6 Signs of an Emotionally Unavailable Person

[@Psych2go]

What Netflix series are you watching at the moment? Comment below. (If it's not on Netflix, comment something else)

[@kami2193]

Attack on Titan ;-;

[@dadsfatherdads]

demon slayer

[@bug5460]

death note !!

[@ehrenfrau_aus_deiner_gegend]

Euphoria (again)❤️

[@paigepaigepaigepaige674]

Im watching the disastrous life of Saki K

[@dailydoseofmedicinee]

Being emotionally unavailable describes someone who is not open to discussing or sharing their feelings. They can be evasive, flaky, or hard to read. "They're scared of intimacy👍

[@RickTS]

I was like this before I met her She helped me a lot emotionly-

[@tommygunn6901]

We all are guilty of doing this at one time or another. What changes that is how self aware you are to it which can help make the changes necessary

[@matheussanthiago9685]

tbf intimacy is quite scary

[@tommygunn6901]

@@matheussanthiago9685 it is quite scary cause it requires vulnerability, but we sometimes need to take that risk and sometimes it's rewarding

[@Jenny7624]

Sadly, yes. I don’t like flaky ppl but I know my crush is super flaky due to emotionally unavailable. And when ppl are emotionally unavailable, there’s not much you can do about it 😭😭😭 but I can’t just let go of him because I care about him so much, I hate seeing him depressed 😭😭😭

[@ICEcoldJT]

“The people you meet are either reflections of a repeater cycle or guides towards a new start.” ✨

[@journeylife777]

I think that's called law of attraction 😁

[@michirista]

@@journeylife777 more then law of attraction a think you can see as stay focused on people bad behavior ,if you decide live with that is different !!

[@zach2455]

Bro i feel like i see you everywhere especially on elis videos

[@journeylife777]

@@michirista well, bad behavior person also help us to know what kind of person that we don't want to be in the Future...That's always reason of people come into our life 😁

[@michirista]

@@journeylife777 you are totally right ,it's about perspective !!!

[@icebear524]

Hits different when *you're* the emotionally unavailable person without even realizing it

[@rosegolden2039]

Ice bear will get better

[@icebear524]

:')

[@anivlog6994]

literally i watched the video and was like dang that’s me

[@colorfulquesadilla377]

I came here to see if my crush was emotionally unavailable but then I realized I was the emotionally unavailable one-

[@mihaylov5501]

Same

[@e.blaise2226]

Literally just cleared up stuffs with him and KZbin recommended this video...

[@phing0192]

Lmao plot twist

[@picklep9812]

Oh my god I watched this but substituted my female friend and it is a match

[@scroingl]

I don't have a crush on anyone, but I watched it anyway out of sheer boredom. And yep, same thing here...

[@girlingreenscarf7766]

No no emotionally unavailable person does not lack of compassion. They really compassionate if someone wants to tell their stories, they can be a good listener. But they dont want to tell their stories. They dont want to reciprocate.

[@nicoleonfeels]

Often times, people who are emotionally unavailable are in the process of working through some hurt. But with some work, they can come around like I did 🤗

[@tommygunn6901]

Self awareness is the first step!

[@tommygunn6901]

By the way, how did you overcome that? And where are you at now with all this?

[@kimberlybogert-nemeth4760]

I have a crush on someone online but he going through some things and so am I guess..but still I wish I could be there for him..sigh..maybe it's not meant to be.😌

[@luciandelle]

Yeah... idk bout that..

[@luciandelle]

@@kimberlybogert-nemeth4760 i feel you, ive lost feelings but still

[@alessioplt8786]

0:33 they lack compassion 1:00 they don't seem to want a real relationship 1:25 their body language come off as distant 1:55 they're dismissive of you 2:25 they avoid emotional depth 2:53 they don't have many deep relationship

[@Ashheartpaw]

Thanks!

[@remyislost2655]

This helps me so much! Thank you!

