Not to sound so advertised but honestly after you emailed me back about me letting my ex know to stop toying with me and if he wanted anything serious to contact me. He seriously messaged me back to meet me up within two weeks. This was back in Jan and now since April we have gotten engaged. And we plan to wed in fall! Seriously thank you for being there in my time of need and being my voice of reason through my break up. I can’t thank you enough.
@Ava-lm1zy5 жыл бұрын
Aime D omg wow
@EJayyDreadHead5 жыл бұрын
That's a blessing*
@17Shkurt2008Pavarsia4 жыл бұрын
@BLaZeSTuDioS she said it took 2 weeks for him to message her
@allahlovesyou7241 Жыл бұрын
@@17Shkurt2008Pavarsia Lojë bëjnë me femrat 🤨 prandaj femra s'duhet t'ja fali trupin askujt pa martesë
@glen4320034 жыл бұрын
My heart breaks reading some of these comments, May Gods peace be with you , hang in there , it’s gonna be ok in time either way , NEVER GIVE UP !
@77BLAZER774 жыл бұрын
It breaks my heart how many people in pain there is on this channel and many others, the worst part is that the people you loved and trusted the most are who put you in this pain!!
@SnowFoxParty6 жыл бұрын
It sucks when you have dreams about them and then see lookalikes of them in person. It makes my heart stop
@milagrosrodriguez41366 жыл бұрын
TheSnowFoxParty I sometimes have dreams with him n it sucks I wake up with the feelings of the dreams😢
@SnowFoxParty6 жыл бұрын
Milagros Rodriguez I do too but stopping yourself from talking to them shows you are the bigger winner. Dont let it get to you
@patrickosborne21355 жыл бұрын
Dreams are the worst :( like literally holding them/ talking to them/ kissing them and then you wake up and they’re gone again
@Artaxian_Debacle4 жыл бұрын
No lie I had a dream about my ex last night shit was the worst
@sakeenaspage22014 жыл бұрын
Me too !!!
@mrcat56993 жыл бұрын
After being heartbroken i came back to tell you. The pain wil go away, The memory's will fade, the crying wil stop. You move on. It took me 3 full years to recover fully.
@Dajahgraves2 жыл бұрын
❤️❤️😌❤️❤️
@mrcat56996 жыл бұрын
I allways listen to you before sleep.
@SnowFoxParty5 жыл бұрын
Me 2
@imensannouchi3 жыл бұрын
me too
@smurk69513 жыл бұрын
Aww I don’t feel alone
@jessiepalermo72344 жыл бұрын
4 year relationship. I'm on day 27 of NC and I want to die every day. I wish this was a nightmare and I could just wake up but I wake up every morning and the reality hits me that this is really happening. This is the worst pain I have ever been in.
@danielosmon4 жыл бұрын
I'm about to hit 3 weeks and I feel the same. All of the thoughts of her and her new boyfriend are driving me crazy. I wish this would all go away
@jessiepalermo72344 жыл бұрын
@@danielosmon I genuinely wish the best outcome for you, dude. I am on on day 43 of NC now and things are still the same. They say it gets better but I still cry every day and nothing helps. I hope you are doing better.
