18 Must Have Items Every Gentleman Should Own

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00:00 Introduction
00:29 Well-fitting suit
So ideally, that's a bespoke suit such as you can get on Savile Row. As a side note, the Japanese word for a suit is SEBIRO which is their pronunciation of Savile Row. A bespoke suit makes a very interesting experience, at the same time, it's quite pricey.
01:44 Quality lighter
Ideally, with a double flame. A traditional brand would be something like a DuPont and if you don't smoke, not even cigars, it's okay you don't need it but at the end of the day, it's each to his own.
02:00 Good umbrella
Obviously, some countries specialize in umbrellas because they have very rainy weather, such as England, or Great Britain, and because of that, you'll find lots of quality makers on that island. Good brands include Brigg, Fox umbrellas, or James Smith.
03:16 Quality trench coat
Some purists swear by the original models from Burberry, others go with Aquascutum.
03:38 Quality corkscrew
Some people like Laguiole, which is a French brand, and they have handmade corkscrews made for sommelier or waiters or people who just use it a lot.
04:27 Linen handkerchief
You can either wear them as a pocket square or you can use them to dry your tears, to polish a glass, or do something else.
05:00 Quality fountain pen with a gold nib
There's simply nothing like a good fountain pen because it's very smooth, it gives your handwriting a very distinguished sophisticated look that can't be replicated with a ballpoint pen or a rollerball.
06:02 Quality toolbox with quality tools
Sometimes, people swear by certain brands such a Stanley, DeWalt, Milwaukee, or Bosch. At the end of the day, you'll have to figure out what is an acceptable amount of money to spend on the tool, however, I find that oftentimes you can find quality tools at estate sales or at flea markets.
06:50 Real camera
I mean something where you can adjust the ISO, shutter speed, and aperture manually so you can take exactly the picture that you want.
07:59 Black dress shoes
It's a very formal shoe that you can wear for business purposes, for funerals, or whenever you need a serious-looking shoe.
08:33 Signature Scent
As you might suspect, I always favor quality scents and I stay away from famous name brands such as Armani or Ralph Lauren, or Mont Blanc because generally, the essences they use inside the bottle costs very little, the flacon cost a little more and profit overall is quite high.
09:14 Serious watch
Some people say a proper watch is the first jewel a man owns and while you can discuss about that, it's definitely something that is part of a classic gentleman's wardrobe.
10:32 Vintage port
It's a Portuguese tradition that when a child is born, you buy a bottle of that vintage year.
10:59 Favorite book
By great, I mean either the first edition or another edition where the author made significant changes.
11:43 Pristine white dress shirt
I think it should be the first one every gentleman invests in because it's something that can always be worn.
12:19 Pair of cufflinks
By that, I mean something that you can wear with different outfits no matter whether it's a business suit or a tweed sport coat.
12:57 Quality belt and a quality pair of suspenders
Ideally, the belt should have folded edges or should be neatly edge painted.
13:49 Signet ring or a pinky ring
It's just a very elegant thing that a gentleman can wear and just like with fountain pens once you have one you will likely create a collection.
14:22 Outfit Rundown
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[@ryanlee354]

gentlemans gazette drinking game: take a shot every time Rafael says he has big thighs

[@gentlemansgazette]

lol

[@mandeepbaweja3021]

And sloppy shoulders 😂

[@mb13972]

He got those from riding horses.

[@joshuajackson4742]

😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@joecool9739]

Is it wrong for a well-mannered gentleman to have thick, voluptuous thighs?

[@bailey9947]

I love using my linen handkerchief to dry my tears from all the money I spent on it

[@sergiocorrea63]

Jajajajaja, you made my day with that comment............

[@killoffman]

Legendary

[@christianhernandez5928]

LOL

[@oliverf.68]

Some of those square pockets are more expensive than the suit itself Hahahaha

[@Chahlie]

Female here...I have lost so many high quality hankies to men who never seem to have one. Now I just keep an inexpensive men's one in my bag, I got 3 for the price of one of mine.

[@stephenlegg262]

The 19th item is a wallet full of cash.

[@shanewright2772]

A gentleman never carries cash

[@bobbirdsong6825]

Shane Wright A gentleman always carries cash. It is far more versatile and accepted everywhere.

[@shanewright2772]

Hi Bob. Versatile and Accepted everywhere? Maybe amongst drug dealers, but in the real world try getting your leftover South African rand accepted in a cafe in Prague

[@bobbirdsong6825]

Perhaps you don't understand that different countries have different currencies and that you can't generally use them interchangeably? The point of cash is being prepared and being able to make small, or even large purchases without having to pay them back later. It also gives you a better sense of the money you're spending. Cheers!

[@shanewright2772]

I understand that perfectly well. I also understand that a gentleman avoids carrying cash - he either has a credit card, an arrangement with the supplier or a valet to do so.

[@MarkWilliams-gy9bi]

When you see someone sitting on an umbrella: "Ah, I see you're a man of culture as well."

