16 Personalities Giving Christmas Gifts

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[@AFLoneWolf]

You really have to admire the ISTP for putting herself out there like that.

[@JokerCrowe]

ISTPs be like "my gift to you this year is me "being social" and doing "christmas things" with you and the family. Enjoy it while it lasts". Edit: typo

[@alyishiking]

My gift is my presence at your party for maybe half an hour. :)

[@pablowanderley8163]

thanks, it takes us a lot of effort

[@Robin-ky9rk]

@@JokerCrowe that is exactly what I say to everyone every year

[@greenlimabean]

She smiled and gave a friendly hand gesture!

[@jamyllemagalhaes8531]

Fun fact: I have an aunt that it is a ISTP and she is EXACTLY like this omg

[@SirThanksalot_1]

looks like we'd get along - ISTP

[@isabellarose6514]

I wouldn't even say merry christmas.

[@jessica9043]

@@isabellarose6514 yup my sister is ISTP and she’d just walk away, no merry christmas 😂

[@zk7830]

I can always identify the ISTP in Kristin's videos by the one who acts exactly like my father.

[@torkakarshiro5170]

I am forced to have christmas presents for about 10 people and Christmas stresses me the heck out. And after Christmas meetings with relatives I would need holidays. For weeks. Alone in the woods. I do not get them though. (ISTP)

[@rmendeljacobs2832]

Hahahahhah, my wife is an INFJ and I can't stop dying. She knows details about people's lives and then covers it up with some perfect reason of how she knew or circumvents the question completely with something like "everyone needs toilet paper". That was a perfect sketch for an INFJ. Also they have a lot of internal dialogues which you showed so perfectly. I love that!

[@UncooperativeCat]

As an INTJ I put a foot outside yesterday without realising what time of the year was, and ended wishing for the collapse of the entire western civilization when I encountered all the people shopping for Christmas. Loved the energy between you and Laith! Yours seems to be a really beautiful friendship.

[@HisameArtwork]

2h of his short life doing something he hates, what did the other person do to deserve so much love from an INTJ :))))

[@sophiaredwood5825]

Plot twist, this video was a reminder for all of the ENFPs to actually get on top of gift buying before it’s too late. Much appreciated 😂💞 always love seeing your content, Kristin!! 🤩

[@thegoldenlight271]

*sighs* I have so much Christmas shopping to do D: (ENFP)

[@novonem]

I always get the gifts on the day before christmas. Enfp

[@thegoldenlight271]

@@novonem Risky, but I like it. XD

[@iramage2235]

I am not the fastest but I usually ace getting all the gifts the week before Christmas. But the bad wrapping is real tho xD

[@lemmings6516]

I'm enfp and I tell you.. It's bad!!! 😄 This year I was on top of it for the first time in my life. I'm 28 so that says a lot. 😂

[@magiccake6776]

Thank you for not making the ISTP the bland, mechanic stereotype. I legit thought the lawn mowing one would be ISTP, but what you did was a pleasant surprise. That is what I do when other family are over at our house for Christmas. Or what I would do if I wasn't constantly dragged out to "have a conversation"

[@edwright4892]

Another absolute corker! Loved the ENTJ pep talk and the ESTJ giving the ENFJ the boundaries book. 😃 Laith was a natural too, definitely get your people to speak to his people about another guest appearance!

[@dearkristin]

Thanks, Ed! I would definitely love to have him back 😁

[@cindyc]

Definitely play off of each other well.❤

[@scarletmoon95]

I believe the infp part hit us all so hard that no other infp wanted to talk about it 😂😂😭 the anxiety and self-consciousness and the wish that they'd immediately appreciate what we did for them out of love but not wanting to come off as annoying and yet coming off as annoying anyway It was painful to watch

[@j_m4861]

yes, you summarized it well, me I'll overthink every single things especially those that involves people (like right now).

[@Kimbolie12]

As an INTJ I actually love coming up with gift ideas because I feel great when I spend hours researching the ideal gift for someone and feel great when they (obviously) love it. I do however, get annoyed when people don't give me exactly what I asked for. "No sis, I don't want any clothes. Yes, you keep saying I don't have any fashion sense, but I disagree, an entirely black outfit never goes out of style." And still what do I get...clothes. So this year I got a few practical items for my ISTJ mom (water bottle and a huge scarf), a bunch of cute bunny stuff and an ugly pillow with photos of my sister's rabbits for my INFP sister and a box with liquor and cute christmas ornament with a picture of the family chihuahua for my ESFJ dad.

[@SuperKatiki]

I too am an INTJ and love giving gifts. There is a certain thrill to discovering the perfect thing for someone.

