How To Handle The Grief When Someone You Loved Died | Buddhism In English

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@hsmint
@hsmint Жыл бұрын
The practice: 1) know that it is the truth, that you are going to lose the people you live 2) Treasure them, in the limited time you have with them, treat them with kindness. 3) dont make a dead loved one the source of your pain. Cos your loved one wont want that. Even with practice, we will still feel the pain with a loved one dies.
@Spiritdove64
@Spiritdove64 3 ай бұрын
So are you running this channel? Or is he?
@silvanamathews1013
@silvanamathews1013 Ай бұрын
Can I meet this monk? What's his name?
@hsmint
@hsmint Ай бұрын
@@silvanamathews1013 venerable Pothuhera Mahindasiri Thero
@happy-self
@happy-self Жыл бұрын
For those who lost the love ones and are in suffering. It's painful because you love them, honor that. At the same time, aware that it's the truth in life, embrace and let go. They just go back to where they were. Don't hang on to the grief, but keep the good memories and forgive yourself to move on. They will always have a special place in your heart, you aren't forgetting them. This is how I handle the lost of all my family members. Hope this helps.
@vyraxart
@vyraxart 3 ай бұрын
I lost my family too now I'm 15 and depressed but still tryna hold on
@jyotisongara-c3r
@jyotisongara-c3r Күн бұрын
Thanks for this all i was thinking if i forgot abt him tht means i didn't loved him truly am a cheater yet i still love my bf a lot ill keep our all memories no matter happy or our fights i enjoyed each and every moment with him he is always in my heart ❤
@chrisblack9416
@chrisblack9416 Жыл бұрын
We lost our beautiful cat Jett today, one of 8 but she touched our lives in the 6 years we rescued her and saved her from several illnesses, sadly this illness we couldn’t beat. We are so happy to see your video tonight and as we cry we incorporated joy and laughter and happy memories she left us. Thank you for your timely video.
@ashanadithya1592
@ashanadithya1592 Жыл бұрын
ohh,,,
@skipper2594
@skipper2594 Жыл бұрын
Jett will born again somewhere very good and joyful, ❤️
@MA-gf2nm
@MA-gf2nm Жыл бұрын
I lost my dog a week ago after having her for 10 years. It's hard, but the joy a pet brings your life is so vast! Jett must've had such a great life because of you :)
@halcyon-cg2eb
@halcyon-cg2eb Жыл бұрын
Losing a pet is one of the most difficult things we have to experience in life. My heartfelt condolences ❤ Jett was one lucky cat to have you in his life 🤗
@sandrasingh9532
@sandrasingh9532 Жыл бұрын
Sorry to hear of your loss. There is a song written by Brian May from Queen about his cat, you should take a listen, name of the song: All dead, All dead It’s a soothing song
@sunderprajapat2851
@sunderprajapat2851 Жыл бұрын
My mother died 15 hour ago 😢😢😢 in accident and I can't handle this situation in 17th age 😢 love you so much my mom 😭😭😭😭😭
@snehagaur3463
@snehagaur3463 Жыл бұрын
Tc😢
@hal774
@hal774 Жыл бұрын
Hope you get through this hard time
@suule8829
@suule8829 Жыл бұрын
❤ you will feel much pain but let love and blessings in also.. It hurts but mom is sending you love and holds you in her arms❤
@Tanupriya-gx4pc
@Tanupriya-gx4pc Жыл бұрын
Stay calm dear 😢her blessings are always with you❤
@suule8829
@suule8829 Жыл бұрын
Today I had a hard long cry as i felt so sad about my son who passed 7 months ago. Crying hard, loud is needed sometimes. But often am feeling so happy to have had him in my life and gratefull. One day i laid on the mother earth and screamed his name crying and calling him. Feel your feelings. You can do this❤
@Nedmar
@Nedmar Жыл бұрын
Well for me it worked somehow. My mother died after having suffered a most horrible cancer for a long time, and the last thing she heard was the dhammacakkappavattana sutta which I facilitated her via earphones. Anicca is one of the three absolute and undeniable realities, there is no way to circunvent them as there is no way to live without breathing. Thanks for the compassionate advice!
