I feel less guilty now knowing even style experts make mistakes. It was very unpleasant to buy something you thought you really wanted just to watch it getting no use at all
@BrockMcGoffАй бұрын
It's just a learning process!
@JakeSmith-jy1kxАй бұрын
They probably make more mistakes! You don’t become an expert in anything without trying and failing a lot on the way to success.
@dspserpicoАй бұрын
But mistakes are a part of your journey in figuring out your own style.
@pedrojorge2741Ай бұрын
The issue with the Alden boots was likely getting them second hand. Quality leather shoes with cork and leather mid soles mold to your feet after a few wears, and used ones are molded to the first wearer's feet. So they might look like they fit but feel "off" in a difficult to explain way.
@bngr_bngr21 күн бұрын
That’s not true. Shoes continued to change but return to their original shape. I always use tree shoes to keep the shape of the shoes.
@pigpuddle1Ай бұрын
Really, I think a lot of this boils down to learning the difference between subjectivity and objectivity. A lot of people here are saying you look great in a hat (and I agree) - but subjectively, if /you/ don't like the way you look in a hat, that's all that matters! And you're dead-on with so many of these points, especially the "hell yeah vs. no" point. I've spent way too much money on things that were just "ok" rather than "hell yeah" and it ends up being the biggest waste.
@brandonf3185Ай бұрын
“Your kids, not other people’s”…great clarification! In all seriousness, great stuff, Brock. Appreciate you!
@israelsanchez122521 күн бұрын
Lol, wild clarification. That made me chuckle. 😂
@sardonix479Ай бұрын
I don't know but i think you looked pretty good in those slim strech jeans.
@sparkyblazeup1Ай бұрын
Absolutely DO NOT settle. If it's not what you really want give it a hard pass. Applies to clothing, accessories, vehicles and women.
@pirateluffy01Ай бұрын
Women ☠️ bro didn't even hesitate
@Panzer_RunnerАй бұрын
@@pirateluffy01"you have to sleep with 100 women in a year to be a real man" type ahh statement 😭😭😭
@Dazulolwarrior13 күн бұрын
Groomer type ahh statement the moment you typed women
@bonesaw8Ай бұрын
A buddy of mine wore some raw denim to a mutual friend's house, and sat on their white couch. The 2nd hand embarrassment put me off that idea for life.
@BrockMcGoffАй бұрын
Ouch!
@PeachysGamingАй бұрын
Come on now it doesnt just like paint the couch. I'd have to quite literally wipe my ass back and forth like 100 times to leave noticbale crocking. I can understand not liking the feel of raw denim, but the indigo bleeding aspect of the hobby is often WELL blown out of proportion. My first pair was a double indigo pair too, still the only thing with noticable crocking are my white hi tops. Plus I wanted my hi tops to get bleed on them.
@yowza138Ай бұрын
Every summer for the last four years I’ve tried to make loafers work. I love the way they look on people, I love the vibe, and as someone who works in a very casual industry, I love the idea that it’s a “dressy” leather shoe that isn’t actually formal. The problem: I have never found a single loafer that works for my foot shape. I don’t think they exist. I’ve bought and returned probably a dozen loafers that just didn’t work. I’ve donated three pairs that I bought final sale and just couldn’t make work. I’ve bought tongue pads, heel pads and insoles for loafers that fit too loose; I’ve bought shoe stretchers for loafers that fit too tight …no dice. The universe keeps telling me that I just can’t wear loafers, and I keep refusing to listen. I’ll probably try again next summer.
@drew-alexanderАй бұрын
Tbh, I think you can actually rock the dad hat very well!
@jon_pattersonАй бұрын
I think it didn’t look as good as it could because it was too loose. It’s almost like you weren’t wearing the hat, rather balancing it on your head. 😂 Also, your face is fairly narrow at the chin… a beard might make the hat work better.
@BoStarkАй бұрын
Looks perfectly fine to me.
@Drew-f5tАй бұрын
The jeans too.
