30 Things YOU Quit to Simplify YOUR Life

[@shannontorrens1]

Watch 25 Things I Quit Doing to SImplify My Life (with my mom): kzbin.info/www/bejne/ZmiVqpuNZ9WortU

[@sweetkitty3249]

Mama, that coral shirt is the perfect color for you!

[@lalablotz7348]

Yes she looks amazing in that shirt

[@Debbiesdilemmas]

I thought the same. I love the colour.

[@becs2272]

Yes, so pretty!

[@debbiematthews981]

Absolutely agree

[@juliab628]

Yes, and it looks so pretty with your hair, Kathy😊

[@marthaosborne9625]

I used to enjoy decorating for holidays when I had children at home. But once they grew up I do very minimal decorating.

[@carolgeorge6409]

I quit watching TV years ago . Best thing I ever dod for myself

[@kathymarxer6952]

I just love watching you and mom! Mom’s sense of humor is the best, she is so honest and off the cuff! You are both so real and beautiful❤️

[@judyellen4412]

I can’t say enough how much I like the videos with the two of you. Your honesty is great and really makes me think.I am 62 yrs old so I can relate to a lot of how your Mom thinks and all the stuff she use to have. You two really do make a difference with suggesting how to limit the amount of things. Also, it’s fun to watch you two interact.

[@carolgeorge6409]

Yes I quit TV period! Best decision ever made!

[@acgallan]

Yes, good idea to quit “shoulding” on ourselves. It is freeing.

[@simply.clutterfree]

Life changes for the better when we stop living for society's "shoulds" and start living for ourselves ❤️

[@barbaramartinez7705]

Freedom!

[@simply.clutterfree]

@@barbaramartinez7705 ❤️❤️❤️

[@T.T.M.60]

Totally agree!

[@simply.clutterfree]

@@T.T.M.60 ❤️❤️❤️

[@tamaraburnell8416]

A balance of thinking of others & living more simply

[@pamelasimmons1689]

My quits: I quit buying drinks every time I left the house (gas stations, drive thrus). I just make sure my whole family packs a drink every time we leave. I quit buying eyeshadow. My sisters get too many in their subscription boxes and kindly pass brand new products to me. Or I'll just go without. I quit buying fancy coffees to show up to events with "to get me through" it has become more of a vibe/look I quit social media (except youtube) I quit trying to acquire ALL the farm animals and only keep the ones I actually enjoy I quit car notes I quit flying on airplanes period I quit ALL chain mail "pass it on" emails, texts many years ago (sorry Gma) I quit fundraisers that I was only purchasing from out of guilt and didn't need anything from I quit all essential oils and the smell good companies. I'll buy 1 candle at a time that I enjoy and when it's gone I purchase 1 when I feel like it I quit all smell good home sprays/plug ins/wax warmers I quit washing my hair daily I quit carbs and sugar (hello carnivore) I quit using "being an introvert or shy" as a reason to not make new friends and connections I quit trying to fix everyone else's problems and find them solutions every time they vented to me. I now just let them vent and try to be an ear. I quit trying to make goodie bags at EVERY holiday and for every child I know. I quit buying cards. I'll just tell them happy birthday & save the person the guilt of throwing the card away. I quit feeling obligated to purchase apparel for every club/group I'm involved in.

[@TimothyStclair-v4p]

Gift giving has stopped for me. I give and my family will give to charity in each other's name. No wasted money that way and the benefit is 100%.

[@laurelarmstrong4535]

I quit getting magazines. I spend time in the library and sometimes look at ones I like there without having the clutter. I really simplify seasonal decor.

[@shannontorrens1]

That's a great idea!

[@Ksmoth1225]

Library is a great resource so many people are not taking advantage of. They get funded with more usage, too. You can check out your periodicals and get them delivered to your kindle too. It’s great!

[@wendajones9040]

As an older person I really don’t want gifts anymore. I’d rather have the gift of time from those who care about me!

[@vickya8653]

Yes. Don’t need to bring more stuff into the house. If I want something would rather buy that specific item myself than get a not quite right gift.

[@SirenaSpades]

Agree, I just don't want the stuff.

[@thebusybees2006]

Thanks for the video Your mom looks great! I quit driving fast because speeding tickets are expensive.

