3 Months Of Heartbreak, Documented

[@lummaaziz]

Hi guys! I just wanted to come back to this and say I’ve had a lot of questions regarding seeking advice from me, you can reach out to me VIA Sunroom here: sunroom.so/lumma I know I would’ve needed something like this when I was going through it, I’m here for you! Love you all

[@shonasellings9080]

You helped me so much 2 years ago when you made this video, i just want to let you know and ive seen your more recent videos im happy youve healed and you look so much happier ❤

[@anaroseofficial]

🕯️🫶 you’ll be okay

[@Schroomp]

Thanks for the advice, i think she found someone else and doesn't want to tell me!

[@keelajemison7106]

Did he ever called or txt you

[@7mzasam]

i have no money to text u >> i just liked your photos with my all coins

[@chelswa_]

Mourning someone that is still alive is a pain like no other.

[@grimmywizard]

​@@SuspiciousFish69to each, their own. Pain can never be compared. Anyways, RIP to your father. You'll be better :)

[@starrfuzion]

It sucks to experience both. I lost my dad 3 months ago and my girlfriend left me a while after. I just feel like I'm alone, I've lost half of my heart, I want to die... It all sucks man.

[@chelswa_]

I’ve also lost my dad and other loved ones, I didn’t mean to diminish anyones pain by this comment, it’s all valid & it all hurts deeply ❤️

[@jess69able]

Absolutely

[@jess69able]

​@@starrfuzionhey dude. I'm so sorry. It sounds horrible

[@wanjirujenny]

Me re-watching this 7 months after I thought I would die. Guys, it gets easier, trust me. Lumma God bless you.

[@anamariawolfie]

Did they try to reach out during the period?

[@wanjirujenny]

@@anamariawolfie heey, yeah he called me on new years eve telling me that he missed me and that he wanted us to be friends and wasn't giving up on trying unless I pushed him away really hard. We tried doing that but it wasn't working for me coz Def I was still in love with him and I told him that and he ghosted me😭 and I guess that was my sign that he didn't care and was done with me and i took it as my closure. Piece of advice to anyone who goes no contact hoping that in the sixth month he will come back, don't wait coz it will probably never happen and if it does you deserve better.

[@anamariawolfie]

@@wanjirujenny thank you for answering. I'm sorry to hear that happened.

[@wanjirujenny]

@@anamariawolfie Anytime. Thank you❤️

[@adisadorcas2812]

I’m reading this 5 months after and I am feeling better. It does get easier.

[@stephaniac]

the hardest part is when you realize the other person never felt the same or even never cared about you .

[@tulinbeyduz920]

i broke up with my ex but i still cared lord about him . i just knew he wasn’t available so i chose to walk away . pepe can still care very much and choose to walk away

[@loriii8031]

Or felt forced into the relationship

[@boba2596]

Gosh it was the worst for me

[@Kailo.B]

A thousand (" I love you") texts to build something.. and only one text ("I never loved you") to tear it all down.

[@JohnSmith-co1cp]

I had someone say the same ... really sucks. But that reflects on them, not you. Ultimately the best path is forward.

[@bestlife9143]

The “I just want to talk to him” got me 😭😭😭 I can FULLY relate.

[@ammajaybee]

😭😭been a day someone please remind me when it's been 1month please

[@thesilllypotato]

​@@ammajaybeedon't do it 😢😢 and trust me. I have a story to tell 😢

[@ammajaybee]

@@thesilllypotato oh🥺i think i will be fine,i'm trying🫂🫂thank you,you'll be okay too

[@thesilllypotato]

@@ammajaybee you will, you'll get to s point you won't gaf

[@tenzinoden110]

Same I can relate ❤

[@pixienix]

"if you can love the wrong person for you so deeply, then imagine how it would be to love the right person for you" I've never heard anyone say that but it hit ME like a brick now too. Thanks!

[@nicoleono2326]

We don’t know all the people that are yet to enter our lives to love us even greater

[@DanniKoala69]

This helps to hear 👂

[@JuliaBaracho]

omg

[@sameraa__]

very true

[@iluvthehaters]

The creepiest thing just happened. I read this comment at EXACTLY the moment she said it in the video. Isn't that weird?

[@Айдай-э7б]

“the person you needed most will teach you not to need anyone” that’s the lesson that I learned from this journey

[@Fineeeaddiction]

Harsh reality it’s so hard for us at first but for them they have already let go mentally in their heads n hearts.. so now it’s our turn to go thru it n what’s different is we weren’t prepared for it. Keep pushing!

[@daphneytadlocj4041]

Only lesson I've learned is that, there is no right person or even person. Love isn't real it's just not...

[@Kareena1988]

@@daphneytadlocj4041 theres no love. Just attachment and fear of ending up alone.

[@bourasasmae2435]

God gives what you need not what you want

[@Tsumemeofficial]

Couldn't say better!

[@emilymkinney]

it’s so crazy realizing we’re all human and we all feel the same emotions

[@davidjohnstone630]

Yeah so crazy, hello am David

[@mikaylalindsay6028]

@FloopidyMcDoopidy dont even dare to say that. Not all women move on that quick. I am a woman and i can say that my breakup has torn me into pieces and i still see him at school, but i chose to pick myself up instead of moping around all day, and no that doesn’t mean getting with other guys. Not every woman moves on in one way.

[@FuzzyNinja21]

The big difference is that if a man posts a 20 minute video crying about heartbreak, the response isn't 2m views on KZbin and tons of sympathetic comments.

[@ardentlyandie]

literally no one said men don't have it hard?? you don't need to invalidate other people's experiences@@FuzzyNinja21

[@theofaniyianas]

@@davidjohnstone630 rizz

[@Osharlock]

there is something comforting seeing someone go through the same thing while I am

[@jannzmoss9466]

Hey, sweetie, it does get better. I'm 4 month post breakup and 2 month post no contact phase. He cheated on me, it was so fck hard , i really thought that i was dying, crying all day, not sleeping enough. I can tell you now that im in the best place ive ever been. So so happy and grateful for everything even the pain. I realized now that i dont want him to come back anymore. Only time heals, do things, go out with your friends, focus on your pain. You'll get through it. It is so good to be on the other side. Take care of yourself.

[@Osharlock]

@@jannzmoss9466 i know it will get better i just wish it was faster, almost on month 2 now and its so damn hard most days

[@hanhvu3716]

I am going through this shit now :( I hope you feel better now!!!!

[@MsZuegig]

'even him coming back wouldn't help because I don't trust him anymore' Oh girl ❤️❤️❤️

[@quackquack6646]

people can change tho

[@tiffanypr.9448]

@@quackquack6646 non they don't

[@quackquack6646]

@@tiffanypr.9448 Maybe you ve met the wrong people I ve seen people and me myself changed upside down after some very hard period of my life

[@charlesshidler7792]

You are probably ok now? Since I always find these things much after its over...

[@minaqueen8835]

Dont Say plz u are German!!!

[@lisasouphone]

it’s so validating to know we really aren’t alone in feeling this awful pain

[@Kaycinee]

Yes worst pain ever 😞 but we aren’t alone

[@johnngullie4821]

nobody desrv diz muchh pain

[@ninshu412]

Have you ever burdened this same pain upon someone yourself?

[@jodijodi6228]

Agreed, seeing this video & vlog helped me feel like I wasn’t being crazy but that this is a common crisis & helps me to trust the process even tho I feel like I AM DYING :/ however I do wake up at 5:15 every morning and shower, put my make up on, fix my hair, and go to work. Take care of my home, cook, clean… Fall apart in between, dust off my knees, wipe my tears and keep moving. The whole process is absolutely exhausting.

[@ohhoney777]

Yes.. it is the weirdest pain ever

[@TheJohnCueto]

I remember nights like this, balling my eyes out for what seemed to be weeks on end. 4 years later I married my best friend and now we have a daughter and a baby boy coming in January! It gets better! Thanks for sharing!

[@AdityaSingh7]

Hey mate, Congratulations for this. Even though I'm going through a tough as shit time but this comment of yours made my heart warm. All the best wishes to you and your family!

[@madisynhassler3296]

That is so great Congratulations. How did you know it was time to move on

[@haley8591]

Gives me hope

[@madisynhassler3296]

Wasn't it hard for you

[@saardcv]

this is the dream

[@mangopom5438]

Heartbreak is a physical pain. I remember holding my chest because it hurts so much and crying out loud until I couldn’t breath anymore

[@drea4373]

I was watching this two years ago after my breakup. This video helped and now I’m in the BEST place in my life. When she said “You will ABSOLUTELY be ok”, it’s true. I immediately went no contact, not even knowing anything about no contact. It was just instinctual and over time, I understood he was not the best for me. The tears eventually stopped and peace has filled my heart. My life is beautiful. There is absolutely NO WAY I would EVER go back. That is my HONEST TRUTH. It may not be easy, but, Please believe it will get better when you allow the process.

[@dodgerfan296]

My fiance left me 6 days prior to our wedding. This video hit hard. I'm currently at the 3 month mark. Anyone reading this, it does get better. There are things that trigger me to cry once in a while, but you must face your emotions to speed up the recovery process. Learn to respect and love yourself. Keep your confidence high, and you'll attract someone much better! Trust the process!

