5 Ways Parents Alienate Children (Without a Word)

[@palmamingozzi5736]

In my case I’m the alienated parent and at this point I told my daughters that when they’re ready they can come home. I miss my daughters everyday of my life.

[@Lifelessons101-23]

The best you can do is live a life by example. Children will almost always choose path of least resistance. It can almost feel like a betrayal, but I take peace knowing and accepting that us humans are simply creatures of habit and our life goes through cycles of unlearning a lot. They too will experience that and keeping yourself healthy and living well is important. Easier said then done, but it’s truly best

[@TyMan922]

I'm so sorry that is happening to you. They do not deserve this horrendous treatment and neither do you. PA is child abuse and domestic violence.

[@kimparke6653]

Not when they are ready, when they are done with abuse is more like it.

[@megans1855]

If they are minors, go to court and fight to get some custody back. It's a tough road, but the only road, and it's tough living with alienation anyway. It's not healthy or right for the alienating parent to have the children they are abusing, 100% of the time. My family went through this, so I know what it's like.

[@Dietconsulting]

​@@megans1855 we did that an failed. My partner got the best birthday present ever yesterday, his eldest daughter contacting us to say she's moving out of her mother's house and she recognises there are a lot of problems with how her mother behaves.

[@mikewhitney2147]

Madi is another alienated kid who was lucky enough to grow up and figure things out for herself. Even better, she is now a sharp young advocate who speaks out strongly against this intricate, widespread and brutal form of abuse called parental alienation.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

I LOVE IT❤

[@heartonsleeve1298]

Before marrying someone - have a good and deep look on their relationship with their parents - you will know what to expect. So sorry I didn`nt do this when the time was right.

[@Wolfparkinson]

All aspects of this I have lived through with 4 children who are the real victims, I’m glad to hear that someone is making sure people know what happens in a situation like this.

[@jeremyjames2062]

Ive experienced every single thing you've named 100 times over.

[@rootintobeing]

It's so insidious - crying to the children about their other parent "taking them away" from them, having adult conversations about court "with a friend" but purposely within earshot of the kids, surrounding the kids with yes-men who never question their ab*ser, parentifying the child and leaning on them to emotional support their parent, installing over-the-top home security systems to show the kids how unsafe they are in the outside world... it all sends a very clear message.

[@aussiejuju]

Absolutely agree. Incredibly abusive.

[@sherrydickie8459]

You are correct!

[@HeadroomM]

Alienation needs to be criminalized. We need people like you Madi. Thank you for being the voice that you are.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

It's CALLED SEGREGATION IN HOUSE SEGREGATION UNCIVIL IN AMERICA IN THE STREETS SINCE 1968 AN ECONOMIC VIOLATION iN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA

[@heatherem5690]

It would be too hard to prove and would lead to so many false charges Im the primary parent and my sons dad was still able to turn them against me, Make them scared of me and poison their opinion on me Once they became teens they realized and stopped seeing him Cue him accusing me of PA, and ignorant people believing him bc people saw the boys rejecting him and thought well it must be mom alienating them! No, theyre sick of their dads tears and sob stories about how mean I am And the flip side was his utter disdain for me, their mom, having to hear about what a whr I am etc He did it to himself but narcissistic people use weaponized psychology He knows what alienating is and that hes doing it so he knows exactly how to paint me as one

[@karenmichaels9997]

In some countries PA is a criminal offense. In the United States, all states make emotional child abuse a criminal offense, and some extreme cases of parental alienation, stage 3 - Severe, may be considered emotional child abuse. The difficulity is all the self-professed "PA Professionals" on the subject, Lawyers, Guardian ad Litem, Therapist and Psychologist, who are mostly clueless on the subjust and can do more harm than good. Especially at the most critical time of the childs indoctrination. A covert narcissist and alienator can easily manipulate and decieved these "PA Professionals".

[@fffrfrw]

Problem is legal systems have no repercussions on alienator. They can get away with whatever they want

[@taebond007]

You literally hit the nail on the head. This is exactly what’s happening in my case. Also to add they not only get parents friends, guardian items judges they also use coaches principles counselors of schools, their spouses their family members they even will go so far as to manipulate and brainwash, the targeted parents family members as well, they will do and everything they can to keep that child with them and they will use any flying monkey that is weak enough to take their bait. It is so unfortunate that all of our children are in prison. They are in Coach CULTS they are Being held hostage and they don’t even realize it they are being manipulated and brainwashed against their own so-called parent that is terrible. It is one of the most atrocious crimes that could ever be committed on a child a teenager or a young adult. It’s terrible and the court system is profiting off our pain. It’s just so happens to be a $50 billion a year industry, isn’t that terrible

[@Gadol_Adonai_196]

This is why the legal fraternity will always play blind to this type of abuse, because their own children/ family are most often shielded from this. Imagine a family court judge spouse is Alienating their children? The likelihood of this happening is slim to none.....this is why they benefit from the pain of others who come before them in Court

[@y.a.p8951]

​@@Gadol_Adonai_196 the families of judges become , lawyers, judges or politicians. our kids become , broken with ptsd and a lot of trust issues. 💔

[@dr.marnihillfoderaro1064]

Madi, thank you for continuing to speak the truth about the heartbreaking damage done to children by parents who alienate. 💕

[@TheAnti-AlienationProject]

you’re so welcome!

[@slicklicks4468]

Spot on. School book material. The look of disapproval. A lot of things make sense. That my daughter often appeared to be reluctant in wanting to see me - most likely dreading the ensuing aftermath and interrogation. The sick twist her mum would add is then telling me that she “made” my daughter go with me inspite of her reluctant attitude towards me. She - the alienator- was always very adamant in portraying herself as the mother that “wants» her daughter spend time with her dad. But if the daughter doesn’t want it - then what can she do. She’s tried everything. So there must be clearly something wrong with her dad. Why else would she not want to go. She sick shit is people by that kind of story. Even my own brother. Thank you and thank you 🙏 you have made my day

[@zaygfazinetto]

Everything you mentioned is on point, Madi. Another thing some alienators do, for example, is to enroll the kid in some extracurricular activity and have the targeted parent's last name removed under the premise that "he's not paying" for these classes. The worst part is that the majority of times, the kid sees this as normal and doesn't even question or judge this ridiculous shallow and materialistic behavior by the alienator.

[@zaneyenny]

.....my blood is boiling. My daughter has been dealing with this for a decade.

