20 Men's Style Trends Women Hate in 2023 | Mens Fashioner | Ashley Weston

The latest men's fashion trends that women HATE! From baggy jeans to oversized EVERYTHING, here is what women DON'T want to see in a man's closet this year.
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[@paulstefanpopa-bratu9521]

Workwear is popular because workweqr peices are comfortable, look great, are durable, are functional, and fit well on most body types

[@razor6552]

Agree. Been wearing work boots instead of tennis shoes for years.

[@vegard3940]

What do people need durable and functional clothes for when all they do in them is sit in front of a laptop in an air-conditioned cafe and drink their organic chai latte?

[@BETAsin]

@@vegard3940 well, what else are they supposed to wear? Fast fashion clothes that get dumped in a landfill after 1-3 wears? Are Chai latte drinkers not entitled to timeless quality clothes that they will get many wears out of?

[@vegard3940]

@@BETAsin Speaking from experience, a pair of good quality leather sneakers will last you just as long as a pair of logger boots without pretending you chop down sequoias for living.

[@jessieisallin]

@@vegard3940We are talking about style. Let guys wear whatever guys want. Living on a ranch wearing Carhartt or just wearing Carhartt because it looks good/ cool. Shouldn’t be a problem.

[@barnacleboy4423]

Thanks for the great tips for avoiding neurotic women

[@panigalecheckmate1549]

👍👍

[@iandrewtv]

👏

[@eduardoborcsh]

😂 👍

[@altemose_prime]

LOL! She never replies to comments.

[@Tarnstellung]

Legendary comment!

[@kiwimike2330]

The world would be a boring place if everyone just dressed like a banker at the weekend as Ashley would like.

[@ramani56]

I would beg to differ. One should ideally dress in a way so as to not offend the sensibilities of those around him. These torn, faded and ill-fitting clothes with a load of ill-suited jewelry or accessories will put one off and should be avoided on all occasions especially on those when one has to have an interaction with another. As for me I would any day prefer to wear a decent set of clean well fitting clothes.

[@kiwimike2330]

@@ramani56 Enjoy your banking job.

[@MichaelJMelo]

@@ramani56 yawn 🥱

[@coldworld5]

She’s vanilla. She wants to make all men vanilla. She basically wants every man to dress like a real estate agent. She’s so mid it’s hilarious.

[@JK-nj3bt]

Indeed

[@FernandoMartinez-om2nj]

What I find funny is not that Ashley doesn't like Timberland boots, but that she thinks Timberland boots are true work boots.

[@MISJPEREZ]

She means ppl who wear them don’t use them for work

[@michaeltheewolf]

Lol

[@samsantana]

@@MISJPEREZ So she's saying that nobody uses them for work and they are actual work boots? If not then she's implying they are NOT work boots and thus should be okay to be worn casually... a bit of a contradiction don't you think?

[@samsantana]

@@alejandrodanieldelfino4011 Read my comment again and try to comprehend what you are reading, numb nuts.

[@lamargettens2370]

@@samsantana right that’s like basketball shoes or runners like air maxes 80% will wear them everyday like tims in cold weather

[@seanmcmillan472]

Interesting how workwear is considered to be overly masculine because that's exactly why so many guys wear it . Carhartt, Levi's, Lee, Ben Davis, Dickies are all 100 plus year old brands that have never gone out of style despite fashion you tubers who try to steer people away from it .

[@real_fjcalabrese]

Carhartt jeans and chinos are super durable and really comfortable. I can get Carhartt in 100% cotton; this improves breathability in the 112F Tucson summers.

[@johncremeans969]

A Lee or Levi jean jacket is both stylish and functional at work and comfortable "Carhartt looks like crap" come on Cowboys are cool and men

[@jaydubs6354]

Yeah idk what she’s on about. These are pretty timeless very consistent brands that are durable and staples in Americana fashion

[@jaydubs6354]

@@johncremeans969yeah maybe don’t try to pull off a Canadian tuxedo lol but yes Levi is pretty awesome

[@donaldpump3072]

I've had my carhartt jacket for 8 years now and it it keeps me warm during snow days.

[@toodlefoo]

We don't dress for you ma'am, we dress for ourselves. People liking our fits and being able to relate are the cherry on the top.

[@tomavington2593]

It is also interesting how negative the comments section is 😂, she is such a negative vibes person , no one seems to like her tips

[@bigboycreams4769]

You clicked on the video dude

[@blindfire951]

​@@bigboycreams4769only come to find out we don't like it

[@swimfaniij]

I’ve never seen bankers wear skinny jeans on weekends 😂

[@Brad-ic4bp]

Except that nobody is “liking your fits” (God, you even talk like a dork).

