18 Things NEVER to Say to a Woman!

[@bf2478]

Nothing stirs the hive like a good old fashioned "calm down"

[@cjdemeo8974]

No? how about a solid STFUB?

[@nikodemg6608]

Cj Demeo right, calm down there, buddy.

[@pankakotakismegalomavropou3355]

@@cjdemeo8974 that's a strong second

[@garlicgirl3149]

TRUTH!!! 😠

[@nospecialmeaning2]

Works on everyone irrespective of gender. It's like assuming anyone would calm down because they are told so.

[@lawr5764]

#1 for married guys: "You're just like your MOTHER".

[@solidarnosc9663]

Been there, done that.

[@kaihinkelmann]

@@solidarnosc9663 Autsch

[@12ealDealOfficial]

Used that one before prior to proposing. Oddly enough, it worked!

[@TheAllin5]

especially when you both have the same

[@hassanbeydoun2460]

@@TheAllin5 hol' up

[@declanmurphy1006]

I remember asking a girl in a bar "what's your biggest regret" 🤷🏻‍♂️ that didn't go so well

[@DutchPlanDerLinde]

That aint bad at all

[@mariaalex3956]

Not the best pick up line 😀

[@martinXY]

"what's your biggest regret" Was her reply "coming here tonight"?

[@DutchPlanDerLinde]

@@martinXY If it was, you should have married the gal, she is a savage

[@wakkowarner7391]

Now I want to know the reply.

[@darkwolf780]

My girlfriend watched this video with me and she said some of them are alright depending on the situation and how it's used in a conversation

[@Yougaljuboja]

yes sure, all of them are alright depending on the situation ;-) If you try to have a baby with your wife, you can ask her if she's pregnant... and if you see her yawning, you can ask her if she's tired ^^ etc

[@themoderndandy713]

I'm assuming the intent of this video is more like "18 Things NEVER to Say to a Woman You Just Met!" or something similar, but that probably should have been specified.

[@Arbbal]

@@themoderndandy713 That’s the very problem with the argument though, never is an absolute. Life is seldom straight right and wrong, there are nuances, and context that needs to be considered. We can debate whether they mean it the way you interpreted it, but to quote the video, “If that’s what yo mean then that’s what you should say.”

[@christiandye92]

This is a good rule of thumb for people you've just met, don't know well, and in professional settings. Some will be fine under certain contexts, sure, and there will be women who don't mind but it might be better err on the side of caution, especially if you're not sure.

[@garlicgirl3149]

There are women I have known for years and I will NOT ask if pregnant. If she wants to say it out loud she definitely will.

[@David-eg4bx]

"When are you going to have children" is all around wrong, not only when addressed women BUT also when asked of men by their mother-in-law.

[@theskittlesmanreloaded]

💯💯💯. I been asked that question to. Mostly by women ironically. So it's not just a female thing.

[@CHURCHISAWESUM]

Why

[@xyxy5978]

My personal favorite: Isn't your CLOCK ticking already?

[@OnlyBobGreen]

@@xyxy5978 lol.

[@Pat4th]

@Gentleman’sGazette when the first Kingsman movie came out there was a list of rules for a modern Kingsman. It looks fun and it very well might be a good subject for a video sometime in the future. 1. A gentleman never talks about conquests, private matters, or dealings. His business is nobody else’s. 2. A gentleman never clashes in public with enemies or exes, or worse, with out-of-fashion contrasts, colors, or styles. 3. A gentleman is always happy to serve, whether it’s opening the door, picking up the bill, or merely calling a cab the next morning. Ask him for help and he can not refuse. 4. A gentleman never reacts to rudeness. He pretends he doesn’t recognize it and moves on like it never happened, because it never should have. 5. A gentleman is always on target with witty remarks, interesting facts, and conversation starters that bring out the best in everyone. 6. A gentleman asks non-invasive questions to keep a conversation going and attention focused on others. He makes the, feel like the most interesting person he’s ever met, whether that’s true or not.

[@rickythe2nd63]

No. Sven is right about cargo shorts and white socks!

[@georgelush1998]

But then what color socks should I wear with my sandals?