[@waterdoeswork]

Time travel!?!@11

[@featherpuke]

But also each of these behaviours are okay, and deserve a conversation *being dismissive isn't cool

[@MrGreeneyedcat]

Thank you : ) .

[@MiSquidster]

This video: talks about crushes Me: *laughs in loneliness*

[@gracehaven5459]

Relationships aren't always all they're cracked up to be. I'm miserable in mine but scared to leave.

[@katkat6858]

@@gracehaven5459 I’ve been there and let me tell you. It can be scary but it’s better to leave now then later. Don’t stay in the relationship. It can be hard but it’s worth it in the end.

[@nova4101]

Laughs in aromantic asexual

[@13._.1]

@@nova4101 *Laughs in demisexual AND LONLINESS*

[@stickboi922]

Me: *Laughs in confusion of if I have a crush or not, and wondering if they are just being extremely friendly*

[@queensylvanas4556]

I was in a relationship with someone that was emotionally unavailable and I've never felt more unwanted or dismissed like my feelings didn't matter at all :( I wish people would at least be honest instead of hurting others who are ready to open up and give love another chance. After this I honestly feel so scared to try again.

[@tiana_vs]

bless you! They should work on themselves, they are the problem, not you. These people will end up very lonely if they don't start opening up, and start talking about what's bothering them, or how they feel etc. Don't let anyone think you are not worthy for any recognition of who you are as a person x

[@Nikita-mo4np]

gurl, same... :(

[@danex070]

As a guy who just discovered I am (was) emotionally unavailable ... You just don't feel it its something wrong with you, even if the other is points it to You, I guess its hard to belive how someone can't understand even if its told to him but it is. I felt something is not quite right but then you think you just need time to adjust, you don't value the positive that much but the negative so much you use it in you mind to build a wall. Now after I ended the relationship i feel all the emotion and love to her and how toxic it was to her. Am I regretting I ended the relationship? No, as I couldn't make her happy and by that I was also not happy. And without the pain I now have I wouldn't know how much i have to invest in myself. So it hurts really much i hurt him and i have to let her go and by that maybe i lost her forever, but I also know I need time to find myself and she also needs time to heal. I just can hope in the future maybe our roads will cross again, but I know i did the most to her by letting her free from me right now :/

[@agnes6507]

I understand you

[@monkpoggi]

I have to wonder why they even bother with dating sites.

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

actions speak louder than words, so trust actions and not words.

[@dingus4806]

This..

[@exhausteDpigeonN]

LOUDER my Queen!!!🙌🏼

[@stayhappylittlemermaid]

@@exhausteDpigeonN 😇😇😇😁

[@henchoakes8016]

💯

[@genesis3686]

As an introvert dealing with social anxiety, I can wholeheartedly relate to being emotionally unavailable.

[@pellithee]

I’m not emotionally unavailable but I’m not open to date so idk why I’m even watching this.

[@shakiramcdaniel3993]

I used to like someone who was only clearly emotionally unavailable. He was always negative and he drained me out mentally and emotionally. He always brought confusion in my life, so I ended up cutting him off. Here’s my advice: Just because someone is going through something.. that IS NOT an excuse for that person to hurt you or lead you on. If a person is draining you out then cut that person off. You can’t change someone. If your crush is emotionally unavailable then GET OUT. (Depending your situation)

[@valennt.1]

Just here to see if I'm emotionally unavailable 🙂

[@valennt.1]

@@ladreenisaac2418 same and omg how is he? How many times did he ask to do a double suicide with you?

[@thextothey6417]

Tsuki is your profile pic you're emotionally unavailable into people who are emotionally unavailable

[@yourbestself101]

I think when people become emotionally unavailable it's not by choice it's because of all the pain they face in past

[@ellyoidalpha7882]

i agree, i dont blame anyone in this situation

[@Raj-cl7he]

Yea it just becomes emotionally exhausting I think also as you get older you see how needy the world and people are its to.much to keep up with so you just shut down .

