4 Reasons why you are so scared of your feelings as a fearful avoidant

[@HavyouEdits]

Please never stop, your mission is absolutely beautiful, you really changed my life and my relationships. You're a fucking angel. I wish you success and prosperity, you deserve it, you will have it. Thank you. Bought your program, too much value for too little price.

[@coreygeiger81]

I love the fact we get to see & hear more of your advice as you do daily posts

[@paulientimmer-healingthefe9870]

Not sure if I'm going to do daily posts Corey! You mean the community posts from KZbin?

[@coreygeiger81]

@@paulientimmer-healingthefe9870 daily was the wrong choice of words, LOL. “As you post more frequently” is what I meant to say

[@Paraphernelia04]

Pauline, thank you. For being the one who I have had the pleasure to come across at the moment when I was so desperately seeking answers to questions I didn’t even know how to ask. Your own journey is an inspiration to so many like myself and it’s almost like looking in the mirror. Thank you

[@paulientimmer-healingthefe9870]

Ah so happy you've found this channel in exactly the right time! Thank you for being here

[@laksuh6926]

That is true, whenever I feel hurt I feel like I give them the power, like they purposly hurt me and if I feel that, then it is real. The story I create in my self is I loved them, they didn't love me and they hurt me, they already found someone better and yet I am the one feeling this bad about it. I am the loser, they are the winner. Why am I always the loser? Why am I feeling alone, unworthy, unloved and broken while they just move on instantly and find someone better in a few weeks?

[@tinywhiskers30]

These videos make me feel so seen❤️

[@Sunshine-gm8uy]

you’re a godsend! my younger self would like to thank you 🦋

[@TheColourAwesomer]

So glad I found this attachment style and your channel. Broke down during this. Child abuse really does train you to reject every feeling you have, because they are expressions of a bad person. Thank you for your videos, you are very kind and empathetic. You make me optimistic for my future.

[@lorirobinson4665]

I'm feeling so much from this topic in my life right now that I feel like im in a shut down state of mind I know I need help to get back on track but I feel like a so lost

[@lorirobinson4665]

I also am I'm a state where I'm binge Watchung social media alot and don't want to feel my feeling and also take time to see what I want for me life

[@meganjohnson9540]

Thank you, Paulien! You make me feel less alone. Love and light. 💕

[@chilloften]

It helps me a lot. The next part is…should we be speaking feelings. I contemplate them, and correct how to feel, nearly continuously.

[@chelseah162]

How do you know if you're fearful avoidant in your relationship or if you really shouldn't be with the person?

[@tinywhiskers30]

Paulien has a video on this on her channel!! I recommend you check it out.

[@chelseah162]

@@tinywhiskers30 Do you know what it was called or when it came out?

[@patrickoliver263]

Bingo! Ty ;-)

[@inthedetails5467]

Would you be able to talk about FAs and risky sexual behavior? Specifically engaging and sometimes even seeking harmful/abusive sexual behavior?

[@Heyokasireniei468sxso]

[@Emilia_D.]

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[@paulientimmer-healingthefe9870]

Thank you!