5 Powerful Ways To Deal With Death, Grief & Loss

Learn how to get over death of a loved one & deal with grief.
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Death & loss of a loved one is something we will all experience at some point in our lives. Learning to let go of someone close to you, and dealing with grief, sadness and loss is tough.
How do you do it? Especially when your emotions are so intense?
It's not something school ever really teaches you is it?
Maybe you've even heard of the 7 stages of grief. But you still feel sad and angry and hurt.
What do you do?
1.) 2:41 - Tuesdays With Morrie
Morrie Schwartz talks about allowing yourself to completely feel the emotion, instead of pushing it away, and then after exhausting it, learning to let it go.
The truth is there is no step by step process here. Grief is going to be different for all of us, and won't be the same each time we experience it. Instead of seeing it like a step by step tick box exercise, imagine its like a clockface.
You will cycle through the emotions revolving around them and over time you will get better at dealing with these emotions.
2.) 4:15 - Emotional pain is like physical pain
Emotional loss and pain triggers the same pain receptors in your brain as breaking your leg or losing a limb
So if you lost your leg - how long would it take to heal? Imagine the same process, but for your emotional pain. You're going to need to take things a bit slower, and put your energy into healing properly and dealing with the new challenges you face day to day.
3.) 5:23 - You Can't Control Your Emotions, Only Manage Them
Your feelings are going to come and go, and trying to ignore or suppress them through willpower won't work. Work by Psychologist Steve Peters shows that the part of the brain responsible for emotions is more powerful than the one for logic & rationality.
Imagine your emotions are like a little chimp. And it's angry and upset. You can't defeat it because it's stronger than you and less intelligent. So when you feel sad, imagine you're dealing with a baby chimp that's sad. How would you deal with it then? Ignoring it won't work. It will just scream louder.
You have to acknowledge it, and express it and be patient with it. So that part of your brain feels heard and cared for.
4.) 7:03 - Learn Your Own Mortality
Use this experience to learn how precious life is and how fragile it is. Being mindful of the fact that its all going to end, helps you be more focused on what's really important.
When we experience death, that's the deeper truth we're facing. The lesson of impermanence. Things are uncertain, random, and not permanent.
Can we learn to be fully present, not hold back and still be able to be detached and free from our own need for certainty? Balance is key.
5.) Become Their Legacy
When a person dies, they leave behind all their dreams and aims for the future. And we can use this experience to learn from the way they lived their lives and the example they set to follow.
What did they stand for? What was there to learn from them?
Use these lessons and become their legacy.
Hope you guys enjoyed this one. Let me know your thoughts in the comments below!
- Keshav
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[@stellaamito3204]

Thanks for this video l lost my Dad last week and my brother this year, l also lost my two brothers last two years. My heart is broken.

[@alexpineda7912]

This video made me sad and sorry for your loss... that God bless you... my dad died months ago and this video helped me... your video made me think that grief is a process and not a task... Thank You... you are helping everyone learn grief and what you can do... thank you and God bless you... if you can reply plz tell me how I can help myself with grief...

[@itzchlo3728]

Thank u

[@dontbotherlookingatthischa559]

Thank you

[@JewessChrstnMystic]

My aunt passed away this morning. She was 46... I'm praying that I see my family on the other side. This world is going to self destruct and maybe soon.. we all have to be going somewhere. I pray so hard that we are reunited with our lost loved ones. Her death caught us completely off guard, she was over at my moms house spending the night with my grandmother and mother, she helped my dad last night when he caught a stomach bug, she got down in the floor last night and cleaned up my dads vomit from the floor and they laughed together while cleaning up.. this morning she never got up.. she was healthy, she was fine last night.. we dont know what happened, or why it happened... I'm completely terrified of death, terrified of what's on the other side. I'm really starting to feel lile this material world made of matter is just a bad place. In order to live on earth and survive, something always has to kill something else in order to survive, you literally cannot avoid it. Plants, animals, resources, ect... something must always die and consume something else.. this world is full of decay, death, evil, ect.. I don't believe in reincarnation, the idea it doesnt make sense and seems very unreasonable. Btw I appreciate the video but it wasn't really alot of help. I guess no body really has any truth or answeres about life or death. We are all just guessing and hoping. The recycling of souls I guess could be a theory, but if it is then that means they cycle is never ending and we are literally trapped with no way home.. my hope is set on seeing my loved ones again, hoping and praying we can all be together again one day. If souls are being recycled then we are literally stuck in matrix by some other power that isn't the almighty and its feeding off our lifes miseries and pain... simple reincarnation leaves you utterly hopeless because you have no way of remembering your previous failures in past lives so that you can correct them and work at fixing it... which is the best way to keep souls in the dark and to be able to feed off the misery of their lives.. idk my heart is broken, my heart breaks for all the people losing loved ones.. the pain is so terrible.

[@Evan-mj4bw]

Whoevers reading this it's OK to cry

[@christinescullion4549]

I lost my mother over a month ago. I've cried and let it out with my friend, he is always there for me. I still am crying and grieving. I tell you. I am not doing well right now. I am struggling, even though I move on with life. I still feel empty. Never be afraid to cry and or letting out how you feel God only knows how many times I cried and felt sadness an heart wrenching Grief.

[@YeolandaKing]

My Mom passed away 6 days ago. I didn't realize how much pain I would be in. I am 45 years old and she was 64 years old.

[@christinescullion4549]

@@YeolandaKing I get it, it is always painful. It takes time to heal completely, memories will Come up, you will think of your mom, you may even cry, that is all part of grief, it sucks, but grief is part of a loss, losing a parent hurts more than anyone can imagine. I understand, it hurts right now, never be ashamed to cry and grieve, it helps you get over the huge pain.

[@YeolandaKing]

@@christinescullion4549 Thank you! It seems to be okay sometimes. I do think of the memories and sometimes it makes me smiles, while other times I just brake down and cry. I know in time it will get easier. I will just have to give it time and hopefully it will get easier for me like it is suppose to do.

[@Mddsnll]

Thx

[@TubeNoName1]

The hardest part is that you can’t see your loved ones after they are gone and you miss them painfully 💔

[@azumii_11]

Yep my dad died

[@alial-hussain5692]

My grandma died yesterday.

[@cmworkman94]

My cousin died of a heart attack, when she was 2 years old she had a heart transplant, she only was in her teenage years. She was a good cousin and I’m going to miss her. 😢💔

[@TubeNoName1]

@@cmworkman94 oh no😢😢😢 I'm so so sorry 😔 that's very sad 😢 life isn't fair!

[@obx_yt2857]

@@alial-hussain5692 rip god bless you and her my uncle died yesterday morning…..

