4 HUGE Ways Men Know She's THE ONE

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@cheryllewis1697]

My man of one year now brings me peace, he believes that foreplay begins in the morning, he stays in touch with loving texts during the day on work breaks. He gets everything he wants in our relationship because he is willing to be everything I want. It's never too late, I'm 66.

[@MaryJohnson-co5tw]

I am happy for you. I am turning 65 soon and we been together for 18 months now.

[@reneefernandez1563]

Wow thank you for sharing & by the way I’m 60 Ty❣️

[@m_motso]

He wanted peace from me but he didn't give me peace, he wanted me not to complain when I find him flirting and making plans with other women.

[@tenniebramlett8827]

He was not the right man for you Queen! 👑

[@TIFINYKENT]

Exactly!!!

[@3eautiful2]

💯

[@elenarotestan5823]

Plans with other women!? Whoa! That's balsy and immature of him.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 I hope he reaches the point of truly doing what is best.

[@sayuri3917]

Just yesterday I was watching George Clooney talking about the time he met his wife. He just knew. I love hearing these stories. Warms our hearts ❤

[@danecemckinney9430]

😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@msdemeanour]

She's still too young for grandpa Clooney

[@andreatorluemke4982]

Men fall in love when you are friends first. And it’s ambiguous when it shifts to romantic that is The story or him and her.

[@muma6559]

I think the peace bit is when the man feels safe with her. Men need to feel safe in so many ways too. Not physically

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@elenarotestan5823]

Just like us women do, men too, I think.

[@Leeohlin89]

Absolutely it goes both ways. 🙏🏼

[@VickiLambou]

Wow! Thank you for that insight! I never thought about it in that light but that makes sense. Men need to feel safe as well.

[@asiamayne]

So if he’s still seeking let him go - find. Don’t be a place holder.

[@MM-mm7ed]

There are many types of men, some as he describes and many others not all men are the same. Men who have a placeholder female, is worried about what other people say...but it is truly someone he holds a lot of value in cognito (the placeholder), but he doesn't have the courage to be with the person he chooses, instead he is searching for whom his mom or friends or family or coworkers will approve.....and I've seen some women do that too, they hide their "friend" cuz they don't want to admit they want to be with that person that they want, they care more about their ego and/or image and not being genuine. Being a fake person is being with an imposter and paraded faking emotions, fake feelings and living a life like is all 100% Lies on top of Lies and also lieing to one's own self and denying one's own self true genuine love, peace, joy and happiness 🫶🙏🏻💞

[@triciadenice5702]

Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤

[@asiamayne]

@@MM-mm7ed this is a great perspective. I had this talk with an ex and felt exactly this way as if he wanted to impress his friends and family. I didn’t stick around.

[@Cali57]

Hot mess focusing on the wrong thing, complete superficial. These are the kind of men you leave and they always try and come back but don’t take them seriously. Confused and childish men and insecure men behave in this matter.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@TurnLemons2Lemonade_]

What’s hard is that as a woman. I would be willing to support a guy as he lost that 20 pounds, because I know sometimes it’s tough being single and people fall out of shape because they’re discouraged! I wish more men could see that a woman can really shine when they are loved and supported. Sometimes we all just need someone there with us on our journey to becoming the best version of ourself!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@TurnLemons2Lemonade_]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thanks, you know I’m a big fan, Stephan! Also, with that being said, I’m in the gym & eating paleo this year, getting myself back to my hottest version. Cause I can’t wish things into being different and I know men are extremely visual, even though I’m not, lol! ❤️

[@kymchu]

@@TurnLemons2Lemonade_ you can do it! :) Cheering you on

[@TurnLemons2Lemonade_]

@@kymchuthank you, kind stranger!

[@toymath1111]

@TurnLemons2Lemonade_, I wholeheartedly agree with you!!! I'm embarking on the same journey, yet I'm doing it for myself!!! Kudos to you!!!💖☝🏾👏🏾✊🏾💪🏾💯💯

[@kymchu]

I know of a few male friends that they've met his woman almost like love at first sight! One met her at the train station platform, and another met her at a dinner party then knew straight away he'd want to marry her then he did it. Fairytale stories can also be reality for some! :)

[@msdemeanour]

Are they divorced yet?

