WHEN HE LOSES CONTROL OF YOU, HE WILL DO THIS!

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@JaxnVideos 5 ай бұрын

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@JaxnVideos 5 ай бұрын

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@terilyntucker4361 5 ай бұрын

Sir! Thank you for putting out this content. Good women need protection. You are truly helping. God sees you. God bless you.

@kweenuzuri9018 5 ай бұрын

Factz 💯 😊💗

@judyschwenz6436 5 ай бұрын

It's 10000% true I'm barely hanging on 😢😢😢

@ShirleyWillis-os2bc 3 ай бұрын

@lisahurst1940 5 ай бұрын

Let your silence let him know that ship done sailed! Cut that emotional contact on all levels. Be the best thing he ever lost and NEVER look back. THAT is his karma! Thx Derrick!

@MissOddyO 5 ай бұрын

This is my current situation... I'm hoping i continue to choose me!

@cynicalafflictional1725 5 ай бұрын

Yes!

@kimbrown5407 5 ай бұрын

Amen! Best decision ever! Get yr peace & power back for good!👊🙌

@trinjuwan4422 5 ай бұрын

Silence & total disconnection are the MOST POWERFUL ACTIONS any of us can take with a toxic manipulator. PERIOD🚫

@elmagarza478 5 ай бұрын

IGNORE THEM AS THOUGH THEY NEVER EXISTED!

@abigailgoodwin4759 4 ай бұрын

💯👌🏿

@oliviabarr2986 5 ай бұрын

Treat him like a stranger ❤

@abigailgoodwin4759 4 ай бұрын

👌🏿💪🏾

@user-cy9in5ry9c 5 ай бұрын

I left him to the universe; I went gray rock. He was confused and BIG mad that he couldn’t get a reaction out of me, no matter what games he tried and played. I took my lessons and kept it moving.

@kukuakukua 5 ай бұрын

This is it😅him getting zero reaction from me did not only confused him but it stabbed him in his heart and that was my healing

@latashahumphrey769 5 ай бұрын

The most sexiest thing about a woman is handling her business when u step out represent yourself carry yourself with love and respect. Good things come to those who wait

@Webble_webble 5 ай бұрын

"Good women don't have to get revenge!!!!" Put it on a shirt because that's facts 100. I let God move and stay out of the way❤❤❤❤❤❤

@aamne2012 5 ай бұрын

Going through it at the moment,,he was as cold as ice now ,, switch up and I became a ski resort

@bioncadixon1989 5 ай бұрын

Barz

@riasb 5 ай бұрын

🔥

@sherriflemming3218 5 ай бұрын

Love it! Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft

@BBFLYRISEN 4 ай бұрын

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🖤

@browneyes9507 5 ай бұрын

Been ABSENT & SILENT for 5 yrs. Completely done.

@sherriflemming3218 5 ай бұрын

Bravo! 👍

@GIGI-lv1qt 5 ай бұрын

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

@sherriflemming3218 5 ай бұрын

Are You The One For Me? Barbara DeAngelis Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Interrogate Your Partners Their Past Is Your Future - Sam Vaknin podcast Never doubt patterns AKA The Track Record Dating requires detective skills. Interrogate and investigate. I've Scanned 250,000 Brains This Is Really How Men Think - Dr Daniel Amen and Lisa Biyeu podcast Accurate study.

@sherriflemming3218 5 ай бұрын

Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker Why Does He Do That? by Lundy Bancroft The Hoffman Process by John and Julie Gottman The Untethered Soul by Micheal Singer

@AuntieSamLoves 5 ай бұрын

Me too 👍

@alogan9502 5 ай бұрын

Him not wanting to co parent makes it easier to walk away for good 🙌

@westcoastbred7745 5 ай бұрын

Omg facts...I am going through this currently. He stopped communicating about the kids

@brendamartin763 2 ай бұрын

Yeah, that's tough for me bc it's not in my nature to be cold & unkind to anyone. Some confuse the empath for a doormat. That's not the case.

