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@mariellarobles33729 күн бұрын
"Love" with a narcissistic person is war. Never any peace. No trust,no true intimacy. They are most calm having you on edge. Once I started reflecting on why I felt so frustrated and depressed and I realized that he never truly cared for me. My emotions are constantly dismissed and there's no real support. Facing my struggles alone, feeling lonely and realizing that he offers me no balance and stability and instead thrives when I was a depressed mess and it helped to prove his narrative.
@JackOP937569 күн бұрын
No wonder they often seem confused, because they are confused!
@joannturi39689 күн бұрын
How can any human being even begin to keep up with all of this wasted bs? And further more why? They're missing life as it passes by. Time flies when you're having fun, not fights.
@rabelanitshipandu71519 күн бұрын
Don't share good emotions with a narc reserve good emotions for your self and the emphath society.
@floridasunshine51798 күн бұрын
I like the way Danish breaks it down so you can understand what’s happening
@paulinetayen95599 күн бұрын
My son in law can’t stand me. He puts on an act for sure. And he knows I have him pegged. After I’ve seen his behavior, he cries to my daughter, now she’s going to tell everyone and they’re not going to like me. He is the first narcissist that I have ever encountered in my life and the battle is real because he has demonic entities attached to him. Thank you for your videos cause it helps me to see right through him.
@Rania-x9e9 күн бұрын
Stay Strong....record everything
@paulinetayen95599 күн бұрын
@ Thank you.
@amywuester1369 күн бұрын
So is 1 of my sons in law. And he knows I've got his number. But fortunately, he's terrified of me AND because of everything we went thru with our daughter before they got together, he knows he can't cause chaos between us. So he cowers when he's around us. I think it's hysterical, but also pathetically sad. 😂😢
@paulinetayen95599 күн бұрын
@@amywuester136 You are going through exactly what I am going through.
@dab78059 күн бұрын
I feel more like you are the narcissist here, a narcissist wont cry to their partner. You are trying to defame him to make your daughter to hate him.
@cindys.96889 күн бұрын
So many past experiences, examples of these signs, flash through my head when you're speaking. Been through it all.
@LauraSchendel-ko1qk9 күн бұрын
I’m a widow and have not dated in 40 years. I barely survived an on-line dating site and are still a little traumatized. LOL! Honey! The amount of narcissists on-line is terrifying. But because of videos like this, I can spot a narcissist in a crowd! Wanna know how quickly I spotted one? I had a date over for dinner and showed him the 15 tricks that I have taught my rescue shelter dog. She’s truly amazing!! I always give her a mini treat after each trick she performs. After she was finished, he looks at me and says, “I just give my dog the treat. I don’t make her earn it.” That was my first indication that he was a narcissist. Wouldn’t a normal person say something like “Oh my goodness! How cute! She’s so smart!” (?) He tried to negate her accomplishment and mine as her trainer. Two more dates proved me absolutely correct. They really are super easy to spot when you know what the signs are. Thanks again!
@KotobukiGirl9 күн бұрын
Good on you! I hope you meet the right person. It's no walk in the park out there.
@LauraSchendel-ko1qk9 күн бұрын
@ Thank you! I have also been studying body language. And behavior analysis as well. Feeling vulnerable, you know? I’m going to be fine. I have to keep reminding myself that I am in the drivers seat. Nobody’s victim. Hugs!
@beauthentic74939 күн бұрын
15 tricks would tire anyone.
@LauraSchendel-ko1qk9 күн бұрын
@@beauthentic7493 I just spotted another one! It’s so easy! LOL!
@beauthentic74939 күн бұрын
@@LauraSchendel-ko1qk LOL 😆
@ChelleMEis9 күн бұрын
Do nothing and watch them self sabotage.
@KotobukiGirl9 күн бұрын
Really? I find that most narcissist tend to take pretty good care of themselves one way or another, even the alcoholics. When you have no conscience, and you never feel sorrow (narcissistic injury isn't the same) you can live a pretty long time. Hell, you can become president of the United States. My mother was a malignant covert narc and lived to be 93. She always managed to get someone to take care of her. Just one story of many.
@katesantos84739 күн бұрын
I think sabotage they made on themselves for do things and talk lies without accountability. Just it is a self sabotage.