[@verdellfelder8059]

I'm waiting on my true love that God is sending😊❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you ❤ 🙏

[@Portia620]

Me too….. have a boyfriend and maybe this will last but too early to know,

[@PrincessSharoneyTreasure]

@@Portia620 Beautiful :)

[@n.v.1173]

Yes attraction is the initial however the foundation is deep love/friendship because looks fades as we get older. 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@Cali57]

😂right he insecure and don’t even have it all put together with his looks and personality combined give me a break on the superficial

[@steelbeachsiren]

Attraction to looks can blind me but only if it's backed-up by their soul working with mine

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate that ❤️

[@Bluebutterfly80]

Haha I love Stefans laugh when he puts his foot in it 😂

[@johntraverssali3848]

😂😂 I am always anticipating it.. "this might trigger some of y'all" 😅

[@zzbutler517]

Exactly!!! But he’s man enough to own up to his mistake, correct it and move forward. He’s so truthful and direct!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂 Thank you for watching, I appreciate your feedback!

[@sandarbhrana9190]

Thanks man I have finally found the woman who makes me feel so comfortable. She is high class and I am me, she tells me that she doesn't appreciate my language but she has started using my "cheap" language. It is only 4 dates but I am already making changes to make her feel more comfortable.

[@user-bi4hf6vq1d]

Oh don't fall for all Words & No Action! I was "dating" a guy. Lots of beautiful words and texts. We did a couple of things together but he kept cancelling saying he forgot we had plans or double booked some work event, etc., when we had real plans! Then was ghosted rt before Christmas & found out he was texting at least 3 other women a real player! They need to Talk the Talk & Walk the Walk!! If not Adios!

[@jessmackiedo6717]

Right. I’ve learned a long time ago that words mean nothing if no effort is put behind them.

[@Sharon-777]

Absolutely just dumped a guy for this behavior funny thing is he seems broken we only knew each other for 4 months that's not long enough to fall deeply in love relax and move on dude

[@sterlingwoodruff3562]

Exactly! I had the same thing happen. He was perfect with words but no action.

[@LoveWindd]

A lot of girls in the comments needs to understand the difference between genuine care and love bombing

[@Portia620]

But the push and pull is so addicting!😂😂. Then the let down is too much and not worth it bit the a. Is amazing from it. Sad stories

[@PreciousMethodMan]

True factor ladies useur instinct don't. estimate yourself think wisely knw your worthywhy u settle 2left hello

[@lindseym3810]

I truly believe this applies, but he’s afraid of intimacy, avoids and distracts himself with work… sadly he can’t seem to see what I see. And so I’m left with all the love, hurt, and knowledge of what could have been. Thanks for the informative video as always.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@amarie0000]

Im 40 years old and still waiting. The men that i like, never like me. Then the men that like me, i never like. Its a very hard cycle. All of my friends around me are married, in serious relationships, and have kids. So i am the odd person out. I really like 2 men right now and i have no idea if they feel the same way.

[@eltrinajohnson626]

Makes so much sense to me. I have questions in regards to some other topics that I don't think you have covered yet. I would love to hear your take on it.

[@sacampbr1]

This is beautiful when guys get to this position….. however the question is how often do they get there?🙏🏾

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@valerie4912]

I agree with the attraction piece and can relate. I have been rejected because I’m “too skinny” and “not tall enough” I’m doing what I’ve got to do weight wise but can’t get any taller 😂

[@Torischannel1]

Same but me for being too fatness I'm working on it too

[@IAMmelchesidic]

I encourage you to love the you God made you! Secure your identity in Christ. Walk in that. I celebrate you!

[@IAMmelchesidic]

We ain't everybody's cup of tea, but we are somebody's!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@Catherine22518]

I’m 5’ and my boyfriend is 6’4”, he absolutely loves how short I am and can pick me up! lol If they don’t like you because of your height, he’s not the man for you.

