Dress Your Age! Why You Should Be Intentional About Clothing Choices

[@DavidStone-h5d]

I'm 74 and take dressing in an, age appropriate, classic style seriously. Last week while crossing the street I was flagged down by a lovely 30 something blonde. She had taken the time to roll down the window and call out how "handsome" I looked in my jacket , hat and vest. I thanked her for making my day and we both went on our way feeling better for the encounter. I always enjoy you thoughts keep up the campaign for men's style.

[@40OverFashion]

That's a great story! Classic style always wins!

I cannot help but wonder what would have happened if the roles had been reversed.

[@karlsenula9495]

I dressed up for a trip to Europe a couple of years ago and got stopped in Salzburg a few times with both tourists and locals complimenting me on my style. That said I need to do this more often and and do less graphic T's. I know how I would like to dress but considering I rarely buy clothes it would involve a complete closet revamp.

[@modsurgeon]

If that's your takeaway, you might have an issue.

[@RegisWilkins]

Another bitter guy. No game huh?

[@mikes8218]

Being in shape is also key so the clothes fit the way they should.

[@40OverFashion]

True!

[@jamesg1974a]

Also, the best way to live longer and feel better

[@harlemhomme]

sure helps

[@altratronic]

Getting in great shape is one thing you will never, ever regret. Quite the contrary.

[@whomadethatsaltysoup]

@@altratronic Yes, if you're rocking a massive beer gut, and man boobs, no amount of 'appropriate' Chinos, or classic knitwear will get heads turning. That said, if you've got your health, and physique in order, plain, tailored shirts, along with slim fitting jeans or Chinos are definitely the way to go.

[@poolboyinla]

I live in North Dakota. I learned that if you wear an overcoat here you become the best dressed man in the state.

[@benyameenyitzhak1036]

LMAOOOOOOOO

[@dtshifter]

I have a London Fog all weather coat that I bought in the 80's or 90's. I did not wear it for decades. We had a brutal cold snap in Pennsylvania recently and I have been using it. I forgot how much warmer a long coat can be. They look great and are awesome in the worst of winter weather.

[@TimeToTravel-u2x]

In North Dakota...Kirkland jeans are considered dress pants 😂....so gross there

[@Kamala-aint-Black]

the population of 8😂😂

[@paul0wen65]

Howdy neighbor! I live in central Montana. "Dressing up" is so easy here because so many guys have given up and are lazy. A clean band t-shirt, clean jeans, and clean shoes regardless of type make one stand out from the sloppy crowd.

[@Karrio73]

Never dress for anyone but yourself.

[@Preetvnd]

dont complain when people make fun of how you dress

[@benjamingruder4875]

This aphorism looks good on paper, but what does it really mean to dress for oneself? Isn't the point of clothing to make the most of how you present yourself to the outside world? I mean, when you're out and about, you're not looking at yourself (unless you're at the gym checking yourself out in the mirror for various reasons); other people are. So again, it comes down to, what do you want the world to see? What facets of your personality do you want to bring out, and how do you maximize your chance of being approached by those you are interested in interacting with?

[@adityayadav6712]

I surely agree with you, but dressing should be fun to us and should also justify it's purpose for the event as well. The fun party is necessary to initiate the move or else you might not be trying to think about the dress you want to wear for the event.​@@benjamingruder4875

[@matthewhoopes4440]

Gonna have to disagree here. How you dress at work and certain environments says much about you as a person. It can also be linked to your hygiene. A quick trip to the dollar store for milk or something...yeah, who cares. But if you interact in public than, well, I think it should look like you give a damn.

[@dvdp4513]

Exactly. Who the … does this guy think he is? Head of some grey community? Wear what makes you feel good. Of course with a lot of swag! 🤪 Greets from a 65year old.

[@WJYN7435]

Incorrect, the most important factor is environment. - If i were in a business environement, i would dress accordingly (basic button up dress shirt, and dress pants). -If i were in a more manual/ blue collar work like many men do, I'd wear "workwear" clothing (just google it), both flattering and timeless. Personally i'm a medical resident (doctor in training) and 95% of the time we are in casual clothes (T shirts + or sometimes casual dress shirts + casual shoes/sneakers) for 2 reasons: - Patients need to be at ease to open up and become vulnerable and it's way easier for them if my clothes are casual because the bright white medical coat is itself intimidating for LOT of patients. When patients allow themselves to open up and feel at EASE, it benefits both them and me (I do my job better and easier, thus less chances to miss something especially somethinig that could be an emergency and yeah go to jail). -second point not specific to medical field: it's so comfortable to be able to wear casual clothes and shoes AND actually do a better job for patients and ourselves. We also do a lot of walking, bedsides clinical exams etc, and the various movements we do are way easier in comfortable clothes. -anecdotally, for pediatrics, it was not only optional but almost necessary to wear casual clothing. Graphic tees were common practice even for older male doctors. I don't wear them daily because I don't like them but it's personal taste. -anecdotally also, it comes to a point where you don't really care about trying to make an impression random people in the street, when you're a doctor you get enough "pride" and "attention" from women from the status alone. But I agree that doctor is quite specific, but for manual blue collar jobs it applies, your wardrobe will be mainly composed of workwear clothing. In conclusion, the most important factor is environment, not age. Dress shirt and dress pants are nice, but it needs to fit the environement.