@angelamartinsanders8209 5 ай бұрын

I'm getting smeared right now and I just say God knows and people that know me knows.... Trying to tear my character down.

@rooffoop5358 5 ай бұрын

Keep your head up and keep your crown straight!🙏

@elizabethbuchanan1931 5 ай бұрын

Im the Karma when I left...... he felt it . :)

@browneyes9507 5 ай бұрын

Yes he did- I was the best he ever had and he knows it. My bright light will shine forever even in my absence.. He destroyed it all. Thank GOD- I got away .

@aprildouglass4265 5 ай бұрын

💯💯🎯

@HannahBanana_XO 2 ай бұрын

Protect your heart and peace at all cost! ♥️✨

@michellerogers5582 5 ай бұрын

He was in shock when I told him my son was coming home and he had to leave I lied but God knew I had to get him out he was a user he love bomb me on the beginning and as soon as he got comfortable he stopped oh my God what a lesson I took my power back!!!

@Stella-kx3lt 5 ай бұрын

That’s exactly right!!! Listen to what he’s saying!!!!!

@lilamckay5982 5 ай бұрын

Manipulation and control are always part of a quad. Intimidation and domination are the other half of the quad.

@BBFLYRISEN 4 ай бұрын

My pledge: 🙋🏿‍♀️ “I am no longer an empath. I have learned to let people down and leave them broken when I find them broken.”

@TNT31414 3 ай бұрын

That detach from urself is real…Stay strong queens ❤ a spiritual journey is needed ❤ get back to urself!

@latashahumphrey769 5 ай бұрын

Staying focused and doing important things. Keep doing the right thing it will be noticed. pray stay focused on the lord. You can't go wrong. Stay on the good foot, maintain the best attitude walk by faith not sight. No matter what you say or do people will c who u r and what u bring prepare for what God has for you.

@vanessasmith4960 5 ай бұрын

Yes Lord. Amen

@latashahumphrey769 5 ай бұрын

@@vanessasmith4960 on top of it just got off got go get something to cook 😄

@shelleyjeanne257 5 ай бұрын

Huge empath here… wish I had heard this years ago

@valeriebyrd70 5 ай бұрын

I’m now excited about taking that control he once had away from him.

@DarleneD-dt5qy 5 ай бұрын

Anything to hurt your character to try to get reaction from u Vindictive that u left him🦋

@sherriflemming3218 5 ай бұрын

Standards boundaries a bs detector and a backbone 💪 Character is actions. Safe People by Henry Cloud The Gift Of Fear by Gavin De Becker

@Angie-kn8nd 5 ай бұрын

You are on fire with these short videos !!

@latashahumphrey769 5 ай бұрын

I made the conscious decision to throw myself into work and school staying busy doing what is right never look for someone to make u happy he is right hurt people hurt people true facts. Keep a clear mind. God has big plan for me i move very quietly and focused

@user-ji1cs5ee8e 5 ай бұрын

Yes I took me back i was SO nice and sweet to him ❤️ he took me for GRANTED and started being DISRESPECTFUL ❌ To the point that I was losing my self. I thank God for loving me and always being there for me ❤️ Thank you MR D, For opening my EYES ❤ IAM SO OLD SCHOOL 😇☺️💞

@lindagoldsmith5899 5 ай бұрын

You are so right, yes I am a Empath, trying to please everyone, no more it’s about me now

@genXer2024 5 ай бұрын

I don't want to hurt him. I just want my sanity and for him to leave me alone

@margueritedrya9807 5 ай бұрын

Derek, thank you so mych for your support. I'm am empath. Been dealing with a ruthless manipulator, it still hurts, but your videos are a great blessing. You're really doing God's job speaking to our women's broken hearts...thank you❤ God bless you!

