6 Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable Person

Do you think you might have a crush on someone who is emotionally unavailable? Emotionally unavailability means that someone is unable to connect with the emotions of others, and potentially themselves. In a relationship, this can lead to a lack of emotional fulfillment and compatibility. To help you avoid further heartbreak in the future, we made this video to help you identify the signs someone may be emotionally unavailable.
Credits
Writer: Ria Parikh
Script Editor: Isadora Ho
Script Manager: Kelly Soong
VO: Amanda Silvera
Animator: Zuzia
KZbin Manager: Cindy Cheong
References
“Emotional Unavailability”. Fox Valley Institute. 2018.
Gaba, Sherry. “How to Spot an Emotionally Unavailable Person.” Psychology Today. 24 February 2020.
Mateo, Ashley. “How You Can Tell If Someone’s Emotionally Unavailable”. The Oprah Magazine. 10 October 2019.
Paddock, Catharine. “Could ‘mirror neurons’ explain brain mechanisms of empathy?”. Medical News Today. 15 April 2019.
Raypole, Crystal. “Emotionally Unavailable: What It Really Means”. Healthline. 27 January 2020.

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Attack on Titan ;-;

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demon slayer

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death note !!

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Im watching the disastrous life of Saki K

[@dailydoseofmedicinee]

Being emotionally unavailable describes someone who is not open to discussing or sharing their feelings. They can be evasive, flaky, or hard to read. "They're scared of intimacy👍

[@RickTS]

I was like this before I met her She helped me a lot emotionly-

[@tommygunn6901]

We all are guilty of doing this at one time or another. What changes that is how self aware you are to it which can help make the changes necessary

[@matheussanthiago9685]

tbf intimacy is quite scary

[@tommygunn6901]

@@matheussanthiago9685 it is quite scary cause it requires vulnerability, but we sometimes need to take that risk and sometimes it's rewarding

[@Jenny7624]

Sadly, yes. I don’t like flaky ppl but I know my crush is super flaky due to emotionally unavailable. And when ppl are emotionally unavailable, there’s not much you can do about it 😭😭😭 but I can’t just let go of him because I care about him so much, I hate seeing him depressed 😭😭😭

[@ICEcoldJT]

“The people you meet are either reflections of a repeater cycle or guides towards a new start.” ✨

[@journeylife777]

I think that's called law of attraction 😁

[@michirista]

@@journeylife777 more then law of attraction a think you can see as stay focused on people bad behavior ,if you decide live with that is different !!

[@zach2455]

Bro i feel like i see you everywhere especially on elis videos

[@journeylife777]

@@michirista well, bad behavior person also help us to know what kind of person that we don't want to be in the Future...That's always reason of people come into our life 😁

[@michirista]

@@journeylife777 you are totally right ,it's about perspective !!!

[@icebear524]

Hits different when *you're* the emotionally unavailable person without even realizing it

[@rosegolden2039]

Ice bear will get better

[@icebear524]

:')

[@anivlog6994]

literally i watched the video and was like dang that’s me

[@colorfulquesadilla377]

I came here to see if my crush was emotionally unavailable but then I realized I was the emotionally unavailable one-

[@mihaylov5501]

Same

[@e.blaise2226]

Literally just cleared up stuffs with him and KZbin recommended this video...

[@phing0192]

Lmao plot twist

[@picklep9812]

Oh my god I watched this but substituted my female friend and it is a match

[@scroingl]

I don't have a crush on anyone, but I watched it anyway out of sheer boredom. And yep, same thing here...

[@nicoleonfeels]

Often times, people who are emotionally unavailable are in the process of working through some hurt. But with some work, they can come around like I did 🤗

[@tommygunn6901]

Self awareness is the first step!

[@tommygunn6901]

By the way, how did you overcome that? And where are you at now with all this?

[@kimberlybogert-nemeth4760]

I have a crush on someone online but he going through some things and so am I guess..but still I wish I could be there for him..sigh..maybe it's not meant to be.😌

[@luciandelle]

Yeah... idk bout that..

