5 Tips To Be Less Awkward Around Guys

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‘5 Tips To Be Less Awkward/ Shy Around Guys’
So, you can be a bit awkward around guys. You notice yourself get tongue-tied when your crush walks over. Don’t get down, that’s pretty normal. We’ve got some good tips to boost your confidence and calm your nerves around the boys :)
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@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Hey P&M Fam! Is this something you’ve struggled with? What’s a tip that has helped you overcome awkwardness around guys? 😊
@rebelgirl6252
@rebelgirl6252 4 жыл бұрын
I really need to hear #1. Thanks!
@jordanhunt6774
@jordanhunt6774 4 жыл бұрын
It's helped me to try and realize that the guy is only human!!! He's not perfect. He's just a person like me not something to idolize over. He has feelings too and he's not looking for someone perfect. So I try to just be myself and not worry so much about how I look
@rohanplantboyjames6812
@rohanplantboyjames6812 4 жыл бұрын
Eat their ass for breakfast and all those awkward feelings just melt away. That is what I have found and it works quite well about 90% of the time.
@gustavocastroortiz7645
@gustavocastroortiz7645 4 жыл бұрын
Just wonderful, I been tryin to find out about "how can i overcome my nervousness and shyness?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. Have you ever come across - Beyophia Unimaginable Blaster - (do a search on google ) ? It is a smashing one off guide for discovering how to say goodbye to your shyness and anxiety without the headache. Ive heard some decent things about it and my colleague got excellent results with it.
@hillarypatriciaalvarez7707
@hillarypatriciaalvarez7707 4 жыл бұрын
Many thanks, I have been researching "how do i become a fun conversationalist?" for a while now, and I think this has helped. You ever tried - Beyophia Unimaginable Blaster - (search on google ) ? It is a smashing one off guide for discovering how to say goodbye to your shyness and anxiety minus the headache. Ive heard some amazing things about it and my mate got amazing success with it.
@Chryslerdealership
@Chryslerdealership 4 жыл бұрын
I used to be very akward around my crush but it really helps to just calm yourself down lol. Don't focus so much on acting a certain way around them so you can please them, just be comfortable being yourself, and even if they dont like you, thats ok. It takes a lot of pressure off of you when you're around them.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Christina D. Thanks for sharing!😊
@lucianasaavedra7759
@lucianasaavedra7759 3 жыл бұрын
YES!
@crystalovepap58
@crystalovepap58 2 жыл бұрын
This is very true.
@anveshavyas450
@anveshavyas450 Жыл бұрын
@@PaulandMorgan For me the problem is I usually don't like boys who talk nonsense but the ones who r a bit starightforward genuine and friendly.।। I can't or don't like talking to stranger or I avoid passing through those roads where I see them standing to maintain my peace of mind.I can't even make eye contact as if I ain't concerned.। So ya.।।
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285 4 жыл бұрын
One of the most attractive qualities in a woman is that she doesn't need my approval, because she already knows who she is in Christ and that she is already approved by God. 😍😍😍 She is not looking for me to "complete" her as her boyfriend...only Jesus can complete her. I can just be encouraging and supportive in that. // Y'all, women, are all BEAUTIFUL daughters of the King. God doesn't make junk. God didn't make a mistake when he made you. He fearfully and wonderfully made you who you are in Him... And the person who is right for you will see you like God does: absolutely stunning inside and out - with grace for any mess as you continually discover who you already are IN Him. Stay humbly confident in your identity in Christ. Thanks P&M!👊😃 -The Hirtz Life Show 🎥📺
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment bro😊😊
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285 4 жыл бұрын
@Paul and Morgan My Pleasure!! (
@somethinggood9267
@somethinggood9267 4 жыл бұрын
The Christian KZbin world collides!
@seekingthekingdomfirst8089
@seekingthekingdomfirst8089 4 жыл бұрын
Hirtz Life: Christian Blogs man are you married? 🤭🤣🤣 I bet yet guys who speaks like this are already taken🙃. But brother these words are fire 🔥. God bless
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285
@hirtzlifechristianblogs9285 4 жыл бұрын
Michelleee!!!! 😂 yep! I love this channel. Glad to see you here too. 👊😊
@larevival4074
@larevival4074 4 жыл бұрын
“Embrace the awkwardness” is great advice! Be cautious if they are too confident & smooth, they are probably players.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Good insight😊 Thanks for the comment!
@trinityboykins4026
@trinityboykins4026 4 жыл бұрын
Or maybe they are just confident.
