If He's Acting Distant, Breadcrumbing You Or Pulling Away, Do These 3 Things - With

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

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[@taiwoosanyin5751]

An avoidant will quietly take away your breath. Never lose your peace for anything. Choose those who choose you. Match their energy by quietly walking away. Don't give anyone the power to make you miserable and confused to the point of almost loosening yourself. Keep discovering yourself and your passion.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here - I agree! 🩷 My latest livestream might also be helpful for anyone who’s experiencing something like this: kzbin.info33Bou59CXXU?si=D6otdMWudN_EUNMu

[@brookelight2090]

Dating an avoidant is like take your soul away. You are left feeling exhausted, unfinished, confused. They still want me to chase after them by bread-crumbing me. ( haha, that’s right. More than one avoidant )

[@sewmorelove]

Yes, I totally agree. I do not date avoidants anymore. It is not a life I want to live! They can go and be avoidant with someone else. 😂

[@a.d.b535]

I told my BF I will give him no more than he gives me He's stepped up more, but in a low energy way.

[@michele6624]

Crap I just had amnesia how could I?????????????

[@michele6624]

Terrifying how could I forget

[@AmyH-M]

You are so right

[@womenwhodate7643]

One thing I know for sure, if a man is emotionally closed off/ unavailable to himself, I know he won’t be emotionally available to anyone else.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! 💞

[@brookelight2090]

That’s so true. If avoidant can be so cruel towards themselves constantly, of course he will be cruel towards you constantly. To them, their behavior was not even considered cruel because it is everyday action which is considered normal

[@SanctifiedLady]

I can listen to this several times…really good. I recently encountered bread-crumbing with lack of response to text or calls, I brought it to his attention and he apologized and corrected it…but I could of just leaned back because if he was interested as he said he was I shouldn’t have had to bring it to his attention

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. 💜

[@MsPersianality]

Would you continue if he didnt correct himself directly and consistantly?

[@karolinah12]

You have the best advice here. A lot of videos are about what to do to change someones behaviour. We CANNOT change people. All we can do is stay or move on. With the right person you do not need to make mental & psychological gymnastics. Period

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, thanks for sharing your insights here! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=PFuR_aLfWKcBoolL, kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?si=gpuDQOWxIaO3Znod and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=7RAO58DUKgHYSe8E.

[@Radtech2002]

Jack shows us how to choose our self love first over the love of a partnership.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, Jack gives fantastic advice! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with him if anyone would like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iKHJgHesraeBgZI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/foPZe3iAa96ae5o, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hKiUpKCIpt-XbKc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZ6WXpSlgL2dq80.

[@TheRalphie2020]

❤❤❤

[@rosechungu7578]

Worked for me, mirroring energy. He began to put in more effort yaay

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Rose! 💞

[@susanrusso5551]

I am going through someone pulling away he went from 100% to 0 ..feeling so hurt 😓HEARING JACK SAY DON'T TAKE IT Personally WAS SO HELPFUL AS MUCH AS RIGHT NOW I CRY EVERY SECOND IT SHOULDN'T BE THIS HARD...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. ❤️ These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/b4bMdI2pg6-tpNE, kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU, kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXm1ZJeAbbacgqM and kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs.

[@avril.227]

If really hurts when he gives you so much then pulls away. That’s a big red flag 🚩 If he isn’t giving what you want keep your options open and you do you. I also like what you said about seeing who he really is from the get-go, watch his actions not his words. I’m a big believer in facing reality. For years I was giving to many guys the benefit of the doubt and beating myself up for the way they acted, instead of realizing they weren’t what I needed or not good enough to be with me.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights and takeaways here! This video I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc

[@fgdart]