@bradgolden357Ай бұрын
I appreciate this video and your acknowledgement of trying to be cool with the times and buying things you thought you "should". I find myself in that situation right now. I'm around your age and feel like I'm finally finding what my style is and what I'm most comfortable with. Thanks again. I have a couple things I regret buying and 100% still have them. I have a couple jackets I bought that didn't fit quite right that I still have because I haven't worn them enough but also hate wearing them. Maybe nows the time to pass them to someone else. Thanks
@famdelapena15229 күн бұрын
Yep, I’m currently in this “convinced it’s the one I need, then realizing it doesn’t need me” phase. Heritage boots ☑️, dark raw denim ☑️, too many overcoats ☑️, new Goodyear welt or Blake stitch shoes ☑️, more boots ☑️, automatic or “interesting but subtle” watches ☑️, plain white sneakers ☑️, iconic adult men’s jacket ☑️, did I mention the boots? Even when you know you’re in it, it’s hard to convince yourself you haven’t learned enough from the last purchase to stop the next one. With that said, there are two things, outside of the general void in my life, that make it worse: 1) There’s a mixed message here: Stop buying what you don’t need but buy only the perfect thing for you. -Well, what’s that? And how will I know because it look great on the person I wish I looked like on IG 2) Why does all the cool stuff seem to require cool weather? I also live in the SW. Waiting for the 3 months so I can wear all my cool stuff isn’t exactly conducive to me being the fashion icon I imagined myself to be and nobody who sees me regularly is falling for it.
@brandonburt16468 күн бұрын
I’m completely on board with every sentiment you expressed here, far too often I end up with stuff that isn’t ideal and later on end up not liking it. I will say that hat looks great on you
@aust224427 күн бұрын
Levi’s 501 Shrink to fits are the closest I’ll get to selvedge. For $60 you can still get cool fades for a fraction of the price as most who know, know!
@Devil-ig7klАй бұрын
2:04 bro you are looking amazing! They aren't skinny jeans and chinos.... They are slim fit! The right one is a 9/10 outfit, considering fit and colour combination.... Btw how's the quality of Gap jeans? Are they better than Levi's interms of the quality? I'm not talking about Levi's top tier jeans which costs $300-400...
@utarian7Ай бұрын
Raw selvedge jeans must be the #1 wasted buy on this list for many people. It's laughable going on reddit watching all the people buy stupidly expensive jeans from Japan and them look horrendous on them, but try to convince themselves they love it.
@Phil_OGАй бұрын
I've just bought two pairs. One is the way the other at the tailor. Hope it wasn't a mistake.
@montezuma4353Ай бұрын
Selvedge denim is the most real denim, however it doesn't make sense for someone in the US to buy it from japan; but the whole idea of raw denim is just so dumb and kind of defeats the purpose of buying selvedge denim since you're not doing it like the old times. People washed their clothing back then as well.
@splashpitАй бұрын
As an Australian iv always worn moleskin jeans but bought into the denim thing ten years ago and bailed after they ripped in the knees and went back to moleskins
@lfmanzo89yАй бұрын
Raw denim is one of those things that you either love or hate, no in between. I'm in the love camp, seeing a pair slowly evolve and mold to your body is interesting to me and I enjoy the process. Would never recommend to anyone who just wants a comfortable pair of jeans from the jump.😂
@dgk6661Ай бұрын
I love raw denim unless you’re talking about Iron Heart, Samurai, Big John, etc then I can see why it’s considered odd. A good alternative is Naked and Famous. Its made in Canada using Japanese fabrics. It’s affordable and come in a variety of fits.
@jarednance5502Ай бұрын
Had a pair of boots I just loved, fit great felt great day one. I wore them for years until they were just worn out. Wife gifted me the same boot again years later, only this time the pair didn’t fit right, too tight across the top of my foot. Did everything to stretch and break them in but just like you said, leather only stretches millimeters. They never stretched enough, still hurt, and years later still in my closet barely worn.
@VincenzoAnthonyАй бұрын
I bought a preowned Black Schott Raven P213 earlier this year for $425. I was so excited and wore it out once and just wasn’t sure about it. After months of thinking about it and asking my wife her opinion, we both agreed it wasn’t me. So I sold it for $475 and bought a Schott bomber jacket instead for $200. So much happier 😊
@scottd.3382Ай бұрын
Ditto to hats: I don't pull them off due to my large head and narrow face. I also made the mistake of purchasing small, narrow, rectangular glasses that were wrong for my thin face. I had them made into readers.
@tonydo91Ай бұрын
I think watch straps are a crazy good option to get a lot of variety out of a only a few watches. Just grab a nice brown leather, nice milanese or mesh, and maybe something in black (if you need something for a black tie event) and you're set. Don't go overboard, especially with wilder colors unless you really know it'll be a regular wear.
@bngr_bngr21 күн бұрын
I would never changed straps on an expensive watch. I see people put their Rolex Submariners on a nato which is crazy,
@hoozat007Ай бұрын
Although I owned a couple sports jackets, I had never had a real suit until I was in my mid 50s. Unfortunately, I was once told that “every man needs a black suit” so that’s what I bought. It was cheap and didn’t fit very well. I wore it a handful of times. As I learned more about style I learned that a black suit is way too limited in usage. Several months ago I found a very nice mid-grey Brooks Brothers suit for a great price at one of their outlet stores. It fit well and I had my tailor fine-tune it. It looks great, I feel good wearing it, and I look forward to opportunities to wear it. I just donated the black suit last week.
