#20: Is Knitting in Islam FEMININE? (Ft.

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0:00 Coming Up
3:21 Patreon Sneak Peek
4:00 Introduction
5:46 What Is Gabriel’s Problem?
8:23 Mufti Menk and Gabriel Are Beefing?
13:00 The State Of LGB*T Today
13:38 HOW Did Society Get To This Point?
15:24 Abuamerican’s Stance On This Issue
22:22 Can You Defend A Woman?
28:18 Shaytaan Plays The Long-Game
28:53 Anghel’s Stance On This Issue
31:11 Are Muslims Afraid Of Appearing Strong?
32:38 Abuamerican’s Wife Got Confronted
33:43 Systemic Conditioning Of The Mind
45:39 Do You Know The Reality Of Violence?
50:06 Why Women Love Strength In A Man
52:44 Scared To Be Yourself?
1:00:51 2 Things That Make You A Real Man
1:09:35 Are You Living In Fear?
1:11:39 Fired Over LGB*T?
1:19:30 Malcolm X Wasn’t A Coward
1:27:07 The Sahabah Were Men
1:33:20 Consensus: Is Knitting A Problem? Balance Is Key
1:35:44 Patreon Sneak Peek
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[@The3Muslims]

Thank you for tuning in. Please hit the LIKE button if you enjoyed bc if you’re not with the message, then you’re against it. This episode discusses our values on the latest knitting video of brother Mufti Menk, who has now posted a video of him skydiving Alhumdulillah. This is what we’d like to see more of! We do not aim to start any feuds with Mufti Menk and acknowledge and admire all he’s done for the Ummah and non-muslims. That being said, society is at war with masculinity today, and anything we do (including posting videos on instagram) that doesn’t bring us forward will hold us back. WATCH OUR PAST EP#3 FOR MORE DETAILS. This is not the time to appear like the disbelievers in any way shape or form, or to indulge in more feminine or gender-neutral activities. Allah comes first, then our duty to fulfill the obligations of being the best men and women we can be in sha Allah. May Allah bless you all. The first episode with Daniel Haqiqatjou will upload this Friday, the abuse video will upload on Monday). Much love T3M Family. - Faiyad

[@vanillapearl9986]

May Allah reward you immensely for sticking to Quran and Sunnah!

[@batmanrobin3271]

To our brother annghel, in Islam, there’s nothing wrong for men/women who have many skills. As a a friend of mine is a fisherman, he knitted his own net to fish...he is so hunk, and respected husband. For Mufti Menk showing his skill in knit, it just out of love to spend time with his daughters etc. None of it reduces his masculinity 🤦‍♂️. He in fact bring his son do horse riding and archery...i know you are a new revert and all of a sudden hearing this kind of “issue” among “muslims”...i hope u istiqomah Edit: besides, u can watch Chechen fighter who also dance to their traditional culture like Zubaira, Khamzat..even Ramzan Kadyrov(Chechnya president) also dance to his traditional culture and he is also the military leader! He is the strongest opponent of the lgbtq movement and warn it to his people.

[@amazizi7783]

Assalamu aleikum, great video brothers, but let brother Anghel first learn and experience Islam for a time before involving him in these topics. It can confuse and harden the heart

[@phoenixknight8837]

Jazakallahu khayr wa barakallahu feekum!

[@MrBobDug]

Learnt knitting from my grandma and did it for years grew up on a farm throwing hay bails and shooting guns. I am as rough as rough gets been in plenty of street fights AND MUCH MUCH MORE without getting into detail. ?? GUESS WHAT?? None of that matters if you are giving advice while displaying bad adab (manners) , knowledge starts with adab and bad adab is displeasing to our creator. Humble yourself or you will be humbled. Many people ( non muslims) call our Thobes dresses .. fighting and bravado is fighting and bravado it doesn't make you a man ~~No ...willingness to sacrifice makes you a man.~~ Faking manhood is not enough and that's the other issue, we want to fake being men instead of being men. All points are great but I wish we maintained prophetic adab all the way through. As muslim akhis We should be safe from one another's TONGUES and HANDS.

[@saifklee178]

My grandfather was a master in knitting, and well known in his hometown of his ability to make truly beautiful carpets and clothing, knitting and sewing by hand and old equipment. He was also a painter and made astonishing islamic calligraphy... and had four wifes... I think we need to be careful in defining what is masculine and what is not, our Quran and Sunnah is the guideline, and Allah has created us different, some people are artists, some mathematicians, etc. We learn from one another. There is no feminine occupation, do the laundry, washing the dishes, changing diapers etc,. I do all that and help my wife whenever I can. The limit goes when a man is trying to imitate girls/women in manners, clothing, speech, etc,. Then we have a problem.

[@safiquazi2704]

@@blankblank5397 while I agree that there is a war against masculinity we still have to be careful here not to become vulgar and disrespectful and arrogant, don't become go to the masculine extreme in response to a feminine extreme, Islam teaches us the balanced lifestyle the middle path and we as Muslims have to stick to that path.