[@robloxasap8767]

I’m gonna watch this when my father dies, my father has cancer, and he is very old and I’m only 11... I’m gonna miss him I’ll edit this comment when that happens. I just know he is gonna die soon he has 3 types of cancer plus he smokes, and he is very weak. I’m gonna miss him so much Update: my father died 2 hours ago. R.I.P my dad

[@christopherknight2967]

Roblox ASAP my dad died this morning and I came hear and I saw your comment was recent bro it’s hard and I just want you to know that I’m praying for you and your not alone in this journey of unreal and unimaginable loss. I pray that you never have to edit your comment and your dad recovers.

[@robloxasap8767]

Christopher Knight thank you so much, sadly i dont think my dad is going to make it. Every story has to come to an end. Im praying every Day. Anyways thank you so Much

[@Ecozzy5]

My Nan has cancer it’s her last few days she stopped having treatment and she’s in pain I am 11 too and I love her so much.

[@ashlumi440]

@@Ecozzy5 same. I’m 11 and my grandma died this morning.

[@whokilledprestonn3316]

I have cancer my mom recently died I'm the same age almost 12 now

[@salcee1750]

I lost my mom 11 days ago from cancer. I quit my job to be with her everyday and take care of her. I don't regret that one bit. It was time with her I would never get back. I miss her so much! This pain runs deep! 💔🙏🏼

[@gameinggod8665]

Sooo true I'd do anything for a minute with my nan ❤❤❤

[@barb6868]

I moved back to the east coast from CA to take care of my mom. I thought she would get better but she passed away. It’s been 6 years and I’m still grieving. I know how you feel Sal Cee and I’m so sorry for your loss.I don’t regret the year and a half I was able to spend with my mom and I’d do it again for her. It’s just gut wrenching. May you find peace.🙏

[@jorjadoherty6173]

Oh I’m so sorry 😞

[@intuitiveempress217]

Oh how this comment resonates. 😔 Lost my Father a year ago to Cancer, I also quit my job to care for him and spend that precious time with him that couldn’t be replaced. The loss and void definitely run so deep. 😭💔

[@themoviefanatic4625]

Lost my grandfather in 2019 to cancer too. He had dealt with cancer multiple times his and had gotten through it. He was a strong, nice, smart person. I miss him so much

[@azetenth]

Coping with death is so much more than just the loss. Many of you know it's also about coping with change. It's really hard.

[@NOAHSMOMMY]

It's the hardest thing to go through. Time does not heal you from the death of a true loved one. I get tired of people telling me that when it isn't true. I know people go awkward and don't know how to comfort so they say that to try and help. I just wish people would realize that saying time heals all, doesn't help for this. It actually hurts more because you looks so hard for that to happen and get let down when it doesn't.

[@nocando89]

Exactly.... sometimes you don't get used to it at all... it's not natural .. One must willingly accept that it's not the norm and force to move on day by day

[@CalebKasper]

Suraiya Rowshan No time doesn’t heal. God heals you over time. You have to look at it in a different way. Remember this. Yes things do get better over time, But the Bible says God helps those who help themselves so be intentional about getting better and pray, read the Bible, pour out your honest heart to God. Yes of course he already knows your hurt but he wants to hear it from you yourself.

[@nocando89]

@Suraiya Rowshan Hi Suraiya, I think the commenter below you has left a beautiful message. The reality is different for everyone. I think having social support is vitally important. Be around family and friends who are positive. If you can make it to a support group, gym class, book club or anywhere where you can be surrounded by people I think it's important. The key is to somehow continue or create new avenues for a healthy life because, we must go on. All the best. God bless.

[@nocando89]

@Suraiya Rowshan I completely understand. It is very hard, especially in the beginning and the first few years. Remember to be gentle with yourself and not hard on yourself. May Allah give you all the light and support that you and everyone needs. I'll keep you in my dua.

[@Guccicurry]

The sadness will fade, the loss you feel is perminent

[@jelloeveryone6771]

IRARELY THInk of my spn now He died very ypung but ihink thsyit helped esearch 😂😂😂

[@Hope-zr8uh]

Its not just the person but the memories, the emptiness that is created by their absence. Its so painful that you just want to see them not even physically touch them but just see them for one last time just once.

[@bernardsebranek8957]

I was my mother's caregiver for 10 years. She just died July 10, 2019. My heart is broken into millions of pieces. I have cried every day since she left. Some days more than other. I miss you mama. Thank you for this video.

[@zainabshabir912]

Bernard Sebranek sorry for your loss, it will be okay

[@zainabshabir912]

It will take time but I’m sure she’s proud and thankful of you

[@senshi6061]

Sorry for your loss

[@cherieestbien1902]

So sorry for your loss. God's blessings upon you. 💕

[@toxika9214]

Jesus loves you

[@Mr3DOR]

”I’ve always believed that death is a fate far better than life, for you will be reunited with lost loved ones.” - Ragnar Lothbrok

[@keshavbx]

Nice quote!

[@jamiecadenhead3307]

Oh wow!! I'm struggling with the loss of my boyfriend. He died 8 weeks ago in a very tragic Trucking accident. This has been the hardest thing I have ever had to experience. just skimming through these comments and I found your quote, it's beautiful thank you so much for sharing. I really needed to see this.

[@levip9185]

My grandpa had a asthma attack which led to brain damage then a heart attack. I’m very sad and he taught me how to play basketball any weather even in the winter he took me out to play.His chances of survival is very low.I need faith and God

[@jamiecadenhead3307]

@@levip9185 I'm very sorry!! I hope you are ok.

[@levip9185]

Yea,I’m okay I guess but he was my role model I loved how calm he was all the time and funny.Whenever I’m stressed out I call him,he makes everything so ok for me.He was my everything and I didn’t get to say anything to him when it happened. I’m not going to say last words because he is in a coma and I have Faith that he will wake up.Thank you very much for caring and the heart attack didn’t happen I mean to say some else.

[@kenanobeidat5486]

I lost my little brother he was only 5 years old and he drowned i miss him and his smiles and his laugh more than anything😭😭😢😢😢😢

[@Witchslayer007]

kenan obeidat I lost my baby girl she was six and I miss her so so very much to. ❤️

[@suvarnawm3034]

kenan obeidat I lost my little brother too, he was 14,suffering from muscular dystrophy. He was bedridden for the last 4 years of his life. It's been almost 18 years. Still feels like yesterday.

[@prashantrai6490]

plz call me 9259621289

[@isaactrejo3623]

kenan obeidat dam I'm so sorry that's sad

[@kadienbenham1693]

kenan obeidat sorry to hear that my grandad died 1 week a go ❤️😭😭

[@deanlim1690]

I just lost my 18 year old friend in a car accident yesterday... I can't stop crying... He was a good friend and it was all so sudden. May he rest in peace.