@JakeSmith-jy1kxАй бұрын
That’s the definition of learning from your mistakes.
@richardkelly4667Ай бұрын
Every man needs a black suit if they're Charles Revson.
@scottd.3382Ай бұрын
I have that same Banana Republic jacket. I, too, bought the gray one and loved it so much, I thought I needed another one in a different color. I, however, bought the dark brown as my second choice, and thankfully, I still love and wear both of them. I almost went with the tan color because the brown and gray were quite similar in tone.
@BrockMcGoffАй бұрын
I think I'd wear dark brown a lot more, actually. That was a good choice!
@skymuffnАй бұрын
@@BrockMcGoff…I am surprised on how the Camel colored one looked so different in you. Have you tried any old Safari Coats in Tan or what I fondly call British Colonial Tan. I too have a few Mac Coats in Camel and more in an array of dizzying hue of beige. And the same BR car coat in grey. They have been a staple of mine here in the SF Bay Area where the weather is nuts.
@jonwiley259224 күн бұрын
5:03 Don't knock Thursday boots! I find them good quality, well made, and timeless styling. True, they are not Aldens (buying the name and its attending markup) but that's the appeal of Thursday boots.
@DressForAfricaАй бұрын
The hat looks great actually
@nimaiiikunАй бұрын
an issue i have is liking an item too much, then buying it in more colors.. then regretting it later
@zeroelusАй бұрын
As a fellow Sonoran desert dweller, I thought you'd be mentioning that as the reason you didn't wear your tan coat, lol. I don't travel much anymore, but it's always a challenge to travel to colder places since I just...don't have the clothes, and if I do, there's no guarantee it will fit/look as I want to anymore, a even a business setting can be a bit challenging to pack just because of that, I have business casual nailed down but in other scenarios I just have to assume I'll be cold (or wearing some layer underneath that hopefully no one sees). I've totally been guilty of buying good quality things just because they where on sale, even if they didn't fit just right, and guess what? I don't end up wearing them. On that same regard, I tend to hang on to things I once loved, because of nostalgia, but not because they really work on me anymore. A hand me down sweater from my dad or that sort of thing is fine and I'll keep it, but hanging on to that old slim Banana Repulic polo just because it had wonderful fabric and it fit you when you where too thin, but no longer fit you properly anymore? Yeah no reason to keep the latter one. It took me getting back into shape and realizing it still didn't fit in it right to let it go, and the same was true of many other items I should have donated years ago. And of course there was my "I don't care about how I look era it's all a scam" era I'd....I'd like to have a word with myself. And while I feel comfortable in base ball caps, any other hat I also feel very out of place with, but like you, if I'm on the beach and running after my kids, I'll wear some hat, even if I'm not totally sold on the look.
@AzizSiddiquiАй бұрын
I moved to Canada in 2019 and with my first paycheck, bought a pair of Raybans for about $300. They looked slightly large for my face but I still bought them. I discovered thrifting in the months after and now have a collection of 3-4 other better quality pairs that I cycle through and the Raybans don't get any use at all. I regret that purchase but can't bring myself to get rid of them! Also, I now have like 12 pairs of Naked & Famous jeans now but here in the colder climate, they actually work quite well.
@danielfrancis366010 күн бұрын
I agree with your comment on watch straps. The strap or bracelet that comes with the watch is preferable imo.
@RealMrGreenTeaLatteАй бұрын
Totally agree with you. Your best advice is about "buying". It needs to be "HELL YEAH" or "no".
@dmarti472 күн бұрын
Brock, this topic rings true and it rings hard! Thanks for sharing. Could you please make a video about stylish wide-toe box shoes? Recent evidence says we should wear shoes which allow full toe splay, not squeeze our toes and increase risk of bunions, so I am gradually moving away from pointy shoes and towards wide-toe box shoes. Thanks!
@BrockMcGoffКүн бұрын
Thanks! I’ve been exploring wider shoes recently. Made a “comfy shoe round up” a while back that you check out. I’ll make another one once I find some brands/models worth sharing. My favorites right now are New Balance, Brooks, Atoms and Lems.