[@safiquazi2704]

@@blankblank5397 yes that is what I mean by maybe more clarification is needed i some enthusiastic youths might take Gabriels views out of context

[@safiquazi2704]

@@blankblank5397 oh yes theres always trolls hanging around, I dont mean those guys, what I mean is for example a youth coming in to learn about masculinity but since the word Alpha Male Is used by the brothers but also by the MGTOW movement which has valid points but is also an extreme, theres a chance the youth might get mixed up in such movements thinking that its the Islamic way. So caution is advised and also I think the youth should be taught the seerah of the Prophet SAW and the about the life of the companions those are the best examples of real men and I believe that is also what Brother Gabriel is teaching.

[@Jamila91100]

@@safiquazi2704 they are basically like the muslim man red pill lol it's funny they are taking a stance against " western influence" but at the same time incorporating modern western ideology of masculinity which includes the MGTOW/ red pill movement that is embraced by non muslim man that has gained popularity. I have been noticing that

[@safiquazi2704]

@@Jamila91100 which why is think some guidance is required from brother Gabriel's side to distinguish between the two Islamic masculinity and western ideology of masculinity while they do have some similar points, the western ideology stems from a reaction to extreme feminism so its kind of like a woman hate group to that extreme, I dont want muslim youths to grow up to become women beaters and haters. Those are my concerns, but I believe brother Gabriel in real life not on these talks does teach the middle path and how to attain it, its the other brothers that need more understanding.

[@IbnMurrah]

Allah has allowed Gabriel’s message of restoring Muslim masculinity to gain a lot more exposure on the internet. Although many disagree with how Gabriel spoke to Mufti, the video has caused a chunk of the online Muslim community to actually stop for a second and have a conversation about Muslim masculinity & femininity.

[@The3Muslims]

Huge facts brother - Faiyad

[@eden-cr3bm]

Absolutely. It made me reflect on how I see masculinity as a woman.

[@TheGloriousQuran6236]

Beautifully worded Mashallah ❤️

[@Joseph-qb1es]

Well said

[@shannons6188]

Subhanallah, Allah is the most wise

[@AliTravels99]

Makes me so happy to see four strong Muslim brothers have a civilized conversation

[@The3Muslims]

JazakAllahu khair - Faiyad

[@hakei233]

As a women I 150% agree with the points made on this podcast.

[@The3Muslims]

May Allah bless you - Rami

[@The3Muslims]

Jazakallah sis - Anghel

[@pamuk7]

We have also completed a response video against Ali Dawah on the Menk Knitting Issue. First video kzbin.info/www/bejne/hl7UhoqYj9lmfqs

[@Warrach_Warrior]

You mean the points gabrielle made?

[@shankaroont4959]

Same here.

[@hnhn7959]

As a woman I agree with these 💯, Secruity is definitely what we want as women.

[@The3Muslims]

Yes sis - Faiyad

[@ridwan_z]

I have those

[@celia7288]

Yes sister as a women I just knew this I feel like I was brainwashed before I discovered this Chanel I still didn’t agree with the feminists and I disagreed with them even before I knew anything about Islam it’s like my fitra was still intact and Allah guided me alhamdoulilah but I didn’t understand feminism until now alhamdoulilah for Islam

[@ConquerModernity111]

You guys are drawing me toward Islam. Thanks for speaking the truth.

[@JanLaalaa]

Remember that entirety of Islam and stuff like these aren't discussed by the popular Muslim Imoms online for the fear of them losing their followers.

[@The3Muslims]

If you ever have any questions, reach out to us! - Anghel

[@ConquerModernity111]

@@The3Muslims Thanks brother, I have a question. I'm a young guy and I was gonna join the military, but not anymore. It seems I can't finish school, due to interest and student loans being haram. Insurance is also haram. So as a Muslim in the West, how do you make decent halal money and get an education in order to get established and start a family? Any advice would be appreciated

[@The3Muslims]

@@ConquerModernity111 you can finish school, don’t worry as long as the place you work at isn’t haram, you’ll be fine. Also islamically it’s permissible to get the base insurance plan because it’s mandatory in a lot of places. For the part about interest, interest is haram but you’ve already started in it and even if you continue to sin it’s better that you’re a Muslim who sins then not a Muslim at all. I still fall short today, just ask for forgiveness and keep going. Allah is the most merciful. You should accept Islam brother! - Rami

[@ConquerModernity111]

@@The3Muslims Thanks Rami.

[@shannons6188]

Brother Gabriel i don’t know if you’ll see this but my respect for you just went sky high after watching this. Mashallah Allahummabarik I can see how much you love our beloved Muhammad ﷺ and how much you truly care for the brothers AND SISTERS of our ummah. May Allah preserve and bless you and may he guide us all

[@leonardodavinci9814]

The testosterone count in the call is too high, can't watch it.