[@vanitypeach9488]

Debbie Lim I am so sorry for your loss

[@sunnydae6602]

Sending you love

[@ellionluxemburg2311]

God Will Always love him❤

[@jenniferg.6741]

A sudden loss is the worst. May he rest in peace. Take your time and get the help you need. He will always be a part of you. Only God can get you through this.

[@azumii_11]

I'm so sorry:((

[@curtismcgrane3763]

I was told today my grandad is getting an operation this Thursday and he only has a 25% chance of coming out alive😓🤞🏻 please can I get a few prayers🙏🏻

[@dds2839]

Sending prayers from India for your grandad. May grandad be healed by Jesus stripes

[@curtismcgrane3763]

Daniella Sylvester thanks much

[@dds2839]

How did the operation go? Do lemme know

[@curtismcgrane3763]

Daniella Sylvester good news and bad news, the bad news is that his heart is now to weak to get the operation and the good news is that he will stay with us for another couple of weeks he will be in pain but at least I’ll get to see him a bit longer ❤️

[@dds2839]

@@curtismcgrane3763 Everything works together for good for those who love Him, the Bible says. God has got this situation under His control. My sincere request to you is to trust Jesus thru all of this. May grandad be strengthened and healed in Jesus name. Thanks for replying, Curtis. Will continue to pray for grandad

[@Malvado692]

I'm currently sitting on the floor of my father's hospital room, they say he won't last long. My father developed intestinal cancer, and fought for 2 years longer than his doctors predicted. Watching him deteriorate has been the hardest things I have been through. I don't know how to feel. I obviously feel sad, but there are so many other feelings going on, that I feel confused as well. Thanks for reading.

[@saralove8509]

D Sev It’s the same with me... I lost my dad because of pancreatic cancer and It was always really hard to see him in the hospital... I understand perfectly how you feel

[@Malvado692]

@@saralove8509 it's been 2 months now, give or take a week, and it still doesn't feel real

[@flamingosmakemagic7759]

D Sev I have some tips for losing someone very close to you by dad died too a few days after my birthday first you need to think how happy he is in heaven he gets to see his loved ones in heaven tip two always remember you will get to see him again when it’s your turn god opens the golden gates for you tip three pray every night this helped me a lot last tip is too try not to cry I hope this helps a lot

[@unicornlight8251]

Im so sorry :( I hope things get better ❤️ stay strong🙏

[@SaintMartins]

i understand your situation. remember you're not alone.

[@asifaslam2835]

My mom had a crdiac arrest infront of me out of no where. She was 57 this happened 8months ago.. Its hard to get over im sorry4every one that has to deal with the loss of a loved one. God bless

[@christineodongo8658]

I feel you. Lost my mom to the same out of nowhere feeling lost right now

[@sabah4123]

💓

[@icantdenyreality3516]

How are you now? My mum died of a heart attack 4 months ago.

[@Adriannachantell]

My mom died nov 17 2019 I am still heartbroken

[@CarlosPerez-pr9ei]

@@Adriannachantell God bless you!

[@becosborne1118]

Even though I lost my uncle 3 years ago, I still cry ever time I think of him

[@obx_yt2857]

Same ..

[@lowbudgetyt8177]

Today at morning 12:47 my grandpa died with the virus... Our family cried and I cried I've been crying for hours and I've been hugging my mom bc I feel sad I wanna die so I can just meet my grandpa again because respect has become my life...

[@draquorydaniels2682]

Today my older brother was hit and killed while rollerblading to work at 6:30 in the morning. The street had no sidewalks and was poorly lit, coupled with the fact that the driver was distracted and speeding. She killed him instantly. His lifeless body on the the cold road. He was only 19.😭I looked up to him so much, I love you Robbie. I will never let you down...

[@blagicakolevska3918]

I’m so sorry about your loss . My prayers are with you 🙏🙏🙏

[@ImranKhan-gn4qv]

I'm so sorry

[@azumii_11]

I'm so sorry:(*

[@carolynanderson9737]

💜love and light to you

[@rizxred]

I lost my gf this week. She was suffering from ovarian cancer. She was such a brave girl. She used to smile always even through she was in such a pain. This video is really helping. It's my motta now. Smile like I'm not in Pain.😊❤️

[@user-mo9sy6xw1s]

My wife died, I loved her so much , she died on 7 or 8th December 2018. The true sadness Pierce my brain and soul is when I ask myself "when did my wife really die"?, I was a workaholic...worked earned some money and what do I have now? Neither money not love ... I am crying while I am typing this. I could not even see her one last time before her death. I was working on 7th December and on the 8th her brother said to me , there is still some hope left, but actually she was dead and the Doctor put her on some artificial life support to show them or fooled him and my wife's parents .To hide her mistakes and lack of knowledge in the field of c section or natural birth or even how to use vacuum delivery equipment... Doctor played a cruel trick.... to show that my wife is still alive by piercing some kind of tube in her chest and making her lungs work ... See this has been done when my wife was dead...and when my brother in law asked doctor to let him in to see her for a while , Doctor did not agree, the doctor said she is in intensive care unit and also on a so called life support in a glass box. Going back to me ...I still remember..On December 7th at 7:20 am ( morning ) my wife called me .... I could not even talk to her for 1 minute...the most regretful thing I have ever done in my entire life...that was when, she called me one last time... before going in to the labour room, but I couldn't pick up her call because I was in a hurry to get to work in time..., so what did my wife do, she sent a selfie to my WhatsApp, that is the only one thing I have in my life now . I see it everyday and cry... and pray....I am sad ....but please keep reading...READ....... Because I will teach you how I found a different way to help myself without sinking into the sea of sorrows GRIEF DISAPPOINTMENT and stay afloat ......first thing first ....I know you must be thinking ......yes "My life has no meaning" "I cry everyday" ......YES..YES..yes me too.. i am just like you ....but I do one thing nobody else does..... Because we have to respect the judgement of our Lord JESUS CHRIST... All mighty Lord will do everything for our good only or for our well-being only...just believe what happened is for good only...NOW THE MAIN PART..... Well this is what I do ...That is ...I PRAY FOR SOULS IN PURGATORY AND MY WIFE IF SHE IS IN PURGATORY. I OFFER MASSES AND TRY TO ATTEND MASSES ...AS MANY AS POSSIBLE...AS AN OFFERING FOR THE SOULS IN PURGATORY TO GO TO HEAVEN AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, BECAUSE THEY CANNOT PRAY FOR THEMSELVES...THEY CAN ONLY ACCEPT THE PAIN AND THE SUFFERING AS THE PENANCE FOR ALL THE WRONGDOING OR THE CRIMES THEY HAVE COMMITTED ON EARTH. THIS IS THE GREATEST CHARITY A HUMAN CAN DO ON THIS EARTH WHILE HE OR SHE IS ALIVE....By doing so, it will help us , our dear ones who passed away. Please everyone pray for all souls in purgatory and pray to our Lord Jesus Chris and Mother Mary ....Pray for mercy from God. Pray to saints and they will also help us to climb the hill ....to Heaven and when we get to the top, we will see everyone we loved and everything we love to have ....and of course an eternal life of joy , happiness and presence of God which every soul adores after death.

