6 Signs of a Wounded Inner Child

[@Psych2go]

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[@TheUnknownMW]

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[@xxander1]

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[@alphatonic1481]

I healed my inner child a little bit today. It finally snowed a bit here (north western Germany) and i went outside to clean the walkway so nobody slips and hurt themselves. I also build a medium sized snowman. I was basically finished with it when the 8 year old girl living across the street who's family i have contact with every now and then came back from school with her mom and she must have seen me building the snowman. She ran towards me and helped me with the detail work on the snowman and it turned out amazing. This little carefree kid warmed my heart and gave me hope that i myself might become a dad someday. :)

[@MoodyBluesRequiem80]

OMG BRO! LITERALLY TEARED UP! WELL DONE!! 🎉🎉🎉🖤🖤🖤

[@ali-chan250]

das ist wirklich super sweet! eines tages wirst du soweit sein glaub einfach nur weiter daran :)

[@AngelOClock]

Hello from North-West, too! ❤ Sounds great. 🤍

[@Mark-sc8mt]

Good for you! What a truly heartfelt moment with a child's authenticity, combined with the first big steps to climb your mountain everest. Keep climbing greetings from the Netherlands

[@TR-lk4ik]

Aww💕this was so sweet, thank you for sharing this, made me smile..you had fun making the snowman and your young neighbor had fun too I’m sure ❤️

[@Itzme_Shinyyy]

Timestamps: 0:39 Distracted behaviour 1:30 Lots of guilt 2:31 eager to please 3:36 the perfect pursuit 4:33 Speaking up for yourself 5:13 self-sabotage

[@MoodyBluesRequiem80]

Thank you! 🖤

[@ACHRAF1644]

Thanks ❤

[@samdabestay]

Tysm ^^

[@shawnfoster3746]

Tysm

[@jdstearman]

Sounds like my inner child needs some serious healing/self love because every single sign is me. I used to think this was just my personality, but now I know better. Also, I'm getting help from a therapist. Maybe it's time to take this video to them.

[@trinaq]

"Caring for your inner child has a powerful and surprisingly quick result: Do it and the child heals." Martha Beck.

[@ZeeshanAkram1976]

How

[@bailujen8052]

My mother wants me to not have it, no wonder I believe she's no mother of mine

[@Simbaniniii]

How tho?

[@spartan2ar949]

I know what I must do.

[@Joshy2-SF]

@@bailujen8052 I'm not sure I understand if you meant "Not have an inner child " or not have care from your mother. I'm sorry either way, and I hope you learn to be there for you. It's not easy! and requires you to really want it, it's so rewarding though, trust the process no matter what.

[@Methrael]

Well this just ripped open the curtains on why I act the way I act.

[@Aleinakat]

Saaaame. I've been early in the process of doing parts work and helping heal my inner child... and this video literally made me cry

[@samuelhere41]

I think I ripped something also.

[@Pearmesan]

@@samuelhere41🐅

[@nicktodd3160]

Same here 😔

[@ChristianRamboy-yz6bg]

May God heal all of us in our silent battles

[@susanb5058]

Amen 🙏🏻

[@Scout901]

i don't believe in god

[@susanb5058]

@@Scout901 God believes in you. He created you and is waiting for you to accept Jesus as your Lord and Savior.

[@sandiletwala3001]

I'm still reparing my inner child and I still have a lot of bottled up emotions and wounds. I keep everything inside of me and I just continue to grow and improve wherever I lack. Don't know when or how but hopefully I heal from whatever bottled up rage I have inside me

[@werrr-po1et]

did you started adhd?

[@sandiletwala3001]

@werrr-po1et I'm still treating it but at the same time I don't care no more

[@werrr-po1et]

@@sandiletwala3001 what kind of problems you have gotten? and the worse problems?

[@sandiletwala3001]

@@werrr-po1et Long story short I have a lot bottled emotions that I don't want to share with no one because I don't want to let my guard down for anyone at all and I don't trust anyone including my family

[@Immortal.Deus_doom]

I really wish you to fully heal from past memories and experiences

[@nunya1103]

You are speaking my truth and it hurts a little bit😢 but it's better than the time my therapist called me "lazy"

[@harmonetheanimationaddict4419]

Wow great therapist.