@RakshithaS-g1g
@RakshithaS-g1g 2 ай бұрын
Same 😭
@user-mq1lv1ki5e
@user-mq1lv1ki5e Жыл бұрын
May Buddha Bless Everyone Especially Those Who Are Having Difficulty In Thier Lives🙏
@lokeshdepawat-q2f
@lokeshdepawat-q2f Жыл бұрын
yes bro life is a game try to play without sadness and sorrw
@VishanaSingh-ub1he
@VishanaSingh-ub1he Жыл бұрын
Lost my dad in 2017 and my mum 6 month ago...my mum and I were extremely close and I miss her every day I still grieve everyday
@arunamohite7704
@arunamohite7704 Жыл бұрын
Yes I know it's very worst phase in life... It's very hard time to cope with... But trust me just leave on the time... You will be fine... Take care...
@SaeedahmedEnglish
@SaeedahmedEnglish Жыл бұрын
I know that this situation is very suffering but you have to forget and start a new life ❤❤❤
@patsiebentley111
@patsiebentley111 Жыл бұрын
I can relate to it ,it leaves a void , that's never filled !
@priyadharshinibharath8094
@priyadharshinibharath8094 Жыл бұрын
It happens with me too
@Greatlife-f7v
@Greatlife-f7v Жыл бұрын
It's so bad 😞😔
@gwendyalcala
@gwendyalcala 7 ай бұрын
My dad just passed away two days ago. I saw him fade away and he took half of my heart with him. I loved him so very much. Such a great man. We will all miss him dearly until we all meet in heaven. I love you Daddy Boy ❤
@DhammaAudioLibrary
@DhammaAudioLibrary Жыл бұрын
"For whom passion is abundant, suffering is abundant, For whom passion is little, suffering is little." ❤
@kumu6443
@kumu6443 Жыл бұрын
My mother died 2013. When I was coming to be with her for one month, unfortunately she has died 20 minute before I have landed to the airport. When I went to see and touch body was cold and left this world. My world is shattered. But I am thankful that she is no longer suffering. RIP mum 🙏🙏🙏
@dpw6205
@dpw6205 Жыл бұрын
🥺😔
@shruthigopirajan61
@shruthigopirajan61 3 ай бұрын
I can feel it. I am so sorry for your loss. Same thing happened to me
@nayyer8350
@nayyer8350 2 ай бұрын
So sorry for your loss
@seewanbundhoo7796
@seewanbundhoo7796 Жыл бұрын
The most beautiful people we have known are those who have known defeat,known suffering,known struggle,known loss and have found their way out of the depths.These persons have an appreciation,a sensitivity,and an understanding of life that fills them with compassion, gentleness,and a deep loving concern.Beautiful people do not just happen. (Elisabeth Kubler-Ross)
@Manike-ub2nw
@Manike-ub2nw Жыл бұрын
That's very wholesome. Nobody wants to see their loved ones sad. Especially after their death b'cos then their passing away is the cause of your sadness. That’s being very unselfish. I want to live like that. Namo buddhaya 🙏
@ruthmanhoihching3204
@ruthmanhoihching3204 Жыл бұрын
𝙰𝚖𝚎𝚗
@Hash08
@Hash08 Жыл бұрын
Everything must be left behind. Namo Buddhaya 🙏
@javadsaiyed9044
@javadsaiyed9044 2 ай бұрын
Thank you for your good advice. My cat passed away and I am not able to believe that he is not here anymore. God bless you for good advice.
@basheerahmuhaimin6321
@basheerahmuhaimin6321 Жыл бұрын
Love them unconditionally while we are here .Resolve unkind feelings and any situation that might have come up while they are here. Forgiveness is key.
@beenadevicr
@beenadevicr Жыл бұрын
I had a strange sensation when my most beloved dog, Mika, passed on. I was filled with a sensation of bliss. I spent the last few months of her life caring for her with utmost love. I gave her all I could, even the last evening till the last moment, I was there for her. I was very sad to lose this lovely being as I loved her the most. What helped me the most were the memories of how we spent the last few months together when I knew she had late-stage kidney failure. She died before she reached 4 years of age. We all grieve differently, as attachment varies with our relationship with the being that is dying. I have lost one parent, but my grief for Mika was very different. I agree that we must love the dying with care, kindness and compassion, as their time with us is short. That act gives us great solace.