[@quartd2542]

I can feel you on the 20 pounds point. I made two promises to myself last year concerning my eating habits and lost 20 pounds easy. My clothes fit better, I now tuck my shirt in and belt it to make it neat. I'm not hiding my still full waist and butt. I'm not teetering between squeezing or fitting into my jeans and it makes a difference. I'm no where near where I felt most confident, but there is a difference.

[@milliemill3782]

Stephan the weight issue can go the other way as well. Years ago men would tell me "you cute but you need to gain some weight" 😂. I would feel so insulted but over the years I did gain weight and I have to say they were right😂 with some of us a little weight makes a BIG difference.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your experience! Hopefully, it will help others learn from it. I appreciate that 🙏

[@pennymichaels7449]

I get so confused on the separation between attraction and feelings - for me one cannot exist without the other. If I'm attracted to a man I start viewing him romantically, so it's difficult for me to imagine someone viewing them separately, even though a lot of people do. Recently ended it with a guy who told me he was very attracted to me but had no romantic interest. Hoping to meet someone who wants both❤

[@zzbutler517]

It depends on the man and woman. For me, the feelings, deep intimate bond, peace is more important than the attraction.

[@kizzyharrison6906]

❤

[@shiviverma300]

Attracted means he finds you sexually attractive and would love yo sleep with you. Not being romantically interested means that he doesn't see you as long term. He doesn't wish to date you or commit to you.

[@Sunlightsam24]

I don’t think we can know that because women don’t have a preponderance of testosterone.

[@PreciousMethodMan]

True fact geniune

[@Luxuryglow_tz]

You are right He doesn’t fit my checklist of the guy I want but he is the one for me.He makes me feel like I’m a queen and this is when I said he is the one❤❤

[@lazydaisy4453]

Oh lord... everything that you mentioned happened with me and the man I loved but guess what ... I was dropped and tossed away with no good reason.... so now I listen to Shera and you know what she said about peace ... she said be his peace and he will bring you a side piece .... now from experience I understand the wisdom of shera

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you heal from all that you have been through 🙏

[@lazydaisy4453]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you ... I admire your ability to come up with a nice and diplomatic answer 👌

[@msdemeanour]

😂😂

[@Sunlightsam24]

Yikes, that’s not true at all. One of the first things my guy told me was I bring him peace. It’s hard for men to find a woman that brings him peace. He won’t jeopardize that with some other woman.

[@lazydaisy4453]

@@Sunlightsam24 he told me I made him feel safe .. then after that he started telling me he was happy around me and that I say all the right things... so I am really confused and heart broken after he discarded me ... I wish you a happy life

[@bellafavorites5721]

I love hearing your take on relationships, because it helps me get the male perspective that women sometimes are not attuned to. I loved your point about bringing peace in a relationship, but it goes both ways for me. I live a stable life and love bringing peace and consistency to a relationship, but I expect the same from a man. Once they start bringing in foolishness, then it's over.

[@Sunlightsam24]

Men usually don’t create drama, although I did date s man who did-needless to say, he was let go.

[@growingisthepurpose48]

Great video because we all have our preferences. However, Stephan, as you stated, some characteristics, qualities, and attributes supercede having one specific feature for a lot of men & women. It is true that sound balance in mind, body, soul, and spirit is important in relationship.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@alitez960]

Great video,so true😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@zzbutler517]

You described this perfectly!!! Hit the nail on the head!!!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@zzbutler517]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks you are absolutely welcome! I’ve followed you for a long time now. You have helped me get through a 20 year marriage, domestic situations, build my confidence, be a better woman, understand men WAY more, and apply all these things to life. I’m still working on me.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@zzbutler517]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks always

[@zzbutler517]

@@MeetStephanSpeaks thank you for actually reading my comment

[@1004186]

If he really chose to be with the small breasted woman, then he needs to respect her and stop looking at the bigger breasted woman.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@msdemeanour]

Or buy her new b00bs? 👀

[@ilza_c_s_almeida]

I just love the way you say things... that is nice and funny!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤️ 🙂 Thank you!

