5 Questions to Consider Before Divorce

Sometimes ending a marriage seems like a good solution to frustration and anger. However, the aftermath of divorce is unexpectedly devastating. In this video, I'll give you 5 questions to consider before you decide to call it quits.
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[@lorenzocarrillo]

The last therapist I talked to said: "It's okay to have an affair; just don't share it with her." I immediately terminated my future appointments.

[@Peacefullife0404]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@jakebrandon7632]

My ex-wife is Filipino and our marriage counselor was Filipino, so naturally every excuse was I just don't understand their culture.

[@MaryJoRapini]

Wise that you switched therapist’s.

[@alsaxton5]

I had a similar experience. I went to a counselor and told him that I had problems with lust, and that I was cheating. The therapist said "well does your wife know". I said no. He was like well you don't really have a problem then. It was my last appointment too. I continued the affair. If I had gotten good advice, I would have quit the side chick instead of the therapist!

[@ngapsmurangimiracle4248]

Some partners instead of talking they get angry... and you end up not communicating at all!

[@jorgemarquezzepeda8179]

My wife stonewalls me any time I voice my ideas and opinion. She simply doesn't want to hear me.

[@anthonymurry6176]

Same way

[@rollingtinfist]

This is actually fantastic counsel. Very clear-eyed and real-world based.

[@TD-bu9wv]

We've been married 29 years and this year has been rough. We are new empty nesters and while its fun and exciting it’s confusing and very different. We are learning to communicate more than we have ever had to.

[@tylercrooks8659]

You provide such insightful and informative content . So incredibly valuable. 🙏

[@Cheesepuff8]

A partner making u happy is absolutely not an unrealistic expectation, friends are people who make u happy, if the freind u spend the most time with (your partner) makes u less happy than all your other freinds that's a big problem

[@mjchecksfield914]

Mary you are the bomb! I am loving your videos. Very thoughtful and sound advice which is really helping me navigate my marriage wobbles.

[@MaryJoRapini]

Thank you!!!!

[@christomt7]

It is so hard. I believe every word of this, but my ex-husband didn’t leave me a choice. I found out about the affair and got a notice from his lawyer the next day. Two years later, and he is still with this person and wall still high. It is hard to move on when I still believe family is worth fighting for, but he made it clear there is nothing to fight for for him, and I know that pleading makes you even less attractive to that person. So what can a person do? I try to just accept it and move on, but part of me still wants to fix something.

[@MaryJoRapini]

Tanya, use your energy now to accept the change and grow in personal ways to avoid this from ever happening again. It sounds like you were blindsided and that usually means there were so many things you were taking care of that you had little energy to care or nurture your marriage. A therapist can really help you build inner awareness, strength and confidence going forward. Please go for you. MJo

[@sashacaleb1]

What type of therapy? It's a very complicated situation. DRUG USE , INCARCERATION, PARENTAL ALIENATION, DISTANCE DUE TO GEOGRAPHY (WE ARE ALL SEPARATED BY STATES IN BETWEEN), MONEY, & FLAT OUT BULLYING, that's the only word I can think of to describe the way I feel like I am up against an army of toxic people and I don't have much yet financially but I am heading in the right direction for the next part of this journey. I am so overwhelmed with all that I have to to do to get my life back to where I

[@elikorn7418]

Did you have kids Tanya? How long was the affair going on before the divorce? From what I've read that initial high infatuation dies off as time goes by.

[@awhb5412]

This is one of the best video I have ever watched. I too am against divorce because it has lots of consequences. But nowadays people see divorce being the only solution but it is not. I always advise people to never see divorce is the solution. This is the best teaching & I admire you. Thanks

[@MaryJoRapini]

Thank you, AWH B. Your words are so helpful & kind.

[@yellooh]

Great all around.

[@darrellroireau4061]

Great advice

[@inserter400]

NOW WE DONT GET A CHOICE IF WE WANT TO DIVORCE , MY WIFE IS IN MIDLIFE CRISIS , SHE THINKS DIVORCE IS THE WAY TO MAKE HER FEEL BETTER. I WANT TO SAVE OUR MARRIAGE BUT SHE SAID SHE IS DONE. I AM RIDING THE MIGHTY STORM ANY HELP OR ADVICE.

