20% of women UNDER 30 are in a POLYGAMOUS relationship

Women are making society polygamous.
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[@robertfindley921]

I think it's not only growing, but the percentage of women who know and accept they are in a polyamorous relationship is growing even faster.

[@mbg9650]

They won't settle with an average man, the'll rather share a HVM. Actions speaks louder than words.

[@devs.4254]

For sure

[@williamlevy6964]

You can tell whether a community loves their boys or not by how much marriage and virginity is respected. It's a joke in our countries which means the men are a joke to them. @@mbg9650

[@tomjones5338]

It's called being a slut for what suits them

[@rockyalliston1122]

I think that's why after setting a clear boundary I now find myself single. Because I don't share, and I don't find that selfish, though the statement definitely sounds selfish. Lmao 😅

[@boejiden855]

Women would rather share a winner than have an average guy to themselves

[@clauaome25]

as a woman, I can confirm

[@AnimalAlmighty]

@@pigwank8234Men do choose average looking females. Men are attracted to 80% of females. YALL are only attracted to 20% of men.

[@boejiden855]

@@pigwank8234 thats actually statistically and verifiably false actually when you look at the data at how men and women rate each other on the bell curve. Most men find most women attractive and the bell curve is quite standard and in women’s favor. On the other hand most women find most men unattractive, while rating the top 20% of men between 7-8 on 1-10 scale. Also, its not realistic for women or any group to disregard anyone that is “average” because most people are by default average, thats literally why it is the average -where most people will fit in. Its unsustainable to have a majority chase and only accept the top 10-20%, there just arent enough of them to go around. Unrealistic dating standards exacerbates this heavily and that part is solely on western women. Factually.

[@Squatzoatz]

Plenty of guys will share a "winning" woman as well...goes both ways

[@boejiden855]

@@Squatzoatz how many boss babe CEO’s do you see with men crawling all over them? Name one.

[@Chad_Max]

Its female hypergamy at work, completely natural and biologically driven. The research on female preference is very interesting. There's studies on how birth control alters a woman's choice in mating partners b/c of the hormonal impact. When they're on both control they're more interested in softer, gentler men. Anecdotally, you'll hear women say they came off birth control and broke up with their long term bf or even divorce their husbands b/c they couldn't stand the smell of them and everything they previously found attractive about them did a complete 180. All the while, women will still hold onto the belief that men and women are equal when the data doesn't align to this. In any event, just make sure you're in the top tier of men out there and you understand how women think and behave...

[@Mradii1905]

Yup, it's a thing. My first girlfriend back in the day lost interest in me after she stopped taking the pill two years into the relationship.

[@mobilemcsmarty1466]

well said CM196. I see how nature drives women, men too. that's still no excuse to be a TFB. "yea, I f'd up your life when I promised not to, but I'm a girl! and that's what girls do. so that's alright now, right? it's all your fault anyways!" ..says every girl ever (just not with words, or only to other women). are you buying it? it's an individual's responsibility to hold their nature in check when making agreements. an "agreement/partnership" where one side holds up their end only while it's convenient is not an agreement. it's a con-artist's swindle with you the mark. all of this is a game. let me remind you that it can be a perfectly good and noble idea to just not play. so "top tier" you say? ok, that can't hurt. I just don't think it realistic. women you see, will keep moving the goal posts of their expectations no matter how much you improve. if we imagine a world of Chads, still only 10% will qualify no matter what. **that's** what hypergamy really means and what you're up against ..if you are to play. so what to do? even if you're fortunate to be the Chad today (enjoy! 🙂) your position is tenuous. you may have heard "don't get into any contract where the failure rate is at 80%." that's more of a general observation because you still want a contract, just the one that won't fail. here's my improved version- don't get into any contract you can't enforce. 80% bad is then not so bad when your enforceable exit compensation makes up for it. the improvement that you do is still a good idea. try to keep in mind you're doing it for you with that reason being enough. I wish you interesting times gentlemen 🏝😎

[@igormargulis6302]

@@mobilemcsmarty1466it’s very hard nowadays for each individual to hold accountability of own nature aspect. Basically you really have to be top tier man possible and find partners when natural attraction occurs ( say she’s off pills ) and you stay in your masculine frame all the time possible.

