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@moejohnson84593 ай бұрын
D when I left my last chick. I gave her a tight hug and kissed her on her forehead and told her to take care of herself and her life. Very true.
@darwynnmcpherson3 ай бұрын
Bro we did the same thing 💯💯💯
@moejohnson84593 ай бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson Damn that's crazi 😂. Yea I thought for sure she would be finale. But reality is undefeated and after I walked away from her I said I'm done champ 😂. I just chill and knock em down when I'm ready to share my space. Real talk.
@darwynnmcpherson3 ай бұрын
😎 🚬 🥃
@moejohnson84593 ай бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson No smoking. Or drinking though, 🎮 instead 😂.
@darwynnmcpherson3 ай бұрын
@moejohnson8459 lol for sure ha ha
@ModernDatingMastery19 күн бұрын
*If she consistently disrespects your boundaries or shows little appreciation for your efforts, it might be time to reevaluate. Self-worth should never take a backseat!*
@oneofakind22762 ай бұрын
Broke up with a sweet girl because I was broke but she was financially stable. I just needed to get my money right
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
Justified!!!
@darwynnmcphersonАй бұрын
@@chrisg5101 Strong case... Nice response
@Trey2k365daysАй бұрын
@@oneofakind2276 this is happening to me right now. I helped her out during her college years she got a job. My business collapsed now she is looking down on me
@RobertMaxwell-m5s23 күн бұрын
Never go to a gun fight with a knife
@ReeceDee7 күн бұрын
That's real strength dude...a man that stands on business, knows when he is a burden and she deserves an equal so you went and levelled up.
@9525joe2 ай бұрын
This isn’t just for romantic relationships. This goes for any relationship where you noticed red flags. Even if it’s with the Homies.
@amosmunezero99582 ай бұрын
100% I am about to kick out one of my friends out of my life due to taking me always for granted and disrespect!
@Mrnormthegreat2 ай бұрын
Facts facts
@zabe-gq8wc24 күн бұрын
@@amosmunezero9958 we allow them to get comfortable. Not our fault, we are all learning, not everyone has these type of observation locked in, but good to know
@terrelladams2905Ай бұрын
Iam a married man and I'm leaving my marriage it's over I will not tolerating disrespect 😢
@philmwurksАй бұрын
@@terrelladams2905 me too bro
@pauldiaz427322 күн бұрын
@@terrelladams2905 💯 i wish you the best my brother!
@johnhue893314 күн бұрын
@terrelladams2905 When the disrespect is there it is almost impossible that the relationship will get on track.
@martinsafals269310 күн бұрын
I equally want to call it a shot because i can’t face such too.
@lawrencekelly89798 күн бұрын
You can’t divorce due to disrespect.. If the disrespect is not her committing adultery, God won’t accept the divorce.. You will still be considered “One Flesh”.. And if you do anything with anyone else it will be considered adultery..
@haroldwiggins46682 ай бұрын
Sex is a reason many men stay, unfortunately, that's an advantage women have. It's hard to find unconditional sex.
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
Yikes
@RevealedFilmsАй бұрын
Unconditional sex? I ain’t never heard of that one. They give it up if you’re the guy who makes her feel good about herself.
@peliganferencz23 күн бұрын
Yes indeed,you’re right let's part in decent conditions, but unfortunately with a Narcissistic person such a thing is not possible!
@michaelbullen3104Ай бұрын
If I lose my current girlfriend of 3 years, by any means, because things aren’t doing so well right now… There will be no more love for me of any way shape or form for as long as I live and I learned to accept that a long time ago 2 years ago at least. I have always been able to provide my own satisfaction in all areas. I also just love being alone
@DarylBailey-n1n2 ай бұрын
Just got out of a relationship from a ghetto girl in Sav la mar, she was all of this, all take no give, never again 🇨🇦💪🏻
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
💯💯💯
@garfieldkeddoo814 күн бұрын
@@DarylBailey-n1n jamaica 🇯🇲
@cincyfanjunglecity98712 ай бұрын
I’ve had 3 toxic relationships, but my last one was only a year and a half. I learned a hell of a lot on this last one , but unfortunately now I’m 44 years old. Sometimes I wonder if I’ll ever find that one .