[@briannaquintana2057]

inserter400 all you can do is pray and put it in Gods hands

[@inserter400]

@@briannaquintana2057 THANK YOU, GOD SPEED TO YOU.

[@victorsosa5799]

I'm going through the same thing. My wife just told me she was done and no way of getting her back...it's been 2 long hard weeks

[@314cstaff]

I'm going through the same thing. My world was flipped upside down when my wife filed. It's been two months since the filing, and it looks like she's going through with it. What I've learned is any decision I make has to be focused on making MYSELF a better human. Go to the gym, find some healthy coping strategies, work on your PIES (Personal, Intellectual, Emotional, Spiritual) daily goals. Here's a realization I've come to. Her deciding to come back to me (if she does) should be solely based on what she believes. Not my influence. Because at the end she wants to be content with her decision. Anything else she'll resent you for it.

[@ethereumrise7860]

So what does it mean when men file for divorce?

[@carljohnson6264]

Uhm..if a person is bad for you, Forget every little thing that is inconvenient Your happiness and your kids happiness is worth an inconvenience

[@MaryJoRapini]

Carl, I would replace the word "happiness" with emotional and physical well-being. I worry about the word happiness, life is learning about ourselves and serving others and that requires sacrifice and suffering too. But, by all means, if someone is abusive; emotionally, physically, or sexually you don't have a choice. Leave! Thanks for your comment....when subs comment we all grow. I really encourage engagement and appreciate your thoughts. MJo

[@andreanabaruk5963]

What if your "down" lasts over a decade?

[@daniel-jf5pr]

Hi, why don't you send a message to this one that helped me attract my partner back after many years of separation?

[@daniel-jf5pr]

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[@marisolorosco4345]

Been married for 6 years, been together for a total of 8 years. When we were dating he tried to spend time with me and we would go out at times. Some romance. Now nothing. We live in separate houses and have no children together. Our kids are all grown. I really think we are just staying married because of our dogs. He doesn’t give much and i am exhausted of giving my all. I want out. I am going to take your advice about a legal separation first.

[@aug07broken]

tuttiyu

[@gustavocastroortiz7645]

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[@clairebearie87]

Marisol how are you going now?

[@marisolorosco4345]

@@clairebearie87 Well, I filed for legal separation. I think we really missed each other. We still live in separate houses but I've learn to accept him as he is. He is my best friend and we see each other every day. Platonic marriage with my best friend. Right now, it's good enough for me, lol.

[@HeyItsMe1224]

How do you fix when you don’t feel attracted to them, you feel like you married for reasons besides love, and never had that attraction and you married hoping it would change!

[@MaryJoRapini]

It’s never a wise choice to hope people will change in areas that favor you after you marry them. Pre-marriage counseling is a gift every person should give themselves prior to saying “I do”.

[@ablockbathrooms8304]

am i only kid here trying to figure out if divorce is the right path??

[@clairebearie87]

No, meet too. Sick of going back and forth in my mind

[@ablockbathrooms8304]

@@clairebearie87 just an update my parents are separated now. hope everything works out for you too

[@user-ok6xe7ld9c]

When you say, unless there is abuse.. is gas lighting considered abuse? Making someone feel less than and crazy considered abuse? .. yes there are beautiful moments however I’m in between these emotions.. any advise is welcomed 🖤 pls @me so I see it

[@mniks8860]

A year...lol...its been 6 for us.

[@jennifertripp3717]

Hi Mary Jo thank you so much for your help and info. How would you advise handling an affair in separation? We’ve been together for 15 yrs married for 11 and been separated for 13mths due to his affair. I’m praying he comes out of the affair meanwhile I’m becoming stronger in my faith. Divorce was filed (by him) but nothing happening. Thank you for your help!!

[@MaryJoRapini]

Include therapy in your plans going forward🙏🏼

[@jyothsnagandloju8271]

I am middle of the divorce, but I have different problems than you mentioned. Is it possible to have one to one talk with you??

[@MaryJoRapini]

You can book a consultation session with me. Simply go to my web site Maryjorapini.com and contact me through there. Thank you.

