I love how the INFJ's level of detachment from reality has the potential to help us see the impossible as being possible if we direct that energy toward our own self-improvement.
@marinamayer69208 ай бұрын
It terrifies me to think where the hell would I be right now if I hadn't found this channel.
@the_alizerah8 ай бұрын
Samee... not knowing you're infj and having to deal with such weird expressions you have that you don't see in anyone else, that would've been too crazyyy
@kencornwell8 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@ashapriyasridhar77198 ай бұрын
I feel the same too. Thank you Wenzes.
@robertklopfstein28967 ай бұрын
Hi great comment 👍 😀 😊 👌 ☺ 🙂 👍
@infjmale918 ай бұрын
It is liberating. When you get there you JUST don't care anymore. I know it sounds bad but it really isn't. For me, I had to go through a stressful ordeal but once I got through it, I became invincible. I just chat back to ANYONE without restraints. Any narcissists? get ready for a brawl. Sociopaths? you've been warned. Psychopaths? errmm... you can stick to yourself.
@HaleyMary7 ай бұрын
I've found it liberating, too. When I stopped caring, I voiced my opinions more freely and yeah, not everyone likes me because of that. I don't shy away from telling older people when they are being ignorant even when often they don't like that very much.
@myhalflifecrisis8 ай бұрын
Thank you Wenzes! The day I realized I was an INFJ my life FINALLY made sense. There is no shortage of people who were indeed anchoring me to their [generally unhappy] perception of reality. I’ve been talked down by those who called me “idealistic” while they themselves remained idle on their own unsatisfactory existence. Meanwhile all the “impossible” feats I set for myself became real and part of my life story. Sadly (and predictably so), those naysayers remained back in their idle state. All this humble brag (since we are in INFJ family) to agree to the larger point that most people won’t be able to understand how we’ve already traced a winning path - even though we expect tribulations along the journey. Anyone can relate to that?
@raft1158 ай бұрын
I am a master blaster at this but only after I have found wenzes , i am even more stronger and deeper and joyful🥂💥✨💖👏👏👏👏👏👏
@mochimeng26378 ай бұрын
This sounds like being an INTJ, as we all know they don't give a damn. Tapping more into Te than Fe to prioritize ourself? Be aware of our wants, needs, and boundaries just like Fi? Well if that's the case, I'm in! It's so draining to people-please and getting to their emotional state most of the time. A perfect time to make my goals as tangible as possible here in my reality, this upcoming year. I realized I have to start accomplishing things (starts with taking action) to boost my confidence! _Good luck fellow INFJs
@wilsonthomasgreenleaf77438 ай бұрын
My commitment for the year to come is exactly that! Less Surviving, more thriving! Another timely video! Thank you!
This is a practical video. I know that for personal reasons and many others, 2024 could be a challenging year. But it also could be a successful one. Practicing what you talk about on this video can help a great deal in one of the big things I want to do in 2024, and that is to really cultivate Se (extraverted sensing) because that while I know it's our weaker function, it's doable and maybe doesn't even have to be all that hard. This video along with the book that you have suggested in the past (Atomic Habits) can make things easier to break down into steps and to actually do. I've already started. By the way, I would suggest that anyone who is reading this should go back in this video to step three. It's one of the best treatments I've heard on "doing your best."
@thatoneguy32848 ай бұрын
Lol I reacted the same way at #4. I audibly went woooaahh 🤯
@aisha18277 ай бұрын
This is where I am reaching as well. Just don't care about others for once and just look into yourself and live in your era. This is your era 2024 :) Love this channel and this community.
@dennisdemars99397 ай бұрын
When you divest yourself of all connections with people and society, fully engage your dark side and make it significant in your boundaries and as a weapon to drive everyone away from you so they can never drain you, then you will be the wolf you should be and can control your life in its entirety and do whatever you want whenever you want..
@Daviddaze3 ай бұрын
No not thrive, better to strive.
@luciana19308 ай бұрын
Thank you for being such a great supporter in my journey ♡
@ClairLouise8 ай бұрын
It's about the victory not the battle 😤 inner strength is a super power many fear. "Fear has no place here" has become my mantra. 💪528 and 917Hz have really helped with releasing emotional trauma. Loving my hermit mode 🥰 I apperciate you and these little nuggets of wisdom. Much obliged.🙌
@mochimeng26378 ай бұрын
What's that 528 and 917Hz?