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
I’ve helped men optimize their chances… Shoot me an email sir!
@panos72562 ай бұрын
You will not find her because there is no one.
@cincyfanjunglecity98712 ай бұрын
@@panos7256 you know , I can’t disagree with that , and especially these days.
@cincyfanjunglecity98712 ай бұрын
@@panos7256 sometimes we just gotta take the cold truth for what it is.
@darwynnmcphersonАй бұрын
Or you can shoot me an email and figure it out
@ryanbain6183 ай бұрын
The only woman I trusted was my mother........
@SantiagoVeraLoor2 ай бұрын
The only woman I trust is my sister.
@panos72562 ай бұрын
Not even
@tracydukeplumpАй бұрын
Some people can’t even trust their mother
@gorillajodАй бұрын
@@tracydukeplump totally true ; mines has never been trusted at all
@awesom2bemelonestar1023 күн бұрын
@ryanbain618 When you have a good mother, yes. A lot of mothers you can't trust.
@BartokNeeskens23 күн бұрын
The ancient egyptian pharaohs always start to prepare for their funeral from the day they crowned as pharaoh. There was life before she came along, there will be life afterwards. I always keep that at the back of my mind at the start of any relationship no matter how I feel about the girl
@emilgabl90692 ай бұрын
Brah you weren’t dealing with a real toxic person. I had to leave and take my stuff while she went to work. I ended up getting a restraining order.
@SantiagoVeraLoor2 ай бұрын
Sorry about that bro
@aleussecurity7616Ай бұрын
Wish I saw this 2 years ago. All the things you are talking about are true. I broke 3 of those rules and I wasted time and health. I’m back better than ever now. But you have the most truth I’ve heard.
@AphrooneRichardson2 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this highly informative and enlightening podcast! AMEN-ASE!
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
Your welcome!!!
@efaboateng46838 күн бұрын
This good - he talks well! great piece
@SantiagoVeraLoor2 ай бұрын
Break-ups never hurt women. They benefit more from ending the relationship than they do staying in it.
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
Elaborate please?
@jonsmith848Ай бұрын
@@SantiagoVeraLoor disagree. I have had several exes reach back out...to Express regret. Mostly because I keep it moving..
@MrYtubenewsanchormanАй бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson They benefit more in the beginning from being bombarded by the guys who been trying and waiting with outings, dates and gifts large and small by guys who want to screw her or have her as his own until the fairy tale dust wears off them he'll even dump her. So yes after a break up trust me she being wined and dined and getting stuck more times than a porcupine.
@CrazyJoeClark42923 күн бұрын
Huh
@sweetchinmusiq16 күн бұрын
@@jonsmith848 They know when they have or had a good one.
@northernsegageorge65102 ай бұрын
I'm 41 and have had the fear of being alone after a breakup but always have had a new GF come along. Billions of females on this planet and there is someone for us all. Mind you, here i am single again from 3 weeks ago when I ended a 2 months dating sitaution.
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
We gotta talk about why the break ups keep happening.
@northernsegageorge65102 ай бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson She was showing major red flags and claimed all her exes were all narcs and abusive and then she herself became abusive towards me so I walked away. This is me dating after a 15 year marriage were I divorced my ex wife. Out of the females I have dated in the past 3 years, only 2 have had issues and the rest I we kept as casual as I was not ready nor wanting a serious relationship.
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
@@northernsegageorge6510 Oh Ok... You ignored their red flags early on correct? 15 year marriage? Sheesh! Maybe some day we can talk about what happened to that.
@sonininyaniso96832 ай бұрын
The problem is you
@JudahTribe-lt3ur2 ай бұрын
You’re very wise young brother
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
Thanks brother
@brandonpotter49153 ай бұрын
Excellent steps you given. Well done 👍👍👍👍
@darwynnmcpherson3 ай бұрын
Thanks...