[@glueball214]

same 💙

[@migsmethinks5801]

INTJ here. The thrill of the gift hunt is very real! But for me, the best gifts to give are ones for White Elephant gift exchanges where I can focus on the object itself and the creativity of the packaging instead of having to socially read into the personal aspects of the reciever. (While I do try to channel both Hans Doofenshmirtz and Leslie Knope when gift-giving, doing more of the former is more fun). My past white elephant gifts include: -a hand bell, British chocolates, and a gift card wrapped to look like a plunger with a toilet paper bow (tp has since become my calling card during the White Elephant with that group of friends) -a bottle of vodka in a brown paper bag shoved up the rear of a donkey pinata with a toilet paper tail to the bottle sticking out, Moscow mule mugs at its hooves and a lime-shaped bottle of lime juice hanging by its ear, all wrapped up in a box filled with toilet paper padding -a full paella kit and pan wrapped in a cardboard structure such that it resembles a real-ish-sized R2-D2 -a small Newt Scamender-style vintage suitcase filled with a fossilized megladon tooth, an owl ornament, an ancient insect stuck in amber, and antique spell(ing) book, with the suitcase rigged to play the Hedwig theme and release rubberband-powered flying butterflies upon opening

[@glueball214]

@@migsmethinks5801 😄👍😄👍😄👍😄👍💙

[@MerianyaS]

I'm also an INTJ and am known for both my ability to give perfect gifts as well as my ability to package them beautifully. I make my own elaborate, fabric bows, add silk flowers, and use photo frame ornaments as gift tags. Not even Martha Stewart could compete with my gift decorating ability! 😁

[@emiliya7]

Kristiiiin,how did you so accurately capture my pain with these gifts 😳 I always prepare handmade cards for my family (i put so much effort into colours and the illustartion). In the end,i just google some birthday wish poems (i'm not interested in words). Guess what interests my "b-day card receivers" the most : the poem. They read it out loud, they thank me for it, and absolutely no appreciation is given to the thing that I actually created with my own hands 🥲 I'm still amazed by your accuracy and amazing sense of humour. So glad that you are back! Hope you had great rest ☺💕

[@dearkristin]

I appreciate your crafts!! 👏👏👏

[@happystripedelephant3482]

INTP here. One of my hobbies is making scrapbooks and birthday cards. I only make these for people I really, really care about. My friends appreciate my homade cards a lot more than my family members do. Last Christmas, I made five scrapbooks of my daughter. I spent four months on them and a multiple late nights. Only two people truly appreciated them. One person I know that appreciated them was an INFP. Another person who brushed the scrapbook to the side was my monster in law, an ESFJ.

[@jessicavallee3831]

Don't bother sullying your lovely cards with a poem next time. Just put a heart or "love you".

[@sarahberkner]

I will say, reading it out loud doesn't mean that's the part they appreciated the most, and they are thanking you for the whole card. I hope they know that it's handmade, and they probably assume you do that because you enjoy it and are good at it, and not because you are looking for affirmation. Not everyone has an eye for good art.

[@Joshua-jk1om]

INTJ here. I got different stages of gift giving Either tell me, or I won't get it If you don't tell me, I'll just do something you like with you. If you are one of the chosen few I trust, you could tell me, and I'd get it Or, I will spend literal weeks observing you and what you need, as well as reflect on who you are as a person and get a gift you actually like

[@MichaelHill-sg8ks]

Great to see you back. As an INTP, I hate Christmas because it usually goes something like this: Me: *blissfully oblivious to what time of year it is* Friend: Hey, you awake? Me: Huh... yeah I was just thinking. Why? Friend: I got you this for Christmas. I know you've always wanted one. Me: *inferior Fe triggered* (No! I forgot about buying Christmas presents but now they've bought me one! What do I do? If I don't accept it, that'll be an insult, but if I take it and don't give anything in return, will they see that as an insult as well? Have I been forced into an unwritten contract of gift giving just by being offered this? If I don't give them anything, will I just look like a horrible person? I wish they'd told me that they were getting me something so that I would have time to prepare.) Friend: Go on, take it. Me: *through gritted teeth* It's just what I wanted...

[@NocturnalCachalot]

Same problem 😅😂 So... I seriously dislike presents, because they stress me out. So much in fact that I even try to escape from my own birthday (I mean... they'll invite me to theirs and expect something in return) 😂

[@sourgrapes7482]

THAT IS LITERALLY MY INNER DIALOGUE AT ALL TIMES OF GIFT GIVING AND RECIEVING

[@NocturnalCachalot]

@@maxgovorukhin5039 Right, and no thoughts... It costs a tremendous amount of energy and time to be really fair and sincere in giving a present 😅

[@NocturnalCachalot]

@@maxgovorukhin5039 And that... triggers the overthinking process and stagnates at the analysis paralysis stage 😂

[@LAL7887]

INFJ and saaaame

[@alyishiking]

As an ISTP who bought gift cards for my parents for Christmas, I feel slightly called out right now.

[@applepatronum4934]

"Ooh no the K must've fallen off!" I know that the ISFJ felt terrible about it for the rest of the day and it's still haunting them sometimes. Great video again! And Laith is such a good actor, wow! His ENFJ "thank you" was adorable.