I try to do everything right, but they keep disappearing... and it made me whenever i like a new person i get so scared that i am gonna lose them too.. and it never changed. They just disappear and sometimes they chose someone else over me. I am in such a pain that i can not even describe. My experiences made me feel "i am not loved, i am not enough, there is something wrong with me or whatever i like it will runaway..etc". I tried everything to get rid of this cycle. Meditation, subconscious cleaning sessions, affirmations, i've watched countless of self improvement, self love, law of attraction videos and i have learned lots of thing about them. But you know what hurts more?! Having lots of information and knowladge of those and still not being able to change the cycle and getting out of this pit...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this. ❤️ If a man disappears he can’t possibly be the right one for you, in my opinion. These are the videos I’d recommend for you: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qXm1ZJeAbbacgqM, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nnOlZJWudsRpeac, kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqO1pXmsocifmqc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/nmK2epulqqZ8fpI and kzbin.info/www/bejne/mH-Um62IhcSmh5o.

[@BrooklynBaby100]

Pay less attention to them, be aloof.. give them just a tiny bit of attention and only when it’s something you want. It works! Stop giving them anything, be aloof until they prove their interest 💜

[@elizabethp4064]

If you see this I hope you find Jesus and I do not talk about religion but the one that shows up in a personal way and delivers you from all the hurt you been through. I am obviously speaking from experience. ❤

[@fgdart]

I have good News! I found the one. After many years i found my soulmate. Please keep praying and believing and manifesting for the One you want 🙌

[@fgdart]

@elizabethp4064 Thank you for writing me this lovely message. After so much suffering i found the love of my life. I believe in destiny now. Everything was for a reason and i was not seeing it. I have so much faith now 🤍

[@suzspurr9098]

Boy...this was the video I needed to watch! Am going through the ghosting/unavailable/breadcrumbing scenario right now. Everything that you guys talked about, reaffirmed what I've been telling myself....mostly....IT'S NOT ME! 😉

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this resonated with you! These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/houTi3qpadaZpK8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs.

[@sewmorelove]

Great advice. With the victim blaming culture in our society, I think girls and women are conditioned to believe bad things that happen are their fault. It also extends to dating relationships and looking inward instead of putting the responsibility on the other person.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Shannon! 💜

[@jokster4409]

This is really good, I've seen so much advice blaming women for the man's lack of responsibility and expecting her to fix it.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! This video I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc

[@JessicaFayToday]

Excellent video! "When the alignment is there, the attention that you want will flow in your direction. When it's not, your job is actually NOT to believe you need to be any different." "So the best way of you remaining in your worth, is not imagining that there's something different that you need to do that would create a different level of interest, or outcome, over there with him." "...stop believing that you need to to please, or posture, or perform in order for him to do something different. There isn't really, you do something, and then he does something different." Breadcrumbers help you cultivate self-love. "My loving self doesn't want to participate." "If he's only available for a minimal level of contact... You don't need it to be different. You just need to find some other situation that gives you more of what you actually want." "You didn't do anything wrong. You don't need to do anything different. You just need to see more clearly what's in front of you." -JB

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your takeaways here! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=355R-fp3BHWaagW6, kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?si=tgEa4F1YLB7Vfaw4, kzbin.infok8eb_r5tjtE?si=0FBDhHxyEJlxjIKo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=Hxh_BlbYgY-SmBOl.

[@sjgbrighton]

Now I have met someone who genuinely likes me and is carefully building something with me, this information rings so true. Getting to know this person has been stress-free. Its been surprising accepting his kind comments, his flowers and his affections as I have been meeting men who just wanted something casual. It was extremely painful and made me feel bad. I think I will find it easier to weed out those type of guys in the future if necessary.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Sophie! I’m happy to hear that. This video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmGwl6pqqcemm9k

[@menlove251]

Listening to these insights make me feel good. I am more interested in my own inner work rather than getting him to text me...

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m happy to hear that! These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU.

