How to Know She's Gone for GOOD!

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[@tonyaparrott7242]

Nothing but the truth being spoken!!❤❤❤❤

[@user-oj6ev5el8r]

Like my ex will never find inner peace for walking away from me

[@user-oj6ev5el8r]

He told me he will find another me

[@TheGiaAllenDC]

Thank you 🙏✨👑 I hope ppl don’t understand my emojis and think it’s ego. I draw ✍️ energy from the positive affirmations and when I vibrate high is when I receive the most messages ✍️ 1 John 4:16-17 King James Version 16 And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us. God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and God in him. 17 Herein is our love made perfect, that we may have boldness in the day of judgment: because as he is, so are we in this world.

[@rubytwoshoes1032]

Can't call us, can't message us, we have removed ourselves from social media, removed you from our lives, you can't find us. We don't care. We have taken all our love, kindness and energy back. That's how you know we are gone for good. Total radio silence. ❤

[@janellsheskier359]

🎤🎤🎤🎤MIC DROP!!!!!!

[@kellymarie8535]

"She used to look at you as someone that could hold your heart, now she looks at you as someone that will attack it" that one HIT DEEP!

[@kellymarie8535]

*her heart

[@michellebonbrake4082]

💯

[@sarabanks3312]

Karma is coming back to men who played a Good Woman.

[@martinez4703]

Sooner or later 👍

[@MarieN8959]

She came with a type of favor and blessings that he will never get again in his life. Period

[@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154]

Amen 🙌

[@MS-ns4ki]

It doesn’t . Men keep hurting me

[@sarabanks3312]

@@MS-ns4ki Karma never misses. You may know about it when it happens but you 'reap what you sew'.

[@newyorke172]

Women leave mentally before they leave physically. When she stops arguing and stops trying to fix things you can’t get her back.

[@R-Will]

That's where I'm at now. She's done with me.

[@amalal-busaidi8444]

I'd like to go back there...

[@grstma4]

"Pride comes before destruction, a haughty spirit before a fall."

[@BelcantoLola]

May 18 will be 14 years. Alone and in peace. The happiest years of my life.

[@MsPangY]

Can’t wait til Im doing me for 14 years alone 😢❤😮🎉

[@rachelmccullough3542]

Wow 😮 what's your secret ?

[@curnishadaniely2816]

You definitely lose yourself, never again ! I will never ever return!

[@flipflops-ed5xq]

Well u saving everyone 🎉

[@cca405]

When a good girls gone she’s gone forever 😮‍💨

[@meedleymortimer2146]

Facts: There is a level of self-love that a woman feels after getting out of an experience like that. She's not willing to sacrifice herself for anyone else, even if it means being alone. Speaking from experience, it's been 1 year since I physically walked out, but I was gone mentally 2 years prior.

[@susanadams7399]

I totally relate! I'll never be that woman again. Pain changed me .....had to rebuild myself from ground up....but I love me now ❤

[@wyattmeeshellie3068]

🎉🎉🎉 AMEN

[@mrssonjayoung7572]

In the healing process right now.

[@sithembilemthembu2950]

The best revenge is a new version of yourself, lovong ourselves enough to never settle for less.

[@annasmith1964]

Betrayal cuts you to the core and brings death to what was once considered a very unique and special relationship that’s now beyond repair!

[@grstma4]

I can identify with this. I'm living alone and in peace now, thanks to God.

[@wendydaniel1110]

When a woman is gone for good she will leave calmly with no anger . She's emotionally disengaged , the love is gone. There's NOTHING worth fighting for.. Its a wrap. ..❤

[@rhondaharris460]

He almost gave me a nervous breakdown 😢I left, and he been trying for 4 years, I will never 😊

[@elsienieves9453]

Same here. I can relate. Blood pressure went up. Fibromyalgia flare ups

[@BrendaBaBoom]

Some men don’t want love …. or anything much of value. 🥺

[@curnishadaniely2816]

My walk with Christ is better! I am free

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[@sarabanks3312]

Speak that truth!

[@6334-t9e]

Amen❤

[@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154]

Amen sister praise God that's who got me through and I love him so be blessed

[@ebland64]

Amen

[@leleharris7955]

“She amazing & something I’ve never experienced “. “Leave her alone until you’re ready so you don’t fumble her “!!! 💯💯💯💯Absolutely

[@lashondalambrecht4566]

Fact's 🎉

[@flipflops-ed5xq]

Men too!