@aloksrivastava79388 күн бұрын
@@KotobukiGirl The end of everyone's journey is same. What difference does it make how long one lives? Just establish your boundaries and go no contact. We should just be concerned with our own happiness. What happens to the narcissists, is none of our concern.
@Ed-lian7 күн бұрын
You have to do nothing. And thats your game. ❤ This helps me. Thank you for this kind energy.
@SharonDee3339 күн бұрын
My narc ex has a daughter that went no contact, and he just can’t seem to figure out why that is. It’s my favorite topic to bring up whenever he tries to hoover me back, b/c I can guarantee that I won’t be hearing from him again for at least a year.
@monicarai14979 күн бұрын
They are fragile but they think that WE are fragile. How convenient
@kirkstewart-vf6hg9 күн бұрын
OMG the Rage is terrifying eyes bulge out scream hit yell slam cupboards stomp break dishes peelout in vehicle in gravel slide in in vehicle like a race car driver etc etc!
@paulinetayen95599 күн бұрын
You aren’t kidding. I’ve even seen my son in laws eyes turn black.
@aik519129 күн бұрын
They always feel righteous in their raging rants too. It doesn't how THEY act, but if you or I were to act like them, GOD FORBID IT! They're the biggest hypocrites.
@Jillrussell-mj4yw9 күн бұрын
Yes I have experienced all of that
@jackijax5059 күн бұрын
I resonate with it all via a narc mother.
@joey58169 күн бұрын
Yep, me too
@anneyoung23109 күн бұрын
They are the most difficult, controlling, destructive people on the planet.
@seemadungrakoti5779 күн бұрын
Thank you ... your videos help me deal with them.
@ScottishLeo9 күн бұрын
I actually made it thru required Jeopardy tests to be invited to the show & in front of his friend says "It's amazing how you keep all that useless information in your head, I couldn't ever remember all that worthless junk" when he read their invite. I saw his friend turn to look at him & I swear I could hear his unspoken "bro what is wrong with you"🤣
@laurawilliams40349 күн бұрын
That’s awesome! I hope you get your call! I will be looking for a “Leo” on there! I had to ban narc husband from watching cuz he would try to make conversation and ask inane questions like did we feed the dog yesterday or Is there any meatloaf left etc…. He has to mess with my focus and then act all shocked and innocent when telling him STOP 🛑 TALKING 😅
@monicarai14979 күн бұрын
It's just who they are internally. Coverts are more slimy though. Overts are not smart enough to cover up. They may eventually try to go down the covert path but it rarely works. By then,you'd have figured them out.
@monicarai14979 күн бұрын
Mine said in his last argument.. "Why are you wasting so much energy arguing with me I'm not even reading your texts".... errr. Okay. What do you want .....an award? Lol
@esperansaloughran6938 күн бұрын
Never intended to fix it havter 35 yrs. But 😢you have remained calm. And God will vindicate you. Its strange that people play games, isnt it. Thank god. Came to my rescue. I am a super🎉 9:36
@BenjaminConway9 күн бұрын
Ridiculously accurate.
@lolxd93968 күн бұрын
Thank you Danish Bashir for your wisdom and insight on toxic narcissistic behavior. 🙏♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹😎
@snownotwhite9 күн бұрын
Is it possible that the narcissists usually look older than their age because they are always insecure, planning and plotting things against you, and they are not happy with themselves?
@jurepotokar90686 күн бұрын
I would say that is the truth. They are exhausted from pretending. When you get to know them better, you see that they look old, tired, colorless... "Mine" is also always sick too. Always...
@rogerhare78869 күн бұрын
How do these people all exhibit the same crazy methods? Do they all go to the same school?
@JesseLawrence-g7r9 күн бұрын
😂
@janetromey75229 күн бұрын
Yes demon school. Exactly! That's why you have to learn the tactics so you can act calm and try to avoid them. Stay quiet and observe. If you don't engage they'll go to someone else. 😮
@debbie98819 күн бұрын
Narc academy 😂😂
@joannturi39689 күн бұрын
It's the weirdest part of it all. It's like they're all clones in the brain.
@rde40179 күн бұрын
It shows how intellectually inadequate they all are. They are just grown up toddlers.
@Monalisa06229 күн бұрын
I've learned a lot being separated for 4 1/2 yrs being separated from the estranged husband. Healing the wounds with our 2 children. Dec 27th 2023 (2 day's after our daughter's birthday) he took his life. Even though now I don't live in constant fear my heart aches for my children. But these video's have helped untangle the confusion.