[@bertroost1675]

I watched this just because it popped up. I find it amazing that people watch these things and care about the content.

[@somejerk7516]

What are you into, Alan

[@bertroost1675]

@@somejerk7516 What a woman hates doesn't regulate what I'm into. I don't care if they love or hate something I like. That is my point. I get that fashion is something used to attract women but it's shallow. Of course also it's best to not dress like you're Diogenes.

[@oldandeerie]

agree with all that is going on in 2023 i can't think of anything more meaningless then this video lol

[@Imabeatyouman]

There’s some valuable fashion advice thh

[@bertroost1675]

@@Imabeatyouman Not really

[@MementoVita]

As a country boy, with all due respect miss, I completely ignored what you said about my grandpas carharrt. I'm giving it to my son and him his own, fine quality.

[@donaldpump3072]

Have you tried Ben Davis on the field?

[@xxTAARGUS]

I still have my dad's Carhart from 2005. The zipper broke like 7 years ago. Need to get that fixed. And start wearing it again. 😂

[@_quidd]

Carhartt is a thing of beauty. My dad’s from the country but he works an office job. No one in my family has carhartt to pass down to me

[@theantagonist631]

I doubt you own a toolbox

[@_quidd]

@@theantagonist631 I do actually

[@mutiSHITH3ad]

Basically if you don’t shop at banana republic you don’t know fashion lol

[@TINOBATUCA]

X2

[@deathtoallbuttmetal8148]

Yup. Pretty much all of these “fashion advice” channels are just advertisements. Easily spotted by having statements in the titles such as “women hate…”

[@roneshimon]

I was thinking exactly this😂! So good; you read my mind

[@johnsondeng]

Exactly. Everything she says is so judgy and overly prescriptive.

[@robinwelbers9460]

Ok, most things on KZbin are certainly unnecessary to watch. But, this definitely takes the crown 😆 It's really just confirming myself to have made the right decision when transitioning into avoiding these kinds of women

[@robinwelbers9460]

@@RPGmario64 it’s not news to me, and I certainly understand that. But, women who are overly neurotic about which things you should and shouldn’t wear, are rather overbearing. Style is still subjective, and not objectively good or bad.

[@d3r4g45]

most of the tips are pretty on point. it's her voice and choice of words that I cannot stand.

[@marvin2678]

@@RPGmario64 and thats ok , we men do it too the differnce is telling people what to wear

[@natanaelascencioaranda7322]

@@marvin2678 But I do want them to tell me what to wear, and that's what this channel is about. so get out of here haters ..

[@marvin2678]

@@natanaelascencioaranda7322 gotcha bro

[@kemit99]

I really just sat here and listened to this lady say take zero risk...and have no personal style lol

[@mtthwpnn]

"Don't wear skinny jeans, wear slim-fit jeans" I'm a stranger in a strange land

[@TeacherDoug7]

Do you never shop for jeans? "Slim-fit" are just a bit slimmer than "straight".

[@sandwichlovemachine2546]

Skinny fit is supposed to be like skin-tight, hence the word "skinny". Slim fit is just a little less roomier than regular or straight fit jeans.

[@ToxicAvengerCleanYourMind]

I think the best fashion is what you decide it to be on your own without outside influence. Should be practical, comfortable, and represent who you are as an individual.

[@베르사이드]

Exactlyyy , like i get this channel is geared towards probably 25 and above or whatever , but whats the point of dressing if u anrt guna be urself. Being creative , the nuance , trying new things , expressing ourselves , trying to recreate something our favorite influencer has worn , thats fashion to me

[@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou]

@@베르사이드 You can be creative and express yourself...or you can try to recreate something your favorite influencer has worn. Pick one.

[@베르사이드]

@@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou Okeyyy breh , trying to dress like celebrity isnt completely creative sure , but its still something thats cool to you and u can experiment and try. Trying to dress like a bunch of the normal dudes in the “nice slim jeans! And bomber jackets!” Doesnt scream experimenting and cool to me…

[@cyba9774]

Trust me, the red lines of fashion and civilization are the only things which are holding me from walking around in a cosplay every frickin day

[@behindyou666]

@@베르사이드 more like over 30

[@hugeslacker]

ok so all it takes a carhartt jacket to avoid women like this? perfect!

[@mrbigglesworth35ify]

Lol

[@DABA2024]

“20 Men’s Style Trends This Judgmental, Annoying Woman Hates in 2023”. Fixed it for you.

[@woollychaps]

Yep. And this witch would char-broil anyone who critiques her.

[@johnsondeng]

I wish I could like this x1000. Thanks for saying what I was also thinking.

[@MrEric0822]

Five seconds in and I bet I had the same thought most dudes had: So glad I’m not married to this woman.