[@Chiakisnumber1defender]

That therapist shouldn't be one, therapist are supposed to comfort others not make others feel bad.

[@Bap32108]

Screw that therapist if they dont try to understand you then you need a new one. And your a awesome person 😊

[@Mark-sc8mt]

Damn that brings me back, my therapist called me emotionally handicaped! First of all: f@&& them! And second: one of the few things I believe in is this.... Broken doesn't mean hopeless. 😘

[@Mark-sc8mt]

Same here, I guess the truth always hurts a little. I also encountered a completely clueless therapist. In my case, he told me that I'm emotionally handicapped. In the back of my head, I still hear a faint remark regarding something about sticks and stones... But this doesn't fly in a situation involving a professional person, wich you should be able to confide in. I'm pretty sure they don't realise the potential damage a single remark can cause. If you dare to be honest to yourself, that's the most important. That's the best place to start a new frame of mind. Don't know how long ago this therapist moment has been, but you're still hanging in there! 😘

[@abelstrd]

As a child, I was physically, mentally, verbally, abused as well as sexually abused by mom's female friend. My entire family was toxic, and that's where I learned fear, hatred, and disdain towards the world, but I learned how to hide behind smiling and laughing.

[@eledaydreamer_]

Same

[@blckspdsz6270]

I was listening to this at 3 am while cleaning my room because i can't sleep due to my mind being loud.. and everything relates to me, i felt somewhat sad that i could relate to all of it, because then it would mean i had a lot of trauma as a child.. but thankfully, it'd also mean that i could stop gaslighting myself that im fine and everything's fine, and im just "overacting".. thank you for this video it trully helped me understand more about myself.. P.s. im bawling my eyes out at 3 am, tho i somewhat feel at ease that what i felt and what i did was the cause of my trauma. ☺️

[@Mark-sc8mt]

@blckspdsz6270 omg so relatable! Not just the insomnia but the whole enchilada.... No matter how happy I was with my newly found knowledge, the truths that hit the hardest also opened up the biggest floodgates... Transformation doesn't only happen extremely slowly. It is also hard and painful. But I promise you that releasing that grief is monumental. These are the first steps to climb your Mount everest. Hopefully your room is pristine by know and good luck with your climb up the mountain. If you need a shirpa for support, just let me (or us) know! Greetings from the Netherlands

[@Joet1bp]

I healed my inner child by been the mom I never had . My kids often tells me mom it's wonderful to be your daughter 💗. I gave what I never had and I loved the way I'm wanted to be loved . I GAVE THE LOVE THAT HEAL ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@Mark-sc8mt]

Applause from around the globe! Honestly proud of you! Probably 99% of kids want this to be true for their offspring. But there is a huge chance you repeat what you've always known... awesome that you broke the cycle 🏆👏🏻

[@danavixen6274]

Congratulations! ❤

[@Joet1bp]

♥️♥️♥️♥️thank you Dana ♥️ ♥️♥️♥️ it was a gift from above To be a mom and give the love and care I never had . From toys to shoes to winter jacket. And food . But mostly the emotional need to listen to guide to show I care . For years I've blamed myself thinking I was a bad girl .having my children's was an eye opening I was not a bad girl I was just a girl . That had parents that didn't know how to be . Some times I think to myself why did you had to hit me so much all you had to do is explain what I was doing wrong or guide me how to do . One thing I'm grateful to is I never ever hit kr called them any bad words emotional damage 💔 is real Sorry I vent to much Big hug jo

[@Joet1bp]

Thank you mark. I was reading a book it didn't start with you . Made me understand and truly let them go .

[@Joshy2-SF]

@@Joet1bp That sounds very lovely @Joet1bp, I hope you're taking care of yourself and meeting your emotional needs outside of this relationship from your kids. I hope you've got therapy alongside parenting them because it's very easy for children to feel like they are responsible your emotional needs, even if that's not your intention. I'm concerned that their positive comments are perhaps for your own validation that you need to be giving yourself. I hope this message is received well, as I've done a lot of my own work in this regard. Just remember that the love that they get shouldn't be about your healing, but for the very fact they are children and need love from their parent.

