16 Personalities Proposing

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Frank James

Frank James

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@FrankJames
@FrankJames 3 жыл бұрын
That cheesecake just looked too good... Limited Edition Ugly Holiday Sweater! ❄️🎄🎁 infj.me/store
@josiahtaylor7967
@josiahtaylor7967 3 жыл бұрын
It's not ugly. It's cool.
@BriarEstelle
@BriarEstelle 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my goshhh! A proposal ahhhh🤭! So excited 👏 Please tell me the ring somehow fell off the cake and was not digested lol
@ZeniferJenZ
@ZeniferJenZ 3 жыл бұрын
Yes ! 😂
@ClubENTP
@ClubENTP 3 жыл бұрын
@ ENTP. He Failed To Mention That The Wedding Would Take Place In Front Of A Jury Of Their Peers. I Rest My Case
@trinaq
@trinaq 3 жыл бұрын
Haha, how do you miss an entire ring?! 💍😂
@cherylgaffordmarriott1427
@cherylgaffordmarriott1427 3 жыл бұрын
True story -- my INTP husband proposed with a PowerPoint presentation. How appropriate.
@breezymango4113
@breezymango4113 3 жыл бұрын
Hahaha.😂😂 Sorry. 😅😂
@makaniwebb9358
@makaniwebb9358 3 жыл бұрын
My first thought was, 'that's a good idea.' I'm INTP, by the way, and female, so I am unlikely to end up using that idea, but I still think it is good.
@lightscamerakpop8144
@lightscamerakpop8144 3 жыл бұрын
@@makaniwebb9358 why not as a female? I mean as an intp I am open-minded.
@louisejoel
@louisejoel 3 жыл бұрын
Did it come with a list of pros and cons
@makaniwebb9358
@makaniwebb9358 3 жыл бұрын
@@lightscamerakpop8144 It is possible, just perhaps less likely than if I were male. For one, confidence issues. For two, indecision. I need to be absolutely certain and know he's certain and have all the information before I would feel okay with asking. That would probably take longer for me than him. For three, I'm not expected to, so I don't have to awkwardly ask and experience the tension of 'will he say yes?' 'is he okay with this' 'am I overstepping?' 'should I run?'. This means it would take a while for me to decide to do it. Even if I end up deciding to, the male partner would likely get to it first. Which sucks for this hypothetical male, because my answer would probably be 'give me a few days to think about it' if he catches me by surprise. (My parents discussed it ahead of time, but I don't know if that's how it usually works or if my parents are outliers.)
@katerinachelmis568
@katerinachelmis568 3 жыл бұрын
I’m an INFJ engaged to an INTJ and he didn’t even beat around the bush from the beginning of our relationship. He said “look I’m tired of things falling apart on me so if you want to date then you need to decide if marriage is what you want first” As an INFJ I was so relieved I cried
@dhisufiroafrozenseraphimdragon
@dhisufiroafrozenseraphimdragon 3 жыл бұрын
That's smart. That's one of the first questions I plan on asking any man who's interested in me.
@evgenia
@evgenia 3 жыл бұрын
Instant keeper; people giving a damn about trying and growing together will outgrow, lazy romance.
@stuff1784
@stuff1784 3 жыл бұрын
LOL
@jazminhdz8073
@jazminhdz8073 3 жыл бұрын
Omgg being honest thats the best proposal for infj, you can stop overthinking and things are planned❤️❤️ i love intj great partners and friends for infj
@kittyblossom7342
@kittyblossom7342 3 жыл бұрын
That's how Ni works... And us, INFJs, we appreciate the certainty of the future.
@trinaq
@trinaq 3 жыл бұрын
I love INFJ practicing proposing, that IS something they'd totally do, since they're crazy planners!
@Deardahliax
@Deardahliax 3 жыл бұрын
Guilty as charged. I play out imaginary scenarios in my head all the time lmao
@AsianEspionage
@AsianEspionage 3 жыл бұрын
Perfectionist tendencies 😏
@Deardahliax
@Deardahliax 3 жыл бұрын
@@AsianEspionage yes I feel that sooo much. So critical of self but working on it 😂😂
@robertsh.2506
@robertsh.2506 3 жыл бұрын
Well, my ENFP sisters INFJ boyfriend planned to do a beautiful proposing on a ship but ended up just bluntly asking during one ordinary night in an appartement. I guess their will (Ni hero) to keep a person is actually stronger than all these nuances.
@Deardahliax
@Deardahliax 3 жыл бұрын
@@robertsh.2506 there may be some truth to this. My istp hubby now proposed by bluntly asking so I think it does have to do with ni in the function stack
@benbovard9579
@benbovard9579 3 жыл бұрын
I knew he'd pull that hypothetical proposal when it came to INFJ, we just can't catch a break from living out our ideal futures in our minds, can we.
@trinaq
@trinaq 3 жыл бұрын
Indeed, sometimes the reality just can't live up to the fantasy we have concocted in our minds!
@punkbunnee9558
@punkbunnee9558 3 жыл бұрын
I can imagine a very nice proposal for people that are interested in me, because I know what they would like to hear. I would just never really ask them. I don't know if this is really funny or really weird. Even after watching this video
@eljaykayaye1186
@eljaykayaye1186 3 жыл бұрын
I already imagined going all 60's beehive, glittery dress singing baby It's you before popping out the ring on a seaside resort, maybe the Riviera, but that will never happen! That ship has sailed, 🤣 and I'm happy bout it. INFJ don't worry the Moonies can hook you up so relax. 😉
@Mysticfateee
@Mysticfateee 3 жыл бұрын
Honestly sometimes i dream about things and i wish they were the reality of things and not just my unconcious imagination coming up with ideal futures
@RuizaHana93
@RuizaHana93 3 жыл бұрын
[Screams in idealistic] someone help us OUT !
@khushkhan4343
@khushkhan4343 3 жыл бұрын
0:01 ESFJ 0:22 ESTJ 0:31 ESTP 0:56 ENFJ 1:04 ESFP 1:32 ENTJ 1:52 ISFJ 2:26 ENTP 2:36 ISTP 2:48 ENFP 3:00 ISFP 3:10 INTJ 3:33 ISTJ 3:47 INFP 4:10 INTP 4:35 INFJ
@breezymango4113
@breezymango4113 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you. 😊
@Aaron-hh8nx
@Aaron-hh8nx 3 жыл бұрын
Thx
@adilbek.ermekov
@adilbek.ermekov 3 жыл бұрын
Hey, how are you?)
@kathy04
@kathy04 3 жыл бұрын
Thankuu tym-stamper
@khushkhan4343
@khushkhan4343 3 жыл бұрын
@@adilbek.ermekov I'm pretty good, thanks for asking:).WBY??
@TheOne-ix6qc
@TheOne-ix6qc 3 жыл бұрын
INFPs have the whole proposal script already prepared. But then awkwardness gets them and they make it weird af. And go on saying something to make it less weird which is actually weirder. And the chain continues until they realise it.
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 3 жыл бұрын
Wow. You just described every other conversation I have with people out in the wild. 😂 Luckily, it’s not as much of an issue at home because I know that my people accept my weirdness and so I don’t have to prepare a script to try to hide it. But even so, sometimes I monumentally awkwardize moments with my own family 😂
@swordsnorchids1997
@swordsnorchids1997 3 жыл бұрын
Fml lol
@sazid_siam
@sazid_siam 3 жыл бұрын
As I was reading your comment and replaying the situation when I proposed the girl and got rejected (inevitably), I can feel now that I made things awkward. Any suggestions on how to avoid similar situation next time?
@helgaioannidis9365
@helgaioannidis9365 3 жыл бұрын
@@sazid_siam maybe she just was the wrong person? I'm an INFP, too and I've come to the conclusion that because I'm weird I should show who I am to others, so they know right ahead if they like me. Those who do are really great to have in my life and the others are not worth pretending to be something I'm not, because they wouldn't do that for me either. My husband in the beginning of our relationship once said to he couldn't really understand why he fell in love with me, because I'm not his type, I'm complicated, weird and talk to much. I felt I was dieing inside, but put all my strength together and said "well that's who I am and if you don't like it I suggest you find someone that matches your expectations". We've been together for 20 years. He says the longer he knows me the more he appreciates me as a person.
@sazid_siam
@sazid_siam 3 жыл бұрын
@@helgaioannidis9365 thanks for your reassurance on she being the wrong person. I felt the same after putting some thoughts onto it later on. But I am just worried if I would mess some good situations in future by overexplaining on a bad note. That's it. I usually have hard times assessing people's words.
