8 Things Men Wear That Women Find SEXY | WEAR THIS!

[@vinebatistak]

number 1: money

[@sheldon.j.cunningham3620]

😂😂😂😂🔥

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

One of the best “accessories” LOL

[@Bloomcycle]

Thrift store 😎

[@bograu9565]

@@eyeheartsushi2212 you mean the most „essential“ 😁

[@georgeleorgebeorge2354]

No, not simply money. But fools with money who think little of squandering their fortune on opportunistic women.

[@glengraham7080]

Been wearing Chelsea boots and jeans since my mid teens! I'm in my 50s now. Got it right without even knowing 😁

[@doug-low-carb]

I wish I could. My insteps are so high I can only wear hush puppy style boots or dress shoes that tie. I swap the laces for longer ones to reach around my elephant stub feet.

[@bobmetcalfe9640]

I bought an Italian belt a while ago, it's made out of multicoloured strands of what seem to be stretchy para cord, and there are no holes in it - the tongue just slips through the weave so you can adjust it pretty much infinitely. And being multicoloured it pretty much goes with anything informal. I love it.

[@grant575mixmaster]

ha ha I brought one of these yesterday, Its great, Im going to buy another

[@ibanmayo2]

They are very cool and separates you from the conservative sheep. In my opinion it demonstrates that you have a sense of fun , creativity and don't take yourself too seriously.

[@zeroceiling]

Does it work on women?

[@well-blazeredman6187]

I'm a fan of those too. They retail, in the UK, around £35. On an Italian street-corner? About £5!

[@garethcanning4835]

Finding your channel late means I get to catch up on all these great videos everyday, is there one coming soon in January 25

[@40OverFashion]

Yes! Back into a full schedule starting next week! Thank you!

[@raykleiner3151]

Great advice John

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you Ray!

[@FlaviusMaximus1967]

Buffway belts. Good leather and price. Good video and good advice....

[@evaldorank7375]

Very nice tips!!!! Anxious to see the next video!!!!

[@phillipmoodie9071]

A high quality, very slim, leather wallet, with a premium grade American Express card always worked for me. You don't use it to try an impress a lady. You just leave with the Bartender when you order your drink before you move to the dining table. In "my day" American Express in some manner "tagged" the cards if you had virtually bottomless Credit, creates a level of service from the Hotel staff that will not only impress a lady, but it will impress every one else who may be sitting at the table. But that was Yesterday for me because I'm living the life of a monk, on Doctor's orders. But it was a lot of fun. Phil.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching!

[@kevinmcree8959]

The hat is a great piece of advice. I used to wear a crushable waterproof felt hat to go out on the town many years ago. It definitely attracted the right attention.

[@andrewcottington3742]

I got my ears pierced with some small cheap gold plated cubic zirconia studs. During the six week healing period every time l went out , l had no end of female attention, (this hardly ever happened prior to having pierced ears with earrings). After the six week healing period was up, l went out and brought some quality small gold 3mm diamond studs. If anything this seemed to make me even more attractive to the opposite sex and 30 years plus later at 53, those studs look as good as the day l got them, even if l don't look as good. I still receive complimentary remarks from women even now about my earrings, so money well spent Whether it's a hat ,earrings or an item of clothing, l think some women are attracted to men who are prepared to be a little different, not necessarily following the rules.

[@JFBassett2050]

Excellent! I am becoming a fan! I will tell other guys about you. My fav hint: light color sport jackets . . . thanks!

[@40OverFashion]

Awesome! Thank you!

[@coolti44]

Women always compliment me when l wear silver rimmed eye glasses, slim untucked shirts, slim fit jeans, and grey suede Clark desert boots! Navy belts are a good add! Love my light blue Polo sports coat (use a tailor)

[@tentimetex]

And a good, stylish, Masculine watch.

[@Nam-id7kj]

Recommend jeans?

[@Tbone51]

Grip 6 belts are really nice, too.

[@jasonnixon433]

Chelsea boots is growing on my style.Just bought one few weeks ago .

