5 Softest & 5 Firmest Menstrual Cups

[@RedHerringTV]

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[@kimisdancin]

Red Herring please can you do the medium firmness cups!

[@kimisdancin]

Red Herring thanks, Kim L.

[@Cpre1111]

Which of the softest cups pop open easier/quicker? That'll be my next try.

[@alleycat9559]

Your video is amazing thank you so much 👍👍

[@alexissolidrock]

Please cover medium soft and medium firm cups!

[@RedHerringTV]

I'm gonna try :D It's hard to do the mediums since there are SO many that are SO close in firmness.

[@juicedabouthair]

I got my lalicup. I'm oddly excited for my period to get here so I can try it out. 🤗

[@RedHerringTV]

juicedabouthair Lol you're not alone! A lot of us can't wait for our period to come when we get a new cup 😂 Congrats!! I hope Its comfy. I'm using my large Lali right now 😊

[@brandytaylor7623]

Juiceabouthair how did you settle on the lali? Were there certain qualities you sought? Have you tried any ithers? Thank you!!!

[@brandytaylor7623]

*others not "ithers" sorry

[@juicedabouthair]

Brandy Taylor Terry I've used the large Lunette that is a bit firm but opens for me every time. Then I tried the large and small Evacup. I liked that it was softer but couldn't always get them to open. So I wanted something in between those two brands in terms of firmness plus I wanted a larger capacity for my heavy days so perhaps I wouldn't have to change at work. That all led me to the Lalicup. We'll see in about a week. 😉

[@AnneSexton16]

When I first bought my Lena cup six months ago, it was perfect. I loved it so much, no discomfort, perfect capacity. For the past two cycles, I haven’t been able to wear it because it’s been too hard and has been pushing on my bladder and I’ve been leaking like crazy and my cramps have been increasing again and it just feels bad to wear. I’m having trouble finding a new cup to use when my cycles are like this because I have latex and other rubber allergies and it’s just been very hard for me to have a painless cycle and this video helped a lot, so thank you.

[@RedHerringTV]

Hi Anne! I'm sorry to hear that your once perfect cup is no more :( However, it could just be a temporary thing. Sometimes my favorite cup isn't my favorite on certain days or even certain periods. If it's feasible, it's great to have a couple of cups that you can swap out to when this happens. Have you tried the Lena Sensitive version? Same great cup, just softer :) to ease that extra pressure on your bladder. If that's the one that you have been using, you might also check out the LoulouCup or Si-Bell (maybe found under names Soch Cup, So'Cup, ClariCup Sustain Cup depending on your location). Silicone allergies are very rare and a majority of menstrual cups are made of silicone. The only latex/rubber cups that I know of are the Keeper, Fair Squared and Loovara (Fair Squared and Loovara are actually the same cups). There there's also TPE cups that should be just fine. If you're in doubt, check the company website for an FAQ. They usually have that question asked and answered already. Also, I would probably stick with reputable cup brands. That way, there's less of a chance that additional (unknown - besides colorants and/or hardeners) material was added to the silicone. Good Luck and let me know if I can help you further

[@I_Am_Kayyy]

I think a softer cup would work best for me. The more firm cups push on my bladder way too much.

[@RedHerringTV]

What cups have you tried so far? You might also try turning one of your cups inside out and seeing if that doesn't ease some of the bladder pressure, but ONLY do this if you're comfortable removing your cup without a stem.

[@I_Am_Kayyy]

Red Herring I’ve tried the diva cup and the lena cup. Both way too firm so I’m going to try the lily cup next.

[@cherahsBroll]

UniquelyCurlyQ Did you try the Lilly cup? If so, how did it go?

[@I_Am_Kayyy]

Cherah Lindo I didn’t like it at all. It wouldn’t open up for me. It was just too soft. I’ve spent over $100 on cups so I just went back to tampons and pads.

[@imjustyourfriend]

@@I_Am_Kayyy you should try the saalt cup. Lol last one, but it's right between soft and firm.

[@xWonkWonk12]

I forgot I requested this video hahaha (yes its me Cupcake Mae, had to change the name since my gmail is connected and had to send important emails) but thanks for making the video!