@lisacrews3060
@lisacrews3060 3 жыл бұрын
I'm and INTJ married to an ISTJ for 28 years. Here's how it went down: First 4 months of dating: I made sure we covered lifestyle, financial views, religious/philosophical views, and childrearing views in our conversations-he was fine with that. When it was clear we were compatible he proposed. Him (ISTJ): I want to marry you. Me (INTJ): I want that too. Him (ISTJ): Then we should do that. Me (INTJ): OK Him (ISTJ): I'll take you ring shopping this weekend. I don't know what you like and I really want you to like it. Me (INTJ): OK It was the perfect proposal for us. And I picked out exactly the ring I liked. He was surprised it cost less than he expected. I was EXACTLY the INTJ bride FJ's 16 Personalities as Brides portrays 6 months after we started dating. Not only did I do it my way as a small intimate affair, we (everyone including parents involved) had no debt from it, came in under budget, and hubs and I made a tidy profit from financial gifts. A year later on our anniversary: Him (ISTJ): So you had a pros and cons list for marrying me and you checked off items one at a time while we were dating, didn't you? Me (INTJ): Of course, but it wasn't a physical list; it was in my head.
@yuukivirlin7615
@yuukivirlin7615 3 жыл бұрын
Oh my god how nice .. wish you happy life forever
@queenfofoo7549
@queenfofoo7549 3 жыл бұрын
Wow that is nice 👍
@lavenishere_
@lavenishere_ 3 жыл бұрын
Even tho I don't want to get married, but THAT'S a good proposal for me. -INTJ
@jeremijasskrabas5955
@jeremijasskrabas5955 3 жыл бұрын
My intj brother approves this
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 3 жыл бұрын
This is awesome.
@user-dm6jy5jr9o
@user-dm6jy5jr9o 3 жыл бұрын
INTJ woman here. I told INFP boyfriend the exact parameters of when he could propose to me six months in advance because I could tell by his flushed and nervous behavior that he had bought a ring. He agreed and when he achieved the necessary steps (had some financial things to work out), he sang me a song from Moulin Rouge at sunset next to a waterfall complete with backing track and pulled out the ring. Win / win.
@_Colie
@_Colie 3 жыл бұрын
Holy cow, supposedly I am an infp, moulin rouge is my favorite movie, and the setting? Yes Lord.. I am here crying 😭
@mertz7305
@mertz7305 3 жыл бұрын
Wasn’t Roxanne was it? I hope it wasn’t Roxanne. J/K. Dude sounds like he did everything right. 👍
@tink6225
@tink6225 3 жыл бұрын
either INTXs must have a lot more in common than i thought or im a very idealistic INTP cuz thats exactly what i want
@tyrant-den884
@tyrant-den884 3 жыл бұрын
This is my favorite comment. Obviously I am also INTJ.
@nurainiarsad7395
@nurainiarsad7395 3 жыл бұрын
I also would appreciate having input into the proposal event as enjoying it requires me to pay attention and get into the right mood for it which is not always my default mode. :) wow other INTJ women are so relatable, it’s great!
@stephaniemertz2881
@stephaniemertz2881 3 жыл бұрын
INTJ proposing was hilarious! My husband is an INTJ and when he proposed he literally walked up, got down on one knee and with a ring said "I really need you to take this for me." At that point we had been planning our wedding for 2 months already.😂😂
@lightscamerakpop8144
@lightscamerakpop8144 3 жыл бұрын
And you are which type ?
@wiwider1233
@wiwider1233 3 жыл бұрын
@@lightscamerakpop8144 I wannz know too 😂
@justinestephonie4606
@justinestephonie4606 3 жыл бұрын
First of all, that's romantic AF. 😭
@mertz7305
@mertz7305 3 жыл бұрын
First of all, thank you. Secondly, she’s an ENFP.
@Kimbonessness
@Kimbonessness 3 жыл бұрын
@@mertz7305 are you Stephanie’s INTJ? I see Mertz…
@Luv2Dnce4
@Luv2Dnce4 3 жыл бұрын
My husband is an ISTJ. He proposed and then apologized, because he felt it was lacking. 😆 Him: “Will…you…marry me? I’m sorry, I wanted to say more, but my mind went blank. That was all I could get out.”
@loveisonthemove
@loveisonthemove 3 жыл бұрын
Awwwe 💗 Congratulations 🎉 What a sweetheart. It sounds like he had so much more prepared. Did he say more later or give you a card that shares how he feels about you? :D
@Luv2Dnce4
@Luv2Dnce4 3 жыл бұрын
@@loveisonthemove After I said “yes” (which alleviated his stress), he went into a paragraph of what he’d been practicing. In his defense, we were in a public setting with most of our immediate family nearby. 😅
@dmins117
@dmins117 2 жыл бұрын
What is your personality type
@ryn-bows8249
@ryn-bows8249 2 жыл бұрын
Omg how cute
@chihiro668
@chihiro668 2 жыл бұрын
aww that's awesome!
@cnseref1328
@cnseref1328 3 жыл бұрын
Not gonna lie, INFJ got us in the first half. I was really happy for him and at the same time I was also surprised for his courage and well-articulated expressions.
@vsml333
@vsml333 3 жыл бұрын
I was thinking there's now way I manage to say all with that level of expressing skills and without freaking out, only in my head and dreams haha
@Mysticfateee
@Mysticfateee 3 жыл бұрын
@@vsml333 Right? has happened so many times with other things... I plan exactly what i'm going to say then when the time comes i sound like a bubbling fool because i've overthought everything and get super nervous when the time comes to actually say it
@vsml333
@vsml333 3 жыл бұрын
@MysticFate Yes! I rehearse important conversations, even take notes of the main issues or things I need to ask or address. But at the moment of doing it for real, it's impossible not to feel nervous, strange, like it will never really be spontaneous ...
@kyurei4478
@kyurei4478 3 жыл бұрын
I think a good way not to get too stressed out is to focus as much as possible on our desire for perfection to do something the best way possible to the point where the want to succeed becomes so strong that it surpasses the stress. Our perfectionism isn't always a weak point and it has helped me a lot to be less stressed in my life.
@DiogoChris
@DiogoChris 3 жыл бұрын
@@kyurei4478 I agree, but sometimes it doesn't always work out that way. Sometimes my desire for perfection leaves me with not only stress, but also thoughts of not being capable enough to pull off whatever it is I was going for in the first place. One way I get around is by being doggedly determined that I'll do my best, and accept the outcome, whatever it may be.
@asabio5361
@asabio5361 3 жыл бұрын
My INTP husband (finally) proposed on the beach at sunset. He suddenly dropped to one knee and handed me a piece of printer paper. At the top in small writing : "I could say many reasons why I love you..." All the way at the bottom: "Will you marry me?" My ENFJ self was wanting to see all the reasons filling the huge blank area in between. I had a laughing attack and said "yes." I enjoy how smoothly INTPs can articulate theories and strategies yet how awkwardly they convey personal feelings (I've learned to interpret subtle eyebrow movements as romantic gestures). Loved the video, FJ, especially the INFJ!!
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 3 жыл бұрын
INTPs are too adorable 🥰 Their love is just so simple and straightforward. They’re like, “Of course I love you. It’s just a fact of the universe that goes without saying. Like gravity.”
@whitneyd6827
@whitneyd6827 3 жыл бұрын
As an ENFJ... that kind of stole my heart 🥺 I would've laughed as well. I'm glad you found each other!
@asabio5361
@asabio5361 3 жыл бұрын
@@whitneyd6827 Thank you, fellow ENFJ. ☺️ I've learned a lot from him, since our 1st and 4th cognitive functions are flipped. 🙃
@whitneyd6827
@whitneyd6827 3 жыл бұрын
@@asabio5361 my brother is an ISTP so I know the feeling haha. As adults it's funny seeing us almost relating to each other and then deciding that, no, the other one is crazy lol.
@Ayesha______
@Ayesha______ 3 жыл бұрын
Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww!!!!!!!
@kaylahall1219
@kaylahall1219 3 жыл бұрын
I am an ENFP female, married to an INTJ male. Can attest to the accuracy of this skit. “So, you’ve been the best girlfriend ever, I think you will be the best wife ever. Will you marry me?”
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 3 жыл бұрын
Wow, that’s a dang good line.