[@The3Muslims]

Watch it get flagged - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Yo you felt it too? - Anghel

[@aryomuhammad1638]

🤣

[@alistairjakobsson1506]

They aren't no "try guys" in testosterone counts

[@drgains6575]

When I first heard him talk about mufti menk's knitting video I thought he was making a big deal out of one small instance. Now I can see how it is typically the small things that are pushed onto men and boys that have a gradual change and can have an effect on society long term.

[@The3Muslims]

The real message - Faiyad

[@MrCasco0o]

Same here, and I didn't know brother Gabriel and thought he's overreacting. Just came back to that knitting after sister Milihan Philosopher and her videos about Muslim masculinity. Alhamdulilah, things are more clear now and make sense, I will insha Allah be much more careful and aware about this war on masculinity.

[@purplelove3666]

Are you going to call male chef feminine too?

[@btb554]

​@@purplelove3666 Exactly! a man who loves to cook not masculine? Is a man who loves to paint masculine? What about male janitor? Male tailor? Are they all not masculine? Sure, I agree we have certain gender roles when it comes to marriage. But this, I don't understand. And who assigned gender for hobbies? Isn't this another western ideology? Atleast in Asian countries men aren't look down for having hobbies or carriers in fields which are considered feminine in the west.( tailor, embroiderer, most of the Indian and Pakistani wedding suits are made by men). My father loved to cook, he sewed my school uniform (cos the one available in the shops wasn't modest enough and I was uncomfortable) and he's the most masculine man I know he never curses or use swear words, is courageous, courteous, speaks kindly and is loving and taught us deen with atmost love and care.

[@bhattia470]

I don't know if many people know this but there was a shooter trying to shoot up a mosque in norway a couple years ago ..but he was stopped by a 65 year old man...The 65 year old had experience in combat which helped stop another christchurch from happening...so it really goes to show that having these skills does really help

[@The3Muslims]

May Allah reward him with Jannah al firdous - Rami

[@The3Muslims]

Yeah forreal may Allah reward him - Anghel

[@HK-USA]

Yes and i don’t know if you remember the one who confronted the killer of christchurch armed only with a credit card reader ☝️

[@bhattia470]

@@HK-USA oh damn didn't know that

[@UmmFatimah20]

Subhanallah as a mom of boys I appreciate this. May Allah swt accept your efforts. Ameen.

[@The3Muslims]

Inshallah it may help - Anghel

[@The3Muslims]

Thank you sis - Faiyad

[@jobsmohamed69]

Ohhh man, I'm so hyped to watch this episode, two of my favourite KZbinrs in it! Jazaka Allahu khairan for bringing brothers Gabriel and abu American!

[@The3Muslims]

Wa iyaak thanks for tuning in! - Faiyad

[@ysfsuleman]

Bloody excellent Podcast, as a father raising two sons this makes perfect sense, Muslim men are definitely lacking in regard to providing a Masculine role model for their kids, and we need to be firm with our wives that we need to raise our boys to be MEN.

[@The3Muslims]

100% king - Faiyad

[@ryanstein4374]

So true !! All of the things being said in this video make so much sense. Keep up the great work brothers.

[@saleseastheritage]

Gabriel is very right, I have been living in malaysia almost 25yrs. What he is saying is very very right, it takes "non Malaysian scholar muslim, or educator to speak up". Elgibiti is getting worse. Need to protect future muslim generation.

[@The3Muslims]

Akhi you are right - Faiyad

[@aswitnessedbythelenses963]

Br. Gabriel makes a great point. Where are the shaykhas and ustadhas who are teaching Muslim women how to knit, sew, and cook? Instead, simp muftis are teaching Muslim men this while the shaykhas are teaching sisters to be CEOs and protestors.

[@The3Muslims]

This - Faiyad

[@shannons6188]

Mashallah this is actually a very good video, extremely eye opening. May Allah reward all of you brothers and guide us all “Indeed, Islam began as something strange, and it will return to being strange, so glad tidings to the strangers.”

[@krishar1460]

There is no connection between knitting and manhood. I and my brother grew up helping my mom knitting for living, and both of us still 100% man

[@ajajssksk1757]

Helping mom or the necessity is very different. You must help if it is your mom. What you have said is an exception.

[@krishar1460]

@@ajajssksk1757 You are out of focus. The issue is MAN DOING KNITING, either voluntary or necessity.

[@ajajssksk1757]

@@krishar1460 necessity is fine and they agree with that. But doing it as a hobby is questionable since it a more feminine activity.

[@krishar1460]

@@ajajssksk1757 Maybe in the beginning. But after few months me and my broter enjoy it too. Not feel forced or necessary. You mix between ''feminity'' and ''artistry''. Are man as cake decorator feminin? or as interior desainer? textile desainer? or florist? or dancer? Woman do knitting bcs they have patience n attention to detaill thats all. Just like men do carving bcs they have muscle power.

