5 selfish decisions to make in your 20's | my *non-negotiables* for 2023

[@claudiadacapo]

sum up of video: 1. leave toxic friends 2. decide who you want to be (happy/healthy?) - change job etc. if you're not happy/leave relationship if you don't feel good /change location 3. prioritise love (romance) 4. start taking risks / invest in yourself, know what you want and invest/do what scares you 5. fall in love with you, spend time with yourself/go to dinner with yourself (friends and romantic partner don't mean anything if you don't know yourself + where you're at)

[@msbestlife6827]

Thank you ever so much for the summary as I sometimes go through the comments first before the actual clip to see what could possibly be worth gaining and it goes without saying that this will be a good watch. Thank you.

[@Luh_baby.roxyyy]

My goals for 2023 Building up myself confidence Achieving in my academics Not letting anyone bring me down Not letting anyone take me for granted on how I look Not being anyone's second option

[@Michelle-fr1fw]

Vee this makeup and hair look is EATING DOWN.

[@silvialogan9226]

Toxic relationships can happen to anybody in any age group if one feels that person is not good enough for you.

[@iwantabiscuitplz]

I'm 30 now but hey better now than never to get this advice?! Guys don't waste your 20s. I feel like I did and I am not feeling good about it, especially when I compare myself to high achievers like Vee (but you also inspire me!!). I still don't know who I want to be in terms of what I want to do with my life (that's the biggest cause of my dissatisfaction). I still haven't done things I swore I would do like 9 years ago. The decade flies by, so grab life by the horns and follow your heart for REAL real without feeling like you need to wait for permission. Now I just need to follow my own advice lol

[@vimbainashemabiza7469]

Hey Vee. Am so glad that you mentioned prioritizing love and that we are the same age. Indeed, the competition for love and career truly has been imprinted in us such that we truly waste our precious years. Sometimes we feel guilty for trying. Thank you for the good advice. 2023 will be an intentional year.

[@teb4385]

1. Cut toxic friendships 2. Decide what you want to be Job/Partner/Relationship 3. Prioritise Love Actively dating and choosing traits you want Boundaries - choose what you will not tolerate. 4. Take risks and invest in yourself If you want to change yourself life Take a course, do it, videos etc JUST DO IT If you change your mind, you will have the still anyway 5. Start Loving you START Spend time with You Develop you Invest in you Stop relying on other people for this more than yourself

[@ade6609]

Thank uuu

[@letstalklawsa3165]

I really like how vee speaks . She is so soft and calm yet her words are so powerful and smoothing😊

[@khadijafayyaz6184]

I want to give myself all the love in the world this year. I want to love every part of myself. I want to learn and grow. I want to protect myself all the time (my peace, my energy and my happiness). I want to be very selective about who I allow into my circle. I want to work hard, earn money and spend it well.

[@PhemeloMalatji]

I love your intro, energy,tone, just subscribed 1 minutes into finding the channel ❤️

[@boldprecious]

I can’t lie, Vee. This is my first ever partner at 21. It’s so beautiful. I can’t lie. It tickles 🤗 😂❤❤❤

[@MazvitaNgorosha]

Happy New Year Vee!🎉 Last year you had a video where you said to leave my goal for 2022 in the comments, I did but felt shy to keep it up so I decided to remove it (I did save a screenshot of it). My goal was to start my career as a software engineer at a big tech company after graduating with my Bachelor’s degree and I did!! So this year, I’m leaving my goals up for 2023 below! My Goals for 2023: Establish my business Excel in my current role Attain my Work Visa Research and prepare for grad school Workout and train for my first Marathon

[@mango641p2]

I am taking competitive exams in April to get in a college I have been willing to achieve for the past 2 years straight. And I MUST say that your videos motivate me so so much even though I am not lying it’s mentally quite hard at the moment BUT I am gonna make it !!! 💪🏻💪🏻❤

[@lilymspencer9]

turning 20 in 2023!! your content is the absolute BEST Vee!! Happy New Year!!

[@ashleymango8665]

Loved all these 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🔥🔥🔥

[@ntobsiey09]

I hope you become consistent in posting videos this year, I enjoy your content so much😍❤️ it’s always inspiring🫂♥️

[@takatsontsime1437]

Hi Vee. I am 40 and I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video.

[@boldprecious]

Omgggg. I love this video so much. I’m glad I gave love a chance too. It’s so beautiful. 🥺❤️❤️❤️

[@Emiliemooles]

I love these non-negotiables. I’m currently trying to work out how to go about finding people that I want to go on a date with. Does anyone have advice? I struggle putting myself out there but also know that being in the right environment will help me attract more like-minded people!

[@passmymla]

Hey Vee! I can't tell you how much I LOVED this video. I'm about to turn 20 this April and have been really trying to put in the time and effort to get to know myself these past few months. I love what you said about falling in love with yourself and I completely agree that sometimes you have those days where you just wanna hang out with yourself cuz you're your own bestie. Keep growing and growing!!