@swanandpatil967526 күн бұрын
Bro all the advices you have given in the channel are pure gold has given me lot of clarity so far. I will say you are the most professional,well spoken and we'll read relationship councellor content creator I have came across so far. You definitely can be a goat in your field if you keep going lots of love to you bro. You are doing a noble and brilliant job with your videos please keep us inspired and clear with your knowledge it means a lot and helps all of us to get into a good relationship in life which will will keep us happy and we keep everyone around us happy being a boon for the society in general. Thank you 🙏 i am your subscriber from India 🇮🇳
@cookiemonster73133 ай бұрын
Always the best advice ❤
@darwynnmcpherson3 ай бұрын
Thanks Cookie Monster lol
@stevenmoore74562 ай бұрын
If she did you wrong why would you help her? I just don't understand
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
What do you mean?
@slav7319Ай бұрын
@@stevenmoore7456 only cucks do that. Block her and send cut off the contact. Woman often want to end it in a way to keep good with the dude, so they keep all the dudes around their world and can take their attention and energy. These hoes need to be treated how they deserve. Goodbye
@smokingcrab22902 ай бұрын
It's much harder when married and you are actually religious about your vows
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
Elaborate
@chaucerparks20422 ай бұрын
@@smokingcrab2290 SPOT ON.... PLEASE REPOST YOUR COMMENT.
@LastoftheMohicans116Ай бұрын
@@smokingcrab2290 and with kids and the financial aspect as well
@JacobMutiso-t9p24 күн бұрын
True until death do us apart.. plus the fear of breaking the seventh commandment..
@adamwdfn13 күн бұрын
I’m ending a 10 yr marriage to my narrasist wife, the disrespect and cheating will take yrs off your life, it’s not worth it.
@darwynnmcpherson3 күн бұрын
🙏🏿🫱🏾🫲🏽💯
@pgangsta3572 ай бұрын
Great video family! Thank you
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
Thanks for watching!
@Andreus154Ай бұрын
Good tip to have a period of no contact BEFORE you break up with her. That's makes it easier to break up.
@darwynnmcphersonАй бұрын
💯💯💯
@jf662417 күн бұрын
Kids! Jst haven’t got the heart to leave my 3 girls, all under 14. Kills me
@bigcee2966Ай бұрын
Also watch for when people throw things in your face, women are notorious for that.
@lildavehannah7349Ай бұрын
I'm unhappy and still holding on.I see plenty of red flags..I been with my wife since I was 16 and now I'm 41 years old.. I'm ready to move on but affair of being lost.
@kennethbrown256Ай бұрын
@@lildavehannah7349 I feel your sorrow, trust trust trust the Lord. Ask his help
@BJ-sb9rkАй бұрын
Brother to be blunt, you are already lost, and I mean mentally. You’re 41, I’m 42. I chose peace. I would choose peace of mind ANY DAY than deal with someone you have checked out with years ago. You know it’s not working and you want to move on. Think about your health bro. All the stress is probably making you sick whether you realize it or not. Let it go! There will be some dark days and being alone/lost is hard to grasp but once you take that step, everything will work out. It’s a process… I’ve been there 🙏
@MrMYDEAN21 күн бұрын
It's time! When u see no spiritual love,in other words God dont live here either! Realtalk 💯 it's time to go! Realtalk 💯 start packing ❤
@MichaelMyers-tg9uhАй бұрын
Their are married men who try to stop their wives who want 2 leave from leaving then get upset that she is not intimate with them anymore 😉, the kids have shit 2 do with letting go as long as u can still see them, when a woman is done with u , she is done , n if u refuse 2 move on then u will have 2 watch her be intimate with another man , it's best 2 move on , bcuz that might cause u 2 do harm 2 them n yourself with 💯
@adamwdfn13 күн бұрын
True words!
@frederickowens28838 күн бұрын
I found out my wife of four years was letting another man "blow her back out" (her words) for the entire summer of our courtship when we first started dating. I also found out she lied about having a degree has a history of promiscuity and initially lied about the nature of her relationship with the dude when i asked her about it. She tells me im not romantic enough and tried to get me to engage is Ds sex stuff because it was something she had done with a past lover. Fuckin me and another man at the same time would ordinarily be enough for me to leave but we're married with two kids now. I still want her gone but I don't want to only get to see my kids on the weekends. I'm really not sure what to do.