[@johnq.public2621]

@@georgelush1998 The matching ones that came with your "Hello Kitty" thong and gag ball. :P

[@ericlamotte6581]

@@johnq.public2621 🤣😂

[@12ealDealOfficial]

19. If she asks what you're doing, NEVER say, "Nothing."

[@adamtaleb9296]

Very true

[@TheBadassTonberry]

So does "Something" count, then?

[@hisride]

Number 19: “Hello”

[@watcherwlc53]

so you missed the total point

[@tommcfadden5232]

You beat me to the punch.

[@thefootienut]

"Hello there." - Ewan McGregor

[@StuJones-gn7te]

He may have missed the point, but he made another. Lately, saying anything to a woman annoys them.

[@wriewygs7022]

This is actually a really excellent list. I didn't really know what to expect coming across this video but I heartily agree with all of them and also with the respectful but firm manner in which they are explained. Well done!

[@giomar89]

I enjoy educating myself on menswear, as well as learning about topics typically related to gentlemen (drinks, cigars, protocol, etc). Sometimes though, when discussing etiquette in men-women interaction, the conversation can get a bit too old-fashioned (and not in the good way). This is why I appreciate this video so much, absolutely nailed it.

[@LochNessyMonster]

I grew up in a family with 3 women and a father that taught me to respect women. It is very important to show respect to everyone as well as the opposite gender, thank you for making this video and spreading the word!

[@pankakotakismegalomavropou3355]

The hood taught me all I need about women.

[@DanielMartinez316]

I wonder if those women also know how to respect men.

[@hollyphillips7597]

My ex told me that no where in the Bible does it state men have to respect their wives. I said well it is good thing I'm not marrying you then huh?

[@JOz-il2cr]

@@pankakotakismegalomavropou3355what did you learnlmao

[@jacobrepino3808]

Good on GG for appreciating etiquette as an essential component of style!

[@tt55k]

I agree with all of these , however I think that assuming a man has motives to control or insult is not accurate and is not fair to men . Like you look tired today could most likely come from a viewpoint of caring for another’s wellbeing .

[@theskittlesmanreloaded]

💯💯💯

[@gentlemansgazette]

If that is your intention, there are many ways to communicate that in a more tactful way. Do something nice for them, genuinely ask them how they are and engage in a conversation rather than making a statement that is loaded with lots of negative associations. If you want to help someone manage their weight, you don't say you gained weight since we last met. The person is probably keenly aware that they did... and you saying that just makes them feel bad. If you are not sure what to say, ask yourself, what would be the loving thing to say?

[@xyxy5978]

Sometimes the most loving way to say it is simply not mentioning it.

[@d14551]

I think your list is great. And, as you pointed out, many of the items should not be said to anyone.

[@seabreeze4559]

master suppression techniques, they're intended as psychological torture mostly

[@cjdemeo8974]

Really??? Which ones are inappropriate to say to a guy?

[@d14551]

@@cjdemeo8974 "You look tired" "You shouldn't wear that" "You shouldn't eat that" "Let me explain that to you" "You look sick" "When are you going to have children?"

[@themoderndandy713]

@@cjdemeo8974 Pretty much all of them, unless you've gotten to know the man.

[@johnq.public2621]

How about, "You're so much prettier when you're quiet"?

[@kito1156]

no just no

[@itaintobeezy]

Yes a very good classic

[@ltvanburen8555]

Or, “You’re as smart as you are good looking...”

[@johnq.public2621]

@@ltvanburen8555 Ohhhoooooo.........

[@pakkenpk5598]

Well, let’s be honest. Most people are, me included

[@theunknownstuntman4010]

Although i agree with all of these I must say I'm a man and have been asked when I'm having kids, me and my wife both decided we didn't want to be parents but it took a while before people stopped asking or saying well when you're a bit older you will, and I of course still get the is the best thing you'll ever do. If you want or have kids that's fine for you but please respect my choice not to have them

[@origami83]

Altho i agree with most of the things mentioned in this video you are making a whole lot of assumptions about why its bad or how it makes people feel. Setting, tone and familiarity are very important what makes something offensive or not.

[@alihuss.3545]

It's hilarious how some of y'all in the comments are crying about being respectful to women, imagine that. Your mothers would be very proud.