@liyon31623 күн бұрын
Funny, a lot of the stuff in this video was stuff I was so into from the ages of 28-36 and I so don't give a shit about any of it now that I'm 10 years older. You can add expensive niche colognes to the list as well I gave the vast majority of my wardrobe to my brother. Everyone compliments him on his style and thinks his wife dresses him when it's just my old clothes!
@neo7759Ай бұрын
Give selvedge another try but buy them from Hiroshi Kato. It will change your jeans game and they are more comfortable than even normal jeans, but you get the quality of Japanese denim and the cool fades.
@rickpeng3603Ай бұрын
great video! a few things for me: 1) heavy washed prps jeans: the wash/ageing was really good, but they were just too 'rough' for my personal style. I realized that a few years later and resold it. On this note I was lucky that I never bought a pair of red wings/wolverines or whites (which would set me back really bad financially) even though I was fascinated by this american casual style for quite a few years. 2) boots from the kooples: got them on sale, elegant design, lovely walnut color and the build was decent. But the leather near the ankle was just so tight and it was uncomfortable to wear more than half a mile. In the long run I just no longer reached for them before I went out. Sold for something like $20. 3) horse leather tote bag from guidi: not gonna lie I was also a bit intrigued by all this craftsmanship/avant garde trend back in the day. Saw a rare promo and pulled my trigger for that, thinking that I could indeed use a tote. It turned out that it's not functional: no inner pockets and the empty bag weighs a ton. The worst is the color, which is a deep purple that calls for a lot coordination elsewhere to make it work. Resold it. Important lesson for me: never settle on colors even if the fit is great! 4) colorful sneakers in general: I probably got three or four pairs over the years but almost never wear them today. Don't get me wrong they can look good on some people and I do appreciate some of those designs. It's just personally they don't fit into my work env and they, just as the purple bag mentioned above, create additional challenges for a put-together look. When my life gets busier I definitely prefer to wear something that easily gets along with the other stuff in my wardrobe albeit less interesting.
@brandall101Ай бұрын
The hotness from 2014 was definitely Viberg 2030 service boots, back when they were still unstructured. Having been in the boot game since 2005, I don't believe Indys were ever as popular as they were circa 2008/9 or so.
@PG-vw6gnАй бұрын
Omgosh you’re not kidding about the watch straps, lol. Went through the same thing and now I NEVER change the one that’s on my watch, such a waste.
@HarryHarrisonHarrisIIIАй бұрын
Hats are hard and take more legwork than people think. I don’t have a nice flow like you and have been receding since my early 20s, (I now buzz it all down) and it took me awhile to find hat styles I can pull off. Dad caps, five panels, small or medium rise, and smaller snap backs from certain brands work for me. Others don’t, and I can’t pull off high rise crowns or large bills at all. I don’t have a huge head, and they engulf me. The trial and error isn’t ideal, but once you nail the fit and style some brands really shine. Seager have been my go-to lately!
@madak17Ай бұрын
Love the unabashed honesty in this one. Great video!
@BrockMcGoffАй бұрын
Glad you enjoyed!
@jinyin8052Ай бұрын
He does look like he is trying with that tan coat, but not the case with the grey one.
@Zofer-1920Ай бұрын
I’ve been wanting a wool camel color coat as well and debated over navy and grey which I know would look great…but I’ve always suspected like Brock, the tan color just won’t go with me. Like he said, it looks great on other people, great on the rack…just not on me 😂
@David_10157Ай бұрын
Great insight! My regrets have been: dark denim, expensive sneakers and expensive meh shirts. I live in Central Texas. It’s hot as hell so dark denim rarely works. For me, it has to be light colored, light weight denim. Then there’s the expensive Common Projects I bought. Again, too hot to wear because of the leather. Might as well just wear boots. Lastly, expensive shirts from the usual popular retailers. Bought several because they looked good on the models but still had to take them to the tailor to accommodate my slender long frame. It’s all crap and the only things I care about now are luxury watches and luxury scents. If I’m buying any clothes, it needs to be a hell yes.
@prasvasu4217Ай бұрын
Plenty of clothes from factory outlets... especially sweaters... Didn't layer well enough, had to let go... A very expensive warm, thick, big and bulky Michael Kors jacket (which looked good, was very warm and waterproof)... And a pair of beautiful Thursday boots... Yes I live in New England winters, but no they don't work well because you will use it only for a few days... It might seem way more expensive (which it is in the beginning) and impractical (too many clothes) to layer... But yes, that is still the way to go if you would like some peace of mind and a capsule/modular wardrobe. Rules: 1. Stick to a uniform (for me its full sleeve tees with jeans/chinos/joggers) 2. Layer so you use most of what you have 3. Do not buy a piece which is not useful for more than one occasion (eg. dark wash jeans, certain chino pants can be dressed up or down, cross trainer shoes can be used both for running and the gym, shoes with leather uppers for inclement whether and dress up/down, certain tees can be used for lounging, gym, dressier occasions etc.)