@tobilawal2142 5 ай бұрын

You can say this again sister. Oh my goodness, these men been making we empaths feel like we're doomed for being empaths. Derricks teachings are so liberating. Whoops 😊

@elizabethwerter7171 5 ай бұрын

You always make sense Derrick. This video isn’t my experience but it’s “good to know”. Thank you ❤

@LoveEndures7 5 ай бұрын

He's posting so many sappy breakup songs on his KZbin 😵‍💫 here's two that stood out: "Try Losing One" - Tyler Braden "What Could've Been" - Gone West

@tsioncox3712 5 ай бұрын

Thank you, Big Brotha. May God bless you and reward your work and efforts to be truthful

@latashahumphrey769 5 ай бұрын

Know your worth weather someone else knows your worth or not, just as long as you know your worth u have nothing to prove to anyone. We all have had low points in our lives, we all have been through something stay hungry for growing and know who you are. Just when you think nobody see what your doing that's when its going to tap you on ur shoulder.

@user-fn1kx8ow5q 5 ай бұрын

AMEN❤ THE best revenge is SUCCESS!!!

@Harry-o6g 5 ай бұрын

Take back control and give it to yourself ! I love that ❤ Thank you 😊

@magdalenachojnowska3621 5 ай бұрын

That's exactly what happened to me. He antagonized, but I was mentally prepared and remained stoic. I heard I disrespected him by doing this 😉

@user-cj1wk4jz3x 5 ай бұрын

Wow i can relate. my baby daddy was like that. In 1 year i will be completely free from him and his antics.

@JaxnVideos 5 ай бұрын

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@DarleneD-dt5qy 5 ай бұрын

Smear champagne half truth they play victim 💯

@patricebeene646 5 ай бұрын

Yes I relate. Exactly CUT him off 3 years ago. Yes he tried to come back. Blocked him on all ... phone social media

@annamillan2903 5 ай бұрын

Listening to you has been very enlightening.

@Katarina503 5 ай бұрын

I needed to hear all of this. So true, thank you 🙏

@ADE528 5 ай бұрын

Great message! I'm an INFJ with an A and a mature empath. I'm a great listener and have a PhD in detecting BS thanks to my spiritual gift. Great message and I truly hope that your words and examples rescue my sisters.

@harriettestjohn1699 5 ай бұрын

Tell them Zaddy

@Kivaunii Ай бұрын

This was extremely helpful. Thank you, if you have a daughter she is very fortunate to have a father as knowledgeable as you are. New subscriber ❤

@lateshiakellman4657 Ай бұрын

I appreciate you more than you will enter know. Sincerely, Empath.

@pandorarolle5912 28 күн бұрын

Yes you are very strong on point sir I am learn alot from you thank you for the insight and yes I had gone all out to show him just how much I love I am at the point of walking away

@stellaeightp8596 2 ай бұрын

Self care self love self respect 🙏🏾

@donna6783 5 ай бұрын

Me! and this is a really helpful video. Thank you!

@simonethompson8946 3 ай бұрын

Speaking the truth... God Bless 🕊 🙌🏽

@KKP20111 Ай бұрын

You are always helping us with your videos, D! 💯 Thank you! ❤️

@JoannHines-g6f 5 ай бұрын

Empaths have the biggest hearts!! Look out for the 7 traps of Empaths!! Thank you for the information, Derrick!! Appreciate you!!

@7ChakrasTarot 4 ай бұрын

Yeah that's true a lot of people try to take my sunshine for themselves. You think you can make someone happy but you only end up unhappy.

@lindasims3877 5 ай бұрын

My brother… Definitely spot on! Cut the access off periodt!!! He tried everything he could to get my attention! He even wrote his sermon around me to publicly humiliate me. It never phased me! He’s now a drunkard with no respect for himself and no one else. The world has walked away!!! I’m an empath!!!

@Jillian15 4 ай бұрын

Yesssss!!! Show him who's really in control Brah!!!

@shantalchotoki4998 5 ай бұрын

So damn true!! Been thru it all! 🥹

@Laura-u8n 2 ай бұрын

He tried to change me completely. Knew i drove truck for a living and he thought I was the most amazing woman or so he said. Omg you have gone thru all his phases! Wish I would have seen this before I got involved with him! All I had to do was say goodbye and he panicked! Nothing ever changed! When he thinks he got me everything goes back to what it was....... NO MORE! Never realized I was like an empath! Thank you for your time!