[@ericanderson7059]

You are spot on , congruency may be the word you were seeking .

[@WJYN7435]

Edit: about workwear, it's a staple for men's clothing. Timeless, comfortable, and useful (lots of pockets, nice sturdy materials etc). And the cherry on top is that women do find this type of "style" attractive (obviously as long as other rules are respected such as proper fit but this goes for every type of clothing style).

[@gerardjoaquino8856]

Yours is probably the only comment i totally agree with. 👍

[@roadfert]

Environment is key to me as well. For example, I live in Central FL and sport coats REALLY stick out unless at dinner in an upscale restaurant. Knowing your environment takes wisdom but is a key factor.

[@rg1809]

You want to make an amazing impression? Wear surgical scubs and a white lab coat. Catches everyone's attention - from personal experience.

[@omarcortes5754]

I feel like it all comes together once we reach certain stability in our lives . Dressing, personal image, maturity and responsibility.

[@christophergreer9278]

Yes! Key word: stability

[@scratchy996]

Once you get to a certain stability , you don't care about what others think, just wear whatever you want, you have earned it.

[@edwardmarks4293]

You should not mow your lawn while wearing flip flops!

[@GenericHandle54321]

Dang it. You beat me to the comment!

[@mracekproductions]

About to write the same !

[@zenigatago]

Agreed, unless you are into self -mutilation.😮

[@jamesg1974a]

Probably not, but you’ll lose your toes if you go under with sneakers too

[@mr.hansen5195]

Right on! Wear safety shoes with toe caps instead.

[@DontBeGhey-ok]

I made a decision at age 40 to drop the high tops, no more neon, graphic Tees are for teens and only criminals wear hoodies. I dress like a dad and I love it. Ironed shirts, dress pants and polished shoes every day. I started a new job last week and literally 4 people have said to me “you don’t have to dress like that you know “. My coworkers wear pajamas to work and drape blankets on them when they are cold . It’s beyond poor taste. I hate this world.

[@nuncio21]

Same here, friend. I made a conscience decision to dress my age and I am certainly glad I did.

[@rg1809]

Amen. I am so tired of today's look: baseball hats on backwards, raggy unkempt hair and goatees, non-sense tats, baggy tops or tasteless tees, with running shorts and flip flops.

[@kevins4254]

My wife and I got married in our early and mid 20s. When we went out on dates in the early years of our marriage, she would spend considerable time getting ready (hair, make-up, jewelry, outfit, etc.). I was ready in 20 minutes (including the shower). It took me years to realize she looked far better than I did and, most importantly, she was doing it for me. This is why women appreciate when a man takes the time to look nice. They can tell when you're making a real effort and when you're not. Sure, you do it for yourself, but you also do it for HER. I'm a blue-collar guy so I admit I don't follow many of the recommendations in your videos. However, I'm 60 years old now and my wife appreciates when I wear a nice button-down Pendleton shirt or a Polo shirt instead of a t-shirt.

[@40OverFashion]

That’s a great point, and it’s true! It’s hard to expect effort from someone else when you don’t give any yourself. Thanks for commenting!

[@Nothingtosee-m1c]

@@kevins4254 I dress not only to represent my best self but to represent my wife when we are out. One of the things I don’t want to do in public, if not the worst, is embarrass her. I’m deceptive to my coworkers. They are unaware I went from white collar wearing Italian suits and shoes to blue collar wearing a hard hat, safety vests, and FR clothes. Only our ExVP knows about that transition.

[@scott88]

"Shoes can make or break your outfit". Truer words could not be spoken. Dead on accuracy. I find myself spending more time trying to find shoes that work with an outfit than I do finding the actual outfit.

[@40OverFashion]

Ha! Totally understand!

[@MachineGod69]

😮🙄 ughhhhh.

[@ph4g3official]

Great video! I have a ton of black concert t-shirts because I’m a musician but I balance them with age appropriate outfits. I loved the Threads website for helping coordinate clothes but since they went out of business have been looking for quality but affordable options. Most people think I’m in my late forties so I can get away with some younger looks but I’m actually late fifties and the looks vs actual age gap is closing.