[@vicki2545]

Not if they are the one making it hard

[@vicki2545]

It is by choice when he chooses to make somebody think their crazy

[@Shulsa]

I'm compassionate and all that but I just don't want to date anyone. At least not for a while. It's hard to find someone I like who accepts me for who I am

[@youjustgowomen6176]

Finally a comment I can relate to .

[@noobcoverssauceage2923]

That's why I have a crush on an anime charachter Easy peasy✌

[@mellomell7269]

😂 Let's keep it a crush not an obsession

[@noobcoverssauceage2923]

@@mellomell7269 lmao no obsession 😁

[@ggaxaly]

god what a mood

[@rhokesh4391]

dismissive avoidants often do.... I know what I'm talking about ;)

[@13._.1]

I like an anime girl *and a living one HOW FUN 🥲*

[@allicurry8854]

I had a friendship like this. It took living with them for me to see what was so different. I think it's important to discuss that emotional availability applies to friendships as much as it does to romantic relationships.

[@TheSpectacledOwl]

I was emotionally unavailable for over a decade after a disastrously bad break-up. Then, recently, things happened that helped open me back up…only to fall for someone who is, herself, currently emotionally unavailable.

[@mokakuma7329]

thats ur fuccking punishement and im here happy for itt....wtff is going wrong with you guys gooooosssshhh

[@shakey3306]

​@@mokakuma7329punishment for what exactly?

[@sethwood1003]

I have a bad habit of catching feelings for emotionally unavailable people 🙁

[@theycallmevitch]

Then you may be emotionally unavailable

[@hel2727]

I am like this. just like my mother. I knew I will be like her someday, no matter how much I despised her. but I know that healing my inner child is my own responsibility. this is hard. but things that matter are never easy.

[@treznopresto4878]

(Insert a good "hi" here) 1. They lack compassion 0:31 2. They dont want a real relationship 0:59 3. Their body language is distant 1:22 4. They dimissive of you 1:57 5. They avoid emotional depth 2:24 6. They dont have many deep relationships with others 2:53 (Insert a good "bye" here)

[@somewhereoverit711]

don't tell me you love me and then ghost me. I'm trying to move on, but i'm MOVING ON! Stay there.

[@yourmom-cx9hq]

Hewwo I hope you guys have a good day today ,drink some water and spend some time outside 🌟🤗☀️

[@PlanetPsych]

Hope y'all liked this video as much as I did :-) 1. They lack compassion 0:31 2. They don't seem to want a real relationship 0:58 3. Their body language is distant 1:23 4. They're dismissive of you 1:57 5. They avoid emotional depth 2:25 6. They don't have many deep relationships with others 2:52

[@seineevee]

Tysm!

[@beanthealien2090]

Thanks

[@noelblack8159]

Thank you Sir

[@radioactive7438]

2 months ago...

[@abbeyfisher4232]

I am so thankful for you helping me through these tough times and making me more knowledgeable about life. I have told all my friends and family members about your channel and how you get people the help they need. They all love you including me. So keep doing what you are doing and I hope I can stay with you for a long time! ❤️❤️💖💜💛

[@eviege7567]

I just went through a breakup. He's very emotionally unavailable and all these points apply and myself being very emotional and my love languages being quality time and physical touch it was so hard to make it work. I felt like he didn't love me or care at all about me. He had bad father figures in his life and I know he went through a lot. But it's very difficult to help someone who won't open up. It was very bad for my mental health so I had to choose to put myself first...

[@shakey3306]

Putting yourself first is something that a lot of people do these days...

[@AmandaNavarro]

My crush doesn't seem to fit any of these, I think he just sees me as a friend more than anything :') I mean that's completely okay, he's a big boy who can choose who he wants to be in a relationship with, but oof what's this feeling? p a i n

[@patientlywaiting4mykingsou49]

Ever considering asking him how he feels about you?