[@aslander]

Yeah I paused it a minute in to reflect that I am glad that I have a career and don't have to resort to making videos about how clueless I am about the other sex.

[@DerpEye]

Most of these are right. However, when it comes to leather jackets: leather jackets are, and always will be cool. Period. It's a timeless design, and it'll never be out of style.

[@ARS_FICTA]

My Schott 613 is one of my favorite jackets

[@christopherthomas8722]

I love that me walking around in my work clothing is basically a fashion statement

[@_quidd]

lol but not if you’re wearing flannels

[@SirErin01]

the day I dress for the approval of others is the day I lose my dignity as a person

[@Wheretheportlandorarealadiesat]

Hha

[@zackdasilva3195]

Yep

[@johnmachtube]

Alternate video title: 20 ways men's lives are less complicated when they stop caring about what women hate.

[@viktorhalaj3029]

It's so fun watching this video even though I disagree with most of what she said. It's like some people are still stuck in an older era and aren't able to move on .

[@razor6552]

I agree with over half. Everyone has their own opinions. I watched a few episodes of Loudermilk recently. If they were actually filming in Seattle, people still look like they did in the nineties. Even the younger ones.

[@damien_nguyen]

0:15 distressed jeans are bad! 0:47 look at this stylish guy with distressed jeans!

[@tnetroP]

Leave my leather jacket alone. Yes I know I'm too old. Yes I know people think I'm pretending to be a bad boy biker (I usually don't wear leather jackets on my bike). But I love it and I'm keeping it.

[@asmrSTANK]

Carhartts are for function, but even they can look great when sized correctly, its COLD here in MT and im in a medium black detroit jacket, fits great, looks great, WORKS GREAT!

[@68Tboy]

@OperationMidnight I think her target audience is urban men. She has great advice but misses the mark with blue collar/western fashion.

[@bboyVice007]

Detroit jacket is a classic jacket. It will never go out of style.

[@mountainman1453]

I wore a retro patagonia down vest over a red/black flannel and got a smile at the store from a beautiful woman. 😂

[@micah9988]

Real recognizes real. She notice your swagger 💯

[@loganrileyellis]

Honey, me aswell as millions of other dudes put on workwear to go to work everyday, what do you want me to do, run a ditcher in a suit 😂

[@MARKINAU8]

I found this video better to rename "nothing wrong with what you wear and don't dress for women's liking "

[@samsantana]

As a single guy in my 40s who wears cafe racer leather jackets fairly often, I can assure you 99% of 'worthy' women love the look, when it's well-fitting and accompanied by a confident personality. I'm almost certain Ashley doesn't rate them because most of us guys who do wear them (yes, I do have a couple of bikes) would never approach someone like her because we are just not interested, we don't really like picky princesses, we like actual women, real women not those who got stuck in their 'fashion red-flags tick-box list' perspective of men they jotted down in their 20s.

[@samsantana]

@Lava I mostly agree with her too, that's why I watch her videos but she's got it wrong when it comes to this :)

[@sammyb1651]

@@samsantana Most leather jackets look a bit crap on most people tbh. Not just cafe racer jackets. That's the harsh reality.

[@samsantana]

@@sammyb1651 most people are unfit and lack confidence, the rest of us can carry them quite well and stand out in a good way.

[@samsantana]

@@RPGmario64 if unsuitability to task was to determine what looks tacky, then nobody should ever wear underwear, the reason for it's existence is based on old ways of people wearing the same garment, pants for example, several days in a row and underwear would be changed daily to avoid stains or accidents from ruining the garment... I trust most people nowadays wear different things each and everyday so underwear is really not necessary. Point is, people should wear what they want and makes them feel comfortable and more importantly confident in who they are, that is far more attractive than a shy "well dressed" man.

[@sammyb1651]

@@samsantana Physique is a definite factor. Confidence I'm not so sure. I see plenty of confident people looking ridiculous in them. It's to do with the material itself at the end of the day. Leather is very, VERY difficult to get right. It makes bad detailing all the more conspicuous and moreover, most patinas are frankly awful. I'd say about 1 in 50 leather jackets look genuinely good. Not great odds. Suede is generally a better bet.

[@fenderman1984]

the strokes are still cool, smart watches are incredibly useful, and leather jackets are never out of style, especially when you actually ride a motorcycle. Although I'm on board with most of this I'm definitely over female influencers wearing business casual when they don't work in an office. It gives me hard multi-level marketing vibes. "No questioning my rules" lol wtf

[@niallk9336]

Even worse, it gives me HR vibes. I could replace them all with a python script, but alas... we need to meet that Affirmative Action quota; no woman wants to do my job even if it pays double her salary.

[@hobosnake1]

​@@niallk9336 you made it about your dislike for women and not about where you disagree with the video. Get help.