[@dannymurray5913]

It’s up to me, to go to a therapist alone, she won’t go. Good woman but she is done with sex over a yr. now I’m suffering, she’s not, so she says. No drive and not interested in any therapy. 22 yrs. Told me several times find someone else. No children. To divorce I would have to sell my family farm. ?

[@djuanaberuk9908]

Danny is she menopausal or hypothyroid? Menopause symptoms and low estrogen can zap libido. Thyroid problems are similar to menopause and can result in no libido and depression. Please have this checked and treated. It can make a huge difference.

[@Busybumblybee]

What happens if you’re not together and hes sharing his life with someone else and she stays with him three days a week but he wont get a divorce

[@R33t1]

Use his money for your and your children needs. Do everything you want to do. Don’t have sex with him. Travel.

[@jamesmackey1238]

Marriage is so bad, it is such a terrible trap.

[@mniks8860]

💯

[@HeyItsMe1224]

So if yoyr partner contributes nothing to your marriage and happiness besides making money, then it’s my fault ?

[@patrickpelletier3104]

There are so many red flags in this comment I don't even know where to start. I'd bet my left nut the other side (his side) of the story is an interesting one !!!

[@blackeneddove]

Our situations seem similar. Are you still married?

[@rickschwab3963]

My wife would either laugh, think that I'm wierd, then an argument would erupt if i asked her for a list

[@pjmendoza8871]

I’m kind of going through divorce right now nothing final, of course but I lost my job. My wife was sick now she seems a little better. She came back from therapy from being sick physically and mentally and now she wants to leave me because all the trauma she had when she was little like, I’m not the one who did that to you and I’m sorry but you know I don’t know how to fix those things that’s why you go to a specialist but she saying I’m part of the problem but I didn’t. I didn’t do anything to her like I’m not the one who abused her or she was little and do this things and But she tells me that I should’ve been there enough more to help her get through it which I get it but those are some things that I am not a professional to help with those things. I can listen and stuff but there’s some things that she didn’t even tell me what was going on because I’ll traumatic it was, so I’m I’m blindsided I’m hurt I just don’t know what to do. I try to be everything else but there’s only so much I can do…..I still love you babe. I hope therapy today helps you because your therapist doesn’t know that you want to get a divorce right after you got out of the hospital.

[@onway78]

Is it possible for your spouse to have you on restraining order while you're still living with them to the point you can't come back to the house anymore

[@belo_0645]

What if you're husband is a functional alcoholic and been trying to voice out your concerns and he will just change for a week or 2 and then back to his old ways again and again. We've been married for 5yrs and no kids, I sacrificed that for him and I have no idea that he has alcohol addiction, we're in a sexless marriage, he has financial issues, we don't have the same goals. is it still worth fighting for?

[@MaryJoRapini]

Give him an ultimatum; AA or a divorce. Just remember if you divorce him with joint custody he will be driving your kids. That is a scary thought if he continues to drink.

[@LorraineJG]

Some good points. I don't think anyone should stay married just for the children and your unhappy with the person your married too. Living in a home pretending and having to stay faithful and celibate because of religious restraints is a miserable life. This is why in olden days people were desperate and did evil to get out by any means. A divorce is much cleaner a d safer, because no one wants to be the object of hatred and hurt. Mary Jo Buttafuoco is pime example of a spouse being hated on by a wicked husband and his mistress. She has to live with the bullet fragments in her body all because Joe didn't file for divirce when he wasn't faithful and should've gotten out od his marriage. Very sad thing, smh. I think about this woman concerning what some married couples should do to leave before it gets ugly.

[@MaryJoRapini]

Lorraine, thank you for the insightful comment. It really helps me dive deeper into this topic. It isn't a question of having a good marriage or getting out with a divorce. This is the main obstacle for therapists helping couples in a troubled marriage. You can FIX troubled marriages, it's as if we've raised a generation of people who feel hopeless if they have bad days in their marriage. Everyone who has a great marriage has bad times,you shouldn't sit or get stuck in the bad times. Don't marry someone who uses divorce as an option if the marriage is going badly. Marry someone who is a problem solver and willing to work on themselves to make necessary changes when the marriage is in conflict. The latest statistics on marriage research support that one half of all divorces didn't have to happen when couples got marriage counseling. What I tell couples now is treat your marriage like you do a constant learning opportunity. Get to know your partner, be curious, work on understanding each other, take turns listening. If you don't get a response worthy of respect, instead of seeking a lawyer's help or striking back with anger, turn to a counselor or an on-line marriage support system. Learn how to communicate with your partner. Take a look at my homework assignments and download them, work on them as a couple. I agree with you, you should never put yourself in a situation where hate and resentment have overshadowed communication. However, look within before you begin blaming your partner.

