I require them to be actually holding a sign that reads, "I am attracted to you."
@linussaurian40005 жыл бұрын
I am the same way.
@dongypooh4 жыл бұрын
Yep, I need that in writing.
@LadyMngwa4 жыл бұрын
Ha! Me too! To hell with these subtle nuance almost invisible indications, I want clear statements - "I Tarzan You Jane Let´s screw"
@momoshiggles36314 жыл бұрын
I need a notarized letter and a signed contract.
@seriall13374 жыл бұрын
Same. I'm so afraid of being rejected I would never take the chance on someone unless they actually approached me first.
@armara704 жыл бұрын
Don’t forget sportflirting. Some people will just flirt for the ego boost, or they’re just bored.
@after_midnight95924 жыл бұрын
Ego boost and free drinks. Going to nightclubs just to reject.
@cheyhey21704 жыл бұрын
@@after_midnight9592 errrr ok.
@tehseenkhayatss4 жыл бұрын
PaA
@christinah.85044 жыл бұрын
to get their ego boosted, they'd be histrionic and let's go ahead and add some narcissism in there as well.
@SoulDelSol4 жыл бұрын
Everyone flirts bc it's fun. I wouldn't take that too seriously
@cmvamerica90113 жыл бұрын
I met a girl who kept starring at me and I thought she was attracted to me until I looked in a mirror and realized I was bleeding from a shaving cut.
@ivanaandric46683 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 You killed me!!
@debbiethemadbee3 жыл бұрын
And she never gave you a tissue?
@Fairly-odd-kel3 жыл бұрын
Yeah same except it was a guy in my scenario, thought he was into me but yeah just had glitter above my lip
@lxithium22233 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@reneeb90213 жыл бұрын
Lol, oh no 😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣
@EnjoyingLifeMelanie4 жыл бұрын
I've found the following to be true: They give me a head bump They rub their body against my ankles They give me a slow blink They snuggle up against me on the sofa and start to bathe They purr when I touch them
@IrishHoopers4 жыл бұрын
They bring me dead mice and baby birds in the morning.
@ladybird7614 жыл бұрын
And finally they jump into my lap and start to knead... 😁
@arielazaria46804 жыл бұрын
LOOOOOOL up until the last sentence I was like 'tf u on about' but then I rofl'd
@subversivelysurreal36454 жыл бұрын
melanie sherman : a cat’s sign of affection is ‘kissing’ you via putting his or her nose on your face.
@subversivelysurreal36454 жыл бұрын
Monika Szabo :that’s da-groovy.
@hikkipedia5 жыл бұрын
Guys, also note that none of these apply to the barista. They're just being polite.
@consciousgentile51415 жыл бұрын
Girls, also note that none of these apply to male strippers. They're just being polite.
@shaung17195 жыл бұрын
@@consciousgentile5141 omg this
@Foundry_made5 жыл бұрын
Also, none of these apply to the bartender, unless you're at a strip bar. If at a strip bar, none of these apply to the strippers, they are just attracted to your money.
@mercenarymike13975 жыл бұрын
@David Parry Don't forgot the Shovel and bag of lime
@JesusChrist-rf9wn4 жыл бұрын
@David Parry lol Holy shit
@jaymata12184 жыл бұрын
Just follow the two rules of dating: 1) Be attractive. 2) Don't be unattractive.
@MrDotR4 жыл бұрын
Or just have money
@dakotakeller16064 жыл бұрын
Incel
@themagicalcapricorn4 жыл бұрын
@Bcall 54 🤣🤣
@peng77714 жыл бұрын
@JustMe lol you could make the same ridiculous hypothetical situation with the genders reversed too. yeah generally people prefer having money over not having money. but I would say in the situation you described, it would only be applicable if the two men were literally exactly the same person in every single aspect except for wealth. humans are more complex than just their physical attractiveness and wealth. if the woman has a better connection with the less wealthy man, she will probably want to be with him.
@shannonwittman9504 жыл бұрын
@BrokenMikrofone , you mean like in "Pretty Woman"? ;-)
@the_moo000oon5 жыл бұрын
"5 things ive never had happen to me"
@ngonz894 жыл бұрын
yep. haha
@jaredwilliams68534 жыл бұрын
😂 Fr I’m attractive on paper teenager 6’4 225. Maybe I’m just too nerdy.
@crazyanyone3724 жыл бұрын
Same here
@xyoungdipsetx4 жыл бұрын
the moon same lol
@mylesanderson28614 жыл бұрын
Well they were all married women who showed these signs 😂😭
@valhalla12404 жыл бұрын
In addition: Person A knows about these signs, panicks at the thought of being too obvious and overcompensates by avoiding to show them (avoids physical or eye contact, doesn't ask you out, doesn't really talk much at all and dies alone).
@anonymouse67034 жыл бұрын
Haha I would be that Person A.
@scrittle4 жыл бұрын
It's like mistaking kindness for flirty behavior. God i hate that
@mutchof14 жыл бұрын
Exactly! And now I understand why so many guys thinks I'm into them just because I'm not attracted to them and treat them like a good friend. If I would be attracted I would avoid them, not come talk to them and be extremely awkward and avoidant if I had to talk to them for some reason.
@LunazulBaraka4 жыл бұрын
So true
@thesurvivorssanctuary65614 жыл бұрын
Did I misread this? I thought OP was describing a person hiding *ANY* sign that they like their crush, but two of the four comments(before my post) are talking about people hitting on them; because those people mistook their kindness for attraction. ¿¿¿What am I missing???
@edwarddodge79373 жыл бұрын
“If you’re on a date with somebody, there’s a fair chance that they’re attracted to you.” 🤔
@RideAcrossTheRiver3 жыл бұрын
Fair, but not good or great.
@mywifesboyfriend57413 жыл бұрын
Or they just like it when someone buys them a meal.
@RideAcrossTheRiver3 жыл бұрын
@@mywifesboyfriend5741 Or the attention; or that they can 'bag' a date.
@katiezharova24233 жыл бұрын
And if you are sitting in a bathtub with someone they almost sure like you just a little bit.
@edwarddodge79373 жыл бұрын
@@katiezharova2423 HEY NOW!
@celloafterdark41735 жыл бұрын
Sees title: “Dr. Grande, are you hitting on me??” 😂😂😂
@AStarryEyedLife5 жыл бұрын
CelloAfterDark 😂😂
@misse71545 жыл бұрын
LOL! You won the internet today.
@celloafterdark41735 жыл бұрын
The quote is the thought I had after reading the title :)
@celloafterdark41735 жыл бұрын
The joke is that I’m narcissistic enough that just reading the title made me think it was about me... haha nothing like an over-explained joke to take the humor out of it- no judgement, it doesn’t always come through in text :)
@twiggy14155 жыл бұрын
@@chrisneedham5803 I was lost too. I thought CelloAfterDark meant that now we have heard Dr Grandes thoughts on attraction that people would now know when he was hitting on them... It is quite a funny joke tho lol 😂🤣😂
@sammysoppy33614 жыл бұрын
How to tell if someone is attracted to you? Step 1: be attractive Thanks for this groundbreaking piece of info 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@trucid24 жыл бұрын
1. Be attractive 2. Don't be unattractive
@BrisLS14 жыл бұрын
He wasn't trying to tell you how to MAKE attraction happen, only, how to diagnose that it is happening, right?
