3 Shocking "Things" Men Need to Fall In Love | Attract Great Guys w/ Jason Silver

[@jasonsilveryt]

How do you truly know when a man is falling in love with YOU?

[@MaBerryHomestead]

How do you do the "chase" with a man who is a HSP and a Guarded Heart due to emotional abuse/cheating from past 3 consecutive ex's?

[@Carvegirl]

@@MaBerryHomestead You don't ever chase a man. You can't save him. He needs to heal by his own will. If you pursue him it will be out of codependency. He is no way near ready for a new relationship with anyone. Leave him alone. Be a friend with boundaries.

[@MegaTrivial]

The woman have to want him first, she will sent signals he is wanted

[@MegaTrivial]

He will look at you differently, and it will be obvious he's interested...

[@MegaTrivial]

@@MaBerryHomestead Your health is more important... Be with yourself first, heal; understand the roots of abuse, before you chose a man

[@abbybella2884]

No matter what you do for them. If they don’t love you, then they don’t love you. End of the story .

[@maygracebinahon2793]

Very agree with you... If they like someone.. They dont value the stuff you do them

[@oliviah.4741]

Very true

[@tinafransson3758]

Soo true!!! 👍👍👍👍

[@angelrussell750]

I agree. Some men are only approving if your rich, if you give them sex as an emotional escape...

[@atacomunicacioncorp]

Very true

[@monicark2030]

I am in the process of a long distance relationship, I am 56 he is 34 soon to his birthday in July. He is aware of the age gap, he doesn't want children, he works a lot he saw me in pajamas, in formal clothes, with makeup or right after a shower by video calls with different hair styles. He says he likes me the way I am.

[@ritabrandow1318]

I miss you my wonderful husband everyday. You were my one and only love. We were married Almost 31 years before you went to heaven

[@dececanem]

Rita Brandow I’m sorry for your loss

[@ritabrandow1318]

@@dececanem thank you He didn't play an games

[@hobimin3091]

Makes me cry. I'm sorry for your loss❤️

[@ritabrandow1318]

You know when you have found your one true love. It was just us with Jesus against the world

[@hobimin3091]

Rita Brandow That's true love❤️But i believe you'll continue this journey with Jesus and your husband who is in the heaven. Jesus will give you all the strength you need. Just have faith in him and follow him no matter what. There will be tough times on this earth but by being with Jesus you've all you need to survive. Matthew 6: 25-34 “Therefore I tell you, do not be anxious about your life, what you will eat or what you will drink, nor about your body, what you will put on. Is not life more than food, and the body more than clothing? 26 Look at the birds of the air: they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns, and yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? 27 And which of you by being anxious can add a single hour to his span of life?[a] 28 And why are you anxious about clothing? Consider the lilies of the field, how they grow: they neither toil nor spin, 29 yet I tell you, even Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. 30 But if God so clothes the grass of the field, which today is alive and tomorrow is thrown into the oven, will he not much more clothe you, O you of little faith? 31 Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all. 33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. 34 “Therefore do not be anxious about tomorrow, for tomorrow will be anxious for itself. Sufficient for the day is its own trouble.

[@glafiix_]

Omg the older couples melted my heart.❤️

[@zoraidacastro5403]

My Parents had this Magikkkkkk!!!!! 50 years of marriage...

[@librad7689]

Love is an attraction between 2 people and it should flow naturally nothing you can do extra is going to change that, just be U

[@AM-oq6cf]

Those men are real and from a different more respectful generation!!! No comparison to men today!

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

😍❤🌷💑

[@ChilliBibi001]

I wish I could like this comment a million times!!!

[@rebeccacharles7725]

💯

[@nyahhbinghi]

and what happened since 1950 (ahem women's lib ahem)?

[@tonydivilly1648]

Want a good guy of your own generation you should probably look where you normally don't ;) Good place to start is find an asshole and look for the dudes who don't like that particular asshole.

[@ArchangelGuidance]

Fall in love with your true self and you will fight men/women off. Tried and true tested

[@lynnmcintyre8116]

Hi hunny I listen to you all the time and yes you are so right it starts with us. Love yourself and the rest shall follow. Blessings from the UK xxxx

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

😍❤

[@debrabish1494]

So Right

[@mmommo2025]

nice, love that

[@Atheria444]

Unless you live in NM and are older....OMG it's bad.

[@marciloni12]

A man doesn’t need ANYTHING to fall in love with a woman. He just does.

[@abbybella2884]

marciloni12 correct

[@tiger1lily]

marciloni12 thank you! We don’t choose who we fall in love with. Our brain is waaaaay smarter than us.

[@muezzathestray750]

That part

[@shalomhope7206]

Here faith is counted

[@Ms_Oszy]

Did you ask why they did?

[@lavayuki]

Cleaning his house? I would never do that for someone unless I was married to them

[@kikifreese7000]

Lava Yuki i would never do that period. Men need to learn to clean to after themselves.

[@bluetopaz9264]

I’ve tried this with a guy I was dating since I got up earlier and needed something to do and he got offended

[@bebetigre1252]

I would never clean the house for someone I am not married too and house is in my name.

[@ganymeade5151]

He should help you clean. At least clean up after himself.

[@GeminieCricket]

I would imagine he thinks you are really snooping, not cleaning, if you clean his house without permission.

[@shannonbest106]

1) Be real 2) Be honest 3) Love him for who he is today , tomorrow and what he learned from yesterday. BTW … no games.