[@christinezhong7543]

I agreed with this.

[@namboy2233]

MJ Rapini's advice is fantastic!. In this hedonistic, self-centered society, lots of people are chucking their marriages, w/o trying to work things out!! They go racing blindly off the cliff in search some sort of fleeting happiness!

[@jm9092]

@@MaryJoRapini I'm about 1 conversation away from leaving my wife with a newborn. I still love my wife and love my daughter whom I know I will have to fight for to maintain rights to her. We seem to have hit a wall that we can't climb over. I'm really not sure what to do but I appreciate this video. It's giving me some pause and perspective. Thanks for posting it.

[@mysecretsketchbook865]

@@jm9092 please watch my videos on getting rid of negative energy. May save your sanity. PLEASE SIR. could save your life. Not converting you. Peace from England UK

[@officialtea-rv4gf]

i reckon it is an abusive relationship, but, being female, i can't cope with the upset of divorcing?

[@picturef8]

It would be hard to work through things with such a attractive counselor 🤷‍♂️

[@taraalan1131]

No wonder you’ve got marriage problems.

[@joeaghe763]

@@taraalan1131 😆 🤣

[@joeaghe763]

@@taraalan1131 I guess that was jus on a lighter note.. u can't be too serious wt life u know, ease up okay 🙂

[@Daileyhacks1331]

What if u just want to die?

[@MaryJoRapini]

If you feel as though you want to die, you need to go to the ER right now. Call 911 immediately. Seek counseling support, but take active measures now.

[@phindilencane5534]

😂😂😂😂😂😂 Such a comment

[@314three]

Bro you read my brain. Just want to dissapear

[@hannah1critique]

I’m very confused about that last part….you said separate while seriously thinking/ working on your marriage but then you said to date? That’s confusing. If the goal of separation is to get your feet wet in the life of divorce then you have your answer….get a divorce. Don’t waste the other person’s time.

[@scottgoulette8900]

I heard that too but then realized she meant start dating "each other" again...

[@melanierose9015]

I don’t understand what you meant by the point of marriage is to be married?

[@jm9092]

I certainly can't speak for her but the impression I get from that statement is more about what he purpose of marriage isn't. Meaning that your partner is not there to be your muse or your emotional barometer. Your partner is not responsible for your happiness. That's your job. Again, that's just the impression I get.

[@MaryJoRapini]

People put all sorts of expectations on marriage, but at the end of the day it isn't suppose to make you happy, live in bliss or anything else you don't create. It's a life style. Just as single is single, married is married. We don't equate the two as equal, but both are choices we make. A marriage is created by two people and within the couple's creating is where marriage becomes so interesting to me as a therapist.

[@melanierose9015]

Mary Jo Rapini I always thought we’d grow together and share dreams and goals. We don’t. I’m learning this 12 years into the marriage. I don’t understand why anyone would ever want to get married. So as I decide the fate of my current marriage I’m also trying to learn what the point of any marriage would be. Why would I never want my own dreams and goals?

[@MaryJoRapini]

@@melanierose9015 A healthy marriage is about serving each other and when you have someone committed to your needs as well as you committed to theirs it frees you to conquer your goals (plus in marriage they are your biggest fan) and your dream or vision is shared by both of you. It sounds like your choice for spouse is broken, and perhaps you both forgot the importance of making it "we" instead of "Me?" Me, me, me isn't healthy no matter what life style you choose:(

[@silb8139]

@@MaryJoRapini Its confusing when you first say to not have expectations about marriage and then you say we should have our needs met by our spouse?

[@alive4627]

The aftermath can include alcoholism, drug dependence, an untreated chronic disease such as diabetes, the loss of a job or career, another failed relationship, indigence, sexual abuse (divorcee and/or a dependant), and an untimely death.