[@MarkGray-u4i]

I bought the Slick Collar by Luxe about six months ago. I wear one everyday. Women love a put together man. Slick Collar ties everything together for a well dressed man. The price makes this an absolute no brainer for sure. Your videos are always on point. Thank you for all you do!

[@40OverFashion]

Appreciate you sharing your experience, that’s awesome!

[@rogercaughell4282]

+1

[@Sacrifice-Paid]

According to this video, pretty much every T shirt I own has to be thrown out, cos I’m nearly 50 🤷🏻 but yet, I’m young at heart, I’m of a stocky build, have tattoos, including very visible 1s, predominantly wear black, don’t wear baggy jeans, and wear only Nike trainers, mostly black in colour, 1 purple denim jacket and a few leather jackets, 1 that’s of denim style and the others smart biker style, and I’m comfortable with my image/style, the only thing I wanna change is losing weight around the typical mid section, oh and own maybe 2 smart shirts which rarely see the light of day, cos it just don’t feel normal for me to wear a shirt, and I’m fine with that

[@DeanoMN]

I would know immediately that you're someone I would like to hang out with.

[@brianharper8304]

you wear what you are happy with mate , no need for bs you tube vids to tell us what we should be wearing or how we should be acting for our age , if you are comfortable with who you are that's enough

[@jamesg1974a]

No one saying you can’t dress in a childish manner he’s just saying there’s ways to dress that are more “age-appropriate“. Just like there’s ways to act more “age-appropriate“. It doesn’t mean it’s for everybody. Heck a lot of the advice they give on these channels the only people that could get away with dressing that way would be Someone in highly urban areas. You know the metrosexual.

[@SteveGarza]

I’m with you. I’m 49 yrs old and I’m a jeans and tshirt guy. Always have been. Multiple tattoos too. I’m happy as I am and will always wear what makes me happy. When you get to know a person, thats when you’ll see who they are, no matter what they’re wearing. One can be best dressed and still be unlikeable.

[@Drillsmart88]

Dress the way you can afford to dress. Never let someone dictate what you should or shouldn’t wear as long as the clothing is washed

[@Abioticwinter]

I will keep wearing my comfy pants and shirts. Im happy with myself and my career and business. I dont need to worry about what others think.

[@rg1809]

So why are you here?

[@pokerboy72]

KZbin algorithm...

[@Larry-qz3es]

On weekends, I have taken the liberty to wear a blazer, button-down collar shirt, and dark wash jeans with some penny loafers. I received some attention, for I was dressed, and thanked for the compliments. By the way, I am 64.

[@brazen9]

This is a great video from a different perspective. Thanks for reinforcing that I don't dress my age. Now if I can only get past IDGAF.

[@paul0wen65]

Can confirm but i'm not ditching my CBGB'S t-shirt! I have become so much more cognizant of how I appear and present myself in public because of your advice, John. These things do matter.

[@FreddieG501]

Another great video! I have been using the Slick Collar for years, after you promoted it a while back.

[@40OverFashion]

Great to hear! Thanks for sharing!

[@scotttewell9280]

"age appropriateness" is simply another form of cultural conditioning and it's meaningless without the intention. Dress intentionally to position yourself for what you want!! If you're 55, you likely won't get a classy woman or finance job by dressing like a slob. But if, at that same age, you want a biker chick then the tailored sport jacket won't get you that either. All depends on what you want, not your age.

[@zeroelus]

Having a dressy, non "smart" watch also does a lot to add to an outfit. It doesn't need to be terribly expensive, a good offering of around 200-300USD (not a trivial amount, but also not that more expensive than a smart watch that will be obsolete in no more than 5 years) can both add a step up to a casual look and is a necessity for something formal but if you chose right, a single watch can look good in both cases, just be sure you're not cheaping out for no good reason, the more you spend, the better build quality and materials you should be seeing, and that not always translates to pictures and videos.

[@davedixon2167]

I was pleasantly surprised when I found ANALOG smartwatches. Mine's a sort of diver style with silver bracelet and case, glow hands and markers and a black face, which hides the small inset digital screen that relays my texts, steps, pulse, etc. Best of both worlds!

[@zeroelus]

@@davedixon2167 I've been looking into those (Casio Edifice lines) but I've yet to find something that I really like, and also as someone with thin wrists, anything bigger than 42mm looks awkward on me. Any suggestions from what you use?

[@frankcolliton10]

Agree 💯. I bought a classic watch a few years ago and have had multiple compliments. A nice watch & nice shoes give a man a great look.

[@wwiebe23]

Nothing looks worse than an apple smart watch. Garmin has some better options but a classic mechanical is the way to go

[@Iceburnification]

I switched to button-ups in my twenties and have not changed my style since then. Now, in my forties, I still maintain the same style.