[@aradikas8811]

The only thing that prevents me from moving on from my parental abuse is my brain not being able to accept how they treated me like a reactive object that they could punch and love at the same time at their whims and fancies. When an adult hits another out of anger its called crime/abuse. When an adult hits a child weaker than them, its labelled as discipline. Abusive parents see their children as reactive expensive dolls that they adore and abuse at the same time.

[@Mark-sc8mt]

Damn... got me speechless for a second... I will never understand the switch between having a tiny miracle being born and abuse. The only thing I can promise you is that you are not the one to blame. I also grew up with mentally unhealthy parents, and they get away with this simpley because you are a child. This is supposed to be the most pure love on the planet, and getting used to toxic parental love is 100x worse than a garbage boy/girlfriend... Read my typed letters; this is on them. I know it barely helps, but that doesn't change the message

[@ItsAllGoodman-h5n]

hmmm valid thing but the adore part is very less there is only abuse and starvation not of nutrition but of everything else

[@monstaguru1442]

I grew up being told fights were my fault.. or when i tried to explain something , i was told they were excuses. Certain things i learned slower than others, teachers never cared to understand. Other kids think your weird. People consider you lazy. You hyper focus on what you believe is important but others tell you "its no big deal". Being told men only want sex... That the world is nothing but cruel and makes you so paranoid to the point of a hermit. a lot of double standards and beatings and Im still trying to figure out those triggers 30 years later. I cannot afford a real diagnosis or any therapy. I heard this video and just cried. I have only 2 people who know and have seen what i see. It is heartbreaking in one sense but i love them so dearly

[@bramblej1084]

6:37 my dad used always yelled at me when I was a kid now when he does I don’t even show any emotion because I know if I do he would yell at me more sometimes when people do something similar I close off her I over explain because I don’t want them to feel hurt. It has been had for me too deal with emotions I have been trying get better. It’s hard because I lost my mom when I was9 so I didn’t really have that someone to go to but I had my Nana sadly she died when I was 15 so it’s been almost 5 years since that happened it’s sometimes hard when deal with females I do try my best and since my last brake up because of miss understanding and feelings being up in the air I have been really working on it.💙THANKS FOR LISTENING SORRY SO LONG 😅

[@pratyasha1915]

Can I be your friends if it is ok?

[@bramblej1084]

@ you want to be my friend ☺️

[@sointroverted]

I'm learning to REST. I always felt if I'm not doing something, I'm lazy. I require things to go as planned because my childhood was filled with uncertainties (I'm learning to let it flow, I cant control everything), I trained myself to not have expectations, you won't be disappointed (it's a trust issue, still learning to deal with this). Speaking positive affirmations over myself, I am worthy.

[@PeachWookiee]

My inner child, in different ages, still seeks healing. Four-year-old Peach is much better, but other parts of me are still working on feeling better.

[@ElinaBauer-ww3ji]

This video hurts me in many ways, everything is true... I really do hate myself, I wish i were gone but I just cant leave the people I love behind...

[@TepciOnVerdancy]

Hey phyce2Go. I really didn't expect how much I needed this video and when you started talking about perfectionism at 4:10 my entire body froze. I recently have had many issues with my father regarding blackmail, gaslighting and manipulation in our relationship and I'm so happy that this carries on what caused me to grow up in this perfect yet seemingly always missing something manner.. ❤ thank you so much for releasing this you have no idea how much it's helped and I'm sure others agree ❤

[@HeroicKaleb]

Same. Had this feeling like I can see my inner child crying and I don't know what to do to help him.

[@pierre0227]

The best words I told my inner child after my dad passed away. “ it’s not your fault, you deserve better”

[@janecelee1713]

I find most of the signs relatable. Back then, I wasn't aware that the behaviors I engaged in were due to a wounded inner child. I also didn't understand what was happening and why it did. All I wanted to do were to avoid pissing off the aggressors and getting yelled at. In my culture, it's considered normal and acceptable to verbally abuse ( and sometimes physically abuse ) kids when they fail to meet the expectations set for them. I had to reassure my inner child that whatever happened wasn't entirely her fault and that the aggressors didn't know how to communicate effectively with a sensitive child. During our discussion, I learned that I needed a trusting adult with whom I could talk about anything and help to guide me through the chaos. My inner child hasn't completely healed but at least I know what to do.