@hemapillai6548
@hemapillai6548 Жыл бұрын
I lost my dearest one my husband due to COVID two years ago. Only the individual can feel the deepest. I am still feeling the lost till today. Even though practise meditation, being busy with choas, very close to the creator and the universe, at some gap sadness is always there. 😢
@ShanmugamS-p9t
@ShanmugamS-p9t Жыл бұрын
That's TRUE I lost my mom due to covid but the pain is same since I lost her it never fade every one around me but I feel the loneliness deeply
@raziyalakdawala2224
@raziyalakdawala2224 3 ай бұрын
I too lost my husband 2 years ago due to lung infection and septicaemia... Feel very lonely and sad ...still not able to accept that I will never see him again and feel his touch , his love for me. He loved me unconditionally!😢
@lobten2376
@lobten2376 Жыл бұрын
Simple and practical that can handle one of the most difficulties situation in our lives. Treating others with kindness is so powerful. I very much appreciate for sharing words of the Buddha. 🙏
@PoornimaRamma
@PoornimaRamma Жыл бұрын
I lost my mom in 2017....I was in shock for 1 year but then I realized this is the toughest reality we must face everytime
@diyaluthra826
@diyaluthra826 10 ай бұрын
Same! 🥺
@abimani8999
@abimani8999 4 ай бұрын
I am in the same situation. How to handle this pain. I don't know. My husband is not supporting me in grief time. Alone crying shouting. Stopped praying. Lost the belief in God. I need my father back
@dieuhoa1111
@dieuhoa1111 Жыл бұрын
Don’t make the dead one become the source of your pain. Make people around you become the source of happiness ❤❤❤ Thank you for beautiful teachings Namo Buddhaya!
@AR-fy2qo
@AR-fy2qo 5 ай бұрын
Accepting before the tragedy happens can ease the pain. The tragedy will happen.
@vinitchonkar3657
@vinitchonkar3657 3 ай бұрын
Recently my grandmother passed away..i loved her so much ....i misss her every minute ...😢😢😢😢😢😢 I dont know how handle this pain .....feels very empty in life😢😢
@brianhepke7182
@brianhepke7182 Жыл бұрын
Yes... be kind to everyone... you never know when or if you will see them again.
@SarahBlaylock-u8g
@SarahBlaylock-u8g Жыл бұрын
That is so kind and loving. Even though it hurts you you can still smile for the good memories created together❤❤THANK YOU😊❤
@NPPREMA
@NPPREMA 7 ай бұрын
"Dont make your source of happiness, the source of your pain." Thank you for this sage and compassionate advice ❤. I looked after my parents' every need when they were alive and love them very dearly. But I am now "making them the source of my pain" as you put it. Thank you for putting it into perspective for me. I will work on myself and try to accept that this was bound to happen one day and now I should cherish their memories and be grateful for the 55+ years that I got to be with them❤
@JuliaAnderson-bq1pp
@JuliaAnderson-bq1pp 4 ай бұрын
My grandmother passed away today and I feel soulless right now 😢 I hope she's in a better place ❤
@zenstoryshare
@zenstoryshare Жыл бұрын
We have to let it go, no matter how hard it is. Thanks for sharing this
@shamaleeshamalee1529
@shamaleeshamalee1529 Жыл бұрын
නමස්කාර වේවා ‍ ගරු ස්වාමින්වහන්ස .🎉
@chamaraekanayake1749
@chamaraekanayake1749 Жыл бұрын
This is great ,I try to always live by this, but it is not easy
@patsiebentley111
@patsiebentley111 Жыл бұрын
Sure ain't easy , good days n bad days !🌹
@Skevanston
@Skevanston 11 күн бұрын
Dear teacher, thank you so very much. My son died recently and this is so supportive and helpful.
