16 Personalities Before a Date

16 Myers Briggs Personalities Before a Date
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[@FrankJames]

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[@meenaliyer8724]

Frank James i love your vids

[@mariek.474]

Please wear the dragon shirt in the next live 🐉🖤

[@idontknow2965]

@frankjames Can you help me out?

[@sandybeach8596]

I think we have to wait until after Corona virus to date now :) Oh heck...forget the date, as soon as Nepal re-opens to visitors I'm trekking.

[@elnara1]

That dark blue jacket and purple shirt look so good on you😈

[@Thebrighteststarintheuniverse]

INFJ:Plans the bf/gf stage, the proposal, the marriage, children's university Also INFJ:Wait I have to date him/her?!?!

[@timetraveller3076]

This is so accurate and hilarious until I have tears

[@mariek.474]

"my intuition will tell me if they're the one so after that dating is just kind of an awkward formality anyway, right ?" 👀

[@idontknow2965]

@@mariek.474 what really is intution?

[@mariamagdalenands]

This is so true!

[@purpura7053]

omg this hit me like a boomerang, so accurate

[@johndalenino]

INFP: practice 20+ potential conversation pieces in the shower before the date, including date's potential responses, and anticipates it won't end well

[@ecchinacea]

Too true

[@thedevulherself]

are you me?

[@Sweetsurey]

I'm INFJ but I always relate with INFP :) so i feel you in practising conversations

[@ecchinacea]

@@Sweetsurey A lot of us INFP's resonate a lot with INFJ descriptions as well

[@joeyhensley9199]

Yes. And the experience is usually what we anticipated. Most of the time. Some minor details may be different. GF continues to surprise me, though. She is also am INFJ. I love you, "H2".

[@XD-ej6dd]

INFJ : what is the point of dating when we are all acting fake? How is he/she gonna see my real self if I don’t even know who I am?! *cries in identity crisis*

[@neffada]

Ikr

[@rmsttnc2958]

INFP can relate too ☹️✊

[@gothmedli]

yep...

[@XD-ej6dd]

@Green Leaves I’m sorry I didn’t know and I typed the comment from my point of view as an infj

[@elixirlove2062]

narratee x Yassssss!!!

[@havenlepire3500]

Me as an INFP: "That's a wicked cool dragon shirt, I'd wear that. Probably not on a date, I'd wear a nicer dragon shirt..."

[@Takisan111]

I'd try to coordinate the design with what I think my date would be into. It would serve as a conversation starter. Even if they don't like it, I'd still come away learning something about them so I could choose a different design should we decide there will be a next time.

[@kkibela]

Its true... That shirt is ugly af 😂😂😂

[@Hannah-pi7ts]

I'm more of a dresses with a "low key elven princess vibe" kind of INFP, but yes! 😆

[@innanninna]

lol this truuue. I wore a voltes 5 tshirt on my date

[@shaunrussell4558]

🤣... I thought the exact same thing Adriana Lepire!! A nicer dragon shirt with a sweet blazer or soft cardigan on top! We INFP’s know how to impress our dates with killer fashion and make them feel more comfortable at the same time!!🤪🙏🏻♥️

[@lilysider1733]

“If she doesn’t like it, she doesn’t like me!” I mean, yeah. Exactly.

[@lampyrisnoctiluca9904]

It's a test. Is she ignoring the T-shirt or does she like it?

[@Takisan111]

@@lampyrisnoctiluca9904 But how are you supposed to know? What if they never say anything or even hint one way or another? You can't very well ask outright because if they feel put on the spot they might just say something nice as a way of placating you. How you respond to their lack of response can radically change how they feel about you.

[@lampyrisnoctiluca9904]

@@Takisan111 It's simple. You are wearing your coolest t-shirt on a first date. If your date says nothing, it is a bad sign.

[@mancarena4497]

I. K. " If you don't like my oddish personality, than you don't deserve me".

[@lampyrisnoctiluca9904]

@@mancarena4497 It is more about : "If you don't like my personality, it's better not to go out on a second date." I think that when people are pretending to be someone they are not on a first date, they would continue doing the same until their date finds out the truth. This kind of relationships don't have a high chance of succeeding. I think that it is better to be yourself on a first date and get dumped, than to be dumped three months later for the same reasons + lying.

[@Jajinkah]

I love how awkwardly he holds the roses. Also, let's be honest, everybody knew when INFJ started talking.

[@rx500android]

Yeah tbh

[@susanlisson7066]

Absolutely ... the overthinking, introspection & over analysing was the hint. lol

[@hypeable8418]

Dude was holding out roses like he's trying to apply as a contestant for "The Bachelorette"

[@SmittenKitten.]

I'm an INFJ, and the guy I ended up marrying is an ISTP, so the first date was... Interesting... We ended up watching Se7en while lounging on his bed and not talking much. Oh yeah, he drove me around in his sports car really fast for a little while, too. It was pretty much the best first date I've ever had.

[@officialname9817]

No tbh

[@acharris]

The INFJ perfectly explains why I suck at dating. Always overthinking things, then get too self critical, then go through with it anyway

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Hehe, yeah. A curse maybe. I torture myself with questions like those on a daily basis. + Others... 😓 I can't help it. Of course I wanna know if it's worth it to spend time and part of my life with this man or if he would get bored after X years. Cuz if he will, I don't even wanna date him.