[@Diya_06]

Ohhh goddd i just started to process my inner child wounds from jan 1 and you posted a video on it. Thank youu sooo muchhhh!!!

[@TeaRexInACup]

Man, you guys hit me at the start and end of my day.

[@wallacerangel616]

Yeah no one cares

[@TeaRexInACup]

@ you don’t, and that’s fine. Take care

[@cemalcanguzel3683]

My husband has ADHD, depression and was on medication for many years. When we moved and he had to get a new Doctor. Unfortunately because my husband was nearly 68, the Doctor said ADHD medication was not recommended for someone his age and he wouldn't renew his prescription. The Dr didn't even offer to wean him off the meds! He left him with no meds and had him go. God so kind a friend recommended us to mushrooms (psilocybin) precisely. After his experience with shrooms five years ago till now there's no more ADHD, depression and mental disorder. Shrooms are life changing. There is no way you can put into words what it feels like..

[@ChildCONTENT0]

Mushrooms are very medicinal. This is why anybody familiar with psilocybin and any other kind of fungi will tell you, "They are alive." They have a very ancient wisdom. To my experience, all mushrooms have always said, "Pay attention to your life. How you think, how you feel, and what will you do with the information that you always knew, but now are seeing in this point of view." This is why mushrooms are so respected in tribal cultures. This mental health treatment works for me too. Half micro doses do the trick for me. At least a few days at a time with lengthy time in between. Never addictive. Thank you for sharing this point!

[@olegkroitory304]

Hey mates! Can you help with the source? I suffer severe anxiety, panic and depression and I usually take prescription medicine, but they don't always help. Where can I find those psilocybin mushrooms? I'm really interested in treating my mental health without Rxs. I live in Australia don't know much about these. I'm so glad they helped you. I can't wait to get them too. Really need a reliable source 🙏

[@bestaneierflott1195]

Yes sure, mycologist hamidshade43. I have the same experience with anxiety, addiction. Shrooms can really help break the spell. Whatever spell you may be under.

[@GlobalVisa-pf9pt]

Certainly, he's an exceptional mycologist, and i highly recommend his expertise.

[@olegkroitory304]

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[@TheUnknownMW]

I'm going to share this with my girlfriend. She needs this. Thank you very much!

[@Findsbyaleeza]

Awwww 😭

[@Sara-i8o2d]

I definitely needed this, I’m only a teen and really struggle

[@Findsbyaleeza]

@@Sara-i8o2d I hope it become better for you . Don't lose hope 💌🌷

[@PsycheOfHumans]

This was such an eye-opening video! 🙏 Recognizing these signs is the first step toward healing and self-awareness. Thank you for shedding light on this important topic and providing guidance for inner growth.

[@A55a551n]

Timestamps 1). Distracted behaviour 0:37 2). Lots of guilt 1:28 3). Eager to please 2:30 4). The perfect pursuit 3:34 5). Speaking up for yourself 4:31 6). Self-sabotage 5:11 Hope this helps you out. Hope you have a nice day. 💙💙💙💙💙💙

[@vei_cecilia]

thank you so much for always working hard and putting in so much effort to make these wonderful videos ♡

[@selen-m2h]

I didn't expect it to be so relatable. Distracted/avoidant behavior, perfectionism and self-sabotage is especially high in me. I liked the art

[@InkHacker21]

There are really a lot of similar things in terms of a ruined childhood, and realizing this, I tried to ignore it, but now it has just grown into ignorance and neutrality. I've always felt like there's something unique about being the perfect person and trying your best to make as many friends as possible and please them, knowing that it's not going to work that way. But even without this aspiration, I understand that I am losing my own individuality and desire to do something.

