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@405OKCShiningOn3 жыл бұрын
Kyle, I shared the resources featuring men working thru their problems. There was less resistance!! Progress is moving along. I have endless confidence in the present and future generations they are gonna be so great. Little breakthrough here: sparkling vitamin water replaced beer. Therapy replaced the grief where the thought becomes a bahavoir. Like Dr Judy says do the opposite of my sadder mood.
@chantellewilson94973 жыл бұрын
Dr Ramani is absolutely amazing I watch her religiously.
@DarlingNickki7773 жыл бұрын
I agree, she’s wonderful!
@melinaburkhardt4213 жыл бұрын
Yes, she is the queen.🥰😇
@Singinbluebird3 жыл бұрын
Love working at home. It's a blessing 🙌🙏✨😌❤. We don't talk enough about how toxic some workplaces are. I hated office politics , office favoritism, gossips, rumors, office clicks.....now that I work at home you don't have to deal with any of that. I also work for company that does meetings phone calls and no videos. ( thank god). 😊 Also no longer being in stuck in traffic through out day , being home , being around my own environment, pets, using my own restroom, setting my schedule , etc all are things that ACTUALLY give peace of mind and gives us less stress in our lives. Yes I know some people do not prefer this but some introverts are thriving and happy during this time.....while extroverts may be taking this very hard . However I agree with Dr Ramani. Social skills is a muscle we need keep practicing and we introverts need keep exercising this muscle 💪😌💕
@DeVonAmbitious3 жыл бұрын
This is exactly why I want a remote job. I like my job, but if I had a well paying remote job I would probably go part-time.
@SS-dy4tk3 жыл бұрын
…Covid is not in the past tense. And the emotional and mental toll will be long lasting
@breakingpoint38933 жыл бұрын
Thank you for saying that, it's as if the vaccine made some people forget about the struggle some of us went through... my family refuses to acknowledge my struggle during covid, I ended up on. Suicide watch for almost a month at the hospital, and neither of my parents cared. I wish I could stop caring for them like they do about me.... my mom is great at shifting the blame on to me over everything. I just never realize it until after I'm done talking to her.
@LifeIsGood493 жыл бұрын
@@breakingpoint3893 Thanks for sharing a summary of your struggle, with us. It must be tough having to go through all that. I pray for you. I pray that God transcends into family. And help you and others navigate such intense times. I pray for recovery and healing in all the spheres of your life. This is brave of you to share such a vulnerable part of your life.
@breakingpoint38933 жыл бұрын
@@LifeIsGood49 thank you for your kind words, So many of us in the mental health community need that and we don't always get it, you have a blessed day as well ❤
@SS-dy4tk3 жыл бұрын
@HASKO aweee back at y’a , freak
@breakingpoint38933 жыл бұрын
COVID19 almost killed me mentally.... I still don't know if I'll ever be the same.... people are meaner and the lack of concern for other people's well being just hurts.... I would feel so bad if anyone got this disease if I didn't do my part.....I don't know why people can't just do what is needed to get past this pandemic. It's so disappointing
@TheDJLionman3 жыл бұрын
whats dissapointing is how weak and stupid the average human is, you are talking about doing "whats needed" like you or anyone knows the correct actions to take with certainty trying to generalize the path that each human should take through life is disgusting and untill people learn bounderies there will be constant tormoil the problem with the world is that people dont know how to mind there own business, its pretty obvious you wanna preach but you dont have the balls to speak in plain terms.
@kwpp73 жыл бұрын
What if YOU are the person showing a lack of concern for others by demanding they conform to what makes you more comfortable? What about members of the Deaf community who have been ostracized because they need to lip read to communicate and they can't when everyone's wearing masks? What about children with disabilities who couldn't handle wearing masks? What about people like me with a history of heart problems who are uncomfortable with getting an experimental injection with a high incidence of triggering myocarditis and other heart issues? Check yourself before you demonize the "other side".