@danielosmon4 жыл бұрын
@@jessiepalermo7234 I'm struggling really bad. The worst part is I run my own business. Everything with my work has been suffering as well. I keep telling myself I'm going to eventually find someone much better but I'm not feeling it. In fact, I feel like a loser because the guy she left me for appears to have everything going for him. I have anxiety attacks every morning. Today is the first day I haven't teared up since I found out about her new man. I know even if she came back to me, it would never be the same. Therefore I feel I have absolutely no choice but to let her go forever. And its extremely difficult but I've been through this before with two other women that I also loved with all of my heart. The difference with this one, is she is the prettiest with the highest level of education. It's going to be a major challenge to find another woman like her or better. Wish all the thoughts of her and her new guy would stop. That's without a doubt the hardest part for me
@jessiepalermo72344 жыл бұрын
@@danielosmon I moved in with her and I had never done that with anybody before. We were basically married but without the contract, and she was the one i was going to marry anyway as soon as or financial situation was steady. I was going to have kids with her and be with her forever. I wanted that and I thought she wanted it too. I have had heartbreaks before and they were hard but this has hit me the hardest ever as well. I lost my job due to the corona bullshit and I have been unemployed for a week and I have bills coming up and I don't have the will to do anything. I keep saying, "I'll do it tomorrow when I feel better" but I never feel better. I have not talked to my ex since the NC so idk if she has been with somebody else but I don't want to know. I always think of the worst though and it destroys me internally so much. This has been so traumatic that I developed a fucking tic. My body spasms whenever I think about her, so this happens throughout the day maybe like 80 to 90 times a day. I've had it for a few weeks now. What gets me through at certain points is realizing that she doesn't have the ability to keep me for me to become a better version of myself. You can upgrade yourself and your life in soooooo many different ways and she can't impede you from doing that. If you become an AMAZING version of yourself, life will have no choice than to give you a new love. Somebody is going to notice you someday. I know this sounds hard to believe and I find it hard to believe at times as well but it only makes sense. If you upgrade the fuck out of yourself, any woman out there would be lucky to have you. I'm 6 months into the breakup and I still cry every day. I actually just finished crying right now, I feel like such a loser. But I weighed 300 pounds at the time of the breakup and I have lost 43 pounds since then. The gym has been the only thing that temporarily relieves the pain so I have been there as much as I could. Please use this pain as fuel, dude. We are in no shape to become romantically involved with anybody anyway because our heart is in shreds, so the best we can do is use this time to upgrade ourselves while our broken heart repairs itself. Suffer to succeed. To conquer you must suffer. Pain is not the enemy.
@jessiepalermo72344 жыл бұрын
@@pdthinks No :( It has been over 100 days and nothing. She doesn't care. If she did, she would have reached out already. I genuinely hope everyone else waiting for their ex has better luck than me.
@crookedroots40004 жыл бұрын
It took 8 months of no contact for them to finally reach out to me!
@marcelpagnol904 жыл бұрын
Did you get back together? If yes, do you still dating them ?
@michaelferguson19343 жыл бұрын
I was dumped in March and I did all the chasing for months. I also worked on myself during this time and continue to make changes to myself that I love, I've been in no contact for 4 weeks and it's been much healthier for me .I still miss and love her a lot but I stick with NC. She has dated 2 guys but they both lasted 4 weeks...she is on the same dating site as me but still hasn't found someone...not sure if she is on this site to find someone or tease me.
@marcelpagnol903 жыл бұрын
@@michaelferguson1934 she still didn't reach out to you??
@crookedroots40003 жыл бұрын
Nah we didnt get back together. She just used me to comfort her cause she broke up with the guy she left me for lmao. Taught me not to worry about women so much, Dont let her be the center of your universe, you have to focus on the things that make you happy as an individual.
@marcelpagnol903 жыл бұрын
@@crookedroots4000 thank you. Wish you all the best my brother
@lawrenceromero80006 жыл бұрын
Your videos always make me feel 10 times better dude. You're a real godsend.
@lanadanial9546 жыл бұрын
If anyone is hesitant about having a Skype session with Rory, please know that is was worth every penny! I loved his advice, and he truly is the most genuine coach on KZbin!
@TheLoveChat6 жыл бұрын
This was very nice of you to say!!
@noggage98873 жыл бұрын
I know most of these comments telling us to keep no contact and saying it'll be better in time is looking like nonsense to you now, but trust me it really will be alright. I've had a breakup last year and I was basically gone for 6 months at least, I couldn't sleep regularly, woke up crying, didn't want to wake up, didn't eat regularly and I didn't enjoy anything I did, everything reminded me of her, literally even a song on the radio that had nothing to do with her. No contact works either way, because you get to move on, don't think of it as suppressing your emotions, you are only controlling them. I didn't even delete any of the text messages I had with her until one day I woke up and felt ready for it. I'm very cursed when it comes to remembering dates such as birthdays etc. I can't forget them easily, but last week was her birthday and I just remembered it now, even had to check my calendar from a year ago to see if I was right. You won't realize its working until one day you get this sudden realization that life goes on and you already moved on. I got cheated by her, didn't know until after we broke up and I found out from a common friend we had later on, and I was devastated. I spent 6 months waking up, forcing myself to work, getting through the day just to come home and have 15 mins to cry and hours to think of life. Our wounds heal eventually, and although this sounds impossible now, I can't tell you how different it feels coming here after a year and watching the same video with an understanding way different than the one I had. I realized I moved on for sure today, saw her on a cafe I liked a lot the other day and felt a bit nostalgic, but it was just a memory to me, it didn't reach me cause I didn't allow it to. Faith for all, questions for older men :-) Best of luck to you out there, trust in time and yourself ❤️
@lyjaugs5 жыл бұрын
if they reaches out to you during a long period of time , send them a simple text and always make sure that THEY starts the conversation first .