[@agohar3226]

Anghel bro, just know that I am making duaa for you to stay firm on Islam inshallah bro.

[@The3Muslims]

Thanks brother - Anghel

[@s.f.7737]

This conversation is so needed nowadays! I can’t believe I am just discovering your channel today! Subhana Allah May Allah bless you all and give you the courage and strength to keep speaking the truth!

[@The3Muslims]

Glad you found us - Faiyad

[@lunaorchid4378]

I agree with brother Gabriel and understand his point, however I think most people had a problem not with his point, but his approach, the video sounded like a personal attack on Mufti Menk and was making a lot of assumptions about him, the video came off as backbiting. It would be cool if he could make a video with Ali Dawah or talk to Mufti Menk about these issues

[@thesabiqoon4178]

Exactly why make fun of mufti instead he could have privately messaged him and have mufti fixed the issue. I think Mufti Menk must of made this video innocently.

[@ajajssksk1757]

Brother mufti menk made the video public and so gabriel had to tackle the issue publically. Also it didn’t look like a personal attack to be honest just straight up and frank.

[@fidamd5527]

My husband sew torn clothes fixes loose buttons...that doesnt made him less man...I in fact respect and appreciate him more

[@amishrush9486]

Its exactly what the prophet did...its a sunna...yet these guys see it on a whole different level...its as tho they arguing the prophet on sew and mending hadith...don't know y they think everybody is the same in masculine things... A sahabee by the names of Hassan ibn thabit couldn't even fight in a battle coz that's how he was however much he tried he couldn't coz he wasn't that kind of a man...but he contributed to Islam in the field he excelled that is poetry and the prophet never degraded him saying he is not manly he is feminine like these guys address Muslims for not being like them...they better fix themselves and look up to the prophet and companions how they delt with each other and end up excelling each in a field that matched their nature...

[@amishrush9486]

@Anwar purpose or hobby there nothing wrong in it since that is who they are...Hassan ibn thabit failure to fight in battle was who he is and no body called him feminine coz of that since its well known its feminine not stand in battle for a man or as they say "Be a man!" When the prophet sewed he did it in his free time...that's exactly what menk was doing in his free time...Lol

[@yasinfazley8313]

@@amishrush9486 I don't think you watched the entire video, you seem very emotional

[@amishrush9486]

@Anwar The problem I have with him is the way he addressed the issue and the words he used while to point out his problem...in actual sense words that are not chosen correctly end up making no sense whether they are correct or not...his communication skills are poor and that's what he needs to fix...no man needs to be taught that he should learn how to defend himself or what is his...its common sense.

[@amishrush9486]

@@yasinfazley8313 how will one watch the whole video when even the intro is filled poor akhlaq interns of words...akhi even firaun the worst was addressed with respect with the order coming from the Almighty... What these guys are completely not doing? Don't u think it high time they fixed themselves and practised examples Allah put for us...?with the words they used I lost the appetite to watch the whole thing akhi.

[@Sadiq00]

Salaam my brother's excellent podcast I totally agree with you brother's on this point keep up the good work.

[@ohto7776]

I came across brother Anghel's channel when I started my semen retention journey over a year ago and I am a believer in divine timing. Everything that you guys talk about resonates deep inside. Thank you keep speaking your truth🙏

[@The3Muslims]

Much love brother - Anghel

[@BazDawah]

JazakAllahu Khair wa BaarakAllahu Feek for the clarification and for touching upon many key issues

[@The3Muslims]

May Allah bless you! - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Glad we can help - Anghel

[@0marM0hammed]

So interesting..what a real perspective which is overlooked by every other pod cast I've listened to.

[@mohammedfalshehri4761]

Sending my Salam from Saudi Arabia to all the strangers all over the world. When faith Iman touch our hearts our brains, souls and hearts awake and we don't follow waves or going with flow but we stand our ground and follow Quran and sunna that's the strangers journey being awake in the middle of sleeping people.

[@sf6510]

They legit force kids to think in a dodgy way. I was a TA in a year 4 class and the teacher gave them a task. The task was to draw a character in a girly attire and draw the same character on other half of the page wearing the same cloths. The teacher made sure to drill the point that it was the same character, some of the kids asked "why miss?". She said just do it, it was very subtle, I didn't think much of it but looking back at it now, it made me realise it was planting a seed of confusion.

[@The3Muslims]

damn - Anghel

[@sf6510]

@War Ter never heard of him, but I'll look it up. I don't think the main aim is to dumb things down, it's to confuse the masses. Search it up, but there was a little 10 year old girl who got excluded refused to take part in some activities they did. Non Muslim little girl but her reason was she noticed younger children didn't know what to call themselves.

[@sf6510]

@War Ter I read your Ted talk and I agree.

[@mohammedsewari6142]

my Muslim friend saw that video and was influenced to try knitting, and he was a MEN, do you see the influence, he literally said we should try to get ourselves knitting materials and start knitting, just because mufti menk did it

[@yonosupri879]

Good for him

[@shabinanaaz7581]

This video is definitely a must watch mashallah 👍🏻

[@Kisuke258]

Amazing podcast. Masha Allah.