[@shadowstalker8508]

I agree with one above, I'd say go for it, if you haven't already, you never know if the door will open till you knock it

[@milk-qh5zz]

bread

[@syalamontana2508]

I feel u. Sometimes me and my crush flirt to each other but i think he just see me as a little sister that he like to tease. He is my senior in college also my partner in crime :) 💔

[@lotussong1]

Hmmm, some of these describe myself.🤔 Though I try be polite and considerate, I may seem distant to some people. I don’t trust people easily and prefer to stay single, due to negative past experiences. I’m a skeptic when it comes to romantic love too.🤨 So that’s why I’m “emotionally unavailable”.

[@therougesage7466]

Being emotional unavailable feels like we fall in the deep end of a pool and we cant swim

[@straightchlorine2434]

Hey random person reading this, you deserve all the love in this world and deserve better than emotionally unavailable people❤️

[@waterdoeswork]

Thank you random time traveler✨🖤👉👉

[@GHOUSTTM]

Thank you úwù 💖

[@therougesage7466]

What if those with ravaged faces lacking in the social graces? Those my friend are the emotionally unavailable

[@supriyagawali95]

Thank You..I needed that

[@valynciasmith206]

I need to learn to open up more to people. That is the reason why I don’t have deep friendships. It took me so long to find this out, BUT I am working on this as we speak. Gotta take it on step at a time!

[@gigi2643]

ERROR: "Lack of deep and meaningful emotional relationships"... As a child of a Covert Narcissist, I have always BEEN open and vulnerable, willing and eager to engage, connect, and grow deep with people. Problem: due to my mother's isolating me from my entire family and from normal friendships,... I DID NOT DEVELOP THE SOCIAL SKILLS, scientists prove that the BRAIN misses the early development of these skills, then, does not recover them... one has to LEARN them, but they struggle... THIS DOES NOT MEAN I AM EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE! Quite the contrary! I meet men who ARE! 🙂

[@tatum.m]

whoaaa what’s everyone doing here two months ago when this is from 18 seconds ago 😭😭😭

[@katsukibakugo3548]

Yeah 😭

[@tatum.m]

@Winter Tree that would explain it

[@Ashheartpaw]

@Winter Tree U really think i have money to be a member? Lol

[@hel2727]

@Krishna Patel who are you talking to?..

[@Talkinglife]

Emotional unavailability” describes a person who's evasive, avoids meeting up, or simply doesn't like to talk about their feelings or relationships. That person might also have difficulties with the following: trusting people. bursts of anger

[@skibunny2257]

Yes He is very uncomfortable when I express my feelings towards him and he keeps me at a distance. It's not what I want or deserve so I think I need to move on to someone that knows what they want and can see my value.

[@mawita867]

This video would have been very helpful to me about a year ago. I hope the people who need it finds this video 💛

[@Roan.bot.]

They are emotionally unavailable. I already knew but I wanted to make sure I was labeling it correctly. I’ve never been in a relationship so I was still unsure. They don’t ignore me but they are quick to dismiss other people’s opinions or feelings as in if they make someone feel bad in accident they’ll just brush it off as an accident and just keep doing how they do. I had to confirm because sometimes its hard for me to tell when someone is emotionally unavailable or just a selfish/ inconsiderate person. They definitely do #5. I thought that was just how some people are because I’m a very open person with everyone I know. I don’t have many deep relationships but I’m willing too. It’s just I don’t know that make people that are as open. I just end up resenting people that aren’t because the relationship feels lopsided like they really don’t want me to know them.

[@JustRaven00]

The notif told me that it was new, but the comments are from months ago

[@a-goblin]

✨patreon✨

[@wisie707]

ITS THE FUCKING TIME TRAVALERS!!!!!!

[@fraser2726]

Time flies when you have fun

[@windstormx8952]

I had just been struggling with this issue. Someone who I am close with has many of these qualities, and it hurt me for so long as to why they felt distant and I never knew why. Thank you so much for this insight

[@supriyagawali95]

What did you do about it?