[@lggarcia5949]

Very well said a very great advices Don't ever ever waste your energy, your time and efforts and love to SOMEONE'S doesn't care about your feelings, You don't deserve them, if your partner is Pulling away , acting like a distant, let them go and reserve your energy to SOMEONE'S who deserve to be with you If SOMEONE'S are meant to be it will happen at the RIGHT TIME to the RIGHT PERSON and for the BEST REASON. 🙂

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! I’m glad you enjoyed the video. 💞

[@lggarcia5949]

@@HelenaHartCoaching yes I do , ❤

[@Randomclips6364]

Absolutely! Value myself first, thank you! Alway respecting the other person but I have to make myself the priority. The man I love and am in a committed relationship with has pulled away when it’s convenient for him and has then gotten comfortable with breaking up with any kind of conflict. He dictates when we see each other when before it was a mutual agreement between us. I have found myself trying harder, giving more, carrying the entire load. I have become the caretaker and one who has started walking on egg shells. I have been on a roller coaster these past few weeks. I absolutely needed to see this segment, the two of you have brought me to a better place within myself. Thank you so much 💝💐

[@TT-ud5gf]

Life is too short… How did you pull yourself up?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Shayla! 💗 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU.

[@NorthernBell4612]

Reciprocity, mirroring... I did this before listening to this video and bingo! It revealed so much about myself and of him. Loved what Jack said to not take things personally.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! I’m glad this resonated with you. 💞

[@Amconrod]

I so enjoyed Jack Butlers advice! If only I’d learned this when I was in my twenties….even if I’d learned this in my twenties I probably wouldn’t have heeded it! When you’re young you think you know everything and you don’t really listen to advice unfortunately but that’s the life experience. I’m 68 now and I’ve used Jacks advice and although a man you really like is breadcrumbing or pretending…it still hurts but when you stop the breadcrumbing at the beginning if it’s not what you want the hurt is less and dissipates faster helping you to move on and not waste precious time. A man breadcrumbing, distant is really all about him and something you don’t want to engage in. ✌🏽♥️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience and insights here! The latest livestream I did with Jack might also be helpful for anyone who’s experienced this: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share

[@lisamar6386]

I went through Jack's and Clayton Olson's course Becoming The One, where they talked about personas and I had my consciousness shift. This is the real deal, Jack knows his stuff.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks so much for sharing, Lisa! 💗 Here’s the link to their free webinar if anyone would like to check it out - it’s called “3 Keys To Being Relationship Ready: How Successful Women Find A High-Quality Man": becomingtheone.us/hh-co-ytvid

[@lindaorourke9215]

Just be yourself..and don't stoop to their level. Let them go and take care of yourself

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! 💕

[@vjcarter4657]

This is really, really good! - when I feel like I’m making it about myself, I recognize this emotional intensity welling up inside of me and I create this inner turmoil and drama for NO REASON! I think THIS issue is my biggest challenge. I always think it’s me. 😢

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! Thanks for sharing your experience here, I know many people can relate. ❤️

[@shrillytemple1654]

No more PhDs- just do nothing! Love it

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@geetikaarora5246]

Needed to hear this exactly the way it was said. Thanks

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=Wb-YlRpENtBmNSFd, kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?si=HODSdukv1GpDQRjU and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=psepnREIGtD8vygd.

[@Pablo-cy5ve]

I love that comment and it is so true - it is an opportunity to love yourself more 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you, Louise! 💞

[@2brunhilda]

I love that statement “ looking for a PHD in bread crumbing”

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@andreapeet9558]

I wish I had read this sooner. It helps a lot and gives me back my self-worth. This video is very insightful, thank you so much.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! ❤️ These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc.

[@healingypsy]

Thank you Jack. You are a sincere and great coach

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=R15RFRuWvI_I_0Fp, kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?si=urJwy2zyZbXiDKHz and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=HIdEUh7v7r-m7IYS.