[@jamyllemagalhaes8531]

Boo really seems a great App to socialize with people and make friends, I was even wondering to download it but then I remembered that I am an ISTJ and don't care about people

[@trinaq]

Haha, precisely, it makes even the most anti social people, including myself, want to connect!

[@alicial4857]

Every personality type can care about people, but not every type gets energy from or enjoys adhering to social rules and expectations. From one IxTJ to another, don't let what you hear about your personality type stop you from doing what you want to do. Besides, people of all types can make quality friends without buying subscriptions and installing apps.

[@ceilinh6004]

That INTJ must *really* love that person. I say this in all seriousness.

[@dearkristin]

Bahahaha

[@rickrivers2021]

INFP is so accurate. My sister is INFP, the poem she writes always has way more significance to her than the gift.

[@farrex0]

As an ENTP I want to give gifts, but with Ti Fe in the middle, if I give something I want to give something really really good. Giving a mediocre gift is worse than no gift at all. But giving a really really good gift takes a lot of time, money and effort. Which I could do perhaps for one or two people. But, giving a gift to just one or two people, means I am singling people out which my Fe can't do that. But I can't give gifts to everyone, because my Ti can't just give what i feel like. Whatever I do I have to really think things through. Just thinking about what would be an appropiate gift can take a month of pondering.. And I can't just give what i feel like giving, because i do not even know what acting how I feel like even is. So, the logical solution is, I do not give gifts to anyone.

[@nzlioness]

100% agree with mediocre gifts are worse than no gift at all.

[@c.m.b.1676]

Oh my gosh I love this. Haha!

[@vsml333]

No gifts to anyone brings so much peace of mind. I'm convincing myself it's the best path to take 🙌

[@TrueSunara]

I stopped wishing people Happy Birthday on FB for pretty much the same reason.

[@lucyk2634]

Exactly what I did, it was too much pain for me because of what ylu said so I just don't giving gifts anymore. Actually before I was always missed going to birthdays so I don't have to give any gift.

[@dracsharp]

As an ENTP I feel like I am permanently stuck in "United Kingdom subtitles" mode. Joke aside, I do love those subtitles and I think you should add more of those jokes in the video. The INTJ/ISTJ subtitles sounded more like them than the video :)

[@azure_lioness3370]

The pause before “chick-flick of your choice” killed me-INFP who relates heavily to her segment as she was up till 2 am last night writing a short story about robots

[@staarthavas]

The INTJ-depiction was pretty nice and surely applies to a lot of them! But from my own experience I suppose that INTJs actually enjoy taking their time searching and ruminating for an ideal gift, especially if the target person means a lot to them. Something practical which they also may personally like and touches their heart - from an INTJ standpoint, of course :D And it makes us genuinely happy, if the person really likes it. And as the video depicts greatly, books are a spot-on communication device with a meaning XD

[@solenelaroche7766]

I don't usually buy gift cause I think it's stupid to buy gift just because "this day you should" but once in a while, I offer something to someone close for a particular reason. And I always nailed it ! My ex-bf also wanted us to give each others presents to birthday and Christmas, I always gave him the perfect gift (is still use them cause they were great and pratical) and he always have no clue eaven when I was pretty obvious about what I wanted. Once I left for him the link to exactly what I wanted on the computer (size, color, everythings, he just had to use this freaking link) but still he decided to find better by himself. Result, it wasn't pratical at all and I never used that shit after the first try; So yeah INTJ can be great at giving gift when they loved the persons. Instead of this, not really. And please don't try to outsmart me and giving me somthing better that I want. I know what I want and I want this particular thing, you don't, stop trying.

[@veniceangelidelacruz2988]

I really like the INTJ one... I don't always give gifts but when I do I prepare and think about them ahead of time so it's actually something they'll really like and will be of use to them too.

[@BillyBob-lt5nr]

ENTP = peak social efficiently "Spend time on this!? I expected you to be thrilled I'm participating in this arbitrary tradition at all!" Also Laith did great, always fun to see Kristin perform an actual real dialogue too. -ENTP

[@gorgonheap9770]

Hahaha, oh man. Preparing to attend a friend's wedding a couple years back and somebody asks me what giving the couple. Me: "Well, the hotel room is costing me two hundred bucks, so they can enjoy the gift of my presence."

[@dearkristin]

Thanks! Laith made this experience so much more enjoyable! (Not that it isn't usually)

[@Snarl_Marx]

I can't count how many times I've forgotten the "second part of the gift". It finally shows up to my house and I'm like "Why did I order this? Oh well, into the pile it goes!" - ENFP

[@alessandraolmi4213]

YES

[@dearkristin]

Hahahaha

[@Zigg317]

Wow. I went full "ISTP Therapist" watching the INFJ interaction. You two are too good together, and by good I clearly mean excruciatingly awkward. -- An ISTP

[@GoodSongs4all]

I always appreciate the ISTP.

