Clothing That's OUT Of STYLE! Wear THIS Instead

[@danieltaylor4819]

I'm an older guy, (67) and I agree with much of what he says. Tailored, well fitting clothing always looks better than baggy, loose pants and shirts. However, I hate this trend nowadays of guys wearing "overly fitted" suits. When you see newscasters, tv hosts, sports commentators wearing suits that look like they're 2 sizes too small and form-fitting dress pants that are 2 inches too short, it looks ridiculous in my opinion.

[@jimrowe4177]

CBS NFL Sunday pre-game hosts look completely stupid.

[@blueb4829]

I'm 43, and I feel the same way. The ultra skinny clothes that many men wear these days make them look ridiculous. I saw a guy the other day with his girlfriend, and his jeans were way tighter than hers, so tight that he was walking like a penguin 🐧 lol

[@andyvu8513]

@@blueb4829 it probably took that guy 30 minutes to put on those jeans and twice as long to get out if them. 😅

[@Sean0526a]

I agree. it does look ridiculous.

[@mikejohnson3375]

I totally agree. I just think they look foolish. Oh, 71 years old.

[@stephenhoyt924]

I’m 77. My mother, who paid a great deal of attention to how she presented herself to the world, gave me great advice. She said: “Fashion will always go out of style, but style will never go out of fashion”. Develop “your” style that reflects how you want to present yourself to those around you. Be you, all the others are taken.

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@elvee5520]

Great Advice

[@tonicamaro8683]

your Mom was a very SMART LADY i think i'm going to take that advise .but people have to admit you men and woman back then all had STYLE and new how to dress i caught a little bit of that growing up THANK GOD...when we would dress up just to go visit family or church or even just dinner..we need those days back oo and god forbid you went to school looking like a slob...your MOM must of been a CLASSY LADY..

[@mujeresbellassiempre1895]

Saludos ❤️🇦🇷

[@nick343711]

NIce! Your mom had a "mike drop" moment. Definitely remembering that one.

[@Dani-it5sy]

Just go for Italian style all the way and you are golden. Doesn't really matter what it is. I always wear Italian sneakers and they look classy with everything. I have no idea how the Italians do it but they never fail to deliver.

[@levil4012]

Great points, I'm 52yrs old and fairly fit and when shopping for jeans, khakis and shirts I ALWAYS look for the slim fit bcuz I've found that's always a NEATER look and makes u look leaner

[@morrisyarnell6083]

You mentioned trends. When I worked at Nordstrom selling suits I often attempted to convince my customers that style would be better than fashion. If you are spending $500 + for a suit go with style and save yourself some money in the long run. Oh yeah, have it tailored, it comes with the price of the suit.

[@letyfoster2421]

My husband is turning 40 this month. I started watching your videos a while ago. This guy went from hoodies, baggy jeans and converse high tops to wearing polo shirts, nice slacks and loafers. I am thankful that he was open to upgrading his style and trusted me with doing the shopping for him. Even some of the younger guys in our church have made comments on how nice he dresses and his good taste for clothes. This is all thanks to your videos! . 😀

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure! Love this!

[@Ace_Hunter_lives]

a well-maintained pair of Converse high-tops with jeans and a nice t-shirt is a classic look.

[@tires2burn]

Sounds like he's got a girlfriend.

[@danielruiz7131]

Love the way you talk, you're actually making fun of the way a lot of guys our age dress, but your tone of voice and careful choice of words make it a welcome reprimand. Everybody needs a little direction and criticism now and then and you seem to be the go to guy for this topic. I like your style, keep up the great work!!

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching Daniel!

[@josephsmith594]

I’m too old to wear clothes that look two sizes too small and have my junk exposed. Everything is “slim fit”. I go into a high end men’s clothing store and all the staff are wearing suits that are so tight they’d rip if you did a squat. They look ridiculous. I’m a professional, not a gigolo.

agree. it is for monkies. look at JFK and you won't go wrong. can you imagine JFK in a slim fit suit with a short rise? ha ha.

[@murilomaestri5403]

Just buy your size, not the salesperson size.

[@josephsmith594]

@@murilomaestri5403 It’s actually extremely difficult to find clothes that are the right waist size but not tight everywhere else. I was just looking for pants yesterday, found a pair that looked “normal,” they were all sold out! Went to a couple of other stores every single pair of pants said “slim fit”. I asked for just regular normal pants instead they said they didn’t have any but I could check online.

[@josephsmith594]

@@murilomaestri5403 LoL. Funny guy. If your waist is a 34 you buy 34 pants. They fit your waist but nothing else.

[@GregoryFariss]

⁠@@murilomaestri5403Joseph is describing an issue with the cut, not the size.

[@gunsort3242]

As I got older my feet expanded from a D to EEE in width. Wearing New Balance sneakers isn't a fashion choice (no matter what Millennials tell you). It's a comfort choice. Most sneakers aren't available in wide sizes and are really uncomfortable. NB has what I need.