[@EllenCPickle]

I am the alienated parent that has been targeted for 16 years. I pray one day they find the truth!

[@DallasAustin2477]

I haven’t seen my daughter since March 2023. She tried to harm herself and when I went to the hospital I was told to leave by security. Not one update, not even when a GAL. I had no more money and May 2, 2024 walked away. I tried to show the judge that he was being evicted, she said no one is listening to you. June 22, 2024 moving trucks where at his apartment and now no one knows where she is.Sad, a huge family that she loved being around and she is just gone. 😢 I was married to my ex for 18 years and it’s weird this is the same pattern he used on me in the beginning. First my friends, and then my family😢 Put I will keep smiling and giving them love to those I can. I will grow stronger for her because she may show up one day.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

These judges & lawyers pick pocket situations for SEGREGATION THEY ARE A DISGRACE TO THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA

[@ronatherton7217]

The alienator also after constant day to day negative talk about the tp, if the child falls out of line even a little bit will say things like “I’m just gonna send you to live it’s your dad” or “I’m calling your dad to come get you” making it into a threat to send with this “unsafe” person etc.

[@TheAnti-AlienationProject]

Omg!!!!! I totally forgot that my mom would do that

[@ronatherton7217]

@@TheAnti-AlienationProject I’m so sorry this happened to you… 😔truly. My story is one of so many twists and turns, my head spins as much as my heart breaks.. unfortunately (and kinda fortunately) I witnessed my ex do/say this to our oldest daughters (about their dad) who I actually raised and adopted.. then after the divorce she switched it around and pushed them back towards him (away from me) .. we also had two daughters together, who she managed to alienate my youngest from me as well, usingvsame tactics as the older two, but was unsuccessful with the oldest as we had/have an unbreakable bond.. after the divorce both of your younger daughter came with me… the story like I said is so convoluted with twists.. it would actually blow even your mind..

[@y.a.p8951]

interesting, never thought about it. Well, I thought but more in a joking way rather than threat. 🤔

[@christopherkeller5564]

Another great video, Madi - and it brings up an important, though counterintuitive, aspect of alienation. When a child is alienated, the first thing ppl believe (if they suspect alienation) is that the alienating parent must be emitting a constant barrage of negative verbal comments about the targeted parent. But as you eloquently state in this clip, that is often not the case. Thus the child can be strongly alienated, yet truthfully say, "Mom doesn't talk bad about Dad." And then ppl tend to believe that the targeted parent, rather than the alienating parent, is the reason why the child has rejected the targeted parent. The alienator's covert approach skillfully covers the alienator's tracks, and, more insidiously, makes the child believe he has reached his negative beliefs about his targeted parent on his own. The child doesn't suspect alienation and continues to trust the "loving" alienator. Thanks for continuing to educate all of us, Madi!! You'll probably never realize how much you've helped me - and I am highly grateful to you!!

[@matt2133]

Well said

[@marcynaivar7843]

Very well said!

[@idnic]

My husband and I could not go on one trip or vacation or have time with my stepson without the presence of his mother. She called constantly but what she really did was convey insecurity and fear so that eventually, my stepson’s mantra was often, particularly on our vacations together, “Can I call mom? Can I call mom?” We’re we gonna say no? Of course not, but he often approached us as if we were bound to say no. And when he spent time events and vacations with his mother? Voicemails and calls that were never returned. In some cases she straight up hung up the phone while my husband was leaving a message. Emotional abuse is long term damage.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

Spill the beans ❤

[@concious.co-parent16]

Without a word, I remember that behavior from her towards me while we were dating and married and now divorced. I never thought she was disturbed enough to use the same behavior towards the children. Thank you Maddie for doing what you do.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

Individuals do this tactic 🎬however families do this & also Nations🎥 if they can't come in AS the hero THEY DO IT AS THE VICTIM />> I HAVE STUDIED NIMROD FOR MANy YRS IN THE AKADEAN EMPIRE better known as Mr VALENTINE HALF MAN HALF ANAMAL

[@georgiakritikos4955]

This tactic has been picked up by COURTS🎬LIKE SALEM PROBATE COURT MASSACHUSETTS IN KRITIKOS VS DEROSA Salem Massachusetts Probate Court 🎥 is a DISGRACE for it

[@concious.co-parent16]

@@georgiakritikos4955 I concur. I notice it in the relationship between us and our govt for sure. Thank you for everything

[@timsutherland-fc6xu]

Tick, Tick Tick and Tick. So many Ticks. So many points here that I recognise. Very sad but so true.

[@dr.marnihillfoderaro1064]

@@timsutherland-fc6xu it’s your friend Marni and I know your heartache! You’re a wonderful dad who has been wrongly alienated from your son. 💕🙏🏼

[@jAm00217]

Another tactic of the alienating parent is to demonize the targeted parent and then actually make that happen. For example, your mom is mad today. She woke up mad today. I don’t know what’s wrong with her, but she is really upset and then go in behind closed doors and start a fight where the target parent is now mad, they do this over and over and over again under any kind of circumstances like you said about your dad being late or your mom is a bad driver and then harass them while they’re driving. It’s so mind-boggling.

[@rootintobeing]

Bingo! 🎯🎯🎯

[@nailynntynette]

Sounds like what my mom would do; however, and unfortunately, the damage to my dad (on top of his own childhood trauma) was so great that I cant be around either one.😢

[@y.a.p8951]

there's a lot of tactics. When I first time saw my daughter I asked her what she wants , she replied she wants the doll. My next visit in the center she was already holding the doll she asked me for. It happens everytime you gift something , the alienator give something similar but now it's from favourite parent and your gift is tossed away. The other tactic is to make a shedule for the entire week full of activities, so you don't have the chance to adjust the time. Most of these activities go away as soon as they establish in court room how many days a month you see your kids.

[@northerngaltrue]

Thank you Madi!! This is the video I’ve been waiting for! It’s so difficult to explain the subtlety to people outside the system. Enmeshed! This explains so much. Parentified. Exactly!! Body language. Yes! No one else talks about this. My ex was brilliant at micro expressions. Very masterful. But smart enough to SAY all the right things. My children think they need to protect and save this grown man. He has no concern at all about what his behaviour is producing in them. Anxiety. Depression. Oblivious.