[@glueball214]

OMG the ESFJ so hilarious!! I have an ESFP or two in my life, and can confirm such occurences 😄 You're amazing and your friend was brilliant .

[@ryanlafollette4819]

ENTJ here. I always enjoy how you work the sponsor into the video where I don't feel the need to skip it. I even downloaded the app recently. What can I say, your strategy is highly effective.

[@devinbrines]

I love your friend!! ☺️ You guys are great on camera together 🥰 Just feels right ✨ Come back Laith 🥳

[@dearkristin]

He is a vibe.

[@brodywilliamson5678]

Don’t expect presents from us ISTP’s…You’re lucky to even get our presence!

[@LAL7887]

As an INFJ, that's what I THINK about buying Then time runs out and I become the ESFP with the 'the second part of the gift is on the way I promise!!' Unlike ESFPs the second part truly is on the way, but gets here 2 months too late and when the friend doesn't even need it anymore

[@kawaiikitty4569]

Nailed the ISTJ - we would do literally anything to miss the party, much more comfortable to organise something by ourselves (we like being in the background, no problem).

[@sophiatsip9139]

You are one of my favorite creators, I get so happy when I see you have a new video!

[@dearkristin]

Naw thank you!!

[@ReinhardMcKinky]

New Kristin videos before Christmas? The perfect gift. 😉 As an INTP still trying to figure out what to buy for Christmas gifts... Help!!!

[@glueball214]

empathetic hahaha

[@isabellarose6514]

Don't buy anything. -ISTP

[@finnkuudere3516]

A solution for struggling INTPs. I married an ESFJ and I have to be prepared for gifts, parties, anniversaries of all types and occasions. She's also Spanish so there's additional celebrations as well. My solution was to have a gift box. It is a box stored away where I hide random gifts I see throughout the year. I have to keep it filled but that is easy enough if you budget and take advantage of gift buying opportunities. I'll be at the hardware store and see some cute gardening gloves for her, buy them and throw them in the gift box. I'm at the book store and I see a signed copy of a book from a favorite writer. -goes in the gift box. The best way is to go out on the town and let her (without telling her) pick things out. You're bored as hell but you watch her swoon over a cute little thingy item stuff little thing that has the cute little button on the top of the thingamajig and then she moves on and you pick it up and buy it, put it in a "hidey" bag return to her midsentence describing another thing. When you need a gift it's in the gift box, where there are also cards. I held a tanzanite ring for her there for 3 years. Just keep it organized with variety. In a pinch you'll produce a gift that is "the most thoughtful thing ever you know me and care OMG I love so much" kind of gift. The benefits is that my ESFJ wife will move heaven and earth for me and even become a guard so that I get alone time. For ESFJs you need to try, success is in the trying but damn when you get what they want they become LOVERS.

[@bowmaster20]

In the ENFP's defense, I'm sure it was because he spent so much time thinking about all the different potential gifts and how perfect each one of them would be and happy their person would be when they opened it and then time ran out and dread set in and Si said "I told you so, you should have bought that 3 weeks ago", Fi scolded the ENFP for being a bad friend, and Te repeated the same thing over and over again while the ENFP frantically ran around the house, and Ne saw a newspaper and random doodad behind the couch and said "I got this, everything will be ok." : "Only everything was NOT ok" :) Cheers and welcome back!!

[@Meg_intheclouds]

Omg! This exactly. I spend so long trying to think of the perfect gift and then have so many ideas plus my general forgetfulness! But Xmas does make my Ne-Te really come out.

[@juliall255]

I'm either an INFP or an INFJ (still not that sure) and for me it's not that hard to put the effort in for other people. I do love ENFPs but y'all can be so selfish sometimes - especially if doing something for other people means leaving your comfort zone which I get but if it's for the people you love then surely it will be effortless to manage yourself since it's for THEM? if you are forgetful then have a time or aa daily reminder or put it in a calendar and stick it on your wall so you see it every time you wake up. Saying that you are forgetful is such a selfish excuse. Write things down for christ's sake. A lot of ENFPs are very happy to have people wait on them but at least you stop when it's pointed out to you. So if anyone is reading this and you have a selfish ENFP friend, you need to call them out! They'll stop their behaviour when they realise they are hurting you which I appreciate about them

[@killbill9847]

@@juliall255 Hmm I see and hear you and your feelings are totally valid. We are very forgetful, that is true, it's I think one of those negative traits we have like all the other types. But there's a difference here because what you're saying is as if every ENFP in the same category. I'm myself an ENFP and know others that are quite forgetful and hurt their loved ones because of it but many are forgetful, but will remember the things that they would do for their loved ones. The forgetfulness is something typical of ENFPS but the selfishness that is bound to it isn't. And I 've read an interesting reddit post that talked about it: "Selfishness is a character trait that is unrelated to an individual’s cognitive preferences. Selfishness happens when I am bigger/more important/more real than you. It happens through ignorance (lack of experience being selfless) or through emotional turbulence (feeling fearful of losing someone/something, feeling invisible or unloved, etc.). Every one of us is selfish sometimes. Some of us are selfish most of the time. Some are selfish only occasionally. That last group is not less selfish by happenstance, but because they have grown in character and their personal values have cultivated selfless behavior." I think that that distinction is quite important to not generalise an entire group of people, because yes you're or were hurt but generalising is mostly not a good option.