@chailing4575
@chailing4575 Жыл бұрын
Thanks for your advice.Really appreciate it..thats why i try not to cry too much and feel the pain cos it will keep coming back and we must understand that if we dont accept the truth, the pain will be in us forever and that is not what their wishes, we must respect them and believe in the care and happiness they have given to us is priceless, we must always remember they are still living in our hearts though they physically left us, just be positive and start to pick yourself up again and life still have to go on, be strong and get up to be a happy person for them as they have begun their lives in a better place , try to leave the shadow of their death and surrender all yourself in God's hands.🙏
@anastash7900
@anastash7900 3 ай бұрын
Just lost my sister-in-law today. This video helped as a reminder to what I already know. ❤
@honeysins9951
@honeysins9951 Ай бұрын
My mum passed away 4 days ago, I’m so lost, she was my best friend and I’m grieving so hard. My heart is actually breaking 😢
@haileychowmein6167
@haileychowmein6167 Ай бұрын
I hope she rest in peace. I know she misses you too. I hope you take care of yourself she don’t want to see you sad
@louiselinton2845
@louiselinton2845 28 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry. However you are part of each other and she'll always be watching over you with Love. Keep talking to her in the stars, I've found it helps. Big Hug ❤
@veronicaspaintbox
@veronicaspaintbox 3 күн бұрын
Sending healing 💕
@sravanthicr2006
@sravanthicr2006 2 күн бұрын
I'm also going through the same😭I lost my mom last month
@haileychowmein6167
@haileychowmein6167 2 күн бұрын
@@sravanthicr2006 I’m sorry for your loss. I also lost my mom last month I hope our moms are resting in peace and protecting us. You did the best you could
@Indi_Girl-ඉන්දි
@Indi_Girl-ඉන්දි 2 ай бұрын
We lost my bf’s mom last night. Was finding videos to cope up with the pain. This was helpful 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 I was a source of happiness while she was alive though we didn’t have much time to spend together. We have seen each other only 3 days and we were keeping touch 2 and half months only. But we had a bond for the short period of time. May her soul rest in peace as she is a catholic person. In my way I say May her soul attain supreme Nibbana 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💔💔💔😭😭😭
@warrior_monk4654
@warrior_monk4654 10 ай бұрын
Two days ago, Wednesday morning around 11:30am my male lovebird gomu passed away. I tried giving him cpr and mouth to beak. Sprayed water and gave him water but still he didn't survive. He was the kindest. He loved me more I could ever love him. Ii couldn't sleep and cried a lot. I did take him to hospital but it was too late. Vet were not avian expert. I really wish I could have saved him. He's presence mattered to us. My wife is pregnant and she's been sad and crying. Life is ruthless. Why do we get attached even though we know that it's gonna hurt us someday. I was very practical amd tough person but when my gomu the LoveBird died. Only then I realised what softie I am inside. I even cried at office at home, morning. It felt like world ended for me. You're right they have to go. Today or tomorrow. That's truth we have accept. Indeed, lil bird taught me a lesson to love unconditionally everyone because we never know when's the last day.
@bruisersbeach4905
@bruisersbeach4905 7 ай бұрын
Thank you for sharing your beautiful, yet painful story. I do completely understand. My beautiful baby, an 8 year old blonde, green-eyed Chihuahua passed suddenly without warning 9-1-22 and has left me devastated. Not one hug from my very abusive spouse on paper only. He got me a new puppy ONE WEEK after the worst loss of my life (and I’ve lost so many friends & family, all very prematurely, too, yet handled each loss with so much grace) He got me a new pup so I wouldn’t cry on his shoulder. How absolutely cruel to do to both, me and that new baby. One week??? I was still in shock. Shock, not denial. I’m a Nurse; I know all about the stages of grief. Not one hug, to this day. When I’m crying over Bruiser I’m told, “Get over it!!!” Or, “Oh, not this again.” Heartless. Most cruel. I’m trapped, financially, which is why I couldn’t leave such a toxic environment. I’ve added another baby and both are almost 2 years old; so different from my Bruiser, as they should be, but it’s been so hard. Bruiser went viral because he could actually speak human words and phrases and it stunned the World. I taught all tricks & commands in 3 languages (English, Hungarian, and Sign Language just for fun), he was so smart, sweet, nurturing, and filled with gratitude over the littlest of things, such as thanking me simply for putting out a fresh pee pee pad. What dog does that?!! He loved everyone he met and loved ALL animals. He was gentle and so kind. Whenever I looked into his gorgeous green eyes, I could 𝘧𝘦𝘦𝘭 our creator! He was the purest form of Love I’d ever known. Better, in my opinion, of any romantic kind between humans. I don’t honestly know how I’ve made it almost 2 years without him. I go on for the new babies, but it’s so hard. So very hard. A lot of people do not understand that our animals are like our children. I’m unable to carry full term; miscarriages. So he was absolutely my child. I now feel so utterly alone in this world, yet I’m grateful for the new puppies, even if one came a week after Bruiser’s sudden passing. I will never be ok or feel the joy & happiness I once felt when I had him and I’m so grateful & blessed for having him just a short while. We were camping and his breathing became slightly increased. So slightly, that nobody else would have ever thought to seek treatment. I called his Vet. She said she doesn’t have oxygen. No oxygen? How does she perform routine spays & neuters? I had to drive hour and a half to an animal hospital. He was completely fine. We get inside & as soon as we reach front desk, he collapsed in my arms where I put his entire snout in my mouth to give him breath. They whisked him away but when they brought me into a room, I just knew it wasn’t good. Doctor comes in to say they revived him 3x and the relief washed over me but she said, “No. it’s not good.” I went into complete shock the moment another doctor came in and just bowed her head. I didn’t cry. My world just stopped. They were so concerned for me. Then they brought him to me. He was gone. My entire world ended that day. I’m so glad you & your wife have each other during that time. I had no-one. 💔
@Sashiwarask
@Sashiwarask Жыл бұрын
Really because we love someone ..that people die we cannot control ❤❤
@thebird85
@thebird85 9 ай бұрын
“Don’t make the source of your happiness become the source of your pain.” Thank you for these words.