[@miguelpadilla31]

Shirt stays have been a game changer and i think are underrated when upgrading wardrobe. I struggled to keep my shirts tucked in and always felt like i look sloppy. Since i started using shirts stays, i have that crisp look on how my shirt look tucked in. Im considering (finding the courage) to adding suspenders and going sans belt

[@sickboy8682]

Mowing the lawn in flip flops. OSHA will love that 😂

[@MisterMister5893]

The older I get the more simplistic I get about fashion. Comfort takes precedence above all else. I don't care about impressing anyone with my clothes. It's the greatest revelation I discovered about myself.

[@johnnyscorpio5058]

Nice video. I’m 50+ and have appropriate clothing including classic suits. However, I live on the East coast near the beach. I still wear my surf t-shirts, shorts and Vans.

[@quericopapa]

Hello John. ***Legend***. I always like to watch your vlogs all the way to the end! I am 64 years old, and believe me clothes and shoes make a big difference. Thank you for the advices, they are very helpful. I have been changing my wardrobe since I have been watching your videos and suggestions. I am pleased to say, it has worked great! Looking forward for your next vlog. Have fun and stay safe. Cheers!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you! I appreciate that! Legend!

[@PhilDykshoorn]

l think there should some videos on "how to"

[@40OverFashion]

Appreciate that! I made a lot of of the videos you suggested. Take a look at some of my older stuff. Maybe it’s time to make some update videos! Thanks for the suggestions!

[@PhilDykshoorn]

@@40OverFashion Ah, yes, l do see. Didn't go far back enough in history. Thx.

[@dannylarue194]

Excellent video. Tailoring is so important. And I don't mean spending a fortune on a Prada suit or trying to look like James Bond. I just mean making sure your jeans and chinos are the right length. It's so easy and inexpensive to get things hemmed, yet it transforms your look. Nine out of 10 men I see around are wearing jeans/chinos that don't fit them (most are too long).

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@SeanA.Skeete-wd4vi]

Great "advice" as usual John😊❤🎉💯.

[@40OverFashion]

I appreciate that!

[@HopeOfJoe]

A fabulous presentation and counsel, John. Makes the most sense and has only added to my conscious clothing decisions. B. R. A. V. O. ‼️🙌🏻✨

[@Glennkaine]

Hi, I’ve been watching your content for a month or so and really enjoy your message and style. I hope you read this because I have a sincere, not mean spirited recommendation. I really enjoy seeing the examples you insert in your videos. They are usually quick slides that are presented then removed. The bulk of your video is watching you speak while standing in front of the camera next to your bookshelf. My recommendation is this: it would be more informative if you narrated off camera and showed more examples. Or better yet, you could place yourself on the screen in a corner and run video of your examples at the same time. It would be Picture in Picture Style. Sometimes it feels like I’m watching a well delivered speech. I like seeing the examples you present of what works and what doesn’t more. Keep up the good work!

[@40OverFashion]

Great ideas! Thanks for the suggestions!

[@alwayspooh1588]

Great video John. Enclothed cognition is the psychological effects of how we dress affects out mental/psychological well being, perhaps do a video on this.

[@jefff2223]

I recently watched another style video on another channel and he said the same thing about flip flops. Basically just don’t do, similar to what you said. I couldn’t believe the comments coming back about “how I’ll never give up my flip flops and if you don’t wanna see my hairy gnarly toes then don’t look”….. I completely agree with you on the topic. I don’t have flip flops and never will. But it sure is a trigger.

[@40OverFashion]

I know, right? I just don't get it.

[@progression_decibel]

I watched a Tom Ford interview where he said he loathes flip flops on men. That stuck with me ever since and the only time I ever wear them is on a resort and for the poolside only.

[@SpookyEng1]

I live on the beach in Florida, everyone is in flip flops 😂

[@zenigatago]

As usual, lots of useful advice. While I agree with the advice regarding graphic tees, I do have a couple that qualify as exceptions to the provocatively political, sexual, or alcoholic variety. Concert tees, also: being a mature horror/ science fiction/ exploitation film afficionado, I possess a couple of tasteful tees referencing the genre, plus a tee featuring an abstract image of a bare tree in positive and negative print. Probably not items I would wear on a first date, in general. I also appreciate select vintage styles and accessories. Obviously, building a wardrobe and cultivating one's personal style requires a great deal of judiciousness in every aspect. I would describe my personal style as Upscale Casual: very simple and effective, free of distressing, extravagance, or ubiquitous logos. Very appropriate in every aspect from my perspective. Thanks for the hearing!

[@emilschneider9974]

Thanks for the great clothing advice. Much appreciated!

