3 Ways Women Emasculate Men

[@ModernDatingMastery]

*One way women can unintentionally emasculate a man is by constantly undermining his decisions or opinions. If a man’s choices are consistently dismissed or belittled, it can chip away at his confidence. Healthy relationships thrive on mutual respect, where both partners value each other’s perspective.*

[@vital.elements]

Great point. We need to feel trusted, respected, and supported within our relationships. If a decision warrants further consideration, the partners need to team up to resolve any concerns together from the same foxhole, not across enemy lines.

[@jackdeniston6150]

Even questioned ´why did you´ why dont you .... nope. Women not trusting is rarely because of a Man dropping the ball, It is her ´expectations´ her imagination, that is failing.

[@2smallplots]

Yes good point .. but (!) Women love it when men appreciate their intelligence...she will lead you right into that bedroom (or wherever) I can't except any family Myth as truth no matter how sexy you are

[@RebelStarVIII]

Appreciation = praise, validation, and affection. Awesome points! I would also add gratitude to that list. Love the content, keep it up!

[@TheAdaptiveMale]

One of my favorite things about taking showers w/ my ex-gf (sexy parts aside) was when she'd put on her favorite music and just sing into a shampoo bottle and dance around under the water. I'd literally just stand there smiling watching her put on her own little concert but there was something so playful and authentic about it that always put me in a good mood. Sexy parts were nice too of course, but that was something that I didn't realize was one of those "highlights" of authentic femininity that I miss but really enjoy in women.

[@zingking0132]

I would go as far and say that gossiping, also emasculates the men that they are with. They shouldn't be talking to thier gfs about you, if they have a problem in the relationship they should go to thier man with the issue not talk to outside sources where different bias and bad advice can affect your relationship.

[@lesliebean4594]

Same goes for men.

[@zingking0132]

@lesliebean4594 of course it applies to men, but on average, we all know women like to gossip.

[@Mako-L82]

dismissive avoidant men always Withhold affection. But they do love getting validation and compliments from you.

[@ummayesha111]

I don't think withholding fun / joy is necessarily a conscious doing... it's probably because the woman doesn't feel safe/ secure to experience joy with her man.

[@sirg-had8821]

Blaming men for the failures of women as usual.

[@cliffchampion5501]

Trust me it isn’t unintentional it’s more rare if it’s unintentional. To deny this is pure foolery. And they need to be shamed but everyone is too afraid to hold them accountable. Because of this they will never change or see a reason. They only see everything outside of themselves as the problem.

[@alikh9402]

A Huge Appreciation for your content

[@Nathan00at78Uuiu]

I would think these three things are just women being mean but not making the guy feel like a woman. Isn’t emasculation have to do with making the person feel like a woman? The process of taking away the man’s masculinity.

[@Treadstone1986]

I don't think it means specifically making them feel like a woman, but part of masculinity can be confidence or feeling powerful. Each of these things absolutely undermine both of those things.

[@Nathan00at78Uuiu]

@ that makes sense.

[@missylks1239]

Yeah…I’m not sure the guy who made the KZbin video knows the difference between emasculation and disrespect.

[@ButchersNailsEnjoyer]

I see a lotta guys also think that the journey or work is done when they finally find a gf or wife and they they intentionally or unintentionally kick back and lose mental and/or physical strength thinking they’ve found the one and thats it. They start eating bad food and start skipping out on even basic exercises. Now i know things like newborns can quickly take over but my dad still found a way to run 30 minutes every other day and still eat healthy while raising both me and my brother. The most dangerous side effect of just letting go of your body is having the inability to protect the ones you love. How many guys do you know personally where they used to be a force to be reckoned with and then they got softer than butter soon as they settled down. Like you dont gotta still train like you’re batman or something but like stay in shape dude

[@amyaubuchon2199]

Another great video! I learn so much from you.

[@BlacFireSan]

Yes please do a video how men shame or push women out of their feminine

[@nosotrosloslobosestamosreg4115]

So men are the ones pushing feminism now? Accountability -dodgers as usual.

[@JohannesYtterstrom]

How men shame women? The line "You have no hobby". Men and women, often, spend their time differently. Women like to buy clothes, buy/use make-up, look at influencers, go to the gym. For many men.. Those things aren't a hobby. Why is it not a hobby? If I buy books and read them. That's a hobby. If a girl buy make-up and learn to use the make-up. Why is that not a hobby? Men use that to belittle women and want to make them feel stupid. Am I right or wrong about this?

[@missylks1239]

How about getting upset or wanting permission for haircuts/hairstyles? It’s my hair. If you get a say in my haircut, then I get a say in how you shave your beard. 🙄

[@tallspicy]

Not wrong, not right, plenty of women have actual hobbies

[@anstrengende]

Repeatedly criticizing how things are done.

[@dmitryisaev5955]

Avoidant gf switched gears in sex from 100 to zero… As I found out later DAs can switch it off… That was brutal, and she did not offer to fix this issue. Stonewalling by saying: I don’t need this… terrible experience.😮

[@GJones247]

Solid. But that goes against these boss chicks. looking forward to the counter video.