@FelixAnanosАй бұрын
Agreed. Fit matter but if you have to put extra for small or easy alterations then go for it. Obviously, I suggest to buy the item no full price but getting a good deal as one needs to add something for the tailor. 🤔🤔. Last year and this year , I am investing a lot in small alterations as nobody told me ( sure , they always say I dress/ clean well) my pants to long ( 32/32 when I am 32/30) , blazers 40R or 40S ( watch the length) except the 40R need to short the sleeves for one to one 1/4 inch. I usually give away some items like shirt , shorts, boots and Jackets I barely use now. Regrets, waste of money but definitely a good life lesson. It is all about fit and being comfortable. Great video!!
@nerdyharrybartendingАй бұрын
N&F raw denim and Oliver Cabell GAT were my first two "I'm going to try to style myself" purchases and my heart SANK when I saw this video. But being in NYC I get a lot of wear on those jeans, and the GAT fits just fine, so I can breathe a sigh of relief 😅
@ivanm793823 күн бұрын
Very relatable. But I'm curious to see what sneakers you ended up liking since I similarly wanted to make Adidas Hamburg work but ended up having the same problem because my feet were too wide for them.
@BrockMcGoff23 күн бұрын
I’ve been wearing New Balance and Brooks lately. Made a couple videos about comfy shoes recently if you want to check them out!
@ivanm793823 күн бұрын
@@BrockMcGoff Thanks for replying! I'll definitely check it out, especially since I apparently have to come to terms with the fact that cool retro sneakers just don't get along well with my feet.
@matt_valentine20 күн бұрын
Thanks for your transparency and honesty. This was an excellent video, and I can definitely relate on the custom (leather) jacket misstep.
@Will6726722 күн бұрын
I got an Alden Indy boots and got fitted in Alden San Francisco . Got the perfect fit after several sizes. After 8 years, I still wear them 3-4x a week , had the resoled 3 years ago. The lesson is have a pro fit you in person, not buying online. 1 boots for 8 years for $600, I think it’s worth every penny.
@deltasquared7777Ай бұрын
First thing that you absolutely need to have is a great tailor (not just an ordinary or even a 'good' tailor)...(also very hard to find !)...once you are lucky enough to find one, this allows you to even buy unique used clothes that don't quite fit exactly right and have your tailor perform total magic on them. This includes from simple things like adjusting collars, trimming waist, shortening pants and sleeves, etc. to more complicated tailoring such as tailoring shoulders or shortening sleeves at the shoulder and re-cutting pants leg widths. Depending on what you have done this can run a bit expensive but in the end it is 100% worth the tailoring cost to have clothes that you really like, fit perfectly and you will wear often and forever but could not deal with otherwise. Even buying new clothes off the rack you will be surprised how much better a great tailor can make them look.
@andrew1212wАй бұрын
I agree with you about the camel coat and the watch straps and expensive raw denim a complete waste of money 🙁
@pudimdecana5126 күн бұрын
I got to say that you pulled off the skinny chino pants very well. Didn´t seem weird to me, and generally I don´t like skinny pants.
@JimmyBeans84Ай бұрын
2013 r/malefashionadvice is FUMING right now
@GeniusInventor-dj5zcАй бұрын
I made a lot of similar mistakes too. Had to learn that fit is king. I’m short with a wiry frame so that’s probably a reason why. I started off with skinny jeans too - from J brands to amiri, purple brand, and ksubi. Found it too childish and have been only wearing bootcuts/flares the past few years. I even have a pair of naked and famous groovy guy jeans in my wishlist to scratch the raw selvedge denim itch lol. Although I like my designer glasses because I hate wearing glasses in general, so spending a bunch on a pair makes me put them on and I use my Gucci sunglasses every day in the California sun. An alpha industries slim fit bomber was my first big jacket purchase in high school with my first job and I still wear it to this day, would like to buy a short length parka from them too. I have a pair of Margiela replica gats that I’ve worn the past few years and I have no regrets on those, one of my favorite designer sneakers of all time. And yes, I believe my watches will always look their best with the OG strap/bracelet
@nerigarcia7116Ай бұрын
I have a pair of non brand glasses and they are the most comfortable ones I ever had, even over the name brand ones. I wear them all the time. Now I finally found some Ray Ban Mr. Burbanks that fit me just as well and I like the quality of them so I bought them, but sometimes the name brands are not going to fit well. I also bought a pair of navy suede penny loafers. I had a pair of brown ones that I liked so I thought I'd mix it up with blue ones. But like your tan overcoat, I always went with the brown no matter what color I was wearing. They just worked. I haven't worn the blue ones yet.