@nancyayers63554 жыл бұрын
Lol! God will find a way for two people who are meant to be together to meet each other! Never doubt. Several years ago, a certain man entered the room I was in. He saw me and nearly tripped and fell! I couldn't believe anyone could be more attractive - so it was "love (and real love) - at first sight!!" Circumstances, however, made this love verboten! I definitely believe we are soulmates, and somehow, some time, we will meet again and be able to be together!
@trucid24 жыл бұрын
@John Ratican I had to unsubscribe. He's way too boring.
@unoriginalyoutubename87614 жыл бұрын
@John Ratican water isn't wet.
@umeng20024 жыл бұрын
So a restraining order isn't just playing hard to get 😂
@Daytruin4 жыл бұрын
Restraining order is basically consent
@dianedurham24984 жыл бұрын
Hilarious!!
@fatboymig14 жыл бұрын
😂😂🤣🤣
@echase4164 жыл бұрын
Gotta love Erotomania!
@5668i63 жыл бұрын
Lol!! That was awesome..
@alldayeveryday20able3 жыл бұрын
In 7th grade, I had a classmate with really bad acne and I was staring at it one day. About 15 years later, I ran into him and he asked me, remember when u had a crush on me? I was baffled and asked him what he meant. He said, you used to stare at me a lot. I just left it at that. No need to bring up his acne
@ivanaandric46683 жыл бұрын
That's why he needs to wach this video and you need to understand it better. Number 1.sign someone is attracted to you - You are attracitve!
@shadrach62993 жыл бұрын
I felt so sorry for kids with acne.
@leoaujero44243 жыл бұрын
this comment. LOLOL I kinda love this XD "I just left it at that"
@leoaujero44243 жыл бұрын
@@shadrach6299 yeah... it really does suck. but the friends who cared didn't care
@Mondamu3 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂 you legend!!!
@annm.43535 жыл бұрын
“They should be called 12 made up signs...” 😂 Dr. Grande’s deadpan low key throwdowns give me liiife
@fliz4b5 жыл бұрын
Well said!
@kevinc7214 жыл бұрын
David C 😂😂😂
@dianeparr24834 жыл бұрын
Oh boy. Ive been told I don't pick up on signs at all. By more than one person. Like I didn't pick up on Dr. Grandes "low key" humor. But I'm intuitive. And have an IQ of 135. I promise. 😱
@Lillyofthevalley2223 жыл бұрын
That was so funny!!!
@xonia13 жыл бұрын
😂 I love his dry shade
@kunstwert4 жыл бұрын
I really hope person A gets person B and the marry and have a lot of kids and name them kid C, kid D and kid E
@Hephzibah6244 жыл бұрын
🤣
@silentgrove76703 жыл бұрын
They might get a dog F. Sadly five years later person A is feeling neglected and person G at the office notices how sad they are. It gets complicated now.
@yungdre5103 жыл бұрын
Then comes the ex and F's u up like a G
@sinjekampman23933 жыл бұрын
😂😂
@Vixinaful3 жыл бұрын
Hahahaha! You made my day!
@julissa67154 жыл бұрын
I love how honest this guy is.
@stantheman30152 жыл бұрын
which means you need therapy.
@jenniferbourgeau492 жыл бұрын
Me too💕
@wheresthelambsauce82732 жыл бұрын
He really tells it like it is
@anteandrovic Жыл бұрын
thats attractive to
@janakakumara38364 жыл бұрын
Dr Todd, You really need to make a merch t-shirt with "Person A and Person B"
@babblingalong76894 жыл бұрын
Would buy & wear that. Great idea.
@alexeysamokhin96294 жыл бұрын
“Organism A and Organism B”
@Maribel1998_4 жыл бұрын
That could be interesting. Hysterical.... Janaka you write it, I'll design , and we can walk it by Dr. Grande 😊
@alexeysamokhin96294 жыл бұрын
Pord Lartsa it could be even more politically correct to refer to someone involved as “organism” not “person”, because using the word “person” might be offensive for some people who don’t identify themselves with “persons”.
@dingo1374 жыл бұрын
Person A and person B seems a little bit... impersonal. I always liked cryptography's use of Alice and Bob. With the ever present eavesdropper, Eve.
@charlottemarx88454 жыл бұрын
Possible signs: 1. Physical attractiveness. 2. Volume and content of conversation (Personal information) 3. Somebody says they are attracted they say they are single, they compare you to an celebrizy, person they like 4. Laughing and smiling, forward body leaning, touch 5. Longer eye contact than normal, somebody is looking at your face when you are looking away.
@daniellee17223 жыл бұрын
#5 is such a good feeling. Sending my heart aflutter lol
@dj-dq4lr3 жыл бұрын
Thank you for list
@splitraven70603 жыл бұрын
Be great at tennis and riding horses.
@mywifesboyfriend57413 жыл бұрын
6. She leans in close and says, "Hey, can you introduce me to your cute friend?"
@kemeee54073 жыл бұрын
@@daniellee1722 Any of these would re-awaken my dead soul.
@7151014 жыл бұрын
Sometimes I can work out a women "was" interested in me once I begin to receive the cold shoulder after they've given up
@88darling884 жыл бұрын
:(
@thesurvivorssanctuary65614 жыл бұрын
Yes. Life would be easier if we all just said what we want.
@kimberlypittman97544 жыл бұрын
That's usually when I catch on also
@lynnv85013 жыл бұрын
Have you been giving my ex boyfriend advice?
@Shush3793 жыл бұрын
😂
@BarriosGroupie4 жыл бұрын
When I'm attracted to someone, I can't help smiling and there's nothing I can do about it -- very embarrassing. I can see why some people defensively pretend to hate someone they're attracted to out of fear of rejection.
@diane92473 жыл бұрын
Yeah, that's where my lifelong Resting Bitch Face (RBF) always came in handy. 😒
@Xannah3 жыл бұрын
I always smile like an Idiot too. I think its really cute tho :)
@vassilopoula Жыл бұрын
@@Xannah me too, haha 🍄🙂
@SirenaSpades Жыл бұрын
I've always been completely blank faced :/ at all times really. So much for expensive dental work.
@AA-uu9ik4 жыл бұрын
It’s weird because I laugh at my own jokes so I’m not sure if this means I have a crush on myself. I’m so confused
@jakeforrest4 жыл бұрын
I usually laugh at my own jokes, to let people know when the point has come. Considerate, huh?