[@nctalwaysmakesmesmile8093]

Oh so this is how people time travel. I was getting real confused.

[@wildbeam]

Lmao

[@kai.tlynma]

ikr

[@crazyformyself3105]

Nctzen?

[@hannahmontana9964]

HOW

[@slyevergreens4432]

H o w

[@anabrown9680]

1. Lack compassion 2. They don’t want a real relationship 3. Their body language comes off as distance 4. Their dismissal of you 5. Avoid emotional depth 6. They don’t have many deep meaningful friendships

[@johnsmith2221]

I feel bad for these people. I could never live this way it would not be a full and satisfying life.

[@sebastianritchie6895]

I can understand why time travel is fun! Btw, great video! It helped me realize that someone I've been very close to for a while is bordering on emotional unavailability.

[@nsky8254]

A summary for those that struggle to concentrate or stay still for long: Sign 1: They lack compassion. Sign 2: They don't seem to want a real relationship Sign 3: Their body language comes off as distant Sign 4: They're dismissive with you Sign 5: They avoid emotional depth. Sign 6: They don't have many deep relationships

[@mikebronson5766]

I learned how to be emotionally unavailable from my mother. and emotionally abusive from my father when I was a very small child. My question would be, is being a adult survivor of childhood emotional abuse and neglect the same as being a total jerk? or maybe like a complete asshole. My whole life the question was always whats wrong with you? and never what happened to you? The reason I am emotionally unavailable is because I have served a life sentence in a prison of shame for the crime of being born. and in that prison all the doors lock from the inside. That's what being emotionally unavailable feels like.

[@oneybee872]

If u feel the same way, the better u end ur relationship .. don't waste ur time with people who pretend to love u

[@jerickandrew195]

Her voice melts in my ears

[@amandasilvera]

😌 I hope that’s a good thing 😆

[@jerickandrew195]

@@amandasilvera yes... Heard many insults...

[@jerickandrew195]

@@amandasilvera and adding a Sweetness to it is good

[@featherpuke]

But it's fine bc i don't want them to be like, totally emotionally available just yet Also a reminder to all who read this, it's okay to not be emotionally available all the time, and it's also okay to set expectations and boundaries for how much emotional availability you can provide.

[@minfirezman2351]

Really good timing I was just wondering about my crush. Thank you!

[@PGOuma]

"And when the seasons change, will you stand by me?" *Sorry... O.O wrong comment section...*

[@waterdoeswork]

o.O

[@luciandelle]

O.o

[@yukeroinactivated6984]

o.O

[@sam-zn4xw]

0_0

[@uwunawu]

where have I heard this from

[@snowbunny4155]

No I don't because I AM the emotionally unavailable Crush

[@michirista]

If you're the emotional unavailable someone crush you try to work yourself if you want it,so you can heal and not hurt others in the way

[@abyssal_phoenix]

Weirdly enough I’m the opposite of all those signs, and I’m an infj. We are known as people who have trouble opening up and stuff. But I don’t have that weakness. I can be so open that I can scare people away

[@neutrono.8288]

man ... how I love this channel :)

[@newgotham8105]

This was my best friend who I had to say goodbye to recently. She always blameshifted back to her issues when I wanted to discuss important topics about her and how she made me feel in the relationship or made excuses. And if I needed to talk about something in my life that was upsetting me she wasn't present to comfort me, and we would just end up talking about her life. It's my fault, too because I put her up on the pedestal. My heart is broken. And she doesn't care. I wasn't trying to manipulate her. I have PTSD. Also, I'm a dark empath who's done psychotherapy. I hate her for this.

[@thekidfromcleveland3944]

Can't make it Why? Seen I felt that.........Brianna😢 yall hit real close to home guys❤

[@PumpkinSpiceCat]

"the person you are calling is unavailable right now, please call later"

[@garyprater8139]

I'm emotionally available Amanda!