@statikfeedbakАй бұрын
Enjoyed this vid so much and subbed, looking forward to more introspective content. Also, nice hat truly lol. I can relate on so many points. Buying “quality” clothes that fit poorly, accessories/hats that are nice to look in my closet, trendy fashion that cooler people pull off. The items I most regret are the ones that I have to convince myself to like.
@FablerАй бұрын
The tan coat looks great on you
@ericfan9149Ай бұрын
This is all very relatable. I've had so many similar regrets, including two pairs of Viberg boots that eventually made me swear off heritage boots altogether because they're all incredibly uncomfortable (shoe technology has actually made some advances in comfort since the beloved Goodyear welt). I also can't wear hats, and find raw denim uncomfortable. I have two pairs that I'm still trying to break in. That said, you do look really good in those jeans if you ever feel like taking another crack at breaking them lol.
@Stan_sprinkleАй бұрын
Yeah dude I bought the Indy boots in Korea back in 2014 where they’re even more expensive. I’m kinda in the opposite situation. The Indys are comfortable enough for me, but the Thursdays I tried (and ended up giving to a family member) were really uncomfortable for me. I kinda wonder if I just got a bad pair. … I do agree on the slim/skinny fits. I’m still in the process of refreshing my pant collection and Goodwilling my old stuff. Uniqlos were everywhere in Korea so I also had almost every color of those Uniqlo slim chinos.
@raym4661Ай бұрын
Excellent video, but I must add that 15 SPF is absolutely not enough protection outside. The only exception might be for a quick short drive to the office and staying indoors all day. Either way good call for mentioning the sun protection importance!
@Eazy6874Ай бұрын
You have really well done content, keep it up 👍
@BrockMcGoffАй бұрын
Thanks, will do!
@selfexplanatory6459Ай бұрын
My first “real” watch was a black Hamilton Khaki King. I bought it because I wanted a watch for every occasion so I chose a field watch to wear with casual outfits. I bought it because of how plain it was, I didn’t want to have a fancy looking watch to wear with a casual outfit. It’s a good watch and does a lot for the price but it’s way too plain, I stopped wearing it because it didn’t do anything for me. I learned to not create a roadmap to having a watch collection, if it fits your wrist and looks great just wear it with what you feel comfortable in.
@no4365Ай бұрын
First thing I do with all my new raw denim jeans is always a hot soak/ wash. Decreases the indigo bleed substantially. I also live in North Western Europe, so yhe clinate definitely helps.
@GaryMuehlberger-h1lАй бұрын
God bless you for this video. I'm going through this exact same thing right now
@raddoc1993Ай бұрын
One of mine has to be plain white sneakers. I bought an expensive brand thinking I’d get a lot of wear out of them, but they are so boring compared to my other shoes, that they just sit on the shelf and collect dust
@MayTheSchwartzBeWithYouАй бұрын
As someone whose lifestyle is chasing around other people’s little kids, I appreciate this advice. With better fitting shoes, I’ll be a lot more successful in replenishing my dungeon.
@cbuffalo5727Ай бұрын
I use to have a bunch of hats, there were actually very few that fit perfectly, but I liked the way they all looked decorating my room up on a shelf. Nowadays I appreciate minimal aesthetic and more selective purchases.
@darcyjmwright10 күн бұрын
Hey, good video! What size are the german sneakers? Are they available? Thanks!
@jonlouis2582Ай бұрын
This reminded me of my roommate who shops at expensive menswear stores and listens to everything the salesman tells him. His suits and coats look like they came from a dumpster they are so baggy and ill-fitting.
@patrick_jane2164Ай бұрын
For most of the items you mentioned, I really loved the looks you created using them and these photos inspired me to change my style I guess that is another lesson, even if people love how you look in certain items, the way you feel in them is much more important
@KRTLyfeАй бұрын
Great points, agree with everything except the watch straps lol. After years changed the strap on my 16610 from oyster to rubber. For me that made the difference in wearing it on occasions to wearing it daily!
@thrbrownАй бұрын
Great video. “When considering a purchase it should either be a hell yes or a no”. Going to adopt this mindset going forward. Thanks for sharing!
@AbdulmalekmАй бұрын
thank you, i always appreciate your advice, you always help me thinking before i buy anything 😇
@BrockMcGoffАй бұрын
Happy to help!
