INFJ here, a kind hearted compassionate person whose also a warrior when need be.
@susmitsaha25928 ай бұрын
Yes mio amore❤
@johnarmstrong437918 күн бұрын
Me too I am also an INFJ very compassionate, very caring very loving Man but if need be I’m a different person when provoked, 💯
@matthewsolidum34948 ай бұрын
Happy new year wenzes and fellow INFJ warriors! More epic life moments this year 2024 ❤
@tharientsho8 ай бұрын
How one so young could be endowed with so much wisdom, insights and the ability to articulate all my insecurities and idiosyncrasies with such precision is beyond me. I feel I have come home! when I emerge out of my cocoon I will do so with a new confidence. Thank you Wenzes for your gift and more importantly for sharing it generously with your kindred spirits! May God bless you in this new year and beyond, ❤
@meimeiamore3946 ай бұрын
An old soul recognised an old soul.
@kimchimatchamochi4951Ай бұрын
Any INFJ here who wants to talk about their dark side from time to time to people but eventually ends up not really diving into it because people look at them like they're out of their mind living in some superhero au?:D
@kalebfw83198 ай бұрын
Theres a time in my life that I shine bright. But then I have to dim it when my kids become teenager. I place myself as trainor-mentor-backup plan for them, so they can get their own stage. Now the younger one preparing to enter university, so I prepare myself to shine again.
@amyj.49928 ай бұрын
I've accepted myself fully in highschool when my mom helped me accept im born dark skin and I will die dark skin. So I might as well love, all of me and stay out of trouble and avoid trouble ridden people who have no interest in changing for the better
@user-gf9fg3ze8i8 ай бұрын
I have finally started valuing myself enough to not desperately run after people for friendships. Now if it happens it happens. You do you Boo, cuz im gonna do me.😊
@taneltimusk99158 ай бұрын
Thank you. Didn't know before that personality like INFJ existed. I knew for years that I was different and after suffering, hesitation, trying to be like others, I found that most people do not see, hear and feel like me. I laughed very hard and realized how a curse can also be a blessing. Having since gone through a similar 10 steps, I just want to say I wish I had found this channel sooner. Maybe everything would have gone much easier. Thank you, Wenzes, you are doing a wonderful job. Keep it UP!
@sammonisapenofficial2428 ай бұрын
She has helped me so much
@lindateuling78628 ай бұрын
Wow. The quote "I want people to like me for me liking me.". INCREDIBLE! 😊👍😊👍. My wording of it could have been, " I want people to like me because I like myself." By fully accepting my dark side, it transformed the way people related to me and vice-versa. And the nice thing is, I didn't really have to tell anybody what it was. The change in my attitude simply showed without my having to say anything. The few people who knew my dark side weren't one bit fazed about it except that they were happy for me for accepting it. The biggest change is that my dark side doesn't "run me" any more. IOW, I own it and it doesn't own me.
@justinwhite27257 ай бұрын
With great power comes great responsibility -- Stan Lee
@theycallmedude8848 ай бұрын
Happy new years INFJs, hopefully this the years we start focusing on ourself.
@raft1158 ай бұрын
🎉❤wish all my very dear infjs a superb year 2024 🎉
@amezfires92472 ай бұрын
Damn. I made friends with my dark side, but I know what it takes for me to show it. I don't want to hurt anyone, but people think nothing of intentionally hurting me. I don't tolerate the disrespect anymore, & will immediately cut them off. I'm not sacrificing my peace & happiness for someone who doesn't reciprocate my efforts, or feel entitled to my time & energy.
@meganmck14738 ай бұрын
Wenzes, you and this channel have been a blessing in 2023! Thank you and blessings to you and yours in the new year!
@ClairLouise8 ай бұрын
Excellent advice for entering the gregorian new year. Best wishes to everyone on the path of inner knowing and integration of soul. Embracing my Lilith has helped to heal my Chiron. These vidios have helped with my astrological decode and understanding my own psyche. Being neurodivergent and having struggled to accept mobility issues related to dis/ease, I can say through 20 years experience that health care professionals including Neurologists and Psychologists could learn a thing or two from you. Bless you and thankyou. xx
@ashapriyasridhar77198 ай бұрын
Wishing everyone a happy new year. Thanks to Wenzes, I am starting 2024 almost as a new person, replacing anxiety, joylessness and fearfulness with courage, conviction and excitement. Thank you, thank you, thank you!