[@Blacksheep557]

chelsea boots with a heel are awesome

[@Matthew-by5bt]

Just one, thought they were sold in pairs 🤣

[@cgoebbert]

I was a hold out for awhile as well but bought a pair of “desert” colored from Thursday and love them. Sleek but not douchey, nice heel to make me taller, and the inside of the boots feel like butter (butta). I’m a convert.

[@icarusi]

I'm good with the hat and the light coloured jackets. Been wearing those jackets for years. I like the oatmeal textured fabrics rather than a plain fabric. With MPB, hats cover it, and keep my scalp warm in winter. I go for smaller brims than fedoras or borsalinos, a bit too theatrical for me, again mid-dark oatmeal textured fabrics, although I do go full white in hot summer. Green bowls (or cricket umpires) hats are the thing for that. Modern cars aren't great for crown hats. Not much headroom, so watch you don't knock the hat off! I'm with you on the infinite adjust buckle, but I use a webbing belt buckle, which uses a cam/roller action to fasten. It came already with a pair of pants, but I've seen the buckles available separately. I like a looser belt for sitting, and tighter for standing/walking, so the quick adjust stuff is good. For pants I'm currently going for black jeans with no fake wear and black stitching so they can pass for suit pants. They have elastane and what I call a 'streaky dye', so they're again not a plain fabric. Unfortunately that fabric seems to be OOS everywhere, so I'm looking for alternatives.

[@josephfolgo5079]

Thankyou. Any thoughts on ties

[@jonredd650]

Number one thing is not to be fat. Then most clothes look good.

[@jasongarman]

Being healthy and fit is generally attractive, but an overweight guy with well-fitting clothes can look a lot sharper and more put together than a fit guy with oversized and unmatched clothes. If you pay attention to the list in the video, a lot of them boil down to "women find it sexy when a man pays attention to his clothing and puts thought and intention into it."

[@adrianasilitonga7335]

Ow so true man. It's not physical attraction, but more like "ow..this guy know how to take care of himself!"

[@RogerLoera]

Just being at a healthy weight the clothes look way better! It's the same with a slender woman, the clothes compliment her body more so than a doughy body.

[@hammill444]

@@adrianasilitonga7335 oh sure. Ugly guys who dress well really turn heads. Uh no; they don't. Being good looking trumps almost everything. Get real

[@mebeasensei]

@@adrianasilitonga7335 Fine line between that and , Eewwww, that guy is spending too much time in the mirror. Vain. I think a lot of girls like solid guys without much vanity.

[@lesradfordjr4761]

I'm glad I found your channel! I'm 62 I've been married for over 32 years! My wife has never had to pick out my clothes for me and we are not starting now! Matter of fact if she had to do that when we met I doubt if our relationship would have lasted! lolI have raised 3 boys that are now great young men to every one of them the way they look is important! I've taught them that important fact! I also know I don't want to wear skinny jeans or a tight suit! Thank you for the reminder that your clothing should be tailored to fit your body style! In years past all my suits also dress shirts were tailored! Now even my jeans will go to the tailor!

[@deirdremorris9234]

Hi there. Can you recommend a comfortable hat in place of a baseball cap? Thank you.

[@Rangerprovidence]

R.M Williams Comfort Craftsmans boots are the way to go for chelsea boots.

[@keithosorio8598]

Always pick up a new nugget from your videos. I was aware of most of the things on the list, but didn’t know about Chelsea boots or light color sports coats. I need a pair of those gray Chelsea boots now.

[@40OverFashion]

Yes! The gray chelsea's are awesome!

[@markhottman2652]

7:30 “Still running around with fruit of the loom tighty whites, you are missing out”. I absolutely concur! Guys do your self a favor and “Get after it”! When your coworker wonder why you carry your self with MORE CONFIDENCE, just because your JUNK is supported. Some days it makes the work day go a sprinkle bit more quicker.