@bzabc1233 жыл бұрын
People have definitely become more aggressive in recent years. I think everyone is scared, but of different things, and it manifests in different ways...some on the offense, some on the defense. But you're right, it sure would be nice to see people be kinder to one another. But there are lots of caring compassionate ones out there too...they are the ones to look for and appreciate. 😊 💜
@Macabresque3 жыл бұрын
I relate to this so much. It's incredibly frustrating. And then people immediately went and proved your point for you by replying in various shitty ways. The pandemic has really opened my eyes to just how many ignorant, selfish people there are out there. I appreciate your vulnerability on the Internet, there's a lot of assholes on here.
@walsh52382 жыл бұрын
@@TheDJLionman the tone in your response might just be the “mean” that BreakingPoint (username) is speaking about. Ya know? More people do seem to comment and get revved up, unkind words follow. From my experiences. In my opinion. “In a world where you can choose anything, choose kind.”
@cynthiacole61403 жыл бұрын
Anxiety... I have really found myself suffering more and more from mental health issues during this pandemic in every way. Not having a calm, clear, non-politically motivated message coming from our country's leaders makes matters so much worse.
@musiclist55663 жыл бұрын
Tell yourself a different story WOW this really helped me. I was beating myself up over a personal mistake and realized I was telling myself the wrong story which was causing fear and anxiety. I'm switching the story now and instead of beating myself up I'm realizing it was a learning experience that will help me make healthier choices in the future. I am forgiven, I am loved, I am accepted for ALL of me when I'm on the mountain and when I'm in the valley. I am protected and loved.
@christinat46893 жыл бұрын
I felt like the walls were closing in on me. A few days into the thick of quarantine I was begging my husband to take a drive with me. Beaches / parks it was all closed , there was nothing open to sit and just be. I felt like I was suffocating. The pandemic and lock down has made me feel awful for the people in solitary and jail in general.
@elizajohn52 жыл бұрын
Before covid i used to love going to my local bar on friday and saturday nights for a few beers and chatting my friends. Now though all restrictions are lifted i feel i cannot motivate myself to go back. Covid though i didn`t get it wore me down mentally. Since last year i have been suffering severe anxiety and depression on and off. I feel a completely different person. Best of luck to everyone who are finding it difficult right now!
@jf84612 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@gayleshelton36303 жыл бұрын
I was isolated many years before, started doing better, then bam the virus happened. Talk about screwed
@bumblebee8033 жыл бұрын
@Gayle Shelton - I was in the exact same position. I'm soooooo over the lockdowns.
@treywhite41863 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this video. I have severe social anxiety and C-PTSD, and the pandemic has been a blessing and a curse. This video is so helpful!
@MedCircle3 жыл бұрын
So glad this video was a helpful resource. 💙
@anisaa87523 жыл бұрын
its really hard, try to keepy busy as long as your busy you wont notice your anxiety as much. this helps me alot
@marleymae67463 жыл бұрын
Lol. Zoom is awful for my social anxiety.
@amandawilcox96383 жыл бұрын
Lots of my friends like Zoom. I am NOT one of them. I appreciate that it exists. It's useful. I am not interested in seeing Zoomites at home, in jammies.🤢🤯
@405OKCShiningOn3 жыл бұрын
Thank you, great timing.
@Cutest1TheGame3 жыл бұрын
I have social anxiety (undiagnosed) and I recognize these symptoms. What I took from this that I didn’t know before was 1) social anxiety is about fear of social scrutiny (and it definitely feels this way!) and 2) being social is a muscle and this muscle has to be exercised in order to get stronger / stay strong.
@KoolT3 жыл бұрын
We're are learning so much from you. Thank you very much.
@pacather3 жыл бұрын
Have you guys thought about developing a PTSD prevention/treatment program for frontline health care workers who have been dealing with Covid? It's probably the #1 reason why so many of them are leaving the bedside. These are people who are used to sickness and death...only they've never seen so many people get this sick and die for as long as they have. I don't think this issue is being appreciated and it certainly needs to be dealt with. We need these people to care for all of us and we don't need them to become long term psychiatric casualties, like war veterans. Let's deal with the problem now. Just some thoughts from a retired nurse.