[@The3Muslims]

JazakAllahu khair broski - Faiyad

[@Joseph-qb1es]

AlhamduleAllah I'm glad Gabriel has good support from the brothers.

[@The3Muslims]

Ameen - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Ammeen - Anghel

[@mysterybeauty636]

As a women I agree with a lot of the things you guys say and talk about. I literally have been binge watching your podcast and Gabriel’s videos! Mashaa Allah! May Allah reward you all for your efforts!

[@phoenixknight8837]

Jazakallahu khayr wa barakallahu feekum!

[@randomhuman5298]

Give this video a thumbs up.👍🏽 You guys made realistic points.

[@The3Muslims]

Happy we could brother - Anghel

[@blessed5889]

I thoroughly enjoyed this podcast Jazakallahu khair brothers. Alhamdulilah I’ve found your channel - Subscribed 😊

[@The3Muslims]

Wa iyaak - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Aye ♥️ - Anghel

[@eden-cr3bm]

Jazakum Allah keyr brothers wallahi this podcast and brother Gabriel's videos opened my eyes. I'm definitely gonna send my younger brother to the martial art academy, even though this issue is not that big in Ethiopia, may Allah bless you. And brother Gabriel may Allah give a better job.

[@The3Muslims]

Your younger brothers are going to love it - Anghel

[@islamicliving4879]

Me too.

[@saradeanpereira]

Send your younger brothers for martial art classes, kickboxing etc., and make sure u teach them to clean up after themselves and to help out in household chores as well. That is a major contributing factor to happy & successful marriages.

[@eden-cr3bm]

@@saradeanpereira Indeed sis jezakiallah keyr

[@abdoutryhard5046]

Very interesting video big up to you my brothers from Morocco

[@The3Muslims]

JazakAllahu khair Abdou - Faiyad

[@EquinoXReZ]

I was skeptical when I saw the title and stuff but man, It didn’t take long for me to realize that this is the truth. At first I was like really you gonna come at this man for knitting but the problems addressed by Abu and Gabriel are undeniable. Our society is so backwards in this regard and with the lack of real men. I’m only 30 minutes but I think this is an episode that everyone needs to watch especially in the west.Barakallah fikum.

[@kaisersoze8199]

JazakAllah khairan brother Gabriel and the other bros. This had to be said, the ummah is in serious trouble in these regards. Good to see some real men still out here.

[@seekfactsnotfiction9056]

I am subscribing to this channel because of brother Gabriel and Daniel whom I've known them standing their ground with their principles and I believ you guys are the same otherwise they wouldn't be on this channel. Keep up the productive contents بارك الله فيكم

[@aaliyah.r2932]

Honestly I’m so relieved this podcast came out, as a teenager the struggles I’ve previously faced with regards to classmates being feminists and undermining masculinity in men and trying to implement it in women, then aiming to drag everyone down with them, I truly realised it’s hard to find people striving towards the path of Allah.And it’s also so hard to find decent people. And the parents don’t implement the masculine and feminine characters in their children and then leave society to do whatever they want with them leading to destruction. And the worry a lot of youth striving towards the path of Allah face is finding the right spouse; the man looking for a feminine but also determined wife, and the wife looking man for a gentle but strong masculine husband. Women know deep down they need masculine men, men are made to lead; whilst women aren’t. And being cancelled for it shouldn’t be an issue for the ones with platforms; us as youth need the reminder as a lot of people don’t have good people around them to advise them. Society is brainwashing our Muslim community and with these brothers providing a platform to support us youth its very touching. May Allah reward these brothers, ease their struggles and strength their path to Allah. And may He protect us and keep us on the straight path Aameen

[@aminagreene]

Assalamu alaikum, I do agree with my brothers regarding masculinity, and all the other points that were made, and I love listening to Gabriel Romani, may Allah reward him and my 3 Muslims brothers, Ameen. However, just a reminder, that the prophet (sallalahu alayhi wa salaam) did sew, MashaAllah, and there are many masculine brothers who knit, and sew, a family member of mine actually used to knit kufis and things and he is extremely masculine and very learned in fighting/self defense techniques. I just wasn't comfortable with the making jokes about it, which can lead to saying something is haram when it is not, or mocking others. May Allah guide us to what pleases Him and keep us steadfast on the Deen, Ameen.

[@Ahmed-eg7kd]

1:03:42 I’m glad I wasn’t the only one that laughed at Gabriel saying “your kids are becoming gay man” 😂 had me cracking up, this is great episode!

[@The3Muslims]

lmao forreal - Anghel

[@nanasworld7444]

This is an interesting video but I also feel that it’s risky to redefine certain things such as knitting as “feminine” based on western ideologies in modern times. Many people see being emotional & emotionally intelligent as a “feminine trait” so will we start teaching our sons to suppress their emotions?