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@juliall255 I see your point but there is such a difference. My problem is I spend so long trying to find the perfect gift for someone but am always unsure about what to give. Managing myself is never effortless, and reminders don’t always work for me, I try to be organised and think ahead but then time happens and suddenly it’s the week before Christmas and I have only got half the stuff I need to. I spend so long trying to get them the right present and then run out of time and panic. If I could manage stuff better I would but it’s never effortless- even if I love the person. And it’s also not selfish. It doesn’t come from a place of thinking everything will sort itself out or expecting others to do that- it comes from a place of wanting to show the person you love that you care and make them genuinely happy, a lot of stress and then being forgetful and not knowing what to get and then berating yourself for being stupid before Christmas and that you are a terrible friend and yeah there is that voice saying I am selfish in the back of my head. I can see where you are coming from- but also that comment shows strong Fe, so I’m thinking maybe you are an INFJ. But for me anyway it’s not me being selfish, and yes it is a weakness but something I’m working on and I hate that I do it, I hate that I forget. And it’s not as simple as “writing stuff done” the amount of organisation systems I have tried is a lot and I’m yet to find something that 100% works. Because again being forgetful isn’t a selfish excuse because some people genuinely can’t help it. However when it comes to people I care about I mostly remember things- like birthdays, important events, things they tell me ect. It’s just when it comes to Christmas there is so much organisation stuff that needs to be done and it’s just a stressful time all around. And gift giving is something I love- but I spend so long trying to pick the perfect gift for the amazing people in my life- I end up running out of time. You can care a lot about someone and still fail to have good management when it comes to them. And everything does get done eventually- there’s just so much that goes into it in our heads that most of us can’t explain or even know how to fix. Every type has its downside and this is ours. But I can understand your point to an extent- it seems frustrating to other people who don’t have that kind of brain. Honestly I think you are an INFJ because your annoyance at this “selfishness”, points towards critical Fi- but I can understand how it would be annoying to an Fe user. So yeah I would say look more into INFJ. (this might not be the same for all enfp’s this is just me- but also it’s a high possibility I have adhd which would explain a Lot- my mum even agreed but said I’m too smart to be tested- whatever that means 🙄)

[@juliall255]

Thank you both for responding so receptively. Yes, I also think I may be an INFJ too which is why I don't hate ENFPs at all I must add. You're my golden pair! And I understand what you're getting at, I think NFPs need to practice and get into a routine or force yourself to do all the xmas shopping six months earlier so when xmas comes around for instance you can just relax. It's true what you both say about each type having flaws which I think is the purpose of the golden pair relationship. INFJs have what ENFPs lack and vice versa. We come together like puzzle pieces and fix the problems on each side. The good thing about the NFPs in my life is that although they sometimes hurt me , perhaps unintentionally, all I have to do is point it out and they immediately stop which something I love about you guys. Often ENFPs don't realise what they may be doing to the people around but once they realise they feel really bad and change. I appreciate NFPs ''chiller'' approach, I know ENFPs wouldn't call themselves chill but you kind of are in that way. You can be surprisingly zen-like just as much as you are the joker . You are like an immovable object that. exists to weather any storm whereas NFJs tend to charge into it and are obsessed with slaying the dragon. An NFP can outlast anything on its own whilst an NFJ can survive anything on its own. NFJs are also more dogmatic and stubborn and quite fiery too. SE is quite a fiery function.. I can get quite defensive and ragey and prideful in the moment but will go home and think about it and then come back and apologise.

[@nurainiarsad7395]

As an INTJ, I like gift cards, if they’re for a department store or somewhere that probably sells something I use regularly, OR a store that sells things I am into. Gift cards are basically money ✅ and if you’re not sure what thing I wanted, I’d rather you give the gift card and I’ll do the rest!

[@youreworthyourweightinavoc7189]

INTJ real talk - I bought people booze and gift cards. Who’s with me? ...taking the easiest and most pain free way through this gift giving shebang

[@danielleward16]

ENTJ is spot on. I’ve often gifted things to people to help ‘solve their problems’ (I.e. stop their complaining or sort their life out) 😂

[@trinaq]

I love Laith, he should really be in more of your videos! I was guessing that he was either an INFP or ENFJ, so close enough! ♥️

[@yeri1139]

I was guessing ISFP or ENFJ ahah 🤭

[@ArthKryst]

INTP here, Happened before. I gave a birthday gift to a girl you know the usual, gift card and box of chocolates because mom said it would be a good gift. I have absolutely no clue as to why not gift money and have them spend on resources they prefer than the resources you presume they prefer. Anyway, so I mixed up the gifts and somehow she ended up with my elementary school ID card and my stupid geometry box (yea the box of chocolates was not the big one). Atleast I'm happy I didn't give away my library card.