[@brucecharlie8613]

Yes bit of a Dwain Dibbly Vibe lol

[@kendallevans4079]

@@brucecharlie8613 Or John Sneed

[@TJ-cm6pc]

Nothing says gentlemen like sitting on an umbrella? Lol

[@slamminsammy941]

Tyler Jacobs then by all means don't pay money for a custom umbrella that has that added. Problem solved

[@TJ-cm6pc]

Samwise Gamge Of course, no need to tell me that, I never planned on it.

[@bandname]

Looked like he was shoving it up his arse.

[@TomCreedphx]

as long as you give up your umbrella for chicks if they forgot their sitting umbrella

[@theapexsurvivor9538]

@@TomCreedphx only if they appear in need of it or ask politely, a gentleman should never give up his seat for those who act hoonish or unladylike, nor attempt to force it upon a lady.

[@JoostEurovisionFans]

What you can also hand down to your children: 1. Good manners 2. Respect 3. Love of a father

[@patriot9487]

And a good beating

[@JoostEurovisionFans]

I approve, only if nessecary

[@Mistraker]

If you beat your children, you are trash, and should jump into a running woodchipper.

[@QS1597]

Only if your child is willing to take it

[@folumb]

beating children just teaches them to get more clever at hiding things from you and not getting caught

[@MegaMagician12]

Being a gentleman sounds expensive... (Edit: I did not realize how many people where gonna get serious about this lol. It's just a joke everyone. Being a gentleman is all about attitude and respect. Not about luxuries or expenses.)

[@_KingOfCalifornia]

It's the admittance fee, a lot of this stuff won't need replacing for a while

[@theapexsurvivor9538]

If it was cheap, everyone would do it.

[@nafismunandar4275]

You would invest in these for a long period of time. At 20 year you buy your first suit, at 21 your french cuff white shirt, and so on. At the end of your life you pass it on your grandson to make it easier for them to start as a gent before they can afford their own.

[@kennethmitchell6184]

Actually it's not as expensive as you think most of the things mentioned I already own.

[@burpostockings]

Right? I got some snap on tools and a nice Beavis and Butthead zippo, and im out like $400

[@terrydrums]

Great. Now do a video for us non-millionaires!

[@Patrick-857]

terrydrums vintage suit?

[@user-bl1zt9xg7f]

This guys sense of reality is distorted. Who wants to live like we're all always in a meeting or a party.

[@Sartonica]

The term "gentleman" means different things to different social classes.

[@rp6699]

haha exactly my thoughts

[@doylemurphy152]

Folks, he telling you something by the term “vintage”. I live in a small town in Oklahoma. You can find some stuff from a Wal-Mart. I found some stuff from a Target in the Tulsa area. I can check a resale shop for “vintage” clothing. Target is really good for some stuff at a great price. Winter tuff is fixing to go on clearance. I can check Ross in Muskogee for items. If you need a new suit, there is a really good place in Tulsa around 41st and Memorial that start at $99.00. It not like a bunch of people around this area knows what bespoke is or heard of Savoy Row in London. Raphael and creative buying here in Oklahoma would impress the mayor or a me,her of the state legislature. The Governor here doesn’t know he should where morning dress for his daytime inauguration. If you live so we like New York or LA or big cities in Europe, follow Raphael to the letter. If you live like I do in Northeastern Oklahoma/ Northwestern Arkansas, people just think you got class cause you are wearing clothing for out on the town that doesn’t have logos for OU, OSU and University of Arkansas.

[@puppetmaster82]

'You can use the handkerchief to dry your tears' I guess while sitting on that umbrella seat, right?

[@BusyBadger]

puppet I searched specifically hoping for a quote making this connection!

[@prof.dr.sebastianbemeier131]

You are a real genius😂😂

[@mattil2302]

While looking in your wallet after you have all the items you must have

[@TheJellyfish703]

The umbrella handle seat looks a little embarrassing when one is sat upon it....

[@cristiankaz2264]

Jellyfish 703 agreed

[@mandeepbaweja3021]

😂 yes

[@havocproltd]

tony - if you're a guy taking a coed to a museum for undergrad fine arts credits lord or not your sleeping alone! well, unless you'er known as Anthony...then not so much a coed as...

[@S4SuperStarSteveSavage]

1) Suit 2) Lighter 3) Umbrella 4) Trench Coat 5) Corkscrew 6) Linen Handchift 7) Fountain Pen 8) Tool Box with Tools 9) Camera 10) Welted Black Cap Toe Oxfords 11) Signature Scent 12) Watch 13) Bottle of Vintage Port 14) Great Copy of your Favorite Book 15) White Dress Shirt 16) Cufflinks 17) Quality Belt & Suspenders 18) Signet Ring or Pinky Ring

[@ForlornFreddy]

19) Subscription to Hustler.

[@MichailMantakas]

19. A Swiss Army knife.

[@Mike_and_Life]

Mihail Mantakas this isn't the boy scouts.