[@andreamenjivar4664]

I experienced ALL of these as an alienated child AND as a TARGETED parent on STEROIDS where THEY ALL ALIGNED TOGETHER damaging my children detrimentally 😔 They are 27 & 25 NOW STILL with FUNDAMENTAL CORE behaviors / mindsets from these SADISTIC PEOPLE 🤦‍♀️

[@SharonPurcell-l4t]

After 30 years I have lost my fight to keep my son in my life. Maybe fight is the wrong word. It’s been a heart wrenching journey of keeping myself as cheerful and loving as possible while not criticizing my ex. I simply couldn’t compete with him and his family’s constant attacks. I am crushed beyond words. Never giving up seems impossible at this point.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

Never Give Up❤Enjoy Each Day

[@brianh1969]

I have questioned and brought up to therapists concerns I had about minor conflicts with my kids that then resulted in them not coming over to my house on the designated days and this distancing. Its like a house of cards and this unbalanced tug of war. I seem to work my way back into what appears to be a good relationship only to lose all the ground I just gained for unexplained reasons. On Occasion, there would be a disagreement with their mom or one of them and suddenly I am shut out by one, more, or all of them. It's painful, I feel like I have to walk on egg shells around them, like I can't be my authentic self, it is mentally abusive and traumatic. I am not perfect. Yet, I have been there for my kids. These videos have really helped me find a new confidence, renewed hope, a new level of determination, and a reason to keep fighting for them. Honestly, I have been ready to walk away cuz it seemed clear by their words and actions that this is what they wanted was me out of their lives. I have been heart broken, and invalidated, unappreciated, and lately disrespected. However, my experience so parallels what you are describing. Yes, it's difficult to miss out on so much of their daily lives. Yet, & you get partial credit, my oldest daughter is starting to reach back out. In fact, Sat I got to spend nearly 2 hours at the park with her and my almost 2 yr. Old grandson whom I barely have seen in over 3 months. It was awesome. I cannot tell you how much I was filled with joy and lit up. The videos you share about "your experience" what made a difference, meant something to you, what you noticed and remember that your dad did, even the things you wished he would have done. Thank you Madi and those willing to share their stories, insights or time with you. I am truly grateful and appreciative.

[@casanostra9278]

My husband is going through this right now , and I’m helping him understand alienation as an alienated child myself. My mom had a restarting order on my father saying he was abusive , I never seen my dad hit my mother. He couldn’t do anything about it because he was an immigrant. He used to sit outside our house for hours because he wanted to see us. My mom would say if we go outside to say hi she would hit us. Then my teenage years came and I got into drugs and partying and bad relationships. This truly affects a lot of children and I’m sadden that now my step daughter has to go through this with her mother. We have court but as a lot of people say court doesn’t really understand alienation. Good thing we have some evidence of what’s happening.

[@zaneyenny]

How you felt as a child, I felt as the spouse. Always on high alert of the abusers mood and feeling like I needed to accommodate. My daughter has been filling that position and will continue to until she figures everything out. Thank you so much for these and please keep speaking out. We are all learning with you.

[@otislockhart9385]

Truth 💯 keep telling the truth of this horrible experience. Thank you.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

Spill the Beans 2/22/21 on behalf of Robin William's ❤

[@TyMan922]

All of those things happened in my case. All access blocked. No idea what's going on for over 5 years now. Likely being transitioned though. She'll never ever be the same after what her mother has done.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

A MAP 🎥 ON HOW THEY DO IT🎬PICK POCKETS COURT ASSISTED

[@GautamVir-z7e]

Madi, this video has been one of your most beautiful and absolutely on the dot, w.r.t. what I’m going through with my beautiful daughter and how her mother is treating the both of us. She’s subjected us to each and every one of there covert tactics and pettiness. Having said that, what would be helpful would be, to have tools and your guidance and ideas, to empower my daughter and myself to protect ourselves and each other ( me protecting my daughter) from this monster. She’s been stalling the divorce process for a year now, though we’ve been separated for the past 5 years. I also wanted to thank you for the work you’re doing. Your genuineness and kindness shines through your eyes and face. I don’t want my gorgeous daughter and myself to lose 20 years, before we find our way back home to each other. She’s 8 now.

[@kendrickking9945]

I’m going thru this right now. I’ve been married for 6 yrs, have 2 stepkids (age 9,11) and they’ve been alienated by the actual father’s side of the family & have been accused of being abusive. They have even told the kids to burn my clothing, that they’re mom chose a man over them, Among other things. The courts have put the kids in the temporary custody of my wife’s mom and they are allowed only to speak with & see their mom and the actual dad. This man has done ABSOLUTELY NOTHING FOR THEM. I’ve been with them their entire lives practically and it is so FRUSTRATING that a judge would rule to cut the out of the equation that the kids actually respected and loved BEFORE being talked down on and ridiculed right in front of their faces. Right the my wife tells me the my stepson told her yesterday “Mommy let him get his own food, don’t fix him anything to eat ” and she had to correct him! I have also found out that the alienating side bought the other child a phone and she’s been hiding the secret the last 3 years! I haven’t seen the kids in a month and a half. In that time, my stepson is talking back, disrespecting his grandmother now, shushing her, and listening to vulgar music. My stepdaughter has been hiding and watching porn from the time she was removed from our home! This is the affect of parental alienation and false accusations!

[@calibrais]

Thank-you Madie, while I've been following your channel for ages as an alienated parent, I'm catching up upon videos I've missed, and have learned especially so much from this one today. Thanks again for all you do in this area, it is gratefully appreciated. Greg, NZ

[@magtafcmdr8621]

My ex has employed all of these in her efforts to turn our daughter against me. She's got our daughter remembering instances of abuse that never happened. If the alienating parent is covert and the child starts manufacturing abuse allegations its almost impossible for Family Court to identify the true dynamics at work.