[@shraka]

@@hobosnake1 He sure did. This business casual fit sucks, but so does the misogyny.

[@k3l3v-ra90]

No woman will ever take my oversized bball shorts from me

[@pao_banaag]

I didn't expect to feel so attacked on this fine morning but here we are 😂

[@razor6552]

😂😆😆😂😂😅 No cap. I agree with a lot of what she says, but a few things make me want to ask, "Am I under surveillance?"

[@oscarzana1728]

So you’re telling me that I grew up on Metallica but I can’t wear a Metallica shirt cause I’m older, but some kid that never even heard the band can wear there T-shirt? Doesn’t seem right.

[@alphabets0ng]

This video made me want to invent the reverse Ashley Uno style: crocs with socks, cargo jeans shorts, vintage print T-Shirt, sport sunglasses and a mullet I will need a stick to swatch all the girls away from me!

[@jUQMtDmf]

Why does that sound like a pretty cool look

[@mauimillen3484]

That fit would go crazy too 😭

[@razor6552]

😂😆😆😂😅 Good one! You might be going beyond the pale with this look. Hilarious

[@corentin8634]

Bro described an Australian

[@shraka]

@@corentin8634 🤣 You are NOT wrong. This woman just hates Australians.

[@jieren1811]

Speaking of gender equality, imagine a man criticising women’s outfits like that 😂 he’d be cancelled by now

[@teoleno4019]

Happens all the time 🙄

[@zackdasilva3195]

I agree

[@pw6002]

"he’d be cancelled by now " Or not.

[@Mau_Paladino]

Sad but true.

[@TheKh65]

​@teoleno4019 and what happens when men do it in this climate? They would be called exist etc...

[@ChachiTelevision1979]

Granted, I don't wear workwear so much, but I appreciate the workwear look when it's put together well. It works for Daniel Day Lewis. Even if it's worn by someone who's not getting his hands dirty, I take it as a tribute to the working class. A black Carhartt jacket with dark rinse 501's and a pair of Red Wings is sharp.

[@michaeltheewolf]

100% agree… It’s about how you put it together. I’m not going to stop wearing work wear. I love carhartt I donno what she is talkin about. And for the record I do use and I am good with my hands. I’m one of the men that actually can fix things lol

[@mydickisunbelievablysmallb7098]

@@michaeltheewolf Same here. I love my carhartt clothes and wear them all the time on the farm. It would be stupid if I thought they look great on me but didn’t want other people to wear them.

[@CarlMurawski]

Amen!

[@michaeltheewolf]

@@CarlMurawski Lol my guy! I 2nd that!

[@armandlumibao]

amen!

[@JohnCorbettMusic]

Sat here watching this while wearing white socks, lots of jewellery, oversized graphic tee, smart watch and Carhartt hat like 🤨

[@theoswestrianorganist]

CALLING ALL MEN! *WEAR WHAT YOU WANT, WEAR WHATEVER YOU FEEL COMFORTABLE IN!*

[@itsdeville]

Idiotic statement. I clearly watched this video to hear about someone else’s perspective. I don’t need you to tell me anything clown 🫵🤡

[@jordanebacher]

Are there any major videos on KZbin where a man talks about girls fashion trends that look bad?

[@J_the_IV]

Why do I care what women think about my style? Don’t I do it for me? Be true to yourself. Real always attracts real.

[@101bennyc]

Imagine if a man made this video about women’s fashion.

[@Domini_k]

Note to self, never take any advice from the internet, it sucks.

[@thepapi6596]

cafe racer jacket are best for those who have good proportion body size....... Ashley mentoring like a mom rather than mentoring like a stylist

[@2000Doriyas]

I think those jackets are tacky personally, but I don’t think she’s a stylist whatsoever, all of her advice seems to just clean mean up from sloppy habits and discourage any experimentation or dressing outside of the mundane. Which I think a lot of guys could honestly use the advice, so this channel is genuinely very useful, but I think she should recognize that her views of fashion are restrictive and don’t leave much room for discovery.

[@Angelito_Noreaga]

"...stupid Nike or Adidas slides". Couldn't have described them better 😆

[@razor6552]

Gonna hafta agree

[@jennachanthavisay6051]

I think the leather jackets are still good, at least in solid colors.

[@logangoldey4956]

Have a schott jacket "storm" in a heavy brown waxed leather and honestly I love it.

[@hi1916]

This woman is the definition of mid, wants all men to look mid, fashion is the complete opposite of what this middle aged woman is talking about, it’s about expressing yourself but instead you want everybody to dress like a minimalistic 50 year old

[@nicolasriou8718]

I used to despise that Carhartt worker jacket, and sure enough, 5 years later I love it and just ordered a thick black one 😃

[@razor6552]

I don't like the giant logo, but they seem like high quality rugged clothing. I would give Carhartt a pass as well. I like the simple clean lines of the similar Eisenhower jacket by Dickies.