[@damnson4491]

a real gentleman will never use a swiss army knife

[@dylancurtis7435]

they have some real nice stainless steel models. I can see a gentleman whipping out the stainless or the gold ingot cigar cutter swiss army knife out at a party perhaps.

[@jordanhicks5131]

Mihail Mantakas i would not specify the type of knife beyond simply "a good quality pocket knife" Leave it open for whatever knife fits their needs best. I prefer a spring loaded single straight blade with a spear style tip. Its small, but fast and sharp and perfect for any chore from cutting threads to cutting a steak.

[@jojo890xd4]

Michael for what ?

[@STNeish]

I've worked in mens' wear for close to 30 years, and I still find your videos informative and even inspiring. I can't say I agree in every case, but your videos offer excellent insight and advice. Bravo!

[@azy63]

I also work in men's clothing. I'm less conspicuous that way.

[@STNeish]

@@azy63 I've made a similar joke, I work in mens' clothing... because I look silly in a dress.

[@russianoldschoo48]

7:38 Random fun fact about that photo, the Soviet’s doctored the photo because the guy who was holding the flag had been looting and had three watches on his wrists

[@ArsynZ]

"I'm very important. I have many leather-bound books and my apartment smells of rich mahogany." - Ron Burgundy

[@richardwebb2348]

once mahogany is french polished it has no smell.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

"olho os livros na minha estante, Que nada dizem de importante, Servem só pra quem não sabe ler..." - Raul Seixas (I'd post the translation but it doesn't rhyme in English"

[@marilynonor7758]

ArsynZ that sounds fancy..

[@tyler5198]

I'm kind of a big deal, people know me

[@lisbetsoda4874]

🤣😂🤣

[@nigelvansuspicioussalmon7824]

how to spot a gentleman i a museum... Its the guy who looks like he has a umbrella up his rear end

[@abdullahtariq2032]

😂😂😂😂

[@Methodsaimon]

hahahahahaha!

[@killoffman]

"It doesn't have to be made out of solid gold." Ahh thanks for clarifying that, I was just about to go into overdraft.

[@lisbetsoda4874]

Actually, of all jewellery, a ring should be made out of solid metal whether gold or silver. Gold-plated items simply don't keep the gold finish due to the wear a ring gets. Gold-plated cufflinks, on the other hand, would be just fine.

[@dragonmaster7841]

The classiest men’s “how to dress” channel. Lot of other channels are tacky.

[@Jessie_Helms]

RMRS is a good channel once you’re a bit more in the know, but I’d be afraid to recommend him to a new guy cause of some of his more out there stuff. Gazette seems to really strike that good balance between “this is what WE like” “this is really good advise” and “this is a fundamental rule” for people starting out. HeSpoke is also really good from what I’ve seen so far.

[@lisbetsoda4874]

The best channel is Sartorial Talks - it is phenomenal. This one is also very good and RMRS is great, also.

[@cristiankaz2264]

The pocket knife and the korkscrew could have been easily solved with just one "quality" swiss multi-tool.... That's just my opinion.

[@bongXryger]

gonna open a nice bottle at the fine dinner party with that? o.o' im gonna stay with my rosewood corkscrew

[@johnadams8701]

My experience is that the corkscrew on a SAK or other multi tool is adequate for occasional use but doesn't eliminate the need for a proper corkscrew.

[@JohanKylander]

Victorianox Swiss army knives.

[@Mike_and_Life]

There is nothing attractive or stylish about a Swiss army knife.

[@JohanKylander]

Michael There isn't, it's just a useful tool to have.

[@monicawilson896]

I love that my husband and father in law carry a handkerchief. My father in law offered his hankie to me when I was feeling ill and my husband offered his to our lady friend when she was upset. This gesture felt so nurturing to me and my friend. It is also mentioned in the movie Intern by Robert DiNero’s character for similar reasons. Little things can make a big impact.

[@theactualnic]

Call me crazy but I use a typewriter to write notes and letters to people. With my signature in fountain pen. It looks fantastic, old-world and people never forget it. Definitely a good investment for a gentleman because good typewriters appreciate in value!!

[@dooterscoots2901]

5:45 "loved one OR a child"

[@alvarvonhofsten5679]

dooterscoots HAHAHAHAHHA

[@desmondmoonbear8149]

He kid ! Want to buy a pen?

[@sorrychangedmyusername3594]

I'm giving my heirlooms to a preschool child near my street.

[@seanwhite1023]

I think think the Burberry toilet paper is another valid addition to this list starting at only $600. You can also buy it vintage at $400 if you are on a very low budget.

[@Dannyheal]

I think a good pocket or pen knife should be on this list as well. It is as essential as a lighter. Nothing big or gaudy, just high quality steel, preferably with a handle made of horn, and no longer than 3.5 - 4 inches in length. I personally don't smoke, but I do not leave my home without my wallet, phone, lighter, and knife. Then again, my pocket knife was my grandfather's and he carried it into WW2, so it is something I also plan on passing on to my child as well. Overall this list is very solid and doable, even if you aren't well off.