@lydialorincova7628
@lydialorincova7628 3 жыл бұрын
Im wheezing🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@siaanand2189
@siaanand2189 3 жыл бұрын
HE SMOOTH
@gladystky
@gladystky 3 жыл бұрын
One of the best proposal lines 🤣
@kaylahall1219
@kaylahall1219 3 жыл бұрын
Then he handed me and empty ring box. 😂 It was my birthday. He took me to a fancy restaurant, payed the piano player (clear piano) to play happy birthday. Then he took me to the capitol building of our city and proposed. Later at his house there was a party for me with my family and then he gave me the ring I front of them. So they could be a part of the proposal but we also could have our own private part of it. He gave me flowers and cake too. It’s been 11 years; and I couldn’t be happier. I am married to the most wonderful and devoted man a girl could dream of. ❤️ I am so lucky! He had a crush on me for five years before we got together. His plots finally found fruition. 😂 I love him with all my heart might and strength.
@alissabeebe4652
@alissabeebe4652 3 жыл бұрын
My fiance just proposed last month. He's an INFP and yes, it was hilariously awkward and I wouldn't have wanted it any other way. As an INFJ, I already had the majority of the wedding planning done before he proposed, and yes, I did ask for a sustainable diamond :)
@trinaq
@trinaq 3 жыл бұрын
Neat, you definitely have the planning, perfectionism and gut instinct down cold.
@Mysticfateee
@Mysticfateee 3 жыл бұрын
You're just the kind of person i'm looking for! Ok so i'm an INFJ male and the women i've been interested in is an INFP female. I'm really curious how things work out from a relationship standpoint becase we aren't dating but i feel like at some point we might. I think the combination of personality types is really interesting and want an idea of how dynamic things are, who's generally taking the lead on things and if there's a lot of arguing when it comes to how things get done etc Oh also congratulations!
@rosalysmartinez2153
@rosalysmartinez2153 3 жыл бұрын
That’s hilarious!🤣
@eunji837
@eunji837 3 жыл бұрын
@@Mysticfateee OMG you're INFJ? Your personality is awesome! (I'm ENFP by the way 🤭 ✨) and INFP people i need to say that they're so beautiful and cute!🥺 INFJ & INFP matchs so good together! i hope that if you two get together your relationship be full of happiness and love! 💕✨💕✨💕
@Mysticfateee
@Mysticfateee 3 жыл бұрын
@@eunji837 Thanks! I imagine ENFP would be pretty similar to an INFP just more outwardly expressive with their emotions maybe?. She is definitely beautiful and cute in her own way i have to agree there haha. I hope so to! thanks for the kind words and blessings. At the moment i try to exude love towards her without making it obvious and awkward by being a good friend; showing i care and trying to help her grow when i can as well as other little things.
@amissingbrick3104
@amissingbrick3104 3 жыл бұрын
INFP here. I told my partner in advance that I’d buy a set of rings as a Valentine’s Day gift. Comes the day, I propose, I’m rejected, and can play it off as being a dramatic way to hand out the rings. We keep wearing the matching set for 6 months until I can’t keep the pain in anymore and admit that it was a legit proposing. 10/10 for accuracy, don’t recommend anyone proposes like that ever
@Mysticfateee
@Mysticfateee 3 жыл бұрын
Ouch... sorry that had to happen to you
@nomadicgamer9466
@nomadicgamer9466 3 жыл бұрын
That's heartbreaking!! T_T Oh my gosh!!
@dianalindeman1644
@dianalindeman1644 3 жыл бұрын
Sad the matching ring proposal didn't work.
@ranazaied3070
@ranazaied3070 3 жыл бұрын
OMG... This is one of the reasons I had to break up with my INFP boyfriend... He got hurt from thing that I didn't think would hurt him but he barely shared... And that made me feel so guilty... He was sweet and sensitive but I couldn't handle feeling like I'm hurting him without even knowing... I was actually happy to hear that he got a girlfriend because that meant that he moved on and that's he's happy...
@siaanand2189
@siaanand2189 3 жыл бұрын
oh... thats rough buddy
@tikaardhany7568
@tikaardhany7568 3 жыл бұрын
That INFJ man did a perfect rehearsal, but when he find that lady (qualified candidate) he might be running away 🤭
@emp9413
@emp9413 3 жыл бұрын
You know it!
@amy9964
@amy9964 3 жыл бұрын
So true!!!!😂😂😂
@coffeeniffler
@coffeeniffler 3 жыл бұрын
tru
@thatman6916
@thatman6916 3 жыл бұрын
It just doesn't make sense, right 🙄
@kyurei4478
@kyurei4478 3 жыл бұрын
So tragic, having the perfect proposal and not being able to convey the speech 😔.
@rubiesofgold7698
@rubiesofgold7698 3 жыл бұрын
My husband, an ISTP, had a file called 'DER' (Diamond Engagement Ring) that he kept for months before he proposed. It housed all of the research he was doing to buy the perfect ring.
@_Colie
@_Colie 3 жыл бұрын
That's adorable
@galaxymilk100
@galaxymilk100 3 жыл бұрын
Now that's romantic INTP here 😂
@user-pk5pl7ox1e
@user-pk5pl7ox1e 2 жыл бұрын
Cute
@ilovechicks2062
@ilovechicks2062 2 жыл бұрын
That is soooooo sweet I am an ISTP too hehe
@chihiro668
@chihiro668 2 жыл бұрын
aww soo sweet
@noemoore879
@noemoore879 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INFJ, and I actually accidentally ended up proposing to my husband without even realizing it. 🤔 He kept dropping hints so I was trying to let him know that it was safe to ask me... Yeah, that didn't come out right... I think I should have rehearsed the interaction a few more times in my head first. 😅 As the girl, I had never once practiced giving a proposal. Clearly that was an oversight! I totally didn't even realize he had taken it as a proposal until several days later. We were long distance (like literally "long-distance" back when it cost a lot of money to call someone who lived an hour away, and we only saw each other on the weekends) at the time and when we talked on the phone later the next week, he said he was so excited and he had told his parents and they were excited and I was literally like, "told them what?" I was completely confused. He goes, "umm, that were engaged..." I mean, I guess the results were the same and it was going to be way too awkward to correct, so I just went along with it. But, if I was going to propose, I would have done something seriously romantic. It wouldn't have just been in a random conversation. Instead, I was apparently engaged for nearly a week and didn't even know it... 🙄 (He's ISFP, if you're wondering) UPDATE: Scroll down to the 8th comment to get the details... (because several of you asked)
@valej9387
@valej9387 3 жыл бұрын
Hahahahahaha this is an amazing story
@recoveringsoul755
@recoveringsoul755 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah you gotta tell us what you said in context. Why didn't he ask? So this was a phone call? Who proposes on the phone? Isn't that as bad as breaking up on the phone? My ex took me to a cheap diner, no ring, no real proposal, and on my birthday, BUT 6 days after I caught him with another woman. It was to distract me. Told him I'd think about it. He later said I embarrassed HIM!! well I could have announced to his audience what he'd done earlier and asked their opinion. Ugh
@valej9387
@valej9387 3 жыл бұрын
@@recoveringsoul755 wow that's truly terrible, I'm so sorry that happened.
@Em-kw4uo
@Em-kw4uo 3 жыл бұрын
I love this story!😂 This is gold!
@LAL7887
@LAL7887 3 жыл бұрын
Oh god, infj here and it sounds like something I would do 😂 including the going along with it because you didn't want to make it awkward Happy it worked for you guys
@jadev8679
@jadev8679 3 жыл бұрын
As an INFP whose wedding anniversary is April 1st, I feel so called out. We'd been engaged for 7 months and had applied for the license in March. Woke up on April Fool's and said, "Hey, do you want to elope today? Nobody will believe us. Haha, just kidding! Unless?" The courthouse clerk even asked us if we were joking. Been married for almost 9 years.
@GnosticXMusic
@GnosticXMusic 3 жыл бұрын
How I proposed... My wife and I were getting ready for the evening, getting changed in our bedroom out of our work clothes and into something nicer. I was sitting on the bed and I just looked at her and said "So, I was thinking...if you don't have any plans for the next 65 plus years maybe you wouldn't mind marrying me". Then she laughed and looked at me and said "wait...wait...are you SERIOUS?!" "Yes. Yes I am" "REALLY?! Of COURSE I'll marry you!" -INFJ
@jamielaw4749
@jamielaw4749 3 жыл бұрын
That is so cute & sounds very infj
@saramelle3001
@saramelle3001 2 жыл бұрын
What's her type?