[@RedHerringTV]

Hayzelle Lababit hahaha no worries! Looks like you found it eventually :)

[@andreamarie8518]

I love my new diva cup I got it within the first month of my cycle and I couldn't be more happier with it

[@RedHerringTV]

That's awesome to hear!!! I hope that it continues to serve you well

[@MeepsNcheese]

Team fiiiirm 🔥^🔥

[@RedHerringTV]

I like firmer cups myself. At least a firmer rim. It's the worst for me when the rim doesn't want to open and I have to pry it with a finger o.O

[@MeepsNcheese]

Red Herring I feel it! I think I'm transitioning to the Yuuki cup because my diva cup is too soft so I leak a tooooon. Thanks for replying omg :D

[@RedHerringTV]

Diva is a good cup for some, but I prefer the Yuuki myself...in any of the versions. The Rainbow is soft, but I still love it just purely for the colors lol I hope the Yuuki works better for you :) Good Luck!

[@MsLee-oh7hy]

MeepsNcheese I prefer the softest cups. Firm cups increase my cramps

[@voneyeva]

Same here. The MeLuna XL is the only cup that pops open, doesn't leak, and has enough capacity for 12 hours. :D

[@LishNess1]

I was kinda hoping for rim comparison since I have grip issues and it's the rim that has to be folded and held to be inserted

[@RedHerringTV]

Sorry, that I didn't do a comparison of these cups against each other. But there are so many other cups on the market now that this video is kind of obsolete. And, although I have many cup vs cup comparisons uploaded, I haven't done any new ones lately. I've been keeping up with collecting new cups and hope to get back to videos sometime soon. Until then, I hope that you find what you're looking for. Good Luck

[@halliewatkins3052]

It would be so amazing if you could do a video on cups that are better for those with an IUD. Like cups that when the base is pinched there is still resistance so the string wouldn't be pinched.

[@RedHerringTV]

Hi Hallie! Any cup should really work fine with an IUD. However, there are some tips & tricks for using a cup and IUD successfully. I can't say from personal experience, but I have read many that say they are able to use both with out any issues. I searched several cup sites and made a list of those that mention IUDs and/or Rings. Some sites included tips that might be helpful to you. bit.ly/2o9FVMG -If you tell your doctor that you'll be using a Menstrual Cup. They can trim the "strings". -Make sure that you break the seal of the cup before removing it. Good Luck and Sorry I couldn't be of more help.

[@halliewatkins3052]

No, thank you so much! It's definitely been a big learning curve with just starting to use a cup then getting an IUD soon. Thank you for your help!

[@stacysharena]

Tried to put in the lunette firm. Omg! Not happening. I have to await my saalt soft. The firm isn’t happening for me.

[@franmorr1966]

It would be helpful to have had the name of the cup as text in your video, especially for those of us who have no prior knowledge of brands.

[@stephe7526]

Could you do a video on cups for very low cervix / short cups please! I have a Lunette model 1 and I'm finding it's a little bit too long for me.

[@RedHerringTV]

Hi Steph E! Thanks for visiting my channel :) I'll try to get this done soon. I'm a little behind at the moment and trying to catch up. If you need some suggestions sooner, you're welcome to contact me on FB @ facebook.com/redherringtv

[@stephe7526]

Red Herring Thanks for getting back to me! I can still use my Lunette in the mean time so theres no rush. :) Great channel by the way, very interesting and informative!

[@RedHerringTV]

Thank you so much and thank you for visiting my channel. I'm glad that you find it helpful :) I have your request written down. There's one (main) video request before you but I'll try to get it done sooner. I'm sorry for the wait.

[@alyssaanne224]

It's been years but did you find a cup for a low cervix?

[@andreamarie8518]

I prefer firm I started with a vida and it was impossible to open

[@RedHerringTV]

My Vida cup was a "cheapie" cup. It's pretty useless to me. I prefer firmer cups as well. I don't want to have to fiddle around to get my cup to open.

[@aniuma05]

I am close to 40. Used softer cup it is not opening inside. Please suggest me medium firm cup.

[@RedHerringTV]

Hi There! I'm sorry for the late reply. If you still need some help, you might check out this video about how I get softer cups to open - Troubleshooting Soft Cups: kzbin.info/www/bejne/mp-kZZyBmNmLppI If you rather just purchase a new cup, can you tell me what cup you're using? As of now, I don't know what size or shape would be best so that it fits comfortably or would be easy to reach. I also don't have a firmness to base off of as there are many cups on the market that are considered "soft" and your description of soft might mean something totally different to me. If I know what cup you have, it would give me a better understand of what you might be looking for. Here's some info on why these features might matter - How to Choose a Menstrual Cup: kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4Cxgat7fraSr9E

[@yanadobreva1601]

I use yuuki classic for a few months now and I am curious to know if there is firmer cup than mine.😃 I find it great because I do a lot of sports and have really strong pelvic floor muscles but sometimes the cup does not open very easily.