[@islamicliving4879]

We need more of this. It really changed my perception. May Allah guide us all.

[@The3Muslims]

Alhumdulillah - Faiyad

[@hamzaibnraed]

MashAllah JazakAllah Khair, this video really sprouted my views like sets of tree branches on this topic.

[@The3Muslims]

wa iyaak all good is from Allah habibi - Faiyad

[@hamzaibnraed]

@@The3Muslims Allah yes3dak

[@beamuslimman]

Dope discussion. Good job fellas.

[@The3Muslims]

Likewise - Faiyad

[@yasinfazley8313]

One of the best podcast episodes, I love Gabriels passion, he stands his ground alhamdulillah

[@The3Muslims]

We got to - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

May Allah accept it from them - Rami

[@alitanwir3372]

We need more podcasts like that.

[@The3Muslims]

Thanks for tuning in - Faiyad

[@user-wz4vo8ku9u]

Yes! Spot on!!!!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@The3Muslims]

Trust - Faiyad

[@apexpredator2118]

This video is very short. I could listen to hours and hours of this. Abu American brings in a psychology perspective and Sheikh Gabriel brings a bit more Islamic perspective. Looking forward to more such content.

[@bademjan]

Yessir new episode let's go!

[@The3Muslims]

Thanks for tuning always - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

yerr - Anghel

[@HoboManAwesome2001]

Salaam T3M crew, Big thank you to you guys. Ngl, I'm someone who memories Quran on a regular basis and pray and all that stuff, and subconsciously Shaitan tricked me into thinking that I wouldnt get much out of this podcast, it's just something I played in the background during work. But I can definitely say that I've benefitted a lot from this Podcast up to now and implemented a lot of stuff in my life. Shows that this is useful for all parts of the Islamic spectrum. (Also, I did boxing for 2 years big up combat sports)

[@The3Muslims]

You the man - Faiyad

[@LionoftheSunnah]

Oh this is definitely gonna be good 👏🏻

[@The3Muslims]

Damn you always tune in eh - Faiyad

[@LionoftheSunnah]

@@The3Muslims of course my brother, I love your work and its beneficial nature. May Allah bless you and continue giving you khair 🤲🏻

[@The3Muslims]

@@LionoftheSunnah we see u always ❤️

[@mymunaraha6270]

Good video, I will encourage my younger brother to learn martial arts in-sha-Allah

[@The3Muslims]

Thank you sis, may Allah guide yall - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

He'll love it - Anghel

[@hafiz7611]

Abuamerican back babyyy 🔥 💯

[@The3Muslims]

And better - Faiyad

[@NoName-yg7zs]

Mashallah! the Muslim ummah need to stand together as one🤲🏾

[@MohamedAli-ly7jo]

love this real man talk

[@kathirahmuhamad9216]

Always like to watch your videos until the end.. but can't do it this time. Good luck guyz!

[@The3Muslims]

Thanks sis may Allah bless you - Faiyad

[@cara99]

i'm with you guys!

[@The3Muslims]

Ty Cara - Faiyad

[@saadmir5090]

about finding the right balance , mufti menk was showing kindness , compassion how to spend time with your children. That is the objective of the video , in a world where parents dont have time to spend with kids . You could use the same logic like oh why was prophet pbuh kind or affectionate with children or helped doing housework with his wife is THis A Real Man the answe is yes and no one is better in character than the prophet pbuh. Its about being a warrior on the battlefield and having emotional intelligence as well at home However gabriel is partly right that you cant be a total softy that society is just gonna push you over and the acquirement of defensive skills like martial arts weapons are just as important and arnt emphasized as much because most scholars are only book readers , and arnt qualified in the physical aspect of finding the balance

[@wanazlinawanazmi8805]

Agree 50/50 with your overall opinion 👌🏼 Ohhhh please brother Al Romani should not phrases hate in his speech spreading and judging others Islam is not about condemning other and send out embarrassing headlines! Not that way!! Mufti is like a father normal human being not an arrogant boastful sheik, gentle caring approach enticing the young towards Islam ! I’m a grandmother! all my children love him!! So what men has been knitting in all sort of approach and design, in Peru and many other countries and other wintery and four seasons countries since Olden days that is how they make their living selling blankets and capes hoodies for winter and carpets too not knitting but weaving all art of hand work !! All my brothers and sisters Do google and read more about men who knits ! They are also hunters horse riders and much more masculine then what ever was talk down !! So do we mean to say all chefs who cooks should stop their channels ✋🏼 as they are womanly , feminine being put in the kitchen like a wifey 🤣right this is not a good lessons for children we mean, as all male children who See’S or learn from them will turn feminine or softie !! Hahahah ! Oohhh Stop it all we should not invite fitnah !! Shut our mouth if we have nothing better to say .. may Allah forgive all and may Allah guide all to the right path Aminn! Bless day .. sharing my 1cent thoughts..Wassalam

[@fatoudiallo6353]

@@wanazlinawanazmi8805 this is the one! Thank you!