@GnosticXMusic
@GnosticXMusic 2 жыл бұрын
@@saramelle3001 ISFJ
@chihiro668
@chihiro668 2 жыл бұрын
that's amazing!!
@ZijnShayatanica
@ZijnShayatanica 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INTJ & I have this running joke with my partner [INTP] that, whenever something noteworthy happens, it's because I meticulously orchestrated the circumstances of his life from behind the scenes so that he would meet me & I could set up everything to lead to that exact moment. His reaction is always hilarious, especially if it's particularly mundane & absurd. 😂🤣
@jeremyjean-pierre4977
@jeremyjean-pierre4977 2 жыл бұрын
Like the reverse flash meme “It was me, INTP!”
@annabanna7781
@annabanna7781 Жыл бұрын
🤣🤣 you... this is why we're called the evil masterminds. Hilarious!
@esteralee4749
@esteralee4749 10 ай бұрын
Cute💜❤️🩷
@UnstoppableDuckling
@UnstoppableDuckling 3 жыл бұрын
As an INTJ, I can agree to an extent that most of the actions are preplanned, or already guessed. But similarly, I have learned to acknowledge that many things do not go according to plans, and sometimes you simply roll with the change.
@chihiro668
@chihiro668 2 жыл бұрын
absolutely true
@writerMegNorth
@writerMegNorth 2 жыл бұрын
My INTJ husband did propose by the ocean! It was very straightforward, lol, but my romantic INFP self had, thank God, said enough times that I wanted it on one knee, that he did. Made me cry. We've been married 14 years. 🥰🥰
@esteralee4749
@esteralee4749 Жыл бұрын
Cheers for you❤❤ Wish you and your husband the best❤❤
@Interestking
@Interestking 10 ай бұрын
Oh my god that is so cute.
@monimoobag246
@monimoobag246 3 жыл бұрын
As ISTP I can agree that me and my partner have discussed just going and getting married legally but not having a wedding or telling anyone until the ask when we’re going to get married and go “we already are”
@scone1025
@scone1025 3 жыл бұрын
Smart
@SqueakyIri
@SqueakyIri 3 жыл бұрын
lol So practical and economical. 😆
@bluesteel8376
@bluesteel8376 2 жыл бұрын
That is so perfect. As an ISTP I view the wedding to be the biggest reason I wouldn't want to get married.
@saramelle3001
@saramelle3001 2 жыл бұрын
I totally agree- intp
@monimoobag246
@monimoobag246 2 жыл бұрын
@@bluesteel8376 agreed, too much effort and waste of money. Would rather spend it on building a home workshop of something, anything, even remotely more useful
@sapphosmagicalgirls
@sapphosmagicalgirls 3 жыл бұрын
I'm INFJ and I can confirm we're the most romantic people we just need partners to whom we show all of the romance
@ti9erlilly
@ti9erlilly 3 жыл бұрын
INTJ cracked me up. My INTJ husband proposed to me at his 30th birthday surprise party 6 months after we had gotten my engagement ring together, and 7 years after we had our first child. He straight planned everything to a T, 💯. As an INFJ, I'm lucky as all hell he did. Lol
@esteralee4749
@esteralee4749 10 ай бұрын
Oh, I'm so happy for you 💚💙🩵💜
@duglife2230
@duglife2230 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah... I can fully relate to the INFJ one. I have never practiced proposing to a girl before, but I have definitely thought of what it would be like. Despite never having dated anyone... ever...
@calebfoxhoven31
@calebfoxhoven31 3 жыл бұрын
I love the INFJ one. My little sister an INFJ and she did the cutest thing ever. She wrote a letter to her future husband and left the letter at a hotel where you can take a book if you leave one behind. She left the letter and is waiting for the person who finds it one day and falls in love with it. So creative and sad at the same time. I'm an INTP and related to mine as well. Terrible anxiety from the texting.....
@Pink7omy
@Pink7omy 3 жыл бұрын
INTJ IS SPOT ON! On the bright side INTJ’s tend to be the most loyal ones, once we make plans for someone…and decide if we like someone…our plans don’t change, only the environment. And we plan ahead to make sure there is no failure.
@nadiarosalesorozco6430
@nadiarosalesorozco6430 3 жыл бұрын
Unless that special one betrays us, and though it hurts a lot, they will no longer be in our plans.
@Jooney91
@Jooney91 3 жыл бұрын
Oh, there is possible failure if you miss important detail. Which happens a lot. But yes if we decide to commit, we hardly change the decision, we are very loyal.
@kuramacabre
@kuramacabre 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I have my life planned along with my current boyfriend, but I also have plan B, C, D, etc. of he leaves, cheats or dies. I must be prepared for any eventuality.
@arthurhouston5685
@arthurhouston5685 3 жыл бұрын
As a INTP getting married in itself is considered a reckless move. I agree I ain't buying a ring until I get a definitive answer. I see no better way to do it than text. Phone call is going to have to be a no for me.
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 3 жыл бұрын
Yup. My INTP husband made sure I would say yes before he “officially proposed” with a ring. It’s just the smart thing to do 🤷‍♀️
@nurainiarsad7395
@nurainiarsad7395 3 жыл бұрын
INTJ here. movie proposals always leave me anxious for the protagonist because i’d be distracted wondering if he can return the ring if she says no. culturally here, the couple would have had a discussion of intent and the boy would have had his family send a formal delegation to her family to agree a date etc coming with fairly low stakes gifts. then only when everything is confirmed would the wedding party arrive with the expensive stuff like jewelry. hollywood movie ‘romantic’ proposals therefore always feel financially risky to me!
@Springfairy92
@Springfairy92 3 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend is an ENFP and I laughed because he has told me he will get me a nice ring once he finds a better paying job and pays off his debts. Lmao accurate
@truepenny2514
@truepenny2514 3 жыл бұрын
OMG the infp. “If you’re going to reject me, I didn’t mean any of it.” Can confirm.
@dipsydoodle7988
@dipsydoodle7988 3 жыл бұрын
He asked her if she ate that whole cheese cake like he already knew the answer. 😂😂 But he loves her anyway. How romantic. 😊
@punkbunnee9558
@punkbunnee9558 3 жыл бұрын
ISFJ are so romantic and forgiving. Until the breakup. Then the cheesecake is tossed into the argument tearfully because they worked hard on it and didn't get to see you eat it
@dipsydoodle7988
@dipsydoodle7988 3 жыл бұрын
@@punkbunnee9558 noted! 😂
@punkbunnee9558
@punkbunnee9558 3 жыл бұрын
@@dipsydoodle7988 not a literal cheesecake... Well... Probably not a literal one. They could make a break up cheesecake to get you to eat that one front of them.
@dipsydoodle7988
@dipsydoodle7988 3 жыл бұрын
@@punkbunnee9558 😅
@eljaykayaye1186
@eljaykayaye1186 3 жыл бұрын
I was actually feeling the ring scrape the inside of the throat and writhing with pain calling the ambulance and just, oh god no. How fast she gobbled it up. You have to push that out with your tongue and Mom was right chew slowly bad kids!! No rolling pin emoji found 😔
@artixi3291
@artixi3291 3 жыл бұрын
I thought INTJ was INFP until The word "plan" was brought into the equation.
@khaila9962
@khaila9962 3 жыл бұрын
Same
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 3 жыл бұрын
That INFJ proposal speech to Firstname Middlename Lastname was freakin’ beautiful. Firstname won’t be able to say no. 🥲
@kuramacabre
@kuramacabre 3 жыл бұрын
I am an INTJ in a long term relationship with an INFP. This is how things are going: Him: I love you so much. Me: Me too. It seems we will eventually get married. Him: YES! I have been eyeballing some rings. Me: Oh, I don't like surprises. Can I choose my own ring? Him: Good idea, I didn't know what to choose. Me: What if we exchange engagement rings to signify that there is no hierarchy in our relationship? Him: Sweet! ... Him: But I still want to make a huge deal of the proposal. :C Me: Alright, do as you please. Me: (Still gets prepared because doesn't like surprises). I will update on how things go.
@Shadow-zf5uc
@Shadow-zf5uc 2 жыл бұрын
Update?
@Interestking
@Interestking 10 ай бұрын
Update? This sounds adorable and amazing and I love it and I want to learn more.