[@RedHerringTV]

The Yuuki Classic is also known as "the Rock" because it's SO firm. I don't know of any cup that's firmer than it :O those are some mighty toned pelvic muscles you got there! The only thing that I can suggest is wiggling the cup down a bit and see if it will open easier. Maybe the rim is just getting obstructed and needs a softer 'wall' to push against to open. Sorry, I don't have any other suggestions for you :(

[@clarinetstar14]

@@RedHerringTV the keeper cup is the only one firmer than the yuuki classic i believe :)

[@abhilashadey2023]

Can you tell me about the Sirona cup?

[@I_Am_Kayyy]

I just bought the lily cup and I can’t for the life of me get it to open. I believe I have very strong pelvic floor muscles.The diva cup and Lena cup were too firm for me. I have a very sensitive bladder also and if the cup is too firm it feels like I have to pee every five seconds. I’m getting pretty frustrated because I don’t want to spend anymore money on tampons and pads. I’ve already purchased three menstrual cups and neither one of them worked for me. 😪

[@Commenter839]

I'm not claiming to be an expert, but the lack of holes on the Lily could explain why it wasn't opening- air holes tend to make the insertion/removal process easier. Since the Diva was too firm for you and that's an "average" firmness cup, you might want to look into softer cups. If you weren't already using it, Lena has a "sensitive" cup in clear that's softer than their normal Lena Cups, so that might be worth looking at. Putacupinit.com also has a nifty quiz that can put you in the right ballpark if you don't know what brands to look into. It's not exact science, but a lot of people seem to have good luck trying the cups the quiz suggests to them.

[@I_Am_Kayyy]

Commenter839 I did take that little quiz on that put a cup in it website. The next cup I was thinking about trying was the Lunette cup. Thanks for the advice though.

[@RedHerringTV]

Hi CurlyQ! I'm sorry to hear that you haven't found your 'Goldilocks' cup yet :( I know it can be frustrating. First of all, there are menstrual cup FB groups that allow 'destashing' of gently used menstrual cups. Even if you may be opposed to using a previously owned cup, someone else might be willing to buy it from you for a slight discount. This will rid you of unwanted cups and allow you to recoup some funds back. I agree with Commenter839 about the lack of air holes. I find that cups with very small holes or no holes at all tend to be hard to get open as well as release the seal/suction to remove it. The other thing that I personally had problems with during removing the Lily Cup original, was that it doesn't have that 'bump' out of the upper rim. Since it's all smooth, it make it harder to find and cave in to release the suction. If you didn't already buy the Lunette, I would suggest against it. It's actually considered a firm cup and is more firm than the Diva. Out of the three cups that you've tried, which one feels the most comfortable and easy to remove - in shape and length?

[@I_Am_Kayyy]

Red Herring so far the only one that felt comfortable was the lily cup. My only problems were that it wouldn’t open and kept sliding down. But I think the only reason why I was sliding down was because I couldn’t get the cup to open. But other than that the cup is really comfortable and the silicone is super soft so I can’t really feel it at all but I just could not get it to open.

[@RedHerringTV]

@@I_Am_Kayyy There's a couple of methods that I use with softer cups that I can't get open righ away. Maybe they'll work for you too. I'm going to skip ahead over my rambling and start where I explain the methods: goo.gl/1jUhRo Turn the volume down a bit. Some of my old videos were really loud. I also use this method with very firm rim cups to shield my cervix from getting hit when the rim snaps open. See if that works before running out to buy a new cup. Good Luck!

[@vinnie6587]

Video was very informative, can you recommend very low cervix menstrual cup brands available in India. My cervix is around 4 cm, i m unable to find menstrual cup for my length.