[@yasinfazley8313]

I was waiting for this one hahah

[@The3Muslims]

My friend - Faiyad

[@c.i.a8359]

About time someone with a voice stepped up

[@The3Muslims]

Yes - Faiyad

[@shannons6188]

I really liked what you said brother Anghal at 28:54

[@homeschoolislaamiyyah2967]

oh please mahn. he was teaching his daughters how to knit!!! teaching father daughter bonding.

[@Enacaus]

Finally, you guys listened! Now, PLZZZ BRING DANIEL HAQ! Gabriel knows him, tell Gabriel to bring him to the Podcast

[@The3Muslims]

lol bro clearly you didn’t watch the next time at the end ❤️ - Faiyad

[@Enacaus]

@@The3Muslims OH!!!!!!!!!! You do not know how happy I am! I didn't watch the full podcast because I was busy with other podcasts like freshly grounded and rerooted

[@The3Muslims]

@@Enacaus no worries bro, we have 2 with him this month. - Faiyad

[@sosso5808]

I really enjoyed this episode, as a woman I’ve heard nothing but the truth.

[@faziefallelfarhan1333]

"A man who stands for nothing will fall for anything." ~Malcolm X

[@galbi8335]

Abu: "Women love masculine man!" - Yes!

[@The3Muslims]

Truth - Faiyad

[@zahraahmed7999]

But man where are we gonna find a real man upon the Quran and sunnah 😔😔

[@yasinfazley8313]

@@zahraahmed7999 Unfortunately they are all knitting, they don't have to time to take care of their bodies 🤣

[@HoboManAwesome2001]

@@yasinfazley8313 daym no chill lol 🤣

[@themercifulguard3971]

@@zahraahmed7999 They were a lot 100 years ago, but Westernization and liberal ideas made them knit and wear skirts HAHAHAHHA

[@nycnow811]

Hella necessary podcast

[@The3Muslims]

Undeniably so! - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

yessir - Anghel

[@trueafghanpashtunkhan6704]

Salams my brothers, we are all with you. Haq is Haq.

[@jackhampton7657]

Thanks for doing this. This is needed in our society. I didnt become muslim to be part of a soy religion.

[@whywearehere3363]

This was the greatest show in the dunya for me today, authentic is it gets Masha'Allah.

[@galbi8335]

17:09 It's all true! I agree 100% what's been said here. A leading man is endlessly attractive!

[@The3Muslims]

The only thing a man can do if nothing else is to make a decision. Idc if it isn’t right but it’s better to be wrong than in doubt - Faiyad

[@galbi8335]

@@The3Muslims absolutely!

[@zahraahmed7999]

Finally finished the whole video That ________ Skeptic preview at the end tho 👀👀

[@The3Muslims]

Barak Allah feek Zahra - Faiyad

[@kaymubarak7331]

As a muslimah I couldn't agree more with these brothers. We need more like Brother Gabriel who is unapologetic strong and firm in his beliefs, it's an admirable quality to see. I myself have noticed over the years the degeneration of masculinity and how it is undergoing a catastrophic collapse. We have become so complacent and comfortable in our environment that we don't want to stand against the narrative even though it categorically goes against the teachings of Islam, we rather look for ways to blend in and normalize haram issues. What is haram cannot be changed, you remain firm on that stance without worrying about losing your position or loss of earnings, stay upon the haque, don't be afraid to go against the grain and rely on the Creator for He is your sustainer and the one who honours you.

[@kinsey5585]

Real life Situation podcast would be nice. Salam Aleykoum

[@tazulislam2544]

Grrrrr. 💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

[@Issa2860]

Barak Allahu feekum

[@galbi8335]

Omg. You can't emphasize this topic any stronger! We are even too late. Things started to get out of balance long ago. Man/Woman - Gender mainstream was sucking my nerves since it had started.

[@The3Muslims]

Yes, a feminine guy wearing pink, with makeup and super tight clothing and a gay voice may be funny and sh*t to hollywood and the things ppl watch on KZbin or Netflix like drag queens (May Allah have mercy on us) but showing kids sh*t like this will f*ck them up. You’re double strong for realizing this as a woman. Let me guess, you had a strong family unit and father growing up? - Faiyad

[@each1teach1]

@@The3Muslims not to mention that these shayateen don't even want us to have kids. That's where so many of these liberal countries are heading. Couples that have had their women or men or both sterilised. May Allaah protect us

[@galbi8335]

@@each1teach1 yes, it is horrible! Unfortunately the artificial life is keeping us away from our nature.