@rayray27526 жыл бұрын
i’ve done a week of no contact so far. i’m doing it for myself so i can heal. i love my ex but i don’t think i ever want him back since he broke my heart and left me. i just want the satisfaction of him knowing that he made a huge mistake.
@davidmaurer24305 жыл бұрын
Where are you today, how are you, I'm sure you've met someone since this was written.
@joe73465 жыл бұрын
It's not a one size fits all scenario. It depends on a lot of factors. Whether or not they actually loved you or considered you just a friend is one factor. Everyone is different. Some are stubborn or have too much pride to reach out. How pissed they are as well.
@oneputtsteven4 жыл бұрын
Trust me, trust the coaches, you DO NOT want your ex coming back because of your logic, or manipulation, or guilt tripping them or coming back to nothing has changed( And yes they will be able to tell) or ANY OTHER REASON other than that it WAS THEIR IDEA. Because of it's their idea to come back and they WANT to come back then you have solid ground to worth with. Otherwise they will just leave again, quickly, and this time IT WILL be for good. Don't get impatient(easy for me to say right? I've been there) Use every precious moment of no contact to work on yourself and to build something for them to comeback to! ONLY then will you have something lasting. GL and don't get in too much of a hurry.
@nelkirkok4 жыл бұрын
I don't want to build anything for them to come back to. I want to build everything for ME!
@chrissharkey9644 Жыл бұрын
I just wanted to reach out to thank you! It worked 2weeks later!
@markoadhikari80714 жыл бұрын
Your voice is so soothing that it heals most of my pain that I'm dealing w.r.t. my recent break-up...and your advice are extremely positive as well as effective...Thank You for existing a helpful channel like this in my dark times... 🙂👍
@Giovanni-012 жыл бұрын
I get the whole , they might be scared of rejection in return. But at the end of the day, they know they have to reach out
@megablademe49303 жыл бұрын
I almost got over her but I still watch these videos cuz your voice is just so smooth.
@jaymean444 жыл бұрын
We are brought up to believe that telling the truth is the right thing to do so when we split with someone we automatically want to reach out and tell that person what we feel in order to keep them. So when we are told to go no contact it’s a scary thing to contemplate. In my experience it’s the best way to either get them back or get over them and move on. Take this time to concentrate on your goals but do not allow yourself to make your ex a goal. Focus your energy on yourself, your family, your friends and your career. If she or he wants you then they’ll come looking.... But if they don’t... trust me you won’t even notice because you’ll of found a new love.... YOU ❤️
@danitaaaas6 жыл бұрын
Yay!! New video!! I always listen to your videos before I sleep, Rory 😊 Your channel has helped me through my breakup especially in the beginning when I had lots of anxiety and stress and was basically a nervous wreck. I've come to terms with the breakup now assuming we won't ever get back together. Because of that I am able to accept my ex's friendship without the pretence of trying to get him back. Nevertheless, I still like listening to you for future purposes 😊
@batanggwaporvshadz74436 жыл бұрын
after 3months apart and we are in ldr.my ex gf started dating her ex bf(6yrs) before me.this no contact rule is really help me to be better and to regain my self esteem.its a hopeless situation if I win her back ,so better move on and improve myself more.hope she made a good decision.thanks rory for motivating me through your videos.
@maddiegirlme4 жыл бұрын
I always listen to your podcasts in Spotify before I sleep
@mattw63966 жыл бұрын
You broke it down well. I feel better. I was struggling with this no contact but you got me back on track. Thanks 👍
@sweetie2919815 жыл бұрын
He broke it off.. I just ignored him and went no contact so far two months.
@akifkhan45165 жыл бұрын
Any update?
@pappymcallister24925 жыл бұрын
melissa Marie any updates?
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto72044 жыл бұрын
Tell us what has happened since.
@jesseruiz15724 жыл бұрын
I only wish I found you sooner, sir. I can still gain much knowledge despite that though. Much respect.