[@urmomismybitxh1371]

Courts favor father's especially if abuse is brought up just fyi

[@y.a.p8951]

this is the full description of my alienator. Now I'm on stage 6 in life and i barely holding up. Thank you, your videos helping me from gettin completely insane. It's so obvious how they're operating. They don't hide it at all but me as the "monster" there's no cure to heal.😢

[@djhogan65]

Alienated dad here. These were all deployed on my child mostly covert style by mother, and at the same time the new husband openly expresses hostility and hatred towards me. Covert mum insists “I don’t say bad things about dad’ …. But she loves what her new husband says to my little girl! My daughter has ZERO choice, she must hate me, or the psychological punishment will be totally overwhelming. I have not seen my daughter for over a year😢

[@KellyM-gv3bo]

Same with me but with her father. It’s the cruelest thing to watch her father do this to my daughter. She just told her older brother the other day, “Dad and I fight like an old married couple.” It’s so sick. He buys her flowers and jewelry and hangs out in her room while they watch movies on her bed- this has now come to a halt since she has her first boyfriend with whom her father makes fun of to my son. Then my son tells me. It’s so sick and I wish I never met him to have children by. Ughhhhh

[@djhogan65]

@@KellyM-gv3bo Yes, the worst thing is seeing how our children get hurt in a situation they should not be put in, and we are powerless to stop the pain and reduce/remove the dangers. I believe that my daughter is being groomed by the new husband, so of course he is keen to alienate me from her. As a father I would be willing to die to protect my little girl, but how can I protect my child when the Family Law Courts will do nothing to protect her, and they strip me of all power to intervene and protect my little girl as a father should.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

It's Court Assisted, to sneak the unlawfull in the legal & THE JUDGES & LAWYERS ARE USEING THE CHILDREN 🚨A NATIONAL EMERGENCY

[@KellyM-gv3bo]

@@djhogan65 it’s unreal! How old is your little girl? She will wake up one day and understand.

[@y.a.p8951]

​@@KellyM-gv3bo the trouble is, now every kid wakes up. Some of them they have too much hatred, some of them don't know any better. It's really scary to see pictures of young Madie and here in front of us sitting young lady who's nothing like the young child her father knew once.

[@Mjciampi22]

Talking about the parent in front of other people, really tearing them down. There is a lot more, and you brought up so many good ones. I wish I could think of more, but I don't always see that side. I'm thankful i don't see it, because it all makes me ill, using kids at all makes me sick.

[@jeffgolden253]

Another outstanding video from Madi! Most parent-child communication is non-verbal. This begins at birth, when the child has no verbal skills at all. Communication begins with smiles, frowns, gestures, as well as feeding, bathing, cuddling, etc. There is no specific time when this ends. Immediately following my daughter's birth, she was lying on a hospital warming table and crying. I sat next to her, spoke to her, and gently rubbed her tummy. She quieted down and smiled. Why? She was a new-born. She had no verbal skills. I think its because she knew my voice from in-utero, and she knew my touch from when I would rub her mom's belly when she was kicking. And that communication never ends. In my own relationship with my mother, I knew her for 63 years and, although she was plenty verbal too, I could always tell her mood and how she felt about things just by her mannerisms. Non-verbal communications never ends.

[@jeremyjames2062]

I remember the relief my child felt when I told them they didn't have to come over anymore. It was devastating but I knew it was best for the child. It also made the alienation worse for me.

[@princessmadero1]

@@jeremyjames2062 how did it make the alienation worse for you? I’m getting to this point of telling my daughter the same thing.

[@jeremyjames2062]

@@princessmadero1 my child was relieved not to come over since the alienator made it difficult to exist peacefully at my home. So they stopped coming for a long time. When I did pick them up we'd hang out but they never stayed overnight again.😔

[@Minecrafter-vx4bo]

I haven't seen my son in about 7 years. So much of your videos are quite familiar to me. These days I am just trying to figure out what (and what not) to do.

[@candicebadie3463]

Great job as always. I’m a mom that has had to deal with this. It’s been over 4 years now since having time with my oldest son. He is now 19 out there on his own and still hates me. The other kids have had some of these tactics to manage from their other parent. I’m doing my best to not alter me especially when they are with me but I’m grieving the loss of a child every day. It’s hard. Now when the kids are here they don’t want to do things we used to do. It’s difficult to manage. We all went through this with my oldest daughter at 16 from her father (different dad) through the courts. She is now 22 and back home with me as we repair what had been done so I’m praying one day for my son to see the truth and return as well.

[@simonmorgan9132]

My ex sprays Teddy bears with her perfume so she won't be forgotten when my child is with me

[@Vincellent]

Madi, this is so on point, literally every word, and it took me years to truly understand these devices my wife turned my children with. In the summers where we worked, there were huge family parties in the country every weekend where we worked. I was always there to make sure my kids wouldn't fall into someone's creek or get hurt. My wife would show up at the last minute at the end when everyone was leaving, after likely being out drinking with some sympathetic crony, and then ignore and shun me in front of all the kids and families to communicate and alienate me. Relatives and inlaws would visit and she would walk ahead of me with them with her back turned to show her passive aggression. It took me years as well to realize that she was playing victim to my children in our bedroom with alligator tears when I wasn't around as well. When I faced her and finally questioned her on what she was doing, it was too late and then she became truly cruel in front of my kids towards me and denigrating both me and our marriage, despite the fact that we had everything anyone could possibly wish for. Our home, as you said, was 'electrically charged' with the passive aggression and confusion, and it was impossible to have a moments peace. Chilren should never have to go through this, and in fact no one should. I had always thought of my home and marriage as a refuge and a safe place in the midst of our work and worries in the world, but after 25 years, it became a hell with my wife never relenting or feeling any responsibility or care for what she was doing to our beautiful family. I'm still dealing with adult children and the thorough brainwashing they received after I was alienated from their lives. I found by googling one adult daughter had been seriously ill recently, and when I texted my wife why I wasn't informed so I could help, there was never an answer. This heartlessnes is something I never experienced from anyone in my entire life.

[@jeroenimus7528]

My ex unfortunately believes I'm the source of all evil, it's her way to cope with things and unfortunately I am unable to make her see things differently. What I am afraid of is that this might lead to our 3yo being slowly but surely alienated from me. Already everything that reminds mum of me has been removed from the house (due to how courts work it's next to impossible to get the bairn to live with me), even her favourite Teddy (with my voice in it's paw) has been "evicted" from the house and stay here. Also a lot (if not all) of her friends are blatantly ignoring me if they see me, giving nonverbal messages that I must be "bad". What can I do to avoid this all from affecting my wee one and making her feel she has to choose between mum or dad?

[@lonewolf0283]

My daughter’s mother has reinforced the concept that her stepfather is my “replacement” even though he obviously came into her life AFTER ME.

[@binyomin1000]

Thank you Madi. Keep up the good work! As a targeted father your videos gives so much strength and hope..Yes, one day the kids will learn the truth and will be out of the control of their abusing parent, and will come back to their loving father.. God bless you!