[@EddyG0rdo]

It really depends. This doesn’t apply to everyone. I’ve been in both situations, women not taking hormonal BC and then starting it. And also on hormonal BC and then stopping it. Frequency and quality of sex didn’t stop.

[@honkhonk1555]

This is exactly why I tell people not to have sex within the first couple of months of a relationship if they’re looking for something long term and meaningful, and if they make it that far, then tell them to come off the BC for another two months, and see if they are still attracted to you and want to continue. Of course, nobody will actually do this, and wonder why they can’t have long lasting meaningful relationships with strong pairbonding.

[@teklife2151]

What an annoying, demeaning little game modern dating is, at least as it is portrayed in a lot of social media.

[@jaythenihilist4689]

Either try to find that rare and elusive unicorn of a woman, or just don't take women and dating too seriously. That's my solution anyway.

[@honkhonk1555]

@@jaythenihilist4689yup. Honestly, the juice isn’t worth the squeeze anymore. Most mOOdern women can’t even pairbond anymore because they have double digit body counts before they leave college which they shouldn’t even be attending.

[@teklife2151]

@@jaythenihilist4689 yeah that is my plan. Not going to care about dating until I feel ready to have kids, and at that point I will look for someone who will take good care of them and influence them in a good way. At that point there is a lot less ego involved and my main concern will be being a good dad. Besides the whole modern woman thing, your spouse will inevitably change over time like all people do, so even if you really like her at the beginning, prioritizing something duty oriented like father hood is much more stable and rewarding in my opinion.

[@mbg9650]

A small subset of men are crushing it. They won't complaim... nor commit.

[@tomjones5338]

It's a rigged game women are master manipulators let them learn the hard way there problem not yours

[@RPMentorTokyoChannel]

I've been talkin about this on my channel for the past 4 year; I even wrote a short eBook titled The "Where Have All the Good Men Gone?" Hypothesis. Interestingly, women getting promoted is linked to divorce as well as working with men.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

Traveling nurses, flight attendants, military barracks

[@caucasianafrican1435]

Another reason not to marry.

[@TomJones-op9nj]

Trust me the script will switch faster than you think…..all the best

[@obsideonyx7604]

*in the West

[@honkhonk1555]

You can marry, just don’t get the {{{state}}} involved. {{{State}}} should never be involved to begin with.

[@jamesgan8877b]

Isaiah 4:1 At that time seven women will grab one man and say, “Please marry us! We will supply our own food and make our own clothes. You won’t have to do anything else if you let us wear your name and take away our shame.” Modern translation: We are strong independent women who make our own money and are willing to share a Chad.

[@michaelpotter9071]

If you read the preceding chapter, it suggests the women described here are women men won't want. Previously proud, high status women who have been made unattractive by disaster and grief.

[@DNA350ppm]

That was a society where women were outcast - outlaws if they didn't belong to a man. Any man could do anything to them, unpunished. Total patriarchy. Women were counted as a man's property in commandments lists like: houses, acres, camels, donkeys, and wives. Other men should not covet them (try to steal them, seduce them). Patriarchy is about a powerhiearachy, where more powerful men keep other men down and out, by any means, even slavery for example (or drudgeery for low pay). Still in the "bible-belt" of those times (now the Middle East), some men can have four wives - how many wives are left for the other men?

[@omerfarukkaratas2742]

Narrated by Abu Musa: The Prophet (p.b.u.h) said, "A time will come upon the people when a person will wander about with gold as Zakat (obligatory charity) and will not find anybody to accept it, and one man will be seen followed by forty women to be their guardian because of scarcity of men and great number of women. " This will probably be after a great world war when most men will not remain and the whole financial system will collapse causing a pre-modern era.

[@DNA350ppm]

@@omerfarukkaratas2742 Note that the men have started the wars, not the women. And more to the point: which men more exactly? The poor men or the rich men?

[@omerfarukkaratas2742]

All men as there will be no poor left in that time as there will be no one to give charity to. Women will need guardians/protection as there won't be enough men and most likely a period where state structures of law and order enforcement don't exist as they do today.

[@anteeko]

It is fascinating that in a society increasingly dominated by women, polygamy is on the raise and commitment is going down (70%+ divorce initiated by women). Naively I would have thought the opposite would be true: the old cliché "woman want commitment" wasn't true after all.