@valentina-vv4km6 жыл бұрын
Me and my ex broke up almost one year ago. I live in Europe and he lives in Japan. We have been in no contact for 8 months now but he never reached out. He still has lots of my things at his place and his friends, who are actually no my friends since I saw them just a couple of times, always watch my instagram stories, like my pics and sometimes they even texted me to ask me when I'm gonna be back in Japan ( I'm gonna move there after my master degree, which mean pretty soon). We lived together for one year and then we had a ldr for 2 years. Honestly I don't know what to think. He never told me he doesn't love me anymore even if I kinda forced to say it clearly in case it was the reason of our separation. But nothing. I'm still in his friends chat group but, obviously, I don't text anything since I feel like I'm an outsider. I don't even know what I feel at this point. Sometimes I think I got over him . Sometimes I suddenly start crying thinking about us. I'd like him to text me but, maybe I don't even want it. I hate being so confused even after such a long time.
@AncAkansha2 жыл бұрын
Thankyou so much. Blessings for you and your family. May you get love ,health , happiness, success and many more good things for you
@cherrybacon33193 жыл бұрын
I listen to Rory when I get up, throughout the day and when I go to bed. He keeps me going 🍒.
@deweycouto69226 жыл бұрын
4 months in, im like screw it....gone n gone
@AB-qy6vs5 жыл бұрын
Did anything change?
@viktoriyashiskova31305 жыл бұрын
Has anything changed?
@EJayyDreadHead5 жыл бұрын
Move on!!!! After 5 weeks if they still don't reach out
@michaelstix37246 жыл бұрын
She broke up 3 months ago because she doesnt love me anymore. We have been together almost 6 years. Doing NC for 54 days now. I think she will never reach out...
@Jairiv992 жыл бұрын
update? Im on the same boat. 6 years together and almost 50 days of NC. No lies, no cheating, no fights
@michaelstix37242 жыл бұрын
@@Jairiv99 Holy Sh... That was 4 years ago. Hi Omar, now i can say, YES, she reached out to me 8 months after she broke up with me. She wrote me a letter by hand . I did not reply !!! 6 Months after the break up I found an amazing woman, we fell in love and as i am writing this comment we are enjoying our vacation in Norway. Stay strong and do not reach out for her. If she does, do not reply. Think about it. Something wasnt right in the relationship. Live your life my brother 😎
@jjinger6 жыл бұрын
Welcome back! Great to see you again.
@vladradunyius50324 жыл бұрын
Today I started to count, it is the 54th day and I am okay :) Of course i miss her, but i started to date, also in training from the start. Keep moving on, que sera, sera :)
@thelmamurungweni21075 жыл бұрын
Day 1 NC😶
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto72044 жыл бұрын
So... what happend in those 11 months?
@thelmamurungweni21074 жыл бұрын
@@ioeuropaganymedkallisto7204 I actually got over him and the relationship, he started coming back to me in September, I almost gave in but I figured I deserved better as I had already moved into a new relationship I was trying out. Fast forward that relationship ended, that ex was still around and is still around, he wants us back badly but I just don't want him any more, he taught me how to live without him Nd I figured I deserve better. Love from South Africa 🇿🇦 💖
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto72044 жыл бұрын
@@thelmamurungweni2107 wow sounds great! Thank you for sharing this experience with me. I want to do the same with my ex in case she reaches out. It is ultimate karma when the dumper chases the dumpee, but the dumpee does not want to be in a relationship any longer.
@killua26174 жыл бұрын
@@thelmamurungweni2107 im in nc for 4days it sucks :(
@carlos42185 жыл бұрын
My ex broke up with me two months ago. He did it out of no where. I wasn’t expecting it cause everything was going well. I mean except in something very intimate but he needed help and I wanted to show him respect and support. He didn’t appreciate that and decided to end the relationship. For my surprise 5 days after the breakup he was so ready to meet other people. I was like maybe the his reasons were excuses. I’ve been into no contact for 2 months. Went back to the gym, started salsa clases, join different groups in my community. I feel much better but I’m confused with his reaction. He looks like he doesn’t care if contact him or not.I don’t know if I want him back. But still miss him a lot. We spent great time together. He had all the qualities I was looking for.