[@luciandelle]

@@kimberlybogert-nemeth4760 i feel you, ive lost feelings but still

[@alessioplt8786]

0:33 they lack compassion 1:00 they don't seem to want a real relationship 1:25 their body language come off as distant 1:55 they're dismissive of you 2:25 they avoid emotional depth 2:53 they don't have many deep relationship

[@Ashheartpaw]

Thanks!

[@remyislost2655]

This helps me so much! Thank you!

[@waterdoeswork]

Time travel!?!@11

[@featherpuke]

But also each of these behaviours are okay, and deserve a conversation *being dismissive isn't cool

[@MrGreeneyedcat]

Thank you : ) .

[@girlingreenscarf7766]

No no emotionally unavailable person does not lack of compassion. They really compassionate if someone wants to tell their stories, they can be a good listener. But they dont want to tell their stories. They dont want to reciprocate.

[@MiSquidster]

This video: talks about crushes Me: *laughs in loneliness*

[@gracehaven5459]

Relationships aren't always all they're cracked up to be. I'm miserable in mine but scared to leave.

[@katkat6858]

@@gracehaven5459 I’ve been there and let me tell you. It can be scary but it’s better to leave now then later. Don’t stay in the relationship. It can be hard but it’s worth it in the end.

[@nova4101]

Laughs in aromantic asexual

[@13._.1]

@@nova4101 *Laughs in demisexual AND LONLINESS*

[@stickboi922]

Me: *Laughs in confusion of if I have a crush or not, and wondering if they are just being extremely friendly*

[@queensylvanas4556]

I was in a relationship with someone that was emotionally unavailable and I've never felt more unwanted or dismissed like my feelings didn't matter at all :( I wish people would at least be honest instead of hurting others who are ready to open up and give love another chance. After this I honestly feel so scared to try again.

[@tiana_vs]

bless you! They should work on themselves, they are the problem, not you. These people will end up very lonely if they don't start opening up, and start talking about what's bothering them, or how they feel etc. Don't let anyone think you are not worthy for any recognition of who you are as a person x

[@Nikita-mo4np]

gurl, same... :(

[@danex070]

As a guy who just discovered I am (was) emotionally unavailable ... You just don't feel it its something wrong with you, even if the other is points it to You, I guess its hard to belive how someone can't understand even if its told to him but it is. I felt something is not quite right but then you think you just need time to adjust, you don't value the positive that much but the negative so much you use it in you mind to build a wall. Now after I ended the relationship i feel all the emotion and love to her and how toxic it was to her. Am I regretting I ended the relationship? No, as I couldn't make her happy and by that I was also not happy. And without the pain I now have I wouldn't know how much i have to invest in myself. So it hurts really much i hurt him and i have to let her go and by that maybe i lost her forever, but I also know I need time to find myself and she also needs time to heal. I just can hope in the future maybe our roads will cross again, but I know i did the most to her by letting her free from me right now :/

[@agnes6507]

I understand you

[@monkpoggi]

I have to wonder why they even bother with dating sites.

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

actions speak louder than words, so trust actions and not words.

[@dingus4806]

This..

[@exhausteDpigeonN]

LOUDER my Queen!!!🙌🏼

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

@@exhausteDpigeonN 😇😇😇😁

[@henchoakes8016]

💯

[@pellithee]

I’m not emotionally unavailable but I’m not open to date so idk why I’m even watching this.

[@genesis3686]

As an introvert dealing with social anxiety, I can wholeheartedly relate to being emotionally unavailable.

[@shakiramcdaniel3993]

I used to like someone who was only clearly emotionally unavailable. He was always negative and he drained me out mentally and emotionally. He always brought confusion in my life, so I ended up cutting him off. Here’s my advice: Just because someone is going through something.. that IS NOT an excuse for that person to hurt you or lead you on. If a person is draining you out then cut that person off. You can’t change someone. If your crush is emotionally unavailable then GET OUT. (Depending your situation)

[@noobcoverssauceage2923]

That's why I have a crush on an anime charachter Easy peasy✌

[@mellomell7269]

😂 Let's keep it a crush not an obsession

[@noobcoverssauceage2923]

@@mellomell7269 lmao no obsession 😁

[@ggaxaly]

god what a mood

[@rhokesh4391]

dismissive avoidants often do.... I know what I'm talking about ;)

[@13._.1]

I like an anime girl *and a living one HOW FUN 🥲*

[@va11enn]

Just here to see if I'm emotionally unavailable 🙂

[@va11enn]

@@ladreenisaac2418 same and omg how is he? How many times did he ask to do a double suicide with you?