[@JeffCaplan313]

Women want commitment from men who are above them.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

They want it from a 10/10. A 9 is acceptable. An 8 is bare minimum. A 7 is settling. This has occurred in multiple civilizations through history. It’s a software issue. Eve is programmed to grab that apple.

[@stevegaines-vq3bd]

@@hellaspoicey2280 & at a 7, if i can't get a 7, & i won't date Obese females so i guess i'll just have to die alone, owning my 2 houses....no kids, just my dog & 4 cats....so be it...

[@Toolwise]

We're mirroring or ape siblings. Where one alpha male rules over a harem of females...until a new alpha arises.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

That’s most mammals

[@MH-pj9qk]

Our closest cousins, the bonobo, are matriarchal

[@hellaspoicey2280]

@@MH-pj9qk And they are depraved creatures only topped by us, ducks and dolphins.

[@MH-pj9qk]

@@hellaspoicey2280 first of all that has nothing to do with what I was saying. @Toolwise claimed that we are mirroring our ‘siblings’. The chimp and bonobo are closest related to us, which one is matriarchal and the other patriarchal. My question for you is; why are we and those animals you named depraved? What you say is only an opinion if you can’t back it up with facts, statistics or studies. And this is something I see a lot of people do in the comments, stating their opinion as it is a fact.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

@@MH-pj9qk I agree we are mirroring our “siblings”. We share many traits with other animals, good and bad. And yes, this is my opinion about bonobos, dolphins, ducks and humans. I never said it was a fact, you just got triggered. They are depraved by the human definition, which doesn’t actually apply to other animals so clearly it’s an opinion from the beginning. You should have argued that point instead. My point is that mirroring other primates in OP’s sense is generally considered depraved. Then you brought up bonobos who are on the other side of things by not having top males compete to anywhere near the same extent that other primates do. Which mirroring that in humans, is depraved by the standards of society, which animals are not part of. I don’t actually think animals are depraved. They are animals. But in the context of mirroring the behaviors in humans, any human that’s graping as much as dolphins is depraved. Any human that fights like chimps is depraved. Any human that exchanges sex for everything is usually considered depraved or at least perverted. Bonobos don’t care and are actually very calm with each other. But many humans, not all, wouldn’t want their partner to thank people for things with sex or use sex to get things from others in the community. And ducks are deplorable. Anyone who’s mirroring the behavior of ducks needs to go straight to jail. But ducks aren’t mammals so that’s a moot point.

[@frankv7068]

Back in the late 90s and early 2000s I was getting laid like nothing, I’m 40 still looking like I’m in my 20s but my market selection gone dry, women aren’t the same anymore.

[@phillipcotton833]

I'm Gen X. About 10 years ago I purposely checked in on women in the "20's " age range while on Tinder just to gage how differently younger people view dating/ relationships. I was ASTOUNDED by how many young women were willingly " poly" on their profiles. I can only imagine what the increase in numbers are present day.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

You’re not supposed to say it unless they bring it up. But there’s been a quiet increase in poly life.

[@Co5taRica]

Extremely depressing and demoralizing.

[@AtheismF7W]

It's reality, adapt or die.

[@jaythenihilist4689]

It was for me too several years ago when I truly understood womens nature. But keep in mind, they're just programmed that way. So it's pointless to be angry at them for it. Just accept the reality, and do your best to adapt to it. The frustration you may be feeling will get better with time. Also, keep in mind that not every woman is promiscuous. What you see on social media shows the worst kinds of women. Just try to understand them the best you can, and try to find a good one if you want something serious. Good women exist, but you'll probably never meet one at a bar or dating app.

[@navboi12]

​@@AtheismF7Wdeath is on the table anyway.

[@clauaome25]

plain old nature

[@DeltaScalper]

I took it as motivation , once you find peace and quiet within yourself and things to do that make you happy , you don’t need them . I do Uber when I have free time and get to meet a guy who says he’s happy with his relationship when we talk and she’s not there .

[@jussiesmollett176]

so women are making more money.. and they don't date down?

[@LisaCulton]

No. It's trouble when a woman earns much more than her man.