[@DePieks]

"This shirt? What, what's wrong with it?" Me, an infp: Aww, I like your shirt! Infp marker: *Pops up* Me: ....Ah. Ah yes. That tracks.

[@Lolubellule]

Same here XD

[@nikolaiquack8548]

Saaame XD

[@unorthodoxyoyo]

Also guilty.

[@nikolaiquack8548]

@@Lileiny Most of my t-shirts (a solid 90% of them) include some kind of movie or tv series reference and artwork. I just love that shit.

[@WitchHazelTea]

I did the same thing.😂

[@katiedemassa8746]

INFJ: Living is easy with eyes closed - misunderstanding all you see Date: ...so, do you have any hobbies?

[@linn6882]

Katie DeMassa It’s getting hard to be someone but it all works out

[@emmastar020]

ENFP: *falls in love immediately*

[@user-ji5yc4ii2f]

It doesn't matter much to me :')

[@FrankJames]

😂👏

[@AnaLu07]

@@emmastar020 How do you fall in love??!!! I'm an INFJ,i'm 18 and never fell in love!!!Even if i want too,it just doesn't happen!!!! How do you do that??😆

[@jinx1034]

0:00 ISFP 0:11 ENFP 0:19 ISTP 0:30 ENFJ 0:47 ENTP 0:56 ISFJ 1:11 ESTJ 1:28 ISTJ 1:43 ESFJ 1:57 INFP 2:04 ESFP 2:10 INTP 2:22 ENTJ 2:34 INTJ 2:42 ESTP 2:52 INFJ

[@juanitajordan985]

Hey none of that. Let them watch the whole thing. Muahaha

[@jinx1034]

@@juanitajordan985 you want me to delete my comment?

[@juanitajordan985]

@@jinx1034 it was a joke. Hence the evil laugh at the end.

[@marscantrell7775]

i love people like you 🤍 y’all are the goats

[@mariachiara6528]

An ENTP thanking you here

[@daftne11]

Lol oh noooooo, that INFP 🤦‍♀️ "if they don't like it, they don't like me" I may or may not be completely guilty of saying this exact phrase.

[@tenthousanddaysofgratitude]

Who likes listening to sad music and has 2 thumbs ENFP here - same

[@Odysseus1999]

I’m guilty as charged.

[@uwillneverknowwho5232]

YES same djhfjdhdh

[@lettuce01]

I have too! Maybe not shirt-specific, but if they can't tolerate my general clothing, or other things like music taste, hobbies, or whatever, there's no way they love me.

[@daftne11]

Drew Smith Oh yeah, it's just that mentality of staying true and authentic to the self; very take it or leave it, but this is who I am kind of attitude. Of course this is a super exaggerated example and super funny, but it's important to note that eventually, if we INFP'S want a really solid and beautiful relationship, learning to be flexible and willing to adapt without losing ourselves in a relationship is paramount.

[@brittanypage1706]

As an INTJ female. I've had this EXACT dialogue countless times.

[@sina0134]

WOW the rarest mbti for girls is INTJ. 0.8 percent I guess. You are special

[@PenguinSebs]

Ditto lol

[@riou1999]

Agreed. - fellow INTJ female

[@pb8301]

Agreed,fellow intj🖤

[@liliesofthefieldyt]

Another INTJ lady here! We’ve all had this internal dialogue.

[@mariek.474]

Always so accurate, "Are they just into me for a hookup or they really want someone they'd let look into their souls and share a sort of journey with ? " - INFJ 😪

[@desireez5740]

Yeah right? Constantly, constantly concerned that the dude is really just looking for a hook-up. And most of the time they are, or at least that's what I'm picking up on. Incidentally, I no longer date. I have friends.

[@mariek.474]

@Desiree Zeller I totally agree ⚰️

[@juanitajordan985]

Awww

[@ChriH.]

As an entp I can agree.

[@creispy_chu]

Marie K. As a person that isn’t an infj, I also think of that. Mostly since I prefer to be with who I can talk to and be vulnerable with, not someone who’s there because they need me to fulfill their lust. Or you know, whateva.

[@creispy_chu]

The infp one was hands down annoyingly adorable for me. -istp

[@raifn799]

Adorable huh

[@mryellow4633]

I wish people would stop fetishizing the infp personality type. If you think you know/understand us, you don’t.

[@oichii6938]

@@mryellow4633 What the hell is wrong with you lol

[@nagi_7]

@@mryellow4633 I don't think people are fetishising INFPs?

[@mryellow4633]

@@himitsu4 Nothing inherently wrong with his comment so much as it is a cumulation of comments over all of Frank Jame's videos, and the overall image of INFPs as a whole. We are adorable, cute, smol, crybabies who need our innocence protected. Bull. Fucking. Shit. Hence, if you think you know us, you don't.

[@sunnyblue1163]

Them: Just be yourself. Me (ENFP): Ha. That's cute and all but you're not ready for that. I appreciate the thought though.

[@sutyinszkializ9115]

Him: "How are you still single?" Me (enfp) : "You are just about to find out" 😀

[@bellyfulochelly4222]

@@sutyinszkializ9115 😂😂😂😂😂 Oh my gosh thank you I needed that belly laugh!