[@samiglover4390]

Your videos are great! What I would love to see is how do you let a man lead and provide without surrendering your power

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Great suggestion, I will add it to my list to get it done!

[@happygucci5094]

Great question- can’t wait for the answer !

[@__justLeslie]

We dated and it was the first time we met. I don’t know but we just look at each other. It’s not about lust. I felt at peace when I was with him. I don’t know if he felt the same way, too.

[@SpringHWhipple]

I believe, one day, when we're both ready. It'll happen. Until then... I'll be patient.

[@toymath1111]

@MeetStephanSpeaks I absolutely love your videos, I'm subbed and I watch them all the time! Yet I feel like no matter what someone looks like on the outside, it's the inside that matters as well (I know it's "cliche-ish"). I believe that when a man and a woman fall in love with the mind first and foremost with one another, then it could beautifully progress from there. As for me, I'm not a shallow person, looks are fleeting, and I'm looking for someone that doesn't have to be perfect, but a work in progress as we all are, and that's what matters most to me! Like they say, "team-work makes the dream work" in all aspects of establishing a relationship, so with that being said, I will patiently wait for the "Boaz" to my "Ruth"!!! Blessings and Shalom to you and everyone on this journey!!!💖☝🏾🙏🏾👏🏾✊🏾💪🏾💯

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

I pray that you receive the man who is truly best for you, the man God has for you ❤ 🙏

[@user-bi4hf6vq1d]

Hmmm wondering if two people aren't attracted initially or they carry preferences, I question if the rest will fall into place. If a man has a "propensity" for certain physical traits will his taste change just because she's the one, will he ever be completely satisfied? Could this become an issue in the future when the limerance wears off and long term connection sets in??

[@t.harris1161]

Thanks, Stephen, for the great videos.❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

My pleasure ❤️

[@t.harris1161]

I watch all your videos and I hope you know...they are my favorite and much appreciated. Please keep sending them because they are so informative.

[@xoxo.shaunae]

I have self awareness to a certain degree, but it hurts to know that men will use you for temporary time and not even see you as THE ONE. Once they find what they’re looking for they’re gone. It’s easier for men to walk away, but hard for a woman to let go. I don’t even feel he’s using me. Maybe I’m just a good friend for the time being.

[@asiamayne]

This is why I ask so many questions moving forward like “ can I ask a question and can you be honest with me ? am I what you would consider your preference?” I notice in so many cases we are afraid to ask the tough questions out of fear of rejection.

[@tiffanysabrinag]

I’m with an amazing man who speaks all my love languages. I don’t know if I’m being insecure, I hate one of my other girls friends even point this out to me. But he keeps following baddies on IG. And not like popular baddies but women I know he would pursue. I know it seems childish and petty but I just wonder why keep searching if so certain about me?! I’m a baddie myself and not the insecure type I’m aware there’s beautiful women everywhere and a brotha gon look, but I guess it makes me feel like I’m not enough? Could just be self sabotaging thoughts because other than that he gives me no reason to doubt his sincerity and love..

[@dasagondova4544]

He is no good and no woman is good enough for him. His behaviour is also immature and egotistical.

[@pamelaseegars3970]

I love this Video Thank You for Sharing

[@kayhogan3875]

Well I check all the boxes…. Can’t wait to see what happens between us. It’s been almost 4 months and I do feel he could be the one. I just need to know that he feels the same way. What I appreciate about him most is that he does love being in my presence without sex. He just like to talk and be next to me. Sometimes we fall asleep and sometimes after we talk it’s like the sex is even better because we are continuously building our bond. He is really sweet to me and I feel like I am falling in love 2nd time. Last time was 20 years ago but they moved out the country. I thought I would never feel that feeling again. So I thank The Most High God everyday and I always pray for direction in our relationship.❤

[@MW-he4cp]

You, sir, are a gem. The opposite sex really needs to get into the mind of the other. You and others like you really help with this. Things like this should be taught in highschool!