@CosmicSkull2
@CosmicSkull2 2 ай бұрын
I miss my deceased bf so much I use to think how I can be happy without you and I cry alot I wasn't ready to say good bye.I'm currently pregnant with our baby and I know our baby will look just like him.
@beatleme2
@beatleme2 9 ай бұрын
Send the flowers to the ones you love now, not after they pass... great message, love them now, I did treat my love ones with love while they were alive, n have to remember that, trying to not let them be the source o my pain n grief missing them is the hard part tho :(.. esp losing your spouse of 13 yrs in 3 mths to unexpected cancer 8 1 23 .. but yeah, many thanks
@LenovoA-gy7cs
@LenovoA-gy7cs Жыл бұрын
Tqvm for Sharing.. Sometimes we are really very Sad over the Loved ones passing away..But we Still f to move on in Life without them...Noting is permanent.. One Day we too disappear from this world..We leave behind our Sweet memories.. Always be kind , Speak politely n Happy with everyone.. Namobudaya 🙏❤️🙏
@MamaCancer23
@MamaCancer23 Жыл бұрын
My father passed on January 1, 2024 from stage 4 lung cancer. Although I experienced grief & continue to, it’s not as bad. I was able to spend his last moments with him, to care for him, pray for him, sit with him, laugh with him. I am forever grateful for those last moments ❤ When my mother passed in 2016 suddenly, that was much worse for me! I didn’t get to say goodbye. Any experiencing loss & grief, take it one moment at a time. Think about the good memories! Honor them forever ♾️
@mahalsol
@mahalsol 2 күн бұрын
My dad passed on Christmas Day! Tomorrow is his viewing! Everything has been so stressful this whole week and I have so much anxiety leading up to see him one last time. Please pray for me. I am grateful for all the memories and all the time I spend with him but I still miss him so much. Praying for him to be at peace and happy.❤
@rockerzhackers799
@rockerzhackers799 Жыл бұрын
An elephant named Arjuna died in wild elephant capture operation it has caused me so much grief i had never met him in real but the whole karnataka state people are sad i don't how to forget the pain its hurting me inside 😫🥺
@AKyaska
@AKyaska 5 ай бұрын
I found your comment unexpectedly. I too cried for days when Arjuna died, it's comforting to know someone else also felt the same way. It's hard to tell people why I was bothered so much when I didn't know the animal personally, but I was heartbroken for days. Thank you for sharing.
@sunshinewithin435
@sunshinewithin435 9 ай бұрын
I was never ready to face losing my Mother 😢 i miss her immensely 😔💞
@shona4252
@shona4252 Жыл бұрын
Really Really needed of this & you came😊Thank you so much Dearest Bhanteji 😊😌❤️🙏Namo Buddhay 😊😌❤️🙏
@Mimiismimi100
@Mimiismimi100 4 ай бұрын
I’m completely broken losing my Mom suddenly 44 days ago. I feel completely eviscerated in pain., despite all my prayers, and knowing her soul is with Jesus. This message is so good and what I’ve lived by, since the sudden passing of my Dad, 41 years ago. God’s blessings always ✝️🌿🕊🌹🙏🏼
@Sarah-zr1nj
@Sarah-zr1nj 27 күн бұрын
I just lost my mom exactly one week ago, friend. It was also unexpected and sudden. I share your grief and your heartache. I hope that you find some peace this holiday season. Let us both try. Much love to you 💜
@Mimiismimi100
@Mimiismimi100 27 күн бұрын
@ oh Sarah thank you so much. I’m just seeing this now! God bless you. I am so sorry for your loss. May your mom rest in the peace of our Lord Jesus Christ forever. It is heart wrenching at my first Christmas without my mom. But for the grace of God Jesus, I am doing OK with all the prayers of inside for me. I really appreciate your prayers. It’s amazing how much comfort God can give to the grieving. If we really sick his face I know that our moms are with him we have to be at Paseo her mothers don’t worry about us. God bless you sending love to you and your family. Sorry for any typos. I’m talk typing right now going to sleep capacity merry Christmas. Much love!🌹🙏🏼❤️🎄🕊️🌿✝️
@adithibogoda
@adithibogoda 4 ай бұрын
I lost my dog yesterday. really mis you rocky... 😭😭😭💔💔
@isurikagunarathne3123
@isurikagunarathne3123 Жыл бұрын
My mother died 7months ago,a week before my engagement.its a really hard to face that pain but i faced,she is my best friend she is the most loving person in my life but i have to face that much of pain.My only wish is for her soul to rest in peace as a tribute to the one who raised me and brought me to where I am today. Namo buddhaya.