[@MrEmichan]

I didn't make my ex win my affection. He didn't have to earn me. I realise that was a mistake now, but at the time, I thought giving him affection would result in him appreciating me. How wrong I was! I've been way too scared to date as I want to do a complete and thorough autopsy on the failed relationship and figure out how to initiate and maintain a healthy and loving relationship. I will never settle for anything less than perfect. (I'm talking about someone I'm not compromising my self worth for. ). I'd much rather be alone and happy than with someone and feeling small.

[@keonagirl435]

Amen and you shouldn't

[@Bodangers]

Becareful when you are analyzing your old relationship. When I did it close to the time we seperated, i was blaming myself for a lot of things

[@MrEmichan]

@@Bodangers thanks. I'm not blaming myself like I did while I was with him. Counselling has helped. My focus is on recognising the red flags.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I am single need wife 😍💑

[@linuxpython935]

Define "perfect". In my opinion, nobody is perfect, also no woman. So one of the things I've learnt is to accept and forgive. Not everything, but a lot.

[@FreedomEscapismASMR]

If a man thinks a woman is desperate if she is nice to them, then those guys are arseholes. To Hell with these hollow-bellied eunuchs. A real man appreciates the efforts a woman makes.

[@sweetp1512]

That makes a woman look desperate....can't you see that. Some things are better earned that way you really know they want it

[@FreedomEscapismASMR]

@@sweetp1512Being nice makes a woman look desperate? Lmfao pmsl. Stfu. It's important to be authentic, who you really are. A good woman will never stop being caring and kind, a decent human being. If a man thinks a woman is desperate because she is being lovely and generous and he keeps taking from her, he is a scumbag and parasite.

[@peppermintpatty180]

@@FreedomEscapismASMR unfortunately the above commenter is nice. Men legit see a girl that is nice as desperate. There's a reason why rude women get men that'll die for them

[@FreedomEscapismASMR]

@@peppermintpatty180 I stand by what I said: a real man appreciates the efforts a woman makes. The type of men who call nice women desperate are not real men. They are horrible and deserve to be with a woman as horrible as him. Horrible men don't deserve nice women. To Hell with these immature pathetic men. There is a book called "The Real Rules" by Barbara De Angelis, which is worth reading, It's an antidote to the crap called "The rules".

[@lucrecepatrick9234]

There's a difference between being kind hearted and being stupid. It's not about being rude or nice. It's about being real. First of all, real to yourself.

[@boorat3573]

My man fell in love with me first & a couple months later I did too. We didn’t meet yet either but we texted & called each other & made a very strong connection! Now we have met after 9 months of texting & he wants to marry me! He never wanted to ever marry either! He invested his time in me & perused me. That’s what I did on my own without any relationship coach videos or anything just on my own with common sense!

[@vivhiggins5656]

True!

[@avgonyma1]

What it takes for a high quality guy to fall madly in love with you: (What men need from a woman to be happy) 1. Help him to tap into his emotional side. (Guys struggle with being emotionally intimate. He needs to feel he can be himself with you. Men can't stand to feel pressured into talking and opening. You should just be interested in his goals and purposes. He needs to feel that you're standing by their side and opening up.) Show interest in a man's purpose. He will feel more powerful, invincible. He will associate being his best self with being with you. You will encourage him to pursue his passion and be supportive. 2. He considers being with you a safe space. And be able to feel peace when he comes home. You need to show him you're at peace with yourself and exude a peaceful energy. Be relaxed. Transfer this calm energy, it's like connecting to an animal, where you can not use words. Look your man directly in the eyes when you're talking. Be present. Just care about what he's saying. Don't look at the phone. Don't interrupt them. 3. He needs to win your affection. To feel as though they hit the lottery by being with you. Don't overcompensate from the begining (cooking elaborate meals, buying him gifts, cleaning his house, being generous, making it too easy for him). Women hold the power. Give him some room: let him plan the dates, let him call you, you need to be super successful, and not want to settle. He will fight for you. Use this advice: 1. Meet a great guy. Stay calm and relaxed, let him come to you. 2. After you've spent some time together, you show him that being with you feels safe, peaceful, calm. You can listen to him, being fully present. You can help him connect with his emotional side and support him. Men can fall deeply in love with an exceptional woman.

[@Innerdiamond]

that is the KEY

[@deekshasingh3035]

Thanks to people like you who comment this n it saves tons of time!

[@fuckkkinghell5797]

Thanks

[@avgonyma1]

@@fuckkkinghell5797 you're welcome. 😀

[@shl9275]

Thank you so much I needed it.

[@sherrytennyson5951]

Don't need to hear. One truth written in stone. Some men are incapable of true love. Wired

[@Atheria444]

YEP.

[@sawneybean8011]

Warning Don't click on the "Free Presentation" button it's nothing more that this Guy going on and on and on and on and on. He sure likes the sound of his own voice. For the women out there here is a piece of sound advice stay clear from videos made by men who just want your money.

[@minervacarlospereira6503]

I know 😅

[@mirandabisnou1307]

HEAR HEAR!!!👍🏼💞

[@bigfan2541]

Haha 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😆😆😆😆😆😆🤣🤣🤣🤣 laughing alot. I am a male and I totally agree with you. He is a dating Coach taking money 💰💰💰💰🤑🤑🤑 from Females.