[@dickersonr6172]

Did you get your money bck for the wedding though

[@nihaoxtigr1432]

WTF OMG IM SCARED OF LOVE WTF

[@dodgerfan296]

I got about 95% of my money back. Could have been worse!

[@dodgerfan296]

Update: She constantly reaches out to me and states she messed up and wants me back. I can never go back. I always remind myself of the emotional pain I went through and the struggle with the recovery process to get where I am now.

[@11katerinasofie33]

Oh God, I'm so sorry. I hope you find peace some day soon ♡

[@eunamour]

"Nothing can fix it.. even him coming back can't fix it" I feel your pain deeply, going through it right now. Thank you for the video girl, we're not alone

[@emilyamelia117]

My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

[@LotusFlower732]

Same

[@SWARAJBHARATVARSH]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@theneettoknow2725]

Wishing you healing

[@janjazadravec4824]

im the same. honestly the damage is done.

[@saralopezCR]

"nothing can fix this pain, even him coming back can't fix it" that's it right there, that's what's truly heartbreaking

[@anasofia2877]

i think the scariest part of heartbreaks is that during the first few days/weeks you feel like it's never going to get better, like you won't meet anyone new, and like your self worth/self confidence is just gone. i also think it's beautiful how the healing process works and how your mind and thoughts develop through it as well. thank you for sharing. this touched me

[@dianadias3]

If self-worth and confidence wouldn't go away, I guess it wouldn't be as difficult

[@savorytooth3067]

So true the confidence like where did it go… building it back.. wheewww

[@avannagirltv9898]

🙏🏾

[@butrintg6124]

it still feels the same even after 3 months and pain got even worse.

[@lexie02jones25]

Yup

[@guitarguy911]

One thing I learned; when you break up with someone, GIVE A REASON. Don’t let them wonder, that is CRUEL

[@jayk8499]

Hug

[@luhvlinaxx]

This comment! Yes. It’s been seven months and I’m still healing somewhat because he just randomly disappeared and left me wondering. almost fully healed though!❤️

[@AmiinaaBenz]

He did this to me i feel destroyed

[@user-ayant-t]

Yes, that's hurts so much that i don't know 'why' that happened, is there's something wrong with me or with her ? But then after 4 months it just came to my mind that maybe there's no reason She just left me for no reason Nothing literally happened before that she just ignored me and treated me like a strange person

[@user-ayant-t]

​@@AmiinaaBenzhow are you now?

[@ang3178]

I’m going through a breakup with someone I met at 15 years old and now I’m 27. We were together 11 years. It feels excruciating. I don’t understand how this is real life. I pictured myself with him forever. My situation is different because I’m the one who broke up with him. I had to. By the end of the relationship I was crying everyday because of the mistreatment. He turned emotionally unavailable, prioritized partying/going out/smoking weed over me, we saw each other (if I was lucky and because I would make the plans) twice a week, and he became extremely cold to my family. In a way the mistreatment helps validate my decision, but it doesn’t change how hard I am grieving. I’m almost 3 weeks in and all I want to do is pretend this isn’t happening. I cry everyday. Thank you for this video. I am looking forward to the day that I am stronger

[@zinazoulou3574]

Update please

[@Yellowwwwww]

Im going thru a break up rn. It’s unbearable. When I almost give him everything, we almost had a child. He hurt me so bad in the past for soooo many times but i still let him back into my life. But one mistake , which was because I cared for his future so I told him to be careful about his new friend, and he blocked me everywhere . 2 weeks no vontact. I feel so worthless

[@bidishatalukdar7855]

Omg this is exactly what I am going through. We had been together for 6 years and suddenly he started acting cold. Lied to me about his whereabouts, hid his phone with his life, was always busy even to send a text message. Turned out he had been out drinking with his friends and kissed a girl behind my back. He says he feels sorry and that he was drunk. I sometimes think maybe it was a mistake so I should forgive him but then I can't bear the thought that he would do such a thing and chose another girl over me. I feel angry that he has left no way for me to even forgive him. Was it worth it? Losing all we had. His friends also had a bad influence on him. But in the end it was his decision. I really do love him. It's killing me. I am scared I might never find anyone who would love me . I am so frustrated.

[@kareenabhaskar7300]

I am going through a similar situation, i left mine of 8yrs bcz i could see him falling out of love, the understanding was gone. we tried so many pauses but nothing helped, one day i made a plan and he AGAIN didn't show up, i decided that was it. It's excruciating, the pain, it's tragic to see us fail bcz oh lord we were so good together and the fact he is really a nice human...just not in love with me anymore. Sometimes i can't breathe

[@ang3178]

Hey everyone. Grateful to know I’m not alone… It’s been a little over 4 weeks now, almost 5. He’s reached out once but he was drunk. Idk I feel clarity of like feeling better emotionally because I can reflect and see how much my needs weren’t being met. But it literally hurts so badly even to just lose that companionship. I hate that romantic breakups also double as breaking up with a friend. We shared so many intimate life moments together. He helped me through so many dark dark challenges. One being my mother’s alcoholism. I have anxious-attachment, and his is dismissive avoidant… in other words and if you know anything about attachment theory… a match made in hell lol I keep telling myself that I never know what the future will hold (basically soothing/calming myself with the thoughts that there might, one day, be a rekindling, where he’s a healthier and emotionally available version of himself so as for us to be together again). This shit is tough. I’m 27 and I just kinda feel like love might be something I don’t experience in this life again. That might’ve been it. I can’t grieve like this again. And the chances that the next hypothetical relationship I’m in actually works and is my person and we make it the distance, is kinda slim chances. I just wanna be done giving myself to anyone for a long while. It sucks because I’ve ALWAYS wanted motherhood. Being a mom has been probably my number one goal. Unfortunately you need a partner for that, and for the sake of the child, one that is healthy and wants to be apart of their lives. Feeling lost and depressed. How is everyone else doing?

[@snigdhagupta8203]

if someone find's this comment a month later i want to come back and look at this when i am healed so someone can like this

[@ok-fs2qi]

hi it has been a month

[@Taylor-ir4ek]

How are you? My engagement just ended and I see now way through this pain.

[@snigdhagupta8203]

@Taylor-ir4ek ​​@@ok-fs2qiidk it is confusing but on the way I really got great friends the heartbreak itself feel painful but not with that intensity I feel like I really got into meditation healing laws of universe bible and it helped me a lot trust me, also I have seen him after the heartbreak and got the news he has moved on with someone else actually today I got the confirmation I cried but afterall it felt linear and I chose to believe I am at the ryt path

[@cimaythakoordeen2524]

I hope you feel better now

[@tiffanyworthy8100]

@@Taylor-ir4ekhow are you is the question? Sorry to hear abt your engagement ending

[@rainananana]

going through the same thing right now, all i want to do is to cry in his arms but i cant. he seems happy without me, i miss him like crazy

[@themani.motivation]

😭i feel you bro , that shit is so bad that we still want to cry in arms of that guy who made us cry

[@rainananana]

@@themani.motivation you know what, i did cry in his arms like 2 days ago and it felt so good, but the fact we cant go back to how we were is just UGHHHH

[@perlaslemaridiana]

How are you now?

[@rainananana]

@@perlaslemaridiana Im so much better now, im completely over him. I realised i deserved so much better, thankyou for asking! :)

[@perlaslemaridiana]

@@rainananana it’s good to know! i’m currently in this situation and i’ve been trying to indulge myself in these kind of videos for comfort. i pray i could be like you 6 months from now ❤️‍🩹

[@hollyfreeman2117]

2 months in, it gets better guys, it really does. I still cry, I sobbed on a walk yesterday by myself, but its a different type of grief as time goes on. We've got this💪

[@felliesweetie]

3 months in I am still hurt but I don't remember the last time I cried😂. I agree the grief has totally changed. I am in a good space. We got this

[@cyclingtexas1670]

2 months as well, I can say I don’t get sad anymore about it but I definitely feel an emotional emptiness, in this moment I find it hard to believe I can love someone else. Hopefully time will change that.

[@hollyfreeman2117]

@@cyclingtexas1670 don’t let yourself become cold hearted. Remember that the love you gave them didn’t come from them, but you and you alone. You have the capability to love THAT hard, and someone in your future will feel that.

[@hollyfreeman2117]

@@felliesweetie happy for you

[@corinnassmartart9802]

2 month ...the last few days have been particulary bad ...

[@kristenwebb26]

It’s day 3. Woke up at 2am and busted out crying and fell back asleep. This video is everything 🙏🏽💕

[@laura-zo4ry]

You got this. I'm month 5

[@emilyannreeve]

i hope you feel better asap. this is one of the worst parts of falling in love. just remember that as each day goes by, you are getting closer to the end goal. i hope 2022 is a much better year for you

[@jessaguillermovlogs9717]

We got this. First night of suffering 😭💔

[@subarnaroy6896]

2 weeks * keep strong , we will get through this ❤️

[@lennaStojanovic]

You got this. I'm on my month three and still healing. Just be kind to yourself.

