16 Personalities Asking Someone Out

[@dearkristin]

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[@glueball214]

Hella yes, turn them on and wonder how you ever lived without them.

[@stephw.7874]

I love how this rhymes!

[@restlessmosaic]

"I'm a poet and I didn't even know I was rhyming those words." - Sincerely, Raymond Holt.

[@WolfoxBR]

It rhymes. Because *of course* it does.

[@Tilnaor]

whoa, that's some another level! I started to watch without subtitles, the remembered your videos subs always have hidden meanings, so switched on. Yet no inner thoughts at all. Now I watch it again with UK

[@YuS-French]

- Are you a koala? - Yes, I am. Come and save me! Romantic compatibility: 100%

[@xavierdomenico]

I love how the INFJ is portrayed as the innocent stalker who realizes what they are doing is weird but does it anyways.

[@Human_01]

I can attest to that 😓

[@foreverblessed475]

Guilty... '^_^

[@leedlbagginshield8492]

Joe Goldberg

[@diaz6874]

ENTJ pretty much executed what the INTJ was thinking.

[@Debloper]

It definitely seemed like what a teenage INTJ would do (ENTJs are highly unlikely to custom craft a puzzle for someone - ain't nobody got time fo' dat).

[@haydarsarac3565]

@@Debloper It might save more time in the long run

[@dawnriddler]

@@Debloper I had some guy asking me out years ago, so I quoted a poet to see if he's worthy, and he was like "I don't understand", so my answer was "and sadly you never will" 🤣

[@summydots]

I'm an ENTJ, who understood the INTJ really well. Sometimes I give things a shot just to get it over with.. so I don't have to think about it or them ever again, no more mulling.

[@GoodSongs4all]

0:01 - ESFP 0:06 - ISFP 0:25 - ENTJ 0:42 - ENFJ 0:54 - INFP 1:15 - ESTP 1:23 - ISTJ 1:53 - ISFJ 2:08 - ISTP 2:16 - ENFP 2:37 - INTJ 2:48 - ESFJ 2:55 - ESTJ 3:01 - INFJ 3:35 - INTP 4:31 - ENTP

[@ecaterinaungureanu9410]

Thank you!

[@flann8842]

I don't need this, beacuse every personality is well developed in the video

[@ecool9998]

BRO WHAT TYSMMM UR SO NICE

[@worldalicious]

Thx

[@maximehedde3648]

INTP's absolutely need to be logically consistent and you've understood that perfectly, that was hilarious ! XD

[@petersmall1574]

"I will never talk to humans again" is a perfectly logical conclusion.

[@jddjdjsjjssjsjsjs]

​@@petersmall1574Haha any Intp at some point

[@FalconOfStorms]

ENTP: dials number but doesn't press call yet. Takes several deep breaths. Paces back and forth. Calculates all the possible outcomes. Distracts themselves with 5 different hobbies and projects. Still calculating. Stares at phone. Works out. Still calculating. Pours a drink. Screams loudly and presses "call". Nails the conversation by effortlessly winging it and using none of the prepared material .

[@wkpopchannel1128]

Reminded me of something similar I did recently. INTPs and ENTPs are very similar apparently (or maybe I'm not too introverted)

[@elisaconnolly]

.....yep pretty much :')

[@cassavepiece]

Story of my life, it's all panic until my mouth opens.

[@LauraCoubert]

Well. That's weirdly accurate.

[@Sophie-vw5ol]

Yeah yeah similar to me as an ENFP

[@WolfoxBR]

The good thing about maturing as an INTJ is that, since no one lives up to your expectations (including yourself), and because you're a pragmatic, you start to ignore those expectations and just accept things as they are. Yeah, resignation can be a super power! ;) Anyway, kristin, pretty funny this one (and, as usual, brilliantly written and acted)! I laughed quite a bit and, not gonna lie, the beaver line made me cringe. And laugh. But mostly cringe. :D

[@dearkristin]

"Cringey Puns" is one of my favourite modes 😏

[@BlueBirdBaby]

What personality type finds it annoying when people use "you, your" in words obviously talking about themselves (as if projecting their thoughts or actions onto the reader)?

[@Mayakran]

@@BlueBirdBaby any personality type, and blame the English language for that issue because using “one” as a personal pronoun sounds strange and overly formal. For example saying something like “discovering one has left one’s phone at home is really nerve wracking” sounds extremely awkward. Using “you” and “your” as a personal pronoun may bother you but it’s perfectly grammatically sound.