@esteralee4749
@esteralee4749 10 ай бұрын
So sweet and adorable💚💙🩵💜
@uniscorch
@uniscorch 3 жыл бұрын
Oh god, it's me. INFP, decided to propose, planned it all out perfectly and romantic and awesome to go out on the first snowfall at the ice skating rink where we had our third date, and then we got there, I got down on one knee, and completely forgot the script, kinda stared at him while waving the ring box at him, and babbled awkwardly until he said yes. Thank god he said yes. Now I just have to not screw up the wedding vows, lol
@isolated.wallflower
@isolated.wallflower 3 жыл бұрын
You are lucky being INFP I also planned to propose my friend at Airforce Museum but she ditched the plan and after some days I proposed her while going for a College and she denied... 😅
@sciencestien5159
@sciencestien5159 3 жыл бұрын
Timestamps:- 0:00 ~ ESFJ 0:24 ~ ESTJ 0:32 ~ ESTP 0:58 ~ ENFJ 1:06 ~ ESFP 1:34 ~ ENTJ 1:54 ~ ISFJ 2:28 ~ ENTP 2:38 ~ ISTP 2:50 ~ ENFP 3:02 ~ ISFP 3:12 ~ INTJ 3:35 ~ ISTJ 3:47 ~ INFP 4:11 ~ INTP 4:37 ~ INFJ
@yohannaderje4024
@yohannaderje4024 3 жыл бұрын
Thanks
@tigermuffin7892
@tigermuffin7892 2 жыл бұрын
Accurate. I, an INFJ, have practiced so many conversations that never happened the way I thought they would lol. And my ISTP hubby mentioned that diamond rings are way too overpriced, and I agreed, so we got a fairly cheaper one, which is more sparkly (moissanite). 😊 ✨ And he challenged pretty much every wedding cost that came up, asking if we really need it and if it really has to cost that much. 😆 I actually appreciate how he challenges the norms and makes me think. He was very sweet when he proposed. He was nervous and awkward, but I was prepared for that. 😉 After a day of doing all our fave things, eating all our fave foods, etc, at sunset, in a gazebo, he proposed.
@Deardahliax
@Deardahliax 3 жыл бұрын
The intp with the texting proposal!!!!!!! Lol I laughed so hard.
@creeperkingdom3190
@creeperkingdom3190 3 жыл бұрын
like imma spend money on a whole diamond ring before I know for a fact your going to say yes.
@Deardahliax
@Deardahliax 3 жыл бұрын
@@creeperkingdom3190 that’s ti thinking right there lmao
@SigFigNewton
@SigFigNewton 10 ай бұрын
If the medium of asking the question is enough for her to say no, you weren’t right for each other
@cb289
@cb289 3 жыл бұрын
Your INFJ interpretations are always perfection Frank. Its a lonely existence lol. But I rock at my social work career and friends love me and people in general come to me all the time. ALL THE TIME for advice and emotional support. It gets freaking annoying after a while though when a part of you just wants to find someone who wants to be with you in a more than friends way. I'm not convinced there is enough time for the frustrating ritual that is sifting through dates that end in "lets go back to being just friends". "Sorry to disappoint but I don't feel the same way". Also I dated an INTJ then we were friends after dating for ages. We were really good friends too until I had to end it because I couldn't stop wanting more (a relationship). But the INTJ proposal is a little scary 😂
@tink6225
@tink6225 3 жыл бұрын
i love that intp is always wearing glasses and standing awkwardly cuz thats exactly how we are
@delaraamroohani
@delaraamroohani 3 жыл бұрын
as an intp im literally always wearing askew glasses that are usually dirty and standing as if im lost in the mall (which i probably am, if i ever go to the mall)
@makaniwebb9358
@makaniwebb9358 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, but without the glasses for me.
@louisejoel
@louisejoel 3 жыл бұрын
@@makaniwebb9358 Give it time (sorry)
@makaniwebb9358
@makaniwebb9358 3 жыл бұрын
@@louisejoel Hopefully not. My vision's remained exactly the same so far. I don't think it will worsen, but it is a possibility.
@jossieb93
@jossieb93 3 жыл бұрын
INTP engaged to an INFP. We went to LOOK at rings and found a good deal. I love how he kept the ring until the next day to officially ask in a nicer setting. Oh wait that's right. He didn't ask 🤣. He just got down on one knee and was like "here you can have it now". All the while I was covering my face, 100% embarrassed. It was so awkward and yet so us 🥰! Edit: According to him his speech was a lot more romantic 😂.
@alinde1
@alinde1 Жыл бұрын
How lovely ❤
@esteralee4749
@esteralee4749 10 ай бұрын
So cute❤️🩷🩵💜
@psiimoth
@psiimoth 3 жыл бұрын
INTP probably took a long time to work up to that point and, can attest, failing a social interaction (especially an important one) is a heck of a detrimental thing
@SeanWainwright24
@SeanWainwright24 3 жыл бұрын
Wife and I are both INTJs and our proposal discussion went something like this: Me: Will you marry me (done in private at our home) Her: Both of our families are insane. Can we elope and remove them from the equation? Me: I think I love you even more now. Her: Awesome; let’s go. 15 years later and we’re still going strong!
@YoursTAngel
@YoursTAngel 3 жыл бұрын
LOL😂🤣🤣
@StephanieJeanne
@StephanieJeanne 3 жыл бұрын
The ISFJ! 😜🤣 "a cleaning process" indeed. Oh my gosh!! You always have to kill us with the INFJ.🥺😄👍💜
@corruptangel6793
@corruptangel6793 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INTP and I can't imagine proposing with a text. Well, I mean, I can but I wouldn't want to go that route. If I ever found someone and learned what love is, I would push my creativity and knowledge of the person and (proposals in general) to the limit and come up with a really unique and personalized moment/scenario to pop the question.
@rishibhakhandurie4206
@rishibhakhandurie4206 3 жыл бұрын
Some ideas for more videos!! - 16 personalities giving birth 16 personalities as uncles 16 personalities as aunts 16 personalities as mean girls 16 personalities as Zodiac signs 16 personalities as therapists 16 personalities getting married 16 personalities falling in love 16 personalities at Christmas 16 personalities at New Year's Parties 16 Personalities as celebrities 16 personalities as Disney characters
@julianagrantzmusic
@julianagrantzmusic 3 жыл бұрын
Love all of these!!
@polygonalduck
@polygonalduck 3 жыл бұрын
Example of personalities as zodiacs?
@trinaq
@trinaq 3 жыл бұрын
Love these examples, especially Therapists and Mean Girls!
@rishibhakhandurie4206
@rishibhakhandurie4206 3 жыл бұрын
@@polygonalduck like when you think of theis pearticular personality, you mostly think of these zodiacs type like when I think of ENFJ it's mostly Saggitarius or Gemini, when I think of INFJ it's usually Capricorn, INFP you think of Pisces (I am INFP and an Aquarius but I fit into the stereotypes about Pisces usually), like that!!
@Sophie-cm2un
@Sophie-cm2un 3 жыл бұрын
@@rishibhakhandurie4206 there are twelve zodiac signs and sixteen personality types.
@ProverbiosOcho
@ProverbiosOcho 3 жыл бұрын
I thought the one proposing in april's fool was SO creative, and it turns out it's INFP LMAO. I am INFP myself and I haven't proposed to anyone. I only did it in RPG. However, I dit like... like A LOT. Since I am an idealist, I wanted to make my person's ideals and dreams come true. It had to be fantastic. I took all of our memories and created a blog for him (both of our characters are male). I put there all the preparations I did, the entire month before proposing. Letters I wrote each day for him. When the day came, I gave this person the link and another gifts via app. I bought a ring and tuxedos for both our characters, and after he read the blog, I would send him to the app where I gave him the ring, and after that I would send him to the app where I bought the tuxedos, so that he could collect all the clues and romantic notes. The day we got married, I filmed 14 videos (14 because I asked him to be my boyfriend in Saint Valentine's day) showing him how I prepared the house that was going to be ours. How I decorated it, how it changed little by little. I did the house in an app for decorating houses. Then I edited a video with a summary of all the videos plus screenshots that are our memories, pictures together, etc. 14 parts, each one with a flower and an emotion he provoked in my heart. I let his favorite flower for the end. This RPG relationship is almost 3 years old now, and we are going stronger each day. I don't know if I will get to propose the same way to anyone irl, but I do know that IF an INFP really loves you, they will be willing to pull all those preparations and romantic details for you. And they will not get tired, because they want so bad to make you an active participant of their ideal life and world. You will be always included in their plans for the future and they will remember every detail about you that can turn a gift into something really personal and deep. Intimate. Fellow INFP, if you read this and you love someone, don't be afraid to take advantage of your artistic skills and abstract mind! You have the potential to create the most romantic and heart-felt gifts and proposals! Love for you💙 Edit: Writing this made me want even more to travel to meet this person. She's a lovely ISFJ and deserves the whole world.