[@kj475]

Every major athletic shoe manufacturer has a wide toe box option.

[@jimrunsfar]

I have the same issue...and found that Cole Haan has some great options in 2E & 4E

[@GregSB1]

…and I’ve turned to Sketchers, the stylish ones, not the old man sneakers.

[@christopherj]

Just because they're fashionable doesn't mean they're comfortable. Most athletic shoes or similar (Nike, Adidas, Converse, etc) aren't designed for comfort and for older people who have issues these are not options. Unfortunately, most styles are designed for younger people unless you have a lot of $$$ to spend.

[@mrcryptozoic817]

For me, discovering New Balance 20ish years ago changed my comfort level up about 5 notches. Enough firm padding, arch not too high or too unsupported, a pretty flat sole not shaped like a canoe, but not a plank either. I can go 2 miles in 30 minutes in them. I don't care if white with logo isn't in fashion. And I still wear the same size shirts and pants as I did when I was 30. But the trouble is, my wardrobe is predictable. I still want to go back to a hawaiian shirt and blue spiky hair. But at 75, that's just too odd. But at least it's not a bar rat look.

[@1987foxl90]

Im in my 60's and have always stayed in shape. I was an athlete and I never stopped going to the gym. The clothes I wear a pretty different than what you show in this video. I agree that the clothes you show in this video look better on you than the picures from the 90's. That works for you. Clothing really comes down to preference. I prefer Western style clothing. Wranglers with a button down shirt, Dan Post boots and a Stetson. I agree with a snug fit on shirts but slim fit pants are not for me. Tennis shoes I wear to the gym and thats the only time I wear them. I never wear loafers and dress shoes are a thing of the past for me. When I wear a suit I wear dress boots. Everyone has their own style. You have to wear what you like and be yourself. Interesting video.

[@lawrencebeck1144]

for me the only consideration is comfort.

[@TravisMcGee151]

Each to their own. Comfort first.

[@SightNSoundBand]

Pleated pants give off a very classic and classy look...I have both pleats and flat front pants in my wardrobe and love them both...it all depends on what shirt or sweater one is wearing that day...simply pair them accordingly...in short: don't toss your pleats...

[@fumanpoo4725]

Pleated pants are for communit deviants.

[@michaelcap9550]

Pleated pants fit some better.

[@kurosakiichigo2386]

I feel that the key to pleated pants is to wear them at the natural waist, which is at or just slightly below your belly button. Pleats never look right on mid or low-rise pants. Flat-front pants look better on pants that are mid-rise. I'm not a fan of low-rise slacks or suit pants.

[@isobel64]

pleated pants arent classy LOL. you look like you work forBest Buy

[@markbrautigam2502]

If you’re thin.

[@Jerry10939]

I would say that the only thing I disagree with is the boat shoes. To me they are a classic and paired with the right outfit they look fine. Plus they are great on sailboats.

[@henrimatisse7481]

Sperry topsiders, no socks with casual, but not baggy pants slightly short or just shorts. Cotton or cotton/linen shirt slightly open. No clothing beige or tan. Tousled hair, maybe short beard and a twinkle in your eye. Spring in the step is mandatory

[@rawtheran9319]

Hey John, as a younger man 27 years old to be precise I always love your lifestyle and style videos they've helped me so much! Why go after all of the latest trends when classic and sophisticated with a modern twist will always stay? Not to mention it looks way better than any trend that will come and go anyway. Thanks my friend

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you for watching!

[@CademanLillywhite]

It's amazing how much difference the shoulder length makes in the shirts

[@pig5267]

I am in my very very early 50’s. I never cared how I look. And even if I did, I didn’t know how to dress myself because no one taught me. I used to wear oversized shirts, baggy pants, etc. You get the picture. Four years ago, I started watching KZbin videos on how to dress properly and to take good care of one’s body. I got rid of my old clothes and invested a few thousand pesos on new clothing. I now feel much more confident and look way much better. Thank you very much!!!

[@jrh11254]

@pig - have you found that your life has changed dramatically and, hopefully, for the better? Note: your KZbin name, “pig,” may no longer be appropriate! 😂

[@40OverFashion]

You’re very welcome!

[@mujeresbellassiempre1895]

Siempre positiva 💯❤️🇦🇷

[@neiljohnson7914]

You mean you just had your 50th birthday when you wrote that response?

[@Vinnie101a]

But Mr Pig, are you pulling in the girls, or boys, now?

[@freddiev125]

I’m 63. I like wearing chinos, polos & loafers, but also wear relax jeans, printed t’s & love modern sneakers. 🐼

[@georgevavoulis4758]

Getting in shape and staying in shape and dress in classics

[@WallyFuller]

Your clothes should always have a tailored look. It's always better to buy quality over quantity. It takes planning and avoiding being impulsive, buying clothes that are a "good deal." Great video! Men need to keep up to stay relevant-maintaining your image. But, don't fall victim to the extreme fashion trends after thirty. Focus more on proper tailoring and fit.