[@RedHerringTV]

I would consider 4cm or 40mm to be a medium/low cervical height. That being said, here are a few cups in India that might work for a medium to low cervix: StoneSoup - Wings Cup is available in three different firmness levels. It lacks a stem and has a flared rim and rounded base which are great for a low cervix. Nari-Yari - Available in three different firmness levels as well. It's narrow and has a flared rim and rounded base. Soch Cup - Available in two sizes, this cup has a flared rim and rounded base. There are four channels the length of the body to help the cup fold up smaller as well as helps it open when the fold is released. This cup is on the softer side. If you have a moderate to heavy period, the Wings Cup or the large Soch Cup might be better options. If you would feel more comfortable starting with something mor narrow, the Nari-Yari or the small Soch Cup would be my suggestion. Good Luck

[@bobblefish]

I know this will sound silly, but can you do a comparison of firm/softness of shorter cups? It's hard to both know what's soft AND what's under 63mm (stem included), lol. Thanks so much for these videos

[@RedHerringTV]

Are there particular cups you're interested in seeing? Below is a link with all of the cups that I have on hand as of now, besides the brand new "Fun Cup" that I received today. bit.ly/2qOSr0E Let me know which cups you'd like to see and I'll do some "squish" comparisons for you :D

[@jaycyrus3821]

I'm wanting to know the difference between yuuki large classic and whatever yuuki softest large cup is and also the difference in length between yuuki large and yuuki small I got yuuki large classic it makes me have cramping . Thanks

[@RedHerringTV]

I see your comment under another video of mine that you found :) Glad I had something uploaded that was helpful. However, Yuuki has one more cup that is softer than their 'soft' version. It's only 5 durometers softer which is't much, though. The softest Yuuki are called "Rainbow" and "Bohemian".

[@sophiaheartsdarick]

I just bought a June cup. I'm having a horrible time getting it to open. I think I also need something a bit softer. It's uncomfortable to me. Recommendations? Perhaps a smaller version cup? I'm super new to the cups.

[@crystal_bold]

Is si-bell small soft as si-bell large?

[@RedHerringTV]

The small Si-Bell seems slightly firmer than the large. This is true with many small vs. large cups because of the diameter size. The only time a small and large cup has approximately the same firmness is when the company takes the firmness difference into account and adjusts the durometer (hardness of silicone) before it's turned into a cup.

[@ashleewitham7488]

What about the MeLuna soft? It's the softest cup I've come across so far. It's insane. And the monzcare is really soft as well!

[@RedHerringTV]

I can't remember if I had the MeLuna Soft at the time of this video. I know I had the Rainbow Cup/Monzcare/R-cup. I didn't find it as soft as these.

[@rosarioadrianacandelerorue3710]

Thank you so much! I will keep exploring some and with ur video i can consider other brands i didnt find before. I Have the Lena small and I think is soft just righ. Not sure if that would be classified as soft or medium soft, but i am sure it is softer than lunette (big). I hope this 2 are ok for me. During my cycle i have some days of almost no flow and 2 or 3 days of many mls of blood. That is why i need to sizes (also to explore)

[@RedHerringTV]

I have a video out of "High Capacity Menstrual Cups" bit.ly/2lF5jof. Maybe that one will help you narrow your search down, as well :) One great thing about cups is that you don't have to change the size of the cup if you don't want to. It's perfectly safe for you to use a large/high capacity cup on the days that you're just spotting. Good Luck and Have a great weekend!

[@ashleewitham7488]

Hoooooow can I get an iris cup?! Not finding a US seller in stock. Also, surprised I didn’t see rainbow “monzcare-r” cup. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@RedHerringTV]

Hi Ashlee! I haven't seen them being sold for the same price that I purchased mine for in a long while. I got mine on Amazon, but they're about $42 per cup now amzn.to/2xNkkxr. You can try to contact the seller through their Alibaba acct: bit.ly/2xOc1BO. AND, if you're interested, I did check the FDA reg for them and their registration was for a pad and not a menstrual cup. This cup also turns white, which according to the silicone manufacturers that I contacted, say to be wary of. It's totally up to you, but it's something to think about if you're one of those who are against "cheapies".

[@sweetflakes]

With lunette, you need to mention its size because size 1 and size 2 have different firmness.

[@RedHerringTV]

Again, all of them were large unless otherwise marked in the description but I have now included, "large" to note that. I'm sorry that I didn't mention it in the video.

[@llymar]

Where would you place the Lena on the list?

[@RedHerringTV]

The Lena would have probably come right before the Alicia Cup. When I was grabbing "firm" cups off of the shelf, I remember that it was one of the first ones that I reached for. I would "squish" them together one by one and put the softer one back. The Lena stay on my table the longest. The body of the Lena is firm, but the rim (I know I wasn't targeting the rim in this video) is pretty soft.