@Laura-ol5mt
@Laura-ol5mt 3 жыл бұрын
This is really sweet and you are very kind fellow INFP 💚
@euniqu
@euniqu 3 жыл бұрын
The RPG proposal thats so sweet. This comment is very sweet. Hope one day you'll meet your ISFJ fron a fellow INFP 💛 Although Marriage is scary for me and i plan on not doing it tbh but Ill probably will do the same thing you did with a game with a game.
@mariap1087
@mariap1087 3 жыл бұрын
You’re an ISFP.
@333DOT.
@333DOT. 3 жыл бұрын
so what game is it
@helgaioannidis9365
@helgaioannidis9365 3 жыл бұрын
As a fellow INFP I sadly have to inform you that not all of us have artistic skills. I'm really not very creative or artistic. I'm not even romantic. But I'm really good at putting others at ease and make them feel loved and appreciated.
@federicanardi7227
@federicanardi7227 3 жыл бұрын
As an INTP the INTP proposal is the only one that makes sense. Efficient, direct, no big fuss, no strangers involved, no embarrassment and not waste of money. I would answer "yep" right away
@freregregoire2685
@freregregoire2685 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah, makes perfect sense. Of course for the other person it might take some getting used to that when there's a new message, it might be a funny meme with cats or a sudden marriage proposal, and conclusions are drawn from the reaction time.
@-_-ok9550
@-_-ok9550 3 жыл бұрын
😂if i ever propose to anyone it would be like this... but then again i don't plan on getting married or even dating. waste of time and socially draining and exhausting.... i can't even fall in love lmao😂😂😂😂
@callmeproteus392
@callmeproteus392 3 жыл бұрын
yessss, I relish the thought of then meeting them having prior sealed the deal and moving on with other matters...
@amberjewell3894
@amberjewell3894 3 жыл бұрын
Also, he was so cute.
@MsWill813
@MsWill813 3 жыл бұрын
As an ENTP I would text back "why"
@christinkunze
@christinkunze 3 жыл бұрын
That INFJ proposal was both so sweet and simultaneously unsettling for me. I'm not good with the feels, haha. If your actual proposal will be like that, your SO is going to be so happy. 😊 All the best FJ! 👍🏻
@BeckyPhelps
@BeckyPhelps 3 жыл бұрын
ESFP: Nice touch inviting the pigeons to witness the event! I bet they were really moved by that! 😁 INFJ: Well that was just sweet and lovely! Awww! ❤ Definitely keep the magic part in there! ISFJ: maaannnn....😬🤦‍♀️
@randomrandi
@randomrandi 3 жыл бұрын
As an ISFJ, I am a big cheesecake fan, but how do you not see a ring on a cheesecake? 😂
@trinaq
@trinaq 3 жыл бұрын
Agreed, surely you'd TASTE a ring in a cheesecake, they're not THAT thick!
@scabbarae
@scabbarae 3 жыл бұрын
Me, an INTJ who has yet to find anyone half as captivating as my fourth grade crush: ...how the FUCK does he do that?!!
@gamermum2.0
@gamermum2.0 3 жыл бұрын
My husband is an Intp and and I'm an Infj. Before we got married he asked if I wanted to date him over text. To be fair, I was in a different state at the time but this is pretty accurate. 😂😂 When he "proposed" to me it was more like you want to get married yet?? (Over text) 🤣 Doesn't sound very romantic but he was very shy about opening up to me and wanted to make sure I even liked him before he proposed lol he's honestly the best husband I could have ever asked for, and we are definitely a perfect match. 🥰❤
@saramelle3001
@saramelle3001 2 жыл бұрын
They call intp and xnfj golden pair
@chairmanrexton956
@chairmanrexton956 3 жыл бұрын
Hilarious! INTP here. Proposed to my wife on a walk in the park. It was inevitable, as I’d procrastinated about it for ages and I finally had to bite the bullet. Partly because my parents were going to visit the country where we live, so I decided it’d be good for our wedding to coincide with their visit. Thankfully my fiancée said yes, and we’re happy together after nearly 18 years.
@romancetag9313
@romancetag9313 3 жыл бұрын
Officially married to an ISFJ. It was pretty much assumed from almost the very beginning of the relationships that we are going to get married. With the whole pandemic situation we haven't had the wedding party yet, so he is waiting to propose 😁 He wants me to choose my engagement ring and it's pretty much up to me when he buys one and when we hold our party.
@sarahhamdan5470
@sarahhamdan5470 3 жыл бұрын
congratulations!!!!
@Sumjae
@Sumjae 3 жыл бұрын
You should tell him to propose with a cheesecake 🍰 😉
@romancetag9313
@romancetag9313 3 жыл бұрын
@@sarahhamdan5470 Thank you 😁
@romancetag9313
@romancetag9313 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sumjae 🤣
@boi5738
@boi5738 3 жыл бұрын
“I will crawl into a corner and die.” Honestly that’s me with anything
@CrazyErzy
@CrazyErzy 3 жыл бұрын
0:42 That's why I was the one who proposed to him. Now he is like a cute tamed wolf. uwu -Female INFP married to ESTP for 12 years and counting.
@adrenalineactivate
@adrenalineactivate 3 жыл бұрын
Of course you would use "uwu" didn't expect anything less from an INFP
@_inky_
@_inky_ 3 жыл бұрын
@@adrenalineactivate I'm an Infp and I'd rather die than use UwU.....Wait I just did wtf
@adrenalineactivate
@adrenalineactivate 3 жыл бұрын
@@_inky_ your an INFP, don't try to avoid it. It's fate UwU
@stuff1784
@stuff1784 3 жыл бұрын
The ESTP one cracked me up so much!! I keep falling for ESTPs and that’s how it goes!
@blackcat519
@blackcat519 3 жыл бұрын
@@stuff1784 how cute
@polvoradelrey2423
@polvoradelrey2423 3 жыл бұрын
FJ in his head: "Should I get a ring for the sketch? Nah, actually it's more funny if the box is empty."
@nicoleforesman9860
@nicoleforesman9860 3 жыл бұрын
INTP here. I didn't do the proposing but I definitely orchestrated the relationship direction perfectly so that he would fall right into my clutches.
@bredbred1630
@bredbred1630 2 жыл бұрын
LOL did u ever find out?
@Ace_Maus
@Ace_Maus 3 жыл бұрын
INFJ was so accurate! I've been single for 8 years BY CHOICE, but also constantly imagine my life with someone else. 😅
@ahealthyskeptic716
@ahealthyskeptic716 3 жыл бұрын
That is exactly how my INFJ boyfriend now husband proposed to me, it is so accurate it is scary!!!
@TheHollyJollyLife
@TheHollyJollyLife 3 жыл бұрын
My husband is an INTP and he proposed by giving me a dozen red roses on Valentine’s Day and writing “Will you marry me?” on the card that came with the flowers. That was 21 years ago. I still have the ring box. I collect them.
@anastasiapedersen1
@anastasiapedersen1 3 жыл бұрын
Funny but not enough sobbing and blushing for the INFP one. :’) if it was me I would probably not be able to stop crying and I’d accidentally drop the ring then have the most awkward laughing fit ever, stumble over my own feet and knock over that something on a restaurant table nearby, THEN after 27 tries finally say, will you marry me
@user-ey4rc5tu4t
@user-ey4rc5tu4t 3 жыл бұрын
Infj married intj here. I think you kind of nailed it. He had been preparing for 10 years. I was going to do what it takes to make it work. Now, take into consideration the narc parents that spawned us, and books could be written.
@iamrainformysun6670
@iamrainformysun6670 3 жыл бұрын
INFJ have really perfect romantic life in our imagination. But reality always speak differently.
@thatman6916
@thatman6916 3 жыл бұрын
Man this reality 😭
@abeda6852
@abeda6852 3 жыл бұрын
The one with the INTJ is just terrifyingly accurate! What can I say?! We love to control every possible factor in our environment; which, at some point, leads to us wanting to control the people themselves
@tahah.babikir7698
@tahah.babikir7698 3 жыл бұрын
ENFJ one was spot on… that’s literally how I proposed to some INFP on a futurely-open note but apparently “she has kids and doesn’t need one more”..