[@23.27]

I am just now realizing how emotionally unavailable I am and have been. I don’t care for friends, deep connections or people in general. I love being alone, hanging out by myself, going out to eat myself, essentially doing everything by myself so there’s that. Sometimes I see others with friends and I think about how great it would be to have friends but tbh I just don’t care that much. If I keep on this path of loving my loneliness so much I might rot.

[@cerebralpaulc]

the art is so good bruh i can’t-

[@NorthernGuy-v1x]

As someone who is knowingly and willfully emotionally unavailable, if you meet someone who is this way but still wants a relationship, RUN do not walk. Being emotionally unavailable and trying to get into a relationship anyways (to get certain needs met) is VERY selfish.

[@zaynsam5669]

1- 0:32 They lack compassion 2- 0:59 They don’t seem to want a real relationship 3- 1:24 Their body language comes off as distant 4- 1:59 They are dismissive of you 5- 2:26 They avoid emotional depth 6- 2:54 They don’t have many deep relationships

[@sydneymccaskey4350]

if you dont have time: 1. they lack compassion 2. they dont seem to want a real relationship 3. their body language comes off as distant 4. theyre dismissive of you (they avoid hanging out and talking to you) 5. they aviod emotional depth (they dont want to talk about feelings or emotions) 6. they dont have many deep relationships with others

[@kaedeshirakawa1979]

Well I thought of myself that I am emotionally unavailable, because of a lot of trauma and problems I had to live through the last two years, and I told my now boyfriend back then too, that I am absolutely unavailable. I don't really see myself in this video tho. After watching this I get why my boyfriend also had the feeling that I am not completly unavailable and kept being on my side to see how things may turn out. I am very happy he didnt gave up ^^

[@TitaniumTronic]

Everyone who I have a crush on suddenly becomes emotionally unavailable LOL

[@dolphinman9896]

I haven't even watched yet but I just know this is gonna describe me perfectly 😔

[@lexi1666]

What if you both are emotionally unavailable and just don't want to be alone so you both just get together?

[@jenniferculpepper856]

Sounds like my marriage.

[@Sonya-lj3js]

Plot Twist - you click on the video to see if your crush is unavailable only to realize YOU’RE the crush that’s emotionally unavailable

[@Twztedcheerio1]

I can’t tell you how much I appreciate these videos. Wish they were around when I was dating...12 years too late! But these are most educational and helpful!

[@b.b.thedistortedclown8267]

Literally perfect timing. THANK YOU!

[@dlnkles]

this sign can’t stop me!

[@tommygunn6901]

This was frustrating at first. All too common do we end up gravitating towards them, and you know, that doesn't make them a bad person. Rather they just aren't fully available emotionally. It was a few months ago that I almost went off on a girl cause things were going well...til I was lead on. I used to think it was a reflection of me and thought it was my fault, but that wasn't the case.

[@kdveav]

I’m a time Traveler

[@alysaabines3435]

ADVANCE HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL! I LOVE WATCHING PSYCH2GO VIDEOS!! 🦋

[@bernakzler6373]

The moment you don’t know if you are aromantic or just emotionally unavailable

[@cosmosfacade8836]

I kinda need this- also, time traveling!

[@luciandelle]

Youre a wizard, Harry.

[@psychicpebbles7910]

I had this girl who liked me a whole lot, it was the first time anyone had actually liked me that way so I just went along with it. She kept talking to me and trying to be a common part of my life but that's when I realized something. I had been alone for so long that it was hard to be around others. I tried to stay in the relationship for her sake but it ended with her liking me even more. She got too close and I pushed her away.

[@Outpolecat5278]

Sadly this was my ex gf and ex crush. It was good in the initial honeymoon phase but sadly.. she did everything in this video. I tried to be patient with her but I just felt so disconnected... I feel bad because I know she has had some trauma in her past 💔. I wish I could help her but I think she hates me . I hope she gets better some day.