@martysat2760Ай бұрын
I love blazer and sport coat but I always regret buying them, they can look great on me, but in real life I just feel way too overdressed wearing them.
@BrockMcGoffАй бұрын
I feel the same way about jackets. There's almost never an occasion to wear them (for me).
@Nero-zq6icАй бұрын
Same here. Plus I run hot and 9 times out of 10 I'll just end up taking it off anyway
@PotsdamSeniorАй бұрын
Chinos and sport jacket are my casual outfit. Dressing up step 1: a tie. Step 2: a suit. Button down shirt, leather shoes and hat (or, casual, a flatcap) are a must. Dressing down: I skip the jacket. I only need to take the garbage out, after all. I can do that even bare headed! For warm days: an unlined linen jacket! And, a bit more "up", unlined linen suit.
@ayda2876Ай бұрын
You can wear them anywhere, it's not because others dress down all the time that you have to do the same. Men used to wear suits everywhere, in any situation
@HeritageCastАй бұрын
Something I should have learned getting older is choosing sizes that work up and down weight. Although side adjusters now are for style. Back in the day it was for wearing sizes from hand me downs. So getting wool pants a size up in the waist will work better.
@dcjimr1Ай бұрын
There used to be an eyeglass place on P St. across from Whole Foods...those glasses look like they came from there. I, too, was talked into buying a couple pairs like that. 😄
@LukeFromUranusАй бұрын
For me it had to be Gurkha pants: I bought a great pair in a very soft washed cotton nothing too formal but they never felt good on me. Too gimmicky and weird on myself, great on others on IG. Sold them for as much as I got them. Thank you for yet another video! (Same feeling here when wearing hats)
@surfingmooseАй бұрын
The heel toplift on the indies looks too high. I bet the previous owner had them redone. I had the toplifts on my indies redone and the cobbler put another toplift on the old one. I specifically asked for it to be replaced. long story short, the extra rise of the heel made the heel uncomfortable to walk in because of the medial side of the hell is longer than the lateral. Took mine to another cobbler who does quite a bit of work on aldens, Was this what you were experiencing with the indies?
@BrockMcGoffАй бұрын
Possibly... it's been a long time so I can't really remember. I don't think they were resoled, though.
@germanbisurgi6400Ай бұрын
I bought a blue nylon bomber jacket 2 years ago. I felt wrong in it and never wore it. Now something changed and i really like it. I am wearing a lot. Second chances it's a thing i guess
@HYPERxSONICxFANx2012Ай бұрын
i bought slip on adidas once and they were so narrow and not comfortable. i wore them cause i customized them to look like sonic's. fast forward to last year when i bought my first pair of new rock boots and they're the most comfortable thing i've ever worn. i learned that my feet need a platform and weight
@weareall1Ай бұрын
Dude the salvage jeans look good on you. So does the skinny jeans.
@SaSpursFanАй бұрын
Spot on about the watch strap. Original is timeless
@dominickgiannottiАй бұрын
For these similar reasons are why I’m actually trying to ease out of the whole fashion fads game and just wear things that are timeless, look good and will never go out of style. Sure they might not be “on trend” but I’ve found that some elements of the rugged/heritage style are where I gravitate towards more now. I’m just tired of wasting time and money on things that are just popular now (like the baggy/90s) trend or hype beast streetwear stuff that won’t be in a few years (or at least shouldn’t be in my opinion). I liked what the “old money aesthetic” had to offer here in recent years but in my demographic where I live it honestly just looks like you’re wearing a costume but I appreciate the timeless aspect which is where I’m going to stay when it comes to fashion especially as I get over 30.
@DylbozАй бұрын
I also live in the desert & got into raw denim 10 years ago. I never wear any of it anymore (never got any sick fades, either), I'm into chinos & they are so much better for everything here in the desert! I like denim shirts, tho!
@addisonbulloch6639Ай бұрын
What's the brand of your t-shirt Brock? Great video - time to declutter and pare down some back of the closet items. I regret buying a second pair of Thursday boots in black. I always grab the president tobacco's. I fell into that excessive watch strap trap too. The skx013 is to blame. Even have a oyster bracelet for it. Cheers!
@urbandaniel100Ай бұрын
I would recommend the jeans or sneakers from archibald London. Italian high quality goods and the jeans are 100% made in japan like the glasses. They use warby Parker’s try on model only their quality is tier a.
@ejcandrinАй бұрын
Great video! That ball cap looks sick tho.