[@oliviah.4741]

I've done all these things with no positive outcome.

[@sabrinatoglia4729]

I hear you!!!

[@wixielane8513]

😂

Seek therapy ASAP.

[@Kari_Michele]

Same here. I came to the conclusion that I attracted and loved the wrong men, that’s all. They were low-vibrational but they still fell in love with me. I gotta continue to heal my daddy issues & level up so that I can attract better quality men.

[@masoumehlashgari1833]

Oh man , is there any job more difficult than to be a woman ?

[@masoumehlashgari1833]

Pistanbroke I meant only the aspect that a woman apparently has to do constantly the things that pleases the man and the man only does whenever he likes doing it 😃 . That sounds a bit unfair !

[@simianmilonga5134]

@@masoumehlashgari1833 Such videos overly simplify the matter as each person can be so different. Maybe the take-away message of this video for you is that you don't want a man who would respond to this kind of script. Perfectly fine, there are other men out there.

[@linuxpython935]

Yes... to be a man.

[@NicoleQuimper]

its not that difficult, this videomaking guy wants to complicate things for women and women to chase guys its stupid. All his advice sucks. A guy knows if he wants to be your boyfriend in the first MINUTES of interaction usually. I read its about 4 minutes. This channel is bs. While we get these dumb videos of how to accommodate to a man, guys look up sadistic narcissistic tactics to seduce women and abuse them emotionally to manipulate them into having sex. Just look up the male equivalent of these videos and you'll be disgusted and think this channel is upside down and stupid. ist all man based and it sucks.

[@jenethdsouza]

😂

[@t.l1357]

The secret has always been to hold yourself to high standards. Got it!

[@linuxpython935]

I'd say hold everyone, including yourself, to equally high standards. That should create a win-win situation.

[@dona4him942]

Yeah, it's called self-respect. Thank you for this! You have just confirmed what many other health professionals have been saying all along. And this was an awesome reminder of what I have been through when I was a child. 🎗️ My parents were VERY TOXIC individuals and self- distruction was was what I was conditioned to do, or else ! ..... This was a severe form of child abuse and they had no business raising children in that home!! Neither did my grand parents on my mother's side of the family, and some of my Aunts & Uncles. Quite personally, I wish us kids were adopted into very loving homes where the parents actually cared about the kids and not just themselves. It was a very sad situation l and I really wish child protective services actually existed back then. Shame, shame, SHAME ON THEM!!!! 😠

[@kikifreese7000]

I've always encouraged my bfs to pursue their passions. So they pursued other women 🙄😑😞🤮 I'm done being supportive if all that happens is i get backstabbed.

[@Angel-tv5lq]

Kiki Freese wow....omg. I’m exactly the same. One thing I’ve learned is that when you trust a guy and you push/support - which ever as they’re essentially both the same thing - them to have their own life aswell as a life with you then they take that as a green light to go exchange bodily fluids with any amount of other females...and usually females who would give them a dogs life if they were in a relationship with any of them and who would also keep him on his toes because of how he met her and got her so easily 🤦🏼‍♀️ What is it with guys - do they not realise that they have been given the most amazing gift a partner could ever give....which is freedom to have ‘guy time’ and trust to go with it 😳 I honestly thought it was just me. I’m so glad I saw your post, obviously I feel for you but wtf....you’re the 1st person I’ve ever come across who’s said that. 😳🙌🏼 🤦🏼‍♀️ Are you by chance a Scorpio or do you have Scorpio Aries and/or Leo in your sun, moon and/or rising sign??? Just curious to see if there’s a connection of sorts between our personality as dictated by the main placing in a personal Horoscope.🙌🏼🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Z3X5N7]

Bummer.

[@lilacbirman]

I mean this in the most loving manner; perhaps your "picker" is off. Maybe change the type of men you're picking. I'm probably way the heck older than most here and have always dated guys who treated me with respect and kindness. My friends would always say "How come the guys you date are always great and the ones I date turn out to be scumbags?!" Yep, I think it's the" picker".

[@Angel-tv5lq]

lilac G I agree with you....it all depends on you. I realised that very early on in my life. However I have to stand by my original comment in that I’m so easy going and just let guys have their freedom, pushed them to....but in saying that I’m a bloodhound and seek out deception which is probably the only reason I found it. My ex’s cooked, cleaned, watched the kids, did the school run and gave me the absolute world....all of them. They loved me....adored me even....seemingly unconditionally. They behaved as an adoring lapdog would.....but in encouraging them to have a life they took it as a green light. Go figure. I can’t say I’ve been treated badly as I wasn’t but to me that was bad enough to kick them to the kerb. If I was consistently mistreated verbally and physically I would then look within myself.....but I wasn’t mistreated....in that was I not the person I am I would never have known and life wudve been perfect. Maybe I shouldn’t have looked. Who knows 🤷‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

[@Bodangers]

Keep being supportive but draw the line. Let them know what you want out of a relationship and if he doesnt follow he should tell you.

[@Alyson542]

I feel like all videos like these do is teach women how to play a game men aren't playing anymore. They're literally getting everything they want without having to make any compromises, so really why would they want to commit? I appreciate the content dating coaches create, I just feel like this type of content further perpetuates situations where women put in all the work and men just coast on by because they can. Maybe someone ought to teach men how to be men at this point

[@mette1983]

totally agree!