[@ChristiGo]

These whole videos need the GRACE, LOVE, AND MERCY OF THE ALMIGHTY MOST HIGH GOD AND HIS SON JESUS CHRIST ❤🙏🏼

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@JStig12]

I am primarily a leg man.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@jillrouse7022]

I am 19 years older than this guy and he constantly looks at younger women. It makes me feel old and not enough for him. He says I am his peace and comfort but I feel more like his carer. He says he’d marry me if I was 10 years younger. I don’t want to feel old as I am so young looking and youthful in my ways. I’m not short of admirers. Younger men often approach me but I don’t want to be ashamed of my age.. help me

[@cheryllewis1697]

If you are single and available, your man will find you.

[@rarashideout1416]

Hope you're not still with that boy? He is taking you nowhere.

[@happygucci5094]

You already know the answer Sis- you got this

[@roxy7255]

For me the being overweight isn’t just the fact it’s unattractive (to me) physically, but that it indicates someone lacks discipline and or doesn’t understand healthy eating - it’s those reasons it wouldn’t be the person for me.

[@amber_chosenone13]

This is Soo true 😊

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

💯 yes!

[@moniques_brew2438]

That's right

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@DeeDee-ij2qk]

Shouldn’t the guy let you know when you are his peace? If he doesn’t and you keep questioning it, does that mean you aren’t compatible?

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@PhoenixGoddess]

If sry 20 lbs makes the difference he not for you. She deserves someone that loves her just how she is.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing your thoughts, I appreciate hearing from you ❤

[@Catherine22518]

Yeah 20 pounds isn’t that much, I’ll gain it if I eat a taco! 😂 Luckily my man likes big booties which is where that extra weight gain goes straight too!

[@PhoenixGoddess]

@SweetGildings 🤣🤣🤣 for real 20 lbs?? She never could have his baby.. Yes let the man love on u.. 😊😊💜💜

[@hoami.]

Love your videos!

[@user-xl7jt3xh7y]

Great video, thanks❤❤❤

[@Natalia-xo1yj]

I love this, thank you brother! He is pouring into you because he LOVES you not because of all of your , "assets" lol 😂

[@sakinadin2828]

Hello Stephan, When is it the best time to tell the man that you have deep feelings for, that you have feelings for him in a way that doesn’t scare him off? Also, how do you prepare yourself for rejection ahead of time if he rejected you? Thank you for time Stephan, Sakina

[@karleneledgister2193]

Awesome thanks 💯💥

[@carolkisembo4795]

@Stephen Speaks, what would a man exactly mean if he said that he feels fragile with you?

[@beths4249]

My guy right now is when he is doing everything to help us be together a things faulted, he will not talk to me.. he distances me so I won’t see his frustration. As a women, I need words. Some form of communication. You can’t just not, not talk to me an think I will be ok!! Says he loves me. Yet I feel ghosted from a man who ‘loves’ me!? Your having an issue a you love me.. how can we connect when you/me can’t fix things together!? Why? Isn’t that what a relationship is!? Crazy to me. An extra frustrating. I want peace. If you would just talk to me.

[@user-fh1tr9zp3l]

To you men take this advice ll Try finding out about yourselves first Before you try to figure out if a Woman is ONE ,TWO or THREE Because this has no guarantee you re gonna settle down

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@estheranasu162]

How do you know for sure that he stopped carring for other women?

[@jancyples4966]

I had a man contact me through messages, I can’t explain why but we just seem to click with each other through the things we shared with each other about our selves and what we were wanting from our future and relationship, we would share video messages with each other and constantly sharing pictures of our selves. Do you think that this would be possible to for us to be together in the future? I asked him what his 5 year plan was for the future, he said it was to be living with me and to be married to me.

[@user-bi4hf6vq1d]

Be very careful. Text, video and even phone is NOT connecting IRL!!

[@acd1168]

That’s not a relationship.

[@erinmccann114]

Yes probaly studied your social media and is copying your interests

[@erinmccann114]

Hes*

[@hishebamckenzie5974]

Run lady, run far.