@antonioromulodelcarmen283Ай бұрын
Agree with the Alden Indy Boots. Great quality boots no doubt… but that hefty price tag prevents me from using these boots in their real-case use. Settled with Red Wings and Thursdays which I use everyday and beat up… sold the Aldens and never looked back.
@EmirMuhicАй бұрын
That tan wool coat looks like a picture from history books haha. Overall a pretty good list. I agree with everything except watch straps though I'll probably change my mind about that in a couple of years.
@saapprovedАй бұрын
Wise words bro wise words. Biggest regrets - jackets, be it Denim or leather. I’m in Singapore and only kind I need prolly a raincoat… And hear you on the shoes - was trying to play around too much and none fit right. Back to Origo.
@shaunyip2153Ай бұрын
It never ceases to amaze me how idiotic fashionistas choose to wear jackets in the hot humid tropics. Even unlined linen jackets are terrible in this thick suffocating heat we get around equatorial south-east asia and the Pacific islands and northern Australia. A cool white cotton shirt paired with crisp pants and smart shoes is all you need, and you still look stylish while staying comfy.
@FelixAnanosАй бұрын
Thanks a lot!! I love BR . It fits me well but I had to short the sleeves. Need to do it with some of my coats.
@marcthibault8723Ай бұрын
Camel color coats definitely don't suit everyone. Especially if dark grey looks good on you! I'm a "winter" and stick within my color palette. It allows me to shop without regret and ignoring things I know won't look good on me! Good video btw...😊
@mfehp29 күн бұрын
Ralph Lauren Cashmere Herringbone sport coat…two sizes too big (albeit I was heavier at the time). Just never worked for me. Sold it on eBay…I hope someone else is loving it now. It was a beautiful coat…but not on me.
@shaunyip2153Ай бұрын
I completely understand the slim/skinny fit pants condundrum circa. 2012. I went from regular fit to slim and thought 'hey, this looks great on my skinny legs!'....from there it devolved to wearing skinny pants. After suffering for a decade, I've jettisoned all the skinnies and most of the slims, and gone back to regular. And boy, regular sure looks and feels great on my still skinny legs. I don't really regret that phase, but looking back I could have (and probably should have) just stuck with regular (not baggy) pants.
@raddoc1993Ай бұрын
Watch straps has to be the most accurate one. I bought a Bond NATO strap and haven’t put it on in over two years since I bought it!
@nwilkerson2365Ай бұрын
I agree that fit is everything. I look stupid in baseball caps. But I recently randomly found some that fit perfectly. Brunello Cucinelli caps are like perfectly cut. Yes, they are expensive, but again, I've never found caps that fit my head or more sophisticated style. I finally rock hats! lol
@johnjamatia91889 күн бұрын
expensive boots means good built with quality finishing, good sole, good leather, aren’t never out of fashion. Its a timeless piece
@AR-jf1fv14 күн бұрын
Thanks for the watch strap thing. I have been thinking the same but i was always wondering why everyone was using all different types of straps. Now I know I never liked it
@guynamedjohn69Ай бұрын
I don't regret any purchases so far. Every piece was carefully considered. I looked at iron heart jeans for almost a year before I actually bought a pair. Now I have 2 pairs of 25oz. Lol No impulse buys for anything over $20
@linkinparkroxxАй бұрын
I kind of regret buying a linen suit. I tend to sweat a lot and like wearing suits but I just really, really dislike the feel of linen - yeah sure, I got a shirt in between but you feel it constantly and I wore that suite like once or twice.
@user-qx1gj4uk2oАй бұрын
i bought into everything you talked about. boots, skinny jeans, too many watch straps, expensive eyeglasses, and more! so funny
@diegojacquesАй бұрын
I feel very related to this video. I have the same skinny body shape as you, and the exact same issue with caps. Thanks for teaching me very valuable lessons. In the other hand, have you ever tried the trucker caps? For me, they have been the best option for my weird shaped head and I'm starting to love them.
@danieli.9252Ай бұрын
I bought a pair of Indys about ten years ago. I found them heavy and uncomfortable and ended up selling them through Style Forum. I live in SoCal and WFH, so I pretty much live in Vans these days.
@jizzyg1559Ай бұрын
The only clothes i "regret" buying are super cheap thrifted clothes, like some weird english-country inspired jacket (made to look like tweed) - can't pair it with anything, but i paid like 5 bucks, or trench coat that is way to big, but it was also around 5-6 bucks.
@patrykliszewski7750Ай бұрын
My experience with selvedge denim: I love it, but only in regular/straight/relaxed fits. Slim fit and selvedge may look nice, but damn, that's not comfortable, not at all.