[@curleyQ06]

Mom is currently dying of ovarian cancer , I'm sure she only has days left . I loved her I mich she is my best freind .

[@jessicawhitehead8914]

So sorry for your loss but i'm am here if you want to talk about it

[@domlee5461]

My mother dies when i was 10 of cancer today actually is her anniversary feb.13.2014 thats the day i would never see her again. The sad thing is that you would think that my father would remember what today is for me.. He doesnt not one bit he acts as if nothing has happened now tht he has his gf i can never forget the cries of my grandma saying i murdered her. Because of that i believe her

[@diamondfire-oi8wd]

Rishi My heart goes out to you sweetheart. What a terrible disease Cancer is....My prayers are with you... much love to you.

[@theonlygigi8287]

I’m gonna miss you dad. So much I love you more then I ever showed. I wish I can hear your voice again. God please give me the strength

[@keshavbx]

Praying for you. May you find strength, peace and support at this time 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@kaneishah35]

I lost my BF In a car accident a week ago it’s like my life is so different now... I miss him soooooooo much. I’ll do anything to see his face or hear his voice again.... I still can’t believe he’s gone..

[@camilledelavin9253]

I just lost my sister today. I needed something to ease the pain. I love her so much. I will remember her for as long as I live.

[@marcuspalmer2981]

Hope you are doing well in life❤️

[@djmgoblue]

How have you been since posting this.

[@camilledelavin9253]

@@djmgoblue still not over, and probably wont get over it in my whole life. It's still difficult to breathe, but living becomes a bit tolerable day by day. I think, things do get better but it just takes a great amount of time. Thanks for asking. :))

[@camilledelavin9253]

@@marcuspalmer2981 thank you. Bless you :))

[@djmgoblue]

@@camilledelavin9253 thanks for sharing. May you continue to be comforted and encouraged. I lost my pops less that a month ago, and my world was turned upside down. I miss him so much. I want to wake up to this just being a dream. Although I have faith in the Lord, the reality of him not being here is tough 😪

[@parth46767]

Thanks bro, my grandpa passed away in a car accident he was 79 fully fit and now he is gone. I will be his legacy. Can't thank you enough

[@keshavbx]

Thanks for watching bro, and happy to hear that 💪✊keep going man

[@sweetness12395]

that’s so crazy, so was mine but he was 90

[@sipe254]

@@dankscoob6248 depends how much yiu care for him. But most likely, yes!

[@Mddsnll]

I miss my grandpa he was the only won. He thought me how to catch fish,be nice,be gentle,how to pet good All the stuff I still can't get over him. So that's why I choose this video. I JUST MISS HIM😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 I was gonna tell him something but on the day I wanted to tell him something he died.. But he's not in pain anymore To my grandpa,I miss you so much I wish you could never die but you been living for to much so...death struck you And maybe there will be flying cars in the furture! I'll check for you.. senicrly you grand daughter sofia-

[@donmilofitness]

One month ago my best friend in life died unexpectedly. It's been a roller coaster of emotions. Sometimes it seems as if I will never get through this terrible pain. I will do my best to honor his memory. I hope we can meet again someday somehow. Rest in peace my friend.

[@red-xman]

I lost my grandfather I called him dad

[@keshavbx]

Sorry for your loss. Sending you 10x strength and positivity. Hopefully the tips in the video help you too.

[@alberteinstein9021]

red-x man it’s going to be okay 😀

[@InvinciblePepe]

I am there with you. I am a follower of Jesus. More energy and positivity to you. God bless

[@aaronestes5052]

My Grandfather killed himself on Sunday 😥

[@wendygavemehead]

I feel your pain I’ve lost my grandpa too he’s was like my dad he actually take care of me as a kid I miss him so much😢

[@maetaufi]

My name is Marvin. I lost my older brother, followed by my mother and then grandmother. I watched this video to help and give me hope. I am going through the motions and just moving about life. I don’t want this anymore. I needed this.

[@user-mo9sy6xw1s]

My wife died, I loved her so much , she died on 7 or 8th December 2018. The true sadness Pierce my brain and soul is when I ask myself "when did my wife really die"?, I was a workaholic...worked earned some money and what do I have now? Neither money not love ... I am crying while I am typing this. I could not even see her one last time before her death. I was working on 7th December and on the 8th her brother said to me , there is still some hope left, but actually she was dead and the Doctor put her on some artificial life support to show them or fooled him and my wife's parents .To hide her mistakes and lack of knowledge in the field of c section or natural birth or even how to use vacuum delivery equipment... Doctor played a cruel trick.... to show that my wife is still alive by piercing some kind of tube in her chest and making her lungs work ... See this has been done when my wife was dead...and when my brother in law asked doctor to let him in to see her for a while , Doctor did not agree, the doctor said she is in intensive care unit and also on a so called life support in a glass box. Going back to me ...I still remember..On December 7th at 7:20 am ( morning ) my wife called me .... I could not even talk to her for 1 minute...the most regretful thing I have ever done in my entire life...that was when, she called me one last time... before going in to the labour room, but I couldn't pick up her call because I was in a hurry to get to work in time..., so what did my wife do, she sent a selfie to my WhatsApp, that is the only one thing I have in my life now . I see it everyday and cry... and pray....I am sad ....but please keep reading...READ....... Because I will teach you how I found a different way to help myself without sinking into the sea of sorrows GRIEF DISAPPOINTMENT and stay afloat ......first thing first ....I know you must be thinking ......yes "My life has no meaning" "I cry everyday" ......YES..YES..yes me too.. i am just like you ....but I do one thing nobody else does..... Because we have to respect the judgement of our Lord JESUS CHRIST... All mighty Lord will do everything for our good only or for our well-being only...just believe what happened is for good only...NOW THE MAIN PART..... Well this is what I do ...That is ...I PRAY FOR SOULS IN PURGATORY AND MY WIFE IF SHE IS IN PURGATORY. I OFFER MASSES AND TRY TO ATTEND MASSES ...AS MANY AS POSSIBLE...AS AN OFFERING FOR THE SOULS IN PURGATORY TO GO TO HEAVEN AS SOON AS POSSIBLE, BECAUSE THEY CANNOT PRAY FOR THEMSELVES...THEY CAN ONLY ACCEPT THE PAIN AND THE SUFFERING AS THE PENANCE FOR ALL THE WRONGDOING OR THE CRIMES THEY HAVE COMMITTED ON EARTH. THIS IS THE GREATEST CHARITY A HUMAN CAN DO ON THIS EARTH WHILE HE OR SHE IS ALIVE....By doing so, it will help us , our dear ones who passed away. Please everyone pray for all souls in purgatory and pray to our Lord Jesus Chris and Mother Mary ....Pray for mercy from God. Pray to saints and they will also help us to climb the hill ....to Heaven and when we get to the top, we will see everyone we loved and everything we love to have ....and of course an eternal life of joy , happiness and presence of God which every soul adores after death.