[@KlingonPrincess]

😊

[@krism4139]

Coming up next week...Kathy in high heels on the pole! 😂😂😂 I love you two so much!!

[@shannontorrens1]

Haha that has always been a joke in our family.

[@denisearonow4921]

For the past several weeks, when I do my weekly grocery shopping I've been thinking "salads and a soup". I don't need to make a list (shocking). I remember the few staples I always need, eggs, coffee, etc. and pick items up as I shop that will make good salads and a soup. It's healthful, economical, has ended food waste, and offers endless variations. I enjoy all your videos but especially those with your mom.

[@shannontorrens1]

That's a great idea!

[@denisearonow4921]

@@shannontorrens1 Thanks!

[@crimequeencreates8248]

I will never quit folding clothes. I don’t want to wear wrinkled clothes. I don’t iron much anymore. I have a steamer to use if I only need to use it for a certain outfit. I quit trying to keep up with the latest decor trends. I decided to switch to a new more neutral style. I just switch out things like throw pillows and a few seasonal accents.

[@lalablotz7348]

I worked in the salon industry for almost 4 decades and wore makeup, acrylic nails, heels, dyed my hair etc. I retired due to healthy issues a year and a half ago and stopped it all. My nails are healthy and my now silver hair is growing like crazy. I do still wear makeup if we go out for dinner but that’s it. So much easier.

[@shannontorrens1]

It's fun to get dressed up every once in a while, but I always saw all the beauticians looking amazing and wondered how they have the energy to do it everyday.

[@stacymcintyre1796]

Crafting--over the years I've tried many things, from drawing to cake decorating to pottery. I've happily settled on sewing, and recently donated all of my crafting supplies to a local non-profit organization that works with kids. It felt good both to free up my home of the "clutter," and to help someone to possibly discover their love of creating.

[@CatalinaSypniewski-ig7gm]

I love watching you guys together. What a blessing to have this close relationship.❤

[@T.T.M.60]

Yes! I love watching this channel!

[@bethlovesdogs]

Yes, they are blessed!❤😊😊❤

[@RexineGrant-ob9kn]

I have really simplified my house in the last few years. It's so much easier since I'm having health issues.

[@blujeans9462]

Just stumbled on to your channel. ..your Mom reminds me so much of my Mom - I miss her so much...25 years. 😢 Best thing I quit that soooo simplified my life: quit working!! I've been retired for 5:years and never once regretted my decision. I finally found the time to purge - and set priorities...so liberating.

[@goldcoastlady5377]

Quit trying to have the 'perfect life/perfect body/be the perfect wife/perfect daughter/perfect mother/perfect employee etc., etc. Just live it, love it and enjoy everyday warts and all!

[@susangray45]

Two years ago, I quit cable, tv, got rid of internet. Living in peace & quiet is priceless….

[@patgodkin1422]

Ironing is the only thing I can’t stop. I am a quilter and the sewing room has an ironing board up, i buy less fast fashion and make my clothes (making a comeback with younger people)

[@ginnyberg9271]

I just built a tiny home and it has me realizing how much I don’t use and wasted

[@liap1293]

Your mother is beautiful!

[@janetkellim1451]

I only use dawn cleaner and vinegar for cleaning only

[@catherinelain1370]

I quit decorating for the seasons a long time ago. I will change napkins in kitchen to go with the season. I painted my nails only a couple of times. I did not like it. I always buy used cars. As the years have gone by, I stopped using a lot of makeup. I learned how to say no back in my 30’s. I was so involved at Church, work, son’s school- wearing myself out. I was complaining to my mother about everything I had to do and I didn’t want to do it. She said why don’t you say no. I replied I don’t know. She pressed me with why don’t you say no until I said I guess I am afraid people won’t like me if I say no. She said then they are not your friends. She was so right! I began to say no and people still liked me. I was 30 at the time. Am now 70. It was and still is a freeing feeling. No obligation. I love you two! You can feel the love and respect for each other come through the video. Always great content!❤

[@lindagemmell8055]

Love your videos - I’m doing my ironing while watching it! 😂

[@shannontorrens1]

Love that!