@SHEMOZZLED4 жыл бұрын
Haha I laughed so hard at this....wait, am I attracted to you?!?!
@MisticStyles4 жыл бұрын
One way to know you're attracted to yourself: - You masturbate a lot One way to know you're not attracted to yourself: - You masturbate a lot.
@AA-uu9ik4 жыл бұрын
D T so true!
@dangelopaine74904 жыл бұрын
Oh you laugh at your own jokes you have narcissistic personality disorder
@lma68084 жыл бұрын
Recieving compliments about being pretty because someone can tell you put a lot of time into your aesthetics is also not always flirtation. It's just appreciation.
@101taiga5 жыл бұрын
It’s clear to me now that I really love my dog! She makes me smile and laugh out loud at her shenanigans, she loves to snuggle, and I’m very concerned that she is as happy and comfortable as possible. She makes serious eye contact while wagging her tail and smiling at me, which delights me to no end. Sure, it’s her dinner time and she knows how to play me, but who cares? She’s adorable all the way around, even when she snores, snorts, and farts in the middle of the night!! 🥰🐕
@Contessa9985 жыл бұрын
AMEN! Dogs rule ❤️💜
@imalwaysme43325 жыл бұрын
Awwww, love the doggies of the world!
@Guppyg535 жыл бұрын
My doggy stares at me too. Usually it means she wants something like playtime and pettin's
@laurae83245 жыл бұрын
Yes! When my dog does something wrong , like eat a bag of treats from a counter surfing event, she smiles to remind me that she loves me. It’s actually a scary looking grimace but to me it’s beautiful. She also follows me to the bathroom. She likes to take me for walks and she protects me from the neighbors’ ankle biters. In other words, dogs are better at relationships.
@Guppyg535 жыл бұрын
@@laurae8324 then "grimace" that dogs do when they know they have been bad actually means that they are scared, and are trying to appease you. They are trying to show that they are submissive to you. Chances are, your dog will also have wide eyes and be turning their head away or bowing it to the ground while grimacing
@walkon45913 жыл бұрын
I'm going to be very honest, here: My husband is not classically attractive. I was, in fact, shocked that he had the temerity to come onto me. But he is a highly amusing, sweet, good-natured person. Everyone adores him. We've almost been married for 2 decades. Previous marriage was abusive, and I think that played a significant part, re:That I fell for him...hard. Love that man!!
@Sepear3052 жыл бұрын
Do you mind if I ask if you're attracted to him? Anyway congratulations on your marriage and sounds like he's a great guy and a big improvement!
@leaguetomylegends2 жыл бұрын
Terrible.
@Jdonovan2 Жыл бұрын
You flatter yourself too much
@vassilopoula Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I would slightly disagree on the 1st of Dr Todd's points. I am not attracted by objectively considered handsome men. I might flirt with them, but it is always someone's personality that makes me turn my eyes to him
@latinaalma1947 Жыл бұрын
@@vassilopoula Yes I do t trust uner attractive men my father was a player amd m9vie star good looki g Ronert Redford type witresses and women w.king intomstores would flirt with him ...women of all ages because he was a gentleman so I dont trust that level of attractiveness in men.
@Laudanum-gq3bl5 жыл бұрын
Hahaha! Dr. Grande, you’re so funny! *leans forward*
@soonsims4 жыл бұрын
Hahahah nice one 😁
@bananatim1784 жыл бұрын
That made me ugly snort
@emilyvonderhaar223 жыл бұрын
🤣🤣🤣
@DiscreteNature5 жыл бұрын
1. You are physically attractive (4:53) 2. They will talk to you about personal things and compare you to attractive people (5:35) 3. They will laugh at all of your jokes even if they're not funny. (6:39) 4. They try to be physically close to you or try to touch you (7:04) 5. Eye contact longer than usual (7:33)
@splitraven70603 жыл бұрын
Also, tennis and riding horses.
@barbamatteo2 жыл бұрын
All this bring to friendzone at his finest. This is my experience, when an adult and selfconcious woman is attracted she will clearly and gently show to you in a way that is impossible to avoid.
@richardlyman2961 Жыл бұрын
@@barbamatteoWhat if she’s like 15
@kathydove31482 жыл бұрын
Great video Dr. Grande 👍. As a single woman on the dating scene, I have to agree with your analysis. Eye contact, laughing, smiling and actually asking for a date are strong signs that someone is attracted to you. Sadly, the superficiality of all this will NOT lead to a fulfilling relationship because shared values and commitment are required to build lasting love 💘
@utubefreshie2 жыл бұрын
I was just about to say this!! I've met enough guys who are clearly attracted to me and say so. But values, commitment, consistency, stability and compatibility are harder qualities to find. And that is why Im still single. Sometimes it's also just timing and circumstance won't work out. Authentic long-term relationships are work. Physical attraction is only a small initial part of it and not even the main thing that'll keep you together. I've also had the experience of deciding not to be with a guy because I wasn't all that physically attracted to them or I didn't feel like I had chemistry with them, only to realize later they were the better person for me.
@Sona77.2 жыл бұрын
Very true!
@joseantoniomoch40062 жыл бұрын
Those despicable, base men in all likelihood want you to support them, take possession of your house or condo; be the main beneficiaries of your will!!!
@joseantoniomoch40062 жыл бұрын
@@utubefreshie if you have plenty of money, that helps.
@utubefreshie2 жыл бұрын
@@joseantoniomoch4006 Lol. Uh...that's even a bigger turnoff. A guy who's with you for money. I would never choose to be or stay with someone like that. Would rather stay single!
@taraswertelecki78745 жыл бұрын
One of the takeaways for me here is the importance of getting to know someone well enough to see what is normal for someone, before expressing interest in him, or her.
@_chew_5 жыл бұрын
Besides being able to tell if someone is attracted to you, getting to know someone is also important for knowing if you are really attracted to them. Lots of people look good, but that doesn't mean they're worth having relationship with.
@aliyavisuals_4 жыл бұрын
Factors: 1. Sensitivity to Stimuli 2. Context 3. Baseline Behaviors 4. Reciprocity Signs: 1. Physical attractiveness 2. Volume & content of conversation 3. Laughs/ smiles at you 4. Physical contact 5. Eye contact
@cd65814 жыл бұрын
tytytyty
@burgundyjayde Жыл бұрын
I can not give him eye contact but damn I am attracted to him..
@popokidoki97473 жыл бұрын
My cat's name is "Person-B" and I often find him staring at me! I must be attractive!
@Nan-Elle3 жыл бұрын
My indoor cat is always at the window staring at birds and rabbits. He finds them extremely attractive, I guess.
@susanurban59203 жыл бұрын
My cat stalks me through the house and waits for the right moment to jump out and attack and bite my ankle. Then she trills me and takes off running through the house like a racehorse.
@wmluna3813 жыл бұрын
I have been accused of flirting so many times when I was absolutely not trying to do that. Sometimes just being an active, personable data-centered listener can get you in situations you don't want to be in.