[@dearkristin]

Hahaha WOW!

[@antoinettenovella1630]

Just be honest with your friends, tell them what you want, give them what they want in return. Not sure what is so challenging about this.

[@kyurei4478]

Ah yes, INFJ, so attentive to what everyone really need.

[@violax3735]

Ouch man the INFP.... soooo uncomfortable seeing myself there. The anxiety, the frantic hope I got it right, the making it personal, the self-made gift, the need for approval, the "let me show you how great it is" while trying to ignore their irritation.... Yikes. That's like 100% me.

[@lb2696]

We are a tender lot.

[@dearkristin]

💬 Just a reminder that captions WITHOUT jokes are now the default ("English"). For captions WITH jokes, please choose "English (United Kingdom)". Give Boo a try! It's available on both iOS and Android via the link below: signup.boo.world/kristin Thank you for watching and have a blessed Christmas!

[@GoodSongs4all]

Thank you.

[@josiahtaylor7967]

As a vegetarian INFJ, I am highly disgusted by the behaviour of the ESTP in the video. I am also scared because people seem to be realising that my type is prone to stalking. 😩

[@josiahtaylor7967]

@Shadows' Survivor Well I wasn't saying we're all stalkers but there is some truth to that stereotype...

[@karlheinzotto3701]

How could you? :O I watched the entire video reading every single one of the subtitles before reading this. For 5 months now i watch videos with subtitles on only because i turned tjem on 5 months ago for your videos... xD

[@hannahcruz1440]

We love you!

[@jackies1729]

I was just rewatching this one and i noticed you were playing my absolutely favorite song in the background during the INFP's segment!!!!! Thank you, dear Kristin!!!!! ☺️❤️ -INFP

[@sViviftie]

OMG the ENFP I feel so called out and so sorry, I'm really trying ok?! 😂

[@yoko07]

As an ENFP, thank you for reminding me that I need to buy a gift so that scenario won't happen, let's hope I also remember it tomorrow 😀

[@MazorKuziaki]

So glad you're back, and Laith was fantastic! I really hope to see more of him. INFP is accurate. I usually make something myself and hope for a reaction XD

[@novonem]

The exact same thing with theENFP happened to me. I am an enfp and I once decided to craft a toy (I am very bad at woodworking and crafting and never did this before) for my little brothers. The first part was ready on Christmas but I had to the rest. Over the next 6 months there were to unfinished gifts in the garage till they one day disappeared.

[@jamyllemagalhaes8531]

OMG I love ENFJ's sooo much kkkkkkk Takes care of everyone even when not asked for

[@sophiaredwood5825]

I have an ENFJ best friend and I couldn’t agree more. 🤩💞

[@rmendeljacobs2832]

I'm an ESTP and it made me so upset that I often don't prepare in advance. But our charisma makes up for it lol

[@simrasheik4909]

Damn the honesty of the INTJ :)

[@WolfoxBR]

Yeah, we can be like that. I know I am.

[@NoticeMeSenpaiii]

I have to say, Kristin's impression of a man is spot on 👌😂 I'd say I'm a pretty even mix of ENFP and INTJ in this one. Obligatory gift giving is really weird to me. We all follow this strange social contract that says we have to spend money we don't want to spend (or sometimes don't even have) to buy stuff for everyone in our lives even though they probably don't want the stuff. Why don't we all buy ourselves a gift and then open them together? Everyone gets what they want that way 🤷‍♀️ I do enjoy opening thoughtful gifts, but I also love practical gifts (very un-ENFP of me, I know). Pay my electric bill? Sweet! Grocery gift card? Nice! 25 pound bag of rice or a new blender? Awesome! Some kind of experience or quality time together like a spa day, travel, camping trip, etc.? My favorite! I also like fuzzy socks. BUT I do the whole gift giving routine anyways, and I will be 30 minutes late to the event with half of your gift "wrapped" in a grocery bag. The idea of the other half will haunt me for years after you've forgotten about it, but I will never follow through and get it to you. On second thought, I think liking practical gifts is very ENFP of me. I hate spending money on practical things, so receiving them as a gift opens up my budget for fun, exciting (probably irresponsible) things that I wouldn't otherwise spend money on.

[@peytonsmuth2508]

I just fell in love with the INTJ. Rational and sweet offer. Doesn't get better. Could watch it over and over. *swoon*

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

Welcome back. Thank you for being such a warrior for light. Merry Christmas, Kristin.

[@glueball214]

💙🎄

[@JohnHenrysaysHi]

​@@glueball214 Merry Christmas, Kimberly.

[@hj_lostintheinternet3754]

I want to be as excited about something as the ESFJ was about Christmas 😊 Also, good to see you back!