@TheHollyJollyLife
@TheHollyJollyLife 3 жыл бұрын
I don’t know whether to laugh or feel bad for you.
@tahah.babikir7698
@tahah.babikir7698 3 жыл бұрын
@Lunits Thank you..
@tahah.babikir7698
@tahah.babikir7698 3 жыл бұрын
@@TheHollyJollyLife If it was for me, I can be super practical like istps and ESTPs, we have the same functions.. but..,
@jackcolson4745
@jackcolson4745 3 жыл бұрын
I'm surprised an infp even got a date in the first place.
@tahah.babikir7698
@tahah.babikir7698 3 жыл бұрын
@@jackcolson4745 She’s a girl, a lot INFP females have very strong libido when they’re young so they often marry young..
@valej9387
@valej9387 3 жыл бұрын
You've convinced me I need to go fall in love with an ISFJ. 😂😂😂 Love his patience with her. (And tbh, I could totally be that lady who ate cheesecake without noticing the ring.) -INTP
@jacquelinezboran1177
@jacquelinezboran1177 3 жыл бұрын
As an INFJ, I can relate to this, lol! I have my whole wedding and stuff picked out, now I just need to find someone to propose to me. XD
@Sriniket
@Sriniket 3 жыл бұрын
The people I wanna marry do not exist, they are fictional characters- INFJ
@shikhasuman871
@shikhasuman871 3 жыл бұрын
Same. In fact, I almost married them in my imagination. ~INFJ
@GoldenMediaGirl
@GoldenMediaGirl 3 жыл бұрын
Haha ah.... Why is this so funny, yet so painfully true? ..... Excuse me while I get this week's fictional character some coffee.
@Sriniket
@Sriniket 3 жыл бұрын
@@GoldenMediaGirl 😂😂
@Sriniket
@Sriniket 3 жыл бұрын
@@shikhasuman871 other people's crushes Don't know they exist, our crushes Don't exist *signature look of superiority*
@shikhasuman871
@shikhasuman871 3 жыл бұрын
@@Sriniket *Sweg!* 😏😎
@ikasugami
@ikasugami 3 жыл бұрын
My INTJ fiance recently proposed, and thankfully it was not like that! 😆 I could tell he had planned out how to do it / what to say, and he was still nervous even though I already knew he was going to do it. LOL. I couldn't have asked for a better proposal though (me an INFJ).
@MetaGiga
@MetaGiga 3 жыл бұрын
INFP female here. I’ve been happily married to multiple guys that don’t exist and are widely popular in games/animes for years now and our relationships are absolutely perfect courtesy of my self indulgent fanfictions. ... The thought of an actual, legit proposal being done by an actual, legit human being, however, is terrifying and I would most definitely puke from a sheer emotional overload. The idea of a real romance is scarier than any horror movie/game/etc in existence to me and my terrible dating luck has almost doomed me to a forever single life :,)
@kratze1738
@kratze1738 3 жыл бұрын
OMG I relate to this so much. I've been living the single life for over 25 years now, and have come to see it as generally pretty glorious.
@MetaGiga
@MetaGiga 3 жыл бұрын
@Kratze Seriously!!! My terrible luck with dating weirdos has practically set my single status in stone due to how much better it feels. My last boyfriend couldn’t keep his hands off of me, would guilt me if I didn’t go where he wanted, and made me feel really uncomfortable. I don’t want to give up entirely, but the guys I’ve dated really makes it hard for me to actually WANT to date someone!
@teasedale7464
@teasedale7464 Жыл бұрын
So relatable haha being alone and watching other people's happy marriage makes me happy. I can't live without my manga/manhwa male favorite characters. I've been an NBSB (no boyfriend since birth) for 27 years now hopefully until I die. I like men only in the imaginary realm of manga and I'm content with it. Living in a peaceful room alone makes me at ease even for a solitary confinement as long as I have wifi to read manga.
@shelovesrealmadrid
@shelovesrealmadrid Жыл бұрын
Omg same 🤣!!
@zamira9642
@zamira9642 6 ай бұрын
I just read the part of you being married to multiple people and I was like hold up
@animatorireenie8319
@animatorireenie8319 3 жыл бұрын
As a constantly planning INTJ who already thought of pulling this sh!t... Don't expose us. Yeah, can't wait to see the opinion of INTJs who are already married.
@swiftarrow9
@swiftarrow9 3 жыл бұрын
Waaait… you mean INTJs can actually find someone willing to say yes?
@Musicandfilms7
@Musicandfilms7 3 жыл бұрын
Well not many of us are married, I'm an INTJ woman in my 40's and it never happened for me and I know it never will, but maybe it will happen for the younger INTJs
@WolfoxBR
@WolfoxBR 3 жыл бұрын
I'm INTJ, I'm married, and I'm saying nothing. ;)
@wesnohathas1993
@wesnohathas1993 3 жыл бұрын
Don't go shattering the illusion of choice now. It's an invaluable tool.
@makaniwebb9358
@makaniwebb9358 3 жыл бұрын
@@swiftarrow9 My dad did.
@HaHaHaLMFAOtv
@HaHaHaLMFAOtv 3 жыл бұрын
Now that I see the red shirt I always think of ENFJ first. And the “ethically sourced” was a cherry on top! But I would go even one step further and get a vintage one 😂 now, something tells me I need a red shirt, that one actually looks nice 👀👀👀
@quillsoul
@quillsoul 3 жыл бұрын
Yes! It's always the red sweater that has me go oh the ENFJ!
@michellesanjaya1813
@michellesanjaya1813 3 жыл бұрын
INTP is cute as always! I guess "16 personalities doing random acts of kindness" would be great for this season 🎄🎁🎅🏻😄
@sunniharrison9639
@sunniharrison9639 3 жыл бұрын
My husband was definitely intj proposing... he remembered when he first met me but I seriously have no recollection. It was about 4 years before we even met
@imtope
@imtope 3 жыл бұрын
INFP here! Why can I relate to our skit so much? A while back I literally asked someone out on April 1st so that if they said no I could be like "haha, just kidding". HOW IS THIS SO ACCURATE?!
@isolated.wallflower
@isolated.wallflower 3 жыл бұрын
Same literally I also did that with my best girl friend but she denied... 😅
@desertforest2221
@desertforest2221 Жыл бұрын
FJ really knows his stuff!
@ElementalofAir
@ElementalofAir 3 жыл бұрын
How about... 16 personalities as stalkers 16 personalities as criminals 16 personalities when they are at their highest and lowest self esteem. I think that their confidence would present itself differently depending on the type, same with the forms their self-loathing would take
@IzzyKawaiichi
@IzzyKawaiichi 3 жыл бұрын
The INTJ criminals are supervillains.
@galaxymilk100
@galaxymilk100 3 жыл бұрын
I think he did a 16 personalities getting arrested video
@sparklenights5421
@sparklenights5421 3 жыл бұрын
Y e s
@Carol_65
@Carol_65 3 жыл бұрын
I‘ve been waiting for this one, and it didn‘t disappoint!😃😂
@farfaraway4285
@farfaraway4285 3 жыл бұрын
I suggested to my husband that we could get married, no point in waiting when we knew we want to stay together; that I will get the ring coz I can get it cheaper and that he can give it to me when I won’t expect it. Which is exactly what happened. Who says I don’t have the romance figured out?! INTJ
@YeshuaKingMessiah
@YeshuaKingMessiah 3 жыл бұрын
Ah but it IS better to not have it, all the its, figured out. Lifelong I/ENTJ who is recovering now the last 5 yrs-slowly lol I’m almost 57, so anything is possible! Incl *changing ur personality type*, true story
@kuramacabre
@kuramacabre 3 жыл бұрын
I did the same thing lmao. I found a ring that I love for a great price, he just handed the money. I am an INTJ, he is an INFP.
@farfaraway4285
@farfaraway4285 3 жыл бұрын
@@kuramacabre mine is ISFJ, it’s an interesting dynamics as he is sort of a protector of old values and I constantly challenge the status quo.
@Seca95
@Seca95 3 жыл бұрын
Cool! Now you need to make a FEMALE VERSION - the 16 personalities receiving a proposal!! (the INFJ would probably run away even if she were crazy about the guy🥲)
@codreaming9304
@codreaming9304 3 жыл бұрын
As a female INFJ, I agree 😂. I avoided marriage like the plague. Never dreamt of fairytale weddings or Prince Charming sweeping me off of my feet. I could have easily stayed happily single for my entire life.