[@chrismoore9997]

What about when she says, if you were a real man .... The things you mention might be examples, but they barely touch the tip of the collection of things women do

[@David-l2u6m]

I do miss truly feminine women in my life being sengel a long time I truly don't believe that there is much hope at my age being past 60 on a pension

[@Zorro00444]

True true!

[@xander1756]

How many women do this, one, two, a few, several, hundreds, thousands, all?

[@nhlanhlaradebe8]

Second comment 🇿🇦

[@2smallplots]

My boyfriend consistently witholds sex...unless i say the right things or the way i say it..mostly i dont know what i have done wrong..so hurtful.

[@Treadstone1986]

I used to think that this was a woman to man problem or issue, but I have since spoken to so many women where this happens. It's so damaging. As a man, I experienced the same in my marriage and it was a mixture of feeling like I had done something wrong, that my best wasn't enough or I was just really unattractive or not desirable and I just want to acknowledge that all of it feels horrible.

[@2smallplots]

@Treadstone1986 yes. This behaviour has the same effect on me..i believe the intention is to make me feel undesirable..like the content of this video says, it's about control. But it doesn't achieve anything in my opinion...just stalemate !!

[@Ridingrules10000]

Do you do other things together?

[@Ridingrules10000]

​@@2smallplots, it may or may not be intentional, and it may have nothing to do with you, personally. Some people fear emotional closeness. If that's him, then you both have some work to do.

[@2smallplots]

@Ridingrules10000 thanks..this is definitely a part of it. I've suggested therapy..I've tried to start 'the talk' but he mocks my use of words and so we haven't moved forward

[@whitewittock]

I told the girl I started dating to shave her legs and she dumped me. Is this a new thing girls of today don't shave anymore?

[@missylks1239]

Actually, it might be a traditional thing for her. I had a roommate in college who didn’t shave because it went against her family culture. But the main reason is that you probably shouldn’t be telling her when to shave.

[@tallspicy]

Are you really shocked? Some woman shave, some don't, some do sometimes. Our job is not to be a hairless doll for you. But if you ask nicely or voice a preference I will consider it.

[@tallspicy]

I love that you are so confused that barking orders at her got you dumped. Try asking nicely like she is a person next time.

[@whitewittock]

@@tallspicy exactly, shaving comes from an era when women tried to live up to men's beauty ideals, just checking if this is the way now and young men are ok with this

[@missylks1239]

@@whitewittock No. I Don’t think it’s like that anymore. If anything, the only reason why women still shave is because of WOMEN’s imposed beauty standards, not men’s.

[@Julian-jd5yj]

This is the saddest self-report I've ever seen bro

[@MsEnglishmania]

I know marriage where the man did all of that to nie wife

[@se7964]

This is chauvinistic & terrible advice. “Always have sex, always be happy, always be approving and affectionate.” Right - cause that’s realistic. Basically this sounds like you expect a free pass at all times and to never have to suffer consequences of negative actions while always getting to enjoy the perks of your relationship. “No matter if I’ve done something terrible and wrong I expect you to keep having sex with me!” Yeah good luck with that 😂😂😂

[@vital.elements]

Obviously, that would be bad advice, but I didn't hear him say that. Good faith dictates that this is all predicated on the man doing his share. If he leaves his woman over-worked, under-resourced, and creates a negative and/or unstable environment where the brunt of responsibility falls on her shoulders, that would nullify his claims to these things. No woman can feel playful, sexual, or caring when she is being neglected, exploited, or otherwise mistreated. I understood this to be advice for healthy, mutually invested relationships, which i hope we can all find, nurture, sustain, and enjoy.

[@sanjeevgig8918]

“No matter if I’ve done something terrible and wrong I expect you to keep having sex with me!” IS sex something women are JUST GIVING to men ?? Are they not there too ?? You want to be PAID - in time or good deeds ?? We all know what women-who-exchange-sex-for-money are called.

[@Treadstone1986]

He didn't say always do those things. If you heard that, you weren't paying attention. He said don't specifically withhold those things to punish or for power. That's completely different. If he does something terrible and wrong and you don't want to have sex, that is fine. But it is important to talk through it, work on it and get to a place where resentment isn't preventing sex anymore.

[@cloudslady3400]

the idea is holding someone accountable without abusing them…withholding s’ex isn’t making a man acknowledge his mistakes it’s straight abusive….a man’s mistakes aren’t an excuse for abusing him neither are women’s mistakes…. If a man is hostile doesn’t ever change his hurtful attitude you speak up and leave if nothing changes..you don’t invent punishments…. I’m guilty of emasculating my ex when I thought i was trying my best to save the relationship I should’ve just said it isn’t acceptable and left the hell out…instead of getting resentful and using manipulative behaviours…women usually use those ways out of desperation not spitefulness…but it is still wrong.. A human that’s screaming in your ear constantly doesn’t justify hitting them or starving them…you just leave the space..

[@missylks1239]

Sounds like the 1800s “In order to be masculine, I need to have control of the bedroom.”

[@Subsurfer1234]

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