[@morrisyarnell6083]

Your videos are amazing and full of very useful advice. Years ago ( I am 77 now) I watched American Gigolo and was impressed by his style and shortly afterwords I worked at Nordstrom where the female staff gave me a make over to point me in the direction of current styles. It was eye opening as it was from the point of a female perspective. Although your ideas are spot on, the advice I was given so many years age really did help me look the part of a salesman in the mens furnishing dept.

[@Flexrolon]

Hi John great video very helpfull, as always great video, stay safe

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks, you too!

[@lancenielsenofficial]

Good video. Love the "banana hammock" ! :)

[@michaelsmusic3532]

What about studded leather ???

[@chrisfogarty9775]

Ive just bought a box set of belts on youre recommendation john their on there way to England. Thankyou

[@40OverFashion]

Excited for you! You’ll love them!

[@freedomring3022]

Just purchased my first box of anson belts and buckles. I have to say, they are pretty awesome!

[@40OverFashion]

Yes they are! Thanks for watching the video!

[@jajuja]

That "pre intro?" Awesome. Great addition. Thanks for pushing out great content on a regular basis.

[@40OverFashion]

Much appreciated!

[@amarpatel3154]

Gotta try the trunks with banana hammock!

[@melbman43]

Hi John, now we are out of lockdown in Melbourne I went to my local bar yesterday and decided that I wanted to wear the good clothing I have. Light blue sports jacket, like the one in the video, pink shirt, cream chinos with a white straw hat and suede shoes. The number of complements I got was amazing. All through watching your videos.

[@hsard]

Thats a winning style, mate. Which fragrance?

[@melbman43]

@@hsard Invictus, yet another thing I learned that has to be worn. You really feel great when you dress well, but as John always states. The clothing has to fit well. Had my jacket sleeve turned up so the cuff could be shown, and also the chinos to fit correctly of which they alterations cost almost as much as the purchase.

[@mattc9009]

You're in Melbourne, those were probably dudes.

[@melbman43]

@@mattc9009 Hahaha , no they weren't, but I get what you're saying.

[@juanjosefermin3682]

Love your videos. Greetings from the Dominican Republic 🇩🇴

[@javedayub4980]

Happpy new.year bro Your fashion commentary sounds holistic and passionate Very impressive and heartfelt. Good luck to you

[@davefairburn3298]

I had Lasik in the 90's, IT IS WONDERFUL.💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

[@fitfogey]

Never knew about chelsea boots, never knew about the belts, etc. Looks like I’ll be busy this weekend cleaning out this two decade old wardrobe closet. Thanks hoss.

[@matthew4694]

I really appreciate your consistently helpful advice and positive attitude, John. I have been following your tips over the last year and can testify to their many benefits. Instead of chasing women and seeking external validation I have instead focused on self-improvement. As a result, my healthier body and outlook, plus the fine details of a well put-together overall appearance have improved my confidence tenfold. Not only do women take notice, EVERYONE I encounter notices. It has quite literally changed how I move through the world. Thank you!

[@40OverFashion]

Love this! Thank you very much Matthew!

[@dolittle6781]

Exactly! I'm with you and still get more attention than I need because of John's amazing tips. I may have to force myself to stop watching his channel and unlearn his pointers to regain some semblance of just being a normal, anonymous guy again🙂

[@will8257]

You're so right about that type of belt. I have several and couldn't be happier with the adjustability. Also, where did you get the sweater you're wearing? Noticed you wore it in a different color in another video and haven't been able to find that texture. Thanks and keep em coming Sir!

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much Will! It's from John Henric... bit.ly/3f0eXhQ

[@will8257]

@@40OverFashion Thanks John!

[@nardsgo-out4553]

Interesting take on Chelsea Boots, i don't have one, but i do own a pair of Cowboy boots i bought in Montana, but i live in the Philippines and it sure attracts attention here when i wear them specially those tap noises they make when i'm walking

[@robertschneider2189]

I had not seen those belts. I'm headed over to buy some. Belts are one of the accessories that men under use. They are for far more than holding up our drawers.

[@40OverFashion]

Agreed Robert! Thank you!