[@davepeterz2378]

This describes my ex gf perfectly. She kept saying I was emotionally unavailable because I wasn't up her ass 24/7. She legit was my friend for 2 years first, knew I was a single father and after a year together we moved in together. She started getting jealous of my kids.

[@Maverick_Leal_ZX]

I had a crush on someone this year but this video pretty much confirmed it. I cut ties with them and blocked them. I personally don't like giving my all to someone and keep me hanging. Its unfortunate but I have to watch out for myself. The last text was them asking me about an outing I was going to and guess what, left me hanging and I wasnt gonna wait 🙃

[@styxzero1675]

Another sign that I know myself using is mixed signals and faking emotions and facial expressions, im constantly playing hot and cold. One day I will be super loving to get them on the hook and they next day I will act cold towards them. Then when I notice they pull away I will turn up the flirting only for when they eventually reciprocate turn away again. It is kinda miserable knowing that it is impossible for me to have a real relationship. Most of the time I try to justify my behaviour that I do towards others, toying with their emotions etc. This way I never feel bad about it. But I just feel like I cannot have a deep connection with anyone, fault lies with my own insecurities, even tho deep down I want one hence the mixed signals.

[@miraclestivender651]

That's really messed up especially if your in a relationship doing that 😢.

[@miraclestivender651]

How do you fake emotions 😢 so acted like you were interested in them but really you weren't.

[@ShaddyRaddy]

I go through the same experience

[@monikachandra2487]

I have been in that situation many times and also become the one of unavailable. I can relate 5 and 6 because unable to have deep relationships

[@aml2463]

You guys never fail to meet my psychological questions 😅❤ i love you

[@jm543]

Bold of you to asume all people are trustworthy. I feel trapped in relationships and like someone is constantly pushing me to do things I am not ready for. I especially hate when someone starts to strangle me with talk about future or meeting their parents after 2 or 3 months of relationship. It is too soon and I mean you don't really know someone after 2 months. I've been hurt and betrayed in all types in relationships. I've learned that I can only truly count on myself. When I was going through thick and thin only few family members were on my side. When I have negative emotions I need to pull away to process them on my own. Talking about that with someone only increases my anxiety will they tell that later to someone what is bothering me or use that againts me later in an argument. No wonder I've built the walls around. When you keep someone on a distance it will hurt less if they try to hurt you in any way.

[@miraclestivender651]

That's opposite for me also toally understandable. If you're dating for a few months and you both like each other your most likely going to want to introduce them to family. If you don't it'll be like their ashamed of being with you or don't want you to meet their family that's normal. You can still get to know someone after a couple of months and still introduce the parents. Yes and talking about the future to much I've been there before. Just trying focusing on the present helped me a little 😅.

[@seraphica6539]

This exactly describes my crush and it makes me really sad

[@remington0011]

I've self isolated for so long now that I dont talk to anybody enough to even develop a crush. Being bullied in high school helped push me away from people, and I ended up with depression from it. Being bullied for expressing emotions made me cold. Not doing this for sympathy, I'm just curious if that's normal.

[@achi7440]

Yes, it's normal. If you're being bullied for expressing ur emotions, then naturally, u start being cold to ppl out of resentment and fear. U also have a hard time trusting ppl, so u easily push them away, making u feel lonely and depressed

[@lyrah6360]

Ive had experience with being bullied when I was young. It gets better when you get older trust me. Im in college now and I went through same thing as you. You will learn how to love yourself, develop boundaries with narcissistic people and open up again to different forms of love friendships/romantic. I highly recommend watching Lisa A. Romano. She is a great life coach. Good luck sending virtual air hugs 🤗 ❤️

[@remington0011]

Thx yall. Hope yall are doing well also.

[@Balasidine957]

​@@lyrah6360 Nope. Depending what demographic you cone from it doesn't get better when you get older. I really hate it when people like you say that.

[@aspectrat651]

Yay me and my crush are