[@sharonshmuel3386]

I quit driving (no car 🚗 now) - I have public transport nearby & that is a huge saving. Kathy you look beautiful in that pink blouse 👚 Shannon this was such fun. I’m 64 so I relate to almost everything your Mum has quit !! I quit caring what people think I should or shouldn’t do & how I look or don’t look 👀 🤣🤣 lol ❤

[@shannontorrens1]

What a huge savings to not have a car! I hope you are doing well =)

[@sharonshmuel3386]

@@shannontorrens1 all well thanks so much! - this coming Friday (evening) we start our celebrations for the Jewish New Year called ״Rosh Hashana״ - I will be with one of my married daughters & family in Jerusalem ❤️🇮🇱🙏

[@jemma50]

I have also either quit or have never done many of the things you mentioned...except for procrastination. It's the one thing I am really good at! 🤣😂 I'm so happy to hear that so many people have let go of doing things that are really unimportant in the grand scheme of life. ♥♥♥

[@kated89141]

I love how your mom went straight to stipper as the profession that wears heels.

[@shannontorrens1]

Haha! She was actually joking that that was her previous profession. But we know that people wear heels for all kinds of reasons, some people just like them too =)

[@lindapitchford4941]

I'm just starting this journey at 71. Your videos are so encouraging. I've been decluttering 5 minutes at a time. It hit me that "when" I finally get through everything....there will be a lot less to declutter. 💐 ❤

[@Ksmoth1225]

Surprised coloring hair didn’t come up. That’s one of the first things I quit, trying to live with less waste, especially plastic waste. Love the video. Thank you!

[@shannontorrens1]

I didn't include that since we mentioned it in the original video, but lots of people stopped coloring their hair =)

[@Bandaid17]

Very helpful. I do however, find ironing therapeutic. Its a mindless chore that I find relaxing so I think it counts toward making me calm and thoughtful.

[@kristinakalas8100]

I think Kathy’s insight is invaluable! As a woman in her 60’s we need her wisdom, experience & her voice. It has been a gift to see her be vulnerable through the decluttering process as a woman of a different generation & to see her get more comfortable on camera. It has helped to guide me in supporting my own mom. I love the Shannon & Kathy videos! I would love to see some painting tutorials with both of you for newbies, hobby enthusiasts, etc. How did you both get into painting?

[@peggybelcher4679]

Yes!!!!! Frees you up about having to select and choose🙂

[@janeweldon8874]

I had to laugh because I no longer do all of these things!! I’m 78 years old and there is so much more to life than most of these things! Thanks for this video! ❤️

[@MsDoglover02]

I love seeing your mother's transformation! She seems more relaxed as she has purged things from her life.

[@dawnsullivan6794]

Thanks for another uplifting video. One of the many things I’ve quit doing is sending out Christmas cards, saves me so much stress and anxiety! Shannon you are so blessed to have such a sweet relationship with your mom and to be able to live near each other. Thanks for sharing her with us! 🤗😘❤️🙏🏻

[@quickflip7185]

That plus a rare occasion (like a condolence or sympathy card) I also stopped buying greeting cards.

[@peggybelcher4679]

Gotta have black pants! Good idea about laundry..thank you both for great ideas!!

[@sallieredman7349]

Stopped colouring my hair after after 40 years and I love the natural grey.

[@kellyl7610]

I quit buying greeting cards. No more birthday/anniversary/Christmas/etc cards. Not sure how much money it's saving me but it's saving my mental health not having to worry about getting the perfect card in time to mail it before the event.

[@lizworthington1026]

I fold & rotate my underwear as well. Shannon, you are so blessed to have the relationship you do with your mama.❤

[@shannontorrens1]

Thank you! We are able to laugh about almost everything.

[@sagenozko9317]

Bright pink is your moms color!! Love you two together. What a blessing!

[@judimaus]

I quit replying immidiatly to messages that emotionally upset me. It's so much better to respond after a few deep breaths/a good night sleep with a "cool head" and calm thoughts. Love your videos and am always happy to see your mom in them❤☺️

[@angelamelum4304]

To your wonderful community: THANK YOU for commenting on what you have quit. I don’t feel alone in all the things I’ve quit doing over the years.

