What WOMEN Notice About You FIRST! *It's 100% True

[@BGTuyau]

A likeable, credible spokesman who makes some good, no-nonsense points about personal grooming and self-presentation.

[@jefff2223]

All of what you said is SOOO true. I have a buddy who's natural appearance is average, but he knows how to put himself together and when he's out, the dude is magnetic. The posture, the smile, the open attitude, excellent sense of style....He puts a little bit of care and work into what he wants to put out into the world and it all comes back to him. It's amazing to witness.

[@LookSharpFeelSharpBeSharp]

You nailed it. News flash: not a crime to take really good care of yourself, nor is to be on the dapper side.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks Paul!

[@Bill_tyler]

Right, I do all that for me not some female been riding the carousel the last 20 years

[@jeremiahmonaghan]

As a man who grew up in a single mother household with sisters. I can 100% agree with you John when you say women notice EVERYTHING!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much!

[@noName-kn1lx]

you have my sympathies

[@jeremiahmonaghan]

@@noName-kn1lx Ha ha ha.

[@jeffreylamont8111]

It starts from the ground up,smart clean footwear is a must.

[@BlackMan614]

I'm so grateful. I'm a nerd. Have plenty of money. And no women are interested in me and have always ignored me. Life is great.

[@wadepowell7879]

Hey guys! All this info goes for married guys, too! I've been watching John for quite awhile, picking up good ideas here and there and putting them into practice. I probably have been doing most of what John talks about most of my life and it works. I (66) have been married for 41 years and my wife still gets "more attentive" when I dress up. We live in Florida, of course, and my daily apparel is generally shorts and a T-shirt so anything beyond that is dressing better. Example: Throwing on a polo shirt with shoes instead of sandals and a t-shirt sets a whole new atmosphere for the evening. Perhaps a better example is this one. So, we are getting ready to do a cruise and therefore trying on clothes before we go was a necessity. I just had jeans and a t-shirt on (one of the colder days this winter), but when I slipped on the suit jacket for size my wife had a facial expression that matched her bedroom eyes. She verbally said she liked it and it was obvious. Yup, it's going to be a good cruise. After all the trouble that women go through to catch our eye why not return the favor. That worked so well, I tried on all the jackets. The next day I took them all to be dry-cleaned for future endeavors. First date, last date, only date or a lifetime date the women will always appreciate and brag to others about how good you look when well dressed and groomed. Thanks John for the constant reminder that a little effort goes a long ways.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for commenting Wade! Much appreciated!

[@markg.4246]

"Willing to do something beyond the bare minimum". Well said John! That statement reinforces a point you've made all along the way. Whether we're going to the Opera, or a Demolition Derby, a little attention to details can make all the difference. I've been mostly retired for a couple years, but drive a hotel/airport shuttle one or two days a week. I put the same amount of effort into being showered, clean shaven, clean clothes, and shined shoes regardless if I'm going on a date, or going to work. The general manager of the hotel even complimented me about my steel toed boots being clean and shined. Lastly, the one item that will enhance any outfit is wearing a smile. It makes people in general much more approachable...and they wonder what you've been up to. 😉 Thanks John!

[@davidgaghan]

The slouching thing is something I am CONSTANTLY working on. I was a chef for years and at the time weighed about 140kg (308 pounds) so would walk with a slouch/hunched over to hide some of that weight. Now that I have lost about 50 kgs (110 pounds) I have no need to walk slouched. The trouble is it was such a defined habit for about 10 years, it's taking me a lot of focused effort to not walk that way. It's amazing how different I feel internally walking straight than when I walk slouched!

[@lorisbarbieri7771]

Great video as always My dad used to tell me, just because you’re married doesn’t give you a reason to let yourself go. If anything you need to keep your appearance up to keep the chemistry up.

[@40OverFashion]

So true! Thanks for commenting!

[@rosesanchez7757]

Keep it simple and put your best foot forward. There's not a thing wrong with wanting to look and feel good. Plus, you are absolutely correct. We do notice EVERYTHING! 🤩LEGEND!

[@BRIANDER100]

What are your thoughts on long nails on men ?

[@rosesanchez7757]

@@BRIANDER100Not a fan of long nails on either sex. On the other hand I think men look great with painted nails & some makeup.

[@aaustin1986]

Hey John! I'd like to see an update to spring summer shorts for 2023. You always have great thoughts and ideas.

[@portlandreviewer6582]

Here's what she initially notices in order: 1) Your race, 2) height, 3) face, 4) body, then 5) shoes.

[@frankmartinez4856]

Legend: John you are so Kool(Kat)!!! You always have something to say that makes lots sense!!!

[@40OverFashion]

Appreciate that Frank! Thanks for watching!