[@totobibi507]

A man that cannot protect or provide is useless. If she got the money, at least bring in your strength, strong will and masculine energy... She feels safe with you around >> you win

[@clauaome25]

of course not

[@tomjones5338]

​@@totobibi507men can protect and provide men have woken up to their rigged game

[@hellaspoicey2280]

@@totobibi507unless she’s obsessed with materialism

[@Khan-rz8qi]

I thinks that’s fairly true. I’m a very tall and goodlookin dude, with a solid lifestyle and I see this hella often. In a woman’s mind, she rather deal with me than deal with an unattractive guy, even though she knows I’m going to be less compromising just cause I can lol. The way I see it, they don’t wanna compromise, so why should I? We top tier dudes don’t have to. Fair is fair 💯

[@Chris-es3wf]

It's not compromising if she doesn't know you're cheating on her. Honestly man you sound childish. I make 300k+ a year in my early 30s and have women throw themselves at me all the time. Doesn't mean you act on it. Your ego going to get you into aome bad messes, my dude... trust me.

[@Jason.Goldstriker]

Just wait until you hit 30M and non of them speak to you at all, money makes you more isolated it doesn’t bring more options I doubt you guys are lagit

[@ami1250]

​@@Chris-es3wfit's not only money social class and Beta man like you sound don't do it

[@Khan-rz8qi]

@@Chris-es3wf As a dude, you decide how you wanna use your leverage. Just cause you don’t want to, don’t mean other dudes can’t. It’s every man for themselves, you either got it, or you don’t. Plus I don’t do relationships, I’m solid with all my women, they know how I am.

[@nap871]

​@@ami1250good point. Chris above needs to be careful that he's not sloted into the beta provider death trap position.

[@c.s.s.1723]

So, consequently, the real elephant in the room is the fact that SHE is perfectly fine being a side piece. She is perfectly fine with being a homewrecker. She is perfectly fine being a single mom. She is perfectly fine with the rollercoaster of emotions that come with infidelity committed both by and against her. She is perfectly fine with being for the streets and to her there is nothing wrong with any of this. Its easy for her to just be a 304 and she likes it.

[@user-uy2ks5vc1q]

This is what we have to accept. We can't be bitter. Just play the game and try to beat them at it. They are naturally very unlovely creatures. Cruel, conniving, heartless, but beautiful and indispensable.

[@stevegaines-vq3bd]

@@user-uy2ks5vc1q w/ 80% overweight & 80% of those women OBESE, hold off on calling them beautiful, a few are but MOST are angry pigs

[@christianmoreno7390]

This is demonic. Sad to see what society is coming to. It’s important to be a high value man and stick to 1 woman

[@22448824]

I’d swear that every video Orion does has the same message

[@mbg9650]

It's RPA.

[@stevegaines-vq3bd]

many talking heads are making big money off relationship topics....

[@emerald42481]

Is this not part of a larger cycle of the decay stage of empires?

[@maidende8280]

Bingo

[@XAUCADTrader]

Lot of alpha widows on the way...

[@jaythenihilist4689]

Definitely. And once they're alpha widowed, they're basically damaged at that point. I've seen women who are still obsessed in their 40s, with guys they dated in their early 20s. It's crazy. It's useless to try having a serious relationship with an alpha widow.

[@XAUCADTrader]

@@jaythenihilist4689 Oh man that's sad...The only way men win is just to embargo alpha widows or older women. Guys are too desperate though, I hear some people even date single mothers. Sloppy n'th guys never be as good as Chad Thundercock they had in their 20's, this is a recipe for divorce grape usually. You should check out Jay Teachman's study on the effect of successive partners on divorce risk, it's insane. I don't know why men put up with this, men control commitment and marriage and they're giving it away for free at their own expense (half their assets and income). What's wrong with Western men? Why did it take 50 years to have this conversation?...

[@blackhawk6695]

@@jaythenihilist4689 what is alpha widow?

[@XAUCADTrader]

@Finnhungambar No, but our legal system isn't polygamous so they can only settle with 1 person legally... What does that do with the other dozen(s) of competitors. It'll sour them to their next experiences sparking comparisons and eventual divorce. Women hate settling. This ends up as a guy problem if you decide to absorb alpha widows. Chances are though, alphas won't settle till way later, if they do so at all. Look at Leonardo DiCaprios dating life.

