2023 Prep: Celebrating Yourself, Cultivating Discipline & Consistency + Implementing Accountability

[@ellona3645]

I was just reflecting on how all of my plans failed this year. Not going to lie, I was sad because I did my best/prayed for it the entire whole year. But I still got rejected. I'm slowly trying to trust God again & taking another step to achieve another goal. Please pray for me that I will find an internship at NYC this upcoming summer

[@BrittbyBit]

Please don't stop pursuing God. It seems like everything failed but ask Him what was he protecting you from/setting you up for. At the beginning of the year, I had to shut my whole business down. This was something that I had been pouring into for the past 5 years. I was devastated and thought I didn't need to be alive anymore. It was very hard trying to trust God again because He allowed this to happen. Now here we are at the end of the year, and I'm grateful for the interruption. I didn't see that I had people around me who were jealous and performing witchcraft. I wasn't taking care of my mental, physical, or financial health. I was still unhealed from past relationships and it was affecting how I saw myself. I promise that it's all for a purpose.❤

[@ellona3645]

@@BrittbyBit thank you for your encouraging words & sharing your story 💜 we got this :) I've been seeking God again by reading His Word. I truly cannot live life without Him. I can see it from a different lens now & have peace knowing that God's plan is always for good.

[@BlueswagR]

@@BrittbyBit thank you so much for sharing and being so inspiringg... but how did you figure out those who were jealous of you and figure out how to stop the witchcraft .....i'm going through something similar rn.

[@BrittbyBit]

@B B hey, I came in contact with a prophet who told me about some women discussing that I was advancing too much. Before that God used my clients and a friend who confided in me about a particular person. I already had some....weird feelings about this person but these things confirmed it for me. I didn't have to go fishing for the information either. Then this person did something so weird and my spirit was unsettled. I knew then. You have to pray, keep asking God to reveal things to you. Pray less for material desires and more for spiritual. Wisdom, discernment, discipline, protection etc. Don't forget to fast and pray. You have to believe that God wants to protect you from this stuff so he will reveal things to you as He desires to. You won't always know the full story but trust that whatever happens was for your good. I Hope that helps dear.

[@phee_lon]

"...most of us are lazy people in denial." This has been me the whole year; lazy and ambitious 😮‍💨.

[@NallahBrown]

"The journey is as worth celebrating as the destination." 🙌🏿😊

[@KelcyPassportbyDesign]

"Without failure, success isn't sweet!" Love it!

[@EverHopeful555]

And you girls are all about Consistency! You definitely walk the talk and I appreciate you and love you for it!! ❤😍

[@gloriad9932]

Can't wait to dive in! Best discovery of my 2022 you two are!

[@michelleg.7280]

This was such a gem. I'll be saving this and listening to this whenever I feel stuck. Thank you

[@alfriedaalfrieda8009]

Lol at 36:40 because my 2021 goals have now become a 3 year plan, and despite the feeling that I haven't achieved anything, I actually did see improvement in myself and managed to at least finish school, although currently unemployed. My failures are setting up my wins. Very optimistic about 2023, and I am sooo glad 2022 is over!

[@thobeluthandombali6608]

bless you ladies

[@Zi65-v7v]

Hair is so cute‼️‼️❤️‍🔥

[@annkxlly]

step 1 to a better year is definitely the mailing list

[@GG8p]

binging all your content you guys are amazing fr!

[@SA-dw5jt]

This has helped me so much, i’ve realised i really need friends who can hold me accountable when it comes to my goals. Is anyone looking for a accountability partner?

[@nonofomogaetsho6562]

Thank you for this! Yall are incredible

[@lynntetteh]

Not Jenny!! Lol.. this was Soo good, as expected of course 😄

[@noway4]

Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@Nonhlanhla]

New subbie..... Love it!🙂

[@tackyvanilla6725]

Thank you

[@MightyIntellectual]

Loveeee y’all!!!

[@janahamilton3]

Thanks Ladies! Def needed to hear this one

[@noxolondlela8843]

So needed

[@DaybeBaby]

"it rained today" girl if you want to at me at me! 🤣

[@audiannichealing]

Amen

[@malabady7290]

⭐MS COURTNEY⭐ AND ⭐MS RENEE ⭐JUST MAGNIFICENT 🔥🌎⛪🎥🎬🎄"without failure success isn't sweet". I think it can still be sweet. Like being a helpful human being.🤔

[@ab__5464]

sorry if this is a dumb question/been answered before, how do we submit dilemmas?