@DtFluffy6 жыл бұрын
47 days of nc
@TheLoveChat6 жыл бұрын
dtfluff Stay strong!!
@exo.14145 жыл бұрын
dtfluff Did it work?
@juanmora93325 жыл бұрын
Move on
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto72044 жыл бұрын
And? Has your ex reached out to you?
@killua26174 жыл бұрын
Day 4 in mc
@HelloGrogu3 жыл бұрын
I wish there is some pill that I can forget about him and get rid of this pain....I've never been immunized by this heartbroken pain... Break up/non contact have been 2 months but I'm still in so much pain. I hope I can come back to update the NC success story soon...
@surrealfeline2 жыл бұрын
So what happened?
@trevortrillingham6 жыл бұрын
hey my boy rory is back woooooo
@charlesmullins664 Жыл бұрын
You know you say in some of your videos is to do something when you feel like texting I just play one of your videos you have a carming voice make you chill out and remember let her miss you it's a gift lol
@ellem4music1566 жыл бұрын
Newness in your voice after a long while.
@TheArgella6 жыл бұрын
i love your videos. your voice and advice is so soothing.
@valeriexxx8525 жыл бұрын
My ex bf just broke up with me last Sunday. I said exactly the things you suggested and then walked away. This is super amazing n helpful for me rn. Almost made me cry while listening. Thank you!
@quackattack58735 жыл бұрын
Thank you man I just broke up with my girl and your advice is really helping me
@jesscantfly21564 жыл бұрын
i booked a session, i can't wait to talk to you!!
@skatealex16 жыл бұрын
5 months no contact, I haven't said a single word to my ex since. He recently started following me on Instagram and viewed a few stories but I haven't given any sort of response. If he doesn't try to get back to me then I will continue with no contact.
@andrewlawson26886 жыл бұрын
Today was 4 months of no contact for me. I did not wish her a happy birthday a few weeks. Ironically, both her friends started following my instagram stories heavily thereafter.
@andrewlawson26886 жыл бұрын
Since there were commonalities, I thought it would be more useful to reply there, then to post an entirely new comment. Personally, I thought it may assist other viewers who may be looking for similar accounts.
@milagrosrodriguez41366 жыл бұрын
Skatealex2 I'm in no contact also 5 months but I haven't heard from him yet
@SnowFoxParty6 жыл бұрын
Skatealex2 mine is having his family look at my social media...lol
@baphometbby4 жыл бұрын
Before this i had been friends with my ex this whole time, only not talking to him. Except for a period of maybe 3 weeks (after I had already not spoken to him in a month and a half prior) where I had talked to him, though infrequently and not every day but I had slipped up and told him I missed him. I always dropped it after I had said things but I still questioned him. Wasn’t every day and he was never angry at me but I just told him yesterday that I wouldn’t like to be friends and he can let me know if he changed his mind. Made me very anxious but I feel glad it’s over and I think I can feel more comfortable moving on, no matter what happens. I was just prolonging the pain.
@asyiqinhisyam69283 жыл бұрын
He chose to block me. Sincs then, I barely reaching out to him and just focusing on my inner peace.
@roosterbrand36716 жыл бұрын
Hey Rory love your videos my man.
@martineg83986 жыл бұрын
Glad your back with us
@angelatezy89304 жыл бұрын
Worst part is thinking that they will come back. And they don't😪😪
@MarshallSmith275 жыл бұрын
she broke up with me and I didn't want it and I asked her could we work it and she said she just wants to be single so I accepted it and told her have a good one then. I didn't tell her to contact me if she ever wants to or any of that. is that bad I didn't say that? she watches all of my snapchat and instagram stories... I mean just the week before she was all over me and planning our future. this is one breakup that's confused me
@bystandersarah Жыл бұрын
My ex probably thinks I’m too mad to talk to him but I actually want him to reach out but I don’t feel comfortable telling him that.😢
@SkrifftheDragon6 жыл бұрын
ay good to see you're back!
@arzooray31453 жыл бұрын
Hello I love your videos . Helped me a lot to deal with stress. Thank you for sharing ❤️❤️❤️
@TheLoveChat3 жыл бұрын
Happy to help!