[@christinewind6459]

Sunny Blue lol my husbands an ENFP & I thought I knew him until we got married...😅😄

[@Takisan111]

I'm an INFP and I felt that one too. People always say it's ok to say what's on your mind and just be yourself until you start a rant about something you're passionate about and now they are slowly backing away. This is why talking on the internet is better than talking to a live person.

[@Julsies7]

People see one of side of us as enfp’s: either the silly side or the serious pseudo philosopher, but rarely do they ever see both sides if we don’t fully trust that they’ll accept or understand both sides. This is why I’m single - I have yet to find someone who I can be both of those sides with :/

[@aash8356]

as an infj i confirm i think about that even when i do not a have a date

[@curiouspotato8113]

Me too, even though I'm an INTJ

[@TsukiNaito1]

I've never had a date and I've been thinking about it for the whole nearly 27 years I've been on this Earth. ... Is it possible to be TOO INFJ?

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

I know 😭

[@mancarena4497]

INFP: "If You DON'T like my ODDISH PERSONALITY, than you don't deserve ME" That's kinda weird, but it's true

[@naaitxo]

Omg infp on point... How many times I've said some similar sentence in my life. Or "whoever wants to get close to me will accept me for who i am i ain't pretending to be someone else".

[@stvbrookie]

This may be the biggest INFP common denominator: our disgust and outright refusal to wear masks.

[@PhotoRubio]

(INFP) I did just that and wore all my leather wrist wear (tasteful amount yet noticeable) and she can't get enough of them. Baited my hook and reeled in another INFP!!

[@miirasaika6437]

@• Yune • a very good option that we probably should consider. Fellow infj here

[@Lea-dq2uy]

@@stvbrookie i though you were talking about the type of masks that you have to wear due to covid... i was about to start an argument for a second😂🤦🏼‍♀️

[@stvbrookie]

Lea 😂

[@stvbrookie]

Ok this may be the most accurate INFP take ever. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve worn a fandom/nerd shirt in new situations, just to purity test strangers and keep them at a distance.

[@allieoneal2033]

Are we the same person?

[@thebluepineapplephoenix101]

Same omgsh

[@realsidmation]

As an ENFP, I like infps a LOT!!

[@thebluepineapplephoenix101]

@@realsidmation my enfp friend got jealous of me because we had a mutual infj friend who he was mad i was closer with than he was and he ditched me cuz he also got bored of me :/

[@patriciarose2342]

YESSS the test. Oh gosh I grew up testing strangers in the weirdest ways.

[@majuupacheco]

Me, an INFJ: can we just hang out and get to know each other without the pressure of being on a date and trying to impress each other?

[@ellan1664]

Literally. I’ve never been on a date but I feel like I’d rather get to know the person and become super close friends over the course of a year first

[@CT--jv2ur]

Now, wouldn’t that be nice..

[@latiie]

@@ellan1664 EXACTLY!!! I've always viewed dates as shallow, without any meaning and a waste of time when you could use that time to do the things you love instead! The right person will come to you when the time's right after all.

[@michellekingsbury9347]

It would be nice to be honest, dates feel a bit too forced. I'd rather the connection happen naturally.

[@MINIPRO27]

We tend to choose a partner that can meet our requirements in the long term plan for the future, so if it works or not so be it. -INTJ

[@WarriorJournals]

Yep, and in my head I'm thinking, if only all these feelers in my life knew how I actually pick partners... Oh how they'd complain about my "shallowness". 🙄🙄 You mean "logic-ness"! Man's gotta fit my long term! 💪🏽✊🏽😄

[@reynasoraten5553]

relationship is a long term investment, I'd say.

[@elnara1]

So true. My friend is INTJ has certain requirements for his gf. Little things can turn him off

[@christaastika2684]

Too accurate - INTJ

[@jm4868]

Hello

[@elizabethheyn5365]

"Let's meet after lunch" my version of “7ish”. It is what i hear a lot when I meet up with friends and that is so vague. What time is lunch? 11:30, 12:00? 12:30? Some people eat lunch at 2. The breakfast menu at McDonald's changes around 10, so anything after 10 can be considered lunch, yes?

[@trash_bin_ishome4150]

Think lunch is officially considered to start at 12? So everything after that up to MaYbEeE 18 or so could be after lunch. Just expect to go out around 14. Yeah. That's what after lunch prob means. About 14 o'clock

[@9Geeple]

You people are difficult - signed, the ENFP :)

[@UnderTheEndlessRain]

chances are if they give you a vague time, they are not picky about exact times so you can just follow up and say something like "sure, around 1:30pm?" and be there plus-minus 10 min maybe? that's what my friends and I do we never follow exact times it's just stressful

[@jeremytewari3346]

McDonalds does all-day breakfast

[@filipsgrand]

I'm like that and I'm INTP

[@kiaraetsuko3523]

Bold of you to assume that me as an INTP would have a date

[@filipsgrand]

I'm INTP I've had a few dates with girls who were interested in me because they thought I was smart and confident. Unfortunately, they've come to realize that my confidence is just the result of thinking about what to do in simple everyday situations and that I'm going to choke on anything outside the script.