@ClairLouise8 ай бұрын
sound frequency. Tones and vibration to move stagnant energies from the bodies meridians. The meridians are connected to chakras and become blocked. 528 and 917 are connected to emotional release. @@mochimeng2637
@francisjudge7 ай бұрын
@@mochimeng2637 Healing frequencies / DNA repair
@user-nl9eb8zt7x8 ай бұрын
"I love the way you talk full of wisdom and crystal clear i enjoy watching and listening you, you are the best. God bless and good morning!"
@kencornwell8 ай бұрын
Loooking forward to the next one. On my way to this continuing journey.
@bennyregohos16503 ай бұрын
I know my power
@user-zb8xp2zc4v8 ай бұрын
Great 👌 video as always wenzes
@amrutak49457 ай бұрын
Amazing video! Every word resonates. Thank you so much Wenzes. What a wonderful way to go into the new year!
@sigmainfjbulgaria44788 ай бұрын
I have said it before and I'll say it again, everything begins from you. To feel desperate means that you are rejecting your potential to impact the environment surrounding you. The significant difference between us and most people is that when we feel desperate we tend to isolate ourselfs in hermit mode, but that doesn't mean that other people who we feel rejected and misunderstood by are happy, no. It's just the extroversion and the hierarchy acceptance that is holding their heads above water. In this case why we have to be so hard on ourselfs and reject our own potential? The mainstream people who seems to be always understood and valued for everything they are doing are actually the most miserable because connecting with people comes naturally to them, but in that process they forget to connect with their own souls. #FightINFJFight
@eren_000048 ай бұрын
You know, my name means fire. But i feel like I'm a fire without glare, without heat. I feel like I'm deep inside a well screaming for help. Sometimes i don't know how to explain how I feel.. sometimes i don't know what I feel. Before, I used to think I was half INFP and half ISTJ. But a friend of mine asked me to do a cognitive mbti test. After that it came out that I'm an INFJ. I was scared and asked my friend if I've got a bad personality or something? My friend said it's very unique personality and a great personality. And now I understand I'm an INFJ truly. Everything matches with me. I think i understand myself better than I used to before. Aaaam.. I'd like to make some INFJ/ENFJ friends. If anyone okay with it, you can add me.
@infjthoughts88618 ай бұрын
❤❤❤
@robertklopfstein28967 ай бұрын
U have such a pretty smile 😍 😃 😊 😀 😄 😁 😍 thanks teacher 🍎 🍏 🍎 🍏 🍎 🍏 🍎 🍏 🍎 🍏
@MrGadfly7727 ай бұрын
My life just got significantly worse. My best friend of over 55 years just told me, in very hateful times, that we're no longer friends. I was there to take him out for lunch after not hearing from him for 3 months. But he refused in a very angry way and told me that not only he but that NOBODY wanted to be my friend. It has hit me really hard. Both he and I are only children, we've been like brothers. He said he owed me no explanation and refused to talk. I am devastated and blindsided. For an insightful INFJ I feel totally at a loss and alone. I have no insight as to the why of this situation.
@tnt017 ай бұрын
It probably has nothing to do with you. Unless, you did something unentinetionallly to hurt him.
@MrGadfly7727 ай бұрын
@@tnt01 thank you for your vote of confidence in me. I have been driven crazy trying to think of what I did wrong. To end a relationship of over 55 years would suggest something dramatic but for the life of me I can't see what it was. It's maddening.
@tnt017 ай бұрын
@@MrGadfly772 it is painful but you reached out and that is all you can do. Enjoy your life. Take care.
@rafaelludicanti27 ай бұрын
Oh my god. You mean you, dont you? Oh you are so sweet. ❤
@rafaelludicanti27 ай бұрын
Wait. Did you just confirmed?
@rafaelludicanti27 ай бұрын
Herina? "Fasten your seatbelt, I said. Concentrate, bro." Ok.
@rafaelludicanti27 ай бұрын
Carcareiros, voces poderia me trazer uma xicara de cha?