@SkrillaJBH8 ай бұрын
Happy new year thank you for everything you do for us INFJs I don’t know where I would be without you !
@lesleyrose62823 ай бұрын
I didn’t like me until I tried to kill myself. I failed obviously, I woke up and it was the first time I thought to myself “I don’t deserve to be treated so badly to the point I want to kill myself” . And I decided to never let anyone make me feel that way again. Including myself. I persecuted myself for making mistakes and I took a step back and realized I always give people way too many chances and I’m so forgiving why can’t I forgive myself? So I did. I own my mistakes to this day. Everyone makes mistakes. And I’ve grown so much. And I like me. I accept my past and I like my past because it brought me to where I am today. And there ARE people out there that like me for me too! They are few and far between , but they mean the world to me. I had no one when I went through all of that. But after growing and healing… you attract much better people. If you don’t like yourself , you’re just gonna attract other people that don’t like themselves and they will take it out on you.
@bellisyotamae81738 ай бұрын
Really needed this ❤ thanks so much for this video and your content
@helentaylor63758 ай бұрын
Thank you so much Wenzes and happy new year to you and my fellow INFJs.
@natureglimses8 ай бұрын
Happy new year ✨🙌
@helentaylor63758 ай бұрын
Happy new year 🙂
@travisvogtman31808 ай бұрын
Wenzes, you should make a video about the differences between a "Dark INFJ" and the "INFJ dark side.... I believe there is a difference
@dallasfluff33477 ай бұрын
1000%
@FallenMonk556 ай бұрын
Briefly dated an INFJ with Borderline Personality Disorder. It was emotionally stressful.
@Hildred66 ай бұрын
Dating anyone with BPD would be stressful
@kencornwell8 ай бұрын
Happy New Year everyone. Thanks Wenzes for doing what you do. I truly appreciate it. Ken
@sigmainfjbulgaria44788 ай бұрын
Well, it just sounds like my new year's resolution. I really need to show more of my self.
@DaughterOfTheKingdom168 ай бұрын
I definitely needed this video as an infj .
@lilianaprado9098 ай бұрын
Wow, I didn't know nothing about this type of personality 😳 this video just appeared in my feed and woooow I'm blown away it felt like you were describing me 😂 thank you so much I always felt like lost and weird for not having this information ❤ thank you thank you sooo much, I will do research for months now lmao THANK YOU, YOU SAVED MY LIFE!
@boonheng4118 ай бұрын
Happy new year infj master❤
@meenatchi95528 ай бұрын
Happy new year wenzes and INFJs😊😊
@natureglimses8 ай бұрын
Happy new year ✨🙌
@indigobarefootyoga35988 ай бұрын
Whoop whoop whoop !! I actually had a message right before I listened to this. It was Jordan Peterson saying, “you have to learn to be a monster” and I was contemplating that statement, which is out of context, but basically what you are saying and it’s so timely. Thank you
@wellsaid71748 ай бұрын
I am an Infj giant. 1% of 1%. It’s more than a disconnect from people after I go there. It’s saying I choose being alone over being disrespected.
@MegaCyberleader8 ай бұрын
You have no idea. The power of the Darkside.
@Wenzes8 ай бұрын
What are some of your dark side traits you are afraid to embrace?
@rudysdream8 ай бұрын
the destoyer…
@nourfattouh65478 ай бұрын
Letting toxic people go
@riyajacob29098 ай бұрын
Letting many people go..😢
@myhalflifecrisis8 ай бұрын
I’ve realized that I can truly traumatize people if they push past a certain threshold. I’m an exceedingly patient person, and I’ll do all I can to avoid getting there. But if I had to go there, I fight to win, and I do. But I draw no pleasure from that. Incidentally I’m a military analyst by trade, and pocking holes in arguments is what I do best. That is a reason why I started writing as a way to embrace my dark side ✍🏼 - my life is finite, but my words will transcend me in every manner. But you’re right, some people now see me in a whole new light they didn’t realized before. I’ve made my peace with it and looking forward to an awesome 2024! Happy New Year!