[@annepaulinetiu4036]

Welcome back Kristin! P.s. Those with Fe in their function sure can be a great actor. Like Laith.

[@Sopherian]

I prefer to know what a person wants but through the years I've noticed that I'm surprisingly good at finding something that fits a person... This because my family keeps asking me if I have any ideas. I always remember what people are saying and ill find a solution for their problems lol. - INTP

[@zandarmaver5569]

Spot on description of how and INFJ buys gifts for people. We will just notice those random things and casually build a gift based around those points. And yes, we may just creep you out in the process. Really, it's YOUR fault for being such an open book and just leaving these tidbits around! I can't help paying attention!

[@ottersarah8812]

Kristin, why you gotta call us out like this? I am deceased. ENTP is hilarious. Laith's portrayal of an ENFP is...eerily accurate. ~an ENTJ

[@jackier1726]

I was literally binge watching your videos this morning thinking “when is Kristin gonna post?” And then this comes up! Great videooo

[@ruthie5748]

It’s so good to see you again!!

[@dearkristin]

Naw, thank you!

[@someonerandom713]

Ohhh damn, I can relate sooo hard to the INFP here 😄 Nothing worse than one sided excitement 😅

[@jeffgagen3561]

Kristin is back. YEAH!!!!!

[@sirbradfordofhousejones]

Welcome back, Kristin! ❤️

[@dearkristin]

Thanks, Brady! 😁😁😁

[@mattevans6752]

As an ISFP, I am definitely always hype to give gifts. I don't always put a ton of effort into wrapping though lol

[@avinashzoom]

I'm so touched for ISFP I want to give a hug and make ISFP feel better and feel strong emotionally

[@youraverageviewer9546]

"So no more complaining!" The ENTJ is soooo like my mom when she helps me or my siblings with stuff 😂😂😭😅👌🏼

[@QuotesArticles]

Hey Kristin, nice to see you back. Hope you had a good time to relax and refresh! And the video was really humorous! Really well done! 😃 Not surprised to know that Laith is an ENFJ!

[@ramzansson395]

Although Kristin is gone for several weeks but I felt like it was 10 years 😭🤣 Anyway welcome back Kristin 😆 !!!! And Merry Christmas to everyone 🎅

[@dearkristin]

Thank you! 😁😁

[@Meg_intheclouds]

With every new video I fail at not writing an essay in the comments. The urge is just too much. ENFP

[@glueball214]

this looks quite brief 🤔 XD and I like your essays

[@Meg_intheclouds]

@@glueball214 haha yes it was (though I deleted a lot). However I did leave an essay further down in the comments 😂

[@gouki4u]

I'm an INTP. My sister and I have agreed to not exchange gifts on Christmas. It is the best gift I have ever received.

[@lynnestuart9796]

Okay, soooo.. I LOVE your INTJ skit! Made this ISFJ squeal with joy -one of our pet peeves is people overlooking us or not knowing what we like, so being so specific about getting what I'd actually want is wonderful!! And with quality time and touch as my top love languages... hold me during that movie and I am going to be feelin luuurved😍❤❤❤

[@rad4924]

I'm really glad to see you back!

[@chisol3508]

Nice! Laith was so great in this skit, hope to see him in others too :)

[@elder7985]

As an INTJ, I would looooovvve to tell people exactly that, sadly they then think I'm heartless. (please notice the sarcasm or double sarcasm (choose as you like))

[@HaHaHaLMFAOtv]

I knew he was ENFJ! Also, whenever there's words such as "therapist" or "boundaries" I just new it's me! Can't help it I guess 🙈

[@siunkii]

After finally figuring out I'm an ENTJ (had me messed up for a long time and believed I should be anything BUT a Te-dom), I still do the ISFP-ESFP thing as people around me just do not take my true self well. But hey! That's a succesful Christmas every year. People around me like nice wrapping and cool stuff, so even though their lives won't be much better had I gotten them what they really needed, the momentarily happiness is there. As expected for the holidays. Anyhow, very funny as always! Love it that you bring your friends along to act every now and then.

[@dearkristin]

Thanks!! Hope you had a blessed holiday!!

[@FloatInJune]

Welcome back! missed your uploads.

[@dearkristin]

Thank you! Good to be back! 😁

[@SimoneEppler]

Absolutely love it. 👏👏

[@porcelaincats86]

INTP here, loved that scrap boo joke. That was really good wordplay :)

[@restlessmosaic]

On Kristin's wonderful Patreon page, one of the levels involves the chance to suggest things for scripts. An INTP made that suggestion. :-)

[@dearkristin]

^ this INTP!

[@gurleenkang6337]

I really wait for your videos!!! They are soo amazing and entertaining 😂

[@JokerCrowe]

I feel personally attacked by the INFJ one xD I'm pretty sure I've freaked people out by remembering small details about them that I really "shouldn't" be able to remember, and also drawing conclusions based on it that I really "shouldn't" know. And I don't know how I do it. It's fun...