@gigiw.76509 күн бұрын
I triggered my Narcissist DIL and she threw me out of my son's house. She is just too obvious in showing her hate. 😂
@madhulikagupta99487 күн бұрын
Excellent video Deep insight
@len10456789 күн бұрын
Nope.. I have a Narcissist who been targeting me for sometime now always trying to make me look small because I am someone who take time to snap, but I only gathering information so next time he comes back I will only hitting with Raw honest truth
@deepaligupta97538 күн бұрын
Each word is true .
@anneyoung23109 күн бұрын
I would add feigning innocence and playing silly-dumb.
@Dr.ShaziaHanif-f8l9 күн бұрын
Very informative respected Sir!
@margekaplan20578 күн бұрын
Let them exhaust themselves by trying to pierce ur spiritual essence. True essence is like water, no boundary to pierce,,we have it ourselves from the universal flow of something that can't be controlled or contained. So who are they. Get in close,,draw them closer if their an infighter and they are,,draw them in and make them swim in this flow. Let ur higher self and responsibilty take the reigns for a minute. The TAO is moving all the time. Let it!
@KotobukiGirl9 күн бұрын
I'm so glad I didn't get involved in the smear campaign. I didn't know what hit me at the time. It was very, very hurtful and it lasted for about a year. It made living where I live really uncomfortable. But something told me not to get in the mud with the narc and his flying monkeys--didn't know their labels at the time. He really had no reason to lash out that way. I think he always anticipated I would put him down and that I'd decide I'm better than him. I was never planning on going there, so he did it for me, then smeared me--rather ruthlessly. Now he hangs out with a woman who also tried to smear me a few years ago, but nobody believed her because her lies were so outlandish. (Of course he knew about that and didn't have my back.) She's a lot like him, but unattractive. She buys him presents and leaves them at his door.
@jeanaallison72369 күн бұрын
Rage that is pushed down isn't good. When he starts to get agitated I leave. Nothing positive will come of this. 😢
@kimberlylamantia77949 күн бұрын
I feel you. Prayers, love, and hugs ❤
@jeanaallison72369 күн бұрын
@kimberlylamantia7794 ❤️🌻
@Wildnaturepk6 күн бұрын
I've seen most of these with the narcisstic ex-wife of my late partner. When she couldn't get her way, the attacks started via private messages and then public posts. But she got no response, just complete silence. It has been hard not to reply as she has also lied about my late partner and who he was 😢. I know the best thing is to not respond to her and remember the beautiful person who my partner was ❤.
@अर्जुनठोंबरे-ड9स9 күн бұрын
they don’t want you to read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki because it sets you free
@aik519129 күн бұрын
Spam
@ramyas82569 күн бұрын
You score 💯 you talked about getting emotionally separated first before we physically apart. But what about the investments we made in them 1. Time 2. Energy 3. Money... We as empaths nurtured and supported them throughout so that they become stable financially. Ok Now If we separate then they have everything in their life to walk away simply and look at their own life. How is that justified? We continue to struggle looking after the kids ,jobs etc Can you pls tell us the "let go" factors ?
@robinholz78589 күн бұрын
Spot on - these all resonate 🎯
@lisapayne74989 күн бұрын
My father in law has those eyes and smile.
@samraAmir0779 күн бұрын
Wish soon millions subscribers
@monicarai14979 күн бұрын
Yes. There was once he was trying to bait me all day (when I was still in Australia and had not shifted to the states yet) ...he would continually bait me into arguments. When I wouldn't respond or react,he suddenly turned the conversation to be about his ex wife and how she was doing the same things I was doing to him. I knew then and there that this two were together. It was not a past. No one would let a past that's truly dusted affect them THIS much in the present. I had touched a nerve there. Oops
@margekaplan20578 күн бұрын
Why...what does it matter? RISE
@annettejohnson36259 күн бұрын
So patronizing and condescending as well. They think they are so clever with their backhanded comments.