[@georgerubypoppy1063]

God help us all then, if a man`s relevance is measured by the cut of his clothes.

[@BonkersAboutAlice]

As an even older man in his late 50's with a waistline which is more round than I'd like and a very thick neck, I found buying dress shirts that actually button up resulted in my having way too much baggy fabric. Fixed this by buying larger neck size with slim cut fitting. Works a treat.

[@wileyallen1545]

A good tailor can also dart a shirt to fix that somewhat within reason.

[@mujeresbellassiempre1895]

Es verdad ❤️🇦🇷

[@robertjsmith]

jogging is not an option ?

[@BonkersAboutAlice]

@@robertjsmith not after leg surgery my friend .(

[@robertjsmith]

@@BonkersAboutAlice well tell the people that arn't amputees not to wear em.

[@rangerwhite5165]

It's not the clothes, it's the body they're on.

[@AdvantureRoad]

44 year old male chiming in late. I dress for myself and really like the vintage look and comfort they offer. Became a huge fan of suspenders, and the fuller cut of classic American suits. For shoes, loafers are my regular go to. Sneakers fill in for work and outdoor activities like camping and hiking. I think confidence is the #1 way to pull off any look. You can wear the trendiest cloths, but if your not comfortable in them or they don’t move with your body, it’s going to be a terrible look.

[@bumbleybumbleton9382]

This

[@EricJJones]

you clearly miss the point. trends vs style is a major difference. when you are wearing something that looks timeless and classic, you feel better and others notice. I'm a larger guy and walk down the street and get 20 complements not because I look like a model, but my style is timeless and appropriate. I'm in my mid-40s and not dressing like I'm 10. I'm also 250 plus lbs and dress to fit my body style, not a trend.

[@JCSAXON]

This always boils down to body shape. I stand by timeless fashion. Whether on person or in home decor, you must ask yourself if you can stand behind yesterdays photos w/o embarrassment! It’s quite personal

[@AllAboutSpainbyBarryHaylor]

At 72 I wear white trainers and chinos with a white or dark color always short sleeve shirt. I think this is a good look at 52 or 72 and suits the Spanish weather to walk around in. Another good video John 🙏

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@baronsilverbaron757]

Can't go wrong with green wellington boots, shorts and a string vest..... timeless.

[@raychambers3646]

Black turned down wellies surely, green a bit to flash !

[@rockyrowlands3652]

But only worn to a family wedding.

[@slydermartin6008]

@@rockyrowlands3652 Or on a date with a cousin!

[@henryblassingame9060]

Compo? Is that you?

[@Lucenta]

😆

[@ericwelch]

Having shirt-stays definitely help keep the shirt down and prevents bunching. Certainly something we used in the Marine Corps. Moreover, really having self awareness and a little attention to detail, goes a long way as well.

[@tuberific454]

Excellent point and thank you for your service. As long as the neck and sleeve length are the proper size, even my roomiest dress shirts look form-fitted when paired with shirt stays. In fact his "before" photo would look noticeably different with shirt-stays if not for the sleeves being too long.

[@notyoungnotold3730]

Shirt-stays are totally unnecessary if you get your pants off of your hips and have them at the natural waist. Not to mention that it looks way better. This guy’s whole style is built on wearing his pants too low. It forces all of his other rules like shirt fit all the way down to leg openings.

[@tuberific454]

@@notyoungnotold3730 Billowy shirts are unflattering regardless of the rise of the trousers. But shirt stays can address that issue by applying a constant downward force ie a perpetual exertion of a tucking action onto the shirt, resulting in a more streamlined silhouette.

[@RobertJonesWightpaint]

@@tuberific454 I might want a streamlined silhouette if I were a torpedo, or possibly a sea-lion. Being neither, I don't want to look as though someone has painted clothes on my body - you probably look absolutely fine in your choice of clothes, but I just wouldn't. Shirt stays are pointless if you wear genuinely waist-fitting trousers: braces/suspenders also help, and render shirt-tucking totally unnecessary.

[@EricJJones]

That is because your shirt doesn't fit. If your shirt fits, you can have it stay down. Plus your trousers as someone stated below aren't fitting correctly, because they wouldn't let your shirt move much. Also, your undershirt and the placement of your undershirt matters. The undershirt inside your underwear helps your shirt stay down. All should fit and drape naturally. The only stays you should have are collar stays.

[@judahsamaria5250]

I enjoy your insight . I'm a traditional older man with well fitted pleated pants with cuffs. For me they will always be in style.

[@justjacqueline2004]

The view from California is certainly different to those of us on building sites here in the UK. However,this is a handy critique of men's clothing that should be timeless.

[@ngarber]

Trust me, no older guys here in SoCal are wearing "driving mocs". :)

[@denniswaites5593]

Hi John. I've just come across your channel. I'm in the UK and I have never come across a channel like this. It's excellent. I'm off shopping tomorrow.