[@PiranhaJaw22]

2:40 nothing more gentlemanly than appearing to have an umbrella poking out from your a

[@tessat338]

One of my favorite scores at a department store discount center was a well made lady's short trench coat. I live in a temperate climate and get a lot of use out of it during the spring and autumn. It fits perfectly and wears well. I wear it for casual evening and day wear.

[@thepessolanoinquirer6856]

2:37 OMG lmao, I have nothing more to say I can’t.

[@markpinwill722]

My "pinky" rings are my Mum and Dads wedding rings inside each other that have been soldered together and on the other hand is my late wife's wedding ring that I have had resized. The funny things the "Mum and Dad's" rings always create the most interest.

[@mysteriouskiwi9965]

another drinking game: take a shot everytime he says "quality"

[@DavidLLambertmobile]

In 2019 some business & manufacturing firms rarely say: "quality" or quality control... 😏

[@raikkuli3513]

I don't want to get alcohol poisoning

[@lukedorough4329]

Oh I be ded

[@jeremyf2720]

When I’m 21 I will come back to this comment

[@sorrychangedmyusername3594]

quality comment

[@thepassionofthegoose5472]

I love this channel. I have been looking for a proper men's channel that doesn't cater to trends while trying to sell me cheap watches and questionable skincare. Subscribed.

[@SilencerM4]

What do you think about wearing clout goggles and a suit

[@vho8483]

SilencerM4 I think a man of culture...

[@MostafaElSakari]

You gave me a great idea

[@ss_1972]

No no no

[@briang530]

After a recent wedding, I was reminded of just how important it is to always have an umbrella, clean and disposable handkerchiefs, and a fountain pen. (as much as I don't like letting others use my fountain pen). All of the above items were indispensable.

[@thebespokecyclist3624]

You go to weddings often?

[@briang530]

@@thebespokecyclist3624 hopefully done with the 2 to 3 a year routine that hits between about 27 and 37 years old...

[@dr9683]

why would you by a $150 cork screw? utterly ridiculous

[@ryzxn4703]

D R people who have to much cash to put it in their italian leather wallet or gucci purse.

[@cavejohnson4306]

People who work at 3 star restaurants.

[@slappy8941]

Like the saying goes, if it must be explained to you, then you wouldn't understand.

[@odinlindeberg4624]

@@slappy8941 Well, guess pretty much nobody really understands math beyond additions and subtractions...

[@knpstrr]

Essentially everything he buys would hope to be heirloom pieces. Meaning the quality is so fine that generations after you can have them and use them if they'd like -- to remember and talk about you. Not everyone would care to do this and that is their choice. But this man has a business based upon these things so it makes sense for him to make such recommendations.

[@oliverfasola19]

The second one being a lighter? That actually blew my mind, I’m 19 and have a fairly good lighter collection going. The fact you mentioned ST DuPont is amazing

[@ishowyouapple]

You forgot a good quality Axe, for chopping wood.

[@lucakaiser4135]

Everybody knows the most important item is a army issued colt m1911

[@stephenandersen4625]

With ivory handles

[@offbeatbassgear]

@@stephenandersen4625 Everyone know that a true gentleman carries a Walther PPK for everyday use and a handmade Korth revolver for formal occasions and for dueling.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

@@offbeatbassgear [laughs in P99]

[@cadetflamen12]

Wooden handles are the best

[@AnonymousGentooman]

@@offbeatbassgear pair it with a nice glove so you can slap people and challenge them to a duel

[@leonardgoffe7159]

After the wallet full of cash, I would suggest a high power quality pen size flashlight. I use mine every week.

[@iLoveTheseRemoras]

+ pen size Fleshlight

[@asunoyt]

iLoveTheseRemoras LOL

[@DavidLLambertmobile]

I use a Fenix UC35 😉. I'd suggest the newer 2019 2.0 version. A white light 🔦 with a strobe or SOS feature can signal friends or ride share drivers at night 🌃, or help in a attack...

[@lawrencetedford357]

How about that.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

@@DavidLLambertmobile I'd rather have a Convoy. Much less overpriced and equal quality.

[@slothietunion1742]

"18 must have item's every gentleman should own" 7:38 ah yes. The glorious flag of motherland. A must have for every gopnik gentleman

[@TheLordbarry]

Double breasted waistcoat is one of the most difficult thing to fit right nowadays, yours is absolutely on point. Thank you for letting us enjoying such wonderful craftsmanship. :)

[@Extremmist]

It's a good list but I think there's one item that doesn't belong there; the digital camera. No matter what camera you'll buy, within a few years it's going to be worth a fraction of its original price so you should think twice whether you can justify the cost, unless your photos can earn you money. Not to mention that to get high quality photos you need to learn how to use the camera and then process the photos with a computer.

[@md-lc8gq]

On the other hand high quality vintage cameras are relatively affordable and will only rise in value. Learning how to film is also pretty easy and if you dont care about the process you can just send them to the lab afterwards and get some nice prints and/or scans that look nice without photoshop.