[@ronnielola6594]

Please my fellow women.... true love doesn't ask why? ...just stay true to yourself... There will always be that special person who will appreciate you the way you are.... Its so exhausting to be the second you... Just for the sake of having or pleasing another human being in your life. Self-worthy and self love is more important. Bisous

[@hs8shsubjsishejw747]

Yes l with you

[@lucrecepatrick9234]

Yes. All these dos or don't dos, really ? When will we just have the right to be real? You could do all the right stuff. But if it's the wrong guy it won't work. Period.

[@carla888]

What about... what do we need to fall in love with a man?🤔

[@krystalcarey]

I'm with you. I seriously cannot find a man I'm willing to make any time for. 🤮 Where are these high quality men? Getting a man is EASY. Finding one I want, that's the HARD PART!

[@Yeah.No.]

GET HIM CARLA !!!🤔👆👏👏👏

[@briana14333]

Don't do it! It is not instant for us ladies like it is for men. And if we do fall first, it is usually with a man that will hurt us. Find someone who you like and get along great with and wants the best for you. I think you will grow to love him deeply by his ability to provide and protect or whatever values are important to you.

[@debscott7580]

Good advice. I left home in my late teens sad and lonely and with extremely low self esteem and was grateful for any attention i got. As a result the men i attracted did not value me the way i wanted and needed to be valued, It was only after i realised i needed to project that i valued myself, and had needs and expectations of my own, that i attracted that great quality guy who has valued me and stood by me for much longer than i expected or care to tell you

[@florencezoi2396]

" Heaven and earth shall pass away: but my words shall not pass away. " Jesus in Mark 13:31

[@babyyarborough8053]

Amen

[@latiahumphries3817]

A man knows what he wants the whole time- he should put the effort for the women to secure her in all ways so she knows she is not alone, ever wondering or questioning his loyalty, love and trust in their relationship that is supposed to be courting to serious to eventually marriage because both parties are on the same page. People stop wasting time on relationships that have been over before you could even accept it is emotionally over. There is nothing wrong with loving someone, but there is something wrong for a person to allow you to love them knowing they dont love you in return.

[@creepydoll8351]

Exactly

[@boorat3573]

Awwww that's so sweet! My lover & future husband calls me "my love" & he's the love of my life. He's jogging, tanning say's to be a better man for me to cherrish... I already do. He's absolutely perfect as is to me. He's 31, I'm 52 ❤️

[@isabellejourdan]

I met him a year ago and both of us have never felt such deep love and passion before. He told me that and I told him. He said how good he felt when being with me. He loved the peaceful home I created for myself. His passion was wildlife photography and I asked him more about it. He really opened up when he could talk about it and show me his art work. On so many levels we were in sync. Then he started bread-crumbing and ghosting me. I then made the mistake described in step 3. He broke up with me three weeks ago. Damn, that hurts!

[@zambagamongolian5747]

Happiness comes within you. Not with a guy.

[@adeagbaje5881]

Amen

[@SatumainenOlento]

It is 50/50 work to have a relationship. Match man's input. If he send you a text, you send one back. He gives you a call, you give him a call. High quality man is ready to work on the relationship, because he knows what he wants. Be the same, but meet them on the 50 yard line with the effort and energy put in. Don't go 80% when he is only doing 20%.

[@b.j7314]

I’m not completely sure they make couples like that anymore

[@thehilaryglow]

You're right, they don't.

[@katherinejoy9048]

Oh but they do

[@mrc7627]

Feminism wanted to be equal right there you go

[@flyandshy00]

How about reversing it and men bring peace for women since women work harder and is a weaker sex, also are paid 5x less.

[@tatycrfull]

Never gonna happen sis

[@flyandshy00]

rcrevoltac it happens all the time. Have you heard about housewives that married rich men? If you’re stingy doesn’t mean everyone is

[@azenkwed]

You are deluded. Enjoy your solitude.

[@catdeme454]

Seriously its all about how to please men at the end of the day and that's just so damn tiring. I have become an unapologetic Queen. Learn how to deal with me. They never appreciate jumping hoops for them anyway - like never. As soon as I wanted to leave a man cuz I couldn't put up with his shit......he proposes cuz acting in a nice way he also believes that you will never leave him.

[@-H4mburger-]

Ladies don't listen to none sense. Focus on what you want, need, loving you, enjoying yourself. I see all the time men being with the apposite of all this if a man is mature and love you it truly doesn't matter what you do or don't.

[@lauragrace4388]

Finally everything my mother taught me ive picked up on her love for my Father

[@milicas.4534]

That is way I am a single woman I don't play games ..if a man has no self respect he can't respect me SIMPLE no games it's all about communication to what we love in our life not a needy I am a wanty and I create my life....you are truly amazing in your info..Bravo

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I love u forever really i like u merry with me i am single 💑😍❤🌷

[@mapulem6795]

Thank you sir, for your advice! I had my ahaaaaa moment today regarding relationships. I was in a very long relationship previously but broke it off because he didn't want to get married. I understand the "dating game" I think I'm equipped to date again. It took me 3yrs to heal and I'm grateful, because I have learned my lesson. I feel whole again and you confirmed my suspicion on the mistake I made. This is my last KZbin video regarding relationships, thank you.🙏🏼💙🙏🏼

[@dashiajames1882]

1. Open up his feelings Show interest in his hobbies, passions, mind..etc. 2. Make him feel safe Stay present, give your full attention..just make him feel relaxed 3. He needs to win your affection Be a high- value women.