@doshadial8 ай бұрын
Ones that could get me arrested. 😂 Joking of course but, it is unleashing the annihilator. I want to tell people what I think at that very moment of an encounter. I see so much and right through people. I don’t need to curse or raise my voice to destroy anyone, just polish my mirror and let it blast back at them (like a CareBear 😁). I don’t want friends or people around me so being what someone else wants me to be is not an issue. It’s me giving myself permission as, I had been told even as an adult, change everything about you so the family can love you. I also feel like what I perceive as ‘being mean’ may actually just be feeling uncomfortable when I shouldn’t because I’m just establishing boundaries. I know that’s more than INFJ challenges but it plays into our coping mechanisms and tools. Thank you for your channel! I binge listen while cleaning. 🙏💜
@Rachel_M_8 ай бұрын
As Bob Marley said _"I am the darkness that must come out (of) the light"_
@blossomingbeauti18 ай бұрын
Happy New Year Thank You For Being You I’m Grateful 🤗
@mariyacharm747 ай бұрын
Thank you for the comfort we needed to mch this moment.....true colours beautiful colours...we embrace the oneness ❤...God bless you sista.
@PrepTheMind8 ай бұрын
This is so true. The only difference is that I was very attuned to my dark side. So dark, I was capable of almost anything. Later in life, I couldn't find my dark side, and I was suffering being a people pleaser because I was so aware of my dark side and my power but, I didn't want to use it. Now, I have learned to embrace both sides. But, the power still scares me, even to the point where it holds me back at times. But, I like to think of myself as being in a super position. I am both and neither a 1 or a 0. The cat is neither dead nor alive until it is observed. At least, that's my idealized self. Reality is more nuanced.
@tiffanyanderson94378 ай бұрын
The INFJ Glow-Up is a MASTERPIECE!! Thank you, Wenzes. Happy New Year everyone! I just received my new planner, I’m going to watch it all over again, this time taking notes. This Glow-Up is what I’ve needed to hear since I was a teenager. Thank you! 🙏🏽🙏🏽❤❤
@groundwalker198 ай бұрын
Dark empath.
@Stevie6712 ай бұрын
Very interesting.
@user-ke3zr6pz1w8 ай бұрын
Happy New Year dear lady Wenzes! I am happy to have found your great channel, your videos are so very helpful, I so much appreciate you! Thank you for all❤️
@jessmason21128 ай бұрын
With great power comes great responsibility. Independence is a great way to utilize gifts. 3:35
@myatokni45116 ай бұрын
As an 30s infj My dark side is living for myself self love mymental health only focus in my inner circle n detachment from everyone . Hiw to make money oj social media as an introvert 😂
@petrdostal39156 ай бұрын
What is called here a dark side, I would call an inner Light (hidden). I see no dark in it at all.
@myatokni45116 ай бұрын
I knew i am infj n my suffer different priority value why my self critic trauma was all infj prob. I knew it now at 37 😂 so i am at inner peace 😂 i love me
@briettasonlen12088 ай бұрын
What would I do without you, Wenzes?
@ginoinencino25288 ай бұрын
You'd be living your own life your way, free from the shackles of a personality trait. Btw, no one is born into any personality trait. Theres no "INFJ genes" in your body. That aint up to God. Thats on you. Free will
@williamkoscielniak78717 ай бұрын
Thank you
@josepablolunasanchez12836 ай бұрын
This dark side is like a fearsome monster dragon that sleeps in a cave. It can really harm people if awaken. Normally people would think the trick is about the rules to unleash it, but no. The real trick is to train the beast to not hurt anyone but the one who attacked you. Anyone else must remain untouched by the beast. Such training has served me to not get into trouble. Also the beast must be trained to not put anyone´s life in real danger. For example, the beast should not put the attacker at the edge of the cliff, because if the attacked falls by accident, the whole situation becomes am unintended tragedy that goes beyond the intention of setting a limit. In this example I described a physical example, but in real life situations may be less physical, and yet it could have a similar tragic effect. So the beast needs to be tamed. My beast is at the end of a long cave. It is so long that people confuse patience with weakness, but I do not care. To see that beast in the eyes, an attacker needs to make me back down a lot, and I mean that by the time the attacker faces the beast you know that this attacker bought all the lottery tickets and earned the prize. If someone witness the beast, I explain that I never unleash it on people who did not go into the cave to seek it. And I also explain that is why I have so much patience. The beast is not wild animal., It is a guardian. And it sleeps when it does not need to protect.