[@jojototherescue4619]

I love all of your vids bc rn I am pretty scared to use my diva cups and I i'm getting a little frustrated because it hurts to go in and I am 14 years old

[@RedHerringTV]

First of all, I'm so sorry for such a late reply. Second, I'm so proud of you for having the courage to give cups a try at 14 :) It takes a lot to over come the "ick" factor that we've been taught in society :( The Diva cup (even in the small size) is kind of a big cup. What exactly hurts while you're inserting the cup? Have you tried water based lube to ease it in? How's the cup after you get it in? Comfortable? I'm thinking maybe a smaller and maybe a bit softer cup might be easier and comfy for you.

[@manvi4514]

so i bought this cup 9 months ago and it was perfect for me no leaking no discomfort it used to sit just right in there and i had no trouble with inserting or taking it out but when i used it in this last cycle it kept sliding down.....i tried it again and again and even after so much effort of pushing it up it kept sliding down making it so uncomfortable to the point it started to hurt can you please tell me why this is happening.....is it because it became less firm now after those 8 months use?

[@RedHerringTV]

Our bodies change and what works for us for several months or years, just might not work for us ever again. But then again, it can also just not work for us one time and then will work again another. It could be something seemingly unrelated like diet, weight, workout, medication, etc. If it's possible, pick up a cup with a wider diameter or a cup with a different shape. It's great to have two different cups for times like these. In my experience, two different cups have been handy for when my cervix feels like dropping lower than it normally does and my usual favorite cup/s become uncomfortably long, or when my pelvic floor feels weaker (around my period). Relaxin, a hormone that is released during menstruation and pregnancy, can cause laxity. I can't say that this is the reason, but it could be part of it. If your cup continues to give you problems, put it on the shelf for this period but don't get rid of it yet. It just might work again next month. Good Luck

[@LADYVIKING05]

OK.... SO WHAT ARE YOUR FAVORITE CUPS TO USE??????

[@RedHerringTV]

I swap cups very often since I'm always "testing", but the one I probably reach for the most when I'm not testing would be the LaliCup medium or large :) Other cups that I reach for regularly: Yuuki Rainbow both sizes EvaCup large MyCup both sizes Saalt large Super Jennie small one other cup not on the market yet... :D Although I can use several different shapes, sizes, and firmness, please don't use my favorites to choose a cup for yourself. I would suggest locating and measuring your cervix to find out if you might be more comfortable with a shorter or longer cup, and determine if you might need a softer or firmer cup depending on if you experience bladder or bowel sensitivities.

[@pao2529]

Could you talk about the stem too? That's what bothers me but can't cut it (high cervix). I'm very sensitive down there but pretty active, so I was considering the saalt original, any suggestions?

[@RedHerringTV]

Stems in particular? I did a video just on stems but it was more general and not specific cups. What type of stems do you like? What exactly gives you issues? The ones with a hard ball, grip rings, tabs styles that don't bend. Are you looking for soft, flexible, stretchy...etc? Is there a cup shape that you already like? I can throw a whole bunch of cups out there with soft, flexible stems but the actual cup might not be what you're looking for.

[@pao2529]

@@RedHerringTV I tried two cups (an old mooncup and Italian brand Fiordiluna) and I can't use them 'cause the stems bother me. The latter has a hollow stem with rigged spiral grips and the first has hollow stem without any grips, but I can feel it anyway because the final edge poke me like crazy. I need the stem because I have a high cervix but I'm very sensitive down there. I guess a very soft flat stem shouldn't bother me but I'm also pretty active, so I'm afraid a soft cup may move too much or not open immediately. The cups I tried are both pretty firm and opened just fine, I didn't feel them inside though. I just purchased another cup on Amazon (not a famous brand) and keeping my fingers crossed!

[@themadcow686]

Why do they have little holes near the rim?

[@RedHerringTV]

Those are air holes. It helps with getting air into the cup to help it open after it is inserted, as well as help it release the "seal" or suction that it might have created around your cervix when you're removing the cup.

[@Cpre1111]

Which of the softest cups pop open quicker/easier?

[@RedHerringTV]

It's a bit hard to answer that. My experience with softer cups might be very different than the next person. It depends on if you're looking for a soft body cup, soft rimmed cup, or soft overall. Also, bell-shaped or "V"-shaped. They will all be very different.

[@bobblefish]

The meluna you talked about being different with different sizes. Is that the case with any of the others on your list that you know of?