[@Jessie_Helms]

There are digital cameras at Best Buy for less than $500 that, assuming you care about good quality photos of special events, vacations, etc.... would definitely be worth it imo.

[@Jkp1321]

8. Different brands have their specialty tools and what they make best, so just look around. 9. Having a good camera is only as good as the photographer.

[@stevelegge3307]

it's the glass not the camera

[@fastfoxblox]

The camera quality certainly helps though

[@liftthathigher]

In the future the umbrella seat will be looked back on as a regret..

[@thermionic1234567]

I have a pair of lapis lazuli and solid gold cuff links. They were handed down to me from my great uncle. They are simple and absolutely-beautiful and give me great confidence whenever I wear them.

[@user-ro2si4ji5t]

They would not be solid gold as gold is soft. I would estimate 80-90% gold, with enough harder metals to resist marring and scratches

[@thermionic1234567]

@@user-ro2si4ji5t Sorry, I meant 14 karat, ie not gold-plated.

[@user-tl5fi9lz9z]

Two other items. 1. A quality hat such as a fedora or Homburg. 2. A quality pistol, preferably a Smith &Wesson revolver.

[@jfox2282]

I prefer my HK P2000sk, but a S&W is definitely something I would consider a "gentleman's sidearm" any day of the week!

[@JohnDoe-nf7up]

I'd argue a well kept Colt detective special or old production Smith.

[@Archer335]

My perfect watch (on a budget): Seiko SARB035 (“poor man’s Datejust”) It’s an automatic watch that goes with everything. 332$ on Amazon I wear it every day. And it keeps pretty good time. I reset it every two days.

[@krusk3544]

#19; A high quality handgun. A gentlemen will want something capable of handling any risky situation quickly without much discomfort. For suffecient power but comfortable recoil and easy concealment, the best option is a .380acp pistol. A Glock 42 from Austria provides a suffecient amount of ammunition for the size without being too difficult to conceal under a jacket or in a hoster inside your waisteband. Be warned, a waisteband holster requires a quality, stiff leather belt and may not interact well with a tucked-in shirt.

[@SenhorKoringa]

unironically if you do own such nice things, you had better be prepared to ward off people who want to take them

[@cordulam]

It is illegal in most European countries to own a weapon, let alone carry it around (with few exceptions for hunters etc).

[@krusk3544]

@@cordulam Wrong, Germany, Poland, the Czech Republic, the nordic countries, and Italy allow citizens to own and carry weapons, just under stricter laws than the US.

[@johnnytastetest]

2:32 - You've got to be kidding me.

[@edyue1]

omg, i totally missed that fast forwarding through his verbose video!!

[@zzzbetty2915]

Rafael is correct on the Port for the year of birth. In France it is normal to buy wine for your daughter for the year in which she was born. She can use it for her Wedding/Divorce or Graduation etc. You are laying down the core of her cellar and she will be able to toast your memory long after you have passed. As for the Port, get more than a single bottle. You want them to toast your memory and Port will last long after you die.

[@NapoleonCalland]

Laguiole is pronounced more « lye-olle » (silent g). For info, there's a Laguiole knife next to me, as an aside for those who like good cutlery (or need a good knife for picking their own mushrooms). Whether or not you should own all of these is a matter of individual taste and necessity (the pinky ring and and vintage port being my personal exceptions*), and I should stress that I place more value on being a gentle man than on being a gentleman**. I was, however, pleased to note that all of the items are primarily intended for both use and ornament (Utile et Decus for Latinists), meaning that they're practical and serve a secondary purpose into the bargain. I'd also like to add two items, 1) a solid pair of walking / riding boots***, and 2) a kilt, either full plaid or the more contemporary form (with a kilt pin, and best worn with flashes and hose, particularly for formal wear), for those whose family has its own tartan. FOOTNOTES * Less is more where jewellery is concerned, and if you're wearing a good watch, a ring can become superfluous, unless it's a wedding ring or a signet ring (i.e. with your seal for wax-sealing correspondance). As for offering alcohol, port is often an acquired taste, and in any case it's better to check the tastes of the person to whom you're making a gift. ** Style is a fine thing, but not if it's at the expense of substance, or becomes an excuse for snobbery (the measure of a man being how he treats his so-called inferiors). Rafael's videos are worth watching precisely because his definition of being a gentleman is about dressing with style as the outward expression of values such as consideration for others (e.g. his objection to wearing a backpack unless it's absolutely necessary being that you can hurt someone with it), showing respect for yourself and others, and being prepared and responsible. *** Depending on your budget, background, and form/s of rural exercise.

[@rogernobbs6559]

Totally agree about umbrellas. I have a James Smith, but also agree that expensive umbrellas are more likely to go missing. Or worse, as with the Financial Times umbrella I was given many years ago, it might get left on a train or bus. On dress shirts, I recently heard about someone who only wore cream or off-white shirts because he grew up in a household where white shirts were reserved only for the servants. Not something most of us have to bother about any more, thankfully, but I do think off-white, cream and ivory have a warmer look to them than white, which can look a bit clinical and uniform. I work in an office and white shirts are a bit humdrum.