[@rinawilliams6249]

Helena, I love your soft feminine look.Even your bouquet at the back compliments your look.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Rina! 💖 The flowers in this video are from Rose Forever. They're preserved with natural oils so they last for a year! Here’s a link to their website if anyone would like to check it out (you can use the coupon code HART25 to get $25 OFF your order!): bit.ly/3fPAxqx

[@rinawilliams6249]

@@HelenaHartCoaching ,thx Helena,this is Amazing!!...I've never heard of such a procedure.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, I’ve had those flowers for over three months and they still look as beautiful as the day I got them (they smell good, too!). 🌸

[@hannahlouise1604]

Thank you so much for this video. I started to fall for someone in another state but he is hesitant to come and visit me yet I am prepared to visit him. I've started to pull back. He's only 30% available but drops things that keep me hanging. I love this video and the advice. Thank you 🙏 fan from Australia 🇦🇺

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! I’m glad it was helpful. ❤️

[@patriciabrown8660]

Love this❤️! Mirroring technique!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad that resonated with you! 💞

[@veronikah.6918]

Thank you for this great video! I've been practicing all these 3 things recently and I feel so much better, valuing myself more.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Veronika! I’m happy to hear that! 💗

[@deedubs5473]

Thank you, thank you, thank you! I really needed to hear this! I’ve had this experience so many times and was here feeling utterly distraught and not knowing what to do with myself as I try to navigate this situation and the intense feelings it’s triggering. Then I opened up KZbin and this was the first video that popped up in my feed. My perspective has totally changed and I feel soooo much better! Makes so much sense! Wow, you are godsend! I am so grateful! 🙏🏽

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! ❤️ These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/houTi3qpadaZpK8 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU.

[@dlm2133]

You both are so professional and knowledgeable. Thank you for all you hard work. I appreciate you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome, Deb! ❤️

[@queenr.480]

You guys are just validating what I already knew, which is reassuring that I know I made the right choice. THANK YOU for validating me. It's so hard when you only have your own perspective to see these things through.❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m happy to hear that! 💗 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU.

[@rinawilliams6249]

Looks like it's a season now amongst men!...OMW....

[@josie9612]

Helena, I just found you and wanted to extend a complement as to your interviewing skills. You are intelligent, listen and champion your guests with intuitive questions and allowing their response. Plus your content is so necessary and beneficial in this day of such confusion in the relationship world

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much, Josie! ❤️ My latest video might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qmGwl6pqqcemm9k

[@anastasiakatsimbardis2648]

Thank you Jack for this sound advice! You’ve illuminated sooo much for me here as I’ve never been in this situation. I love “see this as an opportunity for self love” and to reflect inwards, to stop questioning HIS motivations, stop excusing HIS behaviour. And instead reflect on what is it in you that allows/ enables/ accepts this behaviour towards you. To reflect/ refine and name/ claim what I want, what I’m worth. Thank you. Love it 🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Hi Anastasia, these videos I recorded with Jack should also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWnIk5Koatmdqqc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc.

[@jcanangel]

Jack is amazing! Love it when you bring him on!!! Thanks Helena! Diving in

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, hope you enjoy it! ❤️

[@juliefrecker3811]

Helena Thanks for recommending these videos!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad they’ve been helpful! 💗

[@maricelg777]

Excellent advice. Thank you Jack & Helena 🎀🤍🌸😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Maricel! 💗

[@maricelg777]

@@HelenaHartCoaching 🥰😘

[@TwilightSagaBella1]

This is a great video, enlightening women how to value themselves ... Thank u 💕🌷🌈 ... I learned today one of the most imp thing...don't make it personal if a guy pulls away.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💗

[@spreadthegospel6667]

Awesome video! Life changing for me! I always thought it was me! Not doing a thing anymore! Thank you, THANK YOU!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Barb! I’m glad it helped. 💗

[@Katrina-z1c]

Sometimes it just doesn’t work- right from the beginning you can kinda tell..and stop thinking 🤔 if I do this if I do that… having your no and not wanting to participate in this.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your insights here! Yes, we talked more about that in our latest livestream: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share

[@Fitlover6]

Jack ,this was brilliant advice,i so so needed this... extremely grateful 🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕

[@ojongagbor3275]

Thanks for clarity🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=R15RFRuWvI_I_0Fp, kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?si=urJwy2zyZbXiDKHz and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=HIdEUh7v7r-m7IYS.