@darwynnmcpherson8 күн бұрын
Most definitely schedule a meeting brother. calendly.com/darwynnmcpherson/dating-compatibility-consultation
@williampadin5372 ай бұрын
You are right 100%
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
Appreciate it William
@amenlion88Ай бұрын
Alot more complex when you have children
@AceKpeee26 күн бұрын
Fr them toxic relationships will off u slowly
@champmorgan71663 ай бұрын
Great content and presentation my brother.
@darwynnmcpherson3 ай бұрын
Thanks my brother
@fishin2fit7533 ай бұрын
FACTS BRO💪🏾🤝🏾👊🏽👑💯
@darwynnmcpherson3 ай бұрын
Thanks bro
@ronnietil708611 күн бұрын
I remove myself from the relationship she was forth coming from her pervious relationship I don't do secrets.
@Myk_drOpАй бұрын
Bro your ex will never give you a good "recommendation ". If she does tell the new chic your a nice guy give him a chance, she will dry up like the dessert. Because clearly your ex dont gaf about you so why should she?
@gregorymasoleng713613 күн бұрын
Guys with the law against men, I am telling you , most men are going to find themselves single, I once told my ex this same story, women bully us and we cry inside and this is very dangerous. The problem is men don't want to move on. You see your girl disrespecting you and you think you will fix that? Never. If you break up with her don't never get back to her, especially if she never stayed single. If she has met someone don't go back to her. I wanna tell you something that people don't know. When you sleep with a man or woman who is not your partner, it's either fornication or adultery, now , when you get together in bed then forces take control, your sperm creates things in there, both of you become one, if you sleep with a prostitute you become one, do you get the picture. If you sleep with an animal you become one, your spirit get in that body and something spiritual happenes. Now, what happens after you had sex? You become weak, your strength goes down. Guys you might not know this but it is a reality. As a Christian man and according to God He hates divorce, why, because God has made us one, let no man separate, but because of unfaithfulness God permits it. That's why you can't take a married woman, God wanted men to marry virgin. Do you get the picture. I had a testimony of a guy who had near death experience, He says he saw his children which he did not even know, so it was explainef to him that every girl he slept with, he had children with them Wow, so, how many seeds are there in a man's sperm? Guys, this is not a joke. Brothers coming back to the story, we men are weak when it comes to self control and this is where women capitalize. There's nothing wrong being single, but because we're told that if you don't marry, this and that, blah, blah. All sorts of nonsense. And I also realize that men get deceived by what we see, the eye of the beholder. If your partner know that sex is your absolute, then you are in serious danger, she will go out prostitute herself and come back to give you sex, and then she will be done with you, covering you with a sex curtain. There are many ladies who really want to have their own husband and they will do anything and everything to keep us guys happy but we want what pleases our eyes, and that's only lust doing it's thing. Have you noticed on these dating platforms women are so many and all are hunting for love, they just want to be married, they tell you money is not the problem and just come as you are. But the question is, what happened to their partner, where are the husband. They realize that they made a mistake and now it's too late.
@oghenetegaisrael28893 ай бұрын
Many thanks
@darwynnmcpherson3 ай бұрын
Many welcomes!!!
@Jazz3132 ай бұрын
True❤
@lamontbryant39813 ай бұрын
Wooooooow thank you so much
@darwynnmcpherson3 ай бұрын
You’re welcome Lamont!
@Osamabeenleanin21029 күн бұрын
What about the feeling of out growing someone or you have the drive for more/better..but she's comfortable with the bare minimum. Add in the fact you have twins with this person and they autism. You only there still because of the children
@darwynnmcpherson29 күн бұрын
Get counseling. Also you shouldn’t be outgrowing your wife. She is a help meet if you growing without her help you are not properly using your wife. Do not walk away from your family unless it is sexual immorality.
@Osamabeenleanin21029 күн бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson No sex isn't the problem, the relationship has become 1 sided. I work overnight and pick up extra shift to make sure things are well taken care of. I don't need her to work extra anything but if I can come home after 12 hours and clean...why can't the initiative be taken to have things already clean especially if she's only working 6 hours. I don't want to have to hold someone's hand and show them how to be a woman the exact same way no woman wants to show a man how to be a man. I'm sure I have issues she see but the difference is the once I've voiced and made known are the very issues still being dealt with 11 years in
@darwynnmcpherson28 күн бұрын
Ok I see… Perhaps you guys should book a call with me! Let me see if I can help shoot me an email!