[@thextothey6417]

Tsuki is your profile pic you're emotionally unavailable into people who are emotionally unavailable

[@Shulsa]

I'm compassionate and all that but I just don't want to date anyone. At least not for a while. It's hard to find someone I like who accepts me for who I am

[@youjustgowomen6176]

Finally a comment I can relate to .

[@yourbestself101]

I think when people become emotionally unavailable it's not by choice it's because of all the pain they face in past

[@ellyoidalpha7882]

i agree, i dont blame anyone in this situation

[@Raj-cl7he]

Yea it just becomes emotionally exhausting I think also as you get older you see how needy the world and people are its to.much to keep up with so you just shut down .

[@vicki2545]

Not if they are the one making it hard

[@vicki2545]

It is by choice when he chooses to make somebody think their crazy

[@sethwood1003]

I have a bad habit of catching feelings for emotionally unavailable people 🙁

[@theycallmevitch]

Then you may be emotionally unavailable

[@allicurry8854]

I had a friendship like this. It took living with them for me to see what was so different. I think it's important to discuss that emotional availability applies to friendships as much as it does to romantic relationships.

[@abbeyfisher4232]

I am so thankful for you helping me through these tough times and making me more knowledgeable about life. I have told all my friends and family members about your channel and how you get people the help they need. They all love you including me. So keep doing what you are doing and I hope I can stay with you for a long time! ❤️❤️💖💜💛

[@nctalwaysmakesmesmile8093]

Oh so this is how people time travel. I was getting real confused.

[@wildbeam]

Lmao

[@kai.tlynma]

ikr

[@crazyformyself3105]

Nctzen?

[@hannahmontana9964]

HOW

[@slyevergreens4432]

H o w

[@yourmom-cx9hq]

Hewwo I hope you guys have a good day today ,drink some water and spend some time outside 🌟🤗☀️

[@straightchlorine2434]

Hey random person reading this, you deserve all the love in this world and deserve better than emotionally unavailable people❤️

[@waterdoeswork]

Thank you random time traveler✨🖤👉👉

[@GHOUSTTM]

Thank you úwù 💖

[@therougesage7466]

What if those with ravaged faces lacking in the social graces? Those my friend are the emotionally unavailable

[@supriyagawali6005]

Thank You..I needed that

[@tatum.m]

whoaaa what’s everyone doing here two months ago when this is from 18 seconds ago 😭😭😭

[@katsukibakugo3548]

Yeah 😭

[@tatum.m]

@Winter Tree that would explain it

[@Ashheartpaw]

@Winter Tree U really think i have money to be a member? Lol

[@hel2727]

@Krishna Patel who are you talking to?..

[@AmandaNavarro]

My crush doesn't seem to fit any of these, I think he just sees me as a friend more than anything :') I mean that's completely okay, he's a big boy who can choose who he wants to be in a relationship with, but oof what's this feeling? p a i n

[@patientlywaiting4mykingsou49]

Ever considering asking him how he feels about you?

[@shadowstalker8508]

I agree with one above, I'd say go for it, if you haven't already, you never know if the door will open till you knock it

[@milk-qh5zz]

bread

[@syalamontana2508]

I feel u. Sometimes me and my crush flirt to each other but i think he just see me as a little sister that he like to tease. He is my senior in college also my partner in crime :) 💔

[@eviege7567]

I just went through a breakup. He's very emotionally unavailable and all these points apply and myself being very emotional and my love languages being quality time and physical touch it was so hard to make it work. I felt like he didn't love me or care at all about me. He had bad father figures in his life and I know he went through a lot. But it's very difficult to help someone who won't open up. It was very bad for my mental health so I had to choose to put myself first...