@Teilnehmer3 жыл бұрын
Why is that an accusation? Flirting in itself is nothing bad, however it is a hurtful behavior to most if done with ulterior motives or from people who are just flirting for fun. This channel has lots of videos about the widespread issues of dark triad personality disorders and other malignant behaviors. Do you think that flirting is somehow a safe space from malignant people? That all malignant people magically don't enter the flirting space? Of course not, and lots of people come across malignant people who abuse flirting in their lifetime, so that's where the hurt comes from and why people tend to react badly to unintentional flirting behavior. If people repeatedly get the wrong impression about your behavior maybe it's time to consider being more mindful of your social environment to avoid causing unnecessary pain? You are free to act in any way you want but that also comes with the responsibility to accept other peoples' reaction towards you. If you want total freedom for your own behavior maybe you should also give the same privilege to others?
@wmluna3813 жыл бұрын
@@Teilnehmer Maybe using the word "accused" is too heavy of a triggering descriptor for you. For me it's more so people thinking I am into them or others overhearing my interactions with individuals of the opposite sex and making assumptions that I am into the person I am speaking with. It's simply that I am an active listener in the How To Win Friends & Influence People sense and I am very much into soaking up information that may provide additional insight into social behaviors or new knowledge that may serve me in some way. And I am generally smiling while engaged. Example: The executive assistant to the CEO at a company I worked at years ago was apparently in earshot of my near daily interactions with the DHL guy. To me I am just having normal human conversations with this dude. One day she literally gifts me with a shirt she came across at a garage sale that said 'Flirtologist'. 😂 I guess I am that good at it and don't even know it. I am an ENTP and have come to find out along the way this is not an unusual 'accusation' for our type.
@maidmarion29763 жыл бұрын
Yep it’s when they can’t wait to use the phrase my wife. You think What? And you believe I would go with you? They don’t even stop to wonder if you have a partner.
@maidmarion29763 жыл бұрын
@@wmluna381 it’s more that you believe that you are having an intelligent conversation about something and they think it’s you drubbing on about anything just for the privilege of being with them
@wmluna3813 жыл бұрын
@@maidmarion2976 I know! So much ego in those instances, it's laughable.
@daniellee17223 жыл бұрын
Best feeling in the world: she's with her friends and they all smile and glance your way. When her friends turn away she's still looking at you
@mywifesboyfriend57413 жыл бұрын
Then she asks if you've heard the good news of Jesus Christ..
@johnjr70703 жыл бұрын
That's a stalker right there, run!!
@Yukai-ep2dv2 жыл бұрын
And she is 13 years old. 😂
@mrsrae33884 жыл бұрын
Funny. My husband has told me that other men think I “like” them because I look them in the eye when they’re talking. That seems so strange to me. I had been raised to pay attention to others and look them in the eyes out of respect and politeness. I hate it when I talk to people who look away or even worse, look at other “body parts” as we’re conversing. That’s creepy!
@ivanaandric46683 жыл бұрын
You're husbund is just jelous! You are normal and you are right!
@jlo13723 жыл бұрын
Totallt agree. My dad thought me that. Always look people in the eye. Be genuine
@jlo13723 жыл бұрын
Taught*
@1mexfighter3 жыл бұрын
When I look to a body part like cleavage , I am trying to send a Signal. Am I wrong?
@ToyDirigible3 жыл бұрын
I just stare directly at every woman's hooters when I talk to them. Power move.
@ZipchesterVT4 жыл бұрын
Me: Hi, how are you? Her: Fine, how are you? Me: Fine, how are you? Her: *blank stare* Me: *walks away quietly*
@TeamDazu3 жыл бұрын
😭😭😂
@twomindz794 жыл бұрын
"You know that look a girl gives you when she's really into you?" "No. Me neither" Steve Martin.
@QuidamByMoonlight3 жыл бұрын
Steve Martin is the best! Loved his autobiography, Born Standing Up!
@twomindz793 жыл бұрын
@@QuidamByMoonlight I never read it but I loved that quote .
@SpiritDragon8884 жыл бұрын
Dr. Todd dry humor on any of his videos is my favorite🤣
@Nan-Elle3 жыл бұрын
I always think of this scenario: Mrs. Grande gets really aggravated about something and spouts off. Dr. Grande: "I noticed that you are having some deep feelings about how I leave my shoes all over the place, and leave the bathroom like a cyclone hit it with towels dangling and the tub not rinsed out. Would you like to talk about a possible solution?"
@Desertphile5 жыл бұрын
"Eye contact?" BUT I'M AUTISTIC! Thank you, Charles Darwin. I only know if a woman is interested in me when she flat out states so.
@lewischampion30505 жыл бұрын
Exactly what I was thinking, even when I try it’s like looking at myself in the third person, prior to a complete blank /whiteout
@_chew_5 жыл бұрын
Even then, she could be lying or saying it as a joke. I just assume nobody is ever interested in me, and I'm never disappointed.
@Grandmaster-Kush4 жыл бұрын
I'm not autistic, but I find it feels wierd to maintain eye contact when I am not explaining something directly to someone, feel you there brother!
@lisasmith5164 жыл бұрын
Server error 404, wouldn't allow me to edit to add or correct my comment.
@klattalexis4 жыл бұрын
But even then they could be lying!
@elizabethwilliamson73734 жыл бұрын
The law of attraction, opposites attract but don't last is one. Another is we have real chemistry together. A person that laughs at your jokes. Eye contact is a subtle attraction. Longer the better. My field is psychology and I can relate to your podcast. Thanks for your channel Dr. Grande.
@jkg20884 жыл бұрын
Maybe this happens: Introverts become extroverted when interacting with crush. Extroverts become introverted when around crush. How often is the body language mirrored?
@cathrine11515 жыл бұрын
I’m secretly attracted to Dr. Todd Grande 🥰
@cathrine11514 жыл бұрын
Equillizer Armtwister que?
@cathrine11514 жыл бұрын
Why o Why Damn!
@latrellsprewell6534 жыл бұрын
Me too..and I’m not even gay.🤪
@cathrine11514 жыл бұрын
jshowa o how so?
@cathrine11514 жыл бұрын
Michael Graham dont worry 😅
@evoz44894 жыл бұрын
Deliberate avoidance of eye contact could also be a sign, especially if the person has no problem looking in the eyes of others. Lack of eye contact is indicative of hiding something...such as a shy person or a person who doesn't have a strong sense of self worth. Going through this dynamic presently with someone.
@barbamatteo2 жыл бұрын
Or is disturbed and eye contact with you make him mad.
@RamonaSalaru2 жыл бұрын
...or has bad vision, crossed eyes, etc.
@tomokokotaka17362 жыл бұрын
Oh my goodness yes! I'm funny AF. Unless I like you. Then I'm just awkward and can barely look at you.
@WH20122 жыл бұрын
@@tomokokotaka1736 LOL!