[@galbi8335]

@@The3Muslims you are so right Faiyad. There is nothing I would add to what you said. - To me: just recently I told Anghel that I sometimes feel not here on earth physically. I feel like being so far from all. This dunya and what is happening right now... In "my world" (through my eyes) I see the beauty Allah blessed us with. BUT Everything becomes difficult for those who believe, Mentally, Spiritually but most of all Emotionally! Truth is, I suffer. But more would be not nice to bring it here in this comment. - I am just so grateful for your work you as T3M❤️

[@mikat688]

@@The3Muslims I got the link for this video from brother Daniel H. MashAllah you guys , keep this work up , but one comment, please don’t say or comment using f words and things like that , Muslims should keep their speech clean. Others might think it’s ok to use them too. I know you don’t mean harm to anyone in the ummah, but please use Prophet’s sallalyahu aleikhi ya sallyam ways. Thank you.

[@Jawanisa]

Masculinity is indeed very attractive ❤

[@The3Muslims]

You got it! - Faiyad

[@samaradam904]

not toxic masculinity

[@samaradam904]

@Abeera Khawaja what is your prove of what i said being satanic there are abusive men who are calling themselves alpha males there is such thing as toxic masculinity and toxic femininity maybe you dont know it depends on the individuel healthy masculine men who is emotionally and mentally mature is very different from emotionally and intellecttually undeveloped masculine men it is the same with females masculinity and femininity are expressed differenly by different people

[@umar9174]

@@samaradam904 their is no such thing. It is a made up term.

[@meveky4210]

May Allah give me a strong, masculine, competent and strong in Deen husband, amen. We need more leaders and true men, not less

[@The3Muslims]

Ameen sis - Faiyad

[@The3Muslims]

Ameen - Anghel

[@landofulama8970]

Didn't the prophet saw. Used to help with cleaning the house. Was patching/knit his own clothes?

[@luminous6084]

I’m a boy and I knit, I’m not sure if I will drop it if I transition into a man, but if I don’t, I will still be a man.

[@Rayshido00x]

I love your Videos Guys

[@The3Muslims]

Thanks for tuning in - Faiyad

[@Rayshido00x]

and thank you for introducing to me, Abu American and Gabriel Al Romaani

[@nothajzl]

25:10 brother Abu is so funny😁 ‏ما شاء الله

[@afrinmukadam4818]

What’s wrong with women learning martial arts, gym etc ? What is wrong with women defending themselves ? This is absurd

[@SPeeDKiLL45]

Could you do a Video which Analyzes in Detail the Personality of Umar ibn al Khattab and other Companions? Fits perfectly well to this Topic of Masculinity.

[@lilacblue783]

I love mufti menk. He does inspire a lot of people. However I do understand that our men need to step up and bring out their masculinity again.

[@faizeladam1404]

Now this is a conversation I wish I heard when I just got married.

[@insyirahandhy4977]

As someone who works in the field, I completely understand the sentiments behind what is being said but I don't think it's ever wise to single out a fellow Muslim, especially if there is no evidence to suggest that the individual in question deliberately seeks to cause dismay to the psyche of Muslim youths such that they consequentially turn gay. Islam came to protect the honour and dignity of Muslims. Forgive me but I would really really advise against speaking about people rather than speaking to them. May Allah protect us all, ameen!

[@SAAD92ification]

Jazakallah khayran ikhwaan salaam from Pakistan 🇵🇰

[@zahraahmed7999]

Man this knitting drama is still going on? 😂😂 Honestly tho, alhamdulillah that the conversation about masculinity is starting in the mainstream too inshaaAllah. May Allah reward all of you brothers

[@HoboManAwesome2001]

Lol I'm from london it gets crazy down here

[@HoboManAwesome2001]

@syrian slayer Stabbings, acid attacks and gang violence in general lot of gangs

[@silverfoenix]

I am confused here... How is knitting different than sewing or weaving & when did it become feminine? It was hinted in the video that because of TOY MAKERS targeting females with kits... Is cooking feminine for the same reason? Is there any Hadith or Fiqh classifying knitting/sewing as feminine (like wearing Gold, silk & women clothing) rather than toy companies marketing department as law dictators? Is this enough reason to attack each other without going to Qur'an & Sunnah/ Ijmaa of Ummah as instructed by the Prophet SAW?

[@kizunalasto7238]

I remember one verse in Quran saying "O Prophet! Why do you prohibit ˹yourself˺ from what Allah has made lawful to you, seeking to please your wives?" QS Tahreem:1 it totally knock first to my head when AbuAmerican saying "Make woman happy by the way of masculinity not the feministic side of man" it just when a Man doing something that totally in side of feministic/Woman, remind me one Hadith where Prophet despise Woman who act like Man and Man who act like Woman

[@ummerfarooq5383]

Now this the bottom line.

[@ajajssksk1757]

Oh wow the similarities are significant.

[@hereticstranger9016]

Chickens 'Quacking' or going through surgeries to 'Quack' , That Cracked me up 😂🤣 , May Allah Keep you steadfast. 🤲

[@elftower907]

watched Leo Babutas video on masculinity and he says the man brings masculinity to whatever he does