one on getting the vids back up!

[@x.keira.x6558]

Yesss I'm so happy they are coming back!!!

[@proudredneck2061]

Sending lots of love to you and the whole system again. Welcome back ❤️

[@opheliaoverit]

Welcome back ! We miss you !!

[@jonastalseth6735]

So happy to see that the videos are coming back!!!!

[@Jenny24601]

THRILLED to see your videos back!

[@sirfloofish]

Glad you're able to re-upload the videos! Hope that in the end, all videos are back up! Hope that you're doiing okay, and wishing you all good luck for 2022!

[@mikesnapper9001]

nice to see you back, even if it is a reup

[@MetallicPetals]

From my perspective as someone who doesn't have DID, but has dated someone with DID and has a friend with DID. All the alters are people. They may share a body, but they're still people.

[@AkeyKeu180]

Yas guys!! Love all of your videos.

[@jelle645]

General comment to help the algorithm. Hope you’re all doing good. Happy to see the videos being reuploaded

[@alysmarcus7747]

I hope you are doing okay. your videos have been helping me out for years. we just like to see you well. (i think someone young wrote that) And just for myself, this is helpful to be watching again because many of us are perfectionist and we push to hard. we are sick - and need to remember it's difficult , go slower. Thankyou Kya and all Just for others to know as well, the triggers can change come and go. Like all of a sudden the washing machine noise is bad. that kind of thing, and i've been doing laundry for decades !!

[@austenmurphy4420]

So glad you're back! You are amazing and so inspirational.

[@emeraldrain9403]

I am so glad to see yall back! AMD this video is one I need. I think my best friend has DID he is in denial. I believe this video will help me but how can I help him! Please HELP 💚Emerald

[@emeraldrain9403]

Can you please talk about how hard it can be to love someone with DID? especially if one or two of their alters hate you. as I think is the case in my situation. 2 of his protectors hate everyone. He usually switches back out from these alters pretty quickly. But the. There are time like right now where he hates me for over a month now

[@emeraldrain9403]

Which ever person has control right now is trying to reach out but I do not think the others are allowing him complete freedom. For I know he loves me and I feel his is fighting his way back to me . When this month started he hurt me very bad and in return I hurt him. How do I get my best friend back!

[@johnnyvalentine1332]

I’m so glad your back!!!🖤❤️

[@sourgummiez]

I’m SOOO HAPPY your videos are back up!!!! I love to rewatch them and I really missed everyone!!!

[@madyh5152]

Yay I remember watching this when it came out I'm so glad to see it again 😄

[@mariana-lab]

Glad you're back! I think it's so unfair that you have to reupload everything...

[@Tara........]

Thank you for a very clear and concise explanation. I enjoyed your videos the first time around and I'm glad to see them being reuploaded.

[@DillonMaynard]

Glad the videos are coming back

[@truthinesssss]

…very informative and extremely well done. Thank you.

[@crazygemini82]

Yay so glad to see your videos coming back ❤

[@Chey1214_]

I'm glad that some of the videos are back up. I hope you guys win all of them back. I'm sorry you guys have to go through this, it shouldn't have happened.

[@puercorvus1114]

Thank you very very much for this and other videos you do and reupload. I'm quite new to this, to Your channel, but I've already leaned a lot. It is important for me to know well how to respect everybody and this helped me out a bit more, yet a problem I have with lots of people around is that I'd love to respect all their needs and support them, but they're almost never able to tell me, if I do something they don't like or worse... And I'm not sure if that're just the few cases I got to know or if it's usual and if there's some way to make it easier for them to open about it, other than reminding them that they can always tell me if I do something I shouldn't. (sorry for my grammar, am not an english speaker ':D)

[@LivMorYes]

This was very helpful. Thank you. I am a system of 20 and we say hi. Some objection in the back but that’s ok. ❤

[@siobhanoconnell9444]

I hate when people trigger my startle response and sensory overload

[@RiaAlmeida]

We love you and we’re here for you!

[@tlwf.system]

🖤🖤🖤🖤 having a great morning on the final day of 2021 because of you all 🐺🐺🐺 so happy to see you back, per say ❤️❤️❤️

[@pipelayomimiko]

Yay first!

[@bumblaur]

youre so pretty!!!

[@pipelayomimiko]

@@bumblaur oh thank you!

[@pipelayomimiko]

@@krukru9783 hello!

[@thesupremebeef]

Aw man, it's like a ride down memory lane.

[@chiedzawith2ds]

Your videos are informative and I hope you don't stop

[@veruchkawhitehead3815]

I LOVE seeing all the videos being uploaded 40 min ago, 37 min ago... 😏😏 Welcome back loves you all were so missed. I'm actually excited to watch KZbin videos again 😁💯