[@XAUCADTrader]

@Finnhungambar King Edward VIII started a new religion so he could F more women. He also beheaded one of his wives. Emmanuel Macron, some suspect he's gay and married a beard (disturbing marriage arrangement). You see the PornHub meme of him with the 2 rappers? lol Alphas of history: Ismail Ibn Sharif the Bloodthirsty, Genghis Khan. Or anyone with a harem or concubines (Chinese/Incan empire). The Christians at least tried to tame this fearing polygamy would lead to a lot of crime and terrorism through disaffected young men. Too bad porn & video games didn't exist back then...We have twice as many female ancestors as male ancestors...

[@Youttubeuser20932]

What statistics are you using to back this up? Drop a source link.

[@williamclayton9566]

Probably the General Social Survey

[@Youttubeuser20932]

@psychacks should link the specific data that he says supports his claims. Let us see if he's drawing the right conclusions from whatever he is looking at.

[@pazzodi3]

This is a great time to be a top performing men. I'm loving it for sure.

[@The_D_Boris]

Nice enjoy 😂 where as I on the other hand will almost certainly kill myself within the next 2 years 😃

[@filipbelciug]

Same, feels like heaven. No competition lol

[@samfragale1632]

This has happened to me and I am 69 years old. I have multiple houses and income streams and was dating a 54 year old. At the same time I had offers from other female to share/threesome. I do not believe in sharing/threesomes but the offers were made

[@jasonturcotte3797]

What is it that Rollo says...Women would rather share a successful alpha man than settle for a beta

[@derekboyt3383]

Keep holding out ladies. 30 will be here sooner than you think. Tik Tok. 🤣

[@rockyalliston1122]

Honestly 40 is coming sooner than they'd like.

[@kysersaucey]

The numbers would have to be closer to 2 out of 5 or 40%as we know self reporting is the least reliable data set. Married men who don't want to self snitch & have several side pieces, but are not having sex with their wives may report they haven't had sex in a year. I'd also say as an extension of body count, females will under report their sexual activity..

[@Chris-es3wf]

Most men under 30 aren't married. His conclusion about the data is correct and has been cited elsewhere as well.

[@kysersaucey]

@Chris-es3wf His conclusion about the data is correct. The data, imo isn't. How many women out of 10 are promiscuous, aka having sex with more than 1 guy? Smart money is way more than 2 out of 10.

[@Johnnystiletto-ri8ht]

Remember back in 72 in sociology class studing rats in a cage... they started off fine and coupled off... but as it bc over crowded there were gangs and a few males with a lot of females- to protect... Much like today...

[@hellaspoicey2280]

Rat utopia was accurate, unfortunately. After a generation or 2, the new generations are so maladapted that they can’t recover and the children they had after that point mostly starved due to the mothers poor attitude and the increasing lack of males to continue protecting them from hungry beta males and their own mothers who ate them too. Very unfortunate.

[@tronchalant]

Is that Eckhart Tolle's brother?

[@alibabarouge]

Watching this video with my buddy Satan and he can’t stop having this maniacal laugh for some reasons 🤔

[@janazdvihalova8995]

Yes,true

[@user-ds1fd2rm4p]

Women dont have hearts , this is why

[@jaythenihilist4689]

I would argue that overall, women are naturally more empathetic than men are. Although women really don't care about men the same way that men care about women. That's the bad thing about it.

[@adamsirin7249]

If they did, the human species would have gone extinct a long time ago. Its a driver for men to become stronger and self sufficient. The issue however, is that media propagandises us to believe otherwise and think that men and women have the same moral consistency, so that we're perpetually gaslit.

[@ghanna7787]

I think most intelligent women have a heart for their kidrens.

[@gregprince5283]

I only partially agree. People are just more advanced animals. It's always been that way that the most dominant alpha males will likely be selected for offspring. Liberating females hasn't helped us. They have just become more selective. In previous decades, there was pressure to leave home by age 18 and start a family. There isn't that much emphasis on that these days. Women can be more selective and play the field until they are ready to settle down. The only way men have failed is that once you surrender any amount of control, you will eventually lose it all. This is a proven fact.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

I’d say a lot of men fail before even getting to the starting line these days. Very few men are raised in a way that will lead to them being successful in leaving by 18 while also being prepared to start a family. The best way to slay a king is in his infancy. And the men clearly can’t increase their selectivity at that age but they can increase their selection. Which increasing your selection can take months/years and by that time they usually won’t want the older much more picky ladies.