[@OnlyBobGreen]

Your comment does not address any truth whatsoever. It's just emotional appeal.

[@maxvandermeer995]

Great explanations!

[@kenneth7826]

Great list ...being a gentleman is not difficult..you just have to work at it...

[@kennethkristiansen6958]

Hello there

[@mels_life1]

@@kennethkristiansen6958 General Kenobi

[@gsamsa]

The preface to the vid is strongly and articulately presented, argued, and explicated… like a true gent👏

[@missionfitness7933]

LOVE IT! Fantastic, common sense advice instructing us how to be a true gentleman with class. Just discovered your channel now. Also, this gentleman has a fantastic beard and looks great in his suits.

[@stwalstan]

Thank you for pointing out that this isn't how one should speak to anyone.

[@musafirioliver]

Why do you thank for that, sir? I would very much like to know.

[@stwalstan]

@@musafirioliver So often guidance regarding manners is oriented toward the feminine sphere. I appreciate this channel because it functions in the masculine sphere, and the specific council in this video is excellent indeed. I thanked them for doing what they do, I suppose, and for being direct in the presentation, for we know directness, while a trait anyone can have, is most often a masculine one. .

[@RauMichael]

While I agree with many of these, some are over the top, and as the dislike to like ratio indicates I’m not the only one who thinks this. I think there is a good way to sum up my feelings on the matter. As the great late Christopher Hitchens said once: „a gentleman is someone who is never offensive by accident“

[@88Marster]

I’m confused, do we really need such a list, who is saying these things thinking they are normal? Has the viewer base and consumer of ‘GG’ really become in need of this guidance? In fear of failing in with the list but don’t parents teach their children how to behave and what to say?

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

I felt the same way but judging by the amount of dislikes, many men still have a lot to learn.

[@TheVoltaire1]

They are virtue signaling

[@johnq.public2621]

Simp much?

[@stevereed2472]

The channel is about the modern gentleman, do you think that's just about looks?

[@BleedForTheWorld]

They're still perfectly "normal" as in men still say these sexist remarks towards women.

[@MaxMercuryAnonymous]

I was always told the worst thing you can say to a woman is “You smell different when you’re awake”.

[@gentlemansgazette]

Sure there are thousands of things one should not say to anyone, the ones in the video are the ones that may not be super obvious to others.

[@DandyVoice]

Bwahaha 🤣

[@themoderndandy713]

"You're so pretty, you remind me of my grandma."

[@clintony3000]

@@gentlemansgazette r/woosh

[@X50505]

@@gentlemansgazette Sperg reply.

[@airborneranger-ret]

Very nicely done :)

[@Chernochegger]

Sounds like a chat gpt essay

[@Wladislav]

Sometimes it hurts, but we can all grow from this. Solid advice which, as the intro mentioned, often applies no matter the gender. Women sadly have to deal with them far more often than men.

[@marielan91]

As a women, I have enjoyed watching this channel for about a year now. Initially getting pulled in by garment care videos and staying for the outstanding classic menswear looks. Thank you so much for making this video and taking on the labor of social education, therefore lifting a bit of that burden off of women.

[@taralila1563]

Thank you so much

[@Magnivore519]

This has a shocking like to dislike ratio.

[@garlicgirl3149]

I thought so too!!!!

[@pleasurepanda3285]

@G G I'm a fan and a liberal. Being liberal does not negate politeness. Actually I would think it's quite the opposite since liberals seem concerned about making others comfortable regardless of gender or lack of gender. (Any negative reactions from conservatives because I included lack of gender proves me right lol)

[@christiandye92]

@G G Do you really think basic social etiquette should only be reserved for American liberals? Seriously, the stuff said in the video really isn't revolutionary and definitely not overly PC or whatever you think it is. You're either reflexively conflating this with things much more progressive or you're just overly sensitive to these topics. Either way, it's quite reactionary.

[@christiandye92]

@G G lol okay

[@tiborcsendes5269]

He lost me with the whole "mansplaining" bullcrap...that is one of the most ridiculous SJW invention ever. And yes! If you know better than tell her...