[@denisesiddon7241]

Move on and block him on everything he's not worth it Had this with someone I've always trusted and liked it's painful but moving on is for the best

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here, Denise! These videos should be helpful for anyone who’s having a hard time moving on from this type of man: kzbin.info/www/bejne/aoSlqYh9h6d5nKs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJ27nmeHrtOjfK8, kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc.

[@2brunhilda]

Excellent. I told my friend he needs a break from me because I was only getting bread crumbs. It is a chance to get sober.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! The latest livestream I did with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/oWnIk5Koatmdqqc

[@BeeRejuvenatedStudio]

Priceless advice!! So concise and easy to click in your mind.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed this, Michelle! 💕

[@nhl4264]

Thanks Helena! I like how Jack explains this, really, what we term as pulling away is actually a moment-to-moment detachment that every musculine must go through. The best thing a woman can do is to do absolutely nothing when it happens (one recipe to create deep emotional connection). When a man comes back, a woman has to choose whether he wants the relationship or she chooses to leave. However, that being said, It is misleading to believe that moving on to another man is a solution because one can move on to another relationship where a amn is available at the moment, perhaps even gets married to the next man who then, BOOM years later pulls away intensely because they need to Detach at that moment to fulfill their masculine mission. The key is not to run away from the fact that masculine is detaching at that moment & pulling away, but rather how is the state of the womans emotional intelligence to handle this with grace when it happens, because every musculine man is bound to pull away to fulfill his musculine missions, it is not a matter of if it happens but when it happens!

[@moorlivingholistic]

Thank you for your comment I was about to make a big mistake and you saved me. Thank you.

[@Dee-ahn]

Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! You have both helped me to a great extent. The words of wisdom you have spoken brought me to tears. The tears were healing. I feel blessed! I am blessed! I'm ever so grateful! I appreciate your work! Hugs 🤗 Much love! Thanks, again. 💐🫶✨🤍🥰☹️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re very welcome! ❤️ These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc.

[@patriciabrown8660]

This is so informative and encouraging to me!🤩

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Patricia, I’m glad it helped! ❤️

[@Wooddweller]

Thank you for this suggestion on this video ! Listening to it while grabbing lunch.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜

[@vjcarter4657]

Men too! - Women Breadcrumb as well

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, absolutely! 💞

[@tashadavis2491]

Hi I've been a situation ship for a few yrs and he "NEVER" going to change. He doesn't talk much and texts sparingly. So i just need at this point stay to myself and stop letting him hurt me. Thanks for video

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc.

[@maysaraali5772]

Love Jake’s energy. Thank you guys.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with Jack if anyone would like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iKHJgHesraeBgZI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/foPZe3iAa96ae5o, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hKiUpKCIpt-XbKc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZ6WXpSlgL2dq80.

[@ankecharbonnier6148]

Thanks guys, wonderfully put... great to understand and exactly in perfect timing for my life 🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad it helped! 💗

[@juliemichaud6118]

This was so good and perfect timing!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it, Julie! 💕

[@juliemichaud6118]

@@HelenaHartCoaching hahaha..ive watched it 5 times in the last 2 days and binge watched you tonight!

[@carolb3869]

Really enjoyed this video. Very well done! Thank you

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc.

[@kristad8977]

Helena, love this video! It’s so true and I am reminded to come back to the beautiful person I truly am! Thank you for this 🌷

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, Krista! I’m glad you enjoyed it. 💖

[@skyeseas]

Y’all are seriously out here doing the lords work lmao. what another gem 💎 🙏💜⭐️🌻

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you so much! ❤️

[@dnibcn93]

Watching all ur vids, jack is one of my favs!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Jack gives great advice! Here’s the latest livestream I did with him on a similar topic if anyone would like to check it out: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share

[@kathien7508]

Great video! Thx

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=R15RFRuWvI_I_0Fp, kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?si=urJwy2zyZbXiDKHz and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=HIdEUh7v7r-m7IYS.