[@sunnysunflower5513]

To all of you, I've been here too. Severe weight loss, apathy, depression. Fear that dissolved my core and followed me around every where. That was two yrs ago. Now, I am healthy vibrant and totally recovered. Believe me, you recover, time legit dissolves all of the scary anxiety and heart break. You get rebuild 2.0 please hang in there. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Rooting for you all currently going through this. It's so terrifying but it will PASS

[@taylorperry6555]

3 years ago I went through the worst breakup of my life. today I can't even remember the pain I went through. I was bedridden for 4 months, in and out of the hospital got diagnosed with derealization and I did not get over this for quite some time. it is crazy how at the moment you can't possibly imagine how you'd overcome this, but I am living proof that the pain subsides and you can find yourself again

[@wanmn2064]

proud of you :D

[@Smitty3600]

I'm going through one right now. She left me after 12 years, told me she didn't love me anymore and left. Comments like this give me a little bit of hope, but it's so extremely hard to process.

[@fredbrooks2939]

@@Smitty3600 Going through it too, 3 weeks now after 22 years and 2 kids. I feel like I’m dying inside losing weight no interest in anything . I won’t contact her I know she would have to come to me or we will be finished. Sad every day but we can get through it with time.

[@Smitty3600]

@@fredbrooks2939 I’ve lost a ton of weight too, which is good I guess since I was overweight (not anymore, lol). But I’d happily give up the weight loss to be with her again. Losing a part of your family is horrible. I wish you all the best and hope you can look back at this comment in a couple of years and smile about it. I hope I can,

[@manarfettache8783]

i'm going through it rn. i really need help

[@yasminclouser]

I used to always question why girls would cry for months over boys and breakups. I never understood it, till I experienced heartbreak myself. And maaann its a pain I would never wish upon anyone. It stirs up so much confusion and mixed emotions for so long. and its cool to now be able to sympathize with those going through the process.

[@kaelyn1]

true! i thought ppl were being overdramatic for crying over a heartbreak until i experienced it myself ;-;

[@myrkflinn4331]

Yup. And I know plenty of guys who cry and rage for months too after breakup and some are even begging for their ex to come back. Breakups suck for everyone...

[@Kekodile]

same

[@truestrength-oz5kk]

I still live with trauma from the breakup i had 5 years ago with my ex. We promised "forever" only for it to be gone and it taught me that anything can change. Its the most painful feeling anyone can go through and i never wish it upon anyone

[@zzq0m]

@@kaelyn1fr;-;

[@sandialyn]

2 years ago I was here heartbroken. Didn't know I would completely healed . NEVER UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF TIME. To anyone going through heartbreak. I'm sending hugs, that thing called time will slowly but surely clean house. Find these online therapists in the meantime . Esp Stephanie, Lynn. And embrace spirituality like theres no tomorrow.

[@anamariawolfie]

How long did it take you to heal?

[@sandialyn]

@@anamariawolfie At the begining of month 6 . I suddenly started feeling like I'd rather have a piece of fried chicken than spend even a minute thinking about him. I did not realize what was happening. I was healing . But it took a full year to go from love to nothing .

[@anamariawolfie]

@@sandialyn thank you so much for answering, you made me laugh 😂 That helped a lot. Although my situation is kind of fucked up because we were never official but it still somehow screwed me over completely.

[@sandialyn]

@@anamariawolfie I'm glad it helped. Find these relationship coaches and spend hours with them . Ace metaphor, Stephanie Lyn , Derick Jaxn or any that you prefer. Those are my top picks.

[@nastyakirlitsa]

Thank you so much for showing that it heals🥹

[@naveedsingsongs]

One of the best advice to anyone going through it Face it! Don't distract yourself from the pain and everything that comes with it. If you want the storm to be over soon, you should walk through it not away from it.

[@pcastillo8714]

it hurts so much knowing you’ve been with someone everyday. You did everything with this person. Then they just suddenly aren’t there anymore. It’s like you really feel like nothing.

[@caterinaedge7799]

My ex came back to me a few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back. Also attracting SP, soulmate, and removing Third parties which works within 48hours...

[@caterinaedge7799]

Whatsaap him"**

[@pcastillo8714]

@@stephaniegaray980 I’ve been recovering though, everything happens for a reason yk. Just keep your head up and do you, and always remember the only person that really knows you and can truly love you is yourself. Way before anyone else

[@AppleBottomJ]

Just a stranger with memories. Damn

[@beckytierney552]

its exactly how i feel now

[@ericamarie6681]

When you said, “If they can leave you and not talk to you, they are ok with being without you, and not contacting you, that is the closure you need” that part is so true. Thinking that way really makes things easier. If they are ok without you, Be ok without them! You WILL be OK. I promise. ❤️

[@shumon1971]

I know....but my ego is killing me

[@whoisu5929]

but he’s not okay with being without me

[@whoisu5929]

i lied. he’s totally okay being without me.

[@shumon1971]

@@whoisu5929 he don't deserve u

[@alexandriatrinh2954]

@@whoisu5929 f him!!

[@vanessacolombi412]

After almost 8 years of relationship my husband suddenly announced me that he is unhappy and doesn’t believe we are meant to be together. This is so sudden, I’m left heartbroken, lost and lonely. I have no support, no relationship with my family, I leave in a different country that where I grew up. I didn’t have the easiest life growing up and I was really hoping of never having to feel this kind of pain again, I thought for once it was my turn to feel happiness and loved, and I believed it. Now I’m completely destroyed and scared.

[@kimoiaa]

itll get better

[@Moon_minxy]

It's not forever, you'll get better❤

[@angelawessels]

I'm so sorry. Sending you peace and comfort.

[@thedinadiaries]

Hope you’re doing better

[@belafafa1058]

Very similar story except we have a 2.5 daughter. Not only he swept the rug from under my feet . I was completely dependent on him financially he basically destroyed me . Now I moved back to my parents house struggling to find a job and unable to grieve properly as my daughter is dependent on me . The divorce isn't finished yet so it's just a big mess . Just taking it day by day

[@Judgelesslovemorre]

I can NOT thank you enough. A week ago my fiancé dumped me over text. There’s hasn’t been anything, NOTHING that has made me feel just a tiny bit better. Thank you!!!

[@CryptoKiwi]

@@ashleymancilla1566 probably someone that has a hate for people and isn't internally happy, to make a comment like that to someone on a low

[@tcc2]

Mine, kicked me out of their parent’s home while on vacation around the holidays. I can’t totally relate. It gets easier…

[@enblanca1032]

hugs 🥺💗

[@annach.775]

Let things be as they are, it just means he is not in a position to love you and you don't need a person like this. You deserve so much love and things will be so much better!

[@raelenemichelle]

I am so sorry you are going through this. Sending love to you.

[@myawoods1435]

“ I don’t know if anyone will love me” such a deep and true feeling. I feel this almost every day. About to go through a breakup and I’m so tired of breakups. They hurt and cut deep every time

[@lilywhitejimmy5907]

Hi, get anyone you love or (SP) attracted to you. And also get your EX back coming to you begging you for a second chance through the help of Dr Steve, he helped me restore my 5 years broken relationship. Also Dr Steve always keep up with his words, I will advise you seek his help thanks.

[@lilywhitejimmy5907]

Message him on Whatsapp

[@lilywhitejimmy5907]

✛2347030894892(☉｡☉)!!!

[@monicahwambui604]

Same situation for me now, I can feel now am not alone going through this.

[@abassadams5929]

They don't say that no body loves you 'your lover is on the way coming stop thinking about the past pull your self together he is not ment for you let him go the right person is desperately waiting for you is a matter of time .I have also been in that situation before

[@lrm1218]

it’s so embarrassing how many times i have watched this and cried with you. 2 weeks in and i still feel like dying.

[@CB-ph3kn]

You shouldn't feel embarrassed for feeling how you feel. The only one who should feel embarrassed is the person who broke your precious little heart. I'm so sorry, I feel you, I'm been going through a breakup phase since early December. I hope we both heal and move on stronger from this.

[@nh4572]

You will feel the pain for months.... But this shall too pass Im also going through a break up , she is a beautiful girl, i completely love her . I was so sure that she ll be there with me till death, i wanted to learn,grow , travel with her .. everything was so beautiful in our relationship, the connection was so intense . Just in a matter of 10 mins evrything changed . I was hugging her and lying on her shoulders, we wre talking and i just took a topic we fought over few days ago and she suddenly changed completely and ended the relationship there. ( felt really horrible) ( the first week ) . We had some intense fights , she just kept adding on thoughts in her brain . She told i was feeling this relationship wont workout for past 20 days but i just suppressed those thoughts . She could have told me the first time she felt something , i would have sat with her , talked and would have corrected myself. I will correct any of mistakes for her , i value our relationship the most . I love her a lot, anything wrong in my side i will sit work on and will correct for her . But she didnt want anything , she just told its mentally draining for me and i dont want to be with you. She was the perfect one for me . (Soulmate ) i saw me in her . A burning desire to improve , grow . She helpd me a lot . I felt peace . Its over between us . And i dont know if ill ever love a person again lile that . With full belief, being completely vulnerable, emotionally feeling free . I suffered the pain of one sided love , now break up (aka) death of soulmate but whose still alive physically in this world . There s nothing more now . Im immune to anything now 🙂

[@johndo8019]

@@nh4572 me too

[@bristis7808]

How are doing?