[@leedoc512]

It's funny how everything she hates is the ones you see from the lasted, trendiest fashion scenes.

[@giuseppenativo2123]

The point is that she has a very stereotyped way to think about clothing. She is frozen in the '90s, but in the american nineties. She understand about male fashion as much as i understand about quantum physics

[@jamesblack5972]

I'll admit to wearing a plaid shirt around my waist to a Guns n' Roses concert in December. I also bought a graphic band t-shirt

[@panigalecheckmate1549]

​@@giuseppenativo2123 she belonges to the Denver Clan.

[@mildred78]

@@giuseppenativo2123 well said

[@johanvanstaden2408]

The industry can’t grow when everyone is already clothed. They can only grow by creating a trend that you buy now, only to trash it a year later, to buy the next junk.

[@Th3L0st0ne]

only 2 disagreements: 1. the jacket at 7:03 - it could be a bit less shiny but there's nothing wrong to warrant the dislike 2. smart watch - sorry, I do absolutely love Tissot traditional wrist watches for the look and value for money, but one must be living in 2010 if they dislike smart watches that much.

[@JT-tm5vj]

This can be summed up with "just dress plain"

[@donkelly4718]

Half way through and, NO SURPRISE, ,YOU'RE WRONG AGAIN!!!! Flared pants also DOMINATED the men's runways for Spring and Summer 2023, from Dolce and Gabana to Rick Owens, to Balenciaga, to Moschino, and many others.

[@semzip8558]

She’s obviously not referring to runway fashion which rarely looks appropriate on the masses.

[@RealMuperSan]

Why would I want to compare to run way fashion?

[@jaboi2133]

​@@semzip8558 all style trends are derived from these fashion weeks/companies and get recycled every few years

[@TeacherDoug7]

@@jaboi2133 No they're not. Most people don't care about that stuff. Sheesh.

[@philliplightning]

It's weird that she thinks any self respecting person would care what she thinks.

[@NajeebOneHeartOneBeat]

The fact that she made a point to say it’s 2023 go get your hair cut but failed to reinforce the fact that it’s 2023 and smart watches are the norm and not going anywhere

[@yaakovhassoun8965]

They are pretty mainstream, but a nice swiss mechanical watch will 100% make you look better.

[@NajeebOneHeartOneBeat]

@@yaakovhassoun8965 I understand that I love the OG watch brands. However just like driving a classic car around having a classic watch isn’t normal. It’s very much niche. Smart watches are everyday watches and if you do have a classic watch like myself, you normally wear it for special occasions or work if applicable. Nowadays, it’s all about utility. 300 for a classic watch isn’t the same value as 300 for a smartwatch.

[@charlietwotimes]

Go and get your hair cut on the way to your yoga class... & then, only maybe.

[@Sethwiggers1]

Agree with most except the workwear take. I think it makes so much sense to include workwear into your casual street wear. It’s built to last and built to be functional. A sun faded slightly worn carhartt jacket is such an awesome look that will never go out of style

[@sumitghosh2164]

Basically stop doing whatever you did in 2022 and make the fashion enterprises richer

[@mmassie4321]

Thank you for this informative and entertaining video! So, T-shirts, I grew up in the 80's and T-shirts tucked in was the norm. It was such a habit I still do it to this day. And since I am a little big. I could never pull off the French tuck.

[@tallking7777]

Agree with most everything except for the work wear. You even said it's overly masculine. which is all the more reason for men to wear it.

[@nypinstripes2388]

Yeah, god forbid a man looks masculine

[@sammyb1651]

The added bonus of workwear (if you do happen to be into it) is the fact that it tends to be made of better quality fabrics than the vast majority of fashion out there.

[@nypinstripes2388]

@@sammyb1651 good point

[@shraka]

It's not overly masculine where I'm from. Heaps of women wear it, tonnes of dudes with pink hair and nails rock it too. I think Ashley is just classist and doesn't that some people look like they might have to use their hands for something that doesn't involve a computer.

[@love2bh8d]

Don't care what you say. Metal shirts are a staple in life! Deal with it

[@anunnakimenagerie]

I like my boot cut jeans, work jackets, work boots, cafe racer jackets, flannel shirts, vests, and graphic tshirts... but I agree that skin tight jeans and big purposeful holes in jeans look rediculus

[@razor6552]

Flannel shirts will always look good

[@alwayspooh1588]

Hey you!!!! Ripped jeans are for the bin. The same with foxed shirts/T-shirts. I do like my Crocs in summer though.