[@mecca3000]

Yup at 39 I've accepted that humans will always disappoint and accepting that fact makes me feel even more in control of my life than I already am. But FYI, I almost always live up to my own expectations, the only possible exceptions always involve socializing with those ruled by there emotions.

[@nurainiarsad7395]

I have switched to evaluating relationship quality based on the way the other person complements me or the kind of me I become when we’re together. This way it still makes sense, but it’s more useful as different combinations influence me to a different degree and in different ways. After all, you fall in love with someone not because of how well that person met your standards, but how well you like the person you become when you’re with them.

[@brunotatekawa5038]

The way the ENFP so confidently said that pencils are pointless made me regret I'm not already married to one. That was pure gold

[@chrisgorgon3629]

What's your mbti?

[@gouki4u]

INTP here. My first attempt to ask a girl out was remarkably similar to the koala survey. After that experience I resolved to wait until I was asked out, but since I'm oblivious that lead to going on a lot of dates I did not know were dates, and eventually wondering why only extroverts seem to be attracted to me.

[@scarysara9364]

I don't know how you can go out on a date and not even be aware that you are out on one at all; the fact that it's just you and the other person both dressed nicely, and in a fancy restaurant should have been a big clue for you.

[@gouki4u]

@@scarysara9364 Did most of my dating at university when everyone was too broke to dress up and go to nice restaurants. Getting coffee or drinks doesn't seem like a date when you spend most of your free time in coffee shops and bars anyway.

[@crunchybunbun]

Awww my bf is an INTP 😂 he was so awkward

[@nephra.extraterrestrial]

Why is the ENTP attitude so attractive? I would never call someone, if it wasn't absolutely necessary, but the "I will never talk to humans again." after an awkward interaction was very relatable. ~INTP

[@katrinamareen]

Haha. My ISTJ husband texted me when he asked me out... im INFP. HIM - "I think, I like, but dont know how you feel. How do you feel?" Me - "I feel confused. What do you like?" Him - "you" I then daydreamed our whole life together. Forgot to reply. He then texted the next day: "Dont worry, I was drunk." I continued to have a major heartbreak mourning, feeling like our whole fictional marriage was destroyed and he wasn't in love with me anymore. He ended up crawling back... though there was no back to begin with... haha I find that the moment he showed interest, that was a marriage proposal, and no backing out of it... that was it... we were to be together forever. Sounds crazy, but I actually just have determination to make things work.

[@dearkristin]

Cute ❤

[@em-fg06]

Aww, this is so cute !

[@jackier1726]

Then the INTP goes straight to the Wikipedia page for koalas as soon as she has put the phone down. Ya know, cuz knowledge.

[@gorgonheap9770]

ENTP approved. My proposal to my longtime girlfriend, asked in a pizza shop over lunch: "So you wanna marry me or what?"

[@dearkristin]

😂😂😂

[@thomasswrisky6734]

As an INTJ, I can confirm expectations always exceed reality. For that reason, instead of relying on expectations, I have developed a list 31 traits, ranked in a tier list by importance. Each trait is then measured on a 4 point scoring system (1 being woefully insufficient, 4 being exceeded standards) and given a weight based on the importance of the trait. As I learn more about the individual in question, I can begin to measure an average based on scores in the various traits. If this score exceeds a minimum value, I determine it is worthwhile to consider a relationship with the person in question. It’s quite simple really. An excel spreadsheet makes it even simpler.

[@thepickles8833]

I evaluate through a process of 9 or 10 tests, before I even consider dating them

[@eshaanghoshfushtukli]

okay can we have the list, thank you

[@mostcreativenickname]

I don’t intend to offend anyone, but as an ISFJ: I’m sho- … shoc-… uh, I mean shortsighted. Just keep going guys, have a nice day

[@emergencypoptarts2479]

Excel !! yes

[@sophiaredwood5825]

As an ENFP, you are what I aspire to be in terms of preparedness for relationships. I don’t develop crushes easily and when I do I easily shrug them off because I know the high will fade after the initial novelty fades away and I realize how annoyingly human the other person is. It’s an unusually careful and narrow view of mine, and it’s definitely the reason I’ve never been in a romantic relationship (though I also know I’m too young and not mature enough for one anyways). Despite knowing that romantic relationships tend to start up without any meaning to them, I never knew how to seek out that meaning deliberately. I like this idea :))

[@J11_boohoo]

ENTPs have got to be the most fun to make sketches! They’re my favorite of all the types you portray!