[@jenniferflorida2020]

My ex and their stepmom act like I'm invisible. They don't acknowledge me at school events or any other time we are around our children. They have trained our children when I discipline them for failing grades or any other regular parental normalcy, they immediately go to their phones and call the father to get him involved saying ultimate decisions are his only. He has fully convinced my daughter to go no contact after she was the instigator because I took her phone for failing grades. She hasn't talked to me since March. They both encourage her to stay no contact.

[@FaithfulandTrue949]

I hope you are right and have all the facts and experience? Id trust a therapist believing he's got another hidden side. Enjoy the bigger house, but try disagreeing with him a few times to see if he shows you... took me a long time, but learned the hard way my mom was right 😢 she died too young and sadly never witnessed my revelation. 🙏🏻

[@northerngaltrue]

One time I was visiting my adult child at the home he shares with his other parent. (I am constantly trying to maintain loving contact with him. I no longer will see him in his dad’s presence for my own mental health) The alienator baited me with a disparaging comment about my “forgetfulness”. Spoken with sarcasm of course. When I responded with truth (I had not forgotten) I saw out of the corner of my eye the meaningful raised eyebrow exchange between the parent and child. It was that sort of “we’re in this together” behaviour that my alienator nurtured well before I left him. (For a number of valid reasons involving ongoing deceit)

[@chrisdevol]

Thank you so much for sharing Madi. You truly have a gift with being able to communicate and share all of this. My dream is my kids will someday have the courage to listen to this. Truly amazing the courage you have to share and to help so many and give HOPE to so many.❤

[@TheAnti-AlienationProject]

You are so welcome! Thank you for these kind words. It means a lot to me 🤍🤍

[@caphomecom]

I believe all of these happened to my kids. It took their mother over 7 years to alienate them from me while we had 50/50 custody. But I haven't seen and have zero contact with my three children for almost three years now. All their explanations of why they didn't want to live with me anymore were about how I hurt their mother; none of that was true, and what a looser I am that I don't earn enough money to pay their mother, who never worked, more child support so she can have a lifestyle she wants. Well, she got more child support when she convinced the children to live with her 100% of the time. And that was the game plan from the start.

[@personanongrata7976]

As I'm listening, I'm thinking about the power of an exasperated sigh, or the sound of front teeth sucked in disgust. Or even a simple eye-roll.

[@Rocdog]

Madi, My triplets were brainwashed to believe that they had to walk on eggshells around me when it was actually the other way around. Now that they’re in college since they graduated high school in May, I hope they come back someday. I haven’t seen them in three years and they have been so brainwashed to hate me. It doesn’t help when therapists and family court lawyers cover up for the abusive parent, which is my ex-wife. I don’t know what’s going to happen to them because I don’t think they’re gonna come back and regain our relationship with them before I die. I have less than five years. I don’t know how many of those years we will have together. I hope someone in a position of authority will show them documentation and the truth so we have as many of those five years together as we can 😢😞

[@HatBilly2008]

Thank you, I understand this clearly now. Well done.

[@gettingschooled3094]

Spot on Maddie. Most of that stuff I've experienced as a targeted parent

[@maryschoen9914]

Thank you Maddy! Recovering codependent here.

[@annabatista8944]

Thanks to you I figured out my ex husband did this to me. He owed me $50,000 in Child Support (which he work of the State's office) and he tried to make me think I wasn't supposed to get it. I even dropped it and the Adult daughters still for 23 years speak to him and not me. Now I understand what he was doing to me. Wow. What next?

[@StaceyHutchinson-i9n]

Oh yes! I’ve witnessed my granddaughters mother make a snide facial remark without saying a word! If her mouth doesn’t say it her face will!!

[@TheSunflowerdaisypoo]

I thought was doing the right thing I told my kids I would never force them to come over if they didn’t want to. That was before the full alienation. The attempts I did make to suggest daughter come over even if she didn’t want to, I was told by their mom that I was going back on my word from when I said I wouldn’t force them and that I was causing more pain.

[@y.a.p8951]

we act so naive, we try to do the right thing but they use it against our best intentions.

[@VictorDohlemanWeldtoolTech]

I literally had 4 heatattacks tryng to get me kids back. In the end 1 speaks t o me, 2 don't. My son has nevr come to the phone- Despite major efforts & a 15 years of court battle. They dont care now. When I asked them what they were told about me they said nothing ERASIER

[@dr.marnihillfoderaro1064]

The parental alienation experienced with our daughter was extreme. While she was attending a local community college, the alienating parent moved her to a different town without telling me and went to extreme efforts to hide her whereabouts. Almost like an abduction. The alienating parent also went against the court orders that said we should both be involved in the decisions regarding the four-year college, however, she was sent across the country to a very far away state and I was not even informed about it. Additionally, the alienating parent refused to invite or include me in both the college graduation ceremonies.

[@Dietconsulting]

Hey even though I pretty much navigated my step daughter through college I was willing to not attend graduation so she could invite both parents. She chose to graduate in absentia because her mother refused to attend if her father was there...

[@jami7772]

I really want to send this to my alienated daughter but i know that she will show her mother 😥

[@johnrubio330]

I send all Madi’s videos to my alienated daughter.

[@y.a.p8951]

how old is your children if I can ask?

[@lohengrinfortun2550]

So true. I'm glad I found your channel. Thank you for your videos.

[@ancaberbece4899]

Hi, Madi, I am a bit confused for some situations, and maybe you can share how a child would feel. I am in the process of separating from my husband. He is a loving father sometimes with the children, but very many times he is emotionally unavailable, would rather spend time for his own issues, does not respect their body autonomy, does not trully respect their emotional well-being. Let's just say he is the "fun" parent who plays with them 1 hour per day and the rest almost completely ignores them. What am I supposed to do in this situation? Do I need to lie to defend the other parent although it is very clear what is going on? My kids sense that he sometimes sees them as a nuisance, should I "talk up" about their dad even if it is clearly untrue? I many times have, because I tried to protect my kids from seeing how little he actually cares about them, I tried hard to maintain a positive attitude towards their other parent, although the hard reality is that he is a pretty lousy dad. If you could share, as a child, what would you rather a mom like me did? I am trying very much to be cool about it and find a new balance where we co-parent in a good way, but sometimes I just do not know what to do.

[@michelepascoe6068]

Excellent video. And the child is lead to believe that the targetted parent is the cause of all their stress. Another video to help one get one's head around this abuse, is "When an adult coaches a child against you" by Dr Les Carter. As he says, "Know what you're dealing with and make your adjustments accordingly." When your child acts hateful, deceitful and unco-operative, remember, they are being abused and brainwashed, and be the calm person in the room. It's agony being hated and rejected by your loved child.