@evamoore2297 4 ай бұрын

Yeah I've dealt with all of that. Now I'm first, if they don't fit in my life.... well that just blows. I'm alone but I'm fine with that. 🙂

@annetteloliver78 4 ай бұрын

Bless you for your help!!! I am SO GREATFUL I found it! Wish I had this help YEARS AGO!

@Jenishabadoo 5 ай бұрын

This was my aha moment. Thank you Derrick.

@jjcarr6606 5 ай бұрын

I have been there. You are speaking directly to me

@DeniseLiotti-qz1ug 3 ай бұрын

Yes .I've had more than one marked demons sadly all the same actions you are Soo right on

@Blssd2bme15 Ай бұрын

Appreciate your thoughts and time shared!

@derailingtraumabonds 5 ай бұрын

This does it for me, exactly to the tea I needed this I’m so empathic, thank you for going there in this video ❤

@N_goat 5 ай бұрын

Word for word D

@jamilakhatun3592 5 ай бұрын

Thank you for this, so helpful brother, stay well.

@WandaKimpson Ай бұрын

This is good. I appreciate you.

@no.commonsense 5 ай бұрын

This is so helpful an encouraging it motivates and teaches me

@lindaclark3993 4 ай бұрын

You definitely help You always do x

@emilysandstrom2476 5 ай бұрын

I did that. Totally indifferent but doing all the chores including in bed. He noticed I washed my clothes separately from his and was horrified. The monster turned into a gentleman.

@debraharris6350 3 ай бұрын

Yes, ME DERRICK THANK YOU JESUS AMEN HALLELUJAH 😇🥰🙏🙌❤️💯💯💯💞💞💞

@neliakh9118 2 ай бұрын

So true! 💯💯💯 Thank you for acknowledging to see our worth 🙏❤️

@stay-positive6296 5 ай бұрын

You are talking to me Mr. Jackson I am going through this right now

@JanetTuttle-cb3xx 3 ай бұрын

I have experenced this, Thank you.❤❤❤❤

@mz.ellalobo8531 3 ай бұрын

I've been there and the next day he left me for someone else like I was nothing. Treat him like doesnt exist. Take my word

@ellenmorse8559 3 ай бұрын

He’s trying to punish you, just feel sorry for that poor girl he’s using aS a bandaid. Glad you took out the rubbish!😊

@latashahumphrey769 5 ай бұрын

Interesting topic

@aprilcarnes1697 4 ай бұрын

I'm so Amazed look at you now, it's amazing , Ur always in my 💜 , I miss singing with U April ✊✊💜💫👑 🙏🙏🙏🙏 A💎

@Judybell1959 5 ай бұрын

He done that

@milomaddyhennessy2643 5 ай бұрын

I am working and learning , so much from you. Sincerely I appreciate your wisdom

@AnneDC_2532 Ай бұрын

You are speaking truth….

@cassandramorehouse8650 4 ай бұрын

Me you are so on point I'm an empath I'm still healing

@autrymartin9361 5 ай бұрын

Going thru it now plus co parenting!

@stellaeightp8596 2 ай бұрын

Be whole within yourself.

@lashondalambrecht4566 5 ай бұрын

Facts 🎉

@deborahwilliams9626 3 ай бұрын

Definitely me, this thing is real.

@valeriebyrd70 5 ай бұрын

Me !!! You are definitely helping me !!!

@stellaeightp8596 2 ай бұрын

Thank you. 🙏🏾✨️

@margaretbanchansky2890 5 ай бұрын

I did exactly that. Then he went after the 2 children. So that was the end for me.

@stephnie8 5 ай бұрын

What do you mean by going after the children?

@keywoniaspencer 2 ай бұрын

@8:42 I!! I'm currently going through it as we speak! 4-year failed relationship. I left with low/no contact. I'm currently experiencing love bombing and trauma dumping from him. I expressed that he needs to go to therapy for at least a year before I would consider a relationship with him, again. Currently dating other men, and it's killing him!! I'm healing myself and learning to love myself again.