@moonhunter99933 жыл бұрын
I have PTSD due to domestic violence and have some degree of claustrophobia where I just have to get out of the house and go for a walk (even in the middle of the night sometimes). When the first lockdown with curfews came, I was quite worried that I wouldn't be able to cope. As you could get arrested if you walked/travelled after hours without permit, it really wasn't an option. I was quite uncomfortable at first. But strangely, as all choice was taken away, i just learned to accept it and the desire to "escape" my flat went away over time.
@wandalast66183 жыл бұрын
I still clean everything that comes from outside sept 2021
@alicianwinter3 жыл бұрын
much needed, thank you 🙏🏼
@peepgod12633 жыл бұрын
WOW ur a great woman
@gabrielle7933 жыл бұрын
Thank you for releasing these videos on KZbin. I've been pretty invested in my treatment the past few days and watching these videos really helps me feel as if I can do this, that it isn't and doesn't have to be difficult. I can simplify my treatment plan. It also generally makes me feel a bit more positive about my day.
@wandalast66183 жыл бұрын
OCD have gone OVER THE TOP !!!!!
@anubhabchakraborty37992 жыл бұрын
3:19 So relatable
@haraldf633 жыл бұрын
For me, what people refer to as "normal life" is so much harder than the current life during covid. I guess having avpd uniquely equipped me for lockdowns
@marleymae67463 жыл бұрын
I can relate.
@amandabass97123 жыл бұрын
I was in my element when covid occurred. I've been withdrawing from society the more I've been dealing with the dishonest and toxic people surrounding me. Not everyone, but if those 10,000 plus people I interacted with daily on campus (school has around 40,000 students and I had at least 4 classes in person around campus and then I was also in a few clubs/organizations, including leadership). So I started withdrawing from that. So when covid happened, and a decent number of social people were freaking out, I was perfectly in line with my element. I had three months food and personal storage and so I wasn't freaking out about that. I managed to acclimate to online learning better than some of the face to face instructors, and so life was really fine during that time. And then I liked the mask. I felt less concerned about my smile, which I am self conscious about. As far a social interactions, I have different parameters about that anyway. Having Asperger's, I interact differently anyway, but am capable of masking but do less of that because it causes it internalized anxiety.
@jkovert3 жыл бұрын
COVID was awesome. Everyone left me alone, finally got something done.
@jennifercuddy56633 жыл бұрын
I hope the isolation ends at some point.
@breakingpoint38933 жыл бұрын
It does with the vaccine.... just be careful who you let in..... I need to be more mindful of that
@jennifercuddy56633 жыл бұрын
@@breakingpoint3893 The isolation is worse due to not wanting to be around people who seem to have lost their minds. I’ve had relationships that have sadly fallen apart due to disinformation and social media driven manipulation of people’s emotions. It’s almost like they died or at the least their personalities changed to the point I no longer recognize them. And they become very aggressive when I try and counter what they have come to believe, even to the point of becoming uncharacteristically vulgar.
@briank86973 жыл бұрын
Vaccines and masks be damned, I am All American and I will not be afraid.
@jennifercuddy56633 жыл бұрын
@@briank8697 I really do not care about what nationality you are. America is not the greatest country.