[@nursen2106]

important video. most of these things not only apply for men but for women as well. woman shouldn't ask other wome those things as well, except close friends of course.

[@pgplaysvidya]

So. Even that first two questions (are you pregnant, (when) are you getting kids) is something that other women say to each other. I'm never gonna have kids and I get that question enough times. At least I can deflect and say I haven't found the right person but a woman doesn't have that option - people will tell her she can adopt, or just get a man to donate, or whatever. It's insane!

[@martinXY]

2:40 This is my most favourite thing ever.

[@MichaelOssen]

Some of these make sense, however a lot of them have been completely misconstrued in the modern age, as a result of the angered and divided “offended culture”. At the end of the day, words are words and you should assume people’s best intentions when they are spoken.

[@cjdemeo8974]

OR... people should be FREE... free to offend, free to say what's on their mind. IF you don't like it more along.

[@jenniferschmitzer299]

@@cjdemeo8974 so you advocate saying whatever goes on in your head to whoever. Hope that works well for you.

[@themoderndandy713]

@@cjdemeo8974 People should absolutely be free to say whatever they want, but that doesn't mean there shouldn't be consequences for what you say.

[@Jessie_Helms]

About half of these are “just never say this to anyone ever” and the other half is “you’re not someone else’s boss.” And that’s not a criticism of the video, mind you, just pointing out that consciously checking yourself on: 1) what would I do if someone said this to me & 2) do I have the relational equity to say that Would stop most people’s social woes.

[@dandiehm8414]

This one is never good "Are you gaining weight?"

[@georgelush1998]

On the flip side, don’t say “Wow! You lost A LOT of weight.” Just say “You look great!’ And leave it at that.

[@Ar.Anshuman]

People who aren't embarrassed by their physique actually want people to be honest and not lie like this.

[@DHIX33333]

@@georgelush1998 Sometimes people lose a lot of weight because of a serious illness. I try to tread lightly on weight comments in general.

[@DapperDebonair9820]

Which is better?: ‘Tis a wonderful morning madam. - Or - G.M. gurl.

[@ivan66755]

Both should put you on a list

[@ngatiramona]

Goodmorning. That's it.

[@JeMappelleFrikandel]

Goodmorning my fair lady.

[@garlicgirl3149]

Madam

[@DapperDebonair9820]

Oh my there are some wonderful Gents in the reply section

[@andreleverettejr3747]

My wife one time complimented me on my physique and i said "thank you" then she said "i wish i could get into shape, i feel a bit embarrassed sometimes being with you in public" i said "dont feel that way, also i can help you *explained a workout routine* she then gets defensive and storms off, i thought she wanted help 🤔

[@garlicgirl3149]

From a woman...naw...sorry too because I know confusing. Just validation you still like her for who she is now.

[@outinarizona]

This is one of those easy to misunderstand questions because it means different things to men and women. Fix it help vs I just want you to listen to me talk it out and maybe a hug. And who.I am is immediately triggered to offer you help, my husband and I have been there, done that, but I don't know you folks or the event.

[@TH-eb5ro]

You were so close. She may want help but first address/acknowledge the vulnerability/emotion she has shared, reinforce how you see her (if positive) and then offer that you'd be willing to help....and wait for her to ask for it. 'don't feel that way' negates her sharing/vulnerability and created the defensiveness. Have you brought it up again? I think you both had good intentions.

[@FightingTemplar]

Most times, They don’t want a solution to the issue (like a man does). Instead, They want you to sympathize with them and affirm.

[@blizzbee]

😂🤔🤨

[@BrianLannoye]

Is this list only for men? Because I hear a lot of these list items being said by other women.

[@111danish111]

0:32 Streeterville Chicago ?

[@th3n3wk1dd]

Context is everything. While I agree with most of the list, some of those are not insulting or not gender specific. For example "You're Crazy"... If you think that phrase is worse only sexist when said by a man to a woman but if said to another man it means something different. then "You're Crazy". (see what I did there). Anyone that can take non-gender specific terms and then makes them about gender is a red flag. Do not continue with forward with that relationship. If you are trying to get on a woman's good side, stay clear of the "back handed compliments" like listed in this video. Some of those things though, if I heard "Mansplaining" used unironically.. The date will end right there. Anyone that uses a gender specific word that both genders can do isn't a match. Smile, Thank her for her time and never see her again.