@indigobarefootyoga35988 ай бұрын
Awesome
@geoffcarlson-kw4wl8 ай бұрын
HappyNew Year Wenzes
@jazzychazzy0078 ай бұрын
Yes, Happy New Year to all and Wenzes, this is one of the best. Thanks! 💗
@southbeat958 ай бұрын
Afraid of being abandoned,
@garrybrickett28058 ай бұрын
Happy New YEAR! Bravo, enjoyed the whole series. I know so much more now and understand all those things happened to me are real. i can see no end, going to be a wonderful last third of my life. With my pattern recognition skills. I can day trade bitcoin with the best of traders. My new career.at age 67 looking to give it to charities. Sounds like a INFJ.
@kennethingalls82418 ай бұрын
I always say this , wenzes your intelligence is sensual. I love you ❤️
@Chercheure_Indépendante8 ай бұрын
I know this is not exactly right on topic but it is certainly an indirect topic to this one. Am I the only INFJ dealing with adrenal fatigue? I tried my best to heal myself with vitamins and minerals but I still am tired. Is there somebody who is in my situation here? I would love so much eventually to have an INFJ making a video of how to heal your adrenal glands and I wish I was this person but I am not healed yet. My descent started I was a young adult and it went from there. I certainly improved my health but not satisfactory because I can not do anything that I can REALLY sustain because of lack of energy. That's why I did not join the bootcamp yet - even though I was very tempted to do so at the end of last year - because there is something I need to fix first. Thank you for reading.
@TroyPosey8 ай бұрын
@Wenzes Excellent video Wenzes! I wish you a (belated) Merry Christmas, and a Happy New Year! 🙂❤🌹😘👍🏼
@erma72588 ай бұрын
Happy New Year! Thank you for sharing your info!
@SandeepSinghCreator8 ай бұрын
Thank you Wenzes
@riyajacob29098 ай бұрын
Happy NewYear Wenzes !
@warlocktony18 ай бұрын
Happy New year wenzes! Thank you!
@drewford32058 ай бұрын
Happy New year to you as well ❤
@TerrorTeller-uv2fl8 ай бұрын
Happy New year Wenzes!
@kimpykimpton61388 ай бұрын
Thank-you!❤
@evejames64848 ай бұрын
Happy new year. I would like to become a member of your coaching. I definitely need some help I'll be in touch soon. Fellow infj here.
@myatokni45116 ай бұрын
But i can act everything wat people like and wanna see in social media if there is any🤑
@keneliajones84108 ай бұрын
Wow🔥🥂
@myatokni45116 ай бұрын
I am doing things that makes me happy n proud of me yes😂 but people see us like a weak simple dumb but the thing is ur opinion toward physical world is not my priority
@fuzbugg7 ай бұрын
💪💪💪💪💪
@keyboardoracle10448 ай бұрын
How do you explain doing things you like to do and not wanting to be there? Having a good time but wanting to be anywhere but there?
@nataliaprodan93357 ай бұрын
❤🎉😊
@user-oh7wv1rz7r8 ай бұрын
❤
@cheribarker18708 ай бұрын
What's infj?
@yannyrocha52898 ай бұрын
I just watched the Saltburn movie. My friends believe that the character Oliver is an INFJ. What do you think?
@user-gs4us5bw3h8 ай бұрын
I use KZbin as a therapist when needed and usually only seek the videos that are laid out of front of me.. this is the 2nd validation of a journey to come that aligns with the topic at matter. I truly admit I'm nervous of stepping over my threash hold and stretching the moral compass retrospectively. Your words brought strength as your eyes brought me comfort. Your vibration is as an infj General. 🫡