Don’t complain about it being a full time job when you don’t allow the father to be there
@WayTooManyBeats Жыл бұрын
🗣PREACH!!! [dolph voice]
@emmanueldamour1521 Жыл бұрын
I do all the above for my child. I got left because I didn’t want to go to bible study 😮…. Yet there’s dead beats out here being a holes getting better treatment. Smh… def not having no more kids shit painful. 😞 It would mean a lot if the mother of my child would say something nice like thank you for all you do or your a great father not when you see me your quiet with an bad attitude smh. It’s all good doe. God will comfort me.
@AbuRashad1 Жыл бұрын
Seams like if he’s that great of a father then the mom should’ve stayed
@NoFace-ms8nk11 күн бұрын
My point exactly on that it works both ways to
@mauricegoz8 ай бұрын
not gonna subscribe, but will say that this gave a lot of insight to me, watching as a guy with no children, no babies, no wife about to consider dating and participating in the financial well-being of a single mother. Getting information on the other aspect of that dynamic is valuable and enriching. And I’m not sure I want to do it after seeing this. Because this doesn’t say it, although they are implications that a “baby daddy“ taking care of the mother and child in this way would want and probably have access to her sexually.that is always in the background and wise are advised
@c-fo33352 жыл бұрын
Yo I came across this video randomly. I do almost all those things but I also send his mom birthday & mother’s day card & flowers! I aint kissin ass but I my son was born from pure love at the time and he is the definition of “magic”. Still working and on my next degree grinding on my purpose even while across the world for work a year at a time! 💪🏻🤙🏻
@OhThatsFallon2 жыл бұрын
Ummmmmm YES!!!!!!!!! Congrats on being a DOPE ASS DAD! We need more like you babes. Thanks for watching!!!
@NoFace-ms8nk11 күн бұрын
Excellent! We out here grinding not worried about shining for these women about the kids
@peternorthrup6274 Жыл бұрын
He pays his child support without needing a court order every week. And starts using birth control.
@Itzytoast11 ай бұрын
Why am I crying watching this. Being a parent is so hard and having mixed feelings with a bd is so hard. My daughter turns 7 months and I’ve been maturing so much. Need to be the best version of myself.
@sharonj.9597 Жыл бұрын
It hasn't always been the case, but I'm proud of how well my husband treats his child and child's mother but she still bitter and disrespectful of him at times which bothers me to no ends. I don't like anyone I love being disrespected. I didn't and don't even like when he expresses his at times "hate" for his ex because I've BEEN the baby mama. I don't stand for baby mama bashing even when deserved! Despite her disliking me and being rude to him, all 3 of us schedule our lives around the child. We would love to move out of state but know it's not happening unless she moves too. Lol... I agree about how he de-escalates but I also think men should let the ex know that they can't disrespect the new relationship/marriage and that she's still important as his child's mother. #KnowThePriority&Boundaries
@pettigrurabb4804 Жыл бұрын
This woman is crazy, “Send me a check, be nice to me when i’m acting b*tchy, give me compliments even though I treat you badly, etc.”. I can see why she is a baby mama because she would be a nightmare for a good man.
@iamkhrissyb3 жыл бұрын
I have my notebook out sis lol.. Love this 💕
@paigeharper4099 Жыл бұрын
What about if he lives out of state and makes an excuse to not be there?
@dallasseward8693Ай бұрын
this all facts
@Jayractualized Жыл бұрын
Great post. How long can a man do all of these when a woman is miserable and takes out her constant fruitions out on him ? Honest question
@veebee77063 жыл бұрын
Pleaseeeee make more videos like this !! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰
@veronicalocke5362 Жыл бұрын
I have a bad babby daddy then because everytime we talk he trys to start arguing.
@valerieperez70852 жыл бұрын
I just found your channel, I def subscribed right away . I’m going through this now, my fiancé moved out 5 months ago to take care of his dad who now has dementia, he won’t move back with us & have his dad move in to our house. I recently broke up with him, he never once try to pick up our daughter from preschool or go to doctors visits. I now know he uses his dad as an excuse. I have my daughter 100% of the time. I need to move on & I can’t co parent now because hes dis respectful & only wants to FaceTime our daughter but not actually try to pick her up
@OhThatsFallon2 жыл бұрын
Hey Val, can I call you that? It sounds like he really didn't want to be a father or have a relationship with you babes. Sometimes we discount that men have fears and emotions as well. In addition to caring for his sick father, he also has the responsibility of a new baby. That's heavy for anyone. Take a step back and give it some time. Leave the door open if he wants to participate in the raising of your daughter in a respectful way. In the meantime, focus on your growth and development. You got this!
@valerieperez70852 жыл бұрын
@@OhThatsFallon thank you for responding love ❤️. Yes val is fine ☺️. That’s exactly what I’m doing now, best advice.
@Camillyahreal3 жыл бұрын
I learned not to ask my bd for shit he hated when I call him that hahaha 😝 I told him “well you act like one”
@chloelageaux7692 жыл бұрын
Wow! According to this list my child's father is utterly complete trash because he doesn't do any of these things except pay but even that is by compulsion!
@BrolyKing801 Жыл бұрын
I'm gonna be good to my children 😊😊😊 got 4 daughters already about to have 3 soon 😊😊
@rivv0102 ай бұрын
Unfortunately all women don’t appreciate this or would do right by the child without the courts getting involved
@HeavenlyAmil3 жыл бұрын
Subscribed ✅ Liked ✅ Comment ✅ Even though I don’t have much to say really I wanted to get the engagement up there ! ❤️❤️❤️
@NoFace-ms8nk11 күн бұрын
Smh this caption is crazy and wrong HOW ABOUT GREAT FATHERS most women got all this advice talking bout us baby daddy’s and other people relationships but most yall don’t have a man we don’t need validation these are our kids not a flex smh terrible topic get married divorce social media
@Camillyahreal3 жыл бұрын
Sis you look beautiful
@Taytheman123 жыл бұрын
WANTED TO ASK YOU QUESTION WHY IS MY BABY DADDY GIRLFRIEND KEEP ON LAUGHING INSIDE MY DREAMS WITH MY BABY DADDY...THIS CREEP WILL NOT LEAVE ME ALONE BEEN HIM 10YEARS 3 MONTHS SPEAKS ON THAT SHE ACT LIKE I REALLY CARE BECAUSE TAKEN HER OUT ON TRIPS
@tiarawilliams30422 жыл бұрын
BC she's jealous you have a Child with her Boyfriend.
@Taytheman122 жыл бұрын
@@tiarawilliams3042 yes she very jealous of me that was her boyfriend but he my babydaddy I'm not with that god have my back always
@Avembe Жыл бұрын
1-I get that. But getting a job is the real priority otherwise he cant provide even if he lives in the same area. A young father is not trying to "explore the world" he's fighting to provide!!!! 2-No way. Mrs i'm sorry this is utterly delusional. Child support is largely enough. A man ain't an ATM. 3-NEVER ACCEPT BITC. NESS. NEEEEVA !!!!! 4-No compliment at all. Respect is largely enough. 5-i can agree. 4-