@Anonymous-yq8wd
@Anonymous-yq8wd 4 жыл бұрын
Trinity Boykins i think thats where discernment is necessary. Like my friend is defs not a player but he’s so smooth. But i’ve had guy friends who are the exact same but just liked to lead me on.
@waldensiansylph4869
@waldensiansylph4869 4 жыл бұрын
I don't trust the smooth guys. I run away from those 😂
@sarahb3600
@sarahb3600 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video. Talking to the opposite sex is definitely awkward especially if there very attractive. I think sometimes married people can make it awkward at times and it puts pressure on single people. I've learned to be myself and really pray how to go about it. Not every person you meet is the one and we have to learn to be brothers/sister's in Christ and not let the pressure get to us.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Sarah B 😊
@divaagrawal2905
@divaagrawal2905 3 жыл бұрын
I'm quiet attractive like many guys like me, even my crush likes me back but I'm a very socially awkward person, when he flirts, I don't even have the nerve to respond or react. . . It's like being gifted but fucking it up
@anveshavyas450
@anveshavyas450 Жыл бұрын
Yess
@jennalillywho
@jennalillywho 4 жыл бұрын
Awe you guys made a video dedicated to me - how sweet. (>.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Jenna Lilly bahaha❤️❤️
@Ech0TheCerva
@Ech0TheCerva Жыл бұрын
This has literally given me so much relief! I just got asked out to the prom by a guy, and I’ve never dated, or even really talked to guys, and talking to him feels so awkward. Knowing he’s likely not judging my every move, and that even though he seems really calm and collected, he’s likely experiencing the same emotions I am is such a huge relief and feeling of peace! Thank you for this. You have no idea how much I appreciate it!
@karaschoen3384
@karaschoen3384 Жыл бұрын
same thing happened to me. I was wondering how it went?
@Ech0TheCerva
@Ech0TheCerva Жыл бұрын
@@karaschoen3384 well, prom is in about 5 days. Since I wrote this comment, I’ve been able to talk to him more frequently, and while I still am pretty awkward (that’s just kinda me as I don’t talk to people very much to begin with), I’ve been able to get more comfortable with him, and we’ve had a couple nice conversations. I’ll share how prom went in a week :)
@karaschoen3384
@karaschoen3384 Жыл бұрын
@@Ech0TheCerva well I hope it goes well for you!
@mariavictoriadeleon6881
@mariavictoriadeleon6881 4 жыл бұрын
Well, I am no Taylor Swift when it comes to guys🤣 BUT... I would give two tips that have helped me go from being super nervous talking to guys to the point that I wouldn't even look at them to actually being able to have great conversations with them. 1- Practice! Be bold and actually get yourself out there talking to guys. Not with the intention of flirting or getting a date but just putting yourself in that position. That way you'll be able to gain more confidence in yourself and be less scared. 2- Even if you like the guy, go into the conversation with a friendly perspective. Don't go in with the perspective "I like this guy and I want him to like me back". Enter the conversation with the perspective of gaining another friend. Talk to him like you're trying to befriend him, not date him. I think that helps ALOT. It helped me be able to not be so nervous and I even tried imagining that I was talking to my best friend. It just made the tension less.
@emilymathis4237
@emilymathis4237 4 жыл бұрын
Number two is gold, honestly. There's so much pressure when your intentions are to get him to like you back, or something. just go for friendship. Thanks for this advice!
@allisonlucas018
@allisonlucas018 4 жыл бұрын
My boyfriend and I messaged back and forth for months before we met in person at biblschool overseas. It was a bit awkward since I felt like I already knew him, but there was still that aspect of not knowing him in person. Just keep talking and get to know them. It'll get less awkward
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Allison Lucas right on😊
@Izabellaeats
@Izabellaeats 3 жыл бұрын
Mine comes over tomorrow at 1:00 pm 😅
@divaagrawal2905
@divaagrawal2905 3 жыл бұрын
I'm quiet attractive like many guys like me, even my crush likes me back but I'm a very socially awkward person, when he flirts, I don't even have the nerve to respond or react. . . It's like being gifted but fucking it up
@hxana3249
@hxana3249 3 жыл бұрын
@sama abunahla no?