[@jjlattimer8858]

Very ture, I'm healing, he did me dirty and said awful things I will never forget..I walked away in silence..Definitely a lesson learned 😊

[@Keana43]

I've only been in one relationship my whole life. I haven't been in a relationship ever since I was 26 I am 30 yrs old now. I don't ever wanna feel that way again.

[@flipflops-ed5xq]

Heyyyy sis ❤ me too. Hugs!!

[@abundantlyblessed9201]

Good girl, you're knight in shining armour is coming and it will be total bliss, so proud of you😉

[@carmenkamberos1156]

@Keana That part of you that you gave away will always be his. But there’s a lot of good guys out there that will be willing to love you as much as you once loved. And you’ll love again but with a more mature guarded love. Don’t lose hope.

[@Keana43]

@@carmenkamberos1156 Thankyou🩷

[@Keana43]

@@abundantlyblessed9201 Thankyou 🩷

[@christinapersoneni9438]

The pain did completely change me!

[@rosiechic5590]

7 long years of dealing with this & never again ...

[@flipflops-ed5xq]

😢

[@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154]

Amen never again God bless you

[@DarleneFree]

Empaths get it the worst!

[@wyattmeeshellie3068]

ABSOLUTELY!!!😢

[@chenellemartinez8745]

That pain help me grow and see my worth. I loved him to where I lost myself. He was emotionally unavailable to me and very indecisive so when I seen we weren’t growing together I left on a quiet note

[@taghazoutmoon5031]

He drove me crazy...then called me sick for driving me crazy

[@MotheRuckerlove]

That’s the worst. It’s not you. We just got to do our best to choose differently.

[@liciamarie7357]

❤❤❤ hope you at peace now..

[@coolcat3452]

Toxic men playbook!!😢😢😢😢

[@MadiSon-555]

Gurl. Same. I get called a psycho every time I wanna talk about something 🤦 I'm glad you're out. I'ma get outa here one day.

[@7ChakrasTarot]

Gaslighting

[@tlashai9902]

When she calls the police on you, and doesn’t care whether you get arrested or not. That’s how you know she’s gone.

[@user-vx2xq3vi4o]

Why will she call police on u.. unless u abusive

[@browneyes9507]

Yep when she doesn’t give a fuck whether you get arrested then she’s telling the police the TRUTH she’s COMPLETELY DONE WITH YOU….

[@user-mb6vt9zo5c]

@@user-vx2xq3vi4owhen he bangs your door trying to break in that’s how some women get killed by ex boyfriends

[@noemiallen2264]

That's right!!!

[@melanieoreilly2565]

In the blink of an eye, I was changed - forever

[@TrillionaireKarmaLifestyle]

Absolutely... Changed everything. There is no turning back, flowers are a cheap apology for repetitive behavior. You're on point

[@coolcat3452]

FLOWERS ARE CHEAP APOLOGY FOR REPETATIVE BEHAVIOUR!…good one!😢😢😅😅

[@annhilton7395]

9 years , feel nothing , stay numb , would have never thought someone could have been so cruel. Not going down that road again with anybody ! Done

[@rachelporter333]

This is a 100% correct and when you get shattered from something like this there is a huge innocence lost

[@shaylanewlife]

I am leaving my Boyfriend because he taking me for granted, not only that his being secretive, there is no intimacy no affection, attention. This relationship serve me no purpose. That is why i am leaving him alone.

[@curnishadaniely2816]

Completely changed me for the best!

[@Ziphozibo]

Yh yh exactly as said - it is like a switch went off and now I can’t ever look at him the way I used to

[@laurajasper1112]

FACTS! ❤ Yes there are quite a few male coaches online that are encouraging a man's arrogance and stroke their ego. God bless the work and TRUTH you share to men and women online.🙏❤

[@user-jt2nu6mp4b]

18 yrs gone in seconds.. I'm working on me now 😢

[@sarabanks3312]

It's never too late to Love on yourself!

[@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154]

Praise God you have to love yourself first before you can love anyone God bless

[@Flying_lizard_in_woods]

More strength to u 💞 stay strong

[@annbethchinchillo9192]

Yes the pain propelled me to greatness. A much greater version of myself, that I was not allowed to feel in the relationship. His deceitfulness was a death sentence to the relationship and to how I would ever look at him again.