[@40OverFashion]

Awesome, thank you Dennis!

[@RobertDAvanzo-rk3ew]

The look the presenter has was out of style in 1965. Lol

[@madwhitehatter]

Always had a problem with shirts. I was a bodybuilder. I have a 19.5" neck, 52" chest, and a 38" waist (today). It used to be much smaller with the same neck and chest. It helped get tailored shirts.

[@atulchaturvedi6059]

With this body specs who needs a shirt?😂😂😂

[@madwhitehatter]

@atulchaturvedi6059 I'm chunky now, but I was on stage freshly waxed and spray tanned in 2006. Got out of the Army in 2007 at 195lbs with an 8-pack. Car accident a couple years later got me 14 screws, a plate, and two bars in my neck. I can't even lift the plates to put them on the bar now.

[@miker3875]

@@madwhitehatter Hate that for you brother. Thank you for your service.

[@pablobaio9435]

I'm an over 50 guy and this is great for me. Wey can see hiw a "Bad" shirt or trousers can downgrade our image and in that way, our confidence. Awesome video. Cheers.

[@Casey-rr7th]

All of your commentary is spot on. It's so surprising to me that guys resist these simple guidelines. It's amazing how dressing properly can add confidence and dressing "ordinary" can, well, make you ordinary.

[@brianrodney712]

As an 88 y/o male,what I wear is fashionable - it's what other people wear that is unfashionable.

[@stevenhendricksen2862]

Brian - sir...I would think at your age, you 😜would be elated to simply just be above ground with average ambulation - are you looking to become a walk - way model! Big hugs

[@collinsje5]

At 88, whatever you want to do is fine. You have earned the right.

[@frankkie3849]

Nicely said…😊

[@brocongonigga3690]

Sr you are right😅😅

[@SarcoidosisWarrior]

Spot on with everything John. Glad we're all speaking from the same hymn sheet

[@southerngirl773]

Great advise. Will share with my husband. I think the average man looks best wearing solid colored button down shirts with rolled up sleeves. An easy go to for casual days. Most women love the look!!

[@Johnnyrouger]

Except that’s out of fashion. The video host isn’t wearing a solid shirt.

[@dandiehm8414]

Never roll up your sleeves (for the look). If you want short sleeves, wear a short sleeve shirt.

[@southerngirl773]

@@dandiehm8414 Depends on the body type! Some men have small arms!!

[@Oggiwara1]

Great advice. But as long as I am a boat guy, I will keep using both my brown and my blue boat shoes. 😊

[@robluck21]

good ideas but i do love my loafers and boat shoes, classic never needs updating

[@jefff2223]

Fit, fit, fit, fit, fit! Great advice. But I am a boat shoe guy. Like you always say, it’s how you pair them. Also, you really need to find the right ones. There are a many brands doing boat shoes out there, but really only one that does it right.

[@DeadEyeRabbit]

Ima fan of boat shoes. A classic imo. What’s the brand u consider doing it right?

[@edandkarendamadio4108]

As an octogenarian I wholeheartedly endorse your "streamlined" approach. I am so glad that the "oversized" generation of clothes is over. I hate bigger than needed shirts and baggy pants, and being an old "shoe dog" I particularly like the streamlined look in footwear. I still have 3 or 4 pairs of classic Allen-Edmonds dress shoes and I will dust them off and wear them with pleasure.

[@sonnysantana5454]

style , traditions and classic's never go , only trends and fads go out

[@RPaulo8k]

I have to wear looser fitting pants because of my legs (they're big from heavy lifting) but I don't go with anything with a bottom cuff larger than 10 inches across because pants tend to look like JNCOs after that

[@Blissful_Sahasrar]

I personally am wearing my threads longer. Nothing wrong with using our clothing until it actually wears out and not be so concerned about style. Wear it in your own style and keep consumption down. Share those extra funds with others in need.

[@slam5]

well, if you want to date, you do have be presentable and stood out a bit. yes, there are women that is not concern about it but they are far and between, unfortunately.

[@WHJeffB]

@@slam5 If you're in shape, so long as you don't dress like a bum, women will notice. But the key is being in shape. I'm in my late mid-50's and nothing turns women's heads more than being fit (which I am). I don't date (married almost 26 yrs), but I can tell you for a fact that being physically fit is more important than dressing in trendy clothes or getting covered in "tats" just to fit in with the younger crowd.

[@Johnnyrouger]

I’m 52. I wear slim fit Volcom jeans with stretch, untucked t-shirts, flannel shirts, Vans when it’s cold and Reef Mick Fanning flip flops 6 months out of the year. I have some hybrids but pretty much live in boardshorts when it is warm. My style reflects my lifestyle. I do follow trends: when t-shirts were cut a little higher mine were too. Now the hem is lower and so are mine. I see so much judgment and hate about how at our age we should not follow fashion or be deliberate. If your idea of fashion is to use “classic” to avoid the current style that is fine. But to heap on judgment of others is so unnecessary.