[@bobcampton]

I don’t agree the leather racing style jackets being out of style. It’s a classic that will never go out of style. I love ‘em!

[@davidpar2]

Carhartt was never designed to be a “fashion trend.” It’s heavyweight, durable clothing, designed to be worn by hard working men (and, to an extent) women. They also make well-insulating jackets that few to no one in California have any practical use for. Those of us who have always worn it for its intended use will continue to do so long after the hipsters move on to their next cringe move.

[@jaboi2133]

So carhartt has a offshoot called WIP, they made it to be long lasting fashion you can have for years

[@Mike-tw2mw]

Rename this video: How to dress boring/safe in 2013

[@deesee6009]

The real James Bond (Connery) actually wore a Rolex Submariner Ashley

[@honeybadger6313]

I may be 60 but no way am I giving up my biker jackets. I wear them on my Motorcycle. And no I am not going through a midlife crisis’. I have owned and ridden them for going through London and pleasure since my 20s

[@lamargettens2370]

Don’t OG this is for the lost ppl

[@honeybadger6313]

@@juru6887 get proper training. Wear the right gear and never ever show off on it

[@razor6552]

I've worn a leather jacket for over 20 years. It's the most practical jacket I can think of. Warm in the winter. Not extra warm in the fall or spring. Good in snow or rain. Best all around jacket IMHO

[@OMVilla2927]

What dressy sport sneakers would you you suggest for an older gentle to wear, at 57 I don't know if i can pull off the jordons' like I once could. I want to elevate my sporty casual look. A leather sneaker or something like the Puma super liga. One last note for the guys. Find a tailor in your area. Get slacks and jeans fitted to the waist and the length. Get jackets and shirt tailored to your body. You will be surprised how much you will like your wardrobe when it fits you. I'm a bigger guy, and it has made a difference, plus honestly the process of getting measured for a correct fit, makes me feel more confident.

[@wileyallen1545]

I have some black pumas supers with clean white laces that I wear sparingly for casual outings where I don’t have to walk much. Get many compliments on them.

[@DuendeVerde2045]

In short: What is beautiful and correct is to dress like a rich white man. Dress however you like. The only rule is: Keep hygiene up to date.

[@richardwright4456]

Sorry, but I'm not giving up my puffer vests. I live in the Canadian prairies where it can get to minus 45 degrees in January and February. It's about function as well as style for me...

[@2000Doriyas]

So why don’t you just wear a an actual puffer jacket???

[@cygnusx-3106]

Damn, guess I can't wear my smartwatch anymore. Hope my doctor is ok with me not monitoring my heart. I'm sure it'll be fine.

[@cfsrueda9349]

So many things I don’t agree, like the vests, the boots, the leather jacket. Maybe some people don’t live for trends and just live wearing whatever you feel comfortable with. Here in Shanghai the “trend” is so many things she consider “bad”. And here in Asia you actually see crazy stuff lol

[@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou]

I'm assuming you're a foreigner living in Shanghai? How is it? Feel free to be frank and honest.

[@cfsrueda9349]

@@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou i am. You see everything, and many of those things are things the fashion KZbinrs consider “wrong” or “bad” which is funny because Asia is the number 1 place for trends hahah

[@curtypachec6055]

Not gonna lie I actually agree with her on most of this

[@asims1988]

For any guys with athletic legs meaning small waist thick thighs that make slim fit look like skinny fit. There's a brand called Bonobos thats make athletic cut jeans with more room in the the thighs and tapers at the knee for a fitted look. A little pricey but worth it!

[@justenjoy-rr7ho]

Who cares what women want, we're not objects, we dress for ourselves not women. It's 2023 can't you women see us for ourselves, damn we're not a piece of meat.

[@davedove67]

I have to disagree about throwing away white socks. I'm not saying to wear them, as they are not a great fashion choice. However, socks are the number one item needed at homeless shelters and similar places. Donate those socks! As far as the Carhardt items, I have a few, but I tend to wear them as rugged outdoor attire, not fashion apparel.

[@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou]

If white socks are something the poor use to keep their feet warm, it makes you wonder if we should be shaming people for wearing them...

[@FractalSoul1111]

@@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou are you just a full time Troll? Get a life and donate your white socks.

[@FractalSoul1111]

I think the point was get rid of them. Donate, ball warmers, whatever.

[@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou]

@@FractalSoul1111 It's not "trolling" to suggest we should refrain from mocking people for how they dress, since wealth plays a big role in how well someone is able to dress. If you can't wrap your head around that, you've got a lot to learn.

[@markely7587]

I like vest. I find when I am doing active things I don’t get as hot as I do in a jacket and I have better arm range of motion, plus they layer well. It’s hard to beat a Carhartt jacket for warmth and protection against wind. I’ll keep wearing them, with a vest underneath if it’s really cold.