@bryanlewis22792 жыл бұрын
Heard from yesterday after 7 weeks..think she might be breadcruming
@MSNplayerx6 жыл бұрын
This question is about rebound relationship, if we've been broken up for 3 to 4 months and my partner got into a relationship after that time period, is it still a rebound relationship? Thanks :)
@mattykay11375 жыл бұрын
I’m on Day 80 plus now And my Dumper Ex hasn’t reach out yet I’m confused in thinking if she will or will not I’m thinking she may for my birthday 🧐
@EJayyDreadHead5 жыл бұрын
Damn 80 days 😰
@veganmikedizzle43034 жыл бұрын
That's nothing.... it can take a year.
@mattykay11374 жыл бұрын
P D Yes she did We are in good positive communication We even flirt and have gd banter together I actually let my guard down a few weeks ago We had a gd meaningful chat The door is open 👍🏻 She’s doing an indirect/Direct approach She’s not showing her cards but I know she doesn’t want it ended 😄
@ioeuropaganymedkallisto72044 жыл бұрын
@@mattykay1137 and did it work?
@muhammadbadran45316 жыл бұрын
It’s been 3 months of no contact. A couple weeks ago, I began writing a reflection letter that I intended to just write for my thoughts. But I was thinking of sending it to the ex as a life update...After watching this, I’m starting to think it’s a BAD idea. Especially since I followed your advice before initiating no contact - telling her that I don’t accept the friendship and to call me if she changes her mind.
@Jairiv992 жыл бұрын
update?
@onlyentertainment52195 жыл бұрын
Plz make a video how can speak with base voice? I jst love ur voice
@noneyabusiness99316 жыл бұрын
We split april. I kept in contact. Then i discovered this. And I've done no contact with her. Only time when she reaches out bout shared bill.
@pedroleon22125 жыл бұрын
yeah u right if I never get my ex back I can aways find someone who will be Happy to have me and like me for me even kown my ex did not went me some body would
@lelexx44934 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend broke up with me because I did something he doesn’t like me to do. He had literally the dumbest reason ever :( so I just left him on read hoping that he actually will contact now
@Serfel66696 жыл бұрын
My ex said he hates me, mean things to me, harsh cruel words. Like saying never coming back or wanna do anything with you. Force me to delete everything about him. Do i have a chances? I feel really hopeless . Please help me
@meroschjaloley68365 жыл бұрын
Does No Contact work on a short term relationship for example 3 months? And does it still work when I started it 3 months after the break up?
@Giovanni-012 жыл бұрын
I guess it's just how the psychology works but, how can they honestly think you'd want to stay friends. I walked away from the situation, as soon as she told me, I didn't even drag it on , I just was respectful. Recently she has been stalking my social media alot. And a platform I don't even use, she popped up there now.
@SSingh-uz6dw2 жыл бұрын
How do you know she's stalking? As in watching stories?
@m1zzm0ni35 жыл бұрын
What I say, “I can’t be friends with you. I need to move on to find someone who wants to be with me. The reality is you don’t want me and it’s hurt me” I didn’t leave the door open for him though 🙁. Would be done back though?
@rodmcculloch75923 жыл бұрын
Haha I have the most stubborn ex ever. I know everyone says it but my ex will definitely not reach out. I haven't heard for 2 months. She couldn't care less.
@masonicperkins6 жыл бұрын
I’m just wondering what I’ll be feeling towards her when she reaches out. Only been about a month and a week of going no contact
@TheLoveChat6 жыл бұрын
Probably very nervous!
@christopherstahler53765 жыл бұрын
Problem for me and my ex, is we still live together. We share an apartment with three other roommates. Fortunately, since she broke up with me and immediately started dating her “friend”, she has been staying over at his place alot. So I have to find a way to do a modified no contact.
@johnelnual4 жыл бұрын
Hey Rory! What if you didn’t tell to contact when they changed their mind at the time we broke up? It’s been 2 months since we broke up and I did no contact
@hastheride3 жыл бұрын
After a 6y relationship and while watching this video I realized that I totally got over the idea of getting my ex back and this is a new beginning. BUT!! with that, I almost forgot that my ex has some of my stuff and I didn't even remember!!! LMAO It makes me laugh so bad xD what she has is a suitcase and warm clothing I gave to her for her abroad job and because she's still there (yeah, she broke up during long-distance) I just can't get that stuff back. isn't that weird? XD Let me read your comments!!