[@dollymarie3660]

ENFP yesssss!!!! I'm always like, okay, what parts of me do I tone down to make them not think I'm crazy? Lol

[@acharich]

😅😅😅😅😅

[@realsidmation]

Tell me too when you find out

[@fatimabaria8052]

So truee

[@bobm128]

RIGHT!!!

[@michaelajacobsen3619]

any sane person would immediately get away from me "being myself" if they don't know me.. They still might...

[@jesfields1269]

INFP me... recently went on a first date, at a beer garden, wearing my old Star Wars tee... yup: Authenticity is 💯 !!!! 😆 stay cool and attractive on this frisky Friday, FJ!

[@inescapableisolation8844]

INTPs on a date? What kind of miracle has happened? This is super inaccurate!

[@alishaabani83]

Yeah that's what I was wondering

[@invisibleninja86]

Hey, I'm an INTP who semi-recently got a dating app and I've been on lots of dates! Second dates...? Yeah not so far. :) haha

[@user-tb7ju5zz2q]

Even dating on app is too much for me 😂I can't everyday talk with someone, I have my own stuffs to do..... I mean yeah (wasting the time in other things)

[@lola-9220]

@@invisibleninja86 hmm, you sure you're INTP then? jk haha :P

[@d.r.e.7689]

what happened is they asked us, online lmao … cause god knows we aren't asking anyone

[@devanshigupta7567]

"I can be a lot" - - ENFP. Ohmygod soo truee. I am soo extra all the frickin' time. Being myself is being over the top crazyyy

[@Chigger]

Be prepared to hear crazy connections and puns galore.

[@devanshigupta7567]

@@CrappleFartini hahaha and thank you for being such good listeners. What would we do without our favourite introverts?

[@TheClonesBuir]

I tell people that even if I’m not going on a date. 😂. Oh man us ENFPs are too much. 😂

[@devanshigupta7567]

@@TheClonesBuir We're wayy too much. God, someone put some boundaries on us or something. It's hard to not be so awesome (or obnoxious, depending on the circumstance) all the time.

[@TheClonesBuir]

Devanshi Gupta right! I have told my coworkers that if they need me to stop, then tell me (nicely). I also think one of my coworkers is also an ENFP too. There are two of us. 💀 😂

[@TheVintagePiano]

16 personalities on the bachelor/bachelorette

[@mariek.474]

Where did you even find the dragon shirt ? It's magical.

[@TheWaterlily2012]

Yes, love the shirt too!

[@gillybby4143]

Ikr? Second date material right there if a dude rocks up wearing a kick-ass shirt like that.

[@mcalad6255]

INFJ mind: well well... I hope I don't look too weird on this one 😬! Oh and please remember to avoid touching the childhood trauma topic... in the first two hours 🤞

[@katherinejoy9048]

Yes 😂

[@AnaLu07]

😆😆

[@purplepartytigerd1598]

At this point I'm making a reputation for myself of being a weirdo on purpose. If they can't handle the crazy then adios 😆

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Pff, blew that one. Talked about childhood trauma as soon as we got past the what's your name, age, etc...

[@sarahrcurley]

Ours or theirs? Usually theirs 🤣😂

[@Crazy_Eevee]

As an ENFP, that was very accurate! We're not fake, we just have a really REALLY deep personality, and we simply adapt it according to who we're talking to, otherwise it might scare people out a little bit, you know...

[@freidenkerin5198]

100%. 👍

[@Chigger]

Me: *Sees crazy-colored striped shirt* Me: That's ENFP, I can already tell.

[@blackmamba6046]

It's funny cuz i'm anENFP female and I don't fit into this bright colored image, I wear mostly black and grey (but a lot of bling, crystals and applications and it's gotta be original) but that "being too much" or completely unhinged is so me hahahaha.

[@Chigger]

@@blackmamba6046 I usually wear a lot of dark colors, too, but Frank likes to assign the crazy shirts to the ENFP.

[@levi-o-sanotlevi-o-sa3829]

Believe or not, ENFP can wear a lot of black and dark colors that come from the deepest part of our soul. Not that you care though. 😁

[@realsidmation]

@@levi-o-sanotlevi-o-sa3829 don't tell them well hidden secrets

[@levi-o-sanotlevi-o-sa3829]

Sidmation okay fine

[@jeanineels]

I love being INTJ!! *I CAN'T LOSE* 😂😂😂

[@emyf9197]

Saamme! This was very accurate!

[@christaastika2684]

Couldn't agree more - INTJ 😂

[@hichopoch4960]

Lmao we have Superiority complex but honsetly we are the best XD

[@ladybluelotus]

Exactly!

[@LPark-el2qi]

This is too hilarious.🤣. I’m an INTJ and I’ve actually said what he said before going on date. I absolutely hated the dating process.😂🤣

[@brigiish]

I’m learning a lot with you I get better and better guessing the type. Also, I just love how accurate the INFJ is to me every time.

[@matthewmcree1992]

So right, every INFJ scenario is spot-on. Except that I avoid dates altogether (single and haven't been on a date in 6 years). God that's sad 😔 We are way too complicated as people even for ourselves. INFJs really are just walking contradictions

[@sandypuentes866]

@@matthewmcree1992 We certainly are oxymorons.