[@oskar8112]

What's happening to you today 3 years later?

[@nmstest2878]

Im watching this because im turning 11 on saturday (may 25th) its may 22nd today and brother just died in a car accident. He was only 17 when he died. I cant believe it.❤

[@xptheifyt8301]

My dad died yesterday at a gun accident him being gone has just crushed me

[@canttamemeh2180]

My dad past away yesterday shits hard man it’s all fine then it hits you he’s gone from this point on you can’t talk or interact with him anymore I’m only 14 so it’s like holy shit man I’m only a freshman I thinks it was for the good he couldn’t walk or breath without his head laid down God took his suffering away which I thank him for I couldn’t stand seeing him like that but it still hurts to loose him stay strong brother I get the pain

[@oscarmartinez3186]

@@canttamemeh2180 I’m scared that my dad will die

[@canttamemeh2180]

@@oscarmartinez3186 prayers are heading too him as we speak stay strong brother

[@oscarmartinez3186]

@@canttamemeh2180 you replied to the wrong guy but thx

[@oscarmartinez3186]

@@canttamemeh2180 nope nvm I’m an idiot thx

[@edougie1]

I lost my mother 3 days ago..... My whole being was called home in 5 days. My mom was very strong and didn't die struggling. I feel a huge void in my body and heart.

[@jyothikaprasad]

I lost my mom when I was 11. I miss her with all my heart. I love her very much and think about her everyday❤️❤️❤️❤️💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@jorjadoherty6173]

I’m so sorry that must be rly hard

[@nitakh2579]

If your reading this you have probably lost somone special which is why your watching this vid all I've got to say is they are in a better place and that they are watching you from above proud of you and you have got to stay strong and it's ok to cry and be devastated it's all part of life ۱❤

[@mortalscumbrox5781]

my dad is fighting pancreatic cancer and its looking bad, he is my best friend and the person dearest to my heart and i dont think i can do this without him

[@SRBOMBONICA86]

I am sorry ,my mom is my heart and soul and she is very sick now,I am preparing for worst

[@aliz6716]

I lost my elder sister today... and just keep thinking about her

[@keshavbx]

There's nothing wrong with that - keep thinking of her, and keep making her proud through the life you lead Ali

[@mckayladanielle2591]

Ali Z stay strong ❤️❤️

[@improvingmylife6197]

Love from my side.

[@upstatenewyork]

you must be heartbroken. i am so sorry. we all face losses of those we love. do not stop living.

[@eishabrown3645]

I was crying about something it reminded me of my bestfriend (she was my cat) miss her I wish she was still here she would try to cuddle with me and make me feel better I can’t stop crying now 💔😭I had her since I was born😭

[@silkenetscher9971]

I know the pain 😭😭

[@Oceanusnovas-um2zf]

Thank you. I have been struggling for 2 months since August 2019 my sister passed from cancer and the pain has been unimaginable. I have resentment and struggle with my faith thereafter. Losing a sibling close to you is never easy. It hurts so bad. All I did was cry and when I go a few days without crying iy comes out the blue when I am driving and sometimes I have to pull on the side and sometimes someone will see me and comes over to see if I am ok. Life is very hard and becomes dull even when the sun is out it hard to smile. Unbelievable can go and on. I just mustard up the strength to pray and ask God to strengthen me and my unbelief in him as I am only human and there's so many unanswered question we have no clue about this life and the afterlife and to please help me understand his way of doing the things that he do and his purpose. I dont want to be live my life bitter it s not a good feeling and I want to see my sister again one day because I know we all don't go the same time but we all will leave this earth so I want to be prepared too. I am taking it one day at a time and allow myself to grieve when necessary because thats the only thing will bring me closer to healing.

[@max200036]

I lost my mom very sudden in her sleep when I was 20 years old. July 20th 2019 she will be gone 17 years I still struggle god I do everyday. She was my best friend I have good days but alot of bad I go to her grave every weekend I think it hurts so bad I never got to say goodbye my brothers and sisters was so young thank you for your talk and god bless Jay 💛

[@radaka]

My mom passed away 2 days ago and I am absolutely heartbroken and lost.

[@keshavbx]

Stay strong. Take your time. Sending you love & courage Rachel!!

[@cherieestbien1902]

So sorry for your loss.

[@eveyjohnson]

my dad passed away today...

[@radaka]

@@keshavbx Thank you so much for that!!

[@radaka]

@@eveyjohnson I'm so sorry to hear that. Its been over a year now that I lost my mom and it's still hard learning to live without the one and only person to have always been there my whole life that loved me unconditionally and always had my back. Now I don't have that and never will. But I'm still learning to live without her. I am praying for you!!!

[@riyaravisankar765]

I lost my father 16 days ago. From then, life isn't the same. I just turned 22 a few days ago and the very thought that he's never gonna be here kills. The fact that he'll never be with us for my graduation or my wedding or when I give birth and so on and on, just sucks. I wish that he had spent some more years with us. I loved him, i love him and i'll always love him till my last breath. Hope we all get through this and hope is the only thing that's left with us for now. I love you daddy 🧡 And I miss your presence every single day 😭💓

[@belleame8006]

i found this video knowing ill need it in the future. and here i am. crying for the loss of my boy bestfriend. the only person i could spill my thoughts to. i feel there no point in living.

[@drasse6163]

''I don't know what happens after you die, but i know you can't kill energy. i do feel the presence of a lot of people who have passed away.'' -Lil Peep

[@Howdareya123]

I just lost my Grandfather today, I honestly can't stop thinking about him. He's in a better place now.