[@shrutighosh311]

✨Goals for 2023✨ 1. Work out 4-5x to achieve my dream body 2. Practice 10mins meditation 3. Journal 4. Date 5. Move out from home 6. Find my dream career 7. Get a high-paying job 8. 15 mins yoga 9. Get into investment 10. Start KZbin 11. Learn German

[@jreamscape]

That's a lot for one year. Try just going to the gym twice a week for 2 months and everything will fall in place. Take ur time

[@silentninja4850]

Hi all, I always love to see these comments and your videos Vee. I am 22 and a recent college grad I graduated with my bachelors debt free last year! I started working full-time last summer. I’m at a crossroads right now because I want to start dating and move out of my parents house, but there are some unknowns in my life right now as I might switch jobs/careers and start grad school. It would be easier to complete grad school from home. But I feel like by staying home, I’m not allowing myself to live the life I worked hard for. Would love your guys’ advice. Goals for 2023: Be happy Start a masters program with minimal to no debt Make progress with my living situation

[@sindypetronella]

Nailed it

[@juliaraatz6229]

thank you vee for this video! really needed it!!

[@law_life_scripture]

Ma'am the one about prioritising love came from our parents lol. Was told I can't hit 2 birds with one stone, it's either school or dating struggled with that towards varsity but one day I was like no! Then how am I to handle my husband with work?? The notions was just all wrong!!!!

[@BarboraHlavinkova]

My goals for 2023!!: Fix my sleep schedule haha Start a youtube channel!!! graduate

[@nicolemtetwa4151]

6 days late but my 2023 goals: Excel academically by putting my best foot forward Work on my health and fitness I’m religious so also working on my relationship with God Lastly, taking risks and getting out of my comfort zone

[@paulinachavezhernandez912]

Vee, you are a ray of sunshine in our lives! Have am amazing 2023 🎉❤❤

[@charlyneaddai-poku2089]

I enjoyed every bit of this video! Ugh! Vee💛💚

[@boldprecious]

Happpy new yearrr, Vee. You’re so vibrant. I love it 🥰 ❤

[@keletso9754]

Hi Vee Could you please do a video on leaving toxic friendship. Really need help on that one 🙏

[@alishanziro6011]

Thank you so much even though what I was thinking about while watching the video had nothing to do with your topic your advice was still really enlightening. Keep the good work, love the makeup by the way.

[@hermiadermentia4301]

Happy New Year Vee!!❤️❤️❤️I'm glad you opening up to love and mature relationships after working soooo very hard in your studies!(whike yiu feeel ready) Mama Will Be HAPPPPPYYY🤣😭I looooove the Firmness In Your Voice... One in a Million Of Sincerest conversation EVERRRRR😉👌

[@thinkingyas4245]

I want to study and take courses in the subjects I am interested in now but wasn't previously or that are different from the courses I did at university, proving that it's not too late to learn new skills and that what was studied at university doesn't have to be the end of learning other things. Wishing you all the best with your goals

[@xxglamourbeautyxx3638]

Ok vee and the makeup

[@maruskaa3134]

Need advices on how to break up with a group of friend 😅. Not only 1 but 5 🥺.

[@breno910]

Spectacularrrrrrr 🥂🤩 as always ! Have a blessed New year Vee

[@A__F__vlog]

Love you dear 💓

[@lucijavidergar7425]

Amazing video, Vee!! :)

[@PhemeloMalatji]

I love it here❤️

[@marilis12]

Amazing 2023, Vee!

[@Vinoliah]

This made me feel soooo goooood 🙂❤️thank you so much

[@essyvee]

My only goal this year is to pass my second year of med school

[@wandileletsa4646]

Hi Vee, I am a 17 year old who needs help with balancing sports and my academics. I admit that I put a lot of emphasis on rugby and that somehow impacted my books negatively. I am an aspiring rugby player who just wants to make my mom and dad proud. Please tell me what to do.

[@jedidiahgodsbeloved6605]

Balance and studies first

[@TheWinningNadz]

I think the decision is yours. You've already taken an amazing step in making this analysis. Invest in your sport and equally invest in your studies. What you probably need to cut out is other things albeit not completely. Often, when you need to balance, it is a time for sacrifice. Sit down and analyse your life, where can you get the extra time to allow you to balance? I had a lot of balancing to do in high school, and what helped most was doing what I was supposed to do at a given moment. Create library time. And when it's time for sport, go for sport. Put yourself on a time table. It doesn't have to be strict, listen to your body and your needs too, take occasional breaks but don't put till tomorrow what you can do today.

[@NinthJewel]

Vee you look so beautiful ❤ happy new year sis !!

[@anzhelikaurusova]

you are just beautiful as well as everything you're talking about

[@essyvee]

I know you were in Zambia recently , is your book available in the country. I have BEEN looking for it

[@Lonfash]

Love uuuuu💞

[@civilengineersdecorum]

Hi Love from India

[@kh1li]

Off topic but where’s the sweater from?🥺

[@ingiphilekweyama5927]

I love you😢

[@annamildhult]

I love you so much ❤️❤️😭😭😭😭😭😭

[@netayconnection6236]

Good video 📹

[@louvelvet]

hi i wanna be besties with u