[@RedHerringTV]

Most of the small sized cups feel more firm than the large of the same brand. The only thing that I could come up with that would make this so, is that on a smaller sized cup the base and rim (firmer parts) are closer together than on the larger cups. The base and rim of a large cup are spread out more making the centers feel more soft. If that's the real reason, I'm not sure. BUT the MeLuna are TPE and acts differently than silicone IMO.

[@aliceinlalaland302]

I want to buy iris cupsmall size. But I can't find it anywhere. How can I get this? only large in amazon.

[@RedHerringTV]

I purchased mine on Amazon. You might need to keep checking back there every few days or so. Other than that, you can try to leave them a message on Facebook. Good Luck!

[@xenyadominguez8209]

Where would you classify the korui small cup? I've been trying to switch to a menstrual cup and this are the ones that have been recomended to me or that i have found a apealing. Korui, Lunette, and Lena. I am a 20y/o begginer with light flow.

[@RedHerringTV]

Ahhh...I just replied to your other comment and I was asking if you had another cup to compare it to. I see now that you're trying to pick your first cup. Do you know the height of your cervix? That would help give you an idea if you should get a short (small) cup or something with a little more length. A shorter cup might feel more comfortable for someone with a medium to a low cervix. A long cup will be easier to reach for someone with a medium to high cervix. There's nothing worse than trying to remove a cup only to find out that it rode up and now is hard to reach or out of reach. Not all longer cups are labeled as a large-sized cup. There are long but narrow cups that may be comfortable to insert and still easy to reach. I'm going to leave a couple of videos that will give you some things to think about when looking for your first cup: How to Choose a Menstrual Cup: kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4Cxgat7fraSr9E How to Locate & Measure Your Cervix: goo.gl/KDuxQK If you're set on purchasing either the Lunette, Korui, or Lena and are only concerned about the firmness, here are my ratings on a scale from 1-5 with 5 being the firmest. *This rating is only between these three cups and no others. All cups in small - Lunette: 3.5 rim/3.5 body Korui: 3 rim/3 body Lena (original): 2.5/4

[@xenyadominguez8209]

@@RedHerringTV thank you so much for giving such dedicated answers, it really helps make an informed choice so much easier with all the information you give us a wholehearted thank you 💖 (my cervix i think is medium to high)

[@RedHerringTV]

@@xenyadominguez8209 Thank you so much for noticing that

[@sjp1833]

How can I order the si-bell cup in the US?

[@RedHerringTV]

Over the last couple of years, there have been cups that are almost exactly the same, if not the same, as the Si-Bell. If you can't find the Si-Bell, you might pick up one of these alternatives - ClariCup (4 sizes), So'Cup, Soch, Sustain Natural Cup, and MyVCup, are some of them. These two sites might have something for you plus a 10% discount with code: RedHerringTV Feminine Wear: goo.gl/wzpUXu Menstrualcup.co: goo.gl/xRFgES Happy browsing!

[@RedBlushGurl]

#3 softest was Sabell? I’m finding most rims to be too firm, leaving me with a slightly bloated feeling like they are ballooning open my cervix. Hoping trying a softer rimmed type might help this issue. I’m currently using a diva cup 2

[@RedHerringTV]

Besides the large Diva, which other cups have you tried? I can let you know were the Si-Bell falls within those and if I've come across anything softer, since.

[@RedBlushGurl]

I haven’t tried any but the Diva. The diva here was kind of expensive so I’m trying to do some research before I invest in another. Thanks for your reply! The Diva is DEFINITELY too firm. I couldn’t use it after the first day because it just hurt so much.

[@Natara]

So glad to have found your channel! Subscribed and watching numerous vids lol. I did want to ask if you'd be able to suggest some cup options. I have a low cervix and I used to use the Lunette but it would drop down, I'm guessing it means I need a wide and short cup. I have a Lunette small (i.e. haven't given birth) and my period isn't heavy just crampy. Also I exercise but just gym workouts.