[@shannontorrens1]

Thank you so much to everyone =)

[@bethreisman8869]

I’ve quit overdoing my “hostess role” when I have house guests. I live in Scottsdale, so friends and family love to visit in the winter months. My current policy is ask and have on had my guests breakfast preferences. Breakfast here is “on your own”. Lunch I am well stocked for salads and sandwiches again “fix it like you like it”. And finally I make and serve dinner. Historically I did 3 meals a day from scratch! Exhausting. People still love coming and I think they feel more relaxed and “at home” with my more casual relaxed style.

[@karenneiman856]

I believe it. Good for you!

[@ucfhillcollege8296]

Thank you for putting out videos that are intelligent, well-thought out, witty, and on target. There are several youtubers out there that need you to tutor!!

[@shannontorrens1]

I appreciate that!

[@katierose1234]

Love the comment about quitting immediately returning texts. Im in a group text with friends and I swear its like if I don't text back within the hour they act like I died. I usually just don't text back cause I don't feel like talking all the time. its exhausting lol

[@kathrynwebster6307]

I have 12 pairs of identical black socks. No other colors. Never have to pair them up!

[@bethdunn2381]

Basically you quit "being uptight". I love your videos. Cherish your mom, I lost mine in May unexpectedly and we had such a close relationship. Keep up the great videos.

[@ginnymiller5894]

I love organizing so I fold everything and the drawers have to be neat.

[@joaniemills1507]

I love you two!!! I do fold all thing, but that means NOTHING needs to be ironed, wash, fold, put away! ready to wear. that is for every day wear..

[@richardsanmiya2976]

I think while everyone is so busy quitting people, and things, I am headed in the opposite direction. I really don’t like all these KZbinrs telling you when to end a relationship. Why not rebuild some stalled relationships. The world needs caring, non judgement people not too ready too quit too early. I love coloring my hair, painting my nails, wearing some makeup and hopefully presenting my best self to the people I meet each day. In essence, don’t be too quick to stop things but perhaps add good things, exercise, nurturing old relationships and seeing all the good that we have in our lives. Maybe focus more on those we can help in this old world and take the focus off the ourselves. Just an opinion from a 76 yr old lady who wants more of everything this wonderful world has to offer and be of service to others. We are so blessed to live in free countries, with plenty of everything. I enjoy your Mother daughter videos very much. Blessing. Love to all, Linda

[@shannontorrens1]

Hi Linda, yes you can look at this a lot of different ways. I guess what we are saying is the same you you are, essentially quit doing things that are distracting you from what makes you happy. If those things make you happy then that is what you should do. I quit painting my nails because it took time and I realized I didn't really like doing it, my mom quit coloring her hair because it was literally burning her scalp and she realized it was very bad for her and she was only doing it because she felt she had to. Also this video was what the subscribers commented that they quit doing. Something to ponder is if we quit doing a lot of things that take time and money maybe that opens the door to help more people. =)

[@amandasymon4363]

I just love your mum ❤️

[@teresabell1014]

I agree with all these things. I quit doing these things several years ago. Life is so much easier and cheaper !

[@susanchavez8197]

I love to fold my laundry!

[@alisonhaddon6121]

I just want to thank the both of you. I’ve been following you, Shannon from the beginning and you’ve helped me so much. I remember your mum being reluctant getting rid of things, what a change, nothings safe. You both make me smile and I look forward to your videos. Thank you both,from Alison Wales uk

[@shannontorrens1]

Thank you so much for being here and I am happy we can make you smile =)

[@tanyajohnston8262]

I don’t do so many things that I used to before retirement 😊. I now do more things I enjoy instead. I do craft but I don’t fold many of my clothes anymore. My work out clothes, underwear I don’t fold. I don’t have dresser drawers anymore, I have shelving with bins. I use one bath towel per week now and hang to dry. I don’t buy chemical cleaners. I never wore high heels. I don’t wear make up. I do work out with fitbody boot camp 4 or 5 times per week to keep mobility and bone density. I am 61 years old so important. I love thrifting but I’m careful with what I bring home and I will also look for others in my life. I’ve stopped cleaning my house when it is already clean ish 😊. So many things to stop so we can do the things we enjoy