[@dcasey2574]

My fear is that my 38 year old daughter will never realize what her mother has done to her to drive a huge wedge between us. I'm afraid she is and will be a carbon copy of her mother . . . that is, a person unable to recognize her own shortcomings and a woman unable to be reflective and introspective. I don't know that I really would want a relationship with her if she eventually re-enters my life with the same mind set as she has had with me over the past 15 or so years. That is . . "I am never wrong . . . but you are oftentimes wrong"

[@karenmichaels9997]

I hear your pain and I'm am so sorry this happened to you and your daughter. No parent or child deserves this.

[@aussiejuju]

Such a great, well informed video Madi. Really great work ❤

[@TheAnti-AlienationProject]

Thank you so much!

[@dmb0202]

Micro expressions are actually rare, but as you say are typically involuntary. In theory they are seen when masking ones emotions. This isn't very consistent with a parent trying to alienate but leaking emotions which despite themselves cause alienation. You've got really interesting and impressive videos - thank you 👍. It must be difficult not to hate a parent who has alienated you

[@Fred_bob]

Great video. Thank you for sharing your experience and insight

[@crusherone628]

Its been 14 months since i divorced her. My kids still hide in their room the entire weekend when my parents are visiting. They make comments about what i did in court that are false, now sometimes they come up with homework they have to get done and forgot to bring so they go home early. I will never give up on them and i just keep loving them and showing up. I have thought about telling them if they would rather be at their moms thats fine. I just cant do it, i love them. At activities their mom will get up and stand in my way so I cant get pictures etc Its evil

[@KR-kc5xz]

My ex would talk to our kids about how wrong I was to comply with the rules of custody. It was like it doesn’t matter if we show up on time because we’re having fun. They were too young to say anything. When I would rush to pass the kids back on time, they would ask why does it matter, Mom? Also, a child was forbidden to do anything with a friend if there was a chance that I could be there. So no pizza after basketball if they were with him that night because I could go out for pizza and get time that was supposed to be his time. I was consistently The only grownup in the room. My ex simply refused to have a conversation with me.

[@katherineheffron8710]

In my case, I am the alienated parent but I shared 50/50 custody with my ex for the 10 years that we were divorced. He re-married and had two other children with his new wife, the step-mom. She was a sheep in wolfs clothing. She pretended that she was this perfect Christian woman who was a stay-at-home mom who cooked, baked, could go to all the school functions, and loved my son dearly. Only, she overstepped her boundaries often, like having my son call her “Mommy”. When I spoke to my ex-husband about it, he said that she earned it. 😮 Looking back, the slow brainwashing of my ex was first, then she started in on my son by creating her narrative behind my back to everyone that I was this Monster Mother, but to my face, she was sweet as pie. Madi, my son used to tell me that she would always ask him a million questions as soon as he got back from my house. But back then, I had no idea what Parental Alienation was. 😔 I was a single mom and career woman so they used that against me in court amongst numerous other ridiculous false accusations which is mind-blowing. She was the driving force behind the abduction of my son and they managed to brainwash him and now it’s been almost eight years since I’ve seen him. 😢 He is 20 and will be 21 in September. I pray he will figure out the truth as you have Madi. 🙏🏻 I’m so grateful to you for what you are doing to educate this society about PA. Thank you!! 💖

[@gablison]

Every time my dad and I had 1 on 1 time my mom would be insanely jealous and insecure about it and think we are talking bad about her and gossiping. She only thinks that because when I'm alone with my mom that's what she'd do to me so she thinks my dad must be doing to same thing with me too. I remember once when my dad and I were having a heart to heart in my room, he had to lock the door because my mom wouldn't let us talk in peace instead she kept trying to bang on the door. My bedroom window faces the outside of our wrap around patio in our flat and she went outside and banged on the window to try to open the window to open the curtain so she could see what was going on but the window was locked. Every time I had criticisms for her it was dad brainwashing me but if I had bad things to say about my dad she'd be emboldened to berate him about his flaws. She was a journalist so when she had an idea, she'd be like a dog with a bone and let's just say she brought her interrogation tactics home with her.

[@oldschoolgymkillers]

Thank you for your strong and necessary language here!!

[@Gookey24]

Thank you for everything you do Madi! ❤

[@garyb1658]

Spot ON!! Took me years to figure this out, still learning...it is devastating. I was advised to back off and not pressure them to releive the tug of war emotionally for them. Is there hope?? Never giving up but taken such a toll on me in every way. I Need your Help!!

[@y.a.p8951]

that's what they want. They want you to give up so they can asure your kids you abandoned them and the alienator is the only person who loves them fully. it's very hard to operate like that at all, your tries are deminished to the minimum. It's devastating, I know. The time will tell. 😟

[@ClunFunDun]

Thank you

[@heidimedel]

I've been on both sides. My incubator alienated me from my dad. I wised up in my early 30s and reconnected with him. He died of brain cancer a little over 2 years later. Incubator was straight up jealous of him while he was dying, and I took care of him. I've been no contact with her for almost 10 years and it's been the most peaceful decade of my life. Also my ex husband alienated our 3 children from me for 8 years. It broke me. Nevermind that I was barely 14 and he was 21 when I was forced to marry him. He always told me he would take our kids away from me if I divorced him. At least our now grown children see him for the pedo that he is. But not without us all experiencing heartbreak for those 8 years; missing each other.