@laurieparis22032 жыл бұрын
Actually when i first meet someone I'm romantically attracted to, I literally can't look at them when they are talking to me for more than a few seconds. But I steal glances of them when they're not looking, for the rush. Otherwise I feel like I'm going to swoon. 😂 I can't really look at them full in until I know them better. Thankfully this sort of attraction rarely happens.
@ShaleyJean2 жыл бұрын
I totally missed it when my husband began showing romantic interest in me due to having self esteem somewhere in the gutter. That was 42 years ago and this is our 40th year of marriage!
@Ma2rten5 жыл бұрын
You should have called this video something like "5 Not Made Up Signs Someone is Attracted to You"
@andreasleonlandgren30925 жыл бұрын
Maarten Bosma haha right on! The end all video on the subject. With many shitty preceeding ones🦁
@daryljonesfoster41025 жыл бұрын
@@andreasleonlandgren3092 you just gave me a brain aneurysm as I attempted ( I failed to comprehend hence the brain aneurysm) to read that pig Latin
@oeridian4 жыл бұрын
@@daryljonesfoster4102 I had no trouble understanding it. "The end all video on the subject" means that this video ends all discussion or controversy (look up the idiom "end all be all"). "With many shitty preceding ones" means that many bad videos on this topic came before this one.
@daryljonesfoster41024 жыл бұрын
@@oeridian how about you learn how to spell and form a proper sentence before speaking to a grown boy ?
@oeridian4 жыл бұрын
@@daryljonesfoster4102 What did I misspell?
@alamadakaratihy93124 жыл бұрын
"The number one sign that someone would find you attractive is if you're attractive." Dr. Todd
@joeshmoe79674 жыл бұрын
And so many many will be attracted to you, because you are very attractive. So am I..... too a blind women...or if you like a guy who can pull off the aging rock star look...it helps that I have all my hair. Seriously you are very nice looking. No offence intended. Cheers
@julifunnygirl713 жыл бұрын
Dr. Todd AKA Captain Obvious...
@andreawoodhouse49083 жыл бұрын
Is it weird that I lighted on this post at the precise moment that Dr G was actually saying it in the vid?!!
@lisafanucchi59394 жыл бұрын
I’m at the point in life I don’t care about this anymore lol.
@danielkyavata62333 жыл бұрын
Freedom is power.
@danielkyavata62333 жыл бұрын
@Mary Carroll Well we care about you. Anyway it's all about picking important things to care about.
@abundantlyhealthyforever14193 жыл бұрын
Me too. Have a great husband, am blessed.
@lindafeldman85873 жыл бұрын
That's what I thought as well. But, guess what?! A new crush reared its nasty head. Major problem is that I am at least 12 years older than him. If a guy is older, no problem. Not the other way around though. It sux!
@MorningStar-nd3yg3 жыл бұрын
@@lindafeldman8587 Go for it
@johnparadise31345 жыл бұрын
4:53 “The number one sign that person B would find person A attractive would be that if person A was physically attractive! “
@zakihidayat4683 жыл бұрын
Mindblowing!
@johnparadise31343 жыл бұрын
@@zakihidayat468 LOL Yes! Who would’ve guessed!
@mariah030163 жыл бұрын
Groundbreaking! 😂🤣
@johnparadise31343 жыл бұрын
@@mariah03016 😂 😆 😝 Like, how did they figure that one out!?
@aroojaziz3 жыл бұрын
Men love via eyes & Women love via ears
@timona.39304 жыл бұрын
If it ever happens that I meet Dr. Grande in person, I will unquestionably be manifesting every one of those signs (and then some...).
@Sally1504 жыл бұрын
I would like to see Dr. Grande analyze Dr. Grande.
@thesurvivorssanctuary65614 жыл бұрын
My best advice in finding out if your crush likes you...is to go talk to them. I'm the last person who should be stating the obvious, because I avoided people like a pandemic survivor *BEFORE* the pandemic; But after years of isolation and deep thought, I just gotta say: "JUST DO IT!" Go talk to your crush, and if you get rejected; then take heart from the fact that you showed enough courage to put yourself out there. That courage will make the next time easier.
@Megdracula Жыл бұрын
What if they are fobidden.
@ArtTasticCreations4 жыл бұрын
Slowly but surely this channel is teaching me that most people are repulsed by me, disgusted by me, and no one finds me attractive. :( I appreciate the intervention. I shall have to have some deep reflection and continue to hide from all humanity until I can function somewhat normal. 🤔
@1mexfighter3 жыл бұрын
Dont Be to hard on you
@Vashtibucket3 жыл бұрын
I’m someone who’s easily amused and I tend to laugh at things no one else finds funny so I now understand why I’ve kept having to fend off romantic suitors. I’m also positive and friendly which people tend to perceive as interest. Guess I’ll just have to learn to suppress my laughter and be less amiable.
@Mouse_0073 жыл бұрын
well , those qualities are just attractive qualities and they will serve you well throughout your life. Don't let the thought of having to say "sorry not interested" stop you from smiling and laughing. One of the things I have loved about myself most of all is that I'm easily amused and laugh easily ( even sometimes when inappropriate, lol).
@Shivxngee3 жыл бұрын
NOO u continue being this vibrant, pls
@DarkKnight-yz2wg3 жыл бұрын
Or get in a horrifying accident that leaves you disfigured. Then it won’t matter how positive your attitude is. Bet that.
@WH20122 жыл бұрын
@@Mouse_007 🎯
@mamashanshan27724 жыл бұрын
When someone says they’re attracted to you, and you’ve made it clear from the get go you don’t want any relationship, thats a very clear sign.
@robmangeri7775 жыл бұрын
Turns out my wife and I are attracted to each other. I’ll have to let her in on that later 😎
@milk96135 жыл бұрын
ALPHA BOIIIII!!!!
@hopefullyanonymous34664 жыл бұрын
Tom these are the facts. Sad that it will fall on the deaf
@kevinbaconwasntinfootloose17424 жыл бұрын
I'd let her figure it out on her own. she might hold it against you.
@robmangeri7774 жыл бұрын
We have 6 kids together and we got married when we were both dirt poor. If she’s in it for the money then God bless her for sticking around long enough to get it 😎
@hopefullyanonymous34664 жыл бұрын
Rob Mangeri ahh the blue pilled days...