[@lauragoolsby5042]

I absolutely love your videos!! It gets me cleaning out every room in the house of things I don’t need! Donating to a thrift shop that spays & neuters cats & dogs!! I do this once a month & always have a few bags full!! Thank you!!😊

[@cmbooks2000]

Hi ladies. I feel so balanced and healthy after watching this. Over 90% of this stuff I let go of a long time ago. I bought my first car new in 1979, kept it 10 years and bought better quality used cars since. Social media can be poisonous. If you find yourself disagreeing arguing etc. It's time to walk away. Same with the news, and tv. Thank you so much. Enjoyed it

[@tinamoore6352]

I love watching the two of you together. I quit getting my nails done and having my hair colored. I do both at home and sane money but most importantly, I save TIME!

[@cindikleine8264]

I love you tips and advice! I am a 62 year old mom to one son and 4 daughters and I’m always working with them to declutter and organize and we work well together like the two of you!

[@shannontorrens1]

Love that!

[@andreakissinger2165]

My family quit buying holiday gifts for all the adults in the family. We instead just buy ONE $25 gift and play Dirty Santa, which is so much fun! I just use all the money I would have spent on family and use it for someone who actually needs it, like foster kid wish lists.

[@janiceestes9518]

What a great video. I can honestly say I have quit a lot of things that you had said in this video. On February 4th, 2021, I had stopped coloring my hair. Now that I have my natural color my hair is healthy, have more shine and I am saving a lot of money and time. I am always getting compliments now on my color and cut. I just had a yard sale over the weekend and had decluttered my home, especially my attic. I have always been an organized person with my job and home so managing my home has always been easy for me. My life is peaceful and calming at the age of 67.

[@pamelasimmons1689]

I love your Mom! She's hilarious and just herself. ❤ I love authentic people.

[@princessdumbarton9877]

I have wavy hair and it takes me less than one minute to cut it. I just divide it in two parts and go whack whack across the bottom and it's done. There may be a few stray ones that I clip later to even it up. With wavy hair it really doesn't matter if you cut it perfectly straight or not, it all blends together.

[@peggybelcher4679]

Wonderful

[@MrsTittlemouse]

So much fun! Your mom and I have a lot in common. I rotate, too! 😂❤

[@lynnbleasdale5824]

Exactly, me too!

[@sidhedances8582]

Yes! I fold my underwear! Lights/darks, etc. The order looks great in my drawers (different drawers daywear and nightwear). Folding keeps the space for order and hanging, light to dark color coding (keeping blacks and navy separate) helps in decision making in the morning. Keeping my wardrobe with only things I want for quick decision making, and makes decision making easier.

[@sidhedances8582]

For things that I do and don’t want to keep.

[@carolcusick8579]

I love the relationship you two have. Reminds me of me and my mom. We are blessed!

[@sherylstretcher1973]

You two make a dynamic duo. 😊 Thanks for bringing a smile to my day. I truly enjoy videos like this that add confirmation to what I have already decluttered in my life and also give ideas that I had not considered.

[@elizabethsydnor5247]

I do love a limited wardrobe

[@rebeccarendle3706]

Another fun video with you and your mum😊.

[@shannontorrens1]

😊 thank you

[@laurysteinke865]

I LOVE you two!!

[@prairierose1115]

Great video!

[@juliab628]

I grew up with used cars but when I got married, my husband was used to new cars. So, we juggled car pymts when the kids were little. But now as empty nesters, we've reverted back to used car status, LOL After watching this, I decided to...Quit the "idea" of ironing. Cycling away on my indoor bike, I glanced at the ironing board & couldn’t remember the last time I used it for ironing. I use it as drying rack, & it's always so wobbly and inefficient. I'm donating it tomorrow along with the iron. I will eventually buy a drying rack like yours, Shannon😊 Interacting with y'all is the best! Have a wonderful week!🙋‍♀️ P.S. My daughter declutters her apartment regularly now. Yay! And she loves it😊

[@shannontorrens1]

Yay for your daughter decluttering! =)

[@rikkeknudsen_]

Yey, a video with you ladies! Makes my day with all your great inspiration!❤

[@shabbysuse7821]

I fold stuff because I don't iron it and it fits in the drawers easier!