[@RedHerringTV]

You might actually just go for the larger size cup even though you don't need the capacity. It might help keep the cup from sliding down. Since you have a low cervix you might want to try a bell shaped cup like the LaliCup (med) or Super Jennie (small), or a bell shaped cup with a flared rim the Lena Cup (small) or the Sckoon (large). The LaliCup and SJ have a decent sized rim and will allow your cervix to sit inside of the cup. Both are softer than the Lunette. The LaliCup has a bit firmer rim than the SJ making it open easier. If you're interested in the Lena cup, I would suggest the "Sensitive" version since you mentioned cramps. The Lena "Original" is pretty firm and I don't want that to add extra cramps :( The Sckoon is a short cup even in the large size and is soft and "gummy" and shouldn't cause you extra cramps, either. The difference between the bell shaped cups and the bell shaped cups with a flared rim seems (at least for me and some others) that the flare rim rides up and sits a bit higher around the cervix. It's one of the reason I like to suggest it to someone with a low cervix. I choose different sizes of the different brands because I think they might help with traveling down. However, you might prefer the smaller sizes anyhow. If you'd like to see some comparison pics of these cups against the small Lunette, I'd be happy to send you some on either FB facebook.com/redherringtv or email [e-mail] Just shoot me a message on either with what pics you want. I can do comparisons of the sizes I mentioned or all of the small sizes, or even both. :) Thank you for visiting my channel! I hope that I can give you a hand in finding a cup that's comfy for you :D

[@Natara]

Thank you so much for this! Before I saw this I bought a Me Luna Shorty Large, so I will try that and if it's not what I need I will definitely use your recommendations!

[@lauhany]

Do you have a recommendations for "medium" cups, not that soft, not that firm?

[@RedHerringTV]

Are you looking for a bell or "V" shaped cup? It'll help me narrow down the selection :)

[@doczeelkodia]

Hey there Tysm for this amazing video I am 22 and virgin and thinking to order me luna (medium) Will it be good?? Or should i go for another one Please help Thanks

[@RedHerringTV]

Hello There! I'm sorry for this late reply, but thank you for visiting my channel. I think the MeLuna medium classic is a good place to start. It's soft and narrow. If you haven't purchased the cup yet, I suggest getting the "stick" stem. You can always trim it down if needed. Good Luck

[@doczeelkodia]

@@RedHerringTV Tysmm ❤️

[@vandananishad8476]

Hey ma'am, i am able to use only firm cups..... Can you tell me why is it so?

[@RedHerringTV]

Some people just have a much easier time getting firmer cups to open, and others have a very toned pelvic floor that may collapse a very soft cup. I don't fully know your situation so I couldn't really tell you why you are only able to use firm cups. Have you tried several softer cups? What are the problems that you have with them?

[@vandananishad8476]

@@RedHerringTV ma'am when i tried softer cups, they would just slip... Not fitting properly

[@RedHerringTV]

@@vandananishad8476 Did they open all the way? If a softer cup doesn't completely unfold for me, it doesn't create a seal which may cause it to slide down if I bear down my PFM.

[@RedHerringTV]

@@vandananishad8476 Are you able to use the firmer cups without any problems?

[@vandananishad8476]

@@RedHerringTV i was able to easily open the firm cup and the removal was quite painful...... But my softer cup would just not fit in to my vagina... No matter how many times i tried it was just coming out on its own

[@AndiieTee]

Hi! I’m using the blossom cup but I’m getting cramping :( and i also feel like I have to pee really bad for about 2 hours after I put the cup .. the cramps only stop when I take the cup out. I’m afraid that my cup is still to rough for me.. I’ve been thinking about the Lily cupA because it doesn’t have a thicker silicone rim like the blossom .. what do you suggest ? :(

[@RedHerringTV]

I replied to your other comment but you left some additional information here so, so will I :) Feeling the need to urinate more frequently, feeling like you didn't fully empty your bladder when you do, having a slow urine stream, or experiencing constipation are common signs of a sensitive bladder/urethra or bowel and that the cup is most likely too firm to be comfortable. Again, can you tell me what size Blossom Cup you have and if the length is comfortable and easy to reach when you need to remove it. I can't really give you any suggestions without extra details, but I can tell you that the Lily Cup A & B are the same length. I typically suggest these for someone with a high cervix. If you're using the small Blossom Cup and you can reach it easily without bearing down, then I would have to take a guess that you have a medium to a low cervix. In that case, I wouldn't suggest the Lily Cup. This is why I need extra details. I might also mention that the Lily Cup originals do not have any airholes. This can and has caused some issues with a very tight seal/suction while removing the cup. I'm not saying that this will be the case for you, but it's something to think about.

[@donw7896]

What cup would you recommend for high intensity training? I mean I could just remove the cup and reinsert it before the training, and after, but I found with my current one.. I ran a 2km distance and began leaking :/.

[@clarinetstar14]

Firmwr cups are better in high intensity sports :)

[@mma-tumelosoesman1078]

can you please review the cheap cups? Thank you.