[@juliapurdy3950]

So... your first two examples are elders who have stayed together through thick and thin. And in each, the wife gently counters his enthusiasm with a realistic comment ("The war years were hell"). Younger people need to learn this. Trust is EARNED as much as DESERVED. Make no mistake, you are interviewing these older folks at the end of a lifetime of ups and downs and a fidelity that seems highly rare these days. I am just a little younger than they are, and I know that they fell in love in a time in our cultural history that was a LOT more trusting and innocent in a way.

[@GoodThingsEtc]

thank you for being authentic and for not making dating a chase or a game.! I have been single for 3 years and I am happy and enjoying life and Now I am ready to move forward in the next stage of my life! I never realized my true self until I divorced and now I am learning how to relate to men on healthy level! My BFF and I talk about love all the time, and I share with her all the videos on dating coaches. I think everyone is on guard so now its learning about my projection! Much appreciated! Stay safe!

[@teresaolofson8187]

He Will See his best SELF with BEING With YOU. Help Him to Tap into his Emotional Side: without him feeling pressured Why behind his Purpose. Why his purpose is so important to him. In his goals. See you as someone standing by his side.

[@stephanieshindo7537]

I think Bethany was so kind and generous and she just needed to be with someone kind and generous just as much as her

[@hsuontaa]

There are way too many men that have turned overly into their feminine energy, and this kind of a man constantly fears that the woman will not listen to his emotions and support him, and this fear then activates every time the woman starts sharing about her emotions. This event only activates a deep need/trigger for him to go into contest of being weak and heard and supported by the feminine (to not AGAIN be deprived of his emotional space and expression) and all her emotion expression right away is too much for him, he takes it personally, and it leads him to constanly feeling a burnout in listening to her emotions. His cup is always already full. It is like suddenly there are 2 women in the relationship. If you follow the advice in this video you will support him in stepping into his feminine and in excess this will lead towards what I just described. The world is in over excess currently with men like this due to failed motherhood. We need men to take the man's role in the relationship, that is the polar opposite of the woman's. The masculine energy that creates a safe space for the feminine to express her feelings, hold space for her to do this, not feel threatened by it or start expressing his own feelings to drown her expression of hers. When he does this, intimacy grows, and it will make her more able to listen to his feelings when he needs that support. But I would be really careful not to do this too often, to not strain the relationship dynamics too much. If this is done the wrong way, the man being the first expressing his feelings and just expecting the woman to take it in, without preparing the dynamic like I mentioned, it will repulse many women, leaving them feeling like a mother in the relationship, like a baby on their breast. And on a subconscious level it will make her feel like there is no security, strength and no masculine energy in him to turn her on, and the sexual desire from her side towards him will suffer. The tension between, the tension created by 2 polar opposites, the game of the feminine and masculine energy will suffer, the beautiful dance between the man and the woman, the nourishment of the relationship between a man and a woman. We need more men to step in as masculines, strong and independent in the world today, there is a shortage of these due to problems is the mother relationship when growing up, and that is why this video is not helping, it has the potential to make things worse. Of course this kind of a relationship initially makes the man happy, but it does not mean this happiness will activate him to step up into the masculine role within the relationship, and if he doesn't in turn make her woman happy by stepping into that role, well, we all know why there then are so many nagging women, asexual women (women who are not craving for sex but just giving it to their men, occasionally), and divorces. And why these divorces are very often filed by women, while the men have no idea why, they thought they were just living a relatively comfy life together. Men need to not stay in the comfy place, men need to stand up from that comfiness and do work. Offer to make the woman happy with constant and appropriate action. Once there are children involved, it will become even worse if the man doesn't step up into his role of the masculine provider. This is why so many women say, that once they had children, it started feeling like the man was just another child for them to tend to.

[@sophiechanson2662]

Very interesting! Glad I read it. I think I like your version better. Especially bcs I experienced relations where it turned out like you described it. Thanks a lot

[@geetu1]

I met two men that were absolute drama queens and sucked the life force out of me. I was there for them supporting them but when I was going through a stressful event they jumped ship, so it doesn’t always work

[@adamola2105]

Encourage him for his passions. This really works though it doesn't guarantee that he is gonna choose you but he will at least recognize that you care about him

[@renedabailey5674]

I found my twin flame soulmate. It just comes from the devine.

[@d.marieandrews8007]

"RIB-MAN/BONE" - (ADAM'S DRY, DRY, SKIN/BONES)💔😭 "SOUL-MATE" - NEEEED HIM!!!!♥️🤗

[@beboundless7897]

Congratulations, I’m so happy for you!

[@nichole7600]

(1. Ask him about his passion, purpose & why achieving those things ?

[@sportsport1654]

He can fall in love as fast as fall out of love. If he trully fall in love with your personality he will stay in love. Same goes for women. Real and true connection

[@sandrasalinas9787]

The elderly couple touched me aww

[@charliemaxa312]

My husband and I would've been married 29years!?. This week. But I've been blessed again. This man is everything I want and more. I feel truly thankful. He's wonderful and I'm really happy!?. Thanks for the love you have given me?. Second chance.🙏🥰

[@maryng-qui-sang3305]

Great!! GOOD ADVISE !! JASON LOTS of women need 2 hear this. We women need 2 wake up!! IVE LEARNED SO MUCH FROM THESE VIDEO..