@lolsucks35996 жыл бұрын
Me and my ex didnt have contact for more than 2 weeks now, but she still tries to get contact with me in her community chat when i am around but we didnt talk for 2 weeks in DM's now. The last thing i told her was that i am no longer sad about what happened between us and im thinking more about the positive times that we had in our relationship now. And the last thing i said to her was that i only came back because i want her. And she hasnt replied to that so i stopped talking to her completely and moved on. But what does it mean that she is still making some contact with me on her community chat now after 2 weeks of no contact? Does she do that because she wants me to contact her first or should I still wait for her to initiate first?
@xanhiett Жыл бұрын
I went into no contact for 2 months, reached out asking to hang out and he said he didn’t think it was a good idea. No contact I feel like made my situation worse because we were talking after the break up. I feel like I dug the hole even deeper. Initially after the breakup he said he was leaving the door open to us then when I reached out months later, he said he didn’t think we were good for each other. What do i do in my situation? I feel like I made it worse
@sourabh2276 жыл бұрын
Really Nice Video.. Appreciate your effort !!
@Nevergiveup-du9jm4 жыл бұрын
Great advice.
@lisbetha7236 жыл бұрын
Hi Rory, me and my ex broke up about 3.5 months ago. At the start he said he'd always be there to talk. We communicated for about 1.5 months then i broke off contact abruptly because i was sick of being stuck in no man's land. I've since done 2 rounds of 30 day NC.They were both broken by my ex contacting me towards the end, asking me how i am/ if i am ok. Lately he said he'd found out that i had x problem (through social media and by asking a mutual friend), and said he would always be there to talk if i wanted to. Yet he hasn't explicitly said he wants to get back (which i believe is the case for now). Due to this, I've been keeping my replies to him brief and civil. What should I do? I know he cares enough for me to reach out time and again, but he stops short of reconciling and it bothers me alot. However, having to suppress my need to communicate with him (despite his overtures) is wearing me down. I am also going through an especially tough period in my life and feel tempted to accept his offer to talk. What is he thinking and is there any way i can progress this? Thanks for your help.
@lisbetha7236 жыл бұрын
I should also mention it was he who broke up with me.
@annocampo77786 жыл бұрын
Lisbeth A hi how are you now? Im in the exact situation, and though i know my x cares for me he didnt talk about getting back together. I wonder how are you now? I hope much better. It gives me hope that i will be ok soon too. :( im struggling not to reply with his messages. He knows that i was devastated and i lost my job maybe thats why he checks up on me from time to time.
@liisuuuh2 жыл бұрын
I relate to this. How are you now?
@Aimqail6 жыл бұрын
can you talk about rebound relationships? My ex girlfriend dumped me and got a new boyfriend just days later. (was a normal friend of her, they met 1x with friends and I guess they chatted a little bit) So it seems like it works pretty well for them. I was with her for 2 years. Happy/bad times. SO just a normal relationship
@noneyabusiness99316 жыл бұрын
She had him picked out before yall split
@Aimqail6 жыл бұрын
they together for 2 months now.. and she is testing the hell outta him like she did with me ... "sexy pictures" "following male friends from the past" and so on... so funny
@Aimqail6 жыл бұрын
poor guy, since the break up im on strict no contact and blocked her everywhere. 2 days ago she posted 2 sad pictures on her blog ("i never stopped loving you. hope you are doing well") she is a narc .. poor guys .. finally im free!
@randomsasquatchwithwifi40905 жыл бұрын
@@Aimqail i was wondering about the whole narc thing....all narcs hoover...your no contact is REAL no contact...as in...forever you twisted sick fck!
@surrealfeline2 жыл бұрын
At what point is it no longer No contact? Its been 8 mths so... im thinking its something else now??
@patrickosborne21355 жыл бұрын
I know that no contact works but for some reason I broke it? Damn hahaha but just listening to these reminds me not too
@yotatoy82184 жыл бұрын
14 months of no contact. Thinking this may not be working. 🤦🏻♂️
@TheLoveChat4 жыл бұрын
No contact is for YOU!
@zarifshahid86946 жыл бұрын
Missed you rory
@lion9436 жыл бұрын
Great video.
@jizzlow1234 жыл бұрын
Why it Hurts so Bad ...? I Just tought i get over her ! Listen to one Song ...that reminds me of her ...and boom Back in there ): ... She didnt ...even broke Up .. She Just slow fade away ...