@peepgod12633 жыл бұрын
WOW ur extremely attractive n VERY cute n so beautiful n really adorable n super pretty
@fluffyt95913 жыл бұрын
Wow you are speaking my every day life😥
@AgendaInMind3 жыл бұрын
Most of the more severe illnesses happen to people by surprise, unexpectantly, impacting first in the brain, then in the corresponding organ which that part of the brain controls. The end of WWI had absolutely everything to do with the Flu and lung TB outbreak that occurred killing millions. In nature, the biological conflict linked with a territorial fear (just what it means-a fear in your territory, your home, your community, etc.) is a widening of the bronchia (tissue loss). Your body attempts to widen your bronchia in order to allow more air into your lungs to give you more strength and energy to fight to keep your territory safe. Stay with me.......The biological conflict linked with a death fright impacts the lungs. The lungs attempt to grow larger in order to allow more air in because breath equals life, as we all know. No breath equals death. While you are in the fear or death fright conflict, you notice no symptoms of “disease”, except you have cold hands, cold feet, you can’t sleep, you awaken at 3 AM every night, you have little appetite. During the WW1, millions of people were in fear of the bombing of their homes and cities where the war was most active. Fearing for their lives, their loved ones in the war, their ability to survive. The food in the stores was sparse due to shortages. This lasted for 4 long years! The longer the conflict, the worse the healing phase. Within 2 weeks of the German Chancellor announcing the end of WWI, these millions of people ALL went into the healing phase all at the same time. It is during the healing phase that you experience symptoms of illness! What is the healing phase of the bronchia widening? Severe bronchitis, pneumonia. The body attempts to refill this lost tissue and you experience inflammation, fever, coughing, body aches, fatigue, etc. What is the healing phase of the extra lung tissue that grew? Decomposing of the tissue by TB bacteria and fungi. The symptoms of this healing phase are: severe coughing up of blood and tissue, fever, inflammation, severe mucous, body aches, fatigue. During this decomposing of the extra tissue (tumor), the body expels a lot of protein, and without replenishment, severe protein loss can result in death. Antibiotics did not exist yet. If TB bacteria does not exist in a person or they have been vaccinated against TB (big mistake), then the tumor will simply encapsulate and become dormant and not harm you. Who died during the Spanish Flu? Mainly the poor who could not afford to buy meat and proper nourishment, and the people who were directly impacted by the bombings and destruction of their homes. Millions of people suffered fear and death frights during the fighting of WWI, and millions of people all went into healing at the end of it. Not everyone was affected because not everyone suffered the same way. It’s not a “flu”, it’s not something you “catch”. It’s biological, meaningful, and unavoidable. One hundred years later, a Fear Campaign begins, using the media to spread it......
@fluffyt95913 жыл бұрын
@@AgendaInMind how should we handle this kind of stress “fear and anxiety “?
@jessie96533 жыл бұрын
@@fluffyt9591 I've been listening to the "anxiety guy" on you tube. Honestly he has helped me to think and look at my anxiety in different ways
@sandascubli37213 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!!! I don't feel so alone anymore.
@BDmanaser3 жыл бұрын
I think I saw you today near the tennis court where I practice. Just wanted to thank you for making these videos; they are very informative and helpful.
@mpGreen033 жыл бұрын
For someone with social anxiety - working from home made it life so much easier. I got used to zoom meetings and I am really unphotogenic but I just don't care about that anymore. However irl - there would be so much awkward social things happening at the office, during lunch breaks, shouting and noise. Daily meetings made me always uncomfortable because we had to stand around a board and due to some past issues it always felt like someone was staring at my legs and butt. That most probably was never the case but I felt much more socially anxious irl, plus just chatting via Teams currently is also much more comfy for me. And am terrified of going back to office now lol
@moonhunter99933 жыл бұрын
Dr Kristy Lamb made the most sense when it came to management. You have to find that balance or middle ground between compassion and "reaching" for achievable actions. No pushing hard. That eventually backfires. The advice from Dr Judy Ho was just a bit far removed from reality and what was/is going on during covid. Do your hobbies? I neither had money nor time to do anything but fight for survival and putting food on the table every day. I had to start a new business from scratch while still trying to make the little i could from the business that collapsed due to the lockdowns. I worked through many a night (and still am)...