[@murrayhiggins7907]

Thanks for your time and efforts John. 😎

[@kenhowell8403]

Great channel John. Just turned 57 and have been paying more attention to my style. If nothing else, it certainly makes one feel more confident (at least I do). keep up the great work and advice.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you Ken!

[@chrisb3902]

Another great video John! Bringing us 🔥 content in 2023! Cheers!

[@scott88]

The way a person dresses, is one of the first things a man and a woman look at. Neither want to date someone who still dresses like a teenager.

[@40OverFashion]

Well said Scott!

[@paul0wen65]

Absolutely! You can't be lazy and expect women to come to you or welcome you. I have witnessed good looking guys get ignored and watched average guys succeed because of what you just put down, John. In my most recent experiences, I was out on NYE and was not dressed to be at a club I ended up at-I was wearing a hockey fan jersey/hoodie. Ended up by the band and two younger, very attractive women nudged me to start dancing. Nothing more resulted, for reasons I won't go into, but being able to hang loose, stay confident, and go with the flow matters. Second instance-I purchased a great pair of casual, lace up boots and happened to be wearing them at my local brewpub with my good jeans and a fleece pullover, dark brown. I was sitting with friends and noticed two women passed by, who were having a girls night dinner, and they took the time to check me out-first thing they noticed? The boots. And they kept looking my direction for the duration of their stay. Point being, women do notice when you make an effort and it does pay dividends. Thanks for posting your solid advice!

[@davefish9296]

A woman once said to me "You never get a SECOND chance to make a FIRST impression"

[@pneulancer]

You're completely on point in this video. So many guys I know say they don't care what people think about their appearance, they "have to be themselves" or become apathetic about their grooming. Perception is reality. The other point you made about self-awareness and self-confidence is huge. Meeting available women after college has been a challenge for me; seems they're all married or in relationships. I'm 32 and never been married nor do I have kids and boy is it tough to find girls my age that fit into that demographic.But I'm still trying! Thanks for the tips buddy!

[@40OverFashion]

You’re welcome! Thanks for watching!

[@ronm6585]

Great info John, thank you.

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it Ron!

[@raymondmatias4441]

You're the best John ,thanks for the tips 🙂

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!

[@chrisberling7474]

Loving the content you produce - keep it up man!

[@40OverFashion]

Appreciate it!

[@ericl7842]

Great video John! Have a great weekend. Killing it! #Legend

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks Eric! Cheers!

[@jcdawg8363]

Women notice confidence first and then move on to appearance.

[@michaeltootikian4402]

Great video John

[@Michael-vf2up]

Thanks John

[@noName-kn1lx]

Put the shoe on the other foot. Which woman would you be drawn to? The one who looks well dressed in shape with nice skin and good manners or the obese one in sweats w no makeup because shes all about “comfort” and not changing herself for a man? It cuts both ways

[@40OverFashion]

Exactly!

[@BRIANDER100]

if the woman is attractive most men do not care what type of clothing they wear

[@noName-kn1lx]

@@BRIANDER100 not exactly clothes also make the woman

[@hasanzahid2816]

I am an old guy but you inspired me to be contended what i am.

[@thesnowghost1]

You nailed it

[@Theo-ul8qm]

All solid tips John! Personally, I skip through the part of the video where you tell us why we should care about our appearance, or you retort possible gripes people might have with your arguments. I’m here because I already care about my appearance and what other people think about me. I’d rather hear more tips, or more detail on each tip. Just food for thought. Cheers!

[@markg.4246]

Invest in a magnified mirror, if you haven't already done so. My vision isn't quite what it was, so the magnification makes it a lot easier to trim nose and ear hair, trim fingernails, etc. My best to you Theo!

[@ninjakris3004]

Thanks for the great relative content John!

[@40OverFashion]

My pleasure!

[@edh6308]

Awesome video as always, John! Hey, where’d you get that button down shirt? It’s really cool 👍🏾.

[@michdico9591]

You can sum up the first part of your video with the Army commercial: "Be All That You Can Be!" You're not being someone else, you're being all that you can be.

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@alanjarvis5523]

Having self confidence is the 1st thing women notice.

[@modalsoul6511]

I’m so tired of this cliché answer…… pleas tell me what confidence is ? And after you tell me the cliche answer then tell me how any person on the planet 🌎 is confident all the time.

[@alanjarvis5523]

@@modalsoul6511 Confidence is believing in yourself, being authentic and having a purpose in life. And that you deserve to have the good things in your life. If a person cannot be this most of the time, then they are either a false person or they need to work on themselves more.

[@modalsoul6511]

@@alanjarvis5523 nope 👎🏼 not true , you can be confident in one thing , and not the other. I can be confident in my knowledge of fashion but not be confident in approaching women … so I’m still confident right?

[@iainl9725]

With all the toxic manosphere crap out there, it's so refreshing to hear a mature adult talking common sense.