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

@@sandypuentes866 😆

[@catchingstars7]

ENFP here! This is so accurate! It's somethin my friends have told me, that I'm afraid to be "too much". Precisely that is difficult to dose because my xNFP type is so sensitive to the 'mood' in a room. Also I'm most attracted INTP en INFJ and INTJ. Why? Someone can't be the same extraverted intensity as I. Competing energy of this magnitude will exhaust me. I want one I can be alone with, but together. I like Intuitiveness that matches with mine. The T and J are both handy in decision making processes, which is my weakness. For me, connecting to anyone is easy... but those connections will be superficial and all their ideas are true at the same time. I want someone whose fair judgement I can anchor myself and my energy to, but only if this person has the depth to back it. Dear INxx types, when an ENFP happy social butterfly like me appears... grab your net and catch me! Dive into deeper conversation and I'll keep coming back. Deep conversation is conversation about things either of us is passionate about, no matter how strange. Good luck. xx

[@9Geeple]

catchingstars - I want to be your friend! Go out together - I have been with E type husbands (eep) and boyfriends and now Crushing on an I person who may also have some J. I can freaking bounce things off the guy, rather straightforward too. you're ahead of me. i like being ENFP - guess I better . The crush needs to not freeze up in front of me (factual here folks). It happened to me with him and we both burst out laughing at it - hilarious speechless moment! Later

[@sutyinszkializ9115]

ENFP here and I feel the same way. 😀

[@matthewmcree1992]

As an INFJ, I can say that the ENFP/INFJ relationship really is just meant be. You ENFPs are complex, fun, spontaneous, and importantly for us empathetic and passionate about making the world a better place, while we tend to be empathetic and complex, but kinda overly cautious and not spontaneous enough, and afraid to put ourselves out there even though we love people and want friends. ENFPs always appreciate our viewpoints and push us out there to do things that are good for us, while we help them to focus more specifically and narrowly so they finish things more often, and often inform/counsel them on various things as they ask for advice. Quite frankly, we are compatible as a kind of a form of yin and yang that don't clash but rather collaborate and harmonize. Even in the functional stack, ENFPs and INFJs have the same functions in the same order just opposite in the context of introversion and extroversion. INFJs have the primary function Ni while ENFP are Ne, secondary Fe vs. Fi, tertiary Ti vs. Te, and inferior Se vs. Si. It makes for great conversations. I have a complicated semi-romantic but mostly friend relationship with an ENFP who lives incredibly far away, and he is the only person I can talk on the phone with for 8 hours straight without getting bored. It works because he has intense passion for a life and is an extreme extravert, while also being an extreme intellectual. He will bring up one interesting thing after another (a very Ne sort of thing) and I basically go deeper into that subject, and he allows me to flesh everything out even if it's a straight up long monologue, and we go onto someone else. And at the end, we both always feel as if we learned something (or a lot), in a form of essentially catharsis. Also, my sister whom I live with is an ENFP and we just click. She's super fun and insanely charming and giving, almost excessively empathetic towards people and cares ultra-deeply as I do about social justice of various kinds, and we just kinda balance each other out as siblings and as friends. Considering how well I always get along with ENFPs, it would not surprise me if my future spouse or partner ends up being one. ENFPs, you make the world a better place by bringing raw emotion, positive energy, compassion, and love to it, and we INFJs need you to save us from ourselves.

[@laurensohee]

This whole thread is super relatable 🧵 ❤️

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Stay away from Infj in a romantic way, please! You are gonna make us go mad and drain us every freaking second! Just stay away, just be that crazy friend we interact with once a month, cuz more often that that would be too much. Get an extroverted partner that can keep up, you unicorn! 🤭

[@tenthousanddaysofgratitude]

Might as well wear a sign around your neck that says: “Hi! My life is crap, please laugh!” 🤣 Love the delay on INFJ title: Cuz we all be knowin’ and lovin’ him. Thanks for the laughs, FJ! 💖

[@user-ji5yc4ii2f]

I grew up thinking I was quite a weirdo. Thanks to FJ's videos I know I'm just an average infj

[@fariza01]

Noah fence but that doesn't make you less of a weirdo

[@rhyliemasons7957]

But at least us weirdos can band together... from the safety and comfort of our own homes.

[@firespawnie537]

Infj=weirdo XD

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Felt the same till I found out about MBTI and Infj. Practically it changed me life. So welcome to the family 🤗🤗

[@SophieTheFish77]

I’m having a date in a couple hours. Ur timing is creepy.

[@david2the80s]

Same lmao

[@Gloomysushiroll]

Congrats and good luck!

[@SophieTheFish77]

Gloomy thanks :)

[@DeathSurgeonKid]

Good luck dude, you'll rock it! Have fun! 😊💪🏻

[@reynasoraten5553]

😂😂😂

[@roosa4520]

It's hard to believe that INFJ's are the rarest personality type when all I ever see in these comment sections are INFJ's lmaoo

[@elnara1]

Robe I thought about it too

[@yayalu8650]

because it’s more likely for infjs to stay at home surfing the internet, and when they find something relatable, they’re overjoyed and commrnt

[@roosa4520]

@@yayalu8650 yep thought so

[@AnaLu07]

Because Frank James who runs this channel is an INFJ,and as we want deperatly to know ourselves,we come here to listen what he has to say about our type!!

[@sac3958]

It's because half the people claiming to be one took that stupid free test that said they are but really they are not.