[@jazz6119]

I think through Instagram

[@claritanora222]

Unfortunately this did not really help. I've bene alone for over 9 years, with no actual friends. I'm done being alone. I don't want to anymore, I have no friends to talk to about this there is nobody who knows how I feel or really understand, family thinks u need to see a psychiatrist but I have no problem with Being alone. Some times I just want to stop being me, because apparently I'm not gril or friend material. How can find some one for just me. Everyday is a struggle because I know I have to do this alone. I don't think that I'm willing to make it 10yra. If it does become 10yrs of being alone, I don't want to live anymore, It sounds sad of dramatic but I can't anymore

[@shaisevi1lair]

Hi babe! in my humble opinion i do agree with ur family that if u can u should seek out professional help. it seems like there is more depth to ur situation than just sadness surrounding being alone, you seem to be in despair! if you have no one to talk to a therapist can possibly fill that role and build up skills that will aid you in your search for your tribe. or at the very least ease some of the pain you feel currently. i hope not to have overstepped. wishing u well xoxo

[@claritanora222]

@@shaisevi1lair HI, no I understand where you are coming from, but I feel that you don't fully understand me. I've been alone for a long time, and I have no problem being by myself, but I'm never somebody's #1, and everyone around me has someone, is it so hard to believe that I'm just done being by myself. Talking to myself. . I just don't want to be alone anymore, is that so hard to believe instead of sending me to the a shrink. Nothing in this world can save you from loneliness, except another person. And don't get me wrong cause I love myself that's not the problem, but I guess maybe it's just me it happens. Have a great day:)

[@copiouscat]

Clarita Girlll.. SIS let’s Gather these emotions, feels and all that jazz. So BOOM. Let’s start with the fact that this was supposed to assist with you gaining ✨CLARITY✨ Clarita 😏😎 see what I did there.. hehe I be tryna be comedic or whatevs 😆 1.That Clarity is needed to assess yourself in various areas of your life “what are my needs, what do I want, and what are the non negotiables with regard to your social life & so on” (as it applies to you ofc im going based off what you said in your comment) 2. After the Clarity part (which this is still sorta clarity) sis you need to Look within yourself deeply to accept where you are, what you have & who you are and cherish and Big up yourself for still being here and making it this far. I’m proud of you to make it this far in life whatever your age is, is in itself is still a blessing regardless of whats going on in the world. 🫂 Shower your mind in gratitude, be thankful in every way possible. Even something as simple as thankful for the internet and ability to even write this comment on here, literally EVERYTHING sis. 3. It sounds like your suffering from loneliness, even though you didn’t use the word you mentioned being alone and not having anyone. I’m tearing up as I type this, but I’ve suffered from loneliness and not having anyone else to talk to, I was exiled from family (in Japan away from family etc), I had Nobody I mean nobody to go too about anything and LOWKEY losing my shit 💀(ya girl-me- ain’t even want to exist at one point 🫤. BUT I went and got a freaking therapist! And I’m going to tell you what they told me that was like a eureka moment. “No one is truly ever alone unless they’re on a isolated island or solitary confinement” At first i was bout to cuss my therapist out but I opted for the G rated response and said “really? 😑” then they proceeded to explain that loneliness is how you feel in Response to✨thinking✨ you are alone. Sis we 8 Billion DEEP on this planet! 🤣 So my question for you is what do you feel or believe is missing or why do you feel you don’t want to be alone? And what steps have you (and will take this upcoming year) taken to change that? What do you want from someone else outside yourself that will fulfill this desire to want a partner, family &/or friends? Have you given that to yourself first? You don’t need to respond to these questions on here, I suggest writing it down and do a deep dive with yourself. Highkey it’s not okay to be alone because we are social beings! I hope this somewhat helps you on your journey! I’m wishing the best of what YOU want and need for YOU!💜🤗🫂 Oh yeah and still slide to a therapists office cause it can and will change yo life! SPECIFICALLY on the therapy for black girls network. Idk bout that betterhelp stuff but if you can try and seek any sort of counsel it will help. Whew I ain’t never typed this long omg 🤣 hope there ain’t no typos, if so forgive me in advance!

[@uGuguTshabalala]

@@copiouscat Such a heartwarming response❤️ and much strength and love to Clarita💕

[@filmsbyaaj]

Thank you for being apart of my Sunday routine and introducing consistency to my life🤍🥹 love from Canada

[@Karrisodidi]

I am already excited for this episode & I haven’t even started watching it yet 🥹