@theophilusmaccado61012 ай бұрын
My gf have a my way or the high way mentality,I walk on egg shells even when she's done something wrong,she's very disrespectful to me,should I walk or try to fix it?
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
You need to bounce brother. Please shoot me a DM or email.
@theophilusmaccado61012 ай бұрын
@darwynnmcpherson should I just leave or talk to her face to face to let her know I'm tired of her behavior?to leave in peace not in a fight way.
@matthewsandoval87542 ай бұрын
Never let disrespect slide boys they’ll punce on that and it’ll get worse
@theophilusmaccado61012 ай бұрын
@matthewsandoval8754 my situation is bad bro,everytime she with some ppl she don't answer my calls, and when she finally do she be defensive and disrespectful and even hang up the call.
@matthewsandoval87542 ай бұрын
@@theophilusmaccado6101 bro cut your losses get out now with as minimal as damage if she ain’t answering when she’s out she might finessing you bro I’m not try to put it out there but it’s possible she with another guy. Prob why she be getting defensive don’t listen to what she says watch his she moved it will tell you everything, but I think you already know head up shoulders back gtfo bro ✊🏻
@lwill4075Ай бұрын
I left my ex cause we had a disagreement/argument, which after i needed time to self and wouldn't answer phone for few hours. So when i did answer, she said she was go call my job and make up a story so i could get fired. At that point, i planned my exit from her,,, i literally felt all the love i had for her leave my body. Crazy
@darwynnmcphersonАй бұрын
Wow this is very evil of her. I can't imagine what drives women to go to this degree of maliciousness.
@lwill4075Ай бұрын
@@darwynnmcpherson 💯
@BJ-sb9rkАй бұрын
@@lwill4075 good for you bro! So she tried to get you fired because you wouldn’t answer the phone? Imagine what she’s really capable of…
@idkbout_dАй бұрын
My waste of time dumped me and it’s okay she think I give a xuck, it’s her loss and I’m glad she made that choice
@dallas6295Ай бұрын
Help her pack all of her baggage and call her a Uber
@ricosmith8304Ай бұрын
Seems to me like you loved her more than she loved you why help her ?
@darwynnmcphersonАй бұрын
Maybe so… but it’s just courtesy
@ryancox509729 күн бұрын
Sign number one: she exists.
@binakorialazigha29162 ай бұрын
Thumbs 👍
@darwynnmcpherson2 ай бұрын
Thanks for the visit
@jordanjordan935Күн бұрын
I need U AS my Mentor
@darwynnmcphersonКүн бұрын
Welcome aboard Jordan! I am here!
@darwynnmcphersonКүн бұрын
Check out some links in the bio
@MichaelChapmanArtАй бұрын
The kid bro...the kid...
@barbaralandsaw7949Ай бұрын
Same as for the ladies too many mind games. Men and Women both are estching these videos. These videos have broken so many relationships. Do this if they become distance Do that if they pull away. Go No Contact WTCrap ?
@katrinagarrett462811 күн бұрын
You have such negative content about women. All men are not dogs. Not all women are gold diggers. Our community needs more black families. Black love is beautiful. It takes prayer, understanding, patience, commitment and a desire to have a healthy relationships. It takes two people to make it work.
@swanandpatil967526 күн бұрын
Bro all the advices you have given in the channel are pure gold has given me lot of clarity so far. I will say you are the most professional,well spoken and we'll read relationship councellor content creator I have came across so far. You definitely can be a goat in your field if you keep going lots of love to you bro. You are doing a noble and brilliant job with your videos please keep us inspired and clear with your knowledge it means a lot and helps all of us to get into a good relationship in life which will will keep us happy and we keep everyone around us happy being a boon for the society in general. Thank you 🙏 i am your subscriber from India 🇮🇳
@darwynnmcpherson26 күн бұрын
Thanks and much love my brother. It is comments like these that lifts my spirit and give me extreme motivation and appreciation. It is so awesome to be able to reach my brothers in India. I am glad to have you aboard sir. Ill keep going, most definitely!!! It is my passion to help my brothers and sisters!