[@CrystalHurd86]

All the INTPs jump at the chance to solve ENTJs riddle before realizing doing so means getting asked out. 😂 personally I love the challenge and directness!

[@edwright4892]

Brilliant! 😄 These are all spot on. I particularly liked the panicking INTP, although after receiving some very random telesales calls recently I'm now wondering if I have a secret INTP crush out there! 😄

[@dearkristin]

LOL!

[@edwright4892]

@@dearkristin As an INFP this won't be easy but the next time they ring I'm just going to whisper "Be brave, just tell me what's in your heart"...

[@dearkristin]

@@edwright4892 please do and then report back

[@ceilinh6004]

Yes. We all want to know how that goes.

[@sophiaredwood5825]

@@dearkristin ^^^^this, we want updates

[@sapphiruby]

the video title gave me hope thinking "wow, I can really ask someone out?" until I saw my type... us poor INFPs I knew it was too good to be true

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha aww 😅

[@tnnetnattninuttn4627]

As an IN F/T P I feel the struggle. Though I've recently found out that I can. Now I keep worrying daily whether I am failing her expectations or not. 😅😂

[@scottlang7271]

INFP - ouch 🤕. So true for so long that it still hurts. Why is the world inside my head so often so much better than the real one? 😂

[@hj_lostintheinternet3754]

I love how your depictions of INTPs are either incredibly accurate or incredibly funny 🤣 I don't think any other KZbinr could get our types this right 🤣

[@lemetamax]

The INTJ part...not exactly how I'd ask someone out, but those words are always lingering deep down in my mind. Crushing on someone is like an inconvenience that happens, one that takes away your focus and disorganizes your day's activities. And even though you've convinced yourself that they're not the one, something inside you will want you to give them a slight chance anyways, cos who knows if your perfect companion actually exists close by.

[@thepickles8833]

This.

[@panarabe2311]

I'm an INFJ but I can relate to that

[@GhostofJung]

Gotta love that ENTP foreplay

[@INTP_Apologist]

As an INTP, I relate to the ISTJ the most. Except I wouldn't try to make it sound emotional because I wouldn't notice the emotionless tone.

[@mayarichardson5491]

As an INFP, I'm offended. Offended because this is spot on! Great job! Love the commitment per usual!

[@trinaq]

Haha, likewise, Kristin has all of their personalities down to a tee! 🥰

[@erickneres2772]

Before the INFP say she lacks confidence to really ask the person out, i thought was an ENFP!

[@The54321to]

That one time I was confident in my approach and it worked but like NEVER AGAIN

[@MazorKuziaki]

Oh my god this was so perfect in every way. "I don't care about their weekend" "Hey how was your weekend?" I see the INFPs are starting to realize they've just been daydreaming about all these scenarios the whole time. Very true. Thanks again for an absolutely wonderful video. -INFP

[@dearkristin]

Naw thank you as always for your comment 😁

[@thepickles8833]

Being an INTJ and asking somebody out is incredibly rare. I’m currently experiencing backlash at work from Not asking a certain woman out because I thought the ways she interacted were strange and office romances are generally a bad idea... so I dumped her before we ever gave it a shot because I foresaw a lot of daily troubles in the future... but now I have troubles anyways so I guess it’s a no-win scenario

[@silene9803]

Office romances smell like trouble and if you experience issues with her now (and you have not actually even dated), imagine how your relationship might have been unnecessarily complicated and draining. Seems to mě like you have avoided more trouble than you have. I would trust your intuitive prediction. Not listening to my intuition (though it sometimes offers weirdly specific predictions too early on) got me to a lot of trouble.

[@obosuck]

Honestly my biggest regret was not dating more in college. Big not giving people who were interested in me a chance and now there is literally nobody since my job is male dominated and my hobbies are male dominated. But for some reason coming up on 30 is making my brain scream "GO BE SOCIAL" a lot so I am going to try exercise classes, the majority of Intelligent women I know like some form of exercise. (Crossfit is odd, bouldering is a little too open ended, and open weight gyms are not social)

[@yt-sh]

touche

[@AoC-consumption]

Oh boy I feel so called out. As an ISTP this has happened over and over. "So if your in my area, we can get together and do something." " What do you mean, that's ambiguous?"