@rochelleshon3064 жыл бұрын
I have been secretly attracted to Dr. G. He becomes more and more attractive with each video I watch. Now that my secret is out, I’ll turn on the notifications so I don’t miss any of his amazing content. 😘 😊 By the way, I’m a happily married woman who’s husband also likes the channel but doesn’t find Dr G attractive 😂
@ktpuss4 жыл бұрын
Haha, same here!! (except I’m not married though....oops, I mentioned I’m single, doh) 😄
@ladybaabaa32943 жыл бұрын
What the hell is wrong with your husband!? 😂😂😂
@JOY-ye2us3 жыл бұрын
I’m attracted to Dr Grande too, and I’m single and maybe his age! (Don’t tell him)💗💗💗💗
@racheldass90433 жыл бұрын
ACTUALLY HE IS VERY VERY ATTRACTIVE
@rochelleshon3063 жыл бұрын
@@ladybaabaa3294 I don’t know what the hell is wrong with him, I gave up trying to figure him out, he’s just weird is all I can say 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@dansmith4874 жыл бұрын
My neighbour fancies me and it's getting creepy. I used to smile and laugh while chatting to him, but that's before I realised he was attracted to me. So I disagree that smiling and laughing could mean I am attracted to someone, it's just politeness. However, I avoid him like the plague now, it's very awkward.
@chrysalis723 жыл бұрын
Yep, had the same experience. This happens to me all the time, especially if theyre really ugly, older than me and into football.
@shawnaweesner37593 жыл бұрын
👍🇺🇸
@beautifulsoul40113 жыл бұрын
Narcissist neighbor !
@doomerbloomer61603 жыл бұрын
It's about baseline behavior. If someone is always laughing at everything, then if they laugh at your jokes it doesn't mean they're attracted to you. If they never laugh, however, but then laugh at all your jokes, that's a good indicator.
@JD-bk6wj Жыл бұрын
That is awkward and creepy.
@katemaloney42964 жыл бұрын
Being in customer service, I get "I'm attracted to you" A LOT. I get more phone numbers and invitations to go out on dates than you could ever imagine. I've had marriage proposals and offers to give me whatever I want--if I just ask for it. Honestly, I'm not interested in any of it. I know better than anyone the real person I am inside and that nice person, the helpful employee, is because I'm on the clock. I have no desire to date, see someone, be taken care of, or spend my life with anyone. I am content where I am in my life. And even if I did want to date, I can't. I took a vow of celibacy.
@lynnv85014 жыл бұрын
I was once in a customer service job for almost 6 years. It felt very insincere to me to have to be smiling, positive, helpful, chatty, etc when inside I wanted nothing of that. I'm an introvert. I quit after realizing this forced dichotomy was negatively affecting my health.
@FeterPrahm2 жыл бұрын
women have it so easy
@jacques82905 жыл бұрын
If they sleep with you might also be a sign.
@peggygenoway5 жыл бұрын
Definitely not.
@sarahsmiths5505 жыл бұрын
Lol 😂
@Hybrid_Pisces5 жыл бұрын
**might
@theblueclue38435 жыл бұрын
hmmm you really can’t be sure, they could just be nice
@fairlind5 жыл бұрын
TheBlueClue Or opportunistic.
@ENFPerspectives4 жыл бұрын
1. Physical attractiveness 2. Volume and Content of conversation (mentions relationship staus; you remind them of someone else who's attractive) 3. Laughing at jokes, smiling 4. Moving close, forward body leaning, physical touch. 5. Holding eye contact longer than normal.
@sal29753 жыл бұрын
"The number one sign that person B would be attracted to person A would be...if person A was physically attractive." Well that was pretty straightforward. Lol
@erust94654 жыл бұрын
Hi Dr Grande. I’m sure you know everyone was gonna watch this video...LOL! I never considered that there was a scientific aspect to attraction, even though it IS part of the human condition. In my opinion, at least back when I was single and dating, the biggest sign was prolonged eye contact while smiling, not on my part, on the guy’s part. Problem for me was I couldn’t see a damn thing without my glasses on, and I NEVER wore them when I was out! You know, my insecurities about having glasses on! I memorized my way to the bar and the bathroom, the important stuff! LOL! So a guy had to be in my face for me to see he was attracted to me! I’ve heard that women tend to play with their hair when talking to a person they’re attracted to. Whatever it is that two people do, I feel it’s they way that person makes you FEEL when first engaging in conversation that’s a dead giveaway to if they’re attracted to you or not. So just to amuse you, the night I met my husband he was performing at a club, he’s a musician and was touring at the time. He had no shortage of girls hitting on him because of that. He could tell I had no idea who he was, and was really glad I didn’t. He could tell I really liked him, not the guitar singer guy! Remember, I’m the girl who never wore her glasses so the band I’d go to see, I really DIDN’T see LOL. After about 2 hours of blabbing, I finally asked him what he did for a living. He said “I’m a musician” I said, “ Really? What band are you in?” He replied with a smirk...”The one you saw tonight” ! LMAO! I guess all the years of stumbling around the clubs worked in my favor, it’s almost 30yrs later and we still crack up at that. Now that I got Lasik I bet it be a whole lot harder to navigate the dating scene! LOL! Thanks as always for your hard work! This video was extra fun!
@athalal.ghufaily72753 жыл бұрын
When I'm attracted to someone, I pretend they don't exist.
@pinkdinromania5 жыл бұрын
"they should be called 12 MADE UP signs" I'M DEAD LMAO!!!
@kenneth62114 жыл бұрын
I used to love a narcissist, it drove me crazy with a full tank of gasoline. I crashed, and learned to LOVE MYSELF like a narcissist. Exercise, healthy eating, fulfillment in hobbies, and focus on my own business. I stopped caring what anyone thinks about me and learned to be happy with myself. I go out to enjoy the fruits of my own labor, women smell confidence and I notice eyes in my direction. I don’t need the validation of someone else to feel good, and people seem to be attracted to that.
@vkrgfan3 жыл бұрын
@Mary Carroll Being religious doesn’t help to leave abusive relationship. Narcissists can use all kinds of tricks and use the scripture against their spouse. When I took the abuse study and training, our instructor shared her own story of abusive relationship. She was married to a pastor who is a Narcissist, he did everything possible to make her dependant on him used the scripture against her and manipulated their child against her. So I would say being an atheist is a safe choice. Unfortunately men can’t walk on water.
@Mauve222M5 жыл бұрын
Great video as always! Can you make a video about child grooming and how online predators such as youtubers can show red flags of predatory (pedophile) behavior? I believe it’s very important to spread awareness on this topic with KZbin having such a large impressionable young audience. Thank you!
@missreem20985 жыл бұрын
I hope he does make a video on this. Awesome idea.
@Lauren-vd4qe4 жыл бұрын
collaborate with chris hanson perp hunter...
@mywifesboyfriend57413 жыл бұрын
Have a seat over there and we'll begin.
@Herfinnur4 жыл бұрын
Listening to the list of actual signs just gave me so much remorse! It's definitely the case, I think, that if you are romantically attracted to someone as opposed to just sexually, you will be much more likely to brush away even clear signs that the person is attracted to you, especially if you already have a friendship that you could ruin.
@artisticautistic96643 жыл бұрын
"If someone says they're attracted to you, that's a good sign." Really? Lol
@showkitties38445 жыл бұрын
Really love hearing your assessments of different topics and on different people. No drama, name calling, or any of the things that make it so difficult to actually base an informed opinion on. Thank you for your knowledge & videos! Hope you’ve had a great weekend!