[@ppia5700]

I LOVE when you and your Mom are together talking! 💖💖💖💖

[@Lifes.lemonade]

If you get thing nearly dry or straight from the dryer hang them straight onto coat hangers, never again have to iron. I got rid of my iron and board nearly 5 years ago and it was a blessing. I have never needed it ever again.

[@shannontorrens1]

I do the same thing! I try to hang my things right away.

[@autumnpremo6235]

I love watching you two!!! Makes me wish my mom lived closer!

[@helenstewart4050]

One thing I won’t quit is watching your videos ❣️Great to see the two of you made my Sunday ❗️👋🏻

[@shannontorrens1]

Yay! Thank you!

[@joanobrien6708]

I just LOVE your videos! You and your Mom are like Lucy and Ethel! I enjoy your tips but the best parts of the videos are when your Mom inserts some crazy comment - like the stripper one🤣💙

[@shannontorrens1]

Haha I was debating if I should leave that comment in or if it would somehow offend someone. LOL

[@audrey5941]

Love hanging out with you gals! You entertain and inspire at the same time. I was nodding along with this list. I feel validated about the many things I have also given up. If I were to add one thing I didn’t hear it is that I quit going to home shows. I leave my perfectly fine home in the morning, go tour a bunch of super beautiful homes and return to my home feeling dissatisfied by my home! I can’t have that!

[@LindseyTeall]

Pole Fitness also, and other styles of dance. Let’s not discriminate😊 But I don’t ever wear heels in real life!

[@shannontorrens1]

Haha =)

[@j.christian6801]

I’ve quit a lot of things but I like to decorate my house so I won’t get rid of the decor bins because it would cost too much to replace them. Good job!!

[@bobbiefarrar3036]

Love you ladies! Shannon, no need to apologize for a messy home; if it ain't messy than it's NOT a home! God bless you and yours!!

[@andreakissinger2165]

I quit doing my family's laundry. My husband and I both work outside the home, and my almost 10 year old kiddo knows how to do laundry. We're all responsible for our own clothes. Women are often expected to be in charge of their entire family's laundry, but it doesn't have to be that way. Besides, it's a basic life skill that kids need to learn.

[@pnwflipper2089]

I quit all this stuff too- except ironing, because I never did that! I hope my kids can skip some of these traps altogether.

[@daphblue]

Something I’ve done much less of I shopping for a hobby (did this when I lived alone even if I didn’t buy anything simply because I liked going out) and now I go thrifting much less frequently than I did a few months ago. Our Goodwill is right next to the grocery store and I used to stop in to check if they had anything new. Well that time adds up, and the days I spend at home all day are much more productive

[@elnorawallin7106]

😊 I have several "spots" where I have clothes I don't/can't wear anymore as they don't fit.. I could free up space aka declutter if I just stop saving them "just in case".. love listening to the two of you, your fun interactions and good suggestions!!

[@ruthannversaw2383]

You two are so fun to watch. Keep up the good work!

[@pambohnhoff2163]

You two are a breath of fresh air! Love your down-to-earth honesty.

[@carolbabb7875]

I'm with you on the ironing. I hang most of my tops and push them all to one side so they pretty much iron themselves.

[@SilviaN1]

Oh, I just love your sense of humor! "I quit being a stripper long time ago" 😂Glad you kept that in the video 👍😊About quitting to simplify: I quit making a big variety of meals during the day. Now I just have the same 5-7 meals that I rotate between.

[@denisemshores]

Hi Shannon! I love your videos and watching you and your mom, you two make me laugh, I love it. You have alot of great tips for all of us and keep us motivated to declutter our lives! So glad I found your channel!

[@mariekielbasa3193]

If I could declutter my husband, I could really simplify😀love your videos!

[@shannontorrens1]

Haha!

[@vickya8653]

Me too 😂.

[@quickflip7185]

🤣

[@flonotflow]

I quit ironing a while ago, my iron and I are estranged at this point LOL. Your mom's comment about the stripper totally cracked me up! Tell her I'm an underwear rotater, she's not alone. I quit getting my hair colored, saving time and money.

[@vanessasheppard5547]

Love your relationship with your mom!