[@TR-lk4ik]

This resonated with me so much,, especially not standing up for myself and putting my family members needs before myself…I made myself sick with stomach issues because I was made to feel “less than” even now as an adult..with a therapist, I’m seeing what I need/want to change about myself so I can heal❤️🙏🏾

[@daniscabenjamin]

i related to a few of them but that last one is so me. Im pursuing a career in fashion design, somerhing i’ve always wanted to do. I remember one time i showed my dad my first fashion sketch i did that i was so proud of and he just called it dumb and not a good career. it hurt my feelings and ever since i’ve been self-sabotaging and doubting everything. I’m really hoping i can get over this

[@calebtarus3022]

Pray about it

[@Ashens_paws]

The fact that I was distracted while watching the distracted one was crazy 😭

[@jesykaob]

Perfect timing❤ thank you for this

[@Michael-e5k5r]

I can relate to some of these I apologize a lot even when it wasn’t my fault I have also cried quietly on my bed a few nights ago 😕

[@dragos240alt]

I've always wanted to help others, not to please them per se, but because I don't want anyone else to suffer in the same way that I did. I give people the care and love that I never received, because unlike my parents at the time, I do actually care for my loved ones. I want them to be happy, or at least hoping I can ease their pain.

[@calebtarus3022]

Yeah, it's about being aware of your intention

[@marikothecheetah9342]

Check, check, check, check, check and check! With self sabotage comes the perfectionism issue - everything less than is not acceptable, so before you fail you just... never come to the point where you can fail. And if you do push yourself together and fail the regret is enormous.

[@choco_chp]

I've always noticed how animals, even as adults, love to play without a care as if they were still children. It makes me wonder if we were ever truly meant to "grow up." We really are all just children at heart ♡

[@calebtarus3022]

I heard a verse from a rapper called DMX who said that we're children that act grown and I felt it ❤

[@theoaremevano3227]

Very accurate. Would love more info on addressing these kinds of problems, particularly during times when no one is available to help out, like late at night. That's when I feel a channel like this is the most helpful.

[@cheyenneblack94]

I was going through all of these right now. Thank you for making this video topic. ❤❤❤

[@aliciatorres91]

You’re right about the message. We need to heal our inner child 🧒

[@Findsbyaleeza]

Perfect timing . Btw can you please make a video on how to stay motivated in any physical health journey. Because I'm a person if i miss one day i procrastinate for 1 month😭🤡 + healthy habits to change your body physically and mentally both

[@IanScruggs-ln6no]

Ever since I’m growing up, I’ve been slowly losing my inner child and now it’s trapped from the mistakes of the past.

[@wallacerangel616]

Then seek fucking professional help

[@ladyt7320]

I love my inner child and I will always talk to her and play Barbie dolls❤❤ I love you inner child you are so beautiful

[@ripmasta4evr]

Im a man in 30s still haunted by my upbringing. I remember asking my step father one day if he was proud of me that i was graduating high school. "You couldve done more." That along with the emotional abuse has followed me into adulthood where i struggle with self confidence, self worth, trust, pretty much everything in the video. My inner child still has a long way to go for healing.

[@thermouthis]

I think somehow all of us have a wounded inner child. Some of us have deeper wounds. I don't exactly know what wounds my inner child, but i know, there is something hurts me. I often feel that i'm worthless, like i deserve nothing, love or a good life. This video made me think about this issue. Thank you.

[@Benjamin-gn3ey]

AND THE TRUTH SHALL SET YOU FREE!!!!!!! I now know where all these thoughts are coming from

[@Vsxe]

Totally relatable, even too much.😅 The thing is any of my 8 therapists have been able to achieve significant progress, so I don't trust them anymore.

[@nistharaysarkar2430]

I have every one of it . But I don't understand, I was a good student, my parents were loving, though I was bullied . I still don't understand why I am so wounded

[@adventureguide7926]

Excellent, now can you do a video on the healing part?

[@GamePsychYT]

As bad as trauma is and can be, the human brain is wonderfully malleable which means that with the right person and effort you can overcome this trauma. Just remember to be kind to yourself as we are all flawed but we still remain on the path to better ourselves :)

[@Jukari94]

Relatable! As a child I often got a very sarcastic Good Luck! when I told my parents what I wanted to do. Big or small.