[@rootintobeing]

The statistics of former alienated children then being alienated from their own children is really staggering!! From what I've read it's 50%!! Talk about generational trauma getting passed down, wow. I'm so sorry that happened to you, your Dad, and your kids. 💔❤️‍🩹

[@joyful_tanya]

I could have written your comment. 😢

[@georgiakritikos4955]

So Sad❤A FEDERAL GOVERNMENT INVESTIGATION ON ALL STATES FOR SEGREGATION OF FAMILIES IN THE UNITED STATES OF AMERICA

[@georgiakritikos4955]

​@@joyful_tanya💔

[@georgiakritikos4955]

​@@rootintobeingA🚨NATIONAL EMERGENCY

[@rocky1raquel]

Hey Madi, I posted this video on FB in the hopes my own daughter will see it someday if she scrolls, and FB almost IMMEDIATELY took it down with the excuse I was trying to gather sensitive information about others which made no absolute sense. My ex narc stalks my pages, and FB says “our technology OR SOMEONE ON FACEBOOK has reported…” So I was wondering if you’re hearing anything about your videos being scrubbed by the big SM giants.yet., perhaps trying to snub the whole alienation thing and what that means/would mean for the family courts. I really appreciate this video especially as it points out specifics. My daughter was definitely treated this way but held the viewpoint that all of this was her own decision. But why would she alienate her own grandma and brother, too? 🤦🏽‍♀️

[@robertbenedek4463]

Madie, wouldn't you like to give us a short update how your relationship develops with your dad? I don't necessarily mean personal stuff, rather an overall overview with communicable details. It would help me to imagine a positive future with my own daughters. I know you already made at least two of it but the development of the relationship with all the nuances gives so much insight. I'm currently in a stagnant state with them, partially with slow " diying-off", partially with extemeöy slight betterment of the relationships. Non of them are aware yet as far as I know but I don't give up cautious hope. Many thanks, God bless!

[@HealthyMom247]

Great information, thank you Madi! I didn't know how they did this.

[@TheAnti-AlienationProject]

Glad it was helpful!

[@HealthyMom247]

@@TheAnti-AlienationProject it's always helpful to know what happens behind closed doors, that's the part the targeted parent doesn't know. These types of insights are great. I liked your short video on how your mom told you to go to therapy with your dad. That fools a lot of therapists into believing the parent isn't an alienator.

[@elizabethmorgan3049]

This was very insightful. As a targeted parent, it has made me think a bit deeper about the micro expressions and emotions aspect. It is difficult to always remain perfectly emotionally regulated when being persistently attacked. Do I need to work even harder to avoid expressing any emotion? Will my micro expressions of sadness and pain be seen as manipulation? It feels like there’s no right answer.

[@NUMB.NUTS.143]

Just let it flow organically. Don't be fake. Tell the truth always. Don't beat ur kid over the head w it but always remain truthful while always making sure that ur heart is in the right place while doing so. Don't hold back. It's not healthy. You need and deserve to be heard. This is just my opinion. To each their own. I personally never held back. And I have no regrets. Personally. She was a goner long before I ever had a chance. Every situation is unique. So do what's best for your own specific situation. But suppressing everything for the sake of seeming sane on the outside, will drive u insane on the inside. Tell the truth to ur kid and those with the power to actually do something. Just use discernment. A lot of ppl aren't for u as a targeted parent. Even the ones who are paid to do the right thing, don't. Mainly bc they're overworked by too many caseloads and are too burned out to help properly. And of coarse some are just horrible humans who find pleasure in others pain bc, well, let's be honest, your suffering, and mine, are profitable. There are ppl who make money by exploiting us and our children. But as a child grows up, and they still don't get it, let them go. It's not worth sacrificing your peace for some adult son daughter who is determined to see u a certain way without any real proof. Let them fall deeper into it man. Forget them. They made their choice, and loss will be their portion. Sobeit. The best example that u can set for them when they turn adult age is showing them that u as a parent have self respect. Look, even ppl who grew up in cults know deep inside that their beliefs are wonky at best. How do u think ppl end up leaving these cults? Everybody knows right wrong normal abnormal. It boils down to a choice. When a person has been offered the truth with proof, and they still refuse, at that point they are choosing to be delusional. Let them live a lie. Don't sell ur soul to be a parent. I love my kid as much as anyone loves theirs. But there's a time where self love has to become your main focus. A healthy form of self love. You can always have another kid. They can never replace a bio parent. Especially a good one. There is no replacement for certain things in life. Enjoy ur life. The world is a big place. 7 continents, 7 seas, 8 billion ppl. Go find something to do that isn't a colossal waste of your time and love.

[@NUMB.NUTS.143]

Sorry for the long paragraph. But it just flowed.

[@matt2133]

A couple other ways is for the alienating parent to say what they missed out on because they were at the targeted parents home or that the alienated parent is so bored because the child is doing something enjoyable with the targeted parent.

[@TheAnti-AlienationProject]

Great point!!!

[@leanaevans5365]

Great resource and accurate! Great presentation

[@georgiakritikos4955]

Excellent Testimony ❤️ MADISON

[@anne-marieedmonds716]

Allowing my pre pubescent children to answer my phone calls under the name of PSYCHO. Before and after the bogus restraining order. Targeted Mum Australia 🇦🇺

[@TheAnti-AlienationProject]

I’m so sorry :(

[@petestegler9885]

My ex got her MSW, so my daughter thinks she is the be all, end all for mental health. She wouldn't listen to me at all. Through HS, almost 0 contact, then ex became super mom...took her to europe to look at colleges, she is now in europe for school, and my ex is planning to move to europe and put an ocean between us. I was a really great dad. Made some mistakes, but I loved her completely and took care of her every day. It was, by far, the best time I've ever had. This time, right now, is the hardest...by far. Over 3 years and no end in sight. FYI...My parents divorced when I was 8... mom was an alienator too. Anyway...let's all keep talking about it.

[@KellyM-gv3bo]

It’s wild how we marry what we find familiar with the opposite gender parent. I too married my father and paid with my daughter as well. It’s sinful! I’m so sorry you and your child are going through this- as long as your daughter is alive, there is hope for you and her.

[@nathanohlendorf2660]

Everything you have said “could” happen in this video., is happening now. I haven’t seen my Daughter in two years or spoken to her. Gifts and letters get rejected or intercepted, I’m told SHE is refusing to see or call me and she can make her own choice and that Mom can’t force her to go. The court does nothing.

[@Lifelessons101-23]

I believe gender matters in the child. If you have a daughter, most likely she will binf with Mom and alienate Dad. Boys will bond with dad and alienate mom. In most cases this the dynamic, clearly the other way around is true but for the majority of the cases I see the first. My step daughter recognizes the truth of the matter. The bond of a mother and daughter truly is strong. So even if the child is aware of the lies they still will chose the lie. I’ve experienced this recent, and at that point you must surrender and let the truth speak for themselves and as the targeted parent, live life by example. This also applies to socioeconomic lily as well. The programming of those who raise you truly define your future.

[@y.a.p8951]

that's why they alienate the kids. They know they shape the kids for their liking. From the entire childhood to thei adulthood.