[@InspiritB]

I love this so much! Jack is truly the best! Thank you for sharing this wisdom 🤗

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with Jack if anyone would like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iKHJgHesraeBgZI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/foPZe3iAa96ae5o, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hKiUpKCIpt-XbKc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZ6WXpSlgL2dq80.

[@abeach5420]

👌👍😁🙌🙌 *YESSS Mr. Jack is back* . Outstanding coach in all so many areas. One of the few I follow on 'the' Tube.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Yes, Jack gives fantastic advice! Here are a few livestreams I’ve done with him if anyone would like to check them out: kzbin.info/www/bejne/iKHJgHesraeBgZI, kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs, kzbin.info/www/bejne/foPZe3iAa96ae5o, kzbin.info/www/bejne/hKiUpKCIpt-XbKc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/nZ6WXpSlgL2dq80.

[@abeach5420]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Oh I have watched them all and have sent pple I know to watch as well plus follow. Tx for featuring him. Uhhh 'that' dreamy accent & so very kind eyes ain't hard to handle either, hehe.

[@belove0705]

Thank you Jack & Helena !!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU.

[@pimchand.6412]

Thanks Helena and Jack for the nice video, make me more powerful ❤️❤️❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/kJ27nmeHrtOjfK8 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU.

[@pimchand.6412]

@@HelenaHartCoaching thanks a lot Helena ❤️❤️❤️

[@ruthn2054]

How do you know it’s not you though? How do you know it’s not to do with where a man is in his life? Where do you draw the line between traits that you could to cause a guy to bread crumb/ be distant and him being in a different stage in his life? I’m so worried about this about use of sometimes. Because what if it is me ?

[@audreyandrea460]

Then he’s just not your guy! I think that’s a compatibility issue. I’m going through this... just try to work on yourself but do this for yourself and your other relationships, your future, etc. Don’t worry about too much about what he thinks of you. It’s true he may not like the things you do or say but that’s out of control... there will be someone out there who is naturally capable of bringing out the best in you. Get ready to receive his attention and amplify your own goodness as soon as the opportunity to do presents itself. If it’s love, you will both shine.

[@JudyF261]

Thank you for the enlightenment .

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?si=ghEMxbO75flmFNn4 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=ddyw9KKrPNu1wcxD.

[@katnisseverdeen9772]

Thank you for this video! This resonates with me so so much. I love how the points here were clearly explained..😍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 This video I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc

[@jenaya_laila2442]

Love him! This is the first time I am hearing solid advice that seems coherent...👍

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc and kzbin.info/www/bejne/eaa6mZtjedN_gLs.

[@Basilicum83]

i always personalised things and i have beaten myself up many many times. i am now so ashamed for it

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here. This blog post I wrote might be helpful: helenahartcoaching.com/how-to-stop-being-hard-on-yourself-to-get-the-love-you-want/

[@chrissikinsm3051]

This is so great, Helena. I agree - wish I'd known this 15 years ago!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! Yes, so happy to be putting this information out there! 💕

[@audreyorgnon7112]

Sooo true, thank you Jack!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

The latest video I recorded with Jack should also be helpful: kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=mz4YGkX1KBdlVFJ7

[@a.d.b535]

I told my BF from now on, he'll get no more than he gives. He's stepped up some so will see if that continues. But by the time I don't care labout about his reaction, I'm emotionally ready to disengage.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your experience here! These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share, kzbin.infok8eb_r5tjtE?feature=share and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc.

[@lindaorourke9215]

Just mirror the same ..yes your right. How much little or less of the messaging

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks for sharing your takeaways here! 💞

[@Blynn_]

This was awesome!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💕

[@tammys5417]

Wow, this is so good. Please Posture Perform Not today ✌🏽.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?feature=share and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc.