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

YESSSS

[@avril.227]

Yes!!!

[@XDivineExistenceX]

Nailed the INTJ, i saw myself there instantly 😂

[@MichaelG5500]

First, I am SO happy you are back and hope you are doing well. (Told ya we'd be here when you came back. 😉) In this wonderful video, the ESFP is my favorite! My son and daughter also gifted me with a coffee maker a few Christmas ago and I do not drink coffee. So apparently one or both of them are ENTPS. 😂😂 As an INTP one of my favorite things is analyzing people and painstakingly researching for months before getting the perfect gift.... Although I think the ENTP really has gift giving all figured out! 😂

[@dearkristin]

Thanks! It's good to be back!

[@purplemind93]

Thanks for revealing what type Laith is at the end, I was wondering;) I had him pegged as enfp. Hope to see him again another time, he did great! The Intj I thought was an NTP at first, but then the intp would maybe settle for thinking those things instead of wording them out loud;)

[@ip43627]

perfect for isfp omg, i loooooove wrapping gifts, just giving and picking out gifts in general. i do put a load of effort into wrapping but that's both for the other person's happiness with the gift and for my own enjoyment of wrapping it

[@Tamailana]

Aww, the INTJ knows exactly what I like :-D (sincerely, an ENFP)

[@fleetingfootnotes9133]

As an INTP, I must say that it's not likely I'd confuse my library membership card for a gift card. I'd value it too much if I actually had one and gift cards are packaged differently here. I try not to do gift cards anyway. Knowing people is not that hard and finding something they like is not generally hard either. But then again, I know people who appreciate life, so food, drinks, movies, books and so on are all fine. Have to rewatch now, though, for the captions with jokes.

[@glueball214]

At the risk of setting off the INTJ Iluminati, the wrapping paper thing is done by me. I try to heighten the visual enjoyment of Christmas 🎄. I read somewhere that INTJs are particularly fond of the visual, ? ps: I was going to guess your friend as an INFP. (half credit for the NF ?)

[@renataa.6193]

ENFP dropping the gift is THE MOST ACCURATE ENFP THING EVER help I swear i knew right away with that 😭😭😭

[@kayla_717]

The INFJ is perfect hahah. Anytime someone mentions something small in passing or I notice that they need something, I take a mental note of it so that I can surprise them with it later. A girl in my class mentioned how much she wanted to try Red Velvet Oreos, so I went to 2 stores to get them for her birthday. I am also guilty of stalking my friends' social media to figure out what they want too

[@dearkristin]

Aw that's so sweet that you got her the oreos! 😁

[@pocahontas5145]

"I don't know why anybody buys gifts, knowing that's always a risk." 🤣 Lol the "I spent 7 hours..." bits. Your friend is hilarious! He nearly upstaged you, which is hard to do!

[@izza_ISFP]

Me saying to my bf 3 days ago: The presentation of the gifts is as important as the gift ... -ISFP

[@LooneyTiksCrap]

INTJ and I'm not really like that... If we're doing gifts, the persons I'm giving gifts to are getting actual physical presents. I don't do this for many people, and usually just 2 individuals, whom I put thought into what to give them. Occasional exceptions from those 2, but I do figure something out. If I notice someone missing a basic useful item, they're probably getting that. Sometimes I'll craft/decorate something in relation to something they've shown interest with. ...Throw in some treats. Doing things or spending time I don't consider presents, I simply do so or I don't & I kinda get something out of that too. Perhaps to people that are not one of my top 2, my presence is a gift, lol.

[@vida8356]

Welcome back Kristin! We loved this one as well

[@bekah888]

The only thing is I would be too afraid to give a poem to someone for fear of a crushing and forever scarring reaction.

[@dearkristin]

Very fair.

[@cherrypuff4482]

I could only truly guess Laith’s personality in the bloopers I definitely guessed ENFP or ENFJ, I am an ENFJ too so it’s really cool to see someone else with the same type as me! (It feels like ENFJ’s are underrepresented.. It’s probably unknowingly done lol)

[@redmoss5003]

LMAO ENFP was soooo relatable, one day I gave my friend a package of his favorite sweets. however, I forgot to buy the packaging and put everything in a regular plastic bag from the supermarket. If that's not bad enough, I also couldn't resist not eating some of that bag. to fill the void with something, I cut out a postcard and pasted pictures from the newspaper there and put some trinkets from my house.

[@frigginjerk]

I wrap gifts in old newspapers. My reasoning for that is that I have old newspapers lying around, and wrapping paper is extraordinarily stupid. (INTJ here.)

[@dearkristin]

HAHAHAHAHA

[@schattengrins9250]

The INTJ was spot on 👍

[@danielabenitez1264]

Jeez! I was hoping we would get a new video this week. I missed you! ❣ I'm glad you are fine now. Another great video, as always 🌟🌟🌟🌟🌟