@SpiritedSandra9 күн бұрын
Yes....100% facts said on this video!! How do I overcome all of this from my daughter and ex?! Being under Spiritual, Mental/psychological and constant abuse and manipulations for almost 7 years, my daughter is using my grandchildren against me-tired of fighting something that's untrue, hurtful, and the betrayals are absolutely mind-blowing!! Feeling like they are dancing on my grave. When she see's me, she hugs me and says "you know mom, I actually do love you" but when her arms say and imagine that knife going into my back. She has what I call are minions, her army of people believing re-written history, yes, she and her friends are all addicts (drugs and alcohol, many are drug addicts), while my ex has gotten away with what he has done to me and my son, etc. I've healed much, but the constant scrutiny has to stop/end, as she sided with him. There is much missing inbetween, but did wrap it up in a nutshell, I've done a lot of studying, learning, watching many good videos...and cannot afford any courses, etc.-so where does that leave me? Help, and please, no negative comments.
@FaizaBajwah-r1p9 күн бұрын
My mom hates me till I born so making my life miserable day by day now she is pretending that she is victim cause I don’t attend her call or see her any more
@joey58169 күн бұрын
Speaking from experience, Get away from it, asap!
@deborahrobinson65539 күн бұрын
Also speaking from experience, she will lie about you, and try to sabotage and ruin your life even with her last dying breath. The mom you wanted never existed, grieve this, and stay away from this woman. She is a DANGER to you. Take care
@margekaplan20578 күн бұрын
Some of them realize eventually that ur making them tread water and make some kinda angry public exit. And,,so what? Who are they,,your "decider".
@user-pn1ni8mf2d9 күн бұрын
that can take a lifetime
@reethathomas63217 күн бұрын
Correct
@edithalbrecht8098 күн бұрын
To me, the most obvious sign of the narcissist was his insecurity, everything had to be locked up and squared away. He wouldn’t have fist fights ever, even if his honor had been trampled into the mud. Another obvious sign to me was his effort to be seen always proper in appearance, mainly haircare and clothing, but definitely not using any deodorants. He always smelt of cooking oil, can’t describe it any better. Just to give the ladies here a smile ❤
@raheemamuhammad24429 күн бұрын
Hi danish am eagerly wyting for that npd s rage,its almost collapsing
@WaterlooExpat9 күн бұрын
[Off topic] Which brand and model of camera do you use? It provides excellent color and detail. Thanks.
@shivchauhan6939 күн бұрын
the truth feels dangerous, and that’s why the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is ignored
@itzkmarie879 күн бұрын
They start sounding like Kamala Harris with the word salad smh 😵💫
@margekaplan20578 күн бұрын
Give uo the Ghost. When you stop competing,,you will set ur own self free. Dont become mesmerized by looking at "a train wreck". Thats how they get ya! Also,,the men can h ab e the ability to cry. They want you to observe them having deep feelings,,emotional avaolability. Everythingvthey do will be in public. So what? Or,,,leave that oarticular environment and grow into your next phase. I like to tell them in public,,there there i understand youre doing ur best!
@JFM24ASMK9 күн бұрын
I relate to all I would now not when I was with him Step back and laugh we can't laugh to hard they will use that against you see there laughing I think I would fall to the ground 😂😂😂
@nicardetafernandes80478 күн бұрын
My crazy narcissist has been turned into a cool cucumber with my forgiveness n undying love n affection..God presides over...
@AbeerahA-x1d3 күн бұрын
Can a male narcissist run an indirect smear campaign? And can he give indirect hints that it’s him, but never come forward directly?
@margekaplan20578 күн бұрын
Or,,even in a dark room,,they look pale
@Hunter-bq1xe9 күн бұрын
everything you believe might crumble if you read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
@laddukumar90799 күн бұрын
society would change overnight if more people read the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki
@margekaplan20578 күн бұрын
Theyre the easiest to take advantage of,,good in the sack but thats about it.
@jd-pb8dw9 күн бұрын
Sir Hindi video please
@YashwanthkumarHC9 күн бұрын
the book Magnetic Aura by Takeshi Mizuki is what everyone avoids because it’s too real
@Rebecca-en9pn9 күн бұрын
Monk like😂
@solunarose64939 күн бұрын
🌹🙏🌹
@guarddvote9 күн бұрын
😂🤣😂😅 *Intro* 😁😄😃 🫵🏾💯👌🏽👏🏼👏🏾 *Narcisistic Rage*
@libertycan69597 күн бұрын
Called reactive abuse. 🎉🎉🎉
@MYNAME_ABC6 күн бұрын
Sorry, no one is interested in that Shipify ad BS.