[@shakey3306]

Putting yourself first is something that a lot of people do these days...

[@mikebronson5766]

I learned how to be emotionally unavailable from my mother. and emotionally abusive from my father when I was a very small child. My question would be, is being a adult survivor of childhood emotional abuse and neglect the same as being a total jerk? or maybe like a complete asshole. My whole life the question was always whats wrong with you? and never what happened to you? The reason I am emotionally unavailable is because I have served a life sentence in a prison of shame for the crime of being born. and in that prison all the doors lock from the inside. That's what being emotionally unavailable feels like.

[@PlanetPsych]

Hope y'all liked this video as much as I did :-) 1. They lack compassion 0:31 2. They don't seem to want a real relationship 0:58 3. Their body language is distant 1:23 4. They're dismissive of you 1:57 5. They avoid emotional depth 2:25 6. They don't have many deep relationships with others 2:52

[@seineevee]

Tysm!

[@beanthealien2090]

Thanks

[@noelblack8159]

Thank you Sir

[@radioactive7438]

2 months ago...

[@sebastianritchie6895]

I can understand why time travel is fun! Btw, great video! It helped me realize that someone I've been very close to for a while is bordering on emotional unavailability.

[@TheSpectacledOwl]

I was emotionally unavailable for over a decade after a disastrously bad break-up. Then, recently, things happened that helped open me back up…only to fall for someone who is, herself, currently emotionally unavailable.

[@mokakuma7329]

thats ur fuccking punishement and im here happy for itt....wtff is going wrong with you guys gooooosssshhh

[@shakey3306]

​@@mokakuma7329punishment for what exactly?

[@minfirezman2351]

Really good timing I was just wondering about my crush. Thank you!

[@b.b.thedistortedclown8267]

Literally perfect timing. THANK YOU!

[@JustRaven00]

The notif told me that it was new, but the comments are from months ago

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[@wisie707]

ITS THE FUCKING TIME TRAVALERS!!!!!!

[@valynciasmith206]

I need to learn to open up more to people. That is the reason why I don’t have deep friendships. It took me so long to find this out, BUT I am working on this as we speak. Gotta take it on step at a time!

[@snowbunny4155]

No I don't because I AM the emotionally unavailable Crush

[@michirista]

If you're the emotional unavailable someone crush you try to work yourself if you want it,so you can heal and not hurt others in the way

[@therougesage7466]

Being emotional unavailable feels like we fall in the deep end of a pool and we cant swim

[@Twztedcheerio1]

I can’t tell you how much I appreciate these videos. Wish they were around when I was dating...12 years too late! But these are most educational and helpful!

[@mawita867]

This video would have been very helpful to me about a year ago. I hope the people who need it finds this video 💛

[@windstormx8952]

I had just been struggling with this issue. Someone who I am close with has many of these qualities, and it hurt me for so long as to why they felt distant and I never knew why. Thank you so much for this insight

[@supriyagawali6005]

What did you do about it?

[@PGOuma]

"And when the seasons change, will you stand by me?" *Sorry... O.O wrong comment section...*

[@waterdoeswork]

o.O

[@luciandelle]

O.o

[@yukeroinactivated6984]

o.O

[@sam-zn4xw]

0_0

[@uwunawu]

where have I heard this from

[@skibunny2257]

Yes He is very uncomfortable when I express my feelings towards him and he keeps me at a distance. It's not what I want or deserve so I think I need to move on to someone that knows what they want and can see my value.

[@T355V]

anyone else here to see if they're emotionally unavailable? 😂 also this has been unlisted since *June 12* lol

[@bug5460]

me lol

[@Irxsdiissxction]

Time travelers ?!

[@waterdoeswork]

TIME TRAVEL!?!?

[@remyislost2655]

Me lmao

[@lovelyfaeriie163]

2 months ago..

[@hel2727]

I am like this. just like my mother. I knew I will be like her someday, no matter how much I despised her. but I know that healing my inner child is my own responsibility. this is hard. but things that matter are never easy.