[@kristopherheenk2710]

As usual, the one thing I just can't get behind is Ashley's hatred of the Cafe Racer Leather Jacket (I've got them in both Black Lambskin and Brown Nubuck). I'd get it if she were talking about guys walking around in legitimate Biker/Motorcycle Jackets whose thickness are meant more for function than form/fashion. I'd definitely get it if she was talking about the Brando/WIld Ones-style Moto Jacket because it's a specific style that very few can pull off. But her hatred for the Cafe Racer has never made sense to me, and she never explains it - she just dismisses it as an option and then moves on (surprisingly not this time to spending 5 minutes gushing over Leather Bomber Jackets).

[@NemoTheGlover]

yea I have watched a few of her videos and by far that's one thing I can't get behind lol. It's the most simple leather jacket that can be dressed down or up, and most men can pull off compared to let's say.. a rough biker jacket, it is very versatile and gives you more options than let's say a brown suede bomber jacket. I love wearing my lambskin black leather jacket with a nice white oxford, a tie, some black denims & black chelsea boots, just like I like just slapping it on a black casual fit to go to the store. A bit juvenile but as a 24 year old dude I think it switches things up sometimes, since typically people see me in chinos, polos, oil jackets & windbreakers.... so I always get compliments from people that see my everyday uniforms. I think her videos are just aimed towards the older crowd, and she really believes men older than like 35 shouldn't be using leather jackets, seems to be more of a biased preference of hers, which when one thinks about it-> it makes sense.. generally speaking most men with dad bods in their 40s don't look great with leather jackets anymore, so she just generalizes her advice of the jacket & hands it out to all of us equally, rather than advising that they can look great depending on your body type, and that they can look great on slim mid age men and younger men or whatever she really feels.

[@billsherrington5996]

Yep. I'm with you too. Cafe leather jackets can be very stylish when kept simple and without the "biker" stripes etc.

[@angelfernandez6804]

I agree 100%.

[@galacticgorillaaah]

100% correct. I own a brown cafe racer jacket and people love it - gets compliments all the time. Also in one of the pictures of an example of a stylish man (at the 8 sec mark) she showed in this video, he was wearing a cafe racer jacket haha, and looked good!!!

[@the_9ent]

@@galacticgorillaaah She doesn’t edit these videos or chooses the pictures shown.

[@arielguzman9336]

Great video I agree with pretty much everything stated. The thing about the size of the shirts is neat. I usually go 1 size up tho to try and hide the belly and not look like baby gap 😊. I think the oversized look is still in but you’re probably right about balancing it with some pieces that aren’t oversized.

[@joshkenobiwan]

My go to beanie is Carhartt cuz it keeps my head nice and toasty all day long. And I have a cap from them cuz I think it's nice too.

[@Mikayla0610]

Her "advice" isn't really suited for my generation (I'm gen z, born in 2000). In my experience, we like an outfit that's interest, that draws the eye. Also, some of the advice you can change, like wearing the bigger/longer tee, you can do some type of tuck to show off your proportions better. Honestly, she needs to stop saying the "all women hate this trend" because it's not all women who hate these trends.

[@SunburntHands]

I'm going to disobey every one of these rules as a matter of principle.

[@sSavageGainSs]

workwear is timeless

[@razor6552]

I agree. C'est vrai.

[@renzoc]

I feel as tho this video doesn't allow a person to explore their own personal style and should therefore go straight to Banana Republic. However, Ashley does bring up some good points. But at the end of the day fashion / style is a personal journey.

[@FractalSoul1111]

I live in the Deep South and unfortunately, you just described 99% of the men along the gulf coast. Equally as unfortunate, is the women are just as fashion challenged. It’s a fashionistas worst nightmare. Their idea of layering is socks with sandals/flops. It’s beyond cringe worthy. Pray for them.

[@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYou]

They're comfortable and clearly don't mind it, while it's clearly bothering you. Maybe we should pray for you instead?

[@andrebaker7023]

You should enlighten folk and recommend Ashley's channel

[@baizuo_6246]

You cant be a real person

[@razor6552]

😂

[@CT99234]

Wow, if she hates this stuff. I'm wearing it every damn day!!

[@zenitram2895]

Much here to agree with, but a couple points I take issue with. First is workwear - utilitarian garb when out hiking, doing work on the ranch, or out in the woods, is a must. It's functional and durable, qualities that win out under those circumstances. The second is the vest -- puffer vests are great during transitional weather, and also when out hiking or on expeditions, where you need some body warmth, but where exertion rules out a full coat.

