5 Things Your EX Thinks During NO CONTACT! - Join the Selfish Season Challenge here: allofderricksb...
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@MommieLoves47 ай бұрын
Their not worried about us, they just go with the next weak one who doesn't see the bullshit at first.
@deborahleetalo67086 ай бұрын
I doubt he'll ever contact me. He probably moved on. Im fixing up the broken pieces he left behind and im staying strong. I pray for better days to come🙏🏻💯.
@karynmartin21417 ай бұрын
That's not for all men. They just move on to the next toxic, unemotional relationship.
@ka81557 ай бұрын
Facts
@denisegassama60167 ай бұрын
Let Them Go 🙏🏾💪🏾
@LishB10007 ай бұрын
Exactly
@1111spiritualone7 ай бұрын
leave them in the wind then. they will get they karma
@whiteliner22537 ай бұрын
Good…
@donnamaniscalco7 ай бұрын
I just started no contact. I feel a wave of relief at not having to listen to the misery, be put down and blamed for everything. After 3 years, I am done. Taking care of myself now!
@iammarycarter6 ай бұрын
I love this for you
@JadaGates6 ай бұрын
Same!!!!! I feel so good today! Still hurting but getting back to me…
@donnamaniscalco5 ай бұрын
@@JadaGates ❤️♥️
@JadaGates5 ай бұрын
@@donnamaniscalco we got this!! We deserve so much better
@RoseTheQween5 ай бұрын
Congratulations ❤
@cookiesmom5847 ай бұрын
You empower me to continue NO contact, love myself by giving him the gift of my absence!
@kaythomson5671Ай бұрын
Amen👑✝️💫
@paradise3529Ай бұрын
I walked away for Good Yesterday!!! Not ever Looking Back 🔙✍🏿✌🏿
@cindysantos93007 ай бұрын
He disrespects my standards after i told him to dont do it again. And now i am out.
@melissachristian27397 ай бұрын
This is a men loving world these guys are confused,, they don't know if they want a men or women,real talk 💯
@Janis-ge5ni6 ай бұрын
Sometimes you have to adjust to their absence rather than adjust to their disrespect!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️you are amazing Big Bro 💋 Thank you
@mandisanqini31327 ай бұрын
You're absolutely right, its me vs me now. No more.
@GG-cl9ww4 ай бұрын
Consider lesson and learn. Just move on. Life is too short to wait for somebody to act right. And never ever accept a disrespect because you love someone. Give it to god. Move on is not worth it.
@griselda4257 ай бұрын
You’re so right. This pain was starting to break me but he’s not worth it… thank you!!
@Dreacali267 ай бұрын
I wanted peace so I changed my number!!!!❤
@beverleyboateng5667 ай бұрын
I’m absolutely shocked that I’ve invited him to come to church, he chose to try to manipulate me otherwise; I’ll remain no contact, you are sooo right!!! He never knew me , he thought he did ! Thanks keep up the great work.
@amyrowe80144 ай бұрын
Silence Speaks VOLUMES JUS KNO THAT
@anitawilson86344 ай бұрын
Going through this situation now!! Glad I heard this video today, and hopefully I can move on from this situation with prayers and the Lord 1st in my life!! Thank you
@deloresstigger36057 ай бұрын
Thank you so much and I hope your sisters that hear this take it to sincere deep heart because you are definitely telling them Right. First of all the woman needs to know to love God, then she needs to know her woman's Worth. And love her self.
@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan51547 ай бұрын
Amen 🙌
@monicalacy66225 ай бұрын
Anger and blame is ridiculous when he was the problem. That just keeps you gone, ghosted, poof. Figure it out.
@AnastaciaRose-di9nl7 ай бұрын
❤ It's time to get back to me😊
@YeseniaCasiano-c2f7 ай бұрын
I'm going through this now, and I agree with everything you say. You are absolutely right. All four!
@ivetteortiz55436 ай бұрын
I need him to go through this. He hurt me to much.
@JaxnVideos6 ай бұрын
Hi Ivette, I want to acknowledge the strength and courage it takes to share your story. It's important to remember that healing is a journey, and it's okay to have setbacks along the way. Remember to be kind to yourself and know that you are not alone in this. If you're looking for additional support and guidance, I highly recommend checking out my new master class. It's filled with helpful tips and tools to help you navigate through this difficult time. You can find the link in the video description. Sending you love and support on your journey towards healing. Take care. ✨
@Mrsmismikimimi7 ай бұрын
Been through the last disrespect and left.... He wanted to show up at my job with a puppy. "Wooow, good luck" was all I said and carried on with my work task. "See that I'm just done, sir."