[@shegolily]

how are you? I'm 2 months in but I'm dying as well. I miss him so much. I'm here with you

[@ShanaPianar]

I am writing this while crying and thinking of reaching out to him. It's been almost 2 months since we broke up and 2 weeks of no contact. I feel like there's no light at end of the tunnel and I feel like I'm going to die because of the pain but I will come back in this comment after few months because I don't want to give up on myself. I want to see the version of me that is happy and healed.

[@attishasaxena]

Currently feeling the same way

[@NatalieDirect]

I remember sitting on my bathroom floor and bawling my eyes out for MONTHS. Holding my mouth so nobody in the house can hear me scream and cry. I was so depressed that I stopped going to school and my mom had to homeschool me. I kept getting hospitalized because I was so heartbroken and just wanted the pain to end... Eventually time does heal. Talking to people about my issues really helped me move on with my break up. I'm so much happier now. I didn't think anyone could ever love me and that I would be alone forever. I'm happily married with the most amazing man that has never ever made me cry!

[@sharonkour873]

I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate🥰👩‍❤️‍👩

[@sharonkour873]

He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay🥰😘

[@sharonkour873]

Whtsaap him"**???

[@sharonkour873]

✚２３４９０１８０８７３０１🇺🇸🇺🇸⏭⏭⏭

[@LyAnnlartisteàParis]

It gives me hope thx for sharing this story

[@juliankyliepayba]

"There's no way you can skip the healing process."

[@jenniferorot842]

My ex did. He just hop in another girl's company and forgets my existence😂

[@haxonprime1243]

The #1 rule of getting over a break up is, and im not kidding, to surround yourself with people, with love. Do not fight it alone, or you will probably lose. I should know. I almost LOST but I found peace in friends and family, and they got me past the dangerous parts.

[@BK-tp6jf]

Not everyone has that luxury

[@Katelyndivinity444]

What do you do if you don’t even have that?

[@_cimone]

I’m 35 and currently going through my 4th heartbreak. It never gets easier, and it still helps to hear about other people’s experiences, thank you for sharing your story

[@joepok]

I’m a 58 year-old man who was dumped 6 weeks ago. The pain is still staggering and I found your video as I desperately needed some support. Your transparency has been so helpful and healing. Just wanted to share that heartbreak has no gender or age group… I’ve been divorced twice and yet this breakup is unlike anything I’ve ever experienced. Thanks for sharing your deepest moments.

[@cindybrunskine8876]

I really hope you’re doing well! It is going to be okay!

[@attohjonas6535]

you will get through it talk to people and share your feelings

[@defaultdacat]

How do u feel? I have a weird situation that's too long go text but I was betrayed and heartbroken too. It feels like a heart attack.

[@SunShine_sublime]

I'm sorry, Joe that it has happened to you. May you heal soon.

[@albylowe6688]

thinking of you Joe, hope you are well, its month 2 for me now, time does heal

[@dayaaa.l32]

To anyone reading this if he ever comes back… remember everything he’s put you through… Lumma if he ever comes back come back to this video and remember everything he’s put you through

[@_zina9054]

Yes !!! I write everything down . Because I think of all the good and when he comes back I read everything .

[@elsyrodriguez1639]

He came back and broke my heart all over again 🙃

[@dayaaa.l32]

@@elsyrodriguez1639 I’m sorry mama :((

[@AlexisBii]

@@elsyrodriguez1639 what happened? :(

[@LucyMhnta]

This is what i promised to myself. I have been through such a hard heart break this November. I thought i would not make out of it alive. Several thoughts of self harming and everything i held hard onto myself and i protected me. I am proud of myself, i know i am loved and lovable. 🥰

[@mariahleigh2324]

I’m on day two after 8 years together. It is so incredibly hard and your video made me feel like I’m not alone and I will be okay eventually. Thank you for sharing your story.

[@gaetanokairos2931]

I recently got my ex back through the help of a love specialist , the love specialist offers the best solution and the best way in restoring broken relationship.

[@gaetanokairos2931]

The love specialist can help you fix and restore your broken relationships, just the way he helped me..

[@gaetanokairos2931]

Send him a text on Whats App

[@tiny7218]

How are you doing now love?

[@RustyyMann]

Stay strong

[@BlueSkiesVinny]

I remember the first few weeks, it was like i was placed in a parallel reality, and the world just seemed so dull and strange, hard to describe, but i literally couldnt do anything. Didnt eat for weeks, hit the bottle hard, lost about 40 pounds. Lost her, my house, and my 3 dogs whom i loved so much. I sacrificed so much of myself just to be with her, but about 4 months later now, and i feel rejuvenated! Im working out again, eating healthy, no heavy drinking, and pursuing the dream that i gave up to be with her. I still have days where i reminisce, and sometimes break down, but the tears are less and less each time. To anyone going through this, just keep pushing. One day at a time, do the things you enjoy, or find NEW things to enjoy (that was a big one for me). Im looking at life in a totally different way now, and i guess thats one thing i can thank her for. Push through and you will come out the other side a much stronger, and smarter person. Best of luck to anyone that reads this! Youre gonna be okay!

[@Voxavs]

Yesterday my wife told me that she is in love with someone else. I've never been in so much pain. I am too anxious to sleep. I stayed late in the office mindlessly watching videos. After watching yours I just went and cried in the toiled and felt pathetic. But it helped, I feel better if only slightly. I cant share this with anyone I know, nor should I, so the best I can do is to write this for the strangers on the internet to read. Thank you for posting such an intimate and personal video. Hopefully in time I could come back to this comment and say that I am better. UPD. Wow, thank you all for the support! Even though it was really rough, I am doing a lot better now. I started taking ADs and we do couple therapy. The future is still uncertain, but I am a bit more at peace with it. Stay strong, people!

[@swedishcakehd3495]

You're strong for telling about this, you have my support🙌

[@babigirl9111]

Im sorry for your heartbreak. Wishing you well 💕 it will eventually be okay.

[@ktsempai1106]

I wish I could hug your heart back together! I'm so sorry this happened to you :( I'm wishing and praying for you, that you are able to find your peace again!

[@zombermashwondah9966]

I’m so sorry about this. Please keep going and take care of yourself ❤

[@trust.it.444]

This is a blessing in disguise even though it doesn’t feel like that at the moment. Better things are coming your way. I can’t wait for you to come back and say you are healed. Giving you a virtual hug ❤

[@oliviarose6907]

5:05 when she pressed her hands on her heart, I know how this heartbreak pain feels like, I could feel her

[@simranwho]

I can totally relate too. It's physical pain you could feel in your chest. Heartbreak and the pain is for real. It actually happens.

[@Bella_0303]

🥺🥺

[@carissanicole]

So can I... 💔 I'm on 2 months now and still sob every single day. Asking myself HOW and WHY he could do this to me and let me go so easily like I never even mattered... 💔

[@melarie205]

Going through it rn my heart hurts so much

[@AnantKumar-gr9ez]

@@simranwho ikr it's like you can actually physically feel the pain like your heart's actually breaking that hurts more than anything

[@thatsprettybri7217]

I remember watching this the first day of my break up and I was crying my eyes out I felt so drained. Didn’t eat or sleep for days. I didn’t even get out of bed. But here I am now can watch this and just smile because I made it. If you’re going through a hard time please keep going. YOU WILL BE OK! Thank you for this video ❤

[@dunkow]

how long did it take before you felt better? It’s been a month for me, cry less than before but it still sucks..

[@thatsprettybri7217]

@@dunkow 2 months

[@iuvcats3334]

PERIOD! me too queen! Proud of you!!!!!!!

[@Lifewithishh]

Trust me next year you are gonna look back and not even recognise that version anymore

[@dunkow]

@@Lifewithishh Been a little more than 2 months ago and i’m already doing great🙌 Crazy to think how fast things can change!!

[@Shestylez1988]

I’m only 2 days into no contact and it’s devastating. I really wish this pain would stop. Thank you so much for this video. This feels like my story. I’m hurting so bad right now.

[@jennz2964]

I hope you feel better. It's day 2 for me now. I feel so broken, and that is was all my fault. Pleaded with him to give me a chance to fix things, but he said he doesn't want me anymore.

[@rubytruly5912]

I am 18 days into being dumped by my wife for a girl at work who is 10 years our junior. I say dumped bc that’s how it felt. She made it look so doable. I wish I had realized her grief before mine. 🖤🥀

[@hanhvu3716]

I am here with you now! I cannot stop thinking of him. I cannot stop texting and begging for his attention:( omg!

[@hanhvu3716]

@@jennz2964I feel you. How are you now?

[@anavillalobos4533]

i cried the whole time while watching this because i’m going through this exact same thing right now

[@sharimamadhoo9892]

Same!!

[@rogeriaaraujo2778]

Me too

[@liyahwdalocs]

Me too :(

[@bukolasoneye1670]

Same

[@idkwhattonamemyself9326]

To all this people here believe me it gets better! All you need to do is be strong and don't give up! Better days are coming

[@cristinamolina9783]

My bf just broke up with me just now and saw this. Cheers to everyone who struggle and experiencing the same. We can make it

[@awienhamzah6855]

can we be breakup bestie bcs mine just ended 2hrs ago too 🥹

[@sheilabernil3485]

May i join to both of you 😥

[@sadeem9123]

@@awienhamzah6855 how are you today?