[@mnikhk]

Ppl with yellow teeth can benefit from the cream color temporarily when their teeth are not white because even good expensive treatments last 3-6 months then you're stuck till you get another appointment

[@Santor-]

Ever since I was a kid, i always owned a fresh pure white shirt. I agree it should be a staple, for those occasions one dont plan for and similar; funeral, someones confirmation, job interview, etc. Dont get much use admittedly, but still an important asset. It goes with a standard dark suit and shoes. I cringe when i see someone coming to a funeral in old jeans and sneakers. Any grownup should at minimum be able to keep 1 formal outfit.

[@lisbetsoda4874]

I would say that all depends on the quality of the shirt. Cheap ones definitely do look very humdrum.

[@keeponsearchingearth1543]

Five things every man should know how to do: Cook a great meal from scratch, tie a bow tie, ride a horse, change a flat tire on your vehicle and undo a woman's bra in the dark with one hand . . . :)

[@thomasrichardson5425]

lol why would you need to ride a bloody horse?

[@ampereira8]

Except the horse thing, luckily, I can do the other 4 things. XD

[@jakobgoodwin9742]

RockaBilly bow ties with a regular sports jacket is wrong. It’s a little too flashy

[@jakobgoodwin9742]

RockaBilly I mean just any navy sports jacket with chinos or flannels. I think a casual enough jacket and a casual enough bow tie like seersucker and something a little more casual in the bow tie would work though. But a black bow tie with a navy sports coat and chinos is wrong.

[@thisone6600]

I am able to do all but the last, and that one doesn't apply to me anyhow. I'm not particularly fast at changing tires though.

[@ihavekalashnikovyoudomath9275]

I'd be interested to see what he would do for someone who's a blue collar worker. A lot of what he uses and his lifestyle are for white collar, and business executives. It'd be cool to see how he would adapt the lifestyle to someone who either can't afford these kinds of items, or can't fit it into the lifestyle they currently have.

[@capnsean8365]

thank you for this. should be good for next year Christmas gift ideas

[@XavieRibeiro25]

As a Portuguese, I invest in vintage Porto so I can drink it whenever I want. We do drink a lot of that at almost every event. Keep up with nice calming videos.

[@adrienne4934]

In my opinion the most important item a gentleman should own is land.

[@rozzerYT]

Great video as always :) I fully agree with an umbrella being an essential as I live in a cold climate. I have two umbrellas, both of them are from Fulton. Look forward to the next video!

[@USAFAFRet11]

I have 4 pinkie rings 3 are 22 karat and other is silver. Can't get used to wearing them as I already wear 2 rings - one on each hand. Wife will take them out of the safe now and then and ask me to wear one, claiming its a waste to have them and not wear them. So I indulge her a few times a year. Being retired military, I tend to have an aversion to the umbrella, but keep one in each vehicle I own. Strongly agree with a good quality umbrella, they will last for a long time. Look for quality on whatever you buy, not necessarily quantity.

[@MarkWilliams-gy9bi]

Why do former military have an aversion to umbrellas? I've heard this from multiple people.

[@tradedate]

I had this feeling that something was missing in my life. I just learned that it was a fountain pen.

[@chrisgraham2904]

A quality fountain pen (they all leak eventually) is an excellent way to destroy a quality suite and shirt.

[@Mohan-lj1zx]

Love the way you organize & present. Even in description you have given details of items with brief desc *with time stamp* !!! Appreciate it... a *detailed* list of very important items. Thank you for this video !! :)

[@tonchito1449]

So glad that my grandfather owned most of these items and passed them down to me. Very grateful

[@Gingerlemoncola0816]

Man, that umbrella is straight up kingsman stuff lol. Great video as always! Watching from Hong Kong

[@Get_Splooshed]

The real items that every true gentleman should have: 1. Fedora: to tip the fine ladies 2. A good quality back brace: bending over backwards for women can be quite strenuous 3. A good $5000 cash on hand at all times: always aim to please her 4. A good portable door stopper: This can really come in handy for when multiple women are walking into the same building you are, just smile and wave as they walk by and maybe tip your fedora for a little extra gentleman points 5. A quality never used handkerchief: to wipe away her tears after her distasteful boyfriend broke her heart 6. A nice beard trimmer: to maintain your gentleman perfect neck beard 7. Deodorant: you know why you need it bud 8. A second handkerchief for personal use: To wipe away your tears after she says you’re like a brother to her

[@Fellhat]

this got more and more ironic towards the end, where i finally realized this was a joke. thank you for not making this an actual comment

[@Get_Splooshed]

@fellhat what joke? ;)

[@sorrychangedmyusername3594]

M'lady M'rning to you M'am

[@hamiltonhomesguy367]

There should be more men that dress in style. I really agree with what you have to say. Being in Sales, first impressions are extremely important to be taken seriously by clients and investors....Bravo!