[@thelordhasbeengoodtomethan5154]

I gave him my best and he tried to break me but my God brought me through thank you brother I just always want to say thank you for your wisdom God bless you

[@TheGiaAllenDC]

Derrick you will be a big part of my story and how you helped me find myself again and break free. Thank you 🙏❤️🦋💯

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[@skybundick6685]

When you tired can't do it no more with nobody period

[@serenasapphire8883]

The grass is greener where you water it

[@k.kersey4108]

Spot on!!!! I lost myself and he made me feel crazy!!! Never again will I ever lose myself. I have happiness and peace now

[@noemiallen2264]

Amen 🙏

[@TheGiaAllenDC]

I refuse to let that person take the best of my love. The next person will get a much better ❤ 💯 Matchmakers 🙋‍♀️📞

[@aaliyahallen7815]

My ex left me in such a bad state twice, that I know in my heart that the old purely loving me is gone. I can feel myself evolving, and now that I have known someone that treats me like im something it makes me look down upon him even more. I can never go back to that knowing that there is better out there for me

[@joannemalandra-martin7920]

Facts. When you rebuild, you're not the same.

[@PamelaJohnson-mi3gd]

Completely.. I can’t get back to myself. Praying time will heal 🙏

[@sarabanks3312]

You will. It takes time to find yourself after the drama. Praying for your healing 🙏

[@genXer2024]

I am in the same boat.

[@QueenB695]

I, lost myself in the mist of doing what made him happy. My mental health was drastically affected, told I was a psychopath and etc. But I have been no contact and focusing on my healing and I will never look back!!! He hates me and honestly I am grateful for him coming into my life for those 8 years because it woke me up to so much and changing for the better. ☮️

[@victoriabrand2777]

Major respect to you for acknowledging toxicity. I flipped on him and everyone else so he'll never get that version of me back again. No one will. You're absolutely right- I described it as the old me had died. I

[@GayWard-l6v]

I like the video where you said he changed her now he don't like the version he's got now

[@originalgoldengoddess]

Everyone I ever had a relationship, dated or I genuinely had interest in... have ALL lost me. I am genuinely not interested in rekindling any kind of romantic connection with anyone. I'm mature enough to be polite and respectful... but that's just it. ✌🏽

[@chantelles5841]

This was 100PERCENT FACTS!

[@deniseakins6753]

THAT PAIN DEFINITELY CHANGED MY LIFE !!!! (FOR THE BETTER)😊

[@Flufero23]

Yes. I relate to this. I was monkey branched for no reason after four years together. Never again.

[@user-mv5dg5fb9n]

He traumatized me so much, I could never go back. And I’ll never be the same.

[@2225SRF]

Hey Ex. You had your chance to get it right, and you didn't. When I walked away, it was the best thing I could have done I don't look back, and I don't do Second time around!! See ya!!!😊

[@Shemmise]

Talk Big Brother! This is sooooo TRUE. When I'm done I'm done. Don't need or want my time wasted.

[@kirac3129]

I can feel so much humbleness in his voice that’s a big change… amazing .. 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙏🏼🙏🏼

[@PrincessJOwens]

You are absolutely 💯 right Jaxn. That is where I am at. I am 62yrs of age. And he is 47yrs. I gave all that I could to him except controlling my assets and me. And I still got slapped in my face 😢. I will never be involved in another relationship.

[@user-vx2xq3vi4o]

But 62 and 47.. u were way too old for him..what were u expecting though

[@patriciamharris5664]

​@@user-vx2xq3vi4o NO JUDGMENT.. !!!!YOU do not know the situation with this couple.

[@teresabrown174]

You most definitely spoke truth in this video!! If men aren’t ready please stop playing in women face!!! Thank you for this video ❤🙏🏾

[@emlinc229]

This is one of the realest speeches I've heard brother. God bless you and all of us going through it. Men wake up!🙏✨️💖✨️🕊

[@latyneyez1]

Absolutely correct, 💯 the loving someone more than yourself, he will never get that back again from me.

[@darlenewilson3188]

IT FACTS TRUTH NO RESPECT THAT'S NOT LOVE CONTINUE THE TRUTH U HAVE WALK THROUGH THE FIRE AND FLOATED THROUGH. THE WATER AND GOD BROUGHT U OUT GOOD JOB 😊😊😊

[@donnaburns3989]

You hit home to the point you made me cry. Wow🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@LO-uf9mh]

It’s been almost 5 years since I’ve experienced the devastating heartbreak and betrayal. I totally lost myself. I turned to god and went on my spiritual journey. I’m so much better now. When I say I truly lost myself I did. My person of 10 years just walked out. It’s been soon 5 years and I’m currently single not looking for anyone because I’m so afraid to love again. What’s keeping me is god.