[@obx_yt2857]

Exactly pray for him god will be merciful

[@MrsBraxtonChrist]

I'm so glad I came across this video. I lost my husband three months ago and I have three children to raise...there are days I feel like superwoman and days I feel like I dont know how to go on but I love how you said we never complete the grief cycle..we just learn to cope with it better as time goes on. I will become the legacy my husband left behind through me and his children. Bless you and thank you for your wisdom and selfless act to help those in need during this hour. Shalom

[@keshavbx]

Shalom Tadaisha. Thank you for sharing - and I'm so glad it helped!! Keep riding those waves, and keep me posted with how it's all going.

[@rajeswarykandasamy599]

msT4Christ333 uk

[@CaseyKCRichards]

MsT4: I lost my spouse and o feel like you. Just reading your post helps me to know I’m not the only one .

[@chimenerf]

msT4Christ333 i lost my hb last week. I am crying so much

[@BigBoyDaJohn]

Amen,, how are you doing now? I just lost my husband 3 days ago?

[@mirclutch2158]

My mother just died to cancer all I need is a prayer 🙏🏽

[@prayer2419]

I lost my brother 3 weeks ago ...so painful and i miss him everyday 😢😢

[@rockybalboa2800]

Sorry for your loss.

[@timexkills65]

Ron & Anamie I understand your pain 💯.

[@victoriaagstudios9559]

I lost a bird I tried to save today and the bird meant the world to me because it was just a baby. I'm glad I can help from you.

[@vishalbumbak]

thanks keshav for making this video.. 2 weeks ago I lost my grandpa. after the death of my mom and grandma, he was my mom, grandpa, grandma and a best friend.. I was very sad that I have lost 3 most loved ones of life...

[@keshavbx]

My pleasure Vishal. Hope you inherit his will and become his legacy.

[@improvingmylife6197]

Bro they will be together and pray for you from above.

[@kevinhofer2122]

Lost my twin brother 3 months ago, its like im having to learn who i am all together again

[@blagicakolevska3918]

Kevin Hofer so sorry for your loss . My prayers are with you ✝️🙏

[@mad_linder069]

Today my teacher died and I felt like I didn't appreciate her enough and now I feel so sad for her so I am emotional and wanted to watch videos to help me feel better.

[@bsg-wrencha-snake2676]

Best friend died about 7 months ago. I was so disoriented and couldn't believe that it was the end of our friendship. The hardest part of it was the last words he said to me. "See you tomorrow buddy." It just hurts so much.

[@dfitzlittle7078]

I lost my mom 7 weeks ago unexpectedly to covid. She was such a huge part of my life. She was a very influential person and left a legacy. I agree with Keshav and I’m trying to follow in mams footsteps . This is my first ever huge loss and it’s so painful. But I think we should all be aware of how fragile life is and how in a moments notice it can all be over on this world and live every day being the best person you can be. 💞🌈💞

[@imrnmtesa800]

Stay strong, I lost my mom 11days ago too 💔💔💔

[@testsilencemusic9323]

I lost my father to pancreatic cancer 3 days ago. This brings me some comfort. Thank you

[@sishmarana9948]

I am watching this beacuse of Sushant Singh Rajput ..I miss him..I miss him so much..rip Sushant (return if possible)

[@dorky1117]

Same here

[@dionnunes150]

You have opened my eyes Keshav,I lost my Dad yesterday and I would sit in the corner and mourn the entire day.But after watching this video it had changed my entire mindset,I will adapt the good qualities dad had to become a better person

[@krishdzn2014]

Lost my grandad 1 and half a month ago, he was so close to me, so is my grandma, but she couldn't bear the loss and today when I woke up, I saw her lying in her lifeless body, I love them so much and i will forever, trust me it's painful, I will make them proud, I love you grandparents

[@Cameron_Greaves]

I never got to see my grandpa. He died before I was born. I miss him even though I never met him in person. But there is a photo of him and I look at it and just smile. Love you grandpa ❤️❤️

[@antichrist1893]

I lost my grandmother last week and tday is the funeral she was like a mother to me I never had one mine died before I was born it

[@DrDoof-hl7hx]

Do you feel better now? I am scared for the future

[@sludgeskin]

My story is nowhere near as emotional as everyone else's, but I want to share it. Two or so years back, I got a kitten. His name was gomez, and the moment we got him he chose me. He was so sweet, everytime I said 'kiss', he would boop his head on my lips. He was always by my side, and was the quirkiest little guy. He suddenly passed away, and I started being angry. I was angry that he was leaving, angry that I wouldnt ever see him again. I broke alot of things out of anger, and that was around four months ago. I miss him, and I wish I could hug and kiss him again.

[@jerrij5439]

Losing a beloved pet is matters, it IS emotional. Be with your emotions. My thoughts are with you.

[@kunalrana832]

I lost my dog 3 days ago,I am depressed,I can't help myself with eating,sleeping he was very close to me and I was very close to him,whenever I go out he comes with me.

[@sunnydae6602]

The loss of an animal is the loss of family...the loss of a loved one...some people struggle more with the loss of an animal because their love is truly unconditional and they are so pure of ❤️

[@sheilagunn596]

My 15 yr old cat, Garfield, died 2 weeks ago. My tears still soak my face.😿💔😭

[@kunalrana832]

@@sheilagunn596 you will be okay with time.

[@JackKokah]

Mum passed away yesterday, thank you and thanks for everyone who is putting effort to make us feel better. It's tough and it's the worst feeling ever, I cry because I miss you mum, thank you for everything you sacrificied for me, I will be strong as you always told me, I love you forever mum..

[@skittledog9394]

I lost my best friend of 7 years...3 weeks ago...I still cry everyday remembering her.Her laugh I couldn't help but laugh along with,her smile I loved to see everyday,I miss her so much. Rest easy Cami ❤️ 5-3-05 to 8-4-19

[@mrtko2010]

I lost my cousin/best friend

[@azumii_11]

My hero is gone, i may never see him again, I didn't know he could be gone this quickly, I feel so shattered and lonely(r.i.p dad) 😭😭

[@musicsnob4226]

Also is this may just be me but if you hold something of the person you've lost and you say their name out loud close your eyes I promise you you will feel their energy and spirit in the room. And there's never a set limit or expected time where you should not be sad and cry. absolutely cry! crying is one of the best ways to fully emotionally process it because when that happens you've allowed yourself to drop all your exterior guards and armor and everything else you use to protect yourself from letting other people see your vulnerability and if you allow that to happen you feel like a release you feel so much better and every time it'll get a little bit less painful and eventually you'll just smile when you think of the person

[@oyasumi8028]

Lost my grandpa a few hours ago, I still don't want to believe he's gone, he was a butefull human being he was a doctor that saved many people he always helped me and my family when we needed help the most he was that person that made my live easy and happy and now he is gone forever and I won't see him again and I just don't know how to deal with it, I made a new life goal, I want to become a doctor just like him and fulfill his legacy but I don't know if I'll make it, if I won't become a doctor I won't have a life goal anymore and then I just wouldn't want to live

[@JackRFCs]

I lost my grans friend too and she was kinda like another gran! She died 3 months ago. I know how it feels, it feels painful

[@OutrageousBSFan]

my beloved grandma passed away today at the age of 88 and I miss her dearly. I just can’t bare the thought of there being no one to tell me stories about her childhood anymore and still have outdated views on society and whatnot. Grandma, I miss you so much.