[@mobilepsycho]

Always good advice on this channel. Your personal context and lifestyle determines what's perceived to be more 'appropriate' to wear. If you're a Dad, business professional, and are involved in your community (social or faith) you need to look the part for people to take you seriously. That's the world we live in. Dressing like Adam Sandler in those photos immediately screams 'goof, clown, lazy'.

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@davidmack4495]

I live by the beach in so cal.... I had to wear a uniform for my whole career....I love flip flops, I wear them year round, and I dont care....oh...and I drive a prius, and don't care...LOL

[@Xiuhcoatl0352]

Hell yeah. SoCal here too and I’m always in shorts and Olu Kai’s or rainbows unless I’m at work. If it’s cold a hoodie but never pants outside work.

[@pensivepenguin3000]

I’ve cultivated a personal style that I’m calling “blue money,” basically blue collar Americana workwear with Ivy/old money style. imagine an outfit with brown leather penny loafers, blue jeans, a tucked in chambray shirt and a gray sports coat, for example - basically mixing pieces from the two styles in a cohesive way

[@kevins4254]

That's very similar to my style but I would never wear penny loafers.

[@pensivepenguin3000]

@ yeah, definitely one of those pieces that probably only appeals to you if you’re specifically into the ivy or preppy styles, which I am. Sometimes I opt for suede desert boots or brown leather sneakers

[@ericcarson342]

Love those items you listed. Brown leather dress sneakers with that white sole is a definite 'no'.

[@pensivepenguin3000]

@ thank you but I’m confident enough in my own personal style that I don’t accept other people‘s rules. If I want to wear the sneakers I will lol. Have a good Friday

[@silentsir2446]

​@@ericcarson342brown leather sneakers with a white sole are a perfect middleground. Hope the OP ignores your wack advice

[@dalecarlson7294]

I worked in college athletics all my life. So hoodies and athletic wear were my wardrobe. I like them so when I’m casual around the house or going to Costco I might be wearing that. I’m not wearing that out to dinner or to a concert.

[@40OverFashion]

That’s a great way to look at it! Dress for the occasion and the environment.

[@David-op4ql]

I some times were a over coat and it makes nearly every thing look smart I think you should do a section on them

[@shandybrandy5407]

Dear John, your videos truly inspire me a lot. Totally agree that dressing in one's age is of paramount importance. And also sometimes, power-dressing can be of great advantage in certain situations. Thanks again for all the efforts you put in creating such meaningful videos. Cheers! New Delhi

[@40OverFashion]

I'm glad you enjoyed the video!

[@ninjakris3004]

Thanks John! Great video 👍

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@number1catfish959]

John, since you mentioned chinos and stretch in the same sentence, could you do a video recommending different price levels of stretch chinos. Thanks

[@pensivepenguin3000]

Best jeans I’ve literally ever found our from J.Crew. They are the 770 series which are slim and flattering but not skinny. I’ve tried to move away from wearing jeans much of the time, but these things are great

[@40OverFashion]

Good to know, thanks!

[@user-qg5ki5lg6s]

Budget friendly jeans that work for me (especially inseam to waist height) are Wrangler Slim Fit from your favorite Walmart.

[@bernhardfrank8840]

Great !!! You're absolute right Sir!

[@donaldperrotta8514]

I’m 68 and feel like I dress age appropriate . I absolutely love the classic style .. I must say that summer time … at the beach .. or on a beach on the islands .. l love my Hawaiian shirts !!

[@jefesalsero]

Aloha shirts are classics. Most of mine are Reyn Spooner and Paradise Found brands. Good stuff!

[@petere2828]

I just turned 60 (Brit living in Belgium) and agree with much of your advice - with a style very close to your own. My own rules include: I never where white or white-soled shoes or sneakers. It makes you look boyish. I never wear a hoody for the same reason. I have recently decided to wear mostly polo shirts. T-shirts are often too youthful as you say. I like dress shirts - but hate ironing! You can get away without ironing polos. I agree with mostly wearing low key colours (black, blue, white, grey, brown). I wear glasses but would NEVER wear coloured frames like red or blue! Again, it looks like an older guy trying to look young and hip. I keep myself 'natural' with shaven bald head and a greying (non died) beard. Keeping physically fit is important for looks and posture (gym and running). Being bald, I regularly wear a hat in both winter (for cold) and summer (for sun). Often a cool flat cap - what Americans might call a newsboy cap? Think of a cool David Beckham or Brad Pitt. Rarely a baseball cap, except for sport. And I NEVER wear a hat indoors. Uncool. I like how you call the buttoned T-shrt a Henley. We don't really use that name in UK but it must be named after the town I grew up in: Henley-on-Thames,. about 30 miles west of London and on the River Thames - famous for its very traditional annual rowing regatta, for which 1930s dress is 'the style'. I like your videos and learn from them. Keep it up!