@divaagrawal2905
@divaagrawal2905 3 жыл бұрын
@sama abunahla sure enough
@hxana3249
@hxana3249 3 жыл бұрын
@sama abunahla that’s she’s being stuck up
@uzwinzfan
@uzwinzfan 3 жыл бұрын
@sama abunahla so because she's socially awkward she's stuck up?? that doesn't make sense
@abbiepeytonwyatt
@abbiepeytonwyatt 4 жыл бұрын
Morgan’s hair is goals 👌😍
@lolasantiago9788
@lolasantiago9788 4 жыл бұрын
Can we just talk bout how gorgeous Morgan looks?... 🤭
@somethinggood9267
@somethinggood9267 4 жыл бұрын
Mmhmmmm I know jealousy is a sin but dang she has nice hair
@jordanhunt6774
@jordanhunt6774 4 жыл бұрын
She's cute
@Raccoon_Chic
@Raccoon_Chic 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah she's hot AF 😍
@ethanhennigan6933
@ethanhennigan6933 4 жыл бұрын
I think if a girl is nervous around me, it’s kinda cute to be honest.
@jordanhunt6774
@jordanhunt6774 4 жыл бұрын
Well it embarrasses us lol. Plus we feel stupid because we don't want you to know we're nervous!!!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Ethan Hennigan 😊
@ethanhennigan6933
@ethanhennigan6933 4 жыл бұрын
Jordan McCallister I get that. It’s the same for me 😂.
@dianasalgado3226
@dianasalgado3226 4 жыл бұрын
I relate to this video so much! I have learned to embrace my awkwardness and just go for it sometimes, and I feel like this applies to everyone. Meeting new people can be awkward too, but I’ve found that just going for it really breaks the ice and makes the other person feel more comfortable. 😊 I completely agree with Morgan as well! We gotta learn to lean on the Lord! He will always have our back! ❤️
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Diana Salgado amen, so good! ❤️
@zogly9469
@zogly9469 4 жыл бұрын
The confidence one is the big one in this list. In my opinion, it cancels out #3, the need to admit shyness/awkwardness. I personally feel like it'd be better to not call attention to the awkwardness by admitting it in conversation. Focus on the confidence instead. Confidence in who you are in Christ, who you are as a person, and also confidence that the person you're interested in is Godly and has several qualities you know you want in a spouse. Seeing that in someone would tell me that they are someone I can consider pursuing more to get to know them better. :)
@karahawkins631
@karahawkins631 4 жыл бұрын
This is well stated 🙂
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Zogly good points bro! Thanks for the insight😊
@savannaroberts8327
@savannaroberts8327 4 жыл бұрын
Hi P&M! I’m a naturally awkward person in almost any situation and I have found at least for me, that it helps if I use the nervousness as an ice breaker/to make things funny because we al know laughter is the best medicine.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
😊😊
@bequirivera8540
@bequirivera8540 4 жыл бұрын
“Give it a be thumbs up for no other reason than just to help us get up in the rankings” LOL! I immediately pressed thumbs up. It was so much honesty, I liked it!!!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
🙌🙌
@tamta814
@tamta814 4 жыл бұрын
I don't talk to guys... Unless they talk to me. And then I try to not be shy and tell myself, he is just a brother in christ, he doesn't judge you and you are perfect as you are. And then I can talk good (still I don't talk much but yeah) without being afraid.
@maybehuman9495
@maybehuman9495 4 жыл бұрын
I relate to every word of that
@estherhill1754
@estherhill1754 4 жыл бұрын
In my single season I finally get comfortable being single just me and God... then y’all pop up everywhere on my KZbin page 🤣. Paul and Morgan you guys are such a cute couple and I love how you hit home with how our confidenent is being grounded in the Lord!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Esther Hill awe haha❤️😁
@Melanie____
@Melanie____ 2 жыл бұрын
Same here I was fine until I watched these 😩 all ready to try again… with no one around. 😩
@danielbarker7685
@danielbarker7685 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a guy and overthink things waaaayyyyy too much... it's hard not to ig... Y'ALL ARE AWESOME!!! KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Daniel Barker yeah it can be tough for guys and girls😛
@vanzrox1
@vanzrox1 4 жыл бұрын
ig?
@danielbarker7685
@danielbarker7685 4 жыл бұрын
@@vanzrox1 I guess
@vanzrox1
@vanzrox1 4 жыл бұрын
@@danielbarker7685 Thanks :)
@somethinggood9267
@somethinggood9267 4 жыл бұрын
I actually think its cute and endearing when people are nervous. It shows they really like you : ) PS. I have never overcome the awkwardness. Don't know if I ever will...but that's OK.