[@neutrono.8288]

man ... how I love this channel :)

[@treznopresto4878]

(Insert a good "hi" here) 1. They lack compassion 0:31 2. They dont want a real relationship 0:59 3. Their body language is distant 1:22 4. They dimissive of you 1:57 5. They avoid emotional depth 2:24 6. They dont have many deep relationships with others 2:53 (Insert a good "bye" here)

[@lexi1666]

What if you both are emotionally unavailable and just don't want to be alone so you both just get together?

[@jenniferculpepper856]

Sounds like my marriage.

[@lidiabellina6019]

Thank you for this video!

[@broke_block]

How do you post these incredible videos everyday? That’s just impressive

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

These people can exhaust you and there’s nothing to be proud of if you’re one of them I don’t care if they’ve been hurt before, if you don’t want to open up just don’t start any relationships and don’t hurt others I hope I’ll never find these people anymore

[@deltamico]

They don't "start" a relationship, right?

[@cieraboobitch6240]

You know, its REALLY fckin hard to start relationships, right?

[@ChocoParfaitFra]

@@cieraboobitch6240 of course lol

[@cerebralpaulc]

the art is so good bruh i can’t-

[@Roan.bot.]

They are emotionally unavailable. I already knew but I wanted to make sure I was labeling it correctly. I’ve never been in a relationship so I was still unsure. They don’t ignore me but they are quick to dismiss other people’s opinions or feelings as in if they make someone feel bad in accident they’ll just brush it off as an accident and just keep doing how they do. I had to confirm because sometimes its hard for me to tell when someone is emotionally unavailable or just a selfish/ inconsiderate person. They definitely do #5. I thought that was just how some people are because I’m a very open person with everyone I know. I don’t have many deep relationships but I’m willing too. It’s just I don’t know that make people that are as open. I just end up resenting people that aren’t because the relationship feels lopsided like they really don’t want me to know them.

[@ll3832]

I'm late😔 Anyway, I love the animations so much It's beautiful

[@waterdoeswork]

Smh you're late

[@ll3832]

@@waterdoeswork actually there were people before me so I assumed that I was late

[@kdveav]

I’m a time Traveler

[@arielmaule]

Awesome video.

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ADVANCE HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL! I LOVE WATCHING PSYCH2GO VIDEOS!! 🦋

[@101.3TIMEFM]

Amazing video :D

[@aml2463]

You guys never fail to meet my psychological questions 😅❤ i love you

[@newgotham8105]

This was my best friend who I had to say goodbye to recently. She always blameshifted back to her issues when I wanted to discuss important topics about her and how she made me feel in the relationship or made excuses. And if I needed to talk about something in my life that was upsetting me she wasn't present to comfort me, and we would just end up talking about her life. It's my fault, too because I put her up on the pedestal. My heart is broken. And she doesn't care. I wasn't trying to manipulate her. I have PTSD. Also, I'm a dark empath who's done psychotherapy. I hate her for this.

[@TitaniumTronic]

Everyone who I have a crush on suddenly becomes emotionally unavailable LOL

[@fraser2726]

Time flies when you have fun

[@josecenteno5618]

This is helpful.

[@laura_G_86]

I really, really, really, love that voice :3

[@harsshillala]

Perfect timing

[@venus_5937]

You Unlisted it Since June when are you going to post this one? Anyways I will continue Treasure Hunting for more Videos

[@fairyfellermasterstroke]

Are you telling me that I actually just found an unlisted video?

[@justsomepandawithinternet]

@@fairyfellermasterstroke Duh

[@radxianixe]

@@fairyfellermasterstroke it's how time travelling works 😂

[@remington0011]

I've self isolated for so long now that I dont talk to anybody enough to even develop a crush. Being bullied in high school helped push me away from people, and I ended up with depression from it. Being bullied for expressing emotions made me cold. Not doing this for sympathy, I'm just curious if that's normal.