[@carolyncoleman6045]

God got this queen!!!

[@DarleneFree]

Don't bounce back...bounce forward! Love them anyway!

[@melodyhall6886]

One person will make a believer out of you , and F it up for everybody 💯

[@alogan9502]

I, as a female, know what your saying is facts from personal experience

[@cherg1743]

This is absolutely true! I gave everything & he destroyed me … I’ll never be the same again.

[@Kimmypooh2627]

26:01 When I left him I felt at peace 🕊️. He not only fumbled once but twice. It hurts but I’m done.

[@SherriMusick]

This is EXACTLY EXACTLY what’s happened to me…I can’t find myself! He didn’t lull me, but he lulled me

[@hajjipowell3234]

This is so true, I'm remaining on my own, I'm ok with it.

[@user-or6sk3xg3w]

I am a woman. I understand exactly what and how you're saying everything

[@sharonmoana1793]

You are 100% correct.

[@sandywatson6922]

From my experience you are speaking real facts. When Im gone, it's forever ( after I heal I rebuild to better version of myself 🎉🎉🎉and could no longer accept trash that was left behind.

[@mrssonjayoung7572]

Yes, so true. Healing myself. Will not allow myself to put all my energy in when no energy to be given.

[@candysunflower9747]

I I I I 💯. The thing I will never forgive is the version of me that his actions turned me into, but I'm allowing God to refine me into something better. 🙏🏾

[@Thewarriorzone_podcast]

I just experienced this. I walked away & im re creating myself COMPLETELY. I no longer want anything from my past back . I lost myself trying to keep someone else floating above the water .

[@dinaflyvbjergledet3397]

Yeah you Are speaking facts 💯👍 I am doing good now and am done with the B....... . Finally happy , and I appreciate these educational posts- keep going

[@selmathornton5489]

I can’t even begin to understand the ways in which he hurt me. I’m still picking myself up. Ten years of hell.

[@chantellewoods4282]

“I”You speak directly to me!!

[@ThearyAdventures1989]

You're so right at the point about a good woman

[@trishprince8068]

I....He was my husband, and I thought we were happy until he killed my life...... I'm getting back up. However I'm done .

[@angeesanti8024]

You are so on point with how the woman feels, see's, and experience that part of a painful break up. I left him for myself. Thank you for making this video its allowing me to heal that part of myself and process it...

[@loiscaldwell972]

What goes around comes back around 💯

[@user-sp3sy5zi8i]

I lost myself to one of these men and I really don’t think I’ll ever be the same

[@Jemmapx]

You are completely right, theres always a line and if that line gets crossed theres no going back, the person you are for them has gone, the way you seen them has gone and the future you thought you had has also gone. Im currently in this position right now, realising the person i thought was my person for life isnt who i thought they were. 💔

[@kattyhaeck1918]

I never give myself to a men like that time, never again! I love me now❤️🙏❤️

[@bettinalounkokobi8950]

Everything in this video is the absolute truth

[@cynthiaclark9729]

On point he will never give up. I ended it years ago he still thinks he has a chance. I learned my lesson.

[@jasmenforde9443]

Very true God Bless the work you do

[@dannettesantiago7217]

This is on point. Everything your speaking on im going through with my husband. Im so emotionally hurt. Im tired of trying to fix our marriage. Ive given him to God. Im moving on, and not looking back. The Narrsissist behavior almost destroyed me

[@yasminthenubian3976]

Facts. He almost had me come out of character with all his games and foolishness. I had to get out of there quick!

[@lindace63]

That’s right a Good woman comes from God! Amen

[@TA-mu4he]

I I I I I... Facts Facts Facts... and I I I I some more. That was perfectly said on all ends. The insight and ability to articulate thought is astounding!! This message will help who it needs to and enlighten. Keep dropping nuggets ❤

[@DanettePeters]

Amen.D u r definitely speaking facts. Amen

[@BonoloPhete]

I can relate on the level of loving someone to the point of losing yourself. I lost myself and became someone I'm not, I ended up hurting myself in the process. Now I have to rebuild myself from the ground up. It's so painful.

[@tarenleighton9392]

I will never give all I gave to him to anybody except myself

[@joycerowe9975]

Energy vampires will leech off of you to maintain other relationships that they r involved in. Once you remove yourself from the equation, his entire life falls apart. God is going to make sure that you are ok.

[@branditaranto4152]

You literally have me in tears. You are speaking my souls words!!!! FACTS!!!!!! OMG this hurts