[@katy4523]

ISTJ - SHE TOLD ME TO PICK HER UP AT SEVEN ISH. WHAT IS ISH???? I felt this in my soul 😅😂

[@MissJ970]

Infj is on point. Is he going to see the real me? That’s so me!

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

I hear ya🥺

[@anamikaojha2645]

We don't even know how to express ourselves becouse every character that we living are real for us😟

[@jaeshell]

16 personalities vs COVID-19

[@Plo0669]

Yes

[@vpoppies]

😀😅 that would be fun!

[@ingridap09]

Lol, YES! We need to see that 😂

[@vikeesilver9908]

YES OMG I NEED TO SEE THIS

[@Disturbed101Fan]

He just made a video explaining 16 personalities under quarantine

[@apurvadeshpande2366]

That's true. - an ENFP.

[@Fedr0910]

I agree on that too(I am also ENFP

[@emilyhinely9140]

INFJ: The coronavirus panic is giving me an easy out of dating anxiety

[@jillianbell2566]

I said exactly the same to my mother: now I have am actual excuse for not dating, or even leaving my house. It's like an INFJ's dream. Only not, bc this is horrible. But still

[@MysterySolvingLady]

Haven't been on a date yet, but as an INFJ, I imagine that's what it would be like.

[@puffink.1388]

same

[@LinnsenPrinsen]

the ENFJ trying to figure out who they voted for was tooooo true ahhhhhhhhhh

[@sashamotovylets1753]

Why is it important to ENFJ? It’s interesting that INFP is a perfect match for ENFJ but we can’t even be bothered with that kind of stuff. Would that turn the ENFJ off?

[@Medscopee]

Yaahh! So we can know how dumb they are if they voted for the dumb one😂. ENFJ hates dumb people.

[@lorel747]

@@sashamotovylets1753 nope it definitely wouldn't turn them off

[@johnyrocket0015]

@@sashamotovylets1753 no if you just tell us to stop being so intense so often we’ll work on it.

[@NotaRealnam]

The INFP is really funny! Yea, just wear your everyday clothes to formal events and if they don't like it then its considered a personal attack! XD

[@nikolaiquack8548]

The question is: Should a date be considered a formal event?

[@DafaIdham]

@@nikolaiquack8548 Maybe, Because that's actually not looking good for outdoor activities. especially when you take the date at a fancy restaurant

[@nikolaiquack8548]

@@DafaIdham How is a normal t-shirt not good for "outdoor activities"? And I would never go to a fancy restaurant on a first date. That's a snorr fest.

[@DafaIdham]

@@nikolaiquack8548 I'm just saying. Shouldn't have been questioning the formality of an event though.

[@lampyrisnoctiluca9904]

The shirt is a test. Watch her reaction.

[@HeVn7LaO]

The INTJ in me... "I have excuse not to do it again"

[@qwertyCandy]

That's why I love ENFPs - they are always a lot and it's awesome ❤️

[@freidenkerin5198]

🥺🥺🥺 Naaaaaw you melted my heart! Deeply appreciate it! 💖

[@juliaromero7512]

this is too accurate for INFJs. It has always been hard to trust someone (relationship wise) because what if they just like you at first glance but when he gets to know you deeper, he'll suddenly back off because, idk, maybe he doesn't like me anymore or, maybe I'm too much for him, or perhaps maybe too 'less'? Like would he like the way I eat, or they way I look in the morning. Would he accept my insecure and over-thinking personality or would he be annoyed? 😂 Okay im going to shut up now.

[@nav2054]

That ENFP is so relatable 😂😂 "I can be a lot" 😂 Btw I'm INFP

[@realsidmation]

Hey I'm ENFP!!! Can Totally confirm that

[@BrandonKaida]

ISTP I already know the answers to the questions you're going to ask me. Can't we just skip that part.

[@acharich]

LOL ur comment & the example sound just like my INTP friend.. 💭💭💭

[@bijayapokharel730]

Its so true me 😂😂😂

[@blackcatlady2172]

As an ISTP woman, I don't mind asking YOU the questions. Just don't ask ME.

[@melancholic174]

@@blackcatlady2172 Oh My Gosh. That's soooo me.

[@yasminebadri6775]

The INFJ was like mE having thoughts before texting my crush huh...sad story 😂

[@Hydranox]

The INFP is pretty damn accurate! Lol. We’re not trying to be nonchalant about it we just want to be genuine!

[@patriciarose2342]

But actually we are pretty nonchalant.

[@susannahnutkins7278]

I am INFJ and my fiancé is ENFP and this is so accurate. We are continually reassuring each other we really do enjoy each other’s true and full personality.

[@cynefinlynn1931]

As an INTJ, I can say confidently that I would never go on a blind date in the first place. But if I did, I would definitely be looking for any excuse to never do it again.

[@thomasswrisky6734]

INTJ here. Last time I asked a girl out, it was watching the Niagra falls all lit up at night. I was rejected, and I haven't tried anything for the last 7 years. I think I am a better person for how I spent those years, and in about 4-6 years, I will enact my fool proof strategy to attract a mate.

[@Emmaloveshorror]

As an ENTP I can confirm the accuracy of ‘I haven’t even met her yet and she seems like a big old snooze fest’

[@ajpage8616]

PREACH

[@Gee-xb7rt]

Wanting to go to happy hour on a date she's obviously a cheap alcoholic Karen. Not a match. We end dates before we start them, put all that intuition to good use!