@tfkvng3187
@tfkvng3187 4 жыл бұрын
I second this comment✊✊✊✊
@myswagobsession
@myswagobsession 2 жыл бұрын
I have three sisters and they all said different things regarding me and my awkwardness Sister 1: “React differently, get out of your head, relax your shoulders” Sister 2: “You have a lot to offer” Sister 3: “Pray, ask God to reveal in you what he want you to change, if there’s something you feel you need to do (in a healthy, Godly way of course) to feel better and more confident then do it. Tell God you’re ready to date.
@vanzrox1
@vanzrox1 4 жыл бұрын
Girls 'function' better when they are confident in themselves! like morgan says @ 7.25 -> Confidence in God -> confidence in yourself -> confidence in guys. (Esp when God simply comes first in their life!) :) Wheres cat statue?
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
MX chick_27 thanks for the comment :) Cat Statue is behind me, don’t worry😸
@karahawkins631
@karahawkins631 4 жыл бұрын
This so TRUE 😂🤣 I find myself to overthink and scare guys off!
@bellywelly3797
@bellywelly3797 10 ай бұрын
No because im so awkward around guys its insane, when im around one i literally cant controll my body/moves its always so embarrassing and awkward😓
@isabellesaad8506
@isabellesaad8506 4 жыл бұрын
I am a daughter of the King! Thank you guys-- love your videos. Always answering my prayers
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
❤️🙏
@myswagobsession
@myswagobsession 2 жыл бұрын
I am very guarded and I don’t always present who I really am around people, I present the guarded version of myself and I shy away. Part of me feels like, I’m familiar places like work or school, if I’ve presented myself in a certain way then that’s who I have to be going forward, like it will be awkward and sudden to be something else. And this is why it’s good to write things out because that is a trick and lie from the enemy! There’s always room for growth and change! UGH I hate being duped.
@brandidean579
@brandidean579 4 жыл бұрын
Who is here because they are as awkward as a fish out of water? Lol
@slayergirl6983
@slayergirl6983 4 жыл бұрын
Here's my tips. "Seize the day! cuz tomorrow you might be dead." Beat around the bush! Love is like gambling, go big or go home!" "Life is to short to worry if your crush doesn't like you or laughs at you." At least then you know how they feel and you can move on. Yes most of these are Buffy The Vampire Slayer quotes. And I'm proud out it! I'm a Jesus/Buffy freak 4 life!
@ellacarter9863
@ellacarter9863 3 жыл бұрын
The first one is such a relief, because I judge what guys say almost constantly. Haha!
@renatajoseph6399
@renatajoseph6399 4 жыл бұрын
That hair flip tho😂
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Renata Joseph 😊😂
@hannahb1666
@hannahb1666 4 жыл бұрын
Morgan: If you understand that you're a daughter of God, the one true King, you are PRINCESS the heir to a THRONE! Paul: *nods head* Yeah, yeah
@mariayang1707
@mariayang1707 4 жыл бұрын
It’s crazy bc I used to be sooo awk around my crush for YEARS and I wish i saw this vid then but in hindsight I could tell I grew ALOT from that awkwardness and praise the Lord I’m over him but God taught me EXACTLY what you said in the video 😂😂😂
@annabruegel4343
@annabruegel4343 4 жыл бұрын
I told myself that I am a princess a real true princess because I am a daughter of Jesus Christ thank you so much for reminding me I struggle with confidence especially around guys thank you guys so much for helping me out I know you helped out so many other people❤️
@slayergirl6983
@slayergirl6983 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a shy, chubby girl and I was wondering, how can I overcome being shy and awkward around guys or anyone in general?!
@haileykeller8357
@haileykeller8357 4 жыл бұрын
Ultimate Buffy Fan be yourself and learn to see yourself how God sees you! Loved, cherished, chosen, forgiven, worthy
@tamta814
@tamta814 4 жыл бұрын
And I am a skinny shy girl... 🙈Still don't know how to be not shy. But I think I am a little bit more open now. A little bit👌
@dolanduck5703
@dolanduck5703 4 жыл бұрын
Ultimate Buffy Fan I would say just be approachable, good-natured and most importantly, a woman after God’s own heart. Our physical appearance is something we’re often self conscious about and it’s something we can take steps to improve, but at the end of the day, your confidence shouldn’t come from your physical appearance but from the grace God has given you and I. I know that’s easier said than done, but I hope this helped.