[@achi7440]

Yes, it's normal. If you're being bullied for expressing ur emotions, then naturally, u start being cold to ppl out of resentment and fear. U also have a hard time trusting ppl, so u easily push them away, making u feel lonely and depressed

[@lyrah6360]

Ive had experience with being bullied when I was young. It gets better when you get older trust me. Im in college now and I went through same thing as you. You will learn how to love yourself, develop boundaries with narcissistic people and open up again to different forms of love friendships/romantic. I highly recommend watching Lisa A. Romano. She is a great life coach. Good luck sending virtual air hugs 🤗 ❤️

[@remington0011]

Thx yall. Hope yall are doing well also.

[@Balasidine957]

​@@lyrah6360 Nope. Depending what demographic you cone from it doesn't get better when you get older. I really hate it when people like you say that.

[@jm543]

Bold of you to asume all people are trustworthy. I feel trapped in relationships and like someone is constantly pushing me to do things I am not ready for. I especially hate when someone starts to strangle me with talk about future or meeting their parents after 2 or 3 months of relationship. It is too soon and I mean you don't really know someone after 2 months. I've been hurt and betrayed in all types in relationships. I've learned that I can only truly count on myself. When I was going through thick and thin only few family members were on my side. When I have negative emotions I need to pull away to process them on my own. Talking about that with someone only increases my anxiety will they tell that later to someone what is bothering me or use that againts me later in an argument. No wonder I've built the walls around. When you keep someone on a distance it will hurt less if they try to hurt you in any way.

[@miraclestivender651]

That's opposite for me also toally understandable. If you're dating for a few months and you both like each other your most likely going to want to introduce them to family. If you don't it'll be like their ashamed of being with you or don't want you to meet their family that's normal. You can still get to know someone after a couple of months and still introduce the parents. Yes and talking about the future to much I've been there before. Just trying focusing on the present helped me a little 😅.

[@cosmosfacade8836]

I kinda need this- also, time traveling!

[@luciandelle]

Youre a wizard, Harry.

[@psychicpebbles7910]

I had this girl who liked me a whole lot, it was the first time anyone had actually liked me that way so I just went along with it. She kept talking to me and trying to be a common part of my life but that's when I realized something. I had been alone for so long that it was hard to be around others. I tried to stay in the relationship for her sake but it ended with her liking me even more. She got too close and I pushed her away.

[@monikachandra2487]

I have been in that situation many times and also become the one of unavailable. I can relate 5 and 6 because unable to have deep relationships

[@revinmike622]

Hey, Thanks for this Video. Really liking your content :) Just wanted to know what's the average RPM of your channel?

[@guccion]

happy to be here

[@garyprater8139]

I'm emotionally available Amanda!

[@RetroDriverSP]

I had a crush on someone this year but this video pretty much confirmed it. I cut ties with them and blocked them. I personally don't like giving my all to someone and keep me hanging. Its unfortunate but I have to watch out for myself. The last text was them asking me about an outing I was going to and guess what, left me hanging and I wasnt gonna wait 🙃

[@gigi2643]

ERROR: "Lack of deep and meaningful emotional relationships"... As a child of a Covert Narcissist, I have always BEEN open and vulnerable, willing and eager to engage, connect, and grow deep with people. Problem: due to my mother's isolating me from my entire family and from normal friendships,... I DID NOT DEVELOP THE SOCIAL SKILLS, scientists prove that the BRAIN misses the early development of these skills, then, does not recover them... one has to LEARN them, but they struggle... THIS DOES NOT MEAN I AM EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE! Quite the contrary! I meet men who ARE! 🙂

[@dolphinman9896]

I haven't even watched yet but I just know this is gonna describe me perfectly 😔

[@abyssal_phoenix]

Weirdly enough I’m the opposite of all those signs, and I’m an infj. We are known as people who have trouble opening up and stuff. But I don’t have that weakness. I can be so open that I can scare people away

[@katieburke2902]

good one...♡

[@Talkinglife]

Emotional unavailability” describes a person who's evasive, avoids meeting up, or simply doesn't like to talk about their feelings or relationships. That person might also have difficulties with the following: trusting people. bursts of anger

[@lotussong1]

Hmmm, some of these describe myself.🤔 Though I try be polite and considerate, I may seem distant to some people. I don’t trust people easily and prefer to stay single, due to negative past experiences. I’m a skeptic when it comes to romantic love too.🤨 So that’s why I’m “emotionally unavailable”.