[@bertram46]

John you are correct with everything that you said. The key is to go classic. It is good taste and frankly it never goes out of style. There is nothing worse than seeing some guy with square-toed shoes that thinks he is hip LOL on another note I'm going on week 4 with the girl I met who is my age. Slow and strong

[@BGTuyau]

The man has indeed upped his fashion game in the past couple of decades.

[@jaspertolero3416]

Classic Styles with modern fits.. Let the younger guys chase trends.. Thank you.. Your channel helps me a lot about improving how I dress properly. More videos..

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@johnjames6620]

To my mind, the critical aspect with boat shoes is the color of the sole. If it is white or neutral then more appropriate for boat or brach or tropical place. If the colour is dark / similar to the top of the shoe then it can be more anywhere and this being especially if the laces are also a dark.

[@jsonhu7646]

Great content. I am relatively fit but my dress style is outdated. At least my better half tells me that all the time. Watching your video made me realize that I still have pleated dress pants and other styles I wear that just does not fit my image anymore. Thanks!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you for watching!

[@31cify]

Your better half? She’s not better than you, she’s barely a quarter of everything you stand for. She doesn’t get to dictate how you dress. You’re the better half here, manhood is a dominant force of it’s own.

[@kenhdog]

Just retired. Bagged up a few pleated pants, polos and oversized shirts. Doing a wardrobe update. Thanks for the tips. Good point of view.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching!

[@MrElfantasma]

I just enjoyed this video! There are really useful recommendations in it! Thanks! I‘d like to contribute with one fashion sin that freaks me out when I see it. I think it is an absolute no-go when a tie is either tied too short or too long! The tip of the tie must end directly above the belt buckle. Most men get it right but some just don’t put much effort into this affair. Mostly, the tie is tied too short and I really think that this reveals a certain lack of diligence when it comes to being dressed correctly.

[@VinhNguyen-ul8yg]

This is a VERY GOOD video, everything you mentioned on here is how I wear my clothes and I am in my 40's. I always wear fitted clothes, slim fit to be exact. That comparison when you wore the baggy clothes and the fitted slim fit was like night and day.

[@sonicd57]

Nothing wrong with “chasing” and wearing current trends at 40+ if you can actually pull it off. I dress more conservatively (appropriately) at the office, with well fitted and semi-tailored clothing. Then on evening and weekends I let my youthful energy and expression out with more artistic and creative clothing choices. Yes, they make me appear less professional, but I don’t care, because it’s outside of work and I am expressing the way I feel inside… and it’s fun to not follow every rule just because your supposed to look like a serious “dad”.

[@stevenhendricksen2862]

LMAO - love it...I was going to dance clubs at 50...bumping and grinding - LMAO!

[@The02wooley]

Don’t follow trends you just blend in

[@city96433]

I love the style you recommend for older men. Wearing only expensive dresses one look no elegant but it should fit on one perfectly.

[@andypeterson3070]

I had 10 pairs of square toe shoes and threw them away like you suggested. Then the next day I read in a magazine that they were coming back into fashion!!

[@stephen4763]

He said “don’t chase trends - at our age. If you are 20-30’s go for it.

[@Mcfreddo]

You speak perfect sense! (A lot of current men's trousers are truly awful. Even for the younger guy, they've been awful.) Hate stretch. Often, it's and excuse for poor generic cuts that don't flatter.

[@ElliottNest41]

Agree with everything said in this video - we’ll done.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@earlprinsloo9632]

I am 37 and already looking to settle into that classic look as I approach 40. Thanks for the advice

[@jrooney58]

I am afraid that I am going to have to dissent from a few things that you said in the video. First, boat shoes are definitely not something that you have to give up if you are over 40. When I was in my twenties (and I’m 65 now) I remember seeing very distinguished gentleman wearing a polo shirt, navy blazer, chinos and boat shoes. In my opinion, the look was timeless. The key, however, is to have a good looking pair of boat shoes, not the pair that you bought ten years ago. The other thing that I will disagree with is pleated pants. In the photo you posted, the biggest issue is the length of the pants, not the pleats. Fix that, and you have a fine fit. Finally, you fall into the trap of thinking that clothes need to be form fitting to look nice. I can’t tell you how many times that I’ve seen younger guys, with athletic builds even, go for the slimmest fit possible. The end result is a hideous look where fabric is bunched at every joint. The classic look is a clean drape from the top of the garment to the bottom. That is best achieved by giving some room to move in the garment, and not hugging too closely to the body. Obviously, gentleman who have extra pounds are at a disadvantage. But the most important thing that they can do to improve the lines between shirts and pants is to wear suspenders instead of a belt. The pants hang better and the shirts drape better with that simple change. Of course, that encourages the wearing of sports coats and blazers to hide the suspenders. But surprise! As an older guy, you can pull that off easily.