[@veroortega5026]

Great to watch your videos, because I'm from Mexico and I see that men in the whole world will always appreciate a woman that respects herself, my partner was from UK and it's the same in every country I know, strong men love strong women who respect themselves. Cheers!!!

[@Angel-tv5lq]

@S Maberry I wouldn’t change anything about who you are. Most ppl have been hurt very deeply in love because it’s extremely normal for 1 partner to love much more than the other and most ppl mess around, run around with others, cheat....b4 they hit 30. Most ppl are not with the one they will spend the rest of their lives with while they’re in their late teens to late twenty’s, they may have met that person.....’the one’ and had that spark of attraction but it won’t be until they’re in their early 30’s that they truly appreciate a good man/woman. If this person isn’t giving you their all and you’re in your late 20’s - early 30’s or older....then walk. Many ppl - mainly guys - use excuses of past relationships to manipulate current relationships...it’s just manipulation, pure and simple....it’s part of their game plan/strategy whatever you choose to call it. It’s so they can get the best out of you without having to give you the best of themselves. In some cases when you pull away, the other person may feel that sense of loss and realise that they genuinely miss you and that while they were ‘playing the game’ - you sneaked in to their heart without them realising it. That person will fight to get you back. If they don’t then you lost nothing as you cannot lose what you never had. But bottom line is - don’t fall in the trap of being his emotional and ‘on standby’ option. You should definitely love and respect yourself enough to realise when you’re simply an option or a stand in for when the ‘real deal’ comes along....if you don’t then you need to take a step back to view the relationship objectively....and while doing that you should take a chunk of the love you’ve been showering them with and use it to reboot your own self in respect of confidence etc. Some ppl just aren’t the one no matter how much you want them to be ‘the one’. You’ll know when you’ve met ‘the one’, because they’ll be as happy as you are to wake up next to you and spend another day with you. Good luck

[@jenniferawiah3664]

I've never cheated on any of the men I've been with. I respect myself enough that I'd never allow that to happen. I realize that I'm in the minority on this, but wanted to point out that we do exist.

[@Angel-tv5lq]

Jennifer Holwell oh...most definitely. I totally agree as I’ve never cheated, never had a one night stand and have been a very focused parent of 4 from a very young age.🙌🏼

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I love u really i like u relation with me i alone Single 💑❤😍🌷

[@GTO.007]

This is the best ever comment I have ever seen in all the dating coaching KZbin comment boxes

[@hannastenros6009]

Beware lovely ladies, some men only get angrier the more you serve them. Do not sacrifice everything for your husband only to discover that 20 years later he runs away with a noncaring younger selfobsessed woman.

[@lucacolouredin]

This safety and caring thing is something that my boyfriend tells me a lot. He often times says that he likes the way I listen to him or when he's stressed out just hug him and hold him until he wants to talk about what went wrong and I think that's pretty cool, because I feel much closer to him through holding him for a while and yh xD

[@southernkatrina8161]

Hope he returns the favor to you...

[@elizabethdevries8028]

"Being present in the moment" is not a "hippy dippy term". I listen to your video's A LOT and like them. This one time I am incredibly turned off. Look, I'm in psych. professionally (doulbe M.S.), for 30 years and have done my own work in therapy off an on as people NEED to do, just like people NEED to get yearly physical check ups. In other words, I CONSTANTLY work on myself so I am can be a happy, healthy person but also, a good psychotherapist. SO, all that being said: "being present in the moment" is many thousands of years old and it refers to meditation and sometimes Yoga. In Harvard studies meditation, yoga, "being present in the moment" AKA: being mindful, helps ease anxiety. That is HARVARD, not just "hippy dippy". PLEASE: since you are making these video's...VALIDATE your information by letting your viewers know to access Harvard studies on anxiety or how to "be in the moment" and how the abiliity to do that helps not just to attract a man, it TRULY helps anyone who gets to have this time with anyone will to "be present in the moment". There are psych. studies about "holding space" just after a trauma that is important...

[@SatumainenOlento]

Yes, exactly! That was the comment which made me mad also. Being present for other human being in nearly the requirement for being human. At least if you want to be a good one and build up meaningful relationships with other human beings at all...Having a "relationship" coach saying "being present for others" sounding like hippy dippy is totally absurd and makes me question any advice given in this channel again. Only way to remedy this is to dive deep in and make a video about "how important is being present for others in relationships". Remember, you must preach only what you understand so deep dive into understanding what "holding space/being present for others" really means. And that will be one of the most meaningful adventures and discoveries in your life. Good luck and enjoy the journey!!!

[@Dimitra-z5e]

If someone want me as I am is welcome if not life continues. I'm not going to waste time from my life again. I'm 43 years old I know what I want and who I am. I want a peaceful relationship with honest, trust and understanding. Thank you for your advices.

[@RosyLife79]

Don’t just have sex with anyone to have sex. It literally binds your soul to that person. That’s cheapens it. And spreads yourself thin. It’s the nature of the innate intimacy , or design of sex. The mistake or lie people believe is that sex isn’t as sacred and so they use it without the boundaries anything sacred is designed to have and so by the design is how one should look at sex and why it was created in the first place so to speak. Thank you for helping others with what you know! 🙏🏻

[@wshelby83]

Hannah you’re absolutely right!!!