[@ellengarbsch3174]

Excellent video!

[@iamspecialised]

The narration and presentation is so good.

[@The2000guy]

I would say 18 things never to say to a woman to a woman

[@watcherwlc53]

It's hard to believe there are any dislikes to the video and the various complaints in the comment section are just a hoot. I mean it's almost like some people really don't want to treat other people courteousy, i.e, be a gentleman, so... why are they watching gentleman's gazette to begin with, if they object to the most basic definition of being a gentleman?

[@StuJones-gn7te]

Its been my experience that all a man has to say to anger a woman is "no." Doesn't seem to matter how nicely its said nor why.

[@zapplay]

Nice video! Some cool examples what it's all about respect )

[@shanewright2772]

11. "My wife doesn't understand me, either"

[@theskittlesmanreloaded]

Don't know most of these are OK and great advise but some of it over top. For example if I tell "someone you look ill or sick" it's out of concern for someone and no way insulting them. Though I follow that question up with "are things ok etc.... ". But hi we live in a culture that anything can be offensive when in fact it's not.

[@hollowempty6086]

I think it depends on the way that someone says it because their tone can be interpreted as ironic or dismissive.

[@wendyleeconnelly2939]

And also if it's a stranger it is truly none of your business and you are probably wrong, they probably aren't ill or sad and probably don't actually look that way either

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

This is a good list. To me it’s common sense. I find the amount of dislikes troubling.

[@turtle4614]

We need this channel at this time in our society more than ever. I have been guilty of a few of these for sure and I believed I was a true gentleman. Point is that we could all use a little adjustment when it comes to our manners. Thanks for this channel.

[@freddysperring8294]

Why are people acting surprised, these are all great suggestions for gentlemen, who above all treat people with respect, this channel is not for the weird modern "Alpha" trend...

[@fyzxnerd]

I feel like you can restate most of the core messages here without dipping into gender dichotomy. Most of these are insulting no matter who is giving or receiving the exchange. I would recommend reconsidering the context of what would have otherwise been an excellent video on social interaction. "In summary a gentleman should always treat others with respect..." Thanks for the content.

[@FightingTemplar]

Well said. Can’t it just not be proper, because it’s rude and/or intrusive? Many times, I have heard women utter some of these. A few of his “reasons” were not the obvious reason(s), in my opinion, especially the one about being pregnant or having children.

[@user-vu2yb1gy4l]

While I understand your point, they specified some of this things have an specific cultural and sexist undertone to it, especially in more sexist countries like México (where I am from).

[@channelrafy]

I'm waiting for the "What not to say to men" video

[@sosborne9060]

Considering this is a channel aimed towards men and menswear, I highly doubt they will release one. There’s a reason that ‘gentleman’ is in the title.

[@tt55k]

There is no rules don’t you know

[@elusana]

always that one guy that goes “what about men” when discussing women

[@shogun2215]

@@sosborne9060 ...homosexual Gentlemen exist, you know.

[@sosborne9060]

@@shogun2215 and I assume, being men, that they will know what is insulting to say to men. Ie. ‘Man up’

[@the_9ent]

These are valid points but couldn’t help think of PC Principal saying these things.

[@jeannette9090]

❤️ Thank you for sharing this. It makes me happy to know that there are modern gentleman that will educate other gentleman (to be) about behaviour to women/people.

[@joshmiller7777]

This comment made me smile, completely agree!!

[@yashav2949]

#20: I was much more financially well off when I was single.