[@lishiassquad9219]

Mine just ended some minutes ago

[@movieklips360]

mine broke up with me 2 days ago and it hurts so bad

[@katelynnawisitt]

How can the sweetest man turn so cold after he says he wants a break all of a sudden. I can not handle it. I am watching your video and hope I can fall asleep without crying and weeping tonight.

[@karinaphelps6087]

I feel the exact same way. He wants a break to re evaluate everything for an unknown amount of time and it’s moving towards a breakup. Everything was good and now it’s nothing

[@ChihuahuaBetch]

@@karinaphelps6087 I'm 50 days into a "break" with no end in sight. I think he's waiting for me to break up with him. Coward.

[@user-uh2kn1ux6g]

How you're doing right now? I am to weeks in and i am about to give up on strugling everyday en playing that i am happy. So i can do my work but i want to give up i feel myself so worhtless. On the weekend days like today its the worse. What is he doing with who is he and he is partying and being happy. And i feel completly alone, crying i hate my life zo much right now.😔

[@katelynnawisitt]

@@user-uh2kn1ux6g It's been almost 2 months since he stopped communicating with me. We never talk since then. I was struggling to be fine every single day. Sometimes I woke up in the middle of the night and cried. Or some evenings if I spend time alone by myself It would make me feel down and cry. Now I do not think about him that much anymore but as the song said, when I sit down and think of him. The hurts come back again. I still miss him from time to time. He is still the same place in my heart but If I do not look at him. His appearance won't bother me. I try to read more about self-love and self-acceptance. Some of my favorite authors are Najwa Zebian and Gloria Zang.

[@Zi-mg6rv]

@@user-uh2kn1ux6ghow are you feeling now?

[@roseblack6057]

Been crying almost daily since June 1, 2024. I saw my future with him as well. I still love him and want to be with him. This is so hard 😢

[@chelseamaher584]

With you on this. For me since June 14th.

[@Marlane-]

hey hey trust me you will be okay love. it gets SO much better. let me tell you something. last year, this guy was not my FIRST love but he was my first LOVE. god when he broke up with me I didn't feel like doing anything. i was in shambles and I could believe it. god my heart ached for him. it hurt so bad. even my parents began noticing it. but looking back at all that time wasted, I realized life gets SO much better. SOO much happier. trust me. you don't need a man to be happy.

[@roseblack6057]

@@Marlane- thank you 😊

[@kieutrinhtruong1270]

@@roseblack6057 it will get better trust me! I am almost hitting 3 month post breakup and I enjoying life to the fullest right now. I balled my eyes out for this one guy who didn’t wanted me, so please don’t waste your time to be sad all the time! It will get better just start to feel your pain and emotions and let them living there life not choosing you! Cry and feel you will feel better after some weeks I truly know this pain! Time is healing so be patient 🩷

[@Upasanaaaa_]

Hey are r u ok now?

[@Mellybch]

I hate that i can’t talk to him anymore. I hate that he left me instead of fighting for us. I hate that I’m crying for him. I hate that i miss him. But hopefully my heart will forget and we’ll all become our most beautiful selves after this heartbreak

[@angelawessels]

❤ I hope that you become the most beautiful version of yourself.

[@Mellybch]

@@angelawessels i hope the same for you too sweetie💕

[@suesue9578]

@@MabusNero-bb3svyour a disgusting person!

[@ryxeene9071]

How are you now? Does it really get better overtime?

[@jskajdjwidjjc]

how are you doing now ?

[@humay1004]

It's really interesting that how losing someone can actually cause you physical pain. I got dumped after 3.5 years, and I just can't believe the weight on my chest. I can't wait for it to be gone.

[@neiiwhoo]

how is it going?

[@ayrish1940]

did it dissappear

[@isimpforsugawarakoushi1479]

how are you now? : )

[@Jpegmeetch]

This is currently me now, day 5. The feeling of standing on two feet but floating around. It’s horrible. But thankful for my amazing support system. 😞

[@jomariealob5138]

How are you now?

[@sebacuevas5118]

i cried along with you, I'm on my 2nd day post breakup, heartbreak is literal hell, best regards!

[@sonrisa8775]

I hope you feel better. I am praying for you.

[@sebacuevas5118]

@@sonrisa8775 thanks you ♥️

[@sonrisa8775]

Seba Cuevas don’t be sad my boo left me too. Just last week

[@priscillatehmeh7195]

I want to cry for you cause it will get worse before it gets better. No contact, and don't go looking up his social media to see what he's doing; block him everywhere, and you will get through it faster.

[@sonrisa8775]

Priscilla Tehmeh I think I’ma be okay. I pray everyday! He don’t talk to me anyway. So I’m good. I appreciate him for not bothering me.

[@LotusJans]

“Nothing can fix this pain, not even him coming back, of how he left…” wow that hit me, with the true.

[@clairesanightmare]

I’m still mourning even two years later. The pain is very infrequent now but sometimes it hits like a train when you least expect it. Thanks for helping me feel less alone.

[@joev7014]

You’re not alone. You are worth more than you imagine. You are valuable. You are amazing

[@clairesanightmare]

@@joev7014 thank you so so much🙏🏼 that just made my day much brighter💕

[@Theprettiest21]

Same 😣🥺 ughhhh 🫂

[@godstimejerome9951]

I feel like this when my wife left me and marry another person, I can for get this day

[@connorw360]

Jeez. Even after two years. Mines just happened and the pain is unbearable. It's like a swarm of wasps around my heart

[@kkbabybratz3874]

It took me almost 3 years to fully let go and not hope anymore for him to come back. I cried the whole first year :/ proud of u

[@natalieedwards5670]

I feel like this will be me.... I’m only in week 2 x

[@kkbabybratz3874]

One thing I can recommend is Adrienne everheart on feminine energy she has videos about breakups she’s super amazing❤️❤️🥰

[@Nupagadi28]

@@natalieedwards5670 i swear i thought this too but youll see it gets better its hard and after year im still hurting but it gets better every day!

[@sonrisa8775]

Ugh!! I hate waiting to see if they come back. 😔😢

[@dynistyshaw8303]

Me too girl a whole year plus of crying, didn’t even know it was that long

[@jackiesanchz]

This video is SO accurate in terms of the process we all go through in a break up. I honestly gotta say it is in fact true that it will get better. Trust me you all, it will. Went through it all as well, felt like dying, but it made me realize all of the unresolved trauma I had carrying with me. Please please, if you all have a difficult background or unresolved trauma (often from childhood), find a way to work through it before getting in a relationship. No one is responsible of our happinnes, but ourselves. Resolving past stuff really will help us attract the right, healthy loving people into our lives. You all got this!

[@chynnawhittaker1370]

this is so true thank you so much

[@adaninurs]

This is so true:( I'm trying so hard rn to solve my "difficult background"

[@jackiesanchz]

@@adaninurs It will take time but you will heal once you face your internal wounds. Sending love your way❣

[@adaninurs]

@@jackiesanchz Thank you for your reply... it means a lot! :" I got diagnosed with a rare disease right after I graduated college, I can't get a job, I had to go back and forth to the hospital, I "lost" my friends since they're getting busy with their new stage of life, then Covid hit too.... I ended up trying my luck with online business, and he was the only person that comforted and supported me. Now I have nobody:( .... I really feel like I can't walk alone... This is so much pain to handle:( but I am trying my best to focus on my online business right now to prove that I can be independent, i can make my own happiness...

[@alejandranovoa2108]

Very true

[@lct8480]

"Nothing can fix this pain, even if he coming back" this is so true😔

[@Thongerla]

‘You don’t do this to someone you love, i can’t imagine myself taking him back and trusting him again’ those lines touched me 🙂

[@chenalindelossantos967]

hits hard

[@teru_9921]

Once I realized it, moving on feels easier to handle (It's been 2 weeks since the break up for me)

[@tessw5304]

exactly this. all i wanted was for him to change his mind and take me back. but i know i would never ever trust him again

[@skiiiii664]

I would not trust my ex with my heart ever again.

[@mariaboussenah]

⁠@@tessw5304this happened to me and told myself that i can’t trust him again and take him back and he came back eventually, asked for a second chance but i couldn’t forgive him. Now he moved on again and has a new gf and i found myself in another breakup, it’s my fault now, i regret it and feel like i should’ve take him back :(

[@mannyacevedo7580]

Currently going through my first break up. My heart hurts I never knew this type of pain existed

[@beabadoobeepo]

For real…

[@ohhoney777]

Heartbreak really does hurt.. stay strong

[@knjsrkive]

three weeks ago. is there anything you can share with someone that just got theit heart broken as of today?.. i'm sorry, you don't have to answer, i just feel like i'm desperately looking for any signs of light at the end of what right now feels like an endless dark, lonely and painful tunnel...