[@N0n0b0dy]

i found this channel today, subscribed obviously, and i just want to say thank you

[@Alf763]

Being a watch collector I have to say a good watch is massive, the amount of people I've been near who have asked me about whatever watch I've got on when they see a nice one and the conversations you get out of it can really break the ice at a gathering or in a work environment even

[@thisisadebrown]

I’ve grown to love you videos

[@vascomanata]

Thank you for talking about my Portuguese traditions!

[@pfridell8424]

That suit looks very good on you. I always enjoy your videos!

[@jessicalynnstrom]

All of these videos are super helpful for finding things for my boyfriend, thanks y’all!

[@jordentaylor2455]

You forgot Craftsman in the tools section. A good Gentleman also needs a good wallet, a good hat, a good pair of everyday shoes, and a good winter coat.

[@Jessie_Helms]

Most need a winter coat but there’s plenty of places in America alone where that’s completely unnecessary, that’s probably why a cost wasn’t on the list. But a good wallet and every day shoes absolutely belong.

[@jacobrogersproctor]

I love 14- a great copy of your favorite book. I have loved books my whole life. I love the theme of being a proper gentleman is investing in the things that really bring joy to your life.

[@danhelms8134]

I would add a traditional folding knife to the list. Something like a case trapper. I would also add a sidearm appropriate for self defense and a quality holster.

[@pranavherani2453]

The video was great and on point, and I loved the outfit. I’m probably going to get the same. Also I suggest that you try Versace pour homme it is an eau de toilette but it’s a very masculine and robust fragrance.

[@ardentlines814]

pranav herani I agree! I own that one and it’s amazing!

[@Novasky2007]

I'll stick to my signature Batman Tshirt and Skater chains.

[@cjosephcoffman]

You could always pick up a pair of vintage JNCO jeans to complete the ensemble.

[@Jessie_Helms]

You can dress well even while not being dressed formally. If you pull it off well and that’s what you love to wear, great! Dressing well is dressing appropriately- you don’t wanna out dress the groom at a wedding, you don’t wanna be in a T-shirt and jeans at a funeral, you don’t wanna wear a suit to a skate park.

[@claudiayates7621]

Johnny Rotten usually had a plain white shirt...often with French cuffs (no links tho).

[@Raaa1111..]

I use to carry a Fountain pen but worry about a leak in the long run and ruining my shirt too. Now i carry this nice heavy steel victorian engraved pattern self defense pen.

[@snowlothar45]

High quality pocket knife. A must have for every well prepared man.

[@MrJamescord]

Thank you for a most wonderful list of items. I wanted to share some thoughts with you and those who read the comments. I do not smoke but still think a quality lighter is a good thing to have. I have started looking into videos made by and for people who prep and the ability to make a fire in an emergency may really help you out. The cork screw is a nice item, I will be looking to get a nicer one as I want to have a small drink of red wine with dinner as I understand it does have some health benefits. I started putting an umbrella in my SUV just in case, but the thought of a nicer one appeals to me and this might also be found in an estate sale! Tools- every man should have a good set, I like Craftsman, Snap on and Matco, and they can be passed down to your kids. The fountain pen- I had an old Mont Blanc that I had dropped and it landed on the NIB and damaged it, so it sat unused for over 10 years, but after seeing your video on fountain pens I sent it to the manufacture for a rebuild and I also purchased a Pilot 74 Custom fountain pen in a see thru clear blue. I started looking at videos on fountain pens and learned that there are decent ones in all price points even under $25, and I learned about the different inks and papers! I think I will try and address 1 item per month on your list!

[@lisbetsoda4874]

Although of course Raphael said you must have one with a gold nib

[@GeorgePop]

A gentleman would never install a dishwasher, he would pay someone to do that. Also, the most important thing is to have a signature condom, and carry it with you all the time, hopefully one engraved with your initials and ribbed for "her" pleasure...you can't call yourself a gentleman without protection.

[@Alignedtop]

Wish your dad knew that.

[@maanushpadia7911]

@@Alignedtop unfortunately his dad didn't knew about it

[@ryanminaker157]

Women like a man that can take care of him self and is not incompetent though. A man.

[@THEACERASPIREMAN]

Jeesus get help

[@kayrubygladys]

Thank you for the great info! Just ordered an umbrella by Brigg..been looking for a well-made umbrella!

[@SweetieSunflower3]

Your video was both informative and engaging. I appreciate how you tackled it such a unique way. I've explored a parallel theme on Illicium London. Keep it up!

[@SuperATVC]

I'm female and loving these Gentleman videos. Wish there was a proper female version :(

[@user-jp7hu3jh4e]

Me too!

[@Santor-]

Make one!

[@richardsanchez9190]

That's easy. Just cook, clean and keep quiet. DISCLAIMER: THIS IS A JOKE!!!!