[@angelabogdan4253]

❤❤❤❤❤❤Bless you and your family AMIN. NAMASTE

[@outiirmeli]

If 20 pounds is the one thing that makes someone not perfect for you, then maybe you two are not right for each other in the first place. I am attracted to the persons mind and if there is a deep connection with a person, it does not matter, what they weight. 20 pounds less, 20 pounds more, it does not matter, because the mind is the sexiest thing a person can have. Looks fade, you might loose weight, you might gain weight, so what. It is life, happens to each and every one of us. Find a person who loves you for your mind and soul and you are set for life.

[@Acornsme45]

Please help!!! I like this guy and he is really shy, am also really shy. He is reserved and quiet. My family invited him and his family over to our house and he is always quiet and reserved. But when we are in a different place he seems a little more talkative. I’ve seen him look at me a few times from far away and he looks away. The other day his mother told me that if I ever wanted to go to the movies to let him and his sister know so we can go together. Then he starts speaking and kind of stuttering, he said “yeah. You guys just let me know.” Some days I feel like he might be interested but other times not so much. I don’t know if he feels the same way I feel.

[@user-qn9it7vp7n]

Thank you for this video .I told someone if you want a woman it's not an issue to devote to her 😂😂😂😂 it's okay to see other women but your attention will be with me 😂😂😂😂you can't be hanging out with others ,party with them ,go to event with them then claim love no Seur you don't want me 😂😂😂😂😂

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@sahithireddy3757]

What to do if you feel he is “the one” but he says he is still not sure?

[@musicallife3981]

Move on

[@haydehjalayer6474]

Thank you!🙏

[@user-qn9it7vp7n]

Thank you more love and respect for you👌😘when a man knows you're the one he is more flexible with your needs 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️and thank you for explaining attraction and look 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥👌😘❤❤❤❤❤she treats you like traps 😂😂😂😂😂but you still there saying she is beautiful😂😂😂😂you nailed it .us women do this too .a loser treat you as trap but because he looks good you dying 😂😂😂😂😂love bro you said it all👌😘❤❤❤❤peace is definitely a deal for me aswell lol!

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

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[@pudgie011]

I have to say I'm am really frustrated with men these days!! I have gone on a date with two different men different time frames and each one turned out to be married. These older men in their 60s. I have learned to research the men I go out with and that's how I fine out they are married. All I want is someone who I can trust but dont think I will find him seriously! I'm seriously done and just think I will be single.

[@LoveYourLife2]

He left me. Yet has contacted me to vent to about personal things going on. I don't understand it.

[@cappylady4002]

I imagine when men and women choose their partners there is the inner dialogue like choosing a shirt at the store. Is it reliable? Will it last?

[@jessicathomas4645]

@Stephan, how do I become one of your clients, I have issues lol

[@riejackson5705]

This man came to me and ask me to marry him. But we never dated . And he say I am the one.

[@73odus]

The guy that said he would be attracted to the woman who lost 20 pounds would be the exact exact same guy whom would get married and then be annoyed if his petite wife gained even 1 pound during their marriage. He's bad news from the get-go.

[@jen-ov2bi]

The last guy I dated I’m not even entirely sure he liked women at all… the only guy I ever dated in my WHOLE LIFE that didn’t even come remotely close to trying to sleep with me. At 1st it was cool cuz I’m abstinent but then like after 3/4 weeks… and then 5mos still no physical intimacy… & he wouldn’t speak about his feeling so he wasn’t communicating what the issue was… destroyed my self esteem… To be clear even gay guys have tried to hook up with me… so I’m still confused… lol

[@victoriabernice]

With the (he stops caring about other women ) what happens if he told another girl he used to talk to that he still cares about her a lot?