[@binkao2938]

I’ve had to apply all my INFJ stalking, analyzing and mind reading skills to not go crazy trying understand what my vague ass mixed signals ISTP romantic interest is saying lol

[@AoC-consumption]

@@binkao2938 On behalf of all ISTPs I apologize. It's just we don't understand how to translate our own feelings to something that is understandable. Quite the irony since we prefer to take the direct approach with our lives .

[@strivingfornewhorizons9281]

My dad's an ISTP (or ESTP but those are pretty straight-forward too) &always says exactly what he means, not more &not less. No subtext, no hidden meaning, no nothing. My mum's an ISFJ and always interprets way too much into his words, she analyzes them, then tells him what she believes he said ("but it sounded like...") - while my dad just stares at her like "??? I didn't say that, what do you mean???"

[@maydavalle]

🤣

[@torkakarshiro5170]

As an ISTP I feel like what she showed in the video is a perfectly done invitation to go out. That is quite exactly what I would say IF I happend to muster enough courage and social energy to ask somebody out. I still do not understand what would be vague about that...? Or ambiguous?

[@shepardcommander5174]

The INTJ one is so spot on😭 this literally happened early this year. Been meeting with a guy, enjoying his company, cuddling and so on and i knew that i was catching feelings. It sorta stopped the moment i distanced myself to analyze the situation, realizing that there were quite a few red flags for me. While i enjoyed the time with him, he was just too fast and WAY too insecure, extinguishing the spark himself and not even realizing it. But maybe its just me being emotionally constipated and having too much expectations (it definitely is) so who knows🤷🏻‍♀

[@flusel4949]

I’m an ENFJ. Why do I relate to INTJ scenarios like this one SO DAMN MUCH? This is an exact description of my love life.

[@thepickles8833]

My arch nemesis has enough red flags to make a quilt....

[@youreworthyourweightinavoc7189]

No, it definitely isn't. Speaking from experience, after it all ends, you'll regret all the sacrifices you made. As soon as you sense the red flags, nope yourself right out of there. Your current method is the correct one 👍

[@haoyuanjin8280]

We do not sound like that this is just inaccurate typical portrayal of what a intj internal monologue sound like

[@JackyVSO]

I've developed a penchant for falling for INTJs which I'm beginning to suspect is actually a form of unconscious self-sabotage. You guys are terrible (and amazing 💘)

[@Meg_intheclouds]

As an ENFP who loves riddles- if someone told me to solve the riddle to date them- and they want me to solve it. I would just give them my heart at that point. And make a ton of jokes as I do it, work out the riddle in my own chaotic Ne way, hopefully be super lovable in the process, break down their defences and solve the riddle and the riddle of their heart. Also I feel the INTP in a way, except I say that and then straight the way move on to texting my friend the random thought I thought in my head. And it would be Face to face not over the phone which yes would be even weirder.

[@dearkristin]

"and the riddle of their heart" 😂😂😂

[@trinaq]

Me too, I'd love to solve their riddle, and also, as an INFJ, the riddle of their personality!

[@kellikakes81]

Same lol. Currently dating an ENTJ and I so wanna show him this lol

[@farrex0]

Well riddle me this What is green and blue, but has no color? ------------------------------------------------- This is the answer **Do not read unless you want the answer spoiled** I have warned you.... The answer is... I have no idea, I am just a trolling ENTP.

[@lynnes1864]

I'm INTP. I would be intrigued at first but as soon as they added the time pressure would nope out of there quickly.

[@philomath6458]

It's soooo true for INFJ. The INTP one was hilarious 😂

[@eshaanghoshfushtukli]

I think as an INTP I would naturally start asking questions instead of getting to the point, spot on.

[@somethingyoucanimagine]

An intp I know was like that with me. ❤️

[@eshaanghoshfushtukli]

@@somethingyoucanimagine they were probably metaphorically dissecting your brain to know every little intricate detail about you

[@ib7375]

1:50 I love how you put the ISTJ that doesn't care about their crush's weekend just before the ISFJ that is asking them how was their weekend hahaha

[@runningfromabear8354]

As an ESTP I have to say, you showed people at their most epically irritating. You're asking someone out, not asking them to marry you. Go out, have a good time, figure out afterwards if you want to see more of them. The worst that can happen is rejection but worse still, is that you miss 100% of the shots you don't take. How shitty must it feel if you are just constantly missing out on stuff because you didn't try?