[@HeadroomM]

Hi Madi. I’m going through a severe alienation right now. My child has blocked me on all communication. I have a question. I have the option to enforce visitation through court order. This would be in the form of reunification therapy. How would this have felt to you when you were in the thick of the alienation. My child is 13

[@petestegler9885]

I think your kid won't want to, but it could make sure they know you really care deeply and are a normal person. I think doing it, but keep it conversational and give them time. Might take a while

[@matt2133]

Unfortunately, unless you have a skilled counselor that can see the alienator for what they are, it may do more damage than good. The alienator will try to sabotage reunification therapy as well...even court ordered. It is heart breaking to see the abuse.

[@HeadroomM]

@@matt2133 most intensely painful thing I have ever experienced. My daughter and I had an incredible relationship up until 8 months ago when I left my abusive wife. I could never have predicted this would be the outcome.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

They train therapist to SEGREGATE FURTHER FOR THEIR NARRATIVE BECAREFULL WHO IS PICKED

[@y.a.p8951]

​@@matt2133 they'll sabotage and child will refuse. It's very sensitive subject, when the alienator find out intentions they'll do everything to make it as difficult for the parent and the child. Otherwise, we wouldn't be in that position in the first place.

[@Losermachine35]

As the alienated parent i can say the thing used most is setting me up. As in setting me up to fail. Like telling my kid i would call, and then block me on the phone so i look like an asshole. Or not allowing me to come get her and (most likely) saying “look your dad never came he doesnt love you”.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

💔SEGREGATION UNCIVIL SINCE 1968

[@thavannsam2158]

I’m going thru this process with my son…very difficult

[@georgiakritikos4955]

My DAD PAID AT LEAST 20-30 PEOPLE IN THE GREEK CHURCH OF HAVERHILL TO TALK BAD ABOUT MY MOM IN HER DIVORCE & THEY ALL SIGNED & TOOK THE MONEY I HAVE THE DOCUMENT OF SIGNATURES

[@georgiakritikos4955]

Ive told some people about THEIR SIGNATURES ❤THEY GO NUTS

[@EazyDoezItt]

I wouldn't doubt it my guy........ it be cray out thurr

[@georgiakritikos4955]

@EazyDoezItt They GOT this stuff on Recourd/>> COURT ASSISTED IS THEIR PLAN T00 PICK POCKETSAMERICANS . . . COERCIVE SYSTEMIC ABUSE WORKS OFF 3 PLATFORMS 1.SOCIAL STANDING 2. SOCIAL CAPITAL 1.SOCIAL UNATTRACTIVE THE THEATERS WHO CAN COMPETE WITH THEM? THEY ARE COURT SUPPORTED too pick pocket/>> mental, physical, spiritual

[@matthewdixon7013]

Father here of a 9 year old daughter. I need your help

[@katharinaprotomanni7297]

Great video, how do you deal with this and should react if confronted by kids?

[@georgiakritikos4955]

Excellent ❤Madison

[@JasonH17]

what videos or information should we share with the children victims of this to give them power and strength to deal with being targeted?

[@AmyIves-o9z]

I think it’s important to remember that alienating parents are not always 1) aware that what they’re doing is damaging and 2) maliciously planning to cause harm. Many (if not most) of these parents are just acting out old scripts and hurts. So rejecting the alienating parent just perpetuates the cycle of emotional violence. What’s called for is love, understanding and forgiveness, as well as sturdy boundaries.

[@EazyDoezItt]

If you honestly think they don't no what they be doin then you don fully understand it. Deez peoples no wat dey be doin. I c it erryday. You can't do dis stuff for years n be ignorant 2 wat you doin. It don work dat way. You seem like an enabler. To me..

[@EazyDoezItt]

Also ya forgiveness iz important but forgiveness isn't enabling it. Serial killerz iz damaged and wounded do society make excuses for em? No. Rapists be damaged people to. Do you make excuses for deez people? A parent who comes home and batters their child, that parent is acting out their trauma. Do you make excuses 4 dat? An alcoholic or druggie commits a crime while under the influence is simply acting out their trauma. I can go on and on. Do you make excuses for that stuff to? If somebody has to act out their trauma then do it differently. They should get help not take somebody baby. Stop making excuses. That's not perspective that Is an excuse. Errybody damaged babe. But not errybody be snatchn up peoples babies. Rapists are acting out they trauma. Do you make excuses 4 dat too? Any of that cray cray... Parents who do dis stuff are rapest in the sense dat it leaves another person witout they baby. My uncle go thu dis mess erryday and I see the damage it do. Parents who do dis know exactly wat they be doin. It can also slowly kill a person inside to go thru dis. I haven't ben thu it but I got a couple homies who is, and my unc. So I feel comfortable call dis rape and murder. Its a concious choice deez parents make on a day to day. If you think anybody could do dis for years and not come 2 thurr senses and have dat be by mistake or not knowing or whatever den you already sleep at duh wheel.

[@EazyDoezItt]

forgiveness is important. But a person can forgive without enabling duh situation. Forgiveness isn't always reconciling wit dat person. But we can always reconcile duh fact dat sum people are not healthy, sum situations r not healthy. And we move accordingly. Descernment iz errything.Woooweee I got a lot 2 say on dis topic cuz it be heartbreakg af 2 wach my luh onez go thu it.

[@MOMMIES_BASEMENT.SINCE.1992]

You're out of touch with the reality that surrounds this if you truly believe everything you wrote, original poster. Either that or you're trolling. Forgiveness is essential for every part of life including this. But what you've described is not forgiveness. It's enabling and excuse making. Which is exactly what these parents need to continue their journey of alienation. Not cool. I hope you're truly smarter than to leave a comment like this.

[@EazyDoezItt]

@@MOMMIES_BASEMENT.SINCE.1992 I assume you iz talking to op not me I hope.

[@georgiakritikos4955]

Madison who ever ALIGNeD WITH YOUR mom had skeletons in THEIR OWN CLOSETS & YOUR M0M pAID THEM OFF IN ONE WAY OR ANOTHER TO SCREW U OVER "A REFLECTION OF WHAT IS HAPPENING ❤

[@kathleendoyle4818]

What do you recommend we do if we are watching our child(ren) experience this from their alienating parent? My daughter is 13 and experiencing all of this from her father and stepmother. I want to share this video with her, but I'm not sure if that would be appropriate or helpful.

[@alhef9927]

Madi very interesting thanks 🙏 hopefully my daughter will figure out what's been happening to her soon just like you did Madi. My daughter will be 18teen in a month . 🤞 My daughter comes bk to me soon 👍