[@tablab165]

Being from Utah where big city folks look down on us for what less than 1% of us are born into as a cultural institution (albeit illegal), whereas ‘modern women’ vote for it in droves with their feet and wallets.. ungh! Just…. (facepalm). Hey, but if it’ll keep more women like that from moving here - where can we sign up for an even worse image!? Pelease?!

[@hellaspoicey2280]

I live in a rural area. Californians have been moving to my quite country town in droves. They’re terrible. They can’t drive and have terrible manners. The culture and cocaine they bring is ruining my town.

[@EriPages]

Clint Eastwood has 8 children with 6 babymamas.

[@vaaaaaas]

1% of the unfeeling, egotistical bad boy who uses like a fleshlight means more to her than 110% of your selfless, undying affection. Go your own way.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

“All men are narcissists” lol

[@JeffreyGillespie]

I’m surprised the percentage is that low actually. Does that mean that 80% of them are monogamous??? 😮

[@stefanhofer-jz7fk]

On one side sad.. but ok lets enjoy then 🎉😂😂.. romance is killed

[@johnnyd4324]

Start Mass production of loverbots for men ! Wmn should survive on their own.

[@DarkKnight-em7ue]

*Only in the USA.*

[@hainleysimpson1507]

Demonstrably false.

[@Sonicstillpoint83]

It is intentional on the part of women because once they find out about the other women, they simply make a schedule. You will never see a situation in which a woman found out around five other women and she hooked up with a low status mail for anything other than a quick rebound thing.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

These days being a 7 is low status

[@evidencegrande7097]

No they are not

[@2by3]

20% is very much underestimated

[@AncientTrogloxene]

To what extent is this a consequence of hypergamy in an economy increasingly characterized by wealth concentration and income Inequality among males? How much is due to a backlash to a real or perceived generations of history that included repression and misogyny? Does an identifiable portion of this phenomenon stem from women now having options to sow their wild oats as men did before settling down to marriage or single parenthood featuring friends with benefits? Is female competition within or between friends groups a factor, for bragging rights about men or relationship benefits?

[@hainleysimpson1507]

Women can't sow wild oats.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

The first and last point are critical issues. The third one isn’t a new issue. The second one was goofy but it’s parroted the most in the mainstream, so it must hold some weight as a talking point at least.

[@user-fe7dn4vq3j]

okay, this is unrelated to the topic but its been burning on my mind and i wanted someone like you to answer it, i respect your rationality and calmness and ability to mix biology and psychology in your analysis making it fair and not woman hating or shaming or taking sides...so, the question is : do men hit the wall? is there an age where a man goes out the market? i've been hearing a lot of ''women age like milk and men age like wine'' (not on this channel, at least not so crudely) and while i understand, biology and childbearing and youth and all that, it has been explained to me and i have swallowed the pill (so this is not me being a bitter woman) but i'm just looking for fairness. if biology and youth and childbearing and all that is true, it must also be true to men, right? don't older men also become easier to tire, get diseases, lose erections, gain weight, get arthritis, become impatient with romance and courting games etc...just coz their sperm doesnt stop and they can impregnate a woman at 70 doesn't mean that they will or this is likely to happen....if women hit 25 and fall down their peak, dont men hit 45 and fall down their peak too? please reply.

[@hellaspoicey2280]

Lmao No. Buddy doesn’t respond to comments. You’ll get some random internet strangers at best and that’s it. So here we are. Fairness is a lesson for children. You’re an adult now, the truth is life isn’t fair. You only have a certain window of opportunity for everything in life, including family. That goes for everyone because like you said, men get old too. And any advantages you have, you should take. Being biologically young is a blessing and an advantage. You shouldn’t have listened to women who told you anything other than this - “being a young woman is a blessing”. Anything else you were told about growing old can’t be true and that statement also be true. You can’t listen to people who deny that being in your youth is the greatest natural advantage. Let’s be honest, a lot of women give girl boss advice and lead other young women away from the same blessing they didn’t take advantage of. This whole idea of women who think their 40’s are the peak decade are coping. Same goes for men but the truth is that the men at least have some… say it with me now… *advantages* … because women value things like status and such. The problem is women think men value those things in women too. Nope. The flat broke McDonald’s drive through girl has 99.9% of boss babes beat in every category. At least in the categories that men see as an *advantage* . All things are fair in love and war. Stop looking for fairness. Take your advantage or don’t take it. But definitely don’t skip your advantage because some old ladies said so. You will not have the same advantages in romance as men as you age. Adapt or die.