[@srinigovindaraju737]

I lost my dad 1 week ago. He was 79, it isn’t easy to accept the fact, despite of all the treatment over 21 days dad is gone for ever. Only his memories are there to cherish...

[@akif421]

i lost my mom's dad (grandpa) i loved him so much he was the best grand father i chould have asked for he died today and ive never fealt so sad in my life. he was in his 60's and i loved him my mom's sisters and she and my grandma (husband of him) were the saddest there.He lived a good life but its really emotional for me if he could here me i whould say that i love him and wish him luck in his next life.(and i have depression too..) -From Akif Ersin At Turkey (im turkish and know english by the way)

[@trinitymills964]

I lost my wife 2 weeks ago from covid-19. The feeling of having to watch the love of your life slowly choke to death, alone in icu and not being able to do anything about it...is indescribably horrific and it tore a hole in me. She tried to call me while I was at work, before they sedated her because knew she wasn't coming back. I missed her calls due to the poor reception where I work. She left her sister a message to give me saying "tell trinity that I love him.". I loved her more than I ever thought I could love someone. And although my heart still beats... I died with her in icu that day.

[@samia6888]

How are you now?

[@notaprettyboah3739]

I just lost my best friend who was like a sis/brother he was so smart funny and talented R.I.P Zoey Harkey

[@caspirjames1124]

I lost my dad last year, he sounds a lot like your friend jade, he was the guy everyone was friends with, his friends called him “the stud”, he was equally as kind as he was handsome, his smile always lit up a room, I miss him so much.

[@tahiniqueen3976]

I'm watching this a year after losing my friend at 6am and I can't get it out of my head I still haven't got over it

[@jgirl345]

I found ur video, I lost my significant other yesterday suddenly of a heart attack, I've been so sick and can't stop crying, I can't imagine living my life without him, we had so many plans and dreams that now will never be filled, and that's the hardest thing to accept.

[@perfectionnement95]

jgirl 34 I’m so sorry sweetie. I hope you’re doing better... take it one day at a time

[@jamiecadenhead3307]

I am so very sorry for you. My love died in a trucking accident in July. My heart is shattered..I feel you.i wish I could take your pain away but I am lost on how to help myself.

[@adisat2378]

Hi my names Maggie and I’m only 14 I lost my mom last night and it was very sudden we aren’t sure what happened but I wasn’t ready for her to leave she was only 56 she was so young. I wanted her to see me graduate and see how much I’ve improved she was already sick and in pain I’m happy she’s alright now and resting.

[@caocao2itsmytimenow69]

It hurts because my mom didn't fulfill her dreams. She was not ready to go. Very, very unsettling! RIP mom

[@CaseyKCRichards]

I thought you would all like this quote coming from a psychiatrist who was murdered in the Nazi concentration camp. “If we know the why of our existence we are able to bear any how.” So folks keep the torch burning fir those we lost and for those we continue to live for .

[@faerieworldz]

I'm watching this because of Cameron Boyce. I miss him. * I'm sorry for your loss..🙏 *

[@ironmight4334]

me too :(:(:( I still can't believe it!

[@faerieworldz]

@@ironmight4334 he was a huge part of my childhood, I miss him so damn much. He was taken too soon. 🤧💔🙏

[@hurmat5284]

Same , even though I can't believe I'm actually crying for someone I've never met 😢😢 he felt like a close friend

[@mariamebeid8123]

Me too I miss him so much and I wish this was all a nightmare

[@faerieworldz]

@@mariamebeid8123 Same here, he was a huge part of my childhood.. .

[@TheThaiLanguage]

My wife just passed a few weeks ago. I took care of her for 5 years, and the last few months were horrible for her. But, she had me loving her every step of the way. I treasure that awful experience of being with her to the end.

[@julietsexton3556]

My pet guinea pig died this morning. I’m still crying. Everything around me reminds me of her. This video really helped. Thank you so much

[@XoeCox]

I needed this today. Thank you so much.

[@keshavbx]

You're so welcome!

[@belldonna71]

Thank you

[@Harry.ForemanUK]

My grandfather passed away last year I'm still crying now I can't move on there is no such thing as moving on only moving forward I still miss him so much 😭😭😭😭😭😭😢

[@mortazaabduli7260]

I lost a father and a best friend yesterday. He was 61....... I feel as though the ground that I’m walking on is gone now. Dad RIP 3/4/1958 - 1/24/20 🙏🙏🙏 This video has taught me to love and honor his legacy of the man he was and now that he’s gone it’s my turn to take responsibility as the head of the household.

[@Wowwhat114]

I lost my grandpa the same day. Hope your doing well!

[@Zer0theoneandonly]

My dad died today, I am 11 years old. He died of double pneumonia, and I could not even say goodbye, not even see him, not even talk to him, because the doctors would not let us.

[@courtneylockwood3882]

LIGHTNINGz I’m really sorry for your loss x

[@susuho675]

LIGHTNINGz aww you poor baby, i am so sorry for you losing your dad. i wish i could take some of your pain away but as much as it hurts is as much as you’re going to love, be happy and experience joy in your life. all the while, you’ll carry your dad’s spirit with you. it’s going to be a tough and painful road at times. but not all the time! i know you’re hurting terribly. i’m a lot older than you, and my best friend of 45 years just died a few days ago. we had dinner the night before so this was very sudden. we’ve been best friends since we were 8 years old, if you can believe that! i’ll miss her so much, but she’ll live in my spirit and i’ll love her forever. we will always feel the loss, but it will get easier. laugh, play, learn a lot, give compassion + love to others and you will enjoy your life

[@truthhurstowitz8300]

Sitting at my cubicle realizing my mom isn't coming back, she has been gone for a week now. I think I have been low-key waiting for her to return but I have realized she is gone forever. My mom was my heart and soul, she sort of became my child over the last year's of her life since her health declined. I never expected to be living in my 30's without my mom. She was an imperfect angel, seriously! So funny , empathetic and educated. So selfless, strong and gentle with her love . Idk how I will get thru this !

[@SRBOMBONICA86]

Be strong for her,she will want you to be happy and live your life.