[@jakeedgell591]

I mean, it’s not my fault they don’t like the truth

[@andreleverettejr3747]

Well its actually true, fewer dependents, fewer finance to split, just because something is rude to say doesnt make it untrue if its said unfortunately

[@silvergreyrose4116]

I think it's more about that fact that when you say this, it's true to you, but it won't leave you in good standing with your partner if you think they're a potential good friend that can be their for you in rough times. Some people go into relationships without much planning, and end up losing some gain financially because they can't satisfy the relationship and their work needs. But they might end up becoming good friends instead of lovers if they know they can't be together without bringing down each other financially, whether unintentional or not. If they're a genuinely toxic person who only wants your money and time, and not you, then it would be better to tell them upfront (if you can do so safely) that this relationship is not working out. Like how for work, when you want to leave in good standing, you put in a two week notice of your leave, so they can try and find another person to replace you with before you leave. This other person, if mature enough, will understand your decision and might feel the same way about splitting up. But if you both know your good with finances independently, you might consider becoming good friends to help each other out in rough times, instead of burning all ties with them. Unless they aren't interested in helping you, are toxic in behavior, or just don't want to be around you.

[@OnlyBobGreen]

If she's throwing your money away, that's on you. My wife is only allowed to buy expensive things when I see fit or if its a need. Otherwise, I track most of our spending and plan ahead. Just say no, she will like you more. Trust me.

[@Grabehn42]

I have to profoundly disagree there, "You look like a peasant" should even be the subtitle of this channel.

[@themoderndandy713]

"Hello and Welcome to the Gentleman's Gazette, where you look like a peasant so we don't have to."

[@leventebardossy5962]

@@themoderndandy713 Or: Welcome to the Gentleman's Gazette, where you look like a peasant, so we'll tell you how not to.

[@OnlyBobGreen]

There is something so funny about stating that someone looks like a peasant.

[@miltmarhoffer7829]

One to consider the double edge before saying "who are you mad at"????

[@amill1563]

An animated Preston is very funny!

[@juliea.]

I've had those 18 things said to me throughout my 41 years, but not just from men! I think people are just not taught proper social language. Last week I took my 8 year old son to the park and an older woman asked me if he was my grandson (FYI I have natural silver hair in the front, but it's stylish, not dowdy), and I was so shocked. "Why yes, Ma'am, I was a very troubled teen..." LOL

[@oscarclarke2653]

It is so easy to just mind your business, but no...so many guys just have to share their opinion lol

[@staceygram5555]

And even more women.

[@feeble_goblin3764]

Though this isn’t just for woman never say “calm down” it implies that the person you are talking to is being unreasonable this and other statements can be further explained in the book verbal judo

[@KnotApps]

All of these are valid, what's with the downvote ratio

[@jennasaurusrex5296]

As a woman.... I agree with pretty mjch all of these. It's about etiquette and manners which is meant to promote the comfort and ease of the individual you are interacting with. Show women the same respect she should show you. I won't judge your tennis socks with sandals and as I would not want a man(or woman) judging my makeup choices - unless I ask for your opinion then please be honest. LOL

[@Aliexei]

I prefer when women pay for my drinks so I really can't say I ever said that they are lucky for drinking for free. Feeling like a gentleman already.

[@brunogiambroni1422]

Great video and excellent advice 👍🏼

[@MrFisch-jj1yz]

Nice video! thanks. Can you make a video on how to organise a white-tie event and what mistakes and/or problems to take care of? Also what are the must-haves there? It's really too bad that most white-tie events died out nowadays...

[@RealShrigmaMale]

That’s a good question. I too am curious.

[@terranyaera7008]

The video is okay. But what you should know is that, YOU CAN SAY WHAT YOU MEAN, AS LONG AS YOU KNOW HOW TO SAY IT. KNOWING HOW TO COMMUNICATE AND BRING UP YOUR THOUGHTS THROUGH YOUR WORDS, IS EVERYTHING ! ✌

[@michaeljennings8221]

Typing a comment in all caps does nothing to prove your point.

[@Jijita1]

Thank you fo this

[@LatimusChadimus]

Growing up with my mom gram and older sister, i can say I'm confident i pass all 18 listed. Can't wait to hear these

[@theDapperVault]

Never ever comment about their weight! NOT EVEN THE SLIGHTEST BIT 😂

[@Jessie_Helms]

I do feel like this video needs one large asterisks. •Can make you come across as sexist• I am a believer that most people aren’t racist, sexist, etc... but people often don’t think of the context, don’t realize how *because* of the particular dynamic (a white person lecturing a black person, a man over explaining to a woman, for example) it can appear that you’re being bigoted. I also know from personal experience that most of the time when someone has “no filter” it’s sometimes because they genuinely don’t understand that what they’re saying could be harmful. I spent months literally being trained on how to act socially by a close mentor, and so many things I’d never even imagine could be considered taboo, or mean, or taken personally, I realized I’d been saying.