[@user-uc7qb1su4e]

The trade off is its much easier being a woman and you get lots of options when you’re young. Lots of women now don’t realize that they will get older and attention will stop.

[@SuperMBARutgers2013]

And if her clock runs down, she'll marry some unlucky bloke and then divorce him when she has what she wants (and take his money)

[@katherinemoore3059]

Unless the Lord leads me to the right man. I'm staying single. I would never share my man.

[@user-uy2ks5vc1q]

Yes you would. You just haven't met him yet. It's just in your nature to do this

[@mani-00]

It is intentional, they want the best of men not caring if they are seeing other females

[@johna4249]

You have some skin hanging off your top lip Orion

[@mbg9650]

Hypergamy does not care.

[@tonym1712]

🤮

[@giosal2005]

Abortions, and birth control although well intended, in the long term has been massively destructive to women.

[@crystalglopez91623]

Them work wifes are polygamous

[@11Ken]

Solution?!

[@totobibi507]

There were a study on campus commented on Alexander Grace channel. When there is an Alpha with his group of men: If he answers positively to women's flirt, it increases quite much their receptivity to the other group members flirt. If he answers negatively, it decrease it. Answer to your question: the Alpha is the head of the tribe, the gate keeper, the one who controls who approach the women, the first responsible for their protection since ruler of the group. The first they need to befriend He is NOT their owner. It is more profitable for females to be protected by (organised) group of male rather by only one. Otherwise, if they become widow, without backup males they would be in deep shit... Problem: Men from most current cultures do not like to share...

[@11Ken]

@@totobibi507 the last problem it's BS. It's like: "women don't like it share their body..." There is not a problem and not a solution! Monogamy it's equilibrium and the best solution for everyone. The question is, how to return to monogamy society?

[@toddjohnson271]

Don't marry, validate, support, fund, help, assist, comfort women.

[@morale493]

only women change the state of dating. men can only adapt to changing standards

[@williammentink]

A solution to a problem that has no short term cost? Most people will not be able to see it. Therefore the panic by women nearing thirty, there is a long term cost.

[@ReverendOmen]

Dr Orion, though this may be happening, there will be people who will sit with a conscious bias or make themselves the exception, but will unknowingly, subconsciously be apart of the statistical data you mention, as if that one individual isnt subject to human nature, if a man has more than one woman to have sex with, then he will by all means act upon that in order to satisfy his desire for sex with women, point blank, and the social contract has so many men in a choke hold, it prevents them from seeing the truth about themselves and others, which is why they continue to struggle and face so many issues that wont exist by trying to align with society…

[@familygonzalez1188]

Do you ever use periods when writing such elaborate pieces?

[@navboi12]

​@@familygonzalez1188she's a reverend. No time to stop 😂

[@ReverendOmen]

@@familygonzalez1188 why do you think commas are present…?

[@hellaspoicey2280]

@@ReverendOmen because you love run on sentences?

[@ReverendOmen]

@@hellaspoicey2280 wow i didnt know you grammar nazis were elected to be the overlords of how people speak, get a grip please…

[@elchucapablas]

Just say women are doing this be over with it.

[@RealizacionWeb]

is not the same with capitalism..? 😬😂

[@PeterShaw-ne1yq]

The simps pay for their women's mistakes- cool🎉

[@uhhmon319]

This explains why I have been on a ROLL lately

[@EddyG0rdo]

Dude I’m average and I can get laid pretty much whenever I want. Game and being masculine go a long way. Pussy is easy to get. These women throwing at you nowadays.

[@AnimalAlmighty]

im trying to get like you

[@TomJones-op9nj]

Sketchy……but I will say this …crazy jump cuts AND you have to read your own script?!? Polish up ginger ….but I must admit your blue eyes are indeed rather striking….peace out

[@a.d.b535]

20% of women under 30 are polygamous ? Men should get a clue and date older, and avoid the shiny objects.