@caityd2816
@caityd2816 4 жыл бұрын
Know that you are fearfully and wonderfully made and that what other people think about your body is a reflection of THEIR heart and nothing to do with you. You are not more valuable if you take up less space :)
@NyanHomeschoolGirl17
@NyanHomeschoolGirl17 4 жыл бұрын
Make sure you're healthy and learn to love your body for all its amazing functions. Learn about cells and the immune system etc. and it really makes you appreciate your body regardless of what you may find wrong with it in its appearance(which can sometimes be caused by our own poor lifestyle choices). 💪❤️
@inkandpaperloveedits
@inkandpaperloveedits 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for this video! I get SO NERVOUS around guys I like, and it’s the worst. Thank you guys so much! Love your channel! And ps Morgan, your hair is gorgeous!! And thanks for your insight to a guys perspective Paul! As for one tip, I like to prepare three easy questions to ask a guy I like, to make conversation easier.
@jarrettmcintyre6250
@jarrettmcintyre6250 4 жыл бұрын
Im just asking for one video directed for guys.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Jarrett McIntyre give this vid a watch😊👍 kzbin.info/www/bejne/f4HTio2vo5JmkK8
@slayergirl6983
@slayergirl6983 4 жыл бұрын
This is not really dating related but here's some great quotes to remember. "Strong is fighting. It's hard and painful and it's everyday." "The hardest thing in this world is to live in it. Be Brave, Live!" Buffy Summers - The Vampire Slayer.
@violetgarcia622
@violetgarcia622 2 жыл бұрын
I never thought I would get to this point lol. I ended up developing a panic disorder recently which has caused me social anxiety . And it’s been a while since I’ve hung out with a guy and there’s a guy I like and he really wants to hang but I’m scared I’m going to act weird or my anxiety is going to show 🥲
@Serinan.n
@Serinan.n 2 жыл бұрын
Anxiety is just a feeling in response to stress. Acknowledge it as a feeling. Don't be scared of it or try to push it back. Just let it be and it will go away 💜
@tfkvng3187
@tfkvng3187 4 жыл бұрын
Paul's eye is in my prayers.. That hair flip was dangerous😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Ash-ec5iq
@Ash-ec5iq 4 жыл бұрын
It actually was. Why do you think kids in dance class wear their hair back?
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
TFGamer haha thanks bro, I’m good😊👌
@Stillmikaela
@Stillmikaela 4 жыл бұрын
this is a good video since i’ll be going to college in a few months
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
stillmikaela nice!😊
@madelineprice1617
@madelineprice1617 4 жыл бұрын
Same girl! Good luck!
@maryalicestevens8195
@maryalicestevens8195 4 жыл бұрын
Morgan your hair is gorgeous🤩 do you have a certain routine or something you recommend for long hair❤️
@jasmink3841
@jasmink3841 3 жыл бұрын
i dont think its the end of the world if he doesnt like me back its just it STINGS and it may or may not take me 5 years to recover.
@syb_764
@syb_764 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much❤️ I am not socially awkward with my guy friends but I am with guys that like me back😂 I wish I wasn’t because it’s frustrating especially when I really like them but my awkwardness holds me back.
@rissaandsyd7868
@rissaandsyd7868 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the advice! Love how open and honest you guys are!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Awe thanks😊❤️
@litzy112
@litzy112 2 жыл бұрын
to be honest, i just wanna hang out with guys. i grew up around only boys cuz of my family, but as i got more “girly” (?) i kinda lost that touch. I just dont want to be awkward around them without looking like a total pick me girl or just looking like im desperate for a bf or even that i have a crush on someone. i genuinely just want to hang out with some guys. is that too much to ask for?
@bayleighetheredge1900
@bayleighetheredge1900 4 жыл бұрын
Well what if a guy you don’t like always slurs you if you loose your train of thought or say something stupid or I guess off of the wall. To make you feel small? It’s always in a group and very embarrassing. I have confidence in myself if a guy don’t like me. it really makes me mad when I don’t feel comfortable in a group because he is always analyzing anything I say especially if a have an opinion on something. I am so awkward but I come of as sarcastic sometimes or really awkward you never know what it will be☺️ advice for an awkward girl who is sick of people throwing shade on who she is!
@tabbyrh978
@tabbyrh978 4 жыл бұрын
First, Morgan, your hair is GLORIOUS haha Second, you guys were hysterical in this video and I LOVED IT 😂 But yes, reminding myself not to over-think has really helped me when it comes to not being awkward around a guy I'm interested in or just around people I'm not super familiar with in general 🙈 If we're thinking about ourselves the whole time we're in a conversation and about how we're going to come across to the other person, we'll miss opportunities to be a blessing to them :) Loved the video and I'm carving out time to eventually watch the two The Drop videos that I've missed hahaha Love you guys and keep shining
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Tabby RH amen to that! Yeah, let’s not be so preoccupied with ourselves that we miss simply loving the person😊
@cinamonni9014
@cinamonni9014 3 жыл бұрын
Im trying to approach a guy at school, but I am brand new and just moved here. Hes really nice and friendly. But as a freshman who knows nobody, its quite scary.