[@rkk578]

I am not 40 or over, but I couldn't agree more with your points, which should be followed below 40 too. As for people talking about how they don't care about their appearance. First thing is that others do and first impression is important. The second is, while most of you talking about "don't judge the book from it's cover" you do exactly by the way you are talking about the people who do care about their appearance.

[@svrocko1]

I'm love my boat shoes! If you do a meetup in the summer I'll definitely wear them! 😁 I like them with chinos and a polo.

[@WilliamPhillips-m9j]

Classic and timeless, unlike "driving loafers"

[@robertolsen9721]

I'm not even thinking so much about clothes but still know that classic style is the way to go. I agree with everything you said, especially with that pleted pants and that shirts shall be somewhat slim. As I am slim so it fits me well.

[@stephenj8576]

67 here, agree with all you said and I try to go the route you suggest with one exception. I live in a coastal environment where marinas abound ( I also have a boat). My main shoe choice is a classic boat shoe, Sperry, in a mono-color dark brown upper and white sole. You can wear then in many situations even dress them up if they're in good shape. I'll be watching more of your videos...thanks!

[@GrayShadow13]

Yep, you almost need a separate video just for folks that live along the coast of Florida. Whole different idea here as to what is acceptable or not LOL and rarely even see long pants anywhere on anyone under 70, even in nice restaurants. And boat shoes are everywhere, almost as common as flip flops 🤣

[@TCshore1]

John great show boat shoes are always in style on boats as they prevent slipping and the white soles do not leave marks on the deck. Wearing anything else will not be appreciated by the owner and maybe awkward

[@theftworthrealtor]

Great video and advice…funny cause last night I was in fact doing a closet purge…I tried on every single dress shirt I own and although they are high quality dress shirts, I found most were way to large & ill fitting, making me look like I was drowning in fabric…I recently bought some shirts from Untuckit, a shop that specializes in shirts that are meant to be worn untucked as the name implies. Even though I’m carrying a little extra weight around the middle they fit great at the shoulders and chest. When I tried these on and compared them to my current dress shirts, well I couldn’t believe how I’ve been wearing those frumpy dress shirts…53 yrs old and barely figuring out I’ve been wearing the wrong clothes all these years…it’s all about the fit, great advice!

[@maratonlegendelenemirei3352]

I spend the European winters in the UAE and there I only wear tailored Kandoras. Wearing a kandora makes life so much easier when deciding what to wear.

[@stanislas4990]

Totally agree with everything. Boat shoes are your dad's shoes. Driving mocs are much better (last photo about casual loafers from Tod's, the best and most elegant driving shoes in my opinion). Pleated pants it's a big no, something from the 90's or 2000. Even if there is a comeback, I will never wear pleated pants again. Shirts too large, or oversized. It's something from the past and it doesn't fit you. I still have a few shirts from Polo RL classic fit (good quality, they last forever), but I only wear them on weekends under a sweater. There is a trend about oversize clothing, but in my opinion it doesn't fit your body.

[@AustralianInSiberia]

Thank you, sir. I told my lady I was having a suit made and she asked why. I said "because I dislike slouching around in second hand clothes like an urban slug." Let me say that the pointer on having the shoulder seam above the shoulder is something I will point out to the tailor. I am going for an Australian outdoor look suited to racetracks and film shoots. You support my instincts on good fittings. I will keep my eye on your vlog. BLUEY QUILTY, MA - Copyright producer, Australia.

[@pdureska7814]

A very timely video that reaffirms some changes i have recently made. i am in my early 70's but look younger due to good genetics (mainly a full head of hair with just the right amount of gray highlights). When i was younger i used to have my suits tailor made which made me look good as i had lost about 30 pounds through better diet and exercise. About 8 years ago i did gain some weight back and i started seeing a personal trainer (at my wife's suggestion of course!) for about 1 year. After that i became somewhat of a gym rat and now faithfully lift weights 5 days a week. i lost a bit of the weight but the rest has been redistributed into more upper body muscle mass (arms and chest). So recently i have been replacing items in my wardrobe (yeah i ditched several pairs of those baggy pleated pants and some of those baggy shirts). thanks goodness i never bought any of those square toed shoes that were (are) in my opinion butt ugly. i have some classic slip on loafers and lace up dress shoes that have remained in style. Even underwear..no more baggy undershirts and baggy boxers, just ones that accentuate my upper body and arms. i am not trying to look younger (though i DO want to continue to act younger). But diet, exercise and staying active are key components to feeling and acting younger. The up to date styling is the cherry on top.

[@40OverFashion]

Love this! Thanks for commenting!

[@josephsmith961]

I'm 68, and gave up giving any sh*ts about my appearance 20 years ago. Under Armor shorts, t-shirts, and slip on sneakers. It's 100+ degrees everyday where I live, I'm shooting for comfort, not style. And if it was cool enough, I'd wear jeans and an Under Armor t-shirt and sneakers.