[@user-ui8pw2zf3n]

“Half of all divorces don’t have to happen. That means a fourth of divorces that happen in the us really need to”. Not sure I follow

[@thechosen5768]

Marriage is between a man and a woman. Marriage is for better and for worse until death separates (Matthew 19:3-6). ‘Wherefore they are no more two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let no man put asunder (separate)’. Cheating on your wife or husband is sin. Proverbs 28: 13 says, ‘‘He that covers his sins shall not prosper...You must repent of them, confess and forsake them (1 John 1:9). Are you into worldliness? Don’t you know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? (James 4:4; II John2:15-17). So, you must stop bleaching your body or painting your mouth, eyes, hands and legs or fixing attachments, weave-on, earrings (Genesis 35:2-4), bangles, chains and frying or perming your hair. Tattooing your body is satanic. Are you one of those that put on nude dresses, short skirts, transparent dresses to seduce men or women (a Seducer or a Promoter of lust is a Sinner - Mathew 5:28) Perhaps you wear trousers as a woman? (Read Deuteronomy 22:5), that is an abomination (Revelation 21:8, 27). Therefore, make up your mind, repent and give your life to Jesus Christ. Are you spoilt? Jeremiah 4:30 says, ‘‘And when thou art spoiled, what wilt thou do? Though thou clothest thyself with crimson, though thou deckest thee with ornaments of gold, though thou rentest thy face with painting, in vain shalt thou make thyself fair; thy lovers will despise thee. They will seek thy life’’. (2 Kings 9:30; Hosea 2:13; Exodus 33:1-6) A Christian is not a Sinner and a Sinner is not a Christian (I John 3:9). If you must be a blessed child of God, then you must repent of your sins and give your life to Jesus Christ. If you believe Jesus Christ today, righteousness of God will come into your life and abundant life will be your portion (1 John 11-12). If you neglect this call to repentance and salvation and die, you will not escape fire of Hell (Hebrews 2:3). It is foolishness and sin to say or think that there is no God (Psalm 14:1; 9:17). Luke 13:3, Jesus said, ‘I tell you, Nay: but except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish’. Cut off every besetting sin (Hebrew 12:1-2; Mark 9:43-48). If you have decided now (2 Corinthians 6:2) to give your life to Jesus Christ and to forsake your sinful lifestyle, please say this prayer: Almighty God, I come unto you in the name of Jesus. Father I confess that I am a sinner. All my sins I confess to you. I am very sorry for all my sins (mention those you can remember). Lord I promise you that from today I will never continue in them anymore. I believe that Jesus Christ died and rose again on the third day for my justification. Almighty God, use the blood of Jesus to wash my sins away. Lord Jesus, come into my heart, be my Lord and personal Saviour. I surrender my life to you. Cancel my name from the books of death and write it in the book of life. Give me power to sin no more. In Jesus name I pray. Amen!! 'THE LORD'S CHOSEN CHARISMATIC REVIVAL MOVEMENT'. www.tlccrm.org OR www.tlccrm.org/chosentv kzbin.info 1John 1:9 If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. Hell is a place of torment forever...continuous burning by fire. The fire is never quenched, with crying and weeping forever (Mark 9:43-48; Psalm 9:17; Mathew 25:41). It was originally prepared for satan and his demons, but anybody that obeys the devil in committing sin and refuse to repent and accept Jesus Christ, if the person dies in sins, he or she will be thrown into Hell. You still have the opportunity to repent now, amend your ways, live and spend eternity in heaven. Go to www.tlccrm.org You may be asking; how do I stop all these sins? Simply take the first step of repentance and have inner hatred for those sins, then ask Jesus to forgive you and come into your life to be your Lord and personal Saviour. In John 1:12, there is power that will be given to you, and in Mathew 11:28, if you receive Jesus into your life, He will deliver you and give you victory over those sins; then you will need to cut off from the source of those sins in your life (may be sinful friends; stop the evil relationship. This gospel is not to condemn you, but for you to be convicted so that you will repent and give your life to Jesus Christ who loves you and really wants you to make it to heaven at the end of your life here on earth

[@TheGrahamFamily0524]

That’s a lot of sh*t you quoted from a book written by men and not god himself.