[@robertschneider2189]

@@40OverFashion thank you. I hadn't spent 200 dollars yet today, and I solved that problem. :)

[@SonsofIssac]

Switched from boxers to trunks back in the 90’s haven’t looked back

[@payneok]

I switched about 10 years ago and wish I had done so much earlier. Should do a whole segment on things you should just CLEAN OUT and throw away. #1 all your old underwear #2 all your old undershirts #3 most of your silverware #4 your old cologne #5 Socks #6 Sheets and Blankets - most of these things were cheap stuff I bought when I was young and broke or I got as hand me downs and I just hung onto it instead of replacing it with good stuff. My sheets were basically old pieces of burlap from Wal Mart bought in the 80's can't believe how much better life is wearing comfortable underwear sleeping on quality sheets.

[@gergemall]

Love your channel

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much Jon!

[@redwoodsquirrel432]

Always wanted a pair of Chelsea boots but other more practical shoes or boots always came first. Now that I'm getting divorced, I will be grabbing myself a pair definitely. Thanks for the great content as always. Stay safe.😊

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much!

[@verejones299]

Thank you Sir 4 teaching me to dress my age. I've learnt so much from your videos. I'm from St Kitts. Slowly but definitely surely I'm upgrading my wardrobe, keep up the excellent work. GOD bless you abundantly

[@brucejensen5762]

Great video John. The most important point is proper fitting clothes. Unfortunately most men have no idea what their inseam, waist, sleeve, collar, and chest measurements are. The money you spend on tailoring is the best return on money spent on your wardrobe. You could wear Armani and still look like a mess if it doesn't fit....spend $50 - $100 on tailoring and BAM!

[@40OverFashion]

Well said Bruce!

[@brysonevans3441]

Thank you John. Your advice is always spot on. I started wearing Chelsea boots about a year ago, I get complements like never before.

[@40OverFashion]

Great to hear!

[@georgelorber3160]

Hi John .What about men wearing hair piece.Is it the last taboo?:-)) Great videos.THX

[@andreaspeters3773]

I agree😁... i have middle brown suede Chelsea's with a rubber sole, not cheap but it was love on first sight. So comfortable. Fit to any jeans and the suede is by far not so sensible as i feared 👍

[@MrBullet888]

Unfortunately, I have no use for wearing those types of clothes. I get it but where I'm at is more Carharrt, boots and so on.

[@romulusremus7537]

I get tons of compliments from women on my Ariats with black levis.

[@marktwain580]

I’m with you!! Clean and rugged.

[@hsegawa1]

I get it...but you can still make Carharrt & boots look great! A little bit of stylish thought with a sprinkling of tasteful accessories...“boom!”

[@Chahlie]

@@romulusremus7537 I'm a woman but my Ariats give me more confidence than anything. :)

[@romulusremus7537]

@@Chahlie Ariats are perfection anyway. And a woman wearing Ariats.....that is magic to a man's heart.

[@barriestevens9923]

Those Anson belts really are as good as John says. I got the 3 belt, 2 buckle pack. Love them.

[@40OverFashion]

Yes they are!

[@alamedvav]

My soon to be sixteen year old is wearing the non-perscription glasses. That boy sure does know what he's doin.

[@ravipeiris4388]

Congratulations 🎈🎈👏 for hitting 200k subscriptions.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you!

[@vespapx5334]

Have always when i can worn chelsea boots but can wear them when i drive

[@tofu86oc55]

He is so right about chelsea boots! I got my first pair, black leather chelsea boots, and on my first day out, I saw a girl checking me out (and turn away when i caught her). how did she see black boots under dark blue jeans? its cuz women do check out your shoes, in that first impression of you.

[@ajjames9065]

Great advice, thank you!

[@milekrizman]

6:54 - fedora and trilby hats go with suit. Not T shirt and cargo shorts.

[@stevecroes1]

Thanks, man... Using some already and going to use the others.

[@pearcem]

great stuff. thank you.

[@sjvader2003]

Interesting on the Chelsea boots. I’ve never owned a pair, I’m more a Chukka boot guy.