[@murilomaestri5403]

Why are you watching this channel?

[@fredhannaham9421]

I am over 60, 6'5" and about 230 lbs. I wear size 15 shoes. I'm fit enough that I still play basketball at a respectable level, and I would describe myself as "tall, but not big". I'm not built like a defensive lineman; I am considerably leaner, but nowhere near as skinny as I was in my youth. My preference has long been for cuffed trousers, as anything not cuffed seems to emphasize the size of my feet. Unfortunately, such trousers have become more difficult to find lately. I don't think I'm lean enough to wear the flat front trousers recommended in the video, and my concern about leg width is that this style would make it difficult to draw emphasis away from the size of my feet.

[@edwardmylnychuk5774]

as a 76 year old male, the one thing i learnt in life is that if people think my clothes are out of style i dont care, i dress the way it suits me and i wear what i am comfortable in and if someone doesnt like it too bad, i see tooooooooooo many fashion people that look so out of place i laugh, fashion styles are created to make money for stores bottom line. as for looing younger, it is what it is, your looks make you look younger not your clothes, you only look like neater by being in style not younger. if you look at older women, most dress for what suits them and those that want the latest styles look out of place.

[@scotthaskin1432]

I like the comment about developing your own style. Figure out what your natural look is and lean into it hard. But buy quality, you will usually be happy you do.

[@polarbear353]

There is definitely a fine line between loose and baggy. I definitely don’t want baggy shirts and pants but at the same time I don’t want them to tight, it just isn’t comfortable for me. Like the man said, trial and error is the key. Very informative video.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you for watching!

[@frankfrei6848]

Great video, you are doing man-kind a service! Just got rid of a pair of square-toe dress shoes I still had. A pair of "my favorite pleat dress pants" I found recently in my closet and since I lost a lot of weight and now have the same size I had 25 years ago I thought to try it on again. Man, I couldn't believe I was ever wearing that! Threw it out instantly.

[@40OverFashion]

Good stuff!

[@roytee3127]

Not long ago I wore my best pullover for a visit to a new dentist office. The staff commented on it. In fact, the receptionist said that her dad had worn that same pullover in the 1990s. Which is probably when I got it. I still wear it.

[@harrygatto]

Pretty sound advice, What about socks or no socks? Wearing a shirt outside the trousers or tucked in? Wearing a necktie with a short-sleeved dress shirt? (I never would, always open collar with short sleeves. Wearing a necktie with a long-sleeved dress shirt with the sleeves rolled up to the elbow is OK).

[@WooshaBaloo]

I’m going to be 60 next month. I wear what I find comfortable. I don’t care how other people view my choice.

[@jhask64]

That’s great, and you’ll look 70.

[@WooshaBaloo]

Based on what?@@jhask64

[@kfl611]

@@jhask64 :-)

[@arneberg9261]

@@jhask64 Ha ha ha

[@georgerubypoppy1063]

@@jhask64 And he won`t care a jot because, as he stated, He doesn`t care how other people view his choice. Power to him

[@ttime2024]

Yes John, PLEASE tell the truth! It's all LOVE for the brothers !!❤❤❤

[@adamdonovan5633]

Right on, right on, man. Your approach is 100% on point. Love the message: everything you do and say (and wear) sends a message. Make sure you send the right message.

[@40OverFashion]

Well said!

[@Mutasis_Mutandis]

Finally got my son back in Ralph Lauren button down’s. He just bought a gorgeous pair of Armani loafers. A fabulous dark brown leather weave w/ a tassle.

[@juliuscaesar8801]

The problem with stylish footwear is most are uncomfortable. Your feet are not the shape of shoes. Thank you John for sharing your thoughts! At 57 I am finding myself becoming attractive to younger women and younger women attractive to older gents like myself. Nothing to do with financial status. Most have no clue where I stand.

[@mikebocchinfuso9437]

I where new balance became I have foot problems. They were recommended to me by my podiatrist.

[@williampennjr.4448]

Most are ugly as well. I never liked box tip or wingtips shoes.

[@williampennjr.4448]

@@mikebocchinfuso9437 New Balance are the best, I think it's just the all white ones that are out of style.

[@KRD2023]

I hate wearing flat front , but I opt for pleated pants. I wear pleated (single and multi pleats ) trousers since April 2014.😊

[@morgan97475]

Good advice as always. I do have a slight issue with some slim-fit trousers due to the size of my calves. I tend to go for "regular-fit" trousers though I can see the slimmer ones being a bit better for the overall look.

[@chrisellis1232]

Same for me 👍🏻

[@wileyallen1545]

I have thicker athletic legs so I can’t do slim either. More generous filts actually look like slim on me. Just blessed I guess…

[@ironclad57]

Fitted shirts are fine if you’re straight up and down. I have broad shoulders / chest and end up with shirts that have tons of material at waist level. Sizes are crazy too. My 48” chest says my shirt comes with a 56” waist! Mine is 38” with middle age spread.