[@MsWill813]

Zzzzzz

[@yobiyobi8138]

Honestly, the groaning in despair at the end was more accurate for INTP than the actual skit 😂 (That or the INFJ lol. Relate too hard.) - INTP

[@alicecourte2085]

Yobi Yobi been in the same situation. 🙈 Me: saying something philosophical My date: So what’s your favourite colour? -Intp

[@MsWill813]

My bf does that every time he needs to drive me somewhere. So I have to listen to it every month...

[@XxJaxxyBellexX]

Correction: 1.5 hours late - INTP

[@dacoolad]

it’s kinda a range of 15-60 minutes for me tbh

[@ChristopherWaddelow]

I try really hard to be on time, so I am either fifteen minutes late, or thirty minutes early.

[@gokulskumar7156]

2 hrs late entp

[@acharich]

💀💀💀

[@Rita_Arya]

Intp here. I'm not generally late, like max 15-20 minutes. That's socially acceptable where i live. if I'm gonna be later than that i like to inform the person, or else i feel guilty And unless they're plans with my best friend, I don't like sudden planning. I need to be mentally prepared so tell me way in advance the time and place😅

[@flyingorb8441]

The day I go on a date I'm going to come and confirm the infj point, until then it's nap time.

[@Julia-pg7cl]

You should definitely do ‘16 PERSONALITIES VOICE MAIL TYPES’! I would be sooo interested to hear that!

[@mostfrozenburrito]

Holy crap! I’m an INFP and you got it spot on!! Whenever I’m going out anywhere, I’m just kind of like “It doesn’t matter the way I look, it’s who I am” and that pisses my sister off to no end but you nailed it!

[@polalak2]

I 100% agree, but it's not sister but my mom

[@christinewind6459]

As an INFJ female I’ll be more like nervous and excited at the same time. Then before I get there, nerves come back and I gotta take a moment to breathe and calm down in the car. Then walk in super confident with a smile and have a calm, cool and collected night. 😎 Then when I get home, over analyze everything. 😆😅

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

🤣🤣 that is me in a nutshell! 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻 This is freaky of how accurate it is!!!

[@anamikaojha2645]

Right tatally relatable to me that over analysing process my god

[@fiorellalescano]

What is ish? When people can't tell me an exactly hour I start the same questions and then causes me anxiety.

[@amrumufid2218]

Then you should come visit my country. There is no such thing as 'exact time' here :)

[@fiorellalescano]

@@amrumufid2218 Turns out that time is an illusion. Thanks for your suggestion. Hahah. Where is that?

[@alicecourte2085]

This could be me but somehow I always seem to realise that I’ve been on a date after it ended. (intp)

[@Raev222]

ME lmaoooo

[@sashalevine4865]

😂 that is so accurate to how my husband (intp) and I got together! So funny

[@cinthiagoch]

Yeah, that's what happend to me and my husband (an ISTP). I've only realized a couple of days later the real reason why our friends ditched us last minute at the cinema. And he was trying so hard to be cute during the movie... It went completely over my head, poor thing.

[@evafluff]

The sweater itself represents an ENFP 🌝👀

[@lizl1407]

ENFP = Ernie (from Sesame Street)

[@otterworkscreative7473]

:: glances over to closet full of colorful stripes :: ... accurate statement 🙈

[@Brooklynbaby47]

😂😂😭😭👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻👌🏻🙈🙈so true

[@acharich]

I love hoodies.. lol

[@blackcatlady2172]

That ISTP weary sigh... I felt that.

[@LishaWorldRuler]

Running 2 hours late for a date? Yeah, I feel seen...and exposed. Timeliness is an attribute I've never posessed. #INTP

[@trash_bin_ishome4150]

It's a whole miracle you're going on a date be happy!! 😂😂(intp as well)

[@seventhsheaven]

ENTP and same, honestly.

[@jayj5535]

He didn't even complete the first sentence & I knew it was INFJ gdammnn

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

👍🏻👍🏻🤭🤭🤗🤗

[@Cam-my9jb]

Me on every date ever or after flirting... does he actually see who I am? Or does he just like the character I've presented to him... what even is my character? 😩

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Exactly. I hear ya.

[@susannahellmuth81]

FINALLY some extremely accurate relatable ENFP stuff 💖

[@kaylagadaleta4196]

How is it always so accurate I-

[@thamutha]

INFJ You forgot rule number 15 when it comes to romance : No love or personal relationships

All of the ISFP lines you do are so damn accurate. 😂 Before you reveal the type, I'm like 'yup, that's gotta be me!' 😂

[@Luna-luna909]

The INFJ depction is pretty accurate. That is exactly what I worry about, and I'm a female. What really hurts is when you try to articulate these worries to someone they just think you are either stuck up, overthinking, or an absolute alien. And I be like, thanks for adding to my worries. I already feel like an alien, and now you confirmed it.

[@littlepearlsofrandomness]

I swear that the INFJ always happens to me!

[@justthatnoodle]

as an intp, that is honestly me every time i go to a formal occasion

[@melissaphillis7247]

My husband suggested 16 personalities and how they'd do their funeral.....ENTJ that actually watched your vid!