@adoringamore5716
@adoringamore5716 2 жыл бұрын
Your not alone😭💀 so far everything I going great for me hopefully we get to hang out of school
@stephanieanguiano1004
@stephanieanguiano1004 4 жыл бұрын
Hi Paul and Morgan! I love your channel! Iwas wondering if you could do a video about being bold in college because a professor talks bad about God and I want to say something but I get nervous. Thank you!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Stephanie Anguiano awe glad to hear it😊❤️ Thanks for the topic suggestion :)
@shelbyjs7031
@shelbyjs7031 4 жыл бұрын
you personally have a professor who talks about God in the classroom? What is said?
@stephanieanguiano1004
@stephanieanguiano1004 4 жыл бұрын
Shelby JS yes he just mocks God and Christianity. He says that people just hope for a solution to their problems
@forsuchatimeasthis1162
@forsuchatimeasthis1162 4 жыл бұрын
@@stephanieanguiano1004 Pray for that professor and ask the Holy Spirit to lead and guide in how to speak up :))
@Ash-ec5iq
@Ash-ec5iq 4 жыл бұрын
@@shelbyjs7031 In philosophy this is totally normal. Even in some other classes but I don't really buy that a professor would mock anything if anything they are probably questioning religion and yes this happens in college.
@eliwiggins6377
@eliwiggins6377 4 жыл бұрын
Soooo can we get a vid about how the guys can be less awkward? I feel like because the ball is more in our court to make the 1st move, nervousness is rampant. Could we get some tips on how to approach the 1st move?
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Xzavier Wiggins give this video a watch :) kzbin.info/www/bejne/f4HTio2vo5JmkK8
@eliwiggins6377
@eliwiggins6377 4 жыл бұрын
@@PaulandMorgan Thanks for the reference. I checked it out and it's good advice. I dont know if I'm in a place to act on it yet cause I'm a 17 year old freshman in college and dont even have enough money to get off campus. Thanks for the tips. I'll hold on to them🙏🏾
@vanzrox1
@vanzrox1 4 жыл бұрын
5.16 - no awkwardness factor -> would having perfectionist nature be a problem?
@alexturnerspookie
@alexturnerspookie 2 ай бұрын
i'm so down bad i searched this up
@madelineprice1617
@madelineprice1617 4 жыл бұрын
I really needed this. Thank you Paul and Morgan!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Awe welcome!❤️
@Me-ec9uz
@Me-ec9uz 3 жыл бұрын
When i were child... My friends are always guys. But when i get older i can't
@lol-hn9ik
@lol-hn9ik 2 жыл бұрын
SOME GUY I LIKED SAID HI TO ME AND I STARED BLANKLY FOR A SECOND AND WAS LIKE….”ME?” OFJSJSJSJSKSHAHBS
@KateAnastasia
@KateAnastasia 4 жыл бұрын
It's like you read my mind! Thank you for this!!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Kate Anastasia awe welcome😊
@Mya_MG
@Mya_MG 3 жыл бұрын
I realize that I’m scared to talk to guys cause I feel most guys won’t like my personality like I’m a goofy person who is active and is fun and I feel like most guys are serious and boring but idk so I just don’t talk to them help me 😩😩.
@Charlotte-xh5lp
@Charlotte-xh5lp 4 жыл бұрын
Aww... Thanks for for this video. I'm struggeling with that for some time now. And God just sends you. Greetings from Switzerland
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
😊❤️
@trishaelizabeth7570
@trishaelizabeth7570 4 жыл бұрын
Oh hi I'm from switzerland as well🤗 God bless!
@liaxry
@liaxry 2 жыл бұрын
Growing up i have never talked to boys before so i am so awkward and im kinda scared to make guy friends in highschool
@autumnbelle9700
@autumnbelle9700 4 жыл бұрын
Great video! Loved it! I just got your book and can't wait to read it
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Awe yay! Hope you like it😊❤️
@vanessalozano7112
@vanessalozano7112 4 жыл бұрын
”Hey guys! How are you doing? I just wanted to say that your videos have been such a big blessing from God to my life. Would you give me the 5 tips (briefly). Thanks a lot in advance!”. I don't speak English :/
@cristinacavalli97
@cristinacavalli97 4 жыл бұрын
And if he makes fun of my decision to wait till marriage?😭
@seekingthekingdomfirst8089
@seekingthekingdomfirst8089 4 жыл бұрын
Cristina Cavalli then He is not a Godly man. He won’t think that’s funny if he really fears the Lord.