[@KomradeKrusher]

I tend to agree with you to some degree. Yes, most people are probably not aware of how what they say might make them seem in certain situations. However, the true problems arise when these people, once being made aware of it, stubbornly refuse to acknowledge the fact, instead ranting against imaginary "woke BS" etc. That being said, all the more respect to you for taking that certainly often difficult journey.

[@tombo7058]

Thank you for this Video, I've learned a lot.

[@latedala07]

In constant appreciation of the wonderful model of positive masculinity the Gentleman's Gazette has cultivated, thank you guys!

[@cindyschnittgrund9407]

excellent!

[@EcstaticTemporality]

The problem with some of this advice is devoided of necessary context to the situation one finds himself. For example, number 11 can be appropriate depending on the situation. If someone has the wrong perception about an event that happened between clients or work, then the expression can help reframe the conversation and steer it to the heart of the matter. Number 11 makes the lazy assumption that this expression is innately sexist or offensive; and it assumes there isn't a larger conversation going on. The advice in this video also does NOT take into account that an actual prior conversation has occurred or is taking place. While some of these are obvious such as asking a woman if she is pregnant or she needs to smile. Offering unsolicited advice/opinions/intrusive questions always runs the risk to offend man or woman, nothing especially revelatory about limiting this to women only. I think a closer examination of the assumptions and motivations to give this advice would underscore how a content creator sees its own audience or men at large.

[@2nd5amuel]

Thx, I appreciate this one.

[@hewhoderps4362]

So how should I express concern for another without bringing up their appearance?

[@MikeCarmineA239]

Thank you 🙏 ! 👏👏👏👏

[@MikeB071]

5:15 There's a flip side to this; women feeling entitled to free drinks. I wish I had a dollar for every time a woman has said to me, "aren't you going to buy me a drink?" Well, if I had any interest in you at all, I would have done it already...

[@seabreeze4559]

traditionally, women aren't supposed to ask, so you'd be obliged to turn them down in all cases

[@jenniferschmitzer299]

Really? You’ve had that? Ick

[@ecmo11]

Why does a Gentleman's Gazette video open with a guy wearing a hat indoors - something a gentleman *never* does?!?

[@Egilhelmson]

Oh, *that* was the problem with his outfit? It was a very elegant ball cap, NOT!

[@backyardhistorybattles]

@@Egilhelmson His outfit was indeed far from elegant

[@Turn-the-light-off]

Wise advise. However, I have been in situations where trying to choose my words was far harder than controlling the person's actions. Meaning the person wanted a response, and I wasn't having any of it - I end the conversation and left the room; I have never shared words with this individual again. Nice video though, keep up the great work and stay safe.

[@tonydeltablues]

All needed to be said; thanks Kyle. Interesting that, as I type, there are 125 dislikes....

[@melylamash]

Apparently treating women correctly is not a gentlemanly thing to do 😳

[@KomradeKrusher]

@@melylamash or maybe the Gentleman's Gazette has (had?) a lot of not very gentlemanly followers. I guess it goes with the current "Alpha" trend and certain past collabs with such channels.

[@tonydeltablues]

@@melylamash It would appear to be so....for some...

[@jtee5957]

@@KomradeKrusher or maybe these apologetic whimpers come across as weak and unmanly. A real relationship can handle occasional bad manners. It’s called forgiveness and growth. Real humans, not mice afraid if making minor mistakes. My gf talks about me looking tired and wearing the wrong things often. And she’s usually right. Big deal.

[@KomradeKrusher]

@@jtee5957 oh, I see, there seems to be some confusion on your part, then. You see, the title does not say "18 things not to say to your girlfriend/wife/significant other" and most clips depict people interacting in a public/business surrounding, not cuddled up on the couch. You might want to re-evaluate your position based on these factors.

[@Jes9119]

"Are those real?" Escaped this list?

[@swissgator6312]

Gents, never pay for a woman's drink from the get-go. There are too many women out there who will gladly accept your drink and then walk away (getting free drinks isn't a myth you know).