@claracruz90667 ай бұрын
I told him twice to stay away...He was in denial that I cut all access to me.
@summmer777 ай бұрын
Thank you Universe for this ego death that is coming for him. Amazing divine timing❤
@latashahumphrey7697 ай бұрын
U can't carry a relationship by urself i been talking to my friend girl about what she going through
@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan51547 ай бұрын
Yes yes!! amen 🙌
@alogan95026 ай бұрын
I don't know, I doubt he's going through any of this.... he's probably soooo proud of himself, talking ish to other females (yes plural-more than 1 female).... anyways none of my business. I blocked "it" - no access is self care too.
@user-ji1cs5ee8e7 ай бұрын
IAM Better Alone and Happy
@patsyhampton36986 ай бұрын
I love that-selfish season! ♥️
@sharondafields35185 ай бұрын
I had to choose me after 4.5 years. No contact for me was blocking him on everything. I can only imagine the rage that lurks within. Complete lack of access to his supply? Oh, well. We reap what we sow.
@dianafisher-greene73607 ай бұрын
I really needed to hear this today thank you so much ☺️ ❤
@jasminebranygift4685 ай бұрын
Mine reached out after 4days after breaking up with me, with excuses of checking up on me if I am ok and well…… No contact all the way 💪🏻💪🏻
@antoinettebulatao22997 ай бұрын
This is a great video. Makes so much sense
@teresastocker99386 ай бұрын
I was very lonely he was still with his Baby Mother he lied he use me disrespect me I bought value to his life Now I now very depressed lonely I need get out have fun
@sylviehoude36404 ай бұрын
Damn I'm so glad I never contacted him I'm glad you said that GOOD for me!
@Pharmacycenter7 ай бұрын
Wisdom. God bless you
@browneyes95077 ай бұрын
Yes he is
@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan51547 ай бұрын
Amen!! word of wisdom
@tracywright16407 ай бұрын
You are so on point!!! ❤
@farahbashir75264 ай бұрын
No contact is the best I have ever done for myself. You are so right about everything. I was alone but never felt lonely. But in all the years with him I neverr felt so lonely in my whole life.
@ranawinfield51106 ай бұрын
All true I thought he was crying on the phone I said I gotta GO 🤷
@user-px9tl9cj6f3 ай бұрын
I’m crying listening to this. I know this to be true. I’m in the selffish season challenge
@sashaquinones7289Ай бұрын
Thanks again That's so true!
@Salexander507 ай бұрын
My current situationship
@kurtrinamckinnon42147 ай бұрын
Yep!! Everything you saying true I broke up with him first of year he was very angry when I did glad it was via telephone
@TnL-nt2kd4 ай бұрын
Absolutely can by with " I'll do ANYTHING" to come back. Straight up narcissistic!
@michellesweazy44932 ай бұрын
You're so powerful and motivating to me, I listen to your videos a lot when I'm going through it. Thank you!
@ayotfreda55367 ай бұрын
6:44 yes the first time I went quiet he could send brief texts. Now I am going no contact again. And it's for good.
@paulaford86585 ай бұрын
I felt lonely I'm wonderful and happy !
@ameliareaves23817 ай бұрын
Oh, what you said...yes...yes.
@rachelhopson23427 ай бұрын
Yes ....😢 no contact for ever
@centrerandom56407 ай бұрын
Women do this to, i tried to talk to someone i hadnt spoken to in 6 years. I never forgot about him but life got in the way. He was rude and basically ignored me and then i saw he was married. We were never together but we could of been if i didn't take him for granted. I made the biggest mistake of my life not choosing him but there's nothing i can do about it now. Let me tell you it hurts like hell 😢
@DubaiiMakavelii7 ай бұрын
Don’t regret nothing he wasn’t for you
@susanhampton96717 ай бұрын
Take the positive. There is someone who is better for you. Please stop beatting yourself up.
@mama2flythesidehustlequeen1647 ай бұрын
Forgive yourself and move on. It wasn't meant to be
@MsknowledgeseekerNecole7 ай бұрын
This was deep❤️
@teresastocker99386 ай бұрын
That how did meI thought I was being there I was just a place holder for her 😢
@deborahleetalo67086 ай бұрын
😢. It's ok. You are the most valuable 🙏🏻
@NNV3376 ай бұрын
Empowering video 💯✌
@cathywilliams6627 ай бұрын
On Point👏👏👏
@sylviehoude36404 ай бұрын
I'm so proud of myself he never got him to reduce me I never fn let him He even said "what are you going to do without me? I answered I supported you for 2 years I can manage without you since you are here and refuse to pay for anything even though you have a job.