[@garethcanning4835]

“This is not 1998 anymore “ great line John, so correct

[@RustyX2010]

I wish it was 1998! Life was better back then!

[@rg1809]

And never should have been

[@Robylazarus]

Ideally as one ages, better to tone down the dressing, that does not have to be dull and life less clothes, keep yourself in decent shape and walk upright... Thanks, by the way great advice.

[@q-storm767]

Since I started my job as a Government Contractor, I find myself dressing up in casual slacks, button down shirt and sweater or vest. I have plenty so I can dress the part five days a week

[@SarcoidosisWarrior]

Legends John 💪💪💪💪💪

[@40OverFashion]

Appreciate you!

[@Andoy12]

Amen, John. Buy classic menswear and avoid all the immature casual stuff in the stores that are really targeted to the teen and 20s guy. . dress like a grown, respectable man -- dress shirts, polos, chinos, sport coats, sweaters, leather shoes. Don't just wear items off the rack if they look sloppy .. go to your local tailor/seamstress. The few extra bucks are worth it.

[@chrisb3902]

Great video John!!! 👊🏻

[@40OverFashion]

Appreciate it!

[@onlyhalfbad333]

I want to dress more mature for my age, but light colors really don’t work on me. Dark and blacks seem to work the best. Any advice on dressing mature but on the darker side

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely! I wear predominantly darker colors, especially on my upper half. You can go monochrome with various shades of blue, of course there’s always black, and I might also experiment with burgundy and dark brown.

[@onlyhalfbad333]

@ Hmmmm!!! Sweet. Im going to try that. Thanks, my dude. I appreciate you taking the time to reply. 🙏

[@papajeff352]

Best advice - those collar things!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@Peter-gu9ph]

Will be interesting to see if the rules change regarding baggy pants/loose clothing which are becoming hugely popular over the last couple of years with a very wide range of ages.

[@richardhite3953]

So many people tell themselves that they are happy with the way they dress. They have no idea what opportunities will come by looking the part. Why should a successful person start up a conversation with you with possible opportunites to come if you don't give them a reason to? Dating is the same. Wouild you be interested in a guy or girl that didn't take care of them selves from the outside? You must give people a reason to lern more about you. Success is a game. Try walking into a bank for a loan in flip flops vs the way mentioned in the video. Often the outcome is drastically different.

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@thetexassaint6571]

I’m 44. I’ll never be caught in public not dressed well. Style can be a superpower or a horrible anchor down into the abyss, looking like a chump or weirdo. Stay healthy, dress well, our 40’s and 50’s are the best years of youth and wisdom, smoking our own selves when we were in our 20’s…without tricking 🏆🏆

[@mahari7285]

I've been wearing jeans, leather and lumberjack shirts since I was 15...clothes have nothing to do with your age, but with your ability to be true to yourself....

[@ericl7842]

Totally admit i had a shirt that said "Strippers Love My Pole" when i was 25.... that shirt was in a landfill by the time i was 27 #legend

[@40OverFashion]

Haha!

[@periferal1]

You mentioned the cornest type of graphic tee...I don't think I ever wore those .. But are throwback band/rapper t-shirts (slim fit) not acceptable in a casual environment? I feel those are timeless.

[@DanielDunn-tb6fj]

Yes this guy is silly wear what you like I'm 47 and people love my tee shirts and if they don't?Who cares

[@ericanderson7059]

My Muhammad Ali standing over Sonny Liston t shirt is a frequent conversation starter or it could be cause I'm "pretty " . 😂

[@DanielDunn-tb6fj]

@ericanderson7059 i think if you're attractive these "rules" are out the window even more

[@David-op4ql]

I started following his advice Im 70 and look and feel 10 years younger

[@40OverFashion]

Appreciate you!

[@scottsheppard6948]

I can not find casual button down shirts to be worn open without a tie like is being worn in this video. Any suggestions on good brands that I could try.

[@40OverFashion]

Nordstrom men’s shop is a great place to start, as well as banana Republic.

[@vinniedixon1140]

I still wear Levi jeans with adidas originals sneakers. They never go out of style. Always wear what YOU are comfortable with NOT by what someone else says. Be yourself and not a sheep by following others.

[@madwax1360]

If I'm undecided, I just ask myself "Would James Bond wear that?"

[@michaelstratton6701]

That's good

[@dannwhitehead6193]

James Bond would exit out of an Austin Martin wearing a what’s up fuckers hoodie.