[@RedHerringTV]

Several of them are so soft that I can't get them to open. I can go over the cheap cups that I have but since I didn't use all of them, I really can't give a review of them. Did you just want to see the cheap cups that I have or specific info you were looking for about them?

[@ChloexLashay]

I need a cup firmer than the Yuuki Classic, any recommendations?

[@RedHerringTV]

The Yuuki Classic and the MeLuna Sport are the firmest cups that I know of. Can I ask how the Yuuki Classic is causing issues?

[@ChloexLashay]

Red Herring thanks! How I sleep at night causes my cup to open. During the day I don’t have any issues and at night I still continue to empty my cup at the same duration, but when I sleep in this one particular position which is the most comfortable to me my classic yuuki leaks.

[@RedHerringTV]

@@ChloexLashay Hmmm, I'm not sure that it's the firmness that's causing your issues. Are you using the small or large Yuuki? If your cervix is sitting inside of the cup, it could be taking up some of the capacity and laying in your favorite position just may be what makes it spring a leak. A higher capacity cup or maybe even one with a different shape might work better or last longer.

[@ChloexLashay]

Red Herring I’m using the small yuuki currently. I’ll try your suggestions of both a different shape and a larger capacity at night and see how that works out. Thanks so much for your help!

[@clarinetstar14]

@@ChloexLashay if you still want a firmer cup the firmist out there is the keeper cup, its the only one out there firmer than the yuuki classic. Howevef its made out of latex so not suitable if you have a latex allergy

[@miamigirls4216]

What do u recommend for a first time user

[@RedHerringTV]

Hello! I'm really sorry for this late reply. I hope that you were able to find some information on which cup might work for you. If not, I would definitely recommend locating and measuring your cervix before buying a cup. It could make a huge difference in finding a cup that will be comfortable as well as easy to reach. Here's a video that will give you some things to think about when cup hunting. How to Choose a Menstrual Cup: kzbin.info/www/bejne/q4Cxgat7fraSr9E If you still need some suggestions, I'd be happy to name a few cups based on the answers from the video above. Good Luck

[@miamigirls4216]

@@RedHerringTV thank you

[@madamerage8518]

at 2.30: i think you wanted to say that the femmecup is a knockoff from the mooncup, isn't it ?

[@RedHerringTV]

I meant the FemCup which is also known as Anytime Cup (and other names). You can see it here next to a real Sckoon Cup: bit.ly/2pkbWyk

[@madamerage8518]

now i understand ;D thx

[@Breddy113]

Hi, im from india. im using the Alx care large cup. Its length without stem is approximately 53mm. Its a soft cup. Im using it comfortably during the day. It also does pop open easily each time. But at nights it leaks during my heavy flow days even if its not full. I tried to keep the cup a little low and not ride it high up inside just in case the cup has popped open next to the cervix. Tht didnt work either. Also about half an inch of the cup remains outside (though it doesn't bother me). Do u think i shd go in for a shorter length cup and a more firm cup? I also cant figure out the length of my cervix. My whole index finger goes in n i can't feel anything inside other than muscle.. I also tried the stonesoup teal green regular cup with the same problem. Pls help. Im totally confused.

[@muskannougarhiya2852]

Facing same issue with my wow menstrual it is so soft, that even if you hold with soft hand , it cannot retain its shape

[@muskannougarhiya2852]

I am switching to stonesoup tough now...hoping for the best

[@Vixinaful]

Im never tryng another peiod cup. I had such pain from it being too hard I almost passed out and the company told me it was the softest on the market which isnt true! And digging into your own vagina in tears..NEVER AGAIN. People hwo actually use these things must be mentally insane.

[@RedHerringTV]

I'm sorry that that was your experience with a menstrual cup. There are so many cups on the market, it's just finding the right one for your situation and anatomy. There should never be any pain during any part of the process. If you ever want to try cups again, I would be happy to help narrow a few down for you. But if you don't, I totally understand why. Cups are not for everyone but at least we have choices. Good Luck with which ever product you end up using.

[@Vixinaful]

@@RedHerringTV Well it would be good if I found a soft one but Im also in scandinavia so the brands available are fewer here and its not like one can return it either. I mean does one do this? try every brand?

[@ashleewitham7488]

Also how the heck did you get your hands on an iris cup!?

[@RedHerringTV]

I found it on Amazon, but you can also buy it from either Alibaba or Aliexpress. I can't remember which one.