[@mannyacevedo7580]

@@knjsrkive I’m not gonna lie I’m still hurting there’s good and bad days. But you have to allow yourself to cry and feel your emotions. It’s going to suck but hang in there we will get through this I still have a long road of healing ahead of me as I’m still a mess most nights.

[@mannyacevedo7580]

@@ohhoney777 thank you 💜

[@jesspavlichenko5745]

The person who ends the relationship always breaks up with you in their head. In his mind, it had ended long ago, which is why it seems like they're fine and you're not. They had a chance to prepare and grieve first, and you were blindsided. I know this is an old video but these old fears can come back. If and when they do, just remind yourself you didn't have a chance to grieve before he did. It's not a reflection of you.

[@Meli-wd2gl]

So true, thanks for saying that.

[@MrHitessh]

Well said

[@clip012]

He physically suddenly left and also said has a new girl. I was so blindsided.

[@jesspavlichenko5745]

@clip012 I'm so sorry. I have had a very similar experience, and I know much it hurts and how much it can destroy your self confidence.

[@Frozen2ful]

exactly this happend to me 3 months ago. While I was pushing her away and taking her for granted, she had already processed the breakup before actually doing it. After two weeks it all hit me at once and i got a very hard time processing the breakup and my feelings, she had moved on and left it all behind her.

[@supersam5120]

This video really helped me. My girlfriend of 6 1/2 years left me for someone else 2 weeks ago. I did everything I could to try and save us and nothing worked. Within a week she’s already slept with a coworker she had already been talking to apparently. In our last conversation today she said that she doesn’t even know if she ever loved me, regrets it all, is way happier with her new life, she’s free, and that we were a mistake. I’m completely heartbroken and feel the lowest I’ve ever felt in my entire life. However, I now have the clarity that there is no hope for us and that she’s moved on. I’m so incredibly hurt by it all. I’m just hoping as time passes I’ll get better. Check up on me in a few months and I guess we’ll see.

[@haleywayne5858]

My ex came back to me a few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

[@haleywayne5858]

W-hatsap him⏬⏬ for help....

[@mercyz2734]

dude i'm rooting for u in ur healing journey. u deserve people who pour into u as much as u pour into them

[@saraamarante587]

im so so sorry. better days are coming, I promise, better days are coming. ask for help if you need to, do not feel weak for doing so. look for Christ too, I promise you He will make you feel better. and please, do not ever allow that girl back in your life.

[@JM-us8iy]

7 years bro just ended 2 or 3 days ago... shed been seing someine else since January and its June, it hurts a lot. a lot. but I guess its time to love myself instead of someone else. dont feel alone man you got strangers on the internet to talk to anytime if you arent cool talking to it with your family. hope youre good brother really do. sending love.

[@maisarahkhairul4459]

"he had an amazing family and he was very comforting for me" hits me hard bro. this is exactly what i feel :(((

[@pandrearh]

Going through the same situation. You literally feel the pain in your chest when you cry and wonder why

[@katesmith3189]

My ex came back to me few days ago ❤️ I got help from a Relationship Restorer Dr Steve Who was able to mend back my broken relationship and make my ex to come back and beg for a second chance. He can bring your ex back

[@jessicasenchure6409]

THIS IS ME RIGHT NOW

[@AnantKumar-gr9ez]

Hey how are you doing now??? I really hope you're doing well goodluck

[@becca5736]

@@jessicasenchure6409 me too.

[@jessicasenchure6409]

@@becca5736 Its tough but we can get through this

[@rinnyseah2556]

"If they can go through the day without you, then they are not the right person for you." I really needed to hear that... It's been a month since the break up and it's been difficult. Some days are good and some are horrible. Your video has helped me feel less alone and helped me feel less inclined to reaching back out to them again.

[@carminavillaflores7217]

How are you feeling now?

[@anamikahundawal]

Been there . And it feels so empowering when you get through all that & finally a day comes when you are happy n u realise “huh , well i never thought i’d get over this but guess what i don’t really give a f*** now “ . Proud of you n myself ❤

[@niawilson4382]

It's so scary and sad how relatable every stage of heartbreak is.

[@twiheartloverfyi]

This absolutely broke my heart because I remember feeling exactly how you’re feeling. It feels like it takes FOREVER! My suggestion to those going through the same thing, FEEL your FEELINGS! This too shall pass.

[@evelynjames9016]

I know of a man who could help you restore back your relationship either your ex or soulmate

[@evelynjames9016]

He was the one who helped me in restoring back my ex partner three days ago without delay

[@evelynjames9016]

Whtsaap him"for help""

[@trust.it.444]

To you who is reading this comment. I feel you. I know the pain is excruciating. When you cry, hold yourself and say, "I am sorry. I am here for you now" I know it may sounds silly but just do it. Don't focus on the pain, focus on yourself, think of yourself as a friend in need. Listen to yourself, comfort yourself, be there for yourself

[@lodewykjerusha]

Thank you.

[@jessica2803]

Thank you

[@ro-annocampo3886]

Thank you

[@kamaramlochan6871]

I do exactly this....

[@galisebolai9673]

This comment really hugged me in my time of need

[@kayladouangdara6222]

I’ve lost my first boyfriend of 9 months and I’ve been going through waves of emotions. There’s days where I feel at my highest, my best and there’s days where I feel at my lowest, especially when I’m lost without him. Throughout this whole video I’ve been crying with you girl and I felt your pain. Whoever’s reading this, you’ve just gotta keep moving. The loss and grief of someone you’ve loved for such a long time can make or break you. Surround yourself with good friends and family who want to see you happy, who want to see you win in life, and who want to be there in every moment of your life. You’ll get through this and take it day by day. Take this moment as a chance of freedom, see what life has to offer without them, and just know that you can do this on your own without them.

[@jessisworld2574]

Huge respect to her for posting her journey. I also think we should break the stigma about "don‘t talk about your problems / personal issues online" because I think it makes it all worse. Life‘s already hard enough so our society conditioning us into masking it and faking our happiness and stability makes it even worse. I wish more people were open about those aspects of life and that we‘re not alone in this.

[@roydamon7639]

That's true jessi

[@tapiwajames341]

I mean if not online where else we practically live here now

[@carlosmorrison9577]

Agreed..

[@wildsunflower5042]

Yes I agree

[@marlenahood5350]

I agree. This made it better for me. This gives me a way to connect, share my experiences, and see the experiences of other people experiencing similar situations.

[@kslucki]

"Love is a drug".. it sure did look like withdrawal was my thought the whole time. My heart goes out to you and as someone who relates to what you've been through emotionally, I am proud of you. You are now on the other side and no contact queen!

[@Subllama]

!!!! yes

[@hopeadamson8217]

Girl I CANNOT EXPRESS how much this means to me, someone going through it RIGHT KNOW. All I can say is thank you

[@neiiwhoo]

how is it going?

[@sofiaswift9604]

how are you doing now?

[@neiiwhoo]

@sofiaswift9604 hello, for me it's been almost 2 months, I'm doing much better, not healed totally but much better

[@ma.antoniettesolis2667]

How are you now? Im on month 1

[@houdy5675]

ive been following you for years and i still remember the day where you uploaded this video. i couldnt relate back then but now i can. it has been a week since we broke up. thank you for comforting me lumma

[@lucye5752]

“Even him coming back cant fix it” that’s exactly how I know I can never go back as much as I love him x

[@AlexisBii]

1 week into a break up and I cannot tell you the amount of hope and comfort this video brought me. Thank you for being brave enough to be vulnerable - to help strangers. Thank you so much

[@olivebiz6574]

Stay strong it does get less painful day after day. I am at the 1 month mark and it’s not as painful as the first 2 weeks stay strong and keep no contact no matter what. It does get better I’m still going through it but I feel your pain.

[@savsings]

i’m so sorry :( it really does get better, i promise 🤍 time is the greatest healer

[@AlexisBii]

@@savsings thank you :( I am healing day by day but it is freaking hard

[@alessandrocabiati6409]

yea this was awesome she's awesome

[@fiammadavino5932]

Absolutely same here thank you for sharing Lumma it really meant the world to me to feel that the experience happens and you can get over it. A huge heartfelt THANK YOU!

[@uditikrishna3386]

For anyone going through a heartbreak, there's just one solid thing that I wanna say that might help you feel better - Let's say you physically get hurt, do you keep introspecting about why you got hurt or keep meddling with the injury? No, cause the more you meddle with it, the more you bleed. If you are so done to the extent you can't focus on anything else because this has taken so much control over you- please remember healing takes time. You've got to stop poking your wound. You need to let it rest. it needs to be free from your judgment. It deserves to be free. Yes, it will hurt a bit, maybe too much initially but the more it dangles around it in the air, the faster it heals. And before you know it, it's a scar. A scar you're proud of surviving. You are not your wound, It is a mere part of you. Please don't let it consume you. But at the same time, pls don't try too hard. let yourself go through this if you can't escape it. Cause if I say, Don't think of a pink elephant. what are you thinking of? A pink elephant. Keep yourself distracted people say sometimes- In other words, engage those other beautiful parts of you that deserve to be seen as well. I'm sending you so much love, you deserve the world. Please seek help and reach out. Lots of love, muah. - Random person on the internet

[@wearecapable1067]

thank you, I love you. - another random person on the internet

[@amiiisel2065]

@@wearecapable1067 i love you all. -another random person crying rn

[@tommy7576]

I needed your comment, thank you and bless your heart 💜

[@carrie7961]

Can we please talk?