[@lindatannock]

Sorry, thought I fell asleep and woke up in the wrong century there lol 😆. If you think women wearing trousers is a sin, you've a lot to learn about life 😂. That's the least of people's worries! Marriage is between 2 people who love each other, regardless of orientation/race etc etc. I've got no issues with anyone being religious, but omg we live in a modern society with different values nowadays. Doesn't the bible say something about let those who cast the 1st stone be without sin? 😉 Let others live their lives how they choose, and they'll gladly let you live yours how you wish, regardless of how outdated it is. God bless.

[@thechosen5768]

Ye shall know the truth and the truth shall make you free. Where will you spend eternity?

[@thechosen5768]

@@lindatannock Believe this gospel Are you into idolatry? Are you into cultism, whether open or secret cult? Do you practice witchcraft or Yoga? Do you smoke cigarette or cannabis? Do you sell them or offer them to people? Do you smoke or sniff hard drugs such as cocaine, heroin, captain black, hashish or other banned drugs or snuff? Are you lusting - lusting after men or women, covetous, alcohol drinking (proverbs 31:4-6)? You must repent, stop them and give your life to Jesus Christ. Jesus is the way, the truth, and the life. Are you into marry and divorce? Then you are a sinner. Are you married to more than one person? Repent!! Marriage is between a man and a woman. Marriage is for better and for worse until death separates (Matthew 19:3-6). ‘Wherefore they are no more two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together let no man put asunder (separate)’. Cheating on your wife or husband is sin. Proverbs 28: 13 says, ‘‘He that covers his sins shall not prosper...You must repent of them, confess and forsake them (1 John 1:9). Are you into worldliness? Don’t you know that friendship with the world is enmity with God? (James 4:4; II John2:15-17). So, you must stop bleaching your body or painting your mouth, eyes, hands and legs or fixing attachments, weave-on, earrings (Genesis 35:2-4), bangles, chains and frying or perming your hair. Tattooing your body is satanic. Are you one of those that put on nude dresses, short skirts, transparent dresses to seduce men or women (a Seducer or a Promoter of lust is a Sinner - Mathew 5:28) Perhaps you wear trousers as a woman? (Read Deuteronomy 22:5), that is an abomination (Revelation 21:8, 27). Therefore, make up your mind, repent and give your life to Jesus Christ. Are you spoilt? Jeremiah 4:30 says, ‘‘And when thou art spoiled, what wilt thou do? Though thou clothest thyself with crimson, though thou deckest thee with ornaments of gold, though thou rentest thy face with painting, in vain shalt thou make thyself fair; thy lovers will despise thee. They will seek thy life’’. (2 Kings 9:30; Hosea 2:13; Exodus 33:1-6) A Christian is not a Sinner and a Sinner is not a Christian (I John 3:9). If you must be a blessed child of God, then you must repent of your sins and give your life to Jesus Christ. If you believe Jesus Christ today, righteousness of God will come into your life and abundant life will be your portion (1 John 11-12). If you neglect this call to repentance and salvation and die, you will not escape fire of Hell (Hebrews 2:3). It is foolishness and sin to say or think that there is no God (Psalm 14:1; 9:17). Luke 13:3, Jesus said, ‘I tell you, Nay: but except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish’. Cut off every besetting sin (Hebrew 12:1-2; Mark 9:43-48). If you have decided now (2 Corinthians 6:2) to give your life to Jesus Christ and to forsake your sinful lifestyle, please say this prayer: Almighty God, I come unto you in the name of Jesus. Father I confess that I am a sinner. All my sins I confess to you. I am very sorry for all my sins (mention those you can remember). Lord I promise you that from today I will never continue in them anymore. I believe that Jesus Christ died and rose again on the third day for my justification. Almighty God, use the blood of Jesus to wash my sins away. Lord Jesus, come into my heart, be my Lord and personal Saviour. I surrender my life to you. Cancel my name from the books of death and write it in the book of life. Give me power to sin no more. In Jesus name I pray. Amen!! 'THE LORD'S CHOSEN CHARISMATIC REVIVAL MOVEMENT'. www.tlccrm.org OR www.tlccrm.org/chosentv kzbin.info