[@prathyushagrande8516]

Thankyou for making these videos 😊

[@Peacefullybroken410]

😢 explains why I'm the way I am! Got some more healing to do

[@The_Viscount]

I've heard numerous people over the years tell me "Kids are resilient, so don't worry too much about it." If that is true, why do so many adults go to therapy to specifically address childhood trauma? As for reparrenting your inner child, I've never really understood what that meant. Giving ourself unconditional love sounds great, but what does that actually mean? What does that look like? How do you do it?

[@sheriasha18]

I am wondering the same thing

[@dragos240alt]

For me, it was a little complicated. I am plural (multiple identities in one head), and one of my headmates "adopted" me, took care of me like I should have been taken care of. But it's not the only way. Compassion towards yourself, despite your experiences of the past influencing your current thoughts and actions, is another way.

[@waimuncheah9863]

Look at it this way. There is another you, a fragmented self that we call inner-child. You, now as an adult, knowing what you know today, need to protect and comfort y inner- child, give them hug, assurance, and unconditional love by talking to y inner-child. Give them whatever they did not get from y parent, so they can heal. Acknowledge to them you know they were hurt badly by ignorant parents. Let then know you are a grown up now, assure them you'll protect & love them so they will never be abused again. Do this as often as you can until y heal. The inner child is like a split personality. Y need to heal so y can become whole again. This works assuming you are currently a self- empowered adult.

[@Chris_S96]

I've been healing my inner child over the years, and I'm currently in a way better state than i was years ago. I still have a few weaknesses that i got to work on, but I've learned to become a better person than those who have tried to change me for the worst. I'm always continuing to become stronger and resilient everyday 🤟

[@oldschoolhangout]

My inner child regressed to a baby leaving me stuck in the adult world with nothing to keep me going. I can't even go outside because any interaction causes me to shut down. My therapist sorta listens but if I bring something up again she says "you already talked about that a few weeks ago so you're over now, why bring it up again?" Saying what happened doesn't fix it, even if she talked about it with me I've still been dealing with it for 30+ years so it isn't going to magically go away that easily. How do you fix an inner baby without help??

[@lolila_da_taro]

Your voice was my light, just 10 sec in, I cried

[@brooke3265]

Thankyou

[@Jockwardia]

Thanks for not giving up on yourself! ...man I needed that.

[@BRISTACKZ9]

my trauma came to the surface at 9. i came home crying and didn’t know why and ive been in a shell since

[@osirisianplays8089]

thank you for sharing your beautiful video. i appreciate the help that the psych2go team share with us ❤

[@Amazing_Matt]

From what I see, my inner child's traumas didn't come from my parents, it was solely because I was and still am so critical of myself... How does one "fix" that? From this video, I do "suffer" from over-achieving perfectionism and blaming myself on a lot of stuff. Just making a single mistake makes me feel as if my world has crumbled and that I should be ashamed of making a mistake cuz I can't make mistakes...

[@ericrobinson2114]

I can see that I have a hard time speaking up sometimes for several reasons. One is because I wasn't raised by my mom as a kid and have been around a somewhat toxic household because older cousins staying with my great grandmother

[@sandshew4158]

1:53 my parents never said or acted like I was a cost to raise, but I saw how tired they were at times and began to try an limit what they had to worry about when it came to me, because I didn't want to make them more tired.

[@ВладимирЛысов-н9ш]

It feels like I finally found what's wrong with me. Thank you, Psych2go

[@Let_me_get_a_name.-_-]

I dont have low self esteem, somehow my emotions recover super fast so i constantly bully myself to avoid being arrogant

[@JasmineHaskins-q2y]

I have childhood trauma in my life and now I'm still trying to healing my inner child today. I wish that I should talk to play psychiatrist about it sooner. Now I'm just simply pessimistic about everything, especially with myself 😢.

[@MelissaVRamos]

Thank you for this and everyone that wrote in. I will watch this again. I agree with everyone. It is time for help; even if it is self help to professional. I got to take this little step that leds to many small steps to the main goal of healing.