@stephaniepoindexter9275
@stephaniepoindexter9275 3 жыл бұрын
I struggle with being around guys.
@misscolettepoppins
@misscolettepoppins 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks Paul and Morgan! Could you maybe do one on how to get over someone who doesn’t like you?
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Give this vid a watch :) kzbin.info/www/bejne/fqbNoH-or6itnbc
@inkandpaperloveedits
@inkandpaperloveedits 2 жыл бұрын
Morgan: *hairflip* “Helloooo!”
@marybrown7078
@marybrown7078 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the smiles and encouragement ♡ Loved the bloopers 👏👏👏
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Haha good😊❤️
@briannacunningham4265
@briannacunningham4265 3 жыл бұрын
I’m a 18 year old girl going on my first date in 5 days and I’m having nervous about it but I’m confident in myself that I’ll have fun
@briannacunningham4265
@briannacunningham4265 3 жыл бұрын
@luh.breezyyy really good, he is my boyfriend now and we have been dating for a month now
@smaytaganya1446
@smaytaganya1446 2 жыл бұрын
@@briannacunningham4265 good luck 💕
@briannacunningham4265
@briannacunningham4265 2 жыл бұрын
@@smaytaganya1446 update we have been together for 5 months
@smaytaganya1446
@smaytaganya1446 2 жыл бұрын
@@briannacunningham4265 omg congratulations 👏🏾💌
@ilikefood5918
@ilikefood5918 5 ай бұрын
were always staring at eachother but were so awkward when a chance to speak comes up ughh i hope we get another chance im gunnna try my best to get the instagram or something
@evalynsummers2901
@evalynsummers2901 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the timely, thoughtful video, P&M! Your insights are so good here. :)
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
😊❤️
@sarahlucy286
@sarahlucy286 4 жыл бұрын
Yes, EMBRACE THE AWKWARD!!! In my limited dating experience (four dates with one guy) that's the biggest thing I've learned.
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
😊🙌
@markmoore8399
@markmoore8399 4 жыл бұрын
Despite being a guy, I initially feel this video being more about my own awkwardness around women.
@seekingthekingdomfirst8089
@seekingthekingdomfirst8089 4 жыл бұрын
Mark Moore aww lol. Let’s the Lord be your confidence. He knows what’s best for you. I can be the most awkward person sometimes every has that moment too
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Mark Moore it can def go both ways :)
@laurcoustic277
@laurcoustic277 4 жыл бұрын
So-I liked someone for a long time, I saw them a couple times a week and thought something might happen-but nothing ever did-so now I’m over it, but I still find it strange to talk to them, and I feel like I’m avoiding them, but they aren’t making any effort to talk to me either-so I don’t know, it’s just awkward!!!! 😬
@luisaluisa3285
@luisaluisa3285 3 жыл бұрын
I think the key is just the vibe they give you cause if they be like not very interested then you can't save it lol
@nevaehblair8691
@nevaehblair8691 4 жыл бұрын
How has your day been going?
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Nevaeh Blair good, thank you!
@lyndsaymacqueen5623
@lyndsaymacqueen5623 4 жыл бұрын
thank you for this video it was very helpful!!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Good! 😊
@rebeccamclaren97
@rebeccamclaren97 2 жыл бұрын
Guys are simpletons 😭😄 I know that's not 100% accurate BUT this is by far the most helpful (practical) tip that actually really helps! 🙌💃 Knowing who you are in Christ though.. that's so precious! 👑 In every conversation, in every interaction and introduction, let Him lead, for where He guides, He provides ♥️
@ayatosakamaki92
@ayatosakamaki92 3 жыл бұрын
Every video on this topic talks about crush but I really have a problem with almost guys. I don't even want to go for classes. It's stressing me so much. I don't know why I'm like this. I really don't like this but I can't control. My life is really hard
@thegamerpro1018
@thegamerpro1018 3 жыл бұрын
Wish me luck for tomorrow I have to hug my crush I owe him one 😭
@SandiBaize
@SandiBaize 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for encouraging us young people to read God’s Word. And to be Godly!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Lissandra Baize of course!