@queuegameplus
@queuegameplus 3 жыл бұрын
INFJ = The Stare 😂
@justsomenobody889
@justsomenobody889 3 жыл бұрын
INTJ: "Just stop, we need to do a risk-benefit analysis first."
@ketocutie2981
@ketocutie2981 3 жыл бұрын
INTJ - my answer to his impending proposal was prepared 10 months ago.
@freregregoire2685
@freregregoire2685 3 жыл бұрын
INTP: wonders who the other person is talking to.
@anndunamis5338
@anndunamis5338 3 жыл бұрын
The esfp is literally my husband. The intj is what he becomes after several drinks. Lol The first time he said that he loves me and wanted to marry me, I looked at him and asked, “are you drunk?” Btw, the intj in this video is so romantic! Love it.
@delaraamroohani
@delaraamroohani 3 жыл бұрын
oh come on i was waiting for a "sure!" text and then intp's wholesome happiness
@ArtistIntuiting
@ArtistIntuiting 3 жыл бұрын
Love the INFJ, really sweet 😊 and the pausing to contemplate at the end 😅 all a little too accurate lol …I like that you added ''first name, middle name, last name'' 😂 can't imagine that person saying no 😊
@breathingbutnotthatgreat
@breathingbutnotthatgreat 3 жыл бұрын
INFJ spot on! I've been thinking of how to teach my future kids to live in this world while not even having a boyfriend or a person I like.
@pratibharathor
@pratibharathor 2 жыл бұрын
I am fighting for the fundamental rights of a non-existent person😂
@antistaticandi
@antistaticandi 3 жыл бұрын
I am an INFJ who was mistyped as an INFP for ages. I used to see my ISTP partner in the ISTP sketches, but never myself in INFP. These INFJ sketches though, now that I know, they hit me hard. 🙃
@elizabethcochran3395
@elizabethcochran3395 3 жыл бұрын
As an INTJ who just got engaged to an INFP, these are pretty accurate. His trying to plan out a special day to propose, but not really going according to plan, but he did avoid doubting my answer by bringing up marriage previously. As we were actually friends for many years before we even got together, I did foresee how our relationship would progress when I first noticed him but waited for him to come around.
@kuramacabre
@kuramacabre 3 жыл бұрын
Yes, I also made clear to him I want to marry so he wouldn't be anxious. I am an INTJ and he is an INFP.
@Interestking
@Interestking 10 ай бұрын
You are awesome. :3 -an INFP
@Interestking
@Interestking 10 ай бұрын
@@kuramacabre I don't think I know anyone who is an INTJ, but things like this make me want INTJ friends. -an INFP
@kuramacabre
@kuramacabre 10 ай бұрын
@@Interestking yeah nevermind, that relationship was abusive af, his fault mostly.
@Interestking
@Interestking 10 ай бұрын
@@kuramacabre I feel you. I've met two INFPs in my life (one took the test, the other I'm assuming), and both were manipulative and had a lot of mental problems. Granted, I also struggle mentally, but I believe that I can work on myself to be better, and I'm much better than how I was in the past. tl;dr Us INFPs can suck sometimes.
@jaroslaval9159
@jaroslaval9159 3 жыл бұрын
That was just so great! Thank you so much! I don't know whether Frank has met his soul mate yet and he can stop practicing, but I think she will be a very lucky gal!
@claudiafs5812
@claudiafs5812 3 жыл бұрын
ENTJ here, this is sooooo true!!!!! When my fiance was going to propose to me I told him, I was going to look for the ring and I went to different places and at the end we saved probably 70% on the price. My ring is beautiful, gold, high quality!! My fiance was like :O hahhahaha on point.
@tikerlivvy1582
@tikerlivvy1582 2 жыл бұрын
This conversation has actually been a pop up in my head ever since I can think. Can relate so much, Infj
@floridaman45
@floridaman45 3 жыл бұрын
As an entj I can honestly say this video is incredibly spot on
@ITSME-sp5up
@ITSME-sp5up 2 жыл бұрын
5:04 STOP, I LITERALLY KNEW RIGHT AWAY 😭 🚶
@ChiakiNanami736
@ChiakiNanami736 3 жыл бұрын
Awww, INFJ deserves happiness.
@melindachapman9637
@melindachapman9637 3 жыл бұрын
Infj was absolutely hilarious!! Entp was ok!! Your energy is always amazing!! Keep them coming!! Always a pleasure;)
@sonicsakura8368
@sonicsakura8368 3 жыл бұрын
The ENFP was too real. My ex wanted to propose to me on our first year anniversary and we were both so broke and unemployed and in debt 😂
@stuff1784
@stuff1784 3 жыл бұрын
LMAOOO
@vivienlyle13
@vivienlyle13 3 жыл бұрын
ISFJ here and my first thought before watching this was the ISFJ better be crying as they describe everything they’ve been through together while proposing. Maybe they will when they actually get to propose when the ring comes out, lol
@valerielinares2068
@valerielinares2068 3 жыл бұрын
For anyone watching this, proposing over text is NOT okay, for ANY personality type!
@beastlythunder6805
@beastlythunder6805 3 жыл бұрын
As an INTP it’s the first play that comes to mind 😂 Definitely a no-go though
@galaxymilk100
@galaxymilk100 3 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I'm an intp girl, but I still want my partner to put effort into it. I still want it to be a memorable moment
@kratze1738
@kratze1738 3 жыл бұрын
As a probable INTP, I have to say that it's a good way to ensure compatibility. If someone gets offended by THAT, then they'll also be perpetually offended by the INTP during the marriage as well. And the significant other would have gotten offended prior to that as well, and a breakup would have happened well before a proposal, because INTP isn't going to keep mucking about with somebody who appears to dislike them. Which makes it a pretty efficient and smart thing to do if one happens to be an INTP, as a last-ditch check to make sure marriage won't be permanent misery. Um. I guess. Not that I have any experience to go on, lol.
@sherrilmagic6792
@sherrilmagic6792 3 жыл бұрын
Well, it really depends on the people. As an INTP, I honestly don’t know how I would react if anyone proposed to me at all, especially if it’s in front of people or in front of a camera, or even in person! I’d feel pressured to say yes, without being given the time to seriously consider my answer, and I don’t think I’d appreciate that. Also, I’m not particularly romantic, so if the guy proposes in a fancy way with all kinds of expensive and/or thoughtful pieces to it, I wouldn’t appreciate that very much either. It would make me embarrassed. If he texts me though, I don’t have to reply right away and I have time to think things through. I also have time to get excited, squeal, do a happy dance, screenshot it, and send it to my INFJ sister who will celebrate with me. I think, in a way, texting would be better for the guy as well. He wouldn’t need an expensive ring, would have time to phrase the proposal in the way he really wants to, wouldn’t have to worry about lighting for a photographer or weather for an outdoor proposal, wouldn’t have to worry about stuttering, sweaty palms, pits, or brow, and he wouldn’t have to worry about any interruptions. Proposing through text definitely isn’t for everyone (on the proposing or receiving end,) but I think it could work out really well if the people loved each other and thought similarly enough about the subject.
@lemetamax
@lemetamax 3 жыл бұрын
I'm an INTJ and the whole concept of 'knowing that you're the one for me and planning the entire course of the relationship up until a week after our official wedding' is pretty accurate, but I ain't gonna say it out in the proposal. The aim is to get married so "no" isn't an option, and because I know you so well, I'll do everything within my abilities to make you emotionally and psychologically incapable of saying no.
@breezymango4113
@breezymango4113 3 жыл бұрын
Okay. That sounds incredibly creepy and manipulative and controlling. 😬
@lemetamax
@lemetamax 3 жыл бұрын
@@breezymango4113 It sounds that way but it's not how it'll look like irl, cos all I have to do is be my normal weird self and recreate a perfect romantic proposal that I've seen from a tv show, and it'll be perfectly suitable both of us as introverts, and she's gonna melt. No way will she say no.
@nightmare4122
@nightmare4122 3 жыл бұрын
Depends on your partner, I guess. I like saying the randomest shit and be super crude and honest so I definitely say everything out loud, and my INTJ bf does the same with his evil thoughts lol
@lemetamax
@lemetamax 3 жыл бұрын
@@nightmare4122 Mine is an INFJ and saying it out loud might leave her speechless and I won't want anything to get in her way of saying yes.
@YeshuaKingMessiah
@YeshuaKingMessiah 3 жыл бұрын
@@breezymango4113 only becuz ur not intj
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