[@emptyplanet]

keep your love with you - no more men can afford it - the random person on the internet

[@marie6227]

Hi ! Thanks for the video. My bf of two years dumped me because he was unhappy with me. Its almost xmas and new years and here iam. Completly alone. Everything in my house reminds me of him we literally bought everything together. Im at work rn and just thinking that i have to go home and see all the stuff we bought and my pet that we had together is breaking my heart and im holding my tears while im typing this. I feel like dying i still love him and the thought of him being with someone else is eating me alive. I really thought he was the man of my dreams. I will face it and i will heal ❤️ pray for me my friends its very VERY hard for me rn.

[@maginurdzhaparova1598]

I think every person should go through a breakup where they are dumped and heartbroken. It is painful but it is a truly empowering process where you learn and study more about yourself, as you embrace your own loneliness. The healing process is beautiful too. And after some time, you will get so much better and will be so grateful for this experience. I promise you. I have been through it myself.

[@magali9735]

How long before the pain goes away? 😔

[@maginurdzhaparova1598]

@@magali9735 actually psychologists suggest that it takes around 3 months to heal after the breakup. It's different for everyone of course. It took me one month to finally accept everything and stop crying everyday. I'm still in the process. I feel gratitude and even happiness. But you know, I think some sort of sadness will always be there. I'm still hurt and upset that things didn't work out. After all, sometimes you just feel longing and missing. And that's ok. This one will take more time to heal I think, but after some time the sadness will become more dim and weak. And one day, you will wake up realizing you don't feel it anymore. It will get better 💗 stay strong girl

[@ramallahe]

No for real I lost over 20lbs in the first month

[@maginurdzhaparova1598]

@@ramallahe Look after yourself 🥺💗

[@marinedu771]

@@maginurdzhaparova1598 it really depends the person , also the story and context. Honestly took me like 2 years to recover my ex , and i was really bad for at least a whole year, like crying etc. not everyday but once in a while i was still crying and feeling like i will be alone for the rest of my life lol, so yeah it was long. I still had hope he would come back, plus he kept sending me text every few weeks just to let me hope, which i believe delayed the healing process, it was just awful until the day arrived i had enough and i understood he was a jerk and i was his toy (but also thanks to my friends who kept saying it as well , though at first i wouldnt listen). The most important part i think in the process is when i finally allowed myself to meet someone else and even if it was only for fun (for the guy too of course), it made me forget him and not feel "guilty" for it, it also reminded me my worth, that he wasnt the only one and i dont need him to be happy and finally let go of the feelings i had and moved on, then i stayed alone for some time and healed and now i found someone and it's been a year and it's much more healthy because i learned what to accept and not accept :) I think maybe the 3months theory is when you are able to start healing, but i doubt you would be healed after 3 months only.

[@tiny7218]

I normally don’t comment on videos but I feel like I need to say this because this video made me realize something. I was in a relationship for almost 8 years(7 years, 7 months to be exact). Around this time exactly 6 years ago we broke up, we had no contact for about 2 weeks until I found out I was pregnant. I won’t get into much detail but basically he yelled, told me I wasn’t who he wanted, he moved on, he rejected me, told me to abort, it was “just his luck” every single thing you wouldn’t want to hear while dealing with not only a break up but pregnancy hormones. I immediately went into a deep depression, I wasn’t eating for days, I spent mornings, noons, & nights locked in my room crying all day, I didn’t wanna leave and if I tried I cried and went back home. I was sick from being pregnant so I only drink orange juice. I NEVER thought I’d get better. But, 2 months later he came back and my world was a lot better. However, because I never healed from what he did and said to it carried itself throughout our relationship for the next 5 years. We’ve been broken up for about 1 month now. But, watching this video made me go back to that time and deeply empathize with you. It made me tear up because I know that pain all too well. But, you know what else it made me realize? That even though I haven’t yet healed from that situation… THIS break up that I’m currently going through is a piece of cake. Lol I’m not depressed at all but I’m also now happy. I’m sad but I’m finally going to get the chance to heal properly like I should’ve the first time. Thank you for being real and open. I’m also documenting my journey too. I hope to post after a year.

[@tiny7218]

So many typos. And punctuation errors. Sorry. Sometimes my fingers can’t keep up with my thoughts. Lol

[@radhikaagarwal015]

Stay strong🤍🤍

[@m5r584]

and you're on your way to find a real love, a person who would never hurt you

[@tiny7218]

Aww thanks love. I currently don’t cry at all anymore so yes it’s getting a lot better. It’s also easier to just take one day at a time. A lot of people will keep pondering in the thought of “how long will I hurt?” “When will I feel better?” Just relax and take it day by day.

[@patricialuna9764]

same!! i could totally relate to the piece of cake part

[@daniellagibson3218]

You do not realise just how much I NEEDED this. It's honestly one thing hearing it from your friends and people who've been through it, but to SEE it from another is very reassuring and I feel so much better (for now haha). He was my first love, bf, everything and I relate identically to everything you've said, apart from "dont message your ex" oops, you give me so much hope and I just love how RAW this is, like even the eating - its just so crazy to see people go through it too and I'm not alone. It really helped me and will help so many. Thank you.

[@asmitahazra4843]

Heyy how are you now ?

[@Joe__Nails-2022]

Me too...mine was very toxic. He was was first real relationship and my best friend and it hurts a lot cuz I don’t have much friends as I keep to myself most of the time. We dated for 3 years and 9months. Treated me the same way he knew was traumatic for me. Yesterday made it a week since we broke up but 2weeks since he started being so toxic and mean to me just to validate the breakup. I’m a medical student in Nigeria and I couldn’t even go for classes lectures because did how heartbroken I was especially since i called him telling him to apologize because he said something mean when I was depressed the previous day and wasn’t there when I needed him as I was going through something and he said it was a fight and wanted to extend it till the next weekend which was when he broke up with me. It completely broke me down. I even tried messaging him via email as he blocked me everywhere his response broke my heart all over again. Right now I would say I’m getting better. I went from crying morning and nights to just crying in the morning and I’ve started pushing myself to workout and start reading little by little till I get my groove back. I’m hoping to feel better real soon. I needed this. Thank you so much

[@a.nastasia.olivia]

@@Joe__Nails-2022 I feel that with the long relationship! I let myself grieve for a whole year and it was not healthy that I allowed myself to feel so much sorrow for so long, so I’m glad you’re getting things done still and allowing time to take its natural healing course

[@c.k.6608]

Same !!!

[@humerxa]

I texted him many many times, he prolly thinks I'm obsessive or desperate but no, it's cuz I'm going through a breakdown and you were MY EVERYTHING. There are times when I feel like death is better tbh

[@madibabe356]

I’m going through this right now. I was with the same guy for 10 and a half years. Engaged after 8 years, lived together after dating for 3 months. Said “I love you” after 2 days. We talked and fantasized about marrying each other and growing old together ALL of the time. And on the morning we were supposed to get our engagement photos taken, as I’m heading to work, he ends things. I had NO idea it was coming. But he also found a place to live and hid a packed bag so that he could make a quick get away. We literally saw each other, talked to each other EVERY SINGLE DAY for over 10 years….. and now, silence. We have two dogs together and he’s allowing me to keep them both. But this is a kind of pain I have never felt before. It’s a pain that I wouldn’t wish on anyone. How could the person who asked me to marry him, not only end it, but end us in such a cruel manner? That speaks volumes. I break down crying randomly. My chest feels like it’s caved in. But I know I need to find someone who values me enough to keep their word and their promises, and not fixate on my flaws and plot behind my back. Thank you for this video. It was surprisingly helpful 💕

[@esmira5038]

How are you now

[@KarolinoPetrolino]

I'm at week 3. We've been together for five years and he left me, too. It was my first breakup, and I feel like dying. I don't know how much longer I can continue crying my heart out, it's so fucking exhausting. Your video gave some kind of comfort and hope. Thank you so much

[@the_real_tv2308]

Don’t worry everything is going to be fine okay

[@Alexandra-wk3gs]

How are you doing now? I’m struggling so much

[@the_real_tv2308]

@@Alexandra-wk3gs You will be fine don’t worry nothing lasts forever

[@the_real_tv2308]

@@Alexandra-wk3gs let’s talk

[@Alexandra-wk3gs]

@@the_real_tv2308 I have no family around me and very little friends… i don’t know how i’m meant to not feel alone or get over this

[@serynaho]

My ex broke up with me in July, I was completely blind sided and the breakup destroyed me. It still hurts sometimes but im in a better place and im much happier now, the breakup is a blessing in disguise! This just means we’re closer to being with the person we’re supposed to be with :)

[@AlexisBii]

also in the denial stage :(

[@jayc342009]

same, apart from i'm a guy and we fell out. She found someone immediately and started posting pictures of both of them straight away...just to stick the knife in

[@Zelly4eva]

But sometimes I feel like maybe we are meant to be…despite everything and even though it’s been a month since we separated I can’t stop thinking about him. He knows I still love him and he told me he still loves me but there’s just too much against us. I hate this

[@nancynavene]

If you’re meant to be, you’d be together, no matter what - it would work. Sometimes in life we come across connections that are very special and have a big impact on our life, but it doesn’t mean they’re your long term partner, even if that’s what you believed, even if you believed they’re the one. Someone else will come along one day that you have just as much of an amazing connection with (most likely an even better connection), and they’ll stay by your side and it’ll work - that will be meant to be.