[@jackdeniston59]

Why and how is it tht so many of us were taught/indoctrinated to believe dressing well is some kind of crime?

[@noName-kn1lx]

Its a symptom of a devolved society. People were better in the past

[@Bill_tyler]

I don’t give a damn about what a woman thinks about me, getting laid or attention in general is draining. Emotionally, financially and just all around not a good idea. I know some guys that still haven’t learned their lesson…. Married and divorced several times over. Clearly allow their biology to control their decisions

[@driver0s228]

The love you take is equal to the love you make.

[@willisix2554]

Wow! Someone is really upset about this

[@johnsmith-ht3sy]

When I was a kid my Father, being old school, WW2 vet went to the Horse Races every weekend, he always wore a jacket, nice shirt and tie and Old Spice. I noticed my mother and sisters never complimented him on dressing well. When I am at work on the rare occasion I meet an old boy ( Im an old man to) who dresses well, even if they are just popping out to the shops, I always compliment them, as it is so rare here in England.

[@gabolujan3109]

You’re bitter and I bet you’re bald and overweight. Exercise and be confident. You’ll be ok.

[@morgan97475]

Great points.

[@leapheap6837]

I get it. A man has to have something to offer to a woman and vice versa. Self respect and loving yourself first.

[@SarcoidosisWarrior]

On point as always John 👌

[@40OverFashion]

Much appreciated Andy!

[@shawndennstedt5898]

Brio is legit and the battery life is beyond compare. I almost wish my V1 would take a shit so I can justify buying the V2 with the upgrades.

[@40OverFashion]

It’s a good one! Thanks for commenting Shawn!

[@edh6308]

Good info! I’ve been on the fence about getting one! Thanks!

[@wallyg77]

Confidence, not arrogance is key for the single guys out there... will we get updates on the phone number situation 🤔?

[@40OverFashion]

Haha!

[@jphillips8338]

If you looking for suggestions on video's- I'd be curious to know your suggestions on Espresso- and how the Rocket Appartamento worked out.

[@40OverFashion]

It’s awesome!

[@danielj3010]

Body language is how you maintain frame. Without it, your word is weaker than how you project it. Crush!

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for commenting Daniel!

[@jasonhurst8599]

Great tips, and points; but it seems it still all boils down to basically accepting whichever woman chooses you; NOT whichever woman YOU want, or desire. (Unless of course SHE also "wants" you.) The woman still has the final say. So a man could do every possible thing you mention or suggest, become the epitome of the ideal male specimen, but if the woman of his desire doesn't find him to her liking, all that hard work and effort will mean diddly squat. Personally I love working out, have lost nearly 200 lbs, vastly improved my grooming, skincare, wardrobe, confidence. Upped my scent game, etc; but have not noticed any change in how women react toward me, nor that they even notice me, or give me even a FIRST look; let alone a second look. (Especially YOUNGER women). I'm not going to stop trying to improve and better myself, but it does get frustrating.

[@40OverFashion]

Jason, it is not all for nothing! You also get to choose. You keep working on you, and I promise you, you will have enough to choose from.

[@jasonhurst8599]

@40 Over Fashion Oh I'll never stop working on trying to improve myself, and be the best I can be; it just sucks when I know I've met Thee "ONE", and will never stop loving, and being in love with her. Not saying I've stopped looking, or will ever stop, but I do know they will never BE her. (The good AND the bad (or not so good.). Which I think too many people these days overthink, over analyze, and especially over critique as it seems people WANT perfection. Even though they're far from perfect themselves. But maybe one day Hell will freeze over and all my work and effort will pay off. (Hopefully while I am still able to enjoy it. 😂)

[@karlr750]

@@jasonhurst8599 You are correct. If I want or desire a woman, I am *not* going to end up with her unless she also chooses me. Similarly, if a woman wants and desires me, and I don't feel like choosing her, she's out of luck. Dating is *very equal* that way. In addition, you haven't met "the one." If she was "the one," she would want to be with you. You've let yourself become (and remain) infatuated with a woman who can't, doesn't, or won't feel the same way about you. That's going to cramp your style when you try to date *any* other woman. Would you want to date a woman who was permanently infatuated with some other guy? Dating is frustrating (for everyone). It was a lot more frustrating when I was pursuing women who *weren't* interested in me, rather than the ones who were. I didn't have to accept whichever woman was interested in me. (I didn't accept most of them.) I chose the *best woman* who was interested in me.

[@mikeknowles8017]

Guys I'm just going to throw this out there - go get a professional manicure. Even if you don't want to do it all the time you can get your fingernails re-baselined so they are easier to take care of and if it will feel really good. People (especially women) will notice.

[@peterat100]

Great topic

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks Peter!

[@_DB.COOPER]

Don’t care what women think about anything.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching anyway

[@_DB.COOPER]

@@40OverFashion couldn’t watch it all, I’m sorry.