[@claudiayates7621]

I have run across at least 2 by Gentelmen's Guide

[@MiladJPanah]

"you can use them to dry your tears". loved it hahha

[@MrSilvaworks]

Body stature is also important. Standing straight and tall makes for a more flattering silhouette. Having the "head forward", (ahead of instead of over the shoulders position) rounds out the shoulders, creating a hunchback look, putting a strain on the neck, caves in the chest and pronouncing/protruding the stomach. It also shortens one's height, making one look heavier. Please notice our host's profile on the side views of the suits shots to see how common this biomechanical Imbalance happens.

[@bohun28]

I just recently came upon this channel and I'm very glad I did. Really interesting content and presented in a very fresh and friendly manner.

[@captainblackbeard1508]

Raphael, a very good video as usual. A gentleman is always learning, just wanted to point that the Portuguese tradition you mencioned is quite spot one. I'm portuguese and it is indeed a tradition, and the time we choose to open is quite personal, very different opinions on when to do it, Thank you for all your great content, greatings for you and your team

[@PoisonousPen]

This is great and all, but say I want to dress well but don’t have that sort of money. I’d like to see how to achieve a gentleman’s look with each item costing no more than £100. Shoes, shirt, trousers, tie, blazer, jacket, casual trousers, sweater, coat, casual shoes, watch, wallet, accessories. Can you do it?

[@gentlemansgazette]

Perhaps this guide can help. :) www.gentlemansgazette.com/gentleman-dress-suit-budget-15-tips-guide/

[@PoisonousPen]

It does help :) Many thanks!

[@deanobeany]

I buy high street or supermarket immitations of styles I like to bolster my wardrobe, then replace them with quality items over time when I know what items suit me. If I Jumped straight in at high end boots/cufflinks/watches I'd have ended up with styles I didn't like, now I've upgraded items that worked with my height and frame to quality, handmade or top tier bespoke things. Takes years but you get to have fun and experiment without breaking the bank.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

@@deanobeany That's one heck of a strategy. Love it.

[@lisbetsoda4874]

A lot of those things but not the suit, sorry.

[@stevenreed407]

I love it that you included having a good quality camera. I am a huge advocate of this because taking pictures with your phone uses up precious memory. I currently use a Pentax Q mirrorless camera. The camera is not in production, but I have found that it works great and I only had to spend about $300 for the camera and all of the lenses. Also it is painted brown and not the standard black look of most cameras. Whenever I am out in public, people almost always ask me about it. Not that I am seeking attention, but they always seem curious about it. It is lighter and much more transportable than a 35mm camera.

[@nekipeh7373]

Also: Revolver, Butterfly knife, *hand or pocket watch* , cigarette case and (if you really want) a Sapper.

[@yeetyeetyeet1967]

ambassador if you are a tryhard

[@Priyadarshan_Nag]

Just pause for a second on 2:41 Haha 😂 Great content though as always 😎👍🏻

[@tonyjacob3717]

my man

[@horse_milk3316]

#21 condoms #22 KY jelly #23 astro glide optional

[@ardentlines814]

SaL Leon No those are for disgusting millennials

[@danieldyman7196]

@@ardentlines814 condoms are for disgusting millennials?

[@rocketduck44]

@@danieldyman7196 Real gentlemen spread STD's and unwanted pregnancies! /s

[@batlu97]

A fountain pen works with fountain pen paper, so a ballpoint or a rollerball are better jack of all trades. But a well fitting suit is just a must have to a man.

[@andrew1212w]

Great well researched and presented video (I live in England and it rains a lot so I own quite a few umbrellas!)

[@KPunkZ]

what a gentleman should own 1. Gentleman personality.

[@Eric-sy1xu]

I think I went into James Smith without knowing it lol. I went with my then-girlfriend because it looked like a cool store. Was not disappointed :D

[@sashineb.2114]

Good advice, and as for an umbrella, don't even think about those cheap, fold-up ones. The full-length ones are better and stronger. Now, as for tool boxes .... :)

[@24934637]

Only just discovered this channel, and it looks to have some really interesting and useful content. Looking forward to seeing more vids. Thank You.

[@108nighthawk]

What would be the best way to get in contact with you about an order? I am just waiting for the tracking number and am starting to grow just a bit concerned.

[@pyroVoid]

This channel's videos are incredibly addictive.

[@stevengarcia8428]

Yes!!!! My favorite channel! Thank you!!!!!

[@grant4254]

1. A quality suit 2. A quality lighter 3. A good umbrella 4. A quality trench coat 5. A quality corkscrew 6. A linen handkerchief 7. A good quality fountain pen 8. A quality toolbox with quality tools 9. Invest in a real camera 10. Black dress shoes 11. A signature scent 12. A serious watch 13. A bottle vintage port 14. Get a great copy of your favorite book 15. A pristine white dress shirt 16. A classic, versatile pair of cufflinks 17. A quality belt, pair of suspenders and garters. 18. A signet ring or pinkie ring As an added item, I think every gentleman should own a pocket knife. It doesn't have to be anything crazy. A Swiss army knife is perfect for everyday carry.

[@DinnerForkTongue]

And a flashlight. I use mine more than I do my knife.