@marianneeckertjensen4723
@marianneeckertjensen4723 Жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! My brother died two months ago, and I am so grateful for all the good talks we had about life, wisdom etc. while he was ill. I knew it was over when he got too tired to talk. Now I am grateful for these years. 🙏
@christinanaomi382
@christinanaomi382 2 ай бұрын
I recently lost my grandmother. I can so relate to this; I grew up Buddhist and I always spent every moment with my grandma like it was her last. She left on June 1st and we will be celebrating her 100th days memorial. I miss her but I know that in my heart and soul that my love for her was pure, our moments cherished, and I let her go but know that she is free and we will one day be united again.
@VeronikaH-rw3ll
@VeronikaH-rw3ll Жыл бұрын
Yes 🤍💛🧡 Feeling Love to them & being Thankful to them 🤍💚💙 no big pain 💜💙💗 Love & Thank & Nature 😘☘️ Thank you!!!
@DanielWright-np3fq
@DanielWright-np3fq Жыл бұрын
Thank you for kindly and respectfully sharing truth with us.
@pm7805
@pm7805 Жыл бұрын
Your last one minute was the most powerful -
@kalaveer4191
@kalaveer4191 Жыл бұрын
Yes your video gives me strength i just lost my beloved husband one and half month back. I cant get over it. Pls do more of this type of video
@sari8619
@sari8619 6 ай бұрын
How are you now? Hope you have got some peace , even for a moment ❤
@Survivorthroughlife
@Survivorthroughlife 9 ай бұрын
My grandfather passed away on 04/04/2024....could not cope up with it.I could not speak last words with him.He was a really good human being. Rest in Peace Babuji 💐🙏
@АленаКумаритова-л9з
@АленаКумаритова-л9з Жыл бұрын
My favorite channel ❤ thank you very much 🙏
@SarahBlaylock-u8g
@SarahBlaylock-u8g Жыл бұрын
You are such an amazing person. I am so grateful that I have gotten to know you. ❤ ❤😊😊
@nassimaalhyane9679
@nassimaalhyane9679 Жыл бұрын
Mom dies6whwn i was 4years old. Papa died 6 months acter i left my country to study abroad, (he died when i was 21years) now i am 23years old ...it still feels very new...i feel broken when i think of him.... I just Love him like nothing else and I'll always love him till i die ....
@zsuzsannablasko5250
@zsuzsannablasko5250 Жыл бұрын
Thank you dear for your nice advises, nice blessings
@lindavezina6224
@lindavezina6224 Жыл бұрын
This is really for me the best advice. I ❤️ ever listened too.I have my son that will be gone soon because of his own behavior. Its really bad.And i do expspect it very soon. ❤❤❤Thank you so much for this video. It will give me some thing to hold on too.I have bad panic attacks and thats a bad fear.❤❤❤
@charlesmorg5677
@charlesmorg5677 14 күн бұрын
Hmmm that breaks ny heart. Sending you hug
@anurabandara8245
@anurabandara8245 Жыл бұрын
දෙවි පිහිටයි හමුදුරැවනෙ❤❤❤❤
@quynhtrangpham1688
@quynhtrangpham1688 Жыл бұрын
Lost my partner for 3 yrs now. Still miss him so much😢😢😢
@chrisjohnson9341atgmaildotcom
@chrisjohnson9341atgmaildotcom 3 ай бұрын
I'm very sorry about your loss, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?.