[@dearkristin]

Classic Se-dom attitude and I love it.

[@englishmuffin7]

I agree with you and I'm an ENTP but also, I'm not interested in marriage period in my life, so there's nothing else to look for but a potential roommate for the future. Because even though I'd like them to move in with me at some point and live together, for now I'm just trying to see if we'd work. ENTPs portrayal was accurate as well, Kristin 👌

[@polakanonim4946]

INFP here that has recently learnt this strange power to just ask someone out.

[@alien2244]

As an INTP I can confidently say that this is your most accurate INTP sketch yet! I laughed so hard! This has made my day to be honest.

[@emilylauraa]

INFP here. In high school I had a crush on a boy for over a year before talking to him, then I realized I was graduating in 4 months and would miss my chance if we didn't start dating soon so I asked him out. Now we've been married 5 years, have 2 cats and are planning to move overseas within a couple years. Yes INFPs are socially awkward dreamers, but the terrifying thought of dreams not coming true can sometimes override any other anxiety or awkwardness we feel

[@trixi1608]

Wow, that was brave of you. A fellow (single) INFP. 😉

[@MichaelG5500]

As an INTP I am intrigued and want to solve the ENTJ riddle and would then panic after solving it because I would realize I can now go on a date....😂😂 A riddle like, what walks on four legs in the morning, two legs in the afternoon, and three legs at night. Though that is probably too easy. 😜 I am more likely use the INTJ technique to asking someone out though I felt the INTPs anguish....😂

[@Meg_intheclouds]

Omg a man! My ENTJ bf did some riddles in his philosophy class and sent them to me to see how many I could solve- I got 13/15- and he was impressed lol

[@alymalcolm6990]

Ah yes! the INFJ struggle of accidentally outing myself as a stalker :)

[@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau]

Hahaa that's exactly what I wanted to comment. 3:01 Hey I've stalked you for a year or two. Would you like to go out? xD

[@maimuna20]

@@LearnGermanwithMarzipanfrau Yess 😂😂

[@feelstora3]

The amounts of details you remember about someone that you shouldn't remember...

[@trinaq]

Of course ISFJs would conveniently have tickets just lying around. Plus, I can definitely relate to the auxiliary FE function of just letting them take both tickets! 😂🎟️

[@CineShinya]

As an ISFJ I have been trying from the moment the ISFJ clip played to convince myself I wouldn't be THAT much of a pushover, but then I remembered my crushes and I was like aghhh... ok I may have been... I mean... I can't relate to the tickets thing and giving both to them and their friend... (even if I did buy 2 lottery tickets by my crush to support her and her ex bf's job) but the main idea, yes... we sacrifice too much for others' comfort.

[@mostcreativenickname]

yeah, and conveniently the tickets would just be for their most favorite movie ever that we don’t even really like but they wanted so desperately to watch. I mean I don’t know about you guys, but this tends to just… happen to me :0

[@DianaMartinez-fl1pj]

Yes, as an ISFJ, I can see this happening to me 😅

[@emilys3638]

Hello, ISFJs! Fun to see you in the comments section! My sister is this type and she's wonderful. I do see her make these kinds of sacrifices for her husband and children quite often. I try to make sure she gets enough of her own needs taken care of as well!

[@ankhmorporkgirl5317]

As an INTJ, I think you ISFJ's are sweethearts as give so much to others. (Have a dear colleague/possible friend who's an ISFJ) As logical as I am in thinking and not showing emotions in general, I just want you ISFJ's to put yourself first more often to do your own things you like and not be taken advantage of.

[@glueball214]

All massively hilarious 😂 I find myself relating most to the ISTJ. Emojis are a great cheat for Fe, but often confusing. 💙🎄🤯🙏

[@emergencypoptarts2479]

🐏💮🥕

[@annmarie_]

As an INFJ female I would never ask a guy out. Definitely quietly stalk them though! 🤣🤫

[@hfortenberry]

“The way you jingles your keys twice before you unlock your door every night” 😂 Yep! I recently dated an INFJ and I swear she knew things she would only know if she’s been stalking me. I’m an INTJ though so I get it. 😉

[@natejakubowski4174]

As an ENFJ I'd say the example in this video is more my approach with some of my introverted friends, particularly an INTJ who is a homebody where I have to "invite myself" over. With women, I more or less only ask them out if I've already studied the eff out of them and their intentions/interest level. :') Great video!