@Dwightstjohn-fo8ki4 жыл бұрын
yah, pretty refreshing in this day and age, eh/?
@Juliet_Capulet4 жыл бұрын
What about nervousness? When I've been very attracted to a guy I tended to stumble over my words a little.
@thesurvivorssanctuary65614 жыл бұрын
Well, some of us just always stumble over our words, so it's not the most reliable sign.
@Juliet_Capulet4 жыл бұрын
@@thesurvivorssanctuary6561 "Some of us have a way with words. Others oh no have way. " - Steve Martin
@kmhorrorbiz87063 жыл бұрын
That's okay. I tend to shake as if stricken with some sort of palsy and loudly break wind any time I'm on a date. When it happens (typically every five minutes or so), I just scream, "DON'T LOOK AT ME!!!!" If I'm particularly flatulent, I follow the scream with a coquettish giggle ("tee-hee-hee!"). Give it a try. You'll be pleasantly surprised by the results.
@MrLarrySunshine3 жыл бұрын
@@kmhorrorbiz8706 😂😂😂😂😂 Thank You for this! I really elled-oh-ell at your helpful tips! 😂😂😂😂😂
@weiirdOzdotFU3 жыл бұрын
a lot of people do poorly in social situations and may seem nervous, it's not a good indicator
@feeltheillinois3 жыл бұрын
"somebody's just having a good day" LOL
@leoefabricia5 жыл бұрын
You are awesome! I like you doctor Grande. In a respectful way. You are unique! Very intelligent and sensitive.
@jonhallberg83344 жыл бұрын
You are as subtle as a train wreak.
@josephmueller37523 жыл бұрын
"In a redpectful way." Lol friendzoned
@jimmyrodasmolestina9793 жыл бұрын
You have a beautiful ❤️ name !! Where are you from
@cindyrhodes4 жыл бұрын
OMG Thank you SO much for emphasizing the element of PERSONALITY! I wish every person could hear this.
@liana_9513 жыл бұрын
Cindy???? He didn’t?? He said physical attractiveness matters way more than anything else???
@vince773511 ай бұрын
@@liana_951 Why all the ????? See 5:34 where Dr Grande addresses personality.
@paradiseplayer51033 жыл бұрын
This is the first video of yours that I have come across and I am in major admiration of your ability to cut straight through the nonsense and deliver evidence-backed information. Thank you.
@romans52345-cy3tq4 жыл бұрын
When you have to ask the signs, chances are they are NOT attracted to you
@yokatta-f5 жыл бұрын
Number one: That person might be a narcissist
@NobleNemesis5 жыл бұрын
Lol, I feel that
@Mijn245 жыл бұрын
lol true
@sarahvand36285 жыл бұрын
😅😅
@Beowulf-wt3kb5 жыл бұрын
Yeah, the narc that I thought loved me and gave me all the signs of a traction. Fucking destroyed my life and shattered my heart. Now I don’t trust any signs of attraction and I don’t even recognize them anymore
@fairlind5 жыл бұрын
B. Wolfe Before you can learn to trust again, you must learn to recognize destructive relationships and to walk away from them.
@user-ru6mq5sc5n3 жыл бұрын
Laughing and smiling absolutely ( with out a stupid mask). Yes eye contact also. These apply to anyone you like, not just in a romantic way.
@celestecelestial905 жыл бұрын
I know someone who thinks everything is a sign someone is attracted to him, even after I told him I wasn’t attracted to him twice he proceeded to ask me to dinner 🥘🙄. That was a sign for me to end the conversation. 😂😅
@celestecelestial905 жыл бұрын
CC C believe it or not, the man is in a relationship and has a newborn with his third baby mama, and still tried to get me to date him or whatever. He’s such a joke. 🙄😅I feel bad for his kids to get stuck with a dad like him.
@milk96135 жыл бұрын
Celeste Celestial A man like him is the reason why humans lasted for so long throughout the ages.
@Amalgafiend4 жыл бұрын
He asked you out. So?
@celestecelestial904 жыл бұрын
Drew Zi he asked me out on a date, told me that he still wondered about us becoming a couple while he was engaged, had a 1 month old baby and he got married 2 months after the fact. It grossed me out because he was trying to cheat on his fiancée who had just given birth! I’d be horrified if I was in her shoes. At the least he wanted me to be his side chick or one of his side chicks. I have morals, plus he’s ugly and smells bad, so it was out of the question! 😅😂🤣
@Amalgafiend4 жыл бұрын
Celeste Celestial wow, so only pretty people deserve your attention? I don't think being ugly is a mark against someone. Or do you mean you didn't find him attractive? I also don't think polyamory is immoral. What is immoral is lying and cheating: which I applaud your aversion to.
@ReachSkyla4 жыл бұрын
I think be attractive might also just mean Look put together. You gotta work with what you got. So its important to flatter your best assets. Wash. Comb your hair. Put on well fitting clothes. Smell nice. And you're instantly more attractive then you were before.
@TentinQuarantino_2 жыл бұрын
I had a guy who did the following: 1. Pupils popped wide open when he first saw me in street clothes (not in uniform) and his mouth fell open 2. Began softening his tone of voice when speaking to me 3. Began pouring some of his beer into my glass when mine ran low 4. Began texting me occasionally 5. Shared personal info (including mentioning recent breakup twice) 6. Laughing, smiling, joking with me Then I invited him to dinner and he ran for the goddamn hills. 🤷🏽♀️
@peggygenoway5 жыл бұрын
That word "evidence" is so important.
@blorkpovud15765 жыл бұрын
Oh god tell me about it.
@AmyLynnBurch5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for this! The next time one of my friends starts quoting to me yet another dating and attraction "article" from Cosmopolitan magazine, I'm showing them this video. I swear, ladies. Get it together! 🤦🏻♀️😎
@Desertphile5 жыл бұрын
If women were paid equally then they would have less chronic economic problems after a divorce. In fact, if women were paid equally, they would not need to get married at all.
@moon-and-star5 жыл бұрын
@@Desertphile What does this have to do with the initial comment?
@LGDarksteed4 жыл бұрын
@@Desertphile Why would you want no one in your life? Money definitely isn't everything.
@mskatwilkins3 жыл бұрын
@@LGDarksteed sometimes one is just too tired to take care of looking out for the needs of another. When it is too difficult to summon the energy to do more than barely meet one's own needs, it is better to be alone than to love someone and not be able to care for them as much as they deserve.
@LGDarksteed3 жыл бұрын
@@mskatwilkins I think that's a cop out. What happens if your partner catches cancer and needs their partner for support? Would you just leave them? What if you yourself became injured or had an illness? Would you be ok with that person just leaving because they didn't have the energy anymore? Sometimes people just need to step up instead of stepping out.