[@superpoodlehead]

What if you’re in a committed, long-term relationship? We are at a distance currently because of the pandemic. I usually live in his country. But his country’s borders are closed. We’ve been apart two years. In the last two months he’s pulled away a lot.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’d say this still applies - it takes very little effort to call or send a text. I have a video coming out in a few weeks for women in long-term relationships, and in the meantime these ones might be helpful if you’re long distance right now: kzbin.info/www/bejne/lYPQZJWfZqmBipo and kzbin.info/www/bejne/mGfchpqHeNmlsKc.

[@ekaterinasaturn6853]

Great video, really deep stuff!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜

[@lezahbell9644]

I know what I am supposed to do but it's kinda hard. It is painful because I love him and I feel anxious when I don't hear from him. My brain conjurs all sorts of things! I want him to want me as much as I want him.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Sorry to hear you’re going through this right now. ❤️ These videos might be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/gGe1coCBmNqHfNUsi=NgzH6Do13E0Rnuyy, kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=mwcvjlFqmpsJWLX4 and kzbin.info33Bou59CXXU?si=7CAJeg5BBxWtfDHW.

[@dhaybarr]

Great insight, well said and definitely needed this

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/houTi3qpadaZpK8 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU.

[@Jan-f8w]

Oooooo i dont know your situations, but you two's personal styles match up really well. 😉

[@Creating2413]

Can you match the energy and have it work in a committed relationship? I am feeling distance at times and closeness at other times. I am trying to assess and figure out what approach to take.

[@Creating2413]

What if he feels you need to do something different and you don't feel that is necessary?

[@colleenmariebeautiful1897]

Such Great Content~💖 Thank You Both...🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💝

[@colleenmariebeautiful1897]

@@HelenaHartCoaching 💖

[@acmb6763]

He is the ONLY male coach I actually like. No offense to the other ones 😂

[@dazza8551]

Such a great info, thank you! 🙏

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=gAkpOzyRL11aHaZh, kzbin.infok8eb_r5tjtE?si=ZlcKQqjnbOna8jbU, kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?si=jg8iFyd0y9ByM34k and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=KY-NSzWyGJFLyiuk.

[@dazza8551]

@@HelenaHartCoaching Thank you 🙏

[@JessicaLTL]

Wish I saw this sooner. Great advice. I Def need to sober up. 😢

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad this was helpful! 💗

[@nenyebogu4919]

Hi Helena..so I know Jack said to not take the man’s actions personal. But there is always that fear or feeling that he would pick or already picked someone else that isn’t you. In that case, I feel it’s about me and I start to wonder what the problem is with me. I may have accepted the fact that he is a breadcrumber and not for me, but why the other person and not me ?

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

So much of what makes a man choose a particular woman has to do with things that you have absolutely no control over, so I definitely wouldn’t take it personally. This episode should be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/pqbahmqNaKZ8ec0

[@user-yk9sk7pg6v]

Helena, these are so insightful. Thank you!!!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@ginaalesha2]

Great video Helena!!!❤️

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you, Gina! 💕

[@eddabirchall5530]

Good content

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thank you! 💜 These videos I recorded with Jack might also be helpful: kzbin.infogQNmkJHeNxo?si=R15RFRuWvI_I_0Fp, kzbin.info_iPJxM7VwQo?si=urJwy2zyZbXiDKHz and kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebcsi=HIdEUh7v7r-m7IYS.

[@christineribone9351]

thank you Jack, for the sobriety test.

[@ramune1904]

Amazing video 😊 💕

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜

[@JudyF261]

This is sound teaching.

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

I’m glad you enjoyed it! 💜 These videos might also be helpful: kzbin.info/www/bejne/onPCfWqwhaedqrc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/n6WWnKlpfpyVebc, kzbin.info/www/bejne/houTi3qpadaZpK8 and kzbin.info/www/bejne/f3KnlGlqps2ggNU.

[@ayedee4463]

Such good advice. Thanks!

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

You’re welcome! 💕

[@bettycarmella1127]

Excellent advice😊

[@HelenaHartCoaching]

Thanks Betty! 💕