[@natejakubowski4174]

Studied the *F*... out of them. Get it? The F. Feelings. ENFJ. Can some ENFPs please laugh at this for me? Thanks. :') :')

[@evebyul]

@@natejakubowski4174 *laughs in INFP*

[@sophiaredwood5825]

@@natejakubowski4174 ENFP here, and I love the humor 😂🤩

[@chriswalker2562]

@@natejakubowski4174 laughs in ENTJ.

[@sunchips18]

@@natejakubowski4174 Politely chuckles in INFJ.

[@InJeffable]

0:07 ISFP here. Yeah, that's pretty much spot-on. I'm reluctant to impose myself on anyone, preferring instead to go with the flow and let romance develop organically if it's going to.

[@aoblues145]

As an INFP, Your description is my type and my companion is an ISFP x)

[@karlheinzotto3701]

I (INTP) even still dream about asking out long lost crushes from high school regularly, never having the courage the speak to any one of them. This was so spot on. XD

[@theporcelainunicorn8194]

As an enfp, I confirm this is how I flirt 😂 And with an enfj partner, that's definitely how he got me 😂😂😂

[@kh8529]

Funny enough my now husband asked me out to watch a musical, as he had a spare ticket because some relative couldn't make it. I later found out his sister was pretty pissed he took the ticket. And thank god I sealed the deal early in life so I didn't have too much time to built terrifying expectations. (Yes, ISFJ and INTJ)

[@wiegraf9009]

For a while as an INTJ I made dating decisions based on the idea of "running the numbers", figuring that I just needed a large enough sample size to get a good match. At another time I tried dating women with as different personalities as possible to find a good fit based on maximum variance. Eventually I just happened to realize a good friend of mine was a great life partner for me and we got married. Emotional intelligence is the biggest uphill battle of my life, but I think I'm starting to get it!

[@chadjenkins4876]

The koala survey 🤣 I'm dead

[@Gry42]

I don’t think I would ever call someone to ask them out, it would be way too akward. I would rather send a text, or talk to them in real life. But that would probably also be akward. But again, imagine me asking someone out, as if that would ever happen. -INTP

[@FlamingCockatiel]

I don't get why so many people hate phone calls. It's immediate, and you have more vocal cues to figure out things.

[@masonelectric8328]

@@FlamingCockatiel I pick up on things easier when i can see the person. talking to a black box with a disembodied voice coming out of it is a little awkward for me.

[@freregregoire2685]

@@FlamingCockatiel INTPs are not good with "immediate". Or "vocal cues to figure out things". Decrypting meme pictures, on the other hand...

[@GermanTaffer]

@@FlamingCockatiel INTP and phone, this is real disgust. No feedback of the mimic, no body language, no clue if my last sentence is really so idiotic as it is supposed to me. I think nobody had been aware that I actually was "flirting" with her when I tell her excitedly something about the boring billion i.e. 😂

[@DreadCanary]

Damnit, Kristin! I was all set for saying how relatable the ENTJ sounded (I don't HAND them a puzzle, the test is whether they realize the conversation is a puzzle) and then you nailed me to the floor with the actual strategy I consciously use to get over crushes (INTJ feeling SEEN)

[@aoblues145]

In my defense, as a INFP, imagining all those relationships and conversation is really helpful, it works like a simulation which I run usually far enough to see that it will not work out and there is no need to pursue it in the reality. There has litterally only been 3 people in my life and mind who survived this simulation enough so that I would want to make efforts to make it a reality x) and only one has any romantic compartiment attached to it.

[@supersoup4672]

Y dis so accurate actually?

[@mjprozac]

I enjoyed how the ISTJ remarks about why he’d care about the persons weekend followed immediately by the ISFJ starting her conversation that way. Nice touch. The ISTJ has a good emotional translator in the ISFJ :)

[@inigma_X]

ENTJ here... I was like, whatever. Kristin is wrong. I never gave my to-be wife a lis..... er uh. Well actually... wait a sec. I DID i DID i DID yes, I can't believe I did give her a list! I had her over on the second "date" and printed off beforehand a list from a Christian dating website I posted a year prior to ever knowing or meeting her, of what I was looking for in a wife - and I can't believe I'm saying this, but I actually asked her if she matched any of the items on it (and to be sure, I already previewed the list with her in mind, prior to her arrival)... and before she could object, I proceeded to read them. In the end, she was just silent. Nodded, thought probably I was weird, probably was a bit glad she met 98% of the list, but in her nice ISFJ way said "that's a nice list. are you sure? I mean, I'm not REALLY into becoming a missionary's wife, and I really don't want to go to Africa. But that's a ... that's a ... nice list." And to think, now that I know MBTI, I may have only won her heart when I first said the word "list" (as she is an ISFJ though and lists are their thing) without ever having to read it heh. Married now 19 years and going.