[@Niuniany]

paul leeming I’m sorry for your loss🙏❤️

[@Niuniany]

🙏🙏❤️

[@yournotuglyimeanlookatyou]

I watched this becuse a family member of mine died today, peacefuly though, at age 86 a few day's after her birthday. Somehow im not crying, but I'm at the edge at crying...

[@alanwalsh8371]

I lost my mum 6 months ago it was only mum and i no inner family mums passing is the hardest grive i have ever had to deal with but i will be everything for her in my life till we meet again mum you will be with me always forever and foreever 🙏🙏🙏🙏❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@ShunyaByShubhangi]

Keshav I have been following you since many months. I lost my husband this month. The pain is unbearable. Noone can understand what I am going through. I have a baby 4 years old. She misses her father badly. Wrote this just to tell everyone reading this love the people around you. You never know what will happen in future. Nothing is important than life. ❤️

[@whyyoubuiltlikethat]

My uncle just passed away, and my cousins, his children’s, those 8 kids left with one single mom, in a blink of an eye, he hung himself and knew the consequences of leaving his 8 children’s behind, I sent this video to my cousins and think this might help them heal.

[@wadecw2477]

I just found out my biological dad was killed in a train accident about 5 days ago I honestly don't think I can move on for a while

[@waffleempress5772]

I lost my grandfather today. I am 24, so to me, he, the only man in the family, was this symbol of unshakable strength, it was all normal, it was my life, I couldn't imagine it being any other way. And as I listened to this video, having it in the background, I cried. I cried and cried and cried and cried and... honestly, I should be glad I am letting it all out. I love him. This love knows no past tense. Eventually, the pain will get better and fade, but memories will stay. I felt like you were talking not to an audience but directly to me. I am far from recovering, it's all too fresh, but the memory is there. Will always be.

[@user-jy5zd5ro7v]

Everyone in the comment section saying that they lost their beloved ones, Don't worry one day we will all follow them 😉

[@okaytm7959]

that made me cry because i lost my 39 year old mom and im only 11 i need her back

[@SimeonFarkas]

So much love to you ❤

[@edwardiancu7205]

Stay strong ❤️❤️❤️

[@Ohthemarvelousmusic]

I am so sorry! I don't know how I would be able to cope without my mom... Maybe asking any of your friends or other family members who you love and trust what they do, or did when their mom passed might be helpful to you. Dear God, please help this person know you love them and are there for them. Amen. God knows your grief, and I think He weeps with us in our sorrow and grief. God loves you. Please take care. In God's everlasting, neverending Love, ~Emily

[@angelbasham6631]

Prayers

[@arseniowonga]

KESHAV, thanks for the video Brother, I've had depression since i was 15, and lost my mum in 2000, which made it worse, I'm now 41 and wrote my life off..this world is bad but it helps knowing a good brother like u is out in this world doing Good, Thanks Bro, I wish u every success in this cruel world...Peace 🙂

[@karanyadav-go4ym]

Arsenio Wonga god bless you sir even i lost my grandpa last week due to lung and brain cancer

[@skeyupon]

I'm here because of my auntie's death...we just got the news,she's just well this morning

[@that_400ex_guy7]

My uncle died 2 hours ago not to covid-19 but doing what he loved riding motorcycles on to heaven. Not looking for somebody to say I’m sorry but thank you for this video

[@brainsvasco76]

For Jay, you shall forever be in our hearts brother with love from Botswana..a very good video Kesh .

[@keshavbx]

+Brains Vasco Always. Ke le boga tata

[@brainsvasco76]

You're welcome.. ee rra

[@wallody]

This video made my day , i always had depression in my life for the tiniest stupid things , but now i know that I wasted my life and be grateful , thank you 🙏. Greetings from Kuwait ❤️👋

[@n.d.risley8674]

“There is no right way to deal with grief there’s only your way.” Perfectly put, perfectly true. Thank you. 🙏🏾

[@Aaruu12]

This really hit hard......... You talk daily to someone and they become so special in your life and suddenly one day they leave us........ They leave us in a way that they died once but their loved ones who are alive die every day just to hear them or see them once. I never felt so heart broken and wrenched until I lost someone so close and felt the pain 🥺🤍

[@sudogan237]

I lost my father 4 months ago.Everyone around me thinks that I should be in a better condition and think positively but you know what? I am just 19 years old and I really need to live this pain. Ignoring the loss that I had led me into a great depression and now I'm afraid of hurting myself. Thank you so much for this amazing video and your sincere thoughts about your precious friend and the process of grieving.Once we give ourselves a permission to express who we really are, things will get better. We are precious, loved and strong people. Dealing with the fact that my dad is gone may be hard right now but the sun will rise up and I will turn into an amazing individual in time. It is okay to be in depression, it is okay to feel stuck and overwhelmed but it is not okay to give up. I needed that video and thanks again for making me feel better.

[@rockybalboa2800]

Sorry for the loss of your precious dad. Grief is idividual and take your time. There are also highly sensitive people who need more time to cope with the dead of the loved ones than other people. Wish you the best

[@thestonegamersbg]

I never lost anyone.... But I knew that i had to prepare for that and accpet it... I cried to the whole video.... Im 12 tho... The only person that I love and Im SCARED of that something is gonna happen is my grandma.... My grandpa died 4 years before I was born so I dont think about him.... But my grandma... I love her too much... However, thank you for the video , Keshav! :)

[@keshavbx]

My pleasure - thanks to you for watching :)

[@nemesisjr7432]

Me too.. I always worry so much abt my granny.. Although my grandfather is also alive.. My mom went for studying to abroad after i was born do till i was 7 years my granny was the one that looked after me.. She had 2 strokes very close in december 2017 and we went abroad and all tests showed nothin bad.. Only diabetes and blood pressure.. The worst thing is she lives in another house... I hope you get to mske her feel proud of u my brw.. Im also on it.. Just want her to have a happy life before she says goodbye

[@mckayladanielle2591]

DeathSoldier - Mapping/Gaming & Stuff I lost mine I was really close with and it hurts but all you can do is cherish her presence, see her often, tell her everything!, and tell her you love her a lot everyone will die one day, but stay strong ❤️

[@thestonegamersbg]

It actually happened a year ago ;( Today I decided to come back to this video for some reason

[@oscarreyes3206]

@@thestonegamersbg how are you feeling?

[@Krixpps]

My mum died in 2011 from a heart attack right in front of my 9 year old eyes and seeing her be lowered into the ground within that coffin didn’t really hit me that hard until I realised I would never see her again, years later my father died in 2015 from cancer and my biggest regret was not being able to get to him in time to say good bye I will forever regret that currently I’m 17 living with my grandma with just me and my step brothers, loss has forever changed my life from schools to friends and living spaces and managing to stay vigilant and not let depression take over me.