[@jessicadanielle4872]

The last first date I had was with my ESTJ husband of 11 years. He later told me he called the restaurant beforehand, let them know this was special, made sure we had a table for two off in a more private area of the restaurant, he had them hold a rose for me that he gave to me upon arrival...he was earlier than me and I’m a punctual person. INFJ me: Before I went on the date, my thought was, “does he just like what he sees on my myspace? could he ever like me for who I really am? I need a glass of wine to survive this.” (Not recommended they will think you’re an adorable ENFP or something). -had a glass of wine, got married, had our son, did a lot of dishes in 11 years-

[@quirogatnonerrat3214]

Whaaat?! An Inch with an Estj?! You are hold hostage now! Tell me EVERYTHING!!! PLEASEEE Ian an Infj and only had horrible experiences with an Estj, him trying to cancel my persona and mold me however he wanted to, throwing fights whenever I would not have the same mindset as him. Please tell me more about your relationship, pros and cons. Please

[@jessicadanielle4872]

@@quirogatnonerrat3214 well, as an INFJ everyone is easy to read especially ESTJs. As INFJs we have a wisdom that surpasses the sensory world. He sees me as insightful and I do teach him a lot. He is very practical so definitely gets frustrated in general at mine and everyone’s overall lack of quickness and efficiency in the physical world but I’m driven so I do my best, always staying productive. ESTJs, well at least mine, have a fun side, they like vacations, couples massages, exercise, watching comedy, and relaxing with good meals. I make light and jokes of his rigidity and sternness. He also has a great sense of humor. They are very charming to the world. Be yourself and if the ESTJ doesn’t appreciate you then they are just not your person.

[@schlaubischlumpf211]

Normies: how are you supposed to hear a word? Me, an intellectual FJ viewer: "it's fanTASTic!"

[@jyothishkumar3098]

What?

[@sandromercadobustinza6339]

As an ENFP when they ask me to just me myself I just think "Ok, that's nice an all, but like which of my personalities do u want to see today?"

[@Theorphan81]

Knew the ENFJ right away, only have to try and figure out everything about them before we can confirm the date!

[@stephanieschmid3396]

ISTJ was spot on! Words an ISTJ hates to hear when making plans: maybe, whenever, & anything ending in “ish”. It’s like “I’m looking at my planner & I need to write this event down next to a time slot, so I need a straight answer here!” 🤓

[@xXxplainJANEjonesxXx]

2:52 I love watching these and pretending I don’t know mine comes at the end and then being super excited when it’s my turn and he freakin nails it.

[@fariza01]

Bruh Frank be looking at the time without wearing a wristwatch bruh HE HAS AN ORGANIC WATCH IN HIS SKIN BRUH!

[@SargenSmee]

Yes, thank you for explaining the problem with saying 7ish!!! from a relieved ISTJ.

[@kibossz9789]

I've never related so hard😂😂. That 7ish thing drives me crazy

[@lilly-aliyah]

as an enfj-t, i feel extremely called out for the stalking lol

[@natalierudin5689]

as an infp wearing a huge snoopy shirt right now with absolutely no shame, i feel VERY called out

[@pooch7449]

oh that infj part 😂😂

[@Coolman13355]

I'm an ISTP whose never been on an official date, but yeah.

[@GrayGoosey1134]

I'm an ISTP too and same. I went to wingstop once but the guy was a dick

[@creispy_chu]

Dates are exhausting, who has time for that?

[@retronrad7846]

@@creispy_chu relatable af

[@e-l-z7956]

I have, and find being a 'good listener' works pretty well. Ask questions and you won't have to answer as many of them.

[@user-gd6il5zb8l]

why even _have_ an official date when you can simply spend some time together and then maybe have some friendly sex? from the moment the thing becomes official people suddenly turn into morons with fake everything and try to do something they don't even want. it's ridiculous. the whole point of the thing is to enjoy a company of someone else. so just grab the person and have a few lols. you'll figure out all the rest from there.

[@luizafernandes1032]

I'm an ISTP and i immediately knew which one was me, this one is so relatable.

[@fiorellalescano]

"If she doesn't like it, she doesn't like me" So next time, wear your FJ t-shirts on your dates and see what happens. 🤔

[@Raev222]

If she doesn't like FJ we don't like her. Periodt.

[@christineherrmann205]

This is why now, post-30, EVERY FIRST DATE IS COFFEE. No one has time to waste on two hours of anxiety and high expectations and plummeting to Earth and sh*t.

[@happyliberia3110]

FJ: (3:14) *checks non-existent watch*

[@heatherbryant4197]

Him: "You're always late!" Me: "Well, at least I'm consistent!" 😅

[@SenseInsanity]

ENFP spot on 🤣 I got this told by naive potential partners many times, I'd just openly say "Are you sure?". This would always make people's eyes grow bigger, it is pure joy to see, and that is just a start. Then I gently deliver modest train of thought as a test.🤣Oh I'm having so much fun on dates. Embrace the weird, fellow ENFPs!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@averagegirl9108]

So accurate! I'm like INTP, but the INTJ and ISTP sounds relatable. The light blue and black outfit looks SO good in you! 💖

[@maunder01]

ENFJ is spot on!!! 🤣😆👍🙌