[@QuotesArticles]

Ah it’s so easy in the dreams for an INFP! But to make it a reality takes a lot of courage, confidence and sleepless nights! And causes lot of stress because of the fear of failure/ rejection!!!

[@peytonhawkins1244]

I'm an INFJ, and I feel so called out by this...

[@brandiek82]

Video Idea: Each type's theme song! Maybe sing a line or two in character! 😄

[@dearkristin]

This is a great idea! Thank you!

[@Ennpey]

"Yes, I happen to have a koala brother and koala sister. How did you know?"

[@summydots]

Let me ask my manager

[@ilveyouful]

Okay as an ISFJ I was just cringing the entire time because I've not only done this with crushes, but friends who didn't really care about me too. I was pinching the bridge of my nose the entire time 😢ISFJs, we gotta promise we will leave this energy behind in 2022, we deserve better Edit: Need me an ESTJ lol

[@maggis0]

Holly crap: the INTJ line is actually what I have once said to the guy I had chased for 3 months... Kristin - your insight is as fascinating as it is frightening.

[@mirnarodriguez4599]

INTJ here, this year I went a visit a couple of people who I thought I had feelings for. I was really pleased with myself as I discovered the first one to be idealization but to my bad luck, even if I tested the second one to find something disappointing or any red flags, my analysis is that actually she is as a human I would like to be with. So yeah, now my obvious strategy is to run away and try to kill my feelings with fire :3

[@welcometovibespace5596]

Damn I thought the one I related to would be ESFJ for the they love to help with the little details stereotype, but it was actually my type ! Remember: If you want an excuse to hang out with someone, say you want to help them with school work! Works sometimes! ( It also guarantees that you both won’t be bored, and that pained expression when they wanted to bring someone else too is too real 😭 )

[@JokerCrowe]

I *never* mention to people "things I've noticed about them", because.... yeah, that'll happen.. Not that I stalk my crushes or anything! **hides facebook search history**

[@misterwolf3817]

ENTJ asking someone out by creating the game of "Who wants to be a Millionaire?" but on Hard Difficulty.

[@AnnisaTheWolfie]

The INTP one is had me dying of laughter 😂😂

[@amysiebert4752]

Yaaas! As an INTJ, that is so accurate! I really hope I do meet someone that meets my expectations, because they are incredbiley high, and I'm just hoping someone who meets those standards even exists.

[@CineShinya]

The first joke of ENFP was actually in Blackadder Season 2 XD I have been trying from the moment the ISFJ clip played to convince myself I wouldn't be THAT much of a pushover, but then I remembered my crushes and I was like aghhh... ok I may have been... I mean... I can't relate to the tickets thing and giving both to them and their friend... (even if I did buy 2 lottery tickets by my crush to support her and her ex bf's job) but the main idea, yes... we sacrifice too much for others' comfort. Great work as always! Have happy holidays!

[@twitzmixx8374]

INFP couldn't be more accurate. When I read the title I was like, “How bold of you to assume I have the guts for that.”

[@professorlongfellow5902]

As an INFJ, I can confirm that this is true, as I have actually done this before.

[@alienorkano8539]

Your INFP was so accurate I'll have to lay down and cry for a few hours....

[@dearkristin]

😅😅😅

[@sunchips18]

Okay, first of all, what is a “pregnant pause?” 😩 The INFJ one is very relatable. Of course, I’d never slip up like that. The “J” stands for “Just so you know, this ain’t amateur hour. *airhorn* 😎”

[@runningfromabear8354]

A pregnant pause is another way of saying there is a loaded silence.

[@ihaveaname4109]

I actually considered doing what the ENTJ did once. Luckily, I decided against it. I have a feeling it wouldn't have gone well.

[@marielleferrando1091]

This was me (entp) casually getting my current bf by the sentence "so wanna be my bf or what?" He was too cuteee and told me "uhm wait! This is too sudden are you sure? We just know each other for a week!" And me replying to him " so what? I need a concrete answer! You don't want a fine woman to be your gf?"