[@WHJeffB]

I'm in a similar boat... 34yrs in a gym and I have a good size chest and fairly broad shoulders, but a narrow waist. On the recommendation/insistence of my wife, I invested in a few tailored shirts to wear with a tailored suit and it makes all the difference in the world.

[@dm9078]

Square toe shoes, no,no,no! But you are wrong about pleated pants!

[@melroze]

I've recently seen pleated pants in GQ and Esquire magazines. They are not loose or baggy looking but they look very stylish. Just wear what you're comfortable in and keep living.

[@Joey21071]

I actually like the look of both the pleated and flat front pants. I've had both, and I liked both.

[@ardentdfender4116]

I’m with you on that. I even wear cuffs on my trouser. The important thing is to get your cloth properly tailored.

[@jrh11254]

@Joseph - pleats are cycling back now. Hope they are confined to fabric that drapes well; cotton, for me, never worked with pleats.

[@Joey21071]

@@ardentdfender4116 It's just a matter of personal preference. Some people don't like pleated or cuffed pants. I like both. I grew up wearing both. I think it's a good look. Same with flat front pants and non cuffed pants.

[@Joey21071]

@@jrh11254 Never really cared if something was in style or not. If I like it, I'll wear it. I believe that if you buy something simply because you like it, you won't care if it's considered out of style. You'll wear it and enjoy wearing it.

[@ardentdfender4116]

@@Joey21071 Yeah mine is a personal preference and that all my Trousers are custom tailored. My trousers are mostly either light to medium wool high waisted pants and have s very nice drape. The quality of material is also very good. I also agree that when it comes to cotton type trousers, i mostly elect to go flat front on those as the cotton don’t drape well. But everything is a preference.

[@jideking5584]

You have spoken MY MIND precisely. Lots of applause and appreciation. I'm gonna share with my family and friediends.

[@SayVeritatis]

I love pleated trousers. I would never stop wearing them.

[@loupanella9632]

I agree 100% on everything you talked about except boat shoes moccasin. 58 male here who boat shoes in high school and that was it. I sorry but moccasins are too cheesy for me. You have pointed out in the video that fashion sense and proper fitting is important. Sadly this knowledge is mostly lost to many men.

[@JAG312]

This is all very nice for city folks, but on my ranch we wear Levis, boots, work shirts, and Stetson hats. I have plain brown boots for everyday use and polished black boots for occasions like weddings and funerals. A tan, beat-up hat for everyday, and a special black Stetson for the special occasions. I have better things to worry about on my ranch than style for city folks.

[@AaronMusicAI]

You make a lot of sense in this video. I 49 5’ 3” and 1/2 with short arms. 32 length is to long and looks like your shirts do back in 2000. I always had this problem. I ask what should I do. Thanks.

[@liamcage7208]

I'm 61. I retired early and haven't had a wedding to attend for several years so my wardrobe hasn't been updated. I had a funeral to go to a month ago, trading weddings for funerals now :( , and found my clothes were well out of fashion. I ended up wearing black denim pants with good shoes and a good well fitting dress shirt. I felt under dressed for the occasion. All the other senior men were wearing their 20 year old suis and it looked terrible. I wasn't being judgmental, I was just taking a mental note.

[@BeckVMH]

A number of years after retiring I donated all my suits and dress shirts to a nonprofit. I opted to purchase a single navy modest windowpane suit solely for weddings or funerals. I’d kept five ties to mix and match depending on the occasion. Likewise, in my mid 60s, I’m apt to attend more of the latter than the former haha.

[@subashbist-p8o]

I am indian from north east who work in hotel but I never love to do style live simple but in 2019 I worked with retail store H&M it really transformed me now I love to do fashion every time i want the be look good

[@danomojo1]

Wrong answer. Simply wear what you want.

[@allanthomas71371]

Wrong answer- dress like a grown up

[@danomojo1]

Wear TF what you want

[@fredd036]

Wear a clown suit, then.

[@iahorvath]

All very good tips. There's nothing worse than frumpy fit. Time to update the looks. Thank you for sharing.

[@AmericanShia786]

Not worried about fashion , or what others think of my clothes.

[@billszymanski4844]

Great video. (In spite of the gratuitous cut to The Office.). Slightly updated Classic styles and fit, fit, fit are my mantras. And yes, nothing that clearly says out of fashion. The internet made to measure sites are a godsend.

[@ricardosalazar5743]

Millionaires don't care about fashion, because the money they save they invest and live comfortably and buy what they need. Dress nice yes but if your debt free then go for it if that is what makes you happy.

[@RaviSharma-gd1jw]

John, your video was brisk, to the point and well produced-just as the ones I have seen earlier too. Keep up the good work! Best wishes from India!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@sulo1039]

Why can't we just wear what we like and feel comfortable wearing. Style is another manipulation.

[@wellbeing6198]

Can't agree more