[@BillBathurst]

Amazingly i think the same thing.…

[@donconnolly1]

Im struggling to get onboard with this for myself. I went to Catholic school from k thru 12, and spent 9 years in the Army. I get hot so easliy and live in Florida so collared shirts and anything not moisture wicking is rough. I grew up in NYC , the Bronx. Generally, its mind your business and dont concern yourself with what others wear. But the biggest struggle for me is, "why do i care what i portray to others ? " im happy, have those who love me as is. I have degrees, a geeat job, etc. I dont really hang around people who dress like im "supposed to". And we are each successful and happy. I just struggle with the psychological assumptions and feeling like we need to impress others.

[@40OverFashion]

I guess a lot of the times, it boils down to whether or not you’re happy in your life at the moment. If you are, keep moving forward. If you’re not, something should probably change.

[@frankv7068]

My life is work, gym, go home sleep and maybe hit up the occasional bodega to pick up something. On weekends I rest hit the gym and just do some grocery shopping. Do I really need to dress up for that? I’m 41 look 31 and here in NYC it’s dirty winter, sometimes Timbs sweat pants and a hoodie temps me to just slap it on for a 15 minute bodega run. My question is what tips do you have for a quick grown men wardrobe that covers 90% of my going out in public moments like going to grab something from the supermarket ?

[@40OverFashion]

Great question! I guess it depends on what you’re looking for, and if you’re happy with where you are. If you want something more from life, sometimes just changing your perspective, and some of the items you wear can make a difference and also attract new people into your circle.

[@frankv7068]

@ Yes I want to change, but us men we tend to do routines and repetitive things that are practical and simple. Plus we are survivors, there’s no telling if you gotta defend yourself or change a tire. Maybe having 3 simple mature , comfortable sets could do the help. But like you said, I’m not happy not dressing my age and will have to put effort to change.

[@skeeta71]

It depends pn where you are and what you're doing, nothing wrong with been comfortable. And who are you to judge anyway.

[@ronm6585]

Thanks John. Cheers.

[@40OverFashion]

Cheers!

[@user-mk6df8zm6i]

Can you do some more clothing hauls? Especially Express hauls. Gives great ideas

[@40OverFashion]

Express filed chapter 11, so I don’t think I’ll be doing anymore of those partnerships, but I do have a few other things coming soon. Appreciate the suggestion!

[@JMH2022]

I have sleeve tattoos, I like the idea of short sleeve polos but I think polos with tattoos gives off a more tacky look, when compared to a standard t-shirt. Maybe because tattoos automatically make the polo more casual? What do you think?

[@40OverFashion]

I see your point, but I know a few guys personally with sleeve tattoos, and polo shirts work perfectly in my opinion. I think it adds a more unexpected sophistication. Hard to explain, but I think it works well.

[@Dark_Kommissar]

The best thing that you can do to look good at any age is to live a healthy lifestyle. Yes, I’m talking about weight. Musculature doesn’t hurt either. Clothes looks better when it hangs on a good frame. This reminds me of a joke from the television program Married with Children. The female lead asks her husband if the dress that she is wearing makes her look fat. The male lead responds, “The dress doesn’t make you look fat. The fat makes you look fat.” That pretty much applies to everyone.

[@40OverFashion]

True!

[@jayteesgear]

Great video as always and I will soo use that code for a slick collar

[@40OverFashion]

Awesome! Hope it helps!

[@vincentemendez938]

Worked as a banker for all of my 20’s, it was business attire everyday. Dress shirt, dress shoes and a blazer. Now I’m a in a different career. Now I’m watching these videos for advice in my 30’s.

[@Xiuhcoatl0352]

I’m in my 40’s and the only time I’m wearing pants or shoes is work. Otherwise it’s shorts and flip flops. But I live at the beach in SoCal. Flip flops are ubiquitous here.

[@jamesgoertler133]

Got a video for men that live in a Florida lifestyle?

[@christopherbarker976]

Hi John another great video how’s the wine business going hope to order some bottles soon . Regards. C Barker

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you! There’s been a few speed bumps that are out of my control and things are moving slower than I expected. I’m still hoping for a December launch, so I will definitely keep everyone posted!

[@tonyherdina9142]

I have a Slick Collar. They work especially well with a polo shirt collar that has no body.

[@mrjasonharter]

Lots of very well said points, thanks! #Quotables for us 40+

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!

[@matthewsheek8306]

Coming up on 60 and still turning my wife’s head. Ditched the plain black T’s and faded jeans long ago. I like looking nice and not stuck in my late 20’s

[@40OverFashion]

Love to hear it! Keep it up!

[@frankcienciala3328]

Great advice.