@satyaratnashaurya062
@satyaratnashaurya062 Жыл бұрын
This video is very practical and useful, my my elder brother was died before 22 years. He treated me as my father he taken pain in my education, even he was ill. I extended my four is at this moment again. I remember him oftenly in my lifeI am grateful for his dedication. Vandami Bhante ji and Namo Buddhay!
@thinethchandraguptha825
@thinethchandraguptha825 11 ай бұрын
My fiancée passed away last month. It is one of the hardest pains ever. But I am still strong and our memories together will live with me forever. I am moving forward following my goals with all the good I learned from her and I will make her proud one day. Namo Buddhaya!
@uprcxious7248
@uprcxious7248 10 ай бұрын
me too, my fiancee passed away at 24 jan. i miss him so much, we wanna get married in 3 months💔💔 such a painfull heartbreak ever in this year😭😭❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹
@beatleme2
@beatleme2 9 ай бұрын
@@uprcxious7248 loss my wife of 13 yrs in 3 mths to unexpected cancer 8 1 23 :( just now able to sleep if i relax enough n - ''everything is alright everything will be ok the lord is in control'' is my motto
@bcvc3365
@bcvc3365 Жыл бұрын
My sweet cat Harley passed away this year. He was very lovely and friendly. We all miss him. ❤
@halcyon-cg2eb
@halcyon-cg2eb Жыл бұрын
This is very hard to go through, my sincere condolences. Harley will always have a special place in your heart, this love will never die ❤
@bcvc3365
@bcvc3365 Жыл бұрын
@@halcyon-cg2eb Thank you so much for your kind words 🙏
@halcyon-cg2eb
@halcyon-cg2eb Жыл бұрын
@@bcvc3365 🥰
@mariabejaranomonge2183
@mariabejaranomonge2183 Жыл бұрын
So beautiful. Thank you. Namo Buddhaya 🙏💖
@aliciahaney3680
@aliciahaney3680 5 ай бұрын
My wife of 11 years passed away Sunday night. She has 3 adult children greiving and we have a 7 year old together. I am so sad and even more heartbroken watching her children greive, especially our youngest. So painful.
@M.Ojha9435
@M.Ojha9435 Жыл бұрын
Thank you ❤❤❤ Namo Buddhaya❤❤❤
@amaratungah.a6615
@amaratungah.a6615 Жыл бұрын
Worldly Buddhist advice of this nature is an urgent necessity today.
@bindukdas7182
@bindukdas7182 Жыл бұрын
Thank you❤❤❤
@elisangelacastello4702
@elisangelacastello4702 Ай бұрын
I have 2 cousins and one friend, that despite the fact that I have treated them kindly while they were alive, they died in 2024, due to addictions. Grief profoundly changed me. I no longer take refuge in substances even knowing that I can use alcohol 🍷 in moderation. Somehow my heart ❤️ changed and I cannot appreciate a drink anymore. I feel as if my late loved ones are watching me in disapproval and if I take it, I am betraying them and they won’t be able to rest in their afterlife. So I meditate 🧘🏻, and my circle ⭕️ of friendships is changing. I feel as if my life is not mine anymore. It’s a strange deep feeling. The feeling that I am connected with these 3 souls and need to honor them by changing my life. I still perplexed 🤔 with the changes, because I didn’t need courage.
@kylerdad123
@kylerdad123 Жыл бұрын
Sifu, thank you for this powerful wisdom. It has helped me on this day! Namo amitofu ☸️!
@saddevil644
@saddevil644 2 ай бұрын
Thank u so mush sir 🙂❤
@LathaNair702
@LathaNair702 Жыл бұрын
Beautiful advise. Thank you ❤
@tbillyjoeroth
@tbillyjoeroth 2 ай бұрын
Look around at other people and no matter how they seem, they have felt or are feeling as bad as you are. And that is something you share with them, so it's a source of commonality with your fellow humans. Something to think about. 😊
@kumarjeg2968
@kumarjeg2968 Жыл бұрын
Namo buddhaya great advice🙏🙏🙏
@alessandraferrari2191
@alessandraferrari2191 Жыл бұрын
Thanks thero.l follow your videos.l wish to meet you in Sri Lanka 🙏🏻🌸
@adithya2366
@adithya2366 4 ай бұрын
Still i am in state of shock because my father died yesterday..he was ok till then but suddenly his condition worsened and we tried our best but he left us..this made me in a very depressed state 😢😢
@jossyj1
@jossyj1 3 ай бұрын
Thank you for this.