@pappymcallister24925 жыл бұрын
I went 5 days No Contact then reached out to rekindle outer relationship she turned me down said no she doesn’t wanna be with me no more now I started No Contact over 5th day in counting
@charmycree20245 жыл бұрын
it's hard....very hard!! I am currently in NC with my ex for 31 days.
@terrysouth78636 жыл бұрын
Very good advicr.
@belindiaries22974 жыл бұрын
My ex message me that I'm still important and always will be to him and that he didn't care anybody more than he cares for me. But he is talking now with other girl. What does it mean?
@dreamnight29055 жыл бұрын
I made a mistake contacting after i tried so hard 15 days of no contact. N text happy holidays after boxing day. No replied.. N texted everyday n text n said happy new year no reply.. Now i had it.. Going back day 2 of no contact screw him.. Tired of texting n no reply.. Was done since aug. N we chatted it for a while all sudden he stop replying cus he got pissed what i said.. Focusing on myself now..
@FindTheCureGBS4 жыл бұрын
Why are there still hardly any comments here of no contact actually resulting in getting an ex back or even them contacting? Shouldn't the focus be shifted entirely to saying "no contact is the way to get over it. Odds are highly against getting back together or even being contacted again"? Something like... "They're higher value than you... Or they wouldn't have dumped you. They are convinced of this. Aware of it now. No hope"
@stayfocus11496 жыл бұрын
Its been 8 months since we split and 4 months of no contact i reached out twice one for my son and one cause her grandfather passed she did not answer at all we was together for 10 years 2 of those years was on and off but i gave 100% trying to make it work and she just said fuck me im still down after 8 months not as down after the break up first happen but im trying to be strong as i can.
@singhshubh2 жыл бұрын
Not working for me, Why???
@LC-hq9pd4 жыл бұрын
Blocked my ex, found out...Stalking Me!!!
@allisonbrown70375 жыл бұрын
The only thing that I did is cry on the day of The Break-Up I did not beg I did not plead in fact I deleted his number from my phone because I didn't want to be tempted to message him will he needs this time apart for me
@MrScooby1546 жыл бұрын
Really brilliant
@monicamaria85126 жыл бұрын
It's been 3 months and 2 weeks since he broke up with me. I haven't tried to text or call once and neither has he....
@judyjb23056 жыл бұрын
Looking forward to the new videos!
@khaleesio25136 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video if your the one who broke it off, then wanted them back & they were also open to the idea of working things out but now changed their mind because they took the breakup hard & resent you & are upset with you, now they say they don't know & say they have doubts & ask for time. What do you do?
@jashanarora175 жыл бұрын
You're*
@nicoletobey23565 жыл бұрын
Hi Rory, thank you for another video! It’s been 3 mos no contact & he hasn’t reached out at all & I think he’s dating, or messing around with the woman that had a crush on him the whole time we were together & he lied to me about. His self-esteem is very low & he has great difficulty going into a deeper love to beyond the honeymoon phase. We were together a year & a half. I wonder if he was in lust with me or love with me. He says he loved me & we were crazy about each other but I wonder if it was just surface deep the whole time & I was fooled. I still believe in our potential and love him wholeheartedly. What do you suggest that I do at this point?
@90blacknight5 жыл бұрын
It seems you already know the answers to your questions. You mentioned he has low self esteem and has difficulty getting past the honeymoon phase of a relationship. Some people just don't have the skills to enter a long term deep committed relationship. He needs to work on himself before he could ever get back together with you. It doesn't mean he wasn't in love with you, but his fears and insecurities prevented him from going further. I know it's extremely sad but it's the harsh reality. Don't wait around. You deserve better.
@maximilian_de_luxe5 жыл бұрын
Thanks again!
@Smileymollx5 жыл бұрын
Idk what to do tbh I don’t respond to his stuff but he talks to me anyways and this all happened recently. He told me he wants me there he just wants to get his life in order cuz he’s depressed and he just moved in with his sister in a state far away from me. I asked him if we still had a future after he gets his shit together and he said idk maybe.
@meenalaregina77705 жыл бұрын
Hi! Suppose you are dumped by surprise and say never contact me again, do not talk to me in the street. It was emotional and upsetting a d the words pour out because you are so hurt. Will the ex be less likely to contact you especially when you have gone silent since the break-up?