[@yamisyummis8924]

Not the baby Psych2Go😅 looking like the cutest mochi ever🥰 4:00

[@BlackLadyRockz]

Some things I have been little by little trying to improve and I see how some ppl close to me say "I've changed"... I felt guilty because I felt I was being harsh but then I realized I was putting limits and some didn't like it! I didnt have abusive parents yet the bullying came from a sibling and at school for some years, it weighed heavily on me how they apparently didn't know how to deal with that and made me feel I was on my own... luckily, little by little we all get to heal our inner child and reassue him/her we love him/her unconditionally!

[@damnablethief]

Some things just don't go awsy. Ever. Ya'lls content is always helpful though❤

[@kimberlybogert7031]

My inner child is hurting some im trying my best to heal em it just taking some time i have alot more issues then i thought i had..but it be ok i don't feel completely ok right now but it will be alright it just takes time patience,and showing kindness to myself..inconing my inner child.🌼

[@notsoheroiclink3020]

I feel like in a way, this is why my ADHD meds have allowed me to feel that emotional pain more noticeably. It's taking away the dissociative barrier, and saying "hey kiddo, it's okay. You NEED to feel these feelings, not ignore them." I'm being forced to acknowledge that pain by it not being blocked out. And honestly it's a good thing. Gotta get a therapist soon to help do the heavy work, but we're trying so hard. 🤞💖

[@venetianmacao2019]

I always wanted to be a painter. I felt very identified with the last one.

[@Ravenesu]

I try my best to fix myself and i felt like this video is directed towards me and id like to thank you for that. Recently my life has become alot better, met someone and i feel like slowly all is coming nicely

[@Kai.SilentScreams]

Amazing info. Thank you ❤

[@sentientvoid666]

What happens in our past, shapes our present much more than most of us realize.

[@veganerd1131]

My parents told me when I was a very young child they could do whatever they want to me. And they did.

[@bebeautiful583]

What they did to you?im sorry if they did something wrong,alots of love for you

[@FrankJared-ss5jz]

I'm sure it wasn't as bad as my childhood. 😢

[@bebeautiful583]

@FrankJared-ss5jz so sorry you have gone through that

[@FrankJared-ss5jz]

@@bebeautiful583 After all I went through the trauma of my mother leaving my worthless ass at 5 years old and never coming back, while also never loving me at all. 13 years later it still makes me feel afraid of abandonment, rejection, and full of shame and worthlessness. The pain of realizing after all these years that she didn't even give a shit about me while I also have to constantly ignore everyone and everything in my life, escape into my fantasies, just to cope with that realization and experiences of emotional and physical abuse by my siblings. As well as the emotional neglect I experienced growing up with mother figures who were either physically/emotionally absent.

[@ankavrcon237]

Kadar me je popadlo,sem šla po trgovinah,kot,da bi bila na sprehodu.Bolj zdravo je,to zdaj opažam,da se sprehajam v naravi,ne po enem prostoru-trgovini!

[@Raivuu_00]

Are they reading my mind again? Its been the fourth time😭😭 But thank you as always, my inner child is probably locked up inside of me so i think it is time to confront it

[@NancyBeaulieu]

I’ve been a people pleaser and a workaholic.

[@FoodieYUM-YUM]

I have all of these i am still a child. for the perfection one, my brother always tells me he is better at everything than me and i cant think of anything and if i do he come up with an excuse. This caused me to work extra hard in 7th grade which i am in now. But the hard work is super stressful and i constantly feel like im not good enough. For the guilt one i feel like i brag to much that i guilt trip to much im to weird or that im simply just wrong and my way of coping with the things i go through i watch youtube or read because when i do that i can forget about my problems and just laugh at the story but the one thing that stops that is when my parents argue and the earbuds cant hide that. my stepdad (by bio dad was dead when i was 5) keeps going on about how mom is apparently "cheating" shes not. I know this because when he told us about his so called evidence he pulled up google. U know how google says hi he said there was a person behind it talking to her, how ridiculous!!! Okay im sorry for pouring some of guilt trip on you but i just really needed to talk to someone even if its just to random people. ❤❤❤ please dont hate on this comment!!!❤

[@dymoure]