[@joaquinrodriguezpalomo9573]

I swear these videos get worse and worse. Like seriously is not all about attracting people, is about feeling comfortable, having fun with playing with styles and just loving the process of discovering. Masculinity is all about enjoying yourself. And please stop insulting men for wearing things they like calling them dorks or anything is so unnecessary. Respecting other is a much more attractive trait.

[@je6a478]

I sort of disagree with the point about T shirts. While it don't think an extremely oversized T shirt will look good, I don't think the ideal ending point for a T shirt is the belt line. I think it looks much better fitting to tuck the shirt so that it ends where the pants begin. Thereby, the proportions look much better as it applies to the rule of thirds and the golden ratio (1/3 your shirt, 2/3 your pants).

[@razor6552]

Also, if you have an unbuttoned flannel shirt, a tucked in T shirt looks fine

[@Aschwaz]

Bro this girl really said wearing any type of shorts 🩳 is a no-no. 🤡 We wearing workwear, racer jackets, big tees, and shorts all 2023 🎉🎉🎉

[@DenyTheZeitgeist]

I can’t imagine being this sad. I’m sad, but I don’t externalize it. I can’t imagine being this externally sad.

[@jdkler]

Most of this list is fine besides the leather jacket. I get complimented on mine all the time, people really love them. Also white socks can be done right, but people seem to wear them wrong a lot of the time.

[@bombdiggaty8795]

White socks are almost essential if you are wearing a white shoe

[@guillermocesarsaladino2470]

Amazing detailed explanation ahahaha, and if 1000 men saw this video, I think that 900 are already doing therapy ahah. "I hate smart watches" - Agreed "working shoes/boots" NO CROCS: after shower and when nobody is watching you. Leather jackets: Oversize clothings: HORRENDOUS on every men on earth. Nike or adidas slippers with white socks? You should be sh-../o .. t !! oh yes.

[@ism4962]

I wore a leather jacket and got tons of compliments from girls. Ashley yet again fails to understand men's fashion 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@knowledgeispowerrr]

99% of comments: "I agree with almost everything Ashley says, but keep your hands out of my Carhartt onesie"

[@Quanic2000]

1. If you know how to cut your own hair, why not? Go for it. 2. I wear white socks and slides to the gym before switching to my Olumpic weightlifting shoes. And I tuck my compression tights, which keeps the family jewels in their place, in them. 3. Yeah, I don't like Apple watches either. 4. The whole thing about wearing tights under a sleeveless vest is weird to me, too, unless the tights are soem sort of thermal wear I've seen my hunter friends use. 5. It's not like I have an issue with work wear, I have an issue with people who don't work in work wear. 6. I bet you wouldn't dare tell Harry Styles he's unstylish for wearing flared pants. 7. I can agree that flip flops should only be worn in the gym shower and near a body of water. 8. I like my graphic tees, but it should fit properly, unlike the elongated tees you mentioned. 9. The right Cafe racer leather jacket is dope. 10. Jorts are weird, and the only distressing I like on jeans is natural distressing. And I don't mean DIY "natural" distressing. 11. Didn't know tying a plaid shirt around your waist is a thing.

[@nexorabolis]

This list is amazing at home much it hates fun, no work wear, no shorts, no flip flops, no smart watches, no skinny jeans, or boot cut jeans, no sport sunglasses, I mean damn can't wear anything out there anymore haha

[@nexorabolis]

Ok I'll give you joggers tucked into white socks, definitely bad lol

[@razor6552]

Work wear is durable. It's fine. Although the Carhartt and Dickies logos are a little obnoxious.

[@miguelmckenzie248]

What I love the most about these videos is that I've likely committed roughly 50% of these fashion faux pas and I still couldn't give less of a sh*t. Do you, be yourself, and (most importantly) be happy. Don't fall victim to one person's opinion. As you were.

[@JerimiahGentry]

Wow I am reassured by these comments that I am not missing something

[@silentmandible8660]

Graphic shirt take is incorrect; band shirts are a classic look worn by people of all ages for decades.

[@silentmandible8660]

I agree with the Carhartt take, though. The logo is overly large and not even aesthetically pleasing.

[@guitarado]

6:11 I love Metallica and metal and you can wear these types of tshirts if combine them properly

[@pablotorres9308]

I don’t agree with the white socks hate. I believe they can look clean and well put together. They go great with any sneaker color. Black socks and white or blue sneakers a huge no for me. And crocs like flip flops, at the right place and time are okay.

[@2000Doriyas]

As useful as pages like this can be to clean up a guy that has zero clue how to look presentable, this woman would shun anything remotely fashionable that isnt fitting to an extremely narrow idea of menswear. No room for experimentation.

[@pablotorres9308]

@@2000Doriyas right? It gives you a 100% white canvas.