[@pokerboy72]

Great points .. I beg to differ dreasing genrally shpuld be qhat about your comfort level and it automatically depicts your personality. However, of course you should dress as per situation and the social nvironment. And everyone should have a basic knowledge of what to wear and where to wear. Compass should be priority but however the social environment should be given the due when selecting the attire

[@gerhard6105]

Dutch here. I am 51 but look way younger and still have no grey hair. Right now I wear black Nike sneakers, dark blue jeans, underwear under that, a dark blue polo and above that a black vest with zipper and side pockets. There is no capuchon on it. And black socks. So, black and blue. No watch. I only wear a watch on occasions. Once a sales lady from chique clothing shop told me to never wear a t-shirt under a polo. She said a polo is already a sort of t-shirt. It looks cheap and as if you do not know how to dress. A friend I know for 30 years already has a whole sale in clothing and he assists me with clothing. Ofcourse he also wants to sell me something but I hardly do that.

[@jefesalsero]

Good that you still wear underwear. And, I kept my comment brief, but not jockey shorts.

[@antonioharvey2130]

I just had this conversation the other day with a relative great video

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@BlkCreekNdn71]

I make the clothes, the clothes don’t make me! I’m confident in my self and will not let anyone disrespect me. Everyone can’t look good in a hoodie. “Hoodies are for criminals “ my ass😂

[@nirmalbis123]

Hey hi! Thank God for your channel. I am an avid watcher of your channel from Mumbai, west of India. I just love your channel and your content is so meaningful and very useful and I am the perfect tg as I have just crossed 50. I have implemented a lot of your ideas of dressing and it has worked perfectly well for me. I have a question - is it a must to wear brown shoes with beige or brown trousers or does black Oxfords or derbys also go well with them.

[@40OverFashion]

Yes, both brown and black can work, but I would generally gravitate towards brown with brown pants.

[@darronfeagin1572]

Great video!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@KPelaan]

Hi, First of all, thank you for the video. Actually everything you mention is quite logical and makes perfect sense. Unfortunately, the minority gets it. I’m 38 years old, working fulltime and going to night school for better carrière opportunities, and taking advantage of the fact that we are the minority. I’m getting noticed in a positive way at work and not only it comes from working hard, but also presentation. Kind regards from the Netherlands. Tom

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for sharing!

[@j0p1n0y3]

Everyone should be free to dress or express what they want and not what the society demands in my opinion. Unless you're working or going to a party with dress code then that's different.

[@anthonycoleman1909]

I live in Cambodia for a third of each year. It is hot every day temperature always above 25 degrees celcius at night and above 30 during the day. What fashion can you wear there? I find I basically live in a TShirt, gym pants, runners and a baseball hat.

[@40OverFashion]

Yeah, you have to dress for the climate. Light cotton and linen will be your friends.

[@anthonycoleman1909]

@@MaxVelasquez340 Believe it or not, a lot of the locals get around in jeans and shoes and even light jumpers.

[@general---777a]

My wardrobe is filled with Batman attire. I push 7 digits a year and even wear it to work. People have gotten to know me that way 😂

[@oldirtydasher]

What about store runs or errands? I don't want to dress up for those...

[@40OverFashion]

Yeah, that’s fine. No need to go crazy for a quick trip to the store.

[@randymoran67]

You're 100% spot on ! The Anime ones get me! lmfao! ....and i dont get me started on crocs 😅

[@razor6552]

Crocs! A few years ago someone asked, "When did grown men start dressing like toddlers"

[@deontog]

Thank you very much for your advice, your video's are A for away, however your MIC sounds a bit off in your recent recordings.

[@captainamerica8804]

Although the topic is really apt, but some examples of different dressing styles that are appropriate for 40+ age could have added value. It's like telling someone to buy stocks at low price and sell high, but the trick lies in the ability to know which price is a low price, without that any advice is of no use. Similarly for dressing appropriate, one should know what's appropriate. Visual examples will be of great help.

[@neilschipper3741]

Might I suggest.... Start an iron your clothes or have them professionally laundered at the cleaners. Back in the 1990s quality clothing can I still get compliments wearing the same clothes today.

[@michaelmerritt793]

so, if i'm old, i should dress "old"? one should dress how one feels the most comfortable. I do believe one should dress according to their body shape though and appropriately for a situation.

[@amarsinghhembram4379]

Soon we are going to have clothing consultants in every town.

[@Bicyclechris]

Note: Jeans and pants with the polyester stretch fabric built in lowers the quality of the garment and reduces the lifespan of the product. This is one of the reasons why jeans and pants from 2000 and prior lasted longer. Personally, I buy jeans and pants from smaller companies that sell direct to the consumer that make a higher quality product that lasts. Cordings in the UK, and Momotaro jeans in Japan are excellent examples of this. You can buy quality products that look great, fit well, and last years longer than the low quality garments that we’ve been peddled at our local department stores.