[@yunia_ooo]

What a good video! Love Kyle's voice :-) I have been told "you are hilarious...for a woman" a couple times and I am never sure how to take this "compliment" :-D

[@herbtube7824]

It's a genuine one!

[@backyardhistorybattles]

@@herbtube7824 Facts

[@kermitthefrog6628]

Just be kind to them. Not just women but for everyone.

[@Phobos2085]

Any word on that "Alternative Leathers" video?

[@TheSarah730]

Great video 👍 thank you Kyle and GG

[@Daretofeelalive]

This should be teached in high schools. I think you misunderstood me. What I meant was that this information is so valuable that it shoud be teached at a younger age, so people would grow up constantly learning to be polite in society. As for my mistake, english is not my mother's tongue. You could have been a little more gentle.

[@benjaminberneche9753]

I suppose grammar should be teached in high schools as well.

[@jangiovanni9231]

The Simp's Gazette

[@Amory-wd3ws]

Awesome profile picture

[@fastwalker128]

She’s just a friend.

[@benjaminlehman3221]

Never ask a women her age, weight, or if she is pregnant.

[@X50505]

...Unless you're her Doctor.

[@mg1721]

and women can ask how much you earn and how tall you are ☺️

[@archaicamusement3871]

@@mg1721 😂

[@wendyleeconnelly2939]

it's incredibly common for women to ask other women these invasive questions too. boundaries people!

[@watcherwlc53]

@@mg1721 don't answer if it bothers you. you can even be more direct and calmly say "I don't answer personal questions" Really everyone can do this but should not have to.

[@christiandye92]

It's always interesting to see videos that should be non-controversial getting under people's skin. Hitting a little close to home, eh? These are very solid points about human interaction that some people desperately need to internalize instead of getting upset over it.

[@joshmiller7777]

Well said :)

[@X50505]

Or maybe it's because the intricacies of videos like these go completely over your head. This is a channel for adults, yet viewers are being lectured to like they're children in a school yard. Not only that, but it generates the idea that anything a man says to a woman can have deep sexist meanings simply because it's a man saying it to a woman, rather than the thing being said itself actually being sexist - this belief in itself is sexist. It also plays right into the hands of the current SJW trend of men being evil and in need of "re-education" whilst women are completely innocent victims.

[@christiandye92]

@@X50505 Do you seriously think that's what they're doing? Sounds more like you're reading way too into basic advice because a few key words were used. Seriously, this is borderline conspiratorial.

[@christiandye92]

@Anthony Suffok You're very one note, my guy.

[@watcherwlc53]

@@X50505 I think they're talking about a few specific items and some attitude. It's not about some grand larger scheme or something. Just say "thanks" and use the instructions to help guide you to be a better guy. if you don't want to... then you sir, are no gentleman.

[@TovarichSputnik]

Interesting (and not in a good way) how many down votes this has.

[@fransliszt]

I think it's great

[@easylee4uify]

If you're having a problem with being polite or courteous to a woman then this probably isn't the channel for you. Why dress like a gentleman if you're not going to behave like one?

[@KomradeKrusher]

Succinctly put.

[@benjaminberneche9753]

One could also ask why the GG assumes its subscribers are people who need to be condescended to in a woke feminist diatribe. The fact is that it is the usual simp M.O.: virtue signaling when it is entirely unnecessary.

[@KomradeKrusher]

@@benjaminberneche9753 the fact that you mistake basic etiquette and social behavior for "woke feminist diatribe" alone shows that this video was obviously needed. You also seem to be under the wrong assumption that this video is meant as anything more than an advice, which is purely a problem of your own. As usual, you can listen to the advice offered and try to follow the clues given in it in your daily "gentlemanly routine" or you can disregard it completely at the risk of looking like a peasant.

[@dylanbonnet2675]

@@benjaminberneche9753 You are correct.

[@easylee4uify]

@@benjaminberneche9753 So you see every advice video they've made as condescending? Or just the one suggesting being polite to other people. You might want to revisit the actual definition of "simping" (even the urban dictionary) . It doesn't define common courtesy as simping.