@binnins19823 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for coving these topics. I dont think they have been memtioned enough during this pandemic. As someone who deals with anxiety, c-ptsd,adhd, anxiety and panic attacks and has a history of severe childhood asthma attacks(part of where the ptsd comes from) this pandemic has been like a horror movie version of Groundhog Day. How ever had this not happened i may never have found out where the ptsd came from since i have no memory of the events or of most of my life(up to about age 25, im 39 now) Im scared to death of the ppe(not the virus) and the sensation of not being able to breathe. I love social distancing though...can we keep that please? So once again thank you sooooooo much. Stay safe. #FullyVaccinated
@moniquetorres29103 жыл бұрын
Thank You For Sharing This Video with all of us
@mendyviola2 жыл бұрын
Early in the pandemic zoom days, we all turned off our video cameras within days. It was a view in our homes we didn’t feel that we needed to shared (half nekkid spouses, pet butts amd kids running amok). We used desk top sharing and traditional conference call protocols.
@gayleyb12333 жыл бұрын
True. I didn't mind being masked because we DID all look aluke. I realized that about me. But I still loved going to the store everyday. (Had to get out if the house at least once a day)
@wandalast66183 жыл бұрын
I have bad OCD for 28 years . Now I can’t even go out of my house after COVID. I’m going to the Dr but didn’t help at all . Just lots of meds
@peepgod12633 жыл бұрын
Ur extremely attractive n VERY cute n so beautiful
@Macabresque3 жыл бұрын
@@peepgod1263 STFU dude
@peepgod12633 жыл бұрын
@@Macabresque ustfu2
@peepgod12633 жыл бұрын
Ur ok! I'm extremely OCD 2 but I go every where! R u vac'd? Btw? I am! I just need da booster!
@bubblebuffy3 жыл бұрын
Omg yes. Zoom is really convenient for some things but ugh! You really get to notice things about yourself that you wouldn’t normally. Apparently, my face itches more than anyone else on any zoom ever. I had no idea I was so fidgety!
@kryssysmith14863 жыл бұрын
Has anyone developed Agoraphobia because of the pandemic? I know I have, I just want to know if I'm not the only one.
@tamzpyne76133 жыл бұрын
i have...i barely leave the house and if i have to i dread it...i start feeling extremely anxious and paranoid
@kryssysmith14863 жыл бұрын
@@tamzpyne7613 Thank you for letting me know I'm not the only one dealing with this.
@tamzpyne76133 жыл бұрын
@@kryssysmith1486 I also felt alone...I don't even think I'm capable of socializing anymore....at the moment I feel so awkward...my dream life would be to live in the country side away from people...
@kryssysmith14863 жыл бұрын
@@tamzpyne7613 Yeah even for me, socializing ( to begin with was hard enough pre-pandemic). The pandemic just made everything ten times worse. The only people I socialize with are only a few people, I can count them on one hand how many people I actually socialize with. There are days where I just don't want to see anybody I don't want to talk to anybody, I get myself through it by telling myself that "I can do it even if it's only for 5 minutes."
@bzabc1233 жыл бұрын
Hi, I just found this video, and saw the comments. Yes!! I had recovered from a severe anxiety disorder about a decade ago, which included panic attacks and agoraphobia. I felt I'd finally found a "normal" existence. During this pandemic I settled into being homebound quite well. I wasn't aware how comfortable I had gotten until I realized I had to "get back out there." It's been rough. The panic attacks are back, as is the tendency to want to hide out. But thankfully I have found some amazing resources, including MedCircle, that have helped me cope. I'm not as hard on myself this time around about the struggles, and I think that has made a huge difference.
@pollysey65773 жыл бұрын
Forgot OCD
@wil36303 жыл бұрын
Can you do a video on reactive attachment disorder? I’m scared I might have this
@AnushkaSingh-F3 жыл бұрын
my mom keeps yelling and shouting everyday to the point where i am kinda half asleep half awake i am hallucinating that she is yelling even when she's not....