@dasaasadaris3675
@dasaasadaris3675 4 жыл бұрын
Hey Paul and Morgan. Can you bring Christian people who watch anime. I as a Christian I like anime a lot. At the same time I find myself being VEEEEERY selective with the anime I watch, because many themes are pretty sinisters. I'd like to hear a perspective in a video, a topic you've never dealt before and it can be very interesting
@jazzqueen1
@jazzqueen1 4 жыл бұрын
nice video and great tips Paul and Morgan
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you😊😊
@RaraAviss
@RaraAviss 5 ай бұрын
Im incredibly akward and quiet in front of men Im atracted to but confident and charismatic with guys Im not interested in. It gives the worst results
@devynedwards8887
@devynedwards8887 4 жыл бұрын
I think this is applicable for guys as well!
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
😊😊
@Luellav
@Luellav 2 жыл бұрын
I really need help I’m in year nine and I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half and it’s always so awkward we both like each other but we can’t hug or anything 😢
@Emily-jo4ly
@Emily-jo4ly 3 жыл бұрын
my crush started asked me out today and we’re so awkward now🥸🥸
@allyandersen
@allyandersen 4 жыл бұрын
This is super relevant for me 😂 💙 love you guys
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Awe good😊❤️
@Don-sy7mg
@Don-sy7mg 4 жыл бұрын
Day in the life of squishy video please
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Doc SportsMed haha ooohhh 😊😊
@carasvoice
@carasvoice 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you guys for this. You people are so cute and funny 😂😂😂 God bless you guys so much in Jesus name!
@kamahorodaphnepatra
@kamahorodaphnepatra 4 жыл бұрын
Am just grateful it was so true
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
😊
@Mariaelaina10
@Mariaelaina10 4 жыл бұрын
Y’all are always goofy but today you were extra goofy haha I loved it! God bless you both 🥰
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Haha 😛❤️
@evigoemyne3506
@evigoemyne3506 Жыл бұрын
One of my guy friends asked me to be his gf and I said yes, but now I’m super awkward and I don’t know what to do.
@stephaniepoindexter9275
@stephaniepoindexter9275 3 жыл бұрын
hey did God tell you to make this video for me. I am so awkward and weird.
@emmaelise8145
@emmaelise8145 4 жыл бұрын
Morgan's hair is flawless😍
@somethinggood9267
@somethinggood9267 4 жыл бұрын
I'm gonna give a thumbs up coz of the hair flip that got Paul in the eyeball
@Ash-ec5iq
@Ash-ec5iq 4 жыл бұрын
It could have actually permanently damaged his eye. Thought it was immature.
@somethinggood9267
@somethinggood9267 4 жыл бұрын
@@Ash-ec5iq oh. Why immature? I'm sure that wasn't her goal to hurt him
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Michelleee haha😁😛
@jasmineabrams4992
@jasmineabrams4992 4 жыл бұрын
Wait i have a question if you have a friend and they are a guy is it okay to hug them and you don't have feelings like that for them their just close friends
@lilninibee
@lilninibee 3 жыл бұрын
I’m so nervous because it’s my first time going to a guys house. We’re friends but we have feelings for each other, there is some flirting going on and he he just asked me to come to his house or that he can come to mine. Ahhh help!! 😟😱
@awwadheb221
@awwadheb221 3 жыл бұрын
what happen
@mablecarlson9370
@mablecarlson9370 4 жыл бұрын
Bloopers❤❤❤
@PaulandMorgan
@PaulandMorgan 4 жыл бұрын
Jessica Carlson haha😛❤️
@miaramona6257
@miaramona6257 2 жыл бұрын
I've always struggled w this
@b4kingngloryt664
@b4kingngloryt664 4 жыл бұрын
I dont know why I'm like ths but sure
@juju-be4279
@juju-be4279 3 жыл бұрын
I didn’t realize this was a Christian channel until she started talking about Christ 😂
@tiamarie6719
@tiamarie6719 2 жыл бұрын
I didn't realize that at first either. I thought this video was just going to be about how to flirt properly, not a religious discussion. I don't think this is the right video for me to learn from. I am a Christian, but only to a certain degree. Also, since I have autism and a lot of flirting failures with guys in the past; since I have trouble with being subtle, I don't think embracing the awkwardness is good advice for me. But, I do agree with the fact that it's not the end of the world if you get rejected even though it hurts at the time when it happens and it's a good idea to move on after that. Although, it's challenging sometimes.
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