@Armie_rose
@Armie_rose 7 ай бұрын
I lost my husband feb 18,2024..so much pain😢😢but now i listen to u..im trying to be okay..
@chrisjohnson9341atgmaildotcom
@chrisjohnson9341atgmaildotcom 3 ай бұрын
I'm very sorry about your husband, trust me I completely understand how you feel, I felt the same way when my wife past away June 4th 2018 grief is hard to deal with but we learn to live with it, where are you from..?..
@ucheuguru4084
@ucheuguru4084 Жыл бұрын
Your videos give me strength ❤
@adamjhayes59
@adamjhayes59 Жыл бұрын
Celebrate the life... Makes sense.
@dec66.18
@dec66.18 Жыл бұрын
Very wise words.🙏🏻
@itarocchidirosy
@itarocchidirosy Жыл бұрын
You are a guide for me 🙏 thank you 💔❤️
@annawendt2438
@annawendt2438 Жыл бұрын
I had a miscarriage earlier this year. I didn't know my baby in person but I love her dearly. I miss her every day and I don't feel like I am ever gonna be truly happy again. I feel like I don't deserve to be happy again. The day she died something in me died too. Meditation helped me with the grief but this day changed me. People tell me, it's better this way.
@aravindadharsh
@aravindadharsh Жыл бұрын
Namo Budhaaya... 🙏🙏🙏
@byagarimuthyam5347
@byagarimuthyam5347 Жыл бұрын
We have little time this people Namo budhaya 🙏🏼 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
@Brotherhood2207
@Brotherhood2207 Жыл бұрын
❤❤❤namo Buddha 🙏🏻
@Vranaanna
@Vranaanna 10 ай бұрын
Wow! This is profound!
@MyDrizzit
@MyDrizzit Жыл бұрын
Beautiful, many blessings ,🙏
@lauram5195
@lauram5195 Жыл бұрын
Namo Buddhaya 🙏 ❤
@Users370
@Users370 Жыл бұрын
Merci pour ces conseils de sagesse . L impermanence ,le depart de nos etres aimés est cependant tres difficile à accepter . 🙏🇨🇵
@Dancing_Soul_Of_Yeva
@Dancing_Soul_Of_Yeva 4 ай бұрын
One of my friend died 15 days ago .. but i came to know it yesterday.. and i am unable to accept it , he was so dear to me .. i hope , wherever he is , he is happy .. ! He attempted suicide, i am just feeling that he must have just once come to me and talk .. i wish everyone would treat mental health issue as physical health issue ..! May god bless him . Rest in peace Parvez ❤ u have all my love and i will never let ur existence extinct till i am alive 🥺
@veronical.c890
@veronical.c890 4 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry, please take care, you matter❤
@ItsAboutArtnCraft
@ItsAboutArtnCraft Ай бұрын
I lost my mom 2 years back but the grieve it’s still there moreover with the guilt that am living with I was never shared a good bond with her. I caused lot of trouble to her made her cry so many time. Never talked with her properly when she was alive and now when she’s not there am leaving with this huge amount of guilt and pain asking for her forgiveness every now n then and sometimes don’t know how to handle this pain guilt.
@MicheleHester-m6f
@MicheleHester-m6f Жыл бұрын
Lost my mom this past Saturday the 16th. I'm going to miss her so much
@Explorer_00-p5n
@Explorer_00-p5n Жыл бұрын
She’s with you , next to you !! You just seeing her physically but she is with you
@adorable7727
@adorable7727 Жыл бұрын
😢😢cry as much as you can and try to be strong
@bsnlchennai4197
@bsnlchennai4197 Жыл бұрын
Nice speech🎉🎉🎉
@dheena8492
@dheena8492 Жыл бұрын
Ur speech is simply relaxing so immensely, really when we hear ur speech, truly getting some divine feeling in your TRUE words. Pls keep motivating us. 🙏
@jyoteegokool7486
@jyoteegokool7486 Жыл бұрын
Namau Budhaya each moment i feel very unhappy painful for my elder RaginiLata died in 46yrs aleft two young child we are spritual question god Why Ithank you master for Your great lesson many thanks
@balleradhika899
@balleradhika899 Жыл бұрын
Tq very much sir 😊
@law2859
@law2859 Жыл бұрын
Namo Buddhaya 🙏
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