[@idanbiton5407]

Beautiful

[@debbyt.5205]

Me: *has no crush* Also me: *is emotionally unavailable* ALSO me: *watches this video* i n t e r e s t i n g

[@dlnkles]

this sign can’t stop me!

[@23.27]

I am just now realizing how emotionally unavailable I am and have been. I don’t care for friends, deep connections or people in general. I love being alone, hanging out by myself, going out to eat myself, essentially doing everything by myself so there’s that. Sometimes I see others with friends and I think about how great it would be to have friends but tbh I just don’t care that much. If I keep on this path of loving my loneliness so much I might rot.

[@Kay-uc8tm]

I am thankful to psych2go for being so active. You guys help me a lot . Your content are always so relatable and great . Thank you ♥️ Have. A blessed day

[@PumpkinSpiceCat]

"the person you are calling is unavailable right now, please call later"

[@Pebbsthepebble]

Wow, this was posted in June? It’s October oof Great vid tho

[@Ashheartpaw]

Ikr

[@Kris.krisis]

damn

[@Frankya92]

Tf?

[@leviacneman6467]

Ayyy welcome peeps from the future

[@va11enn]

Hii

[@huntcomputer5837]

Me who stayed up until 3 every day to see you guys new video every day

[@angelasperanza1140]

Brilliant

[@kaedeshirakawa1979]

Well I thought of myself that I am emotionally unavailable, because of a lot of trauma and problems I had to live through the last two years, and I told my now boyfriend back then too, that I am absolutely unavailable. I don't really see myself in this video tho. After watching this I get why my boyfriend also had the feeling that I am not completly unavailable and kept being on my side to see how things may turn out. I am very happy he didnt gave up ^^

[@johnsmith2221]

I feel bad for these people. I could never live this way it would not be a full and satisfying life.

[@yashaswi698]

Psych2Go's videos somehow always help me make sense of whats going on and how to deal with all my problems🥺❤

[@galaxiajpeg2085]

Even if someone is emotionally unavailable, can they still change? I mean, it's not their fault that they're emotionally unavailable right? They can still be helped right?

[@ritzcracker3054]

i came hear because my ex girlfriend and i are taking a break because she wasn’t doing well mentally and i’m still in love with her

[@singularity1130]

I would love to get your healthily take on ASPD. I have to hide it from most people because the first thought by most is "serial killer" followed by unconcious alienation save the morbidly curious few who feel they can talk freely and amorally around us without offending us because we're assumed to not have morals. And just because we feel emotions on low volume doesnt mean they dont pile up overtime to really hurt. Usually seeking help about these things without explaining comes back in the form of toughen up or that's life; and to those that do know the disorder chuckle at the thought of a sociopath feeling anything at all. Lastly most articles on the internet suggest everyone stay away from people with ASPD. Nothing about understanding our disorder or getting to know how we operate. I would just like someone to explain ASPD to people without putting us down from the get go.

[@featherpuke]

But it's fine bc i don't want them to be like, totally emotionally available just yet Also a reminder to all who read this, it's okay to not be emotionally available all the time, and it's also okay to set expectations and boundaries for how much emotional availability you can provide.

[@Ianhawaii10]

Sadly this was my ex gf and ex crush. It was good in the initial honeymoon phase but sadly.. she did everything in this video. I tried to be patient with her but I just felt so disconnected... I feel bad because I know she has had some trauma in her past 💔. I wish I could help her but I think she hates me . I hope she gets better some day.

[@thekidfromcleveland3944]

Can't make it Why? Seen I felt that.........Brianna😢 yall hit real close to home guys❤

[@nsky8254]

A summary for those that struggle to concentrate or stay still for long: Sign 1: They lack compassion. Sign 2: They don't seem to want a real relationship Sign 3: Their body language comes off as distant Sign 4: They're dismissive with you Sign 5: They avoid emotional depth. Sign 6: They don't have many deep relationships