[@christinemarielayne]

❤❤❤ how do I really know he loves me ❤❤❤hes my gift 🎁 from God 🙏🙏🙏🌹

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

When a man deeply loves you, he'll say these four things 👉 kzbin.info/www/bejne/q5O7ioWDi8R2iKs

[@Portia620]

Thank you for bringing this up!!! Big breast! I feel like men want it all thin and that and usually thin women do not have big breast😂

[@tanishamcdonala3181]

listening ✍🏽

[@sarahdiv2731]

Because He has found the Rest 0f Himself when he gets ti know her

[@grand_air_trine_astro]

Most likely his Jupiter falls into her 7th house and/or her Jupiter in his 8th - astrology shows these things easily.

[@dalishiadash1200]

I’m listening

[@lisajones-franklin3574]

😂😂😂 Stephan.🙏🏽🙌🏽♥️

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@wealthesther7991]

Currently I'm hurt. Some other woman called to tell me my man has been dating her as well. She gave me all their chats and I approached him. Ever since then he doesn't speak to me. At first he wanted to deny it all, until I dropped the proof the lady sent to me. He was actually apologising to her and denying he never had a relationship with me.

[@ginaramsey1384]

What if you're all the things? It's all good, if they're not a narcissist.

[@SA-sr3qn]

I was wondering why so many married men or men with their gfs were oglying at other girls/women right infront of their significant other. Thanks Stephan.

[@monikaleszko5343]

Agreeeeee 🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@severinlippold7841]

Unfortunately, this motivation decreases as life goes on. The older a man gets, the less he has the need to commit himself to a woman to the same extent, to care for her and to look after her as he would have done when he was younger. I think this urge only comes to the fore up to a certain age and then diminishes more and more. Especially since our form of society shows that women live more and more independently (which is a good thing). But from around the age of 50, everyone has a lot of experiences and influences behind them and no longer sees any point in committing to a woman again. For many people it's simply too tiring and they have the mindset: now I'm free and from now on I just want to enjoy my life. For the good people who really mean it, it's very sad. Here in Germany in particular, the topic is handled a little more harshly. Because different cultures deal with it differently.

[@Mywatercrystaltv]

Hmmm... ask the men who later end up in nursing homes without a partner for the same reasons. All I hear is regret all day....

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@carieyounginsurance]

I’m 51 and my boyfriend is 57 and we are deeply in love because we both have never had anything like what we have together- some of us haven’t given up to finding it later in life!

[@severinlippold7841]

@@Mywatercrystaltv Oh yeah that is very sad too...

[@severinlippold7841]

@@carieyounginsurance That's heartwarming. I'm not giving up either, when the time is right the right person will come along.

[@DemonDavisK]

Very rare these days, very.

[@traceytoleito.6372]

♥️♥️♥️🙏

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@TIFINYKENT]

I needed to hear number 2 🙄 but can we still read Matthew 5:28? NO, IM NOT A BIBLE THUMPER!

[@RobinNesbit-Walker]

He thought if she lose 20lbs that’s the first thing it’ll be something else next

[@eleanorjamison1985]

❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

❤ 🙂

[@user-jc2ku9dx2g]

Stephan I don't care about other pls business 😢😢

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

Thank you for sharing, I appreciate your feedback 🙏

[@katherinebrown3836]

😎

[@matuitaclarke7361]

I’ve been, the 1..3xs married!!widowed divorced.. I didn’t ask thank you. Please stop.

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@Nirvanaty4J]

What...?

[@palvineangum1225]

❤❤🙏🙏

[@muma6559]

when you say attraction, do you mean attracted to the person or attracted physically to her face and body ??? (including boobs..lol)

[@muma6559]

Is it proportion that matters ? Some women have small b and big bum, others have big b and small bum. I'm assuming the equal proportions look nice for men but i could be wrong... idk, horses for courses

[@annabanzon313]

Oh everyone is delusional, even men. It's okay, welcome to the club 😆.

[@ritaceron7329]

i ReBuke. Sickness nasty 🤮 evil 👿 spirit YAHUA been rising ❤

[@MeetStephanSpeaks]

🙏 ❤️

[@futhixaba7884]

What you’re not understanding is that we (women) do not care to be your (male) exception! Your attempt to justify his…”20lb” lighter ism is actually offensive!