[@johnsmith-ht3sy]

I havent shaved myself for over 3 years, every fortnight I treat myself to a visit to the Barber, Turkish hot towel shave, cut throat razer and ear and nose hair waxed or burnt. The only luxury an old man can treat himself to.

[@_DB.COOPER]

@@johnsmith-ht3sy yes sir.

[@jimmyhvy2277]

Girls go crazy about a sharp dressed man !

[@chrialivest]

Great video. Great content. Your videos have absolutely helped me out. Now, I have a friend who is recently divorced and sharing your videos is my way to help him. #legend

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for sharing!

[@braddowdell88]

Bring back the intro legend.

[@dwaynesbadchemicals]

I was always told it was my shoes.

[@dasheffield5596]

My smile have been a detriment my whole adult life. I regret not correcting them when I was young? I’m old now. I doubt if I’m going to do something about them at this stage in life 😳

[@markg.4246]

All the more reason to do so D A! Do it for YOU! "I will never know the benefit of taking an action, until I take that action"! All the best...Mark

[@edwardmarks4293]

FYI, your change in room setup has created some echo that wasn't there before.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for the feedback!

[@albertoguerrero007]

John, saying that a neck beard doesn’t look good on Tom Cruise or Leonardo DiCaprio doesn’t make sense. If we had their money we could do whatever we wanted.

[@40OverFashion]

With respect Alberto, it absolutely makes sense. Because for 99.9% of us that don’t have their money, we can’t afford to look like a slob. If you have that money, do whatever you want, but otherwise, you can’t compare yourself.

[@rbfarrell1]

Be your best and get used to it. The modern women in the U.S. are probably not going to be a compliment to your life, it just the facts today. But get used to being your best so when you travel outside the U.S. you are at your best to meet high quality women in other countries that would compliment your life.

[@ytano5782]

Guys and don‘t be lazy, if you married for 10 years. Look good for yourself and your wife.

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@Streamlined955]

Long before KZbin I heard that people will judge you based on your shoes. Any guy who doesn’t know this is clueless.

[@Toby_the_Glen]

You'd be surprised how many attractive women really are not that turned on by muscles. Many women feel that a guy that spends a lot of time in the gym probably won't have time for them?

[@CademanLillywhite]

Love your shirt!

[@BluegillGreg]

Anyone can keep a pair of shoes clean and be built like an athlete. That just takes effort. Also, don't put products into your hair.

[@noName-kn1lx]

Are you obese ?are you slobby? Are you poorly groomed ?then theres no need to change. Youve shown what the real you is and she can move on to someone else. Congrats!

[@southerngirl773]

Great advise! Another tip coming from a female….Stop making the conversation all about you. Women hate that! Listen More!!

[@40OverFashion]

Absolutely!

[@mikestillshreddin7636]

That there lies your flawed premise.. a women said...

[@robertravena]

I'm already great in the kitchen .. and I can build a custom HD from the cement up.. and yeah .. I am permanently fkn single. why? I'm fat, old and not wealthy and DEFINITELY not country & my self confidence is in the sewer.. and yeah yelling in a mirror will not raise it.

[@williamkazak469]

How about what a guy notices about a woman? I like red lips, nice eyebrows and a woman who dresses like a lady. No yoga pants!

[@40OverFashion]

Yep! Goes both ways!

[@noName-kn1lx]

i think once you start thinking about women as people and get pass the great ass or breasts or whatever, you will ask yourself is this someone i want in my life? it gets easier to weed people out...

[@jamminloud]

I would love to see your opinion's geared toward's Western wear but understand if it isn't your thing. "There's no such thing as an ugly rich man." -- Eva Gabor

[@markhart6743]

I tend to dress well smell good & take care of my appearance but find it hard to smile all time as I’m walking about thinking I’ll look like a clown who always has a silly smile on his face

[@juliuscaesar8801]

40 is the new 50 30 is the new 40 50 is the new 60 60 is the new 70 Tweak your mind set, attitude and groom….nothing is stopping you except you and you allowing others to think for you.

[@johnlibonati7807]

Lol. You got it backwards. 😂

[@mikestillshreddin7636]

What about pedicures.. you forgot to mention pedicures.. thats layed guarans

[@SuperSebastian213]

your smile done

[@birdy1numnum]

*I am shallow. Is that wrong?*

[@driver0s228]

It's not considered to be one of the better traits.

[@willisix2554]

I don't think it is, but then I'm Selfish so.......

[@OziBlokeTimG]

I disagree, nothing wrong with bare foot girls.

[@robertalexander8770]

Secrew that. Nope.

[@BritonAD]

I'm not CHAD so I'm invisible anyway.

[@mattwilliam4803]

I stopped caring, what women notice first.. a long time ago

[@staycasual7203]

First thing they notice, bank balance. Last thing, your bank balance. Deal with it fellas.