[@pretisia7]

Emotional pain is the worst pain...thank you for being so vulnerable

[@mozhdah5665]

This video made me realize so many things. First of all, NEVER play sad songs, keep it positive or else youll just remind yourself. CUT contact as SOON as you can, it is so important. Also, I am so grateful I got thru my breakup during summer and had friends around everyday and I had God. I am so grateful.

[@lexhallephoto]

i’m here in an almost identical situation, sobbing my eyes out with you. people don’t deserve to feel this way. i’m proud of you.

[@_zina9054]

Watch Tony Gaskins on YT he has helped me love my self so much no scam I really mean it . I just got out of a 6 year relationship, I'm sorry for what's happening to you and I hope you get better.

[@carolinalicerio4300]

dude I’m proud of you, I hope you’re doing well.

[@husiena4921]

I'm going through my worst heartbreak of my life, so far. Been weeks crying now. Thank you for making me sure that everything will be ok.

[@ficharagu9725]

I feel you, it's just been a day and I'm wondering if I'll ever be okay, I was used to being alone but it feels harder now, but we will heal with time.

[@IshmaelPlayz]

Same bro, hope it gets better tho She hurt me 😔💔

[@enblanca1032]

same here 😢

[@funnygirlever]

It will get better. Be strong and Stay strong 💪 .

[@IshmaelPlayz]

Update: so I went back to her cause I really missed her and gave her a second chance, only for her to make me feel insecure about her again, see red flags, and she never really changed. I said I was hurt from what she did to me and I said I needed distance and she got hurt from my distance. It's been a week since I haven't talked to her and she's switched up. so broken rn and the pain is unbearable cause we had alot of memories.

[@nancyellehearts]

month 2 of my breakup. I actually broke up with my ex because he wasn't really there for me. So sometimes the dumper is the one who ends up getting more hurt too I guess. My therapist said that it takes a lot of courage and shows self-love and self-empowerment to walk out of a relationship that isn't working. You are absolutely right, it does get better. Thank you for this video

[@Jibrilliantt]

Same, I had to choose myself I just KNEW this isn’t how I should be treated but it hurts so much :(

[@dexydivine9856]

You will get over it soon and you will smile again,

[@dexydivine9856]

@Briana Elle you really don't have to do that seriously,I happened to be so strong and live above my worries and emotions, simply because I might end up hurting myself even the more..I just pray I find that special one someday

[@annelieketube]

You are so right. I broke up with a toxic ex but the heartbreak I was going through was so bad :(. Couldn’t eat for months

[@raquelarmani9003]

Omg i can so relate. i had to leave him too.

[@samthesandwich]

i remember watching the first part a year and 3 months ago and i couldn’t even finish the video because it made me feel too sad, it was too real and i felt like i was looking through a mirror & i didn’t like that about myself. i couldn’t accept the fact that i was terrified of moving on and i just genuinely couldn’t do it at that time. and now fast forward, i finally finished the rest of the video and i’m so much happier with myself now. i left, i got heartbroken, i mourned, i grieved, and i moved on with my life. i remember feeling so hopeless that i would always be sad forever at first but really, i just had to give myself some time & grace to be okay again, and now i feel hopeful again :) thank you for making this video it really did helped me.

[@formerprem]

This is one of the most powerfully documented vlogs I've witnessed and I am grateful to run across this & clicked the thumbnail. I'm 52 and your experience reminds me of my very 1st relationship at age 23 that was codependent. After experiencing codependency, one realizes to break away the patterns and behaviors associated. Thank you for sharing this blessed post.

[@gretalas9092]

Im 26 now, coming out of a toxic relationship a year ago. this video also reminded me of my first breakup with him (he'd leave me occasionally for a couple of months) and I thought I'd die the first couple of times. I thought I'd die because I was so dependant and scared of being alone. I'm 1 year out of the relationship (I left him after he cheated AGAIN) and I'm so strong and happy now. I'm so grateful I learned my lesson and how to pick myself up. Cheers to that 🥂

[@formerprem]

@Shehu Umar 🚨SCAM ALERT🚨

[@formerprem]

@@gretalas9092 that is great to hear. It took me 2-3 yrs in that first codependent relationship.

[@Arin.-.]

@@formerprem do u have any tips or videos or things that helped you avoid creating another co-dependent relationship?

[@natalelo]

How can you stop being codependent? Every time I meet someone new I say it will be different this time, but when I start falling for this person my well-being starts depending on them again.

[@alayssia1783]

A few weeks of crying, and you realize you are the only one who is capable and responsible for your happiness. These types of breakups change you forever. It’s gonna be fucking hard. Really hard. But you’ll grow and one day they won’t creep in as much, and you’ll be okay. I love you❤

[@aiden_zae]

love u too

[@priya...k16]

I just don't know I will able to find the love again it's just feel like he was the only one whom I want even if the relationship was toxic but i really want him the comfort with him wass literally so comfortable I want to see him it's so harddd dude am I able to happy again am I going find love again this question just break me I don't even have friends I'm just lonely I only had him I used to share everything with him I just feel like he will never leave me I was very happy with but maybe he was not i badly want to see him literally he was my only best friend n bf he was my everything even if it was toxic it was so comfortable to me as it was the first emotional attachment with any person growing up I never had emotional attachment to anyone literally I can't describe my pain in words I just don't know what to do I have exam tomorrow I can hardly focus on studies ohh God pls help me

[@TheChosen1_cici]

thank you love you too

[@AJ-wg1ru]

“Guess what? You’re gonna do it, because you don’t have a choice.” That helps me a lot even though it’s so brutal

[@jsmoove08]

Thank you for sharing your journey. Today is the first day that my fiancee and I have broken up. She is the love of my life and I gave the relationship everything that I got, but she still left me. May your experience inspire me to be able to move on eventually.

[@drexack4411]

I was cheated by her yesterday. I found her with the guy she cheated and she protected him and told me to walk away.Sad, the pain is unbearable.Sending hugs for those going through this phase.We all gonna make it.

[@julzjulia676]

It's hard for me to 😢

[@drexack4411]

@@julzjulia676 just cry if you need to, give urself the time to heal. Spend time with ppl u love. Trust me it's hard but u gonna make it. ❤️

[@julzjulia676]

How are you feeling? How long has it been for you? I'm 2 weeks in .

[@drexack4411]

@@julzjulia676 for me in a month, Its still hurt for me to be honest, but I can't do anything abt it. So I accepted it . If u need someone to talk to coz I know there was the time I really need someone to talk to., I can listen it for you. Or you can do journaling by urself.

[@Mturner450]

I'm sorry this horrible thing has happened to you

[@Sarah-ig4rf]

4 weeks in, the pain is unbearable. I relate to this so much.

[@alissamendez6064]

Almost another month down, I hope truly you’re doing better

[@PepJord]

Hey, how are you now?

[@annanoelle6318]

Update?

[@ShreyaSingh-nm2yy]

Did it get better now.? How are you?

[@sandialyn]

Baby girl how are you now?

[@miaperez2532]

i remember the first month of my break up.. literally so hard. we ended after 7 years and i thought i’d never get over it but it DOES get better! ❤️ i’m in such a different place/mindset after just ONE month. everyday it gets easier

[@Jenndaniellee]

Omg! Same here I’ve been with this person 7 years and he even moved to the same state but only one month here and we kept fighting. It’s only been 6 days and it is so painful and lonely. I’m glad I saw your message I have hope that I will heal!!

[@justalunarsoul]

Really trying to find hope in this comment 🥺 just ended a 7 years relationship...it doesn't feel like it will get better and it's been 6 days so far. 😭 Trusting the process

[@lobo53695]

I was with her for 1.5 years. Short compared to many, but it was truly passionate and full of love, we even talked about marriage and raising a family one day. Currently 3 days out, I feel okay for the most part, but I do get unexpected dips of absolute sadness and cry. It's a rollercoaster, there are dips and highs. Hang on everyone else going through this. Big, massive hug to y'all ❤️

[@Jenndaniellee]

@@justalunarsoul Hey girl, if it helps just focus on yourself. That's what (and is) helping me tremendously. I am taking the time to fall in love with myself, studying for a better future and I even built a relationship with God. I feel so muchh better--of course you're going to find yourself missing them when you want to share your experiences with them, but they left you and you're worth so much and your value is not based on someone's choice, it's YOUR choice. Hope that helps love💛

[@Jenndaniellee]

@@lobo53695 You'll get there, we got this! 💛

[@bbeabnc]

currently going through this right now. i truly loved him. im crying, im in so much pain, but i really have to face my feelings, my emotions. i will be okay, i will get through it. time will heal and all will be alright, in the right time. thank you so much for not making me feel alone in this. thank you.