@elizabethwade96153 жыл бұрын
Great video, lots of good advice
@lalakuma93 жыл бұрын
Can you please make a video about how to manage a relationship with someone with PTSD? One of my best friends has PTSD from childhood trauma, but sometimes I feel like she tries to control my behavior and doesn't acknowledge my feelings. She's not always like that, and I think it might be a symptom of her condition. But I also have anxiety and self-doubt issues myself because I grew up with pretty controlling parents, so I think some of her behavior are harmful to me. Do you have any advice?
@natasha-thesingingflower23623 жыл бұрын
How do I stop this from getting in my way of progressing to a better life or leaving this pain behind? I feel like I'm horrible sometimes, and it takes so much out of me to just get out of bed.
@bumblebee8033 жыл бұрын
Love this video, I just wish the Australian government would let us out of lockdown, it's like house arrest without a crime. Trust me, once we are let out, our anxiety will slowly go away. This is the most destructive thing anyone can go thru, other than war. WE NEED HELP!
@jimmybutler37283 жыл бұрын
BEING FEARFUL AND LIVING IN DOUBT WEAKEN YOUR BODY TO FIGHT OFF ILLNESS! KNOWN FROM HISTORY AND MASS UPSETNESS OVER LONG TIME WEAKENS THE BODY AND LACK OF REST!
@abeach54203 жыл бұрын
Hiya.....'note'...... can videos be created so they are set at a higher volume? I have laptop at max plus actual videos posted, but still not high enough so then have to use headphones. It isn't all videos either and I am aware that often various professionals etc are in another location using different and variable recording tech.
@peepgod12633 жыл бұрын
Thx! Y'all look GREAT! 👆☝️🔥👍
@houseofhale2 жыл бұрын
I have an immunocompromised son and our whole family still needs to wear masks everywhere. He has had to get repeat childhood immunizations because he has lost immunity to some of them. The vaccinations that are supposed to last a lifetime. He's vaccinated against COVID, but his immunity to it won't last as long as the average person because of the immunity suppressing drug he's on. We already had anxiety and depression and COVID has made it explode.
@Mallomae3 жыл бұрын
Generally great video, but going on and on about smelly candles was really unsensitive in a video related to covid. Both for those who've lost their sense of smell and those with postviral fatigue+hypersensitivity, which is a lot of people.
@cc31843 жыл бұрын
I still wipe down my groceries. I no longer wear gloves when I shop though.
@papagato5033 жыл бұрын
I don't agree with everyone else saying coivd-19 impact our mental health those are ones.
@Shortkonner3 жыл бұрын
My man has social anxiety, hat, mask and glasses.... He's happier
@rnd12353 жыл бұрын
hmm
@cleoklobucher30622 жыл бұрын
There are some of us who can't smell anything
@docvaliant7213 жыл бұрын
Its the emperor with no cloths pandemic
@kerrywilliams45482 жыл бұрын
Smelling nice is ambience & vanity, I prefer my rotton flesh actually.
@frankrubino33023 жыл бұрын
It is a Mantal Halth emergency baby 🎥 Quan fever fever 🤒 will have you crazy 🤪 The movie 🎥 must 🎥 go on 🎥 In a nutshell Love makes the world 🌎 go 🌎 Around
@jerms082 жыл бұрын
Covid was the best thing to happen to introverts
@LightintheDark20563 жыл бұрын
👍💖
@Johnconno Жыл бұрын
Turns out the Tory government were pissed most of the time, which makes the whole no socialising thing a lie.
@elizabethanderson55813 жыл бұрын
Hi :) 🌪🔥
@honestandfair15723 жыл бұрын
Pandemic is still going hello where do you live madam?
@kelsmy3 жыл бұрын
In a society where beauty or physical appearance is valued more than kindness and talent, for it opens doors, it becomes a norm to idolise high beauty standards. Even all Dr speakers here are well dressed and applied heavy makeup because you care how how you are viewed. :)
@-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-...3 жыл бұрын
Stop giving a fuvk about what people think and you’ll be alright