[@hainleysimpson1507]

Why take up more baggage that is less attractive with children already?

[@hellaspoicey2280]

They do. But when it comes to starting a family they’ll pick someone younger unless they only want to adopt.

[@AlmaVasquezjr]

Human race is evolving

[@Sonnell]

???

[@n-tertainmentx-tended4760]

No, the human race is over. Give it two more generations before we circle the drain.

[@desmonides]

No such thing

[@Agent_Chieftain]

Devolving, actually. There are paleontology studies that go over the history of cultural relationship norms. Over 80% of human history was polygamous. This is also the portion of human history filled with the most bloody, violent and tribal examples of human behavior, where no one could maintain a stable civilization for long. It was the cultural switch to monogamy that allowed certain civilizations to thrive, as now everyone had a family to fight for. And thus longer lasting, more prosperous empires arose. Society isn't evolving. It's degenerating to it's most base, animalistic form. Monogamy was the progressive policy.

[@Sonnell]

@@Agent_Chieftain I guess you are right. Though it is not monogamy per se what I think is important here. Instead, the real connection and trust what makes everything better. And I am yet to meet a poly person who is able to truly connect and trust an other person. And the lack of real connection, and the deepest form of love is what makes people just simply selfish, selfish enough to not care about peace in general, and the true well being of others. Also, a person with a real partner will be able to raise a child who will be also kind and able to connect, so such behaviour builds a more peaceful future society. I am not against poly people at all, but I just can not see them truly connecting and caring.

[@aquadisiak9357]

I am an older guys significantly older like in my sixties I'm average-looking no outward signs of wealth or status and I have virtually no problem sleeping with at least two different young women a week. we're talkin woman in the 20's and 30's and they're very attractive.I have to disagree with your theory because it really comes down to do you approach girls? you learn a little bit of game and you can have all the woman you want. even if you're average-looking. You also has to learn a little bit of Seduction. last night I was with a thirty-one-year-old Beauty that's an electrical engineer speaks four languages Place tournament chest and flies an airplane the night before I was with a 24 year old beautiful blond cocktail waitres that swears she's in love with me, it's really not as hard as everybody makes it out to be, you have to learn some game, suduc5ion and approch, techniques and only concentrate on the low-hanging fruit, another words girls that are nice and start talking back to you. Let the rest of them go. you should be able to get two out of five that your approach. the best places to approaches on the beach first thing in the morning girls are by themselves sunbathing and are relaxed and willing to talk

[@filipbelciug]

Congrats! This makes me feel relieved about my sixties haha. But I'll be blunt, how come they'd rather go with a 60 year old when they're 24 instead of going with a guy much younger? Have you asked them? Have they told you? Genuine curiosity

[@hellaspoicey2280]

@@filipbelciug That’s a loaded question with a myriad of answers… The easiest answer is maturity. Also they don’t make as many negative assumptions about older men so you’re starting in a better position by being matured, with these types of individuals at least. If she just wants young hot peen then she’s likely to go for younger men. Ironically it seems that a higher percentage of older women are overtly seeking that. Young women typically have an abundance of young men to pick from so it’s not a big deal.

[@maidende8280]

Where do you live?

[@aquadisiak9357]

I was without a girlfriend for a while because I believed that in my sixties I couldn't get any. Then I started to learn some game and I realized that most girls don't really care about what you look like I mean you can't be ugly I'll look like an old man you have to do a little bit of work maybe get your hair colored or go to the gym get in shape but it's not a problem the key to the whole thing as stop overthinking it you have to do a bunch of approaches and then you'll get used to it and it'll come as second nature. You probably will be shocked how many girls you get. I'm not trying to sleep with a bunch of girls I'm just trying to find a girlfriend because dating is a lot of work maybe for the twenty-year-old guys it's fun but as you get older you just want to find somebody you like I do anyway problem I'm having you some finding all young girls and some of the older ones are so hardened so you going to have to pick through a lot of women to find a good one

[@filipbelciug]

@@aquadisiak9357 congrats! I'm not judging but just wanted to know why they'd go with u instead of a younger guy. Have they ever said what they like about u the most?

[@numans.9741]

lol women are L.