@jeepgal7114 жыл бұрын
I really learn a lot from what you share. Thank you! Sadly what I learned was that I was, and I say was, attracted to narcissists because my parents were narcissists. I have realized my patterns and now listen to what people are saying, and listen to what they are not saying. I’ve also noticed that narcissists or some people use sexual energy to attract people. My experience has show me is that those types of people lack depth of character and empathy. These are only the people I have met. I do not judge an “everyone”.
@barrydee5874 жыл бұрын
She tells you your jokes are funny, she calls you Honey, then she reminds you that she is in it only for the money. And now your drinking all the time. Don't go looking for Trouble.
@duttydimples4 жыл бұрын
Mister Beef omg lolll
@doomerbloomer61603 жыл бұрын
@@jjm2948 how fucking cynical do you have to be lol
@LinhHueTran3 жыл бұрын
Dr. Grande out here being everyone's wing man. Giving top tier flirting and dating advice. Sir, you need to be dropping love songs next. Album to be expected.
@jclcrow26214 жыл бұрын
Best advice for guys, if you're in a group, be the quiet one. Not the edgy loner type, just wait for the "crab antics" to die down. Always best to be quiet and appear stupid than to open your mouth and remove all doubt, lol.
@mywifesboyfriend57413 жыл бұрын
That only works for attractive guys.
@doomerbloomer61603 жыл бұрын
@@mywifesboyfriend5741 No it doesn't, but go ahead and wallow in your self pity
@mywifesboyfriend57413 жыл бұрын
@@doomerbloomer6160 Sure it does. You just can't handle reality. That's fine for now, but eventually, you will have to grow up. Welcome to Hell. You earned it. No further replies will be seen or read. You lose.
@H0kram3 жыл бұрын
@@mywifesboyfriend5741 That sounds like something you told yourself a 100 times. He's right, no one likes self pity. It makes you an egocentric asshole who thinks his too smart to admit he has 0 social skills and no experience. There's no way to be extravert if you're not one, and extraverts usually wish they were less of a big mouth. Point is, everybody can be a bitching asshole on this planet, and trying to copy what you're not, is the actual hell you're talking about. So yea, no one so focused on their ego they think they live in hell because they can't talk to a girl, is gonna be of any interest for anyone.
@maple68943 жыл бұрын
@@mywifesboyfriend5741 "you lose" lmao like it's a win vs lose situation.
@rachelhendricks68864 жыл бұрын
Oh my gosh! Cool it with the direct eye contact, Dr. Grande 🤭!!! Teeheehee
@annlvselvis9725 жыл бұрын
Good point about physical attractiveness, if we are honest we are all attracted to beauty whether is art or a person, however I agree it may not be the foundation of a long term relationship assuming that is what you are looking for.
@christopherellis26634 жыл бұрын
I remember the first time that I laid eyes on her, we looked at each other in silence, it was as if time stood still.
@mywifesboyfriend57413 жыл бұрын
Then you realized she was a mannequin.
@shannane51714 жыл бұрын
Guy: "hi" Me: "KZbin searches signs he likes you" 😂
@deadcarnivora86484 жыл бұрын
I love this comment😭🤣😭😂
@terriensberg54875 жыл бұрын
Thank you for grounding this in science.
@number3stunner1184 жыл бұрын
"3 *edible* ways to know if he's into you" 1. He brings you chocolates 2. He invites you over to his place for dinner 3. He asks you to meet him at a restaurant (that serves food) and invites you to the backseat of his Volvo
@katriencornelis97304 жыл бұрын
I just loooooove your analytical approach.Considering baselines of human behaviour is something so many people don't even take into account. I've had many "false pings" while dancing at a party (not suggestively, just pure and unbridled joy :D), because that just makes me happy and joyful.SO many people interpret this as ..suggestive..or I don't know, having a certain meaning.It kind of pollutes my experience.
@kylenki5 жыл бұрын
I really appreciate your work. Never have I had the sense that you're only hypothesising from anecdotal life experiences. Your scientific rigor is attractive.
@electacute92544 жыл бұрын
This era of mask wearing is opening up a whole new realm social interaction. Not being able to see one's face is disconcerting. It's hard to tell if they are smiling, disgusted, puzzled, and a myriad other reactions to situations. If we thought communication was difficult before ..... now it's nearly impossible.
@AcolyteOfLucifer3 жыл бұрын
You still have vocal tone, which accounts for the majority of verbal feedback. The eyes are still important too, social interaction is different now but I wouldn't necessarily say it's worse.
@electacute92543 жыл бұрын
@@AcolyteOfLucifer, that’s true, except that I have difficulty making myself heard with a mask on.
@graciesmom622 жыл бұрын
That is why some children (and some adults) find clowns so frightening; the clown’s make-up or any mask , makes it difficult to read their intentions.
@Waspling5 жыл бұрын
I tend to tell people I'm attracted to them pretty early into my attraction because it bypasses a lot of uncertainty. Catches people off guards sometimes.
@pamelaconley97444 жыл бұрын
I think Dr. Grande is adorable too! Unfortunately for me, I am old enough to be his mom soooo...that could put me in the "How can I be less creepy" video!! But hey...a girl can dream right?? 😉😉🤣🤣🤗🤗
@grizzlycountry10304 жыл бұрын
Cougar
@chelseagirl2783 жыл бұрын
Somebody got a heart! ❤️
@markberry34943 жыл бұрын
Naughty !😆 🤣
@angelripper_4203 жыл бұрын
Age is only a number 👍
@LizardCane3 жыл бұрын
Older woman likes younger guy: you go girl Older man likes younger woman: dirty old man
@justinengland9814 Жыл бұрын
Smiling and laughing is NOT a sign of 'sexual' attraction. This simply means they enjoy your company and does not mean you have 'pulled' them!
@veronicaverratti16205 жыл бұрын
Joker is in theatre. If you see it, may we have your analysis?
@DrGrande5 жыл бұрын
Yes, as soon as I see it, I will begin working on a video - thank you!
@sarahvand36285 жыл бұрын
@@DrGrande I would like a psychoanalysis of "Health Ledger" playing the joker and the method acting crossover into his real life 😶❤
@AStarryEyedLife5 жыл бұрын
V.V. V very interest for this as well
@AnimewithAnab5 жыл бұрын
Dr. Todd Grande ohh can’t wait to see that video !
@phoenixbg20965 жыл бұрын
Dr. Todd Grande Yes! I would love to see you commenting that movie! You are so precise!
@globes1794 жыл бұрын
These depend greatly on culture as well - especially with regards to eye contact and touch.
@oneonlys4 жыл бұрын
i’m towards the end of this video and it just made me sure I’M attracted to someone 😂
@darrenmcgovern19694 жыл бұрын
If someone is attracted to you you can feel it intuitively, if you are present and in the moment. This scientist is brilliant but you already have the blueprint. Believe in yourself and your inner wisdom. Peace
@rijzone4 жыл бұрын
I did not expected this video too be this on-point this is like the best video of its kind.