[@MartinIrwin]

Chelsea FTW

[@BeckVMH]

And then there’s that “hat hair” thing.

[@vladimirlopez7840]

Chukka’s are nice but there’s nothing sexy about chukka’s. Chelsea boots steal the show there.

[@arthur.rsitch8085]

Chelseas, regardless of upper material are always marred by that hideous tacky looking elasticated fabric panel. If it was on the outside and concealed behind a continuation of the leather upper, forming a covering terminating a little behind the fabric, Its rear edge free to allow the panel to flex while remain hidden from view. then they would actually look pretty sleek, but as currently made, the elastic panel will always look naf, (uk for crap) straight out of the box, and looks crappo majori long before the rest of the boot shows significant wear. Chukkas exude style and quality and look good for longer, and when they are worn in and no longer pristine they pair well with denim or twill, whereas Chelseas when no longer pristine can only pair well with the inside of a trash can.

[@adrianasilitonga7335]

This is my 2nd video of yours.. Man I love you already!!! Good job! I loveeeee seeing men in suits/'jackets'../I'm not talking about tux or wedding suits.. Just simple suits..they can use a T-shirt inside with jeans..but still with a suit.. Oohhh

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you so much!!

[@jimklemens5018]

A suit is a jacket and pants made of the same cloth.

[@greggraham9785]

Hello John, how are you? Great job on the video. Thank you for the enlightenment. Stay safe brother

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks, you too!

[@nduminyilika4890]

Hi John, I must say, your hair looks amazing. Whats the best products for silver/grey hair? My boyfriend has silver/grey hair

[@desperateambrose5373]

Wranglers are cheaper than boots. The "denim puddle" to which you refer disappears when one is in the saddle, and the extra length helps protect the shafts of the boots.

[@patfal1514]

Right...if you dress "western" because of where you live,travel OR just because you like the look its very important to have excess length over your boot.Women (and men) will judge negatively if this is not right, its just not done . IYKYK Wrangler butts still drive us nuts.

[@ninjakris3004]

Nothing wears like a great fit of confidence!

[@Kanoemirate]

Wore a black leather Chelsea with Blue Jeans last week & everyone I mate was complimentary about it.

[@rolandogarcia506]

As usual nice video friend ..Greetings from CDMX.

[@40OverFashion]

Thank you very much!

[@markushaase2350]

Hi, anybody out there who knows, what label the underpant at 7:46 is? Thanks!!!

[@AGentlemansJourney77]

What about a sexy fragrance/cologne?

[@Solerf1]

This one is the easiest, quickest and sometimes cheapest way

[@AGentlemansJourney77]

@@Solerf1 I was just playing with him as we know another and how my channel is about fragrances.

[@Solerf1]

A big miss anyway... A hat better than a good scent? Nahhh... Will check your channel though

[@AGentlemansJourney77]

@@Solerf1 appreciate it. Its nothing professional or great like John's. My channel is more of a hobby than anything.

[@40OverFashion]

Yes! Very important! Thanks for the addition!

[@richardfear6716]

You forgot grey hair and beard lol they love it great vlog well done

[@Rohilla313]

Hi John. Re headgear, what about the English style berets like the ones in Peaky Blinders?

[@TheGreggmelvin04]

Love the topic & the responses. Thanks

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it Gregg!

[@stevencraig2448]

Awesome video. Thank you for sharing

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks for watching!

[@komododragon4242]

Best belt I ever bought.

[@seanp7871]

Glad my Chelsea boot addiction made the cut lol . Great video 👍

[@40OverFashion]

You and me both!

[@Space_Tour1]

Anson belt is a game changer, they are super also kn the cotumer service

[@peterdockrill9653]

Been wearing Chelsea boosts for 40 years, I find them very stylish on women

[@lennypignatello7493]

Found a pair of wing tip chunka work boots by timberland at least that’s how they were described to me by Dillards sales associate. Very nice boot

[@vladimirlopez7840]

Yeah chukka’s are not in the same level with Chelsea boots when it comes to sexiness

[@peterpan9516]

In my experience, with women around the world, what they find sexy, in not particular order: Eyes, smile, hands, butt, culture, manners.. basically things you cant buy, all the things mentioned here are just adds on to the real things.