@marthadzimega19575 ай бұрын
Very insightful
@tanjeetstephens57303 ай бұрын
I'm a single woman who is only into men..I don't follow trends..I follow my heart ❣️❤️...I am not going to let anyone else near me again until I am in love with someone without having sex with them first. I don't even miss sex because it makes men act like fools...
@browneyes95077 ай бұрын
Damn Big Bro - Definitely my experience.. They definitely go through this phase .. 👁!!!!!
@suzettewalsh28545 ай бұрын
Yesssss desperation! Spot on with all the stages!
@debraharris63503 ай бұрын
Yes, "I'm NO CONTACT, BLOCKED, SILENTS" in this situation n Father God Devine Timing n Jesus Christ Mighty name Amen 😇😅😇🙏🙏🙏🙌🙌🙌💯💯💯👏👏👏💞💞💞
@jenm85507 ай бұрын
Yes, I'm going through this right now and no contact is hard for me. He was all I have, and it's hard to let go of the only person I talk to.
@maryjuana92316 ай бұрын
It's a mistake to make one person your everything for obvious reasons
@tracytonncupp5485 ай бұрын
pretty sure she knows that!!
@AFistOcat7 күн бұрын
That was me too. But when I think of how badly he made me feel I know it’s the right thing. Wishing you all the love 💕
@sashaquinones7289Ай бұрын
Realtalk
@ranawinfield51105 ай бұрын
They were Doormats for those bums prriod
@adriennelarkin81886 ай бұрын
Hello Derrickyou always on Point, Telling it Like Truth Be told, Yes Backbuner part!
@JaxnVideos6 ай бұрын
Hey Adrienne, I really appreciate you sharing your struggles with us. It takes a lot of courage to open up about personal challenges. Remember, it's okay to feel overwhelmed at times but it's important to also take care of yourself and prioritize your own well-being. You're not alone in this journey and there are people who are here to support you. If you're looking to delve deeper into managing relationships and personal growth, I invite you to check out my new masterclass. It's filled with valuable insights and strategies that can help you navigate through difficult situations. Just click on the link in the video description to access it. Keep pushing forward and never hesitate to reach out for help. You've got this!
@paulaford86585 ай бұрын
You're right about that no more disrespect ok !!!
@sylviehoude36404 ай бұрын
OMG he did try to use all kinds of excuses to talk to me and I told "you're on your own now I won't help you translade for you, handle USA all by yourself with your influenced friends"
@alicemahomes69765 ай бұрын
I blocked him
@sylviehoude36404 ай бұрын
yes you right he tried to get my attention by using the car that I own bought for him to drive as an excuse I told him what was what " take it or leave it" He was furious who cared
@Niadrawalker5 ай бұрын
Thank you Derrick my Big Brother this message was very help and very well needed to hear.
@sashaquinones7289Ай бұрын
SO TRUE 😮
@vernasmith11084 ай бұрын
I didn't have any status that was suitable for his family and him. I wasn't articulating my words enough. In other words, I wasn't good enough. I was more than enough, I was his blessing, and he didn't see it.
@Emily-ed6ed7 ай бұрын
Great message❤
@sashaquinones7289Ай бұрын
Amen!
@CarlethaHenderson2 ай бұрын
I stay my ground.
@michellesweazy44932 ай бұрын
Ive been physically and mentally abused by men since i was 16, my first destroyed a healthy women i could have been. I settle for less, im and empath and have alot of compassion for people that treat me pooryy, i always see the good in people. Im 42 and realize im better alone. Even if im the reason i attract these men, i can take that. But im done with manipulation.
@kathynohl62134 ай бұрын
So so true I just let my person go. He ran 3 times. No no more!!!!
@cynthfusion56817 ай бұрын
Thank you….I needed this!!!
@sherrysimpher5027 ай бұрын
I'm in a relationship but I feel single😊
@mariaamaya44955 ай бұрын
Yup you are right 💯🙃
@aprilcobianchi28157 ай бұрын
Yes yes brother ❤️
@preetsrivastava79703 ай бұрын
Derrick, respect. I'd love to hear what your thoughts are on dating w an age difference.
@deniseroper30475 ай бұрын
I. My ex husband doesn't call me. So I don't call him!!
@Scoobydoo1877 ай бұрын
This is exactly why I refuse to date. This is a waste of time. Yall play to much.
@Yeeeesh5 ай бұрын
"You are NOT ordinary girl!!"
@chrissyann36117 ай бұрын
Wasn't a relationship
@michellejames63722 ай бұрын
That's me Right
@LayersOfEvolutionMinistries7 ай бұрын
Thank you!! Definitely going to check that group out