[@trevorfrayne6418]

I'm INTJ. I usually don't ask because my perfectionism gets in the way. Yeah, your INTJ was perfect. Lol

[@noheliavarela8641]

Yeah, ENTP always keeping things chill and acting cool. Be mean with them, that’s the key😂

[@glueball214]

Just one little letter, a T to an F, and I'd be free .. no .. still can't polite smile INTJ

[@nospecialmeaning2]

Just one letter, F to T, and I will be satisfied with my brain :D

[@glueball214]

@@nospecialmeaning2 where is the freaky Friday technology when you need it 🤔

[@blackbird1543]

I just scream internally when I see my crush. Then thank God I’m a girl so I don’t actually have to worry about it. - a shy INTJ

[@Someone-rb6tg]

It hurts how much I can identify with the ENFP- I always make these kind of jokes in front of people I like, but I often act like they're really just jokes, because I'm afraid the other person doesn't like me back. It gets pretty complicated when both of us make these jokes and I'm not sure whether she's really just joking or whether she does the same thing as I do.

[@jeraldyutakachan1877]

As an ENFJ I would say that, never the other way round 🤣

[@evebyul]

I'm an INFP (I think) and I definitely want to do something like the ENTJ's test but with more emotional stuff...😊 Also, for the INFP...😢😭iknewit😭😢

[@Tilnaor]

as an INTP I feel offended and doomed at the same time

[@Minotaur-ey2lg]

INTJ is close, except that I inevitably disappoint them when they realize that, yes, there is a deeper side to me, and, no, they don’t get to see it.

[@TheAdhdGardener]

That INTJ tho 😂😂 that's what I said to myself when now hubby asked me out

[@sourgrapes7482]

INTP WAS PERFECT. THANK YOU FOR NOT USING THE ROBOT STEREOTYPE. Entp and infp were also relatable, and intj was like a punch in the face

[@YouilAushana]

As an INFJ, I want nothing short of a deep intimate connection. I feel for ISFJ. That was "cold-blooded", how they not only got rejected but played like a mark.

[@jameskirton4469]

GURL !!! You’re acting skills are INCREDIBLE!!!!!!!!

[@dearkristin]

Thanks! 😁

[@Nami-dq3ox]

Your INTPs are always my favourite.

[@bridgettelair370]

I've never asked anyone out but I've been asked out once (as far as I know, kind of oblivious to that stuff). It was with a letter that was way too long and emotional and I had no idea what to do with it, I think I would've preferred a direct approach like the ENTJ and INTJ here.

[@aamanderr]

I think we need a separate video of the INTP doing a follow up survey

I might try the ENTJ method... sounds nice and efficient and I totally sympathize with the istj "unfeeling" struggle

[@summydots]

There's something about ENTJ - ISTJ and ESTJ - INTJ pairs we tend to relate to the other or like something about it, even though we ourselves are not like that

[@HaHaHaLMFAOtv]

Right, ENFJ once again thought manipulation managed to find the answers they were looking for!

[@Memeee__]

Call??!! Naah thanks, I'm good without a date. Didn't even call my crush after that person specifically asked me to... 🥲🥲 ~INTP Also, I guess INTJs are my soul-siblings!

[@ReinhardMcKinky]

"Casually marry." I too enjoy saying "casually *insert anything that should never be considered casual in the slightest*". The way some people casually make decisions perplexes me. I wonder if that's a perceiver thing, or maybe just about Ni specifically. 🤔

[@xuananator]

This is a dream and I’ll never talk to you so instead I’ll go experience romance vicariously through books and movies until it makes me sad so I start dreaming about what it would be like in real life and repeat the whole process over again.

[@Smallmesa]

Idk if you will see this comment Kristin but these videos are like 10x more funny than Frank James

[@FlamingCockatiel]

As someone who enjoys puzzle video games, especially Nancy Drew games (except the MIS train wreck), I'd give ENTJ's riddle a go just for the sake of the riddle. I enjoy ESTJ's commitment to orderliness.

[@justynap5031]

It's so good to see you, we missed you Kristin ❤❤

[@dearkristin]

Thank you 😁

[@ceilinh6004]

Props to the INTP for coming up with that survey on the fly. I know that was hard for you, and that you will never be able to bring yourself to dial that number again. Because Caller I.D.

[@restlessmosaic]

That Carebear collection tho