[@patfal1514]

Always start with hygiene and grooming (clean fingernails) smell good. Then smile,manners,respect.

[@abidnessman]

John, where/how do you get your hair color?

[@gabrieljordan8015]

Keep up the good work dude.

[@40OverFashion]

Thanks, will do!

[@edward886]

Anson belts. Fantastic. I have eight belt/buckle sets and think they are great. Can't say enough good things about them. They look great and the fit is perfect. What I like is that I can discreetly tighten or loosen them as the day progresses. I've given these belts to my sons-in-law and they were very impressed with them. Seriously, Guys, give them a try. You will go back for more.

[@spectre5x5]

Great list! Some of these surprised me though... light colored sports jacket? I don't get it. I have heard that women love men in great fitting, not too tight, not too loose, gray sweatpants...ie, Public Rec. I think well fitting clothes is a must.

[@eyeheartsushi2212]

The light colored sports jacket threw me off as well. I don’t own a sports jacket but I’ll still probably go with navy if I get one.

[@dtnjnq]

Agree with the light Color sports jackets. They look great

[@ronm6585]

Thanks again John for the tips. 👌

[@40OverFashion]

You bet! Thanks Ron!

[@11855alan]

So I have several different sport jackets, med brown, dark blue and light tan. What is, or is there a “rule” with colour or shade matching, ie: dark jacket/light pant or vis versa, or is there any such rule?

[@40OverFashion]

As far as tops and bottoms, there isn’t really a hard rule. I would generally go with a darker jacket personally. With complementary colors, check out the Canva color wheel.

[@mikaelmoss1233]

I remember those belts with detached buckles from early 2000. It was like $5 each on bazaar, and were sported by guys in polyester suits and square toe shoes. It's quite funny, they are back:)

[@doug-low-carb]

Also there are plastic belt buckles. GReat for frequent fliers.

[@ronniemack4831]

Very informative, I enjoyed the video John.

[@40OverFashion]

Glad you enjoyed it!

[@rang123yea5]

All my belts are Tactical to acomodate EDC!

[@paulspacco4397]

Hey John …I haven’t read the comments yet but I’m sure I’m not the only one interested in maroon sweater your wearing…would you mind sharing with us, where did you get it? Thanks!

[@billstiggy4908]

Can’t wait for crocs season. The foundation for all summer attire

[@Jebro439]

Great items on the list. Frank and Beans lol

[@s.beccari4678]

Boxer briefs are the truth

[@canadafree2087]

LOL I was completing my 2nd Anson belt order as this was playing. They have a factory second sale on now.

[@gregtucker2703]

Chelsea boots 🥾! You will be WINNING 💪🏾

[@Bloomcycle]

A true stud ladies man. Can ware anything and still get women he wants. Speaking from experience 😎

[@meteor1237]

Also Beltology; have 10 I get compliments on all the time.

[@edsamson8916]

Great tips!

[@40OverFashion]

Glad it was helpful!

[@jonathanl2748]

Hey there, John. I’ll definitely be picking up a pair or two of Chelsea boots. What manufacturer do you recommend? Great vid as always, my friend!

[@40OverFashion]

I have several pair from Thursday Boots. Love them!

[@jonathanl2748]

@@40OverFashion if you have a link to that, I’ll gladly use it. Thanks.

[@40OverFashion]

@@jonathanl2748 Thank you. thursdayboots.com/?campaign=40-over-fashion

[@julianwaugh968]

Clark's or Charles Trywhyte

[@lindsaymcpherson4744]

Best accessory is a big fat money belt !!

[@ptock1975]

I have a pair of oxford boots. Love them.

[@elderlypoodle9181]

My husband got a pair of safety glasses for work. He thinks it’s hilarious I find him irresistible in them. 😁

[@motivason]

👍🏻Thanks brother