I'm a child at heart. I feel like I had a great childhood, but being rejected so many times... basically every time... by potential partners has definitely wounded me. I've learned as much as I can to become better and better every day. I try to be the best version of me I can be. So when that isn't good enough for people, even those who like me, it just sucks. I've learned lately that instead of looking for love someone isn't giving me, I should focus on the love I can, and should, bring others. So even if I keep getting rejected, at least I'll keep giving everyone love. :)

[@Clodhopping]

Most people say they had an issue-free childhood... whereas in reality it was tough. Little kids are vulnerable and need the love of adults to teach them their world is safe. So even minor things can scar a child emotionally - things that adults shrug off. Remembering negative experiences was an evolutionary benefit for early humans so that's why adults carry trauma from childhood. Read The Anxiety Prescription by Dr Russell Kennedy, a Canadian doctor - it's an eye- and mind-opener. It'll change your response to trauma trapped in your body. Best of luck ❤👍

[@WhyAreAllTagsTaken]

I heal my inner child through cosplay, since I was always bullied for liking dress up even in elementary school which caused me to stop. Now I cosplay all my favorite characters from things I liked in the past and still like today, as well as original characters I’ve made that each have amazing story to go along with them.

[@StefanPagacik]

This video totally resonated with me. I have pretty much all six signs. I’ve tried therapy and it’s worked to a certain degree. But it would be helpful to find someone that I could talk to who can finish the job.

[@HidaAtarasi]

I think I may have had some childhood in my trauma.

[@TheLordCorn]

It's so funny that I carried so much that I never realized how much this was me. Completely. My inner child needs me to take care of it.

[@soulisjennie]

I realized that my inner child was hurt when I got an emotional flashback. Since then, I’m trying to stand up for myself, not to please people and try to do everything for everyone. That made me realize most of the time, people called me a good person just because I let them use me. Not for what I really was, and they really won’t return any of those favors. Thankfully, now I’m capable of detecting liars better than before and staying away from people who are trying to use me for their demands. And have started to focus on me more and be More genuine with what I feel. Psych2Go helped me a lot through the process, Thank you 💓

[@tutubism]

Looks like i tick all the boxes here especially being avoidant/escapist, perfectionist & a people-pleaser Living with conditions like adhd, dyslexia, depression, anxiety, C-PTSD & other possible comorbidities makes it hard since people who are struggling with those conditions are either stigmatized or alienated which makes it almost impossible to reach out for help. however, practicing self-compassion & surrounding yourself with the right people who are supportive & empathic can minimize stress or other negative emotions & their positive influence can help you grow as a better person. I'm not religious or spiritual but I pray for anyone who are also struggling with these interpersonal issues to be able to find that competent & emotionally intelligent person that they've been looking for 🙏

[@teresarudolph1256]

1. Distracted or avoidant behavior. ✔️ 2. Lots of guilt. ✔️ 3. People-pleasing. ✔️ 4. Perfectionism. ✔️ 5. Difficulty speaking up for yourself. ✔️ 6. Self-sabotage. ✔️ Yep, all of these are all too relatable.

[@Mark-sc8mt]

6 out of 6 to the t, as usual. Thank you for the effort in this channel

[@sandysandy9275]

It's even worse when people tell you it's in the past,you are stuck and you are like this and that and they say it in a demeaning way because you keep thinking of the past...ofcourse i'm thinking about the past because it's affected my future so much and my past has cause me so much of inner trauma

[@TheSp33dster]

I don't feel guilt, I can feel sorry, just not guilt. I also don't really relate to any of these, but there is most likely something else I could relate to

[@jigglyback2338]

Every word said in this video is so relatable to me

[@JS-mu9qd]

The first three signs fit completely to my earlier child hood. Luckily it got better and my self esteem rose again after that point.

[@kendellhernandez238]

I honestly lost connection with my inner child years ago and now got snowed in since Sunday now Thursday I was in my room for most of the time and started to reconnect. I don't know where to go now or what to do. I cut out mostly everyone because I was ignored for so long as a middle child and put to the side by most family. All my friends are married with kids and I am single so can't hang out. I was shocked to hear my inner child for 17 years

[@curtistinemiller4646]

You can't heal ,what you can't feel...

[@JosieStJohn-gg1gx]

I’ve never been through trauma myself, but I see some of these signs in some people in my life.