[@queensandybrown2407]

This video is so sweet real love grows deeper when you care and love someone as you do yourself. Thank you

[@creativeraven2222]

What you describe with slowing down the breath and being with an animal is a mindfulness technique. A way to be present and in the now.

[@christinam777]

I relate to Bethany. Im 43 and still having to learn all this. Sometimes I think Im holding back but this seems to happen even if I think Im safe after they get all excited about me and tell me they're in love etc. Once I open my heart and let down my guard Im in trouble. I wish I had really held back and not trusted them when they told me I was safe to totally open up my heart. I kindof feel that after my divorce and all of the next broken hearts I just dont have it in me to start agaibln new.

[@mirandabisnou1307]

TRUE LOVE just happens!! Enough said.

[@debscott7580]

but it is like planting a seed in garden, find out as much as you can about it first, don't plant it if you are not really sure you want it , choose carefully or it might turn out to be a weed, and once you have chosen if he is still as keen, nurture that relationship in every way you can without debasing yourself in his eyes in any way

[@roserdh1]

You are so great! I love this advice about finding a man to have a true connection and not these “how to manipulate” a man into falling in love.

[@Rattelcat8365]

This actually is what I needed to hear

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

😍❤single here

[@daisystar77]

I’m a successful woman with her own business, attractive, humorous, etc. So I’m not frustrated or something. But I wanted show the guy, that I have the quality to be a wife-material.. and I did most of the mistakes you listed 🙈

[@MsCody000]

This is precious information. It helps with any kind of relationship; it doesn't stop at a romantic partnership, but it can be useful also in a relationship with a friend or a colleague, or a stranger. There are things you said that really apply in day-to-day life. Thank you so much.

[@LadyD1979]

In other words a man needs a mom

[@Abby-wf5bu]

LadyD1979 🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

LadyD1979, you look stunning ❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌺and I will be happy to know you

[@angiemarcum-rettig4691]

@LadyD1979 I agree with your statement! I noticed that about the 2 different mama boys, that I dated at a time once in my life many years ago, I specifically would tell them the first day we met my first thing out of my mouth was I hate to cook! I cook for 3 men ONLY, my sons! So don’t expect for me to cook dinner for u, that’s why you have your mama go home to her if you wanna eat!

[@bolotabr12]

😂

[@mrc7627]

Mother's are the man first love Dads too

[@Haru_Miu]

By the way, I cooked for my BF and he was HOOKED so this isn’t entirely true.

[@debscott7580]

i'm sure there was a lot more that he loved about you than your cooking, i think the point is don't work too hard to win a guy who may not be worth it

[@LisaGemini]

You are blessed to have Kathy, supporting you in your profession. That's so important to a guy! Thanks for all your advice and...Merry Christmas to you and your family.

[@MuhammadImran-ln4fz]

I need u really ❤😍🌷

[@annajones1396]

Yes, but it has to be both ways

[@treedance1]

Many women try to control what paths men take yet women want it be both ways yet driven one sided.

[@kikifreese7000]

Andrew Ashton - WOLF leave. This channel isn't for you. It's for women.

[@miffedmicrobiologist6595]

No I don’t think so. Saying it has to be both ways means you’re in someone else’s business. You’re demanding someone else’s behavior when you only have control of your own behavior. Interestingly enough when you act in the way described here, others mirror it back to you. Drop the word “should “ from your vocabulary and watch how the world changes.

[@annajones1396]

@@miffedmicrobiologist6595 So you don't think a man should be equally supportive of a woman's dreams and ambitions????

[@miffedmicrobiologist6595]

Pam Bennett I don’t really care if a man is supportive or not. Honestly. What he does is his business not mine. Why should I demand he be supportive of my goals and dreams ? If he isn’t then by definition we are not a good match so we would naturally not be together. No demands just reality. I’m supportive of my OWN goals and dreams and don’t need a man to be anything but himself. I believe freedom as a foundation to any good relationship. I’ve learned looking for needs in others just ends up in frustration and disappointment

[@MHobbs43]

I'm a bit concerned that there is no room for being human in this plan. We need to make allowances for our imperfections. It can't just be the women showing empathy and accepting the man, it needs to go both ways. Maybe a video on identifying true empathy in a partner?

[@milenazhang1871]

I do not need too many instructions which will cause confussion. Love is simple, respect/care/understand each other. respect: loyalty is the basic respect. do not cheat. care: let your lover feel you sincerity. understand: try to think questions in your lover's standpoint. The right lover will not confuse you.

[@lupelecue3472]

I did this twice and they grew strong mentally and drivin they took off with other women .

[@Kari_Michele]

Wow I naturally do/did these things. But I was with the wrong men who were broken with too much baggage. Now I see why they fell for me. I just need to work more on my outer appearance and slim down so that I can attract better quality men.

[@Amethyst454]

I like the addition of these clips in the beginning of the video.

[@knowlightknowright]

I realize I have daddy issues because my dad was volatile and sometimes violent. He never hit me but he scared us a lot so as an adult I kept attracting narcissistic people like my dad. I need to break this cycle!!!

[@anitadenton4353]

This video made me realise why I am single and happy!! Too much effort for very little return nah!! Enlightenment empowerment and girl power rock way more. Nanaste men hunters!

[@raeven1200]

I needed the peace talk.

[@impalabirungi6079]

You are right. I am uncaring and i have left scars on those who met me. I don't even call men. They call me.

[@meiyokechan5697]

You are one in a mliion to really appreciate your wife being supportive etc.. Sad to say there are many men who easily forget!

[@catherinehooks3064]

Dr Steve can actually help you attract someone you really love the most and want in your life. He once helped me and can help you too. Believe me I'm not bragging or trying to make unnecessary comment here, this was what really happened to me. he helped me attract (Jeremy) the guy I wanted in my life the most.

[@catherinehooks3064]

What sApp him

[@marysmith3547]

BLABLABLA!You can't control love, it just happens naturally!!!

[@heide-raquelfuss5580]

It happens naturally! But when you want a healthy relationship and keep the love alive, until death...You need to know, some knowhow! Otherwise it fades away😉

[@krystalcarey]

Wow! This is probably all true, but it seems like an awful lot of work. I have men chasing me constantly. Guaranteed it is 100% because I could care less if he is around at all.

[@Demi.d3mi]

The last point is sooo important. Its the feminine energy to sit back and make the judgement on the guys. When you give all your love to him without any courtship from his side, he will feel smothered and wont appreciate you. This is important to finding someone good for you. Its feminine energy to receive and not chase after guys!

[@mclyte20]

The elder generation had a much different collective societal perspective which is lost in today's generation. Men and women of today's generation couldn't hold a candle in regards to a quality relationship the way these older people did in the past.

[@sharonmccartney8866]

I feel your information is so amazing.. my future husband and i have a great relationship because we share our feelings to please each other ..❤

[@shootergal5]

To that saying, behind every great man? Is a great woman...the ying and yang of love and two people that move to be one... It's magic if you let it be so.

[@dianaolivarez4444]

I believe I am my best self, my truest self, when I'm with you.

[@Calidore1]

Very true, you must be kind to him. If he’s so crap he won’t work enough for you then you don’t need to bother.

[@splitraven7060]

I see your message as reciprocity. You’re completely accurate as I am experiencing what your coaching shares to this very day!! A guy I met on birthday just under a year ago became emotionally vulnerable last night. His vulnerability was beautiful and something I’ve never experienced. He wants to spend the night with me. His message is from his heart 💜. He lives St. Pete beach and he’s hit on all the time from the beach chicks as he says of which is true lol. Last time I visited since my birthday September 2020, was Memorial Day weekend 2021, he and the bar tenders said you’ll be back in two weeks 🥰. All are great folks!! My schedule is booked by friends every weekend. My life is full like Jason shares.

[@littlemissy8356]

Thank you. Women truly think men think the way they do. They don't. Painful things.

[@rona2843]

My bf is younger than me. Now he is disconnected with me...I am not so sure about the real reasons......I only wish him all the best and wish him to success in his business. I also would like to thank for your advice.

[@carieyounginsurance]

My honey baby....awe!

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Carie Young, you are always beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹🌹

[@lorisanchez1613]

Lol..I'm a Hippy always first and foremost. Energy transference is normal...no animosity and chaos. Just peaceful love!♥️

[@honestlyme4247]

Yeah I encourage my husband and compliment him a lot. He doesn’t give much of it back. An example of a one-sided marriage.

[@khalebzionjeandra1667]

Tell him what makes you feel loved, what Is your love language as Dr. Gary Chapman always talk about. Honest Communication is the key and of course always remember God loves you like no one will ever do, and when we have a true encounter with our Heavenly Father His love fills our love tank in order to know how to love God and then how to love our closest neighbour (spouse) as we love ourselves no matter what we face in life. The best Is Yet to come for you and your marriage!

[@ohmycar4987]

I'm 64,the man 60.After 14 years friendship I'm just realized I love him,very much.He is very kind,helpfull,he do lots of lots of faver for me.If we text he looks like love in me eighter.But I want know truelly what is his feiling. We was couple times angry,he shut the door and left,but lather he just text me again.What I see he have a sangvinic temper.I love him very much,and I dont want loose him.I passionately love ,what can I to do,help the situation,and know what is his feiling about me?My son told me,just leave him alone,because,that is not more like a good friendship 🙄♥️

[@ms.dianeford4615]

Listen to Your Son. If this man cares for & about You he will promise to not leave when he's angry. You two should be talking over any problems. Also forget about Love it's all about Respect. Peace, joy, health & love Ms. D.

[@gazingatthestars6610]

If guys are not interested in you, they really don't want to know that "you're there for them" lol....best to not be around lol

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[@joana.6736]

I find your videos getting better every time. Please have also plus size models in your clips-snippets. Because we are all different, and any size have deep love.

[@thehilaryglow]

I tried to help him to tap with his emotional side. But I didn't know he was a narcissist, so it made him feel like I was so sensitive that he could play me. My emotions made him reply with resent and he played mind games on me. I want to find someone to build up and support, but that just can't be a narcissist. He sees goodness as a weakness to be taking advantage of.

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[@robynedward125]

When I first talked with him over the phone our first conversation I felt myself falling for him before we touched he talked about if he had a gf he'd be making sweet sweet love and the one I thought it was pretty deep and seemed flirty that was way before things happened before things happened lol. Some of the vids so sweet lol aww I hope to find that who knows lol I bought him a gift at cologne his fav cologne over 2 yrs It's not like it's new lol my problem is moving too fast in relationships I just go with the flow with him.

[@oscarwilliamson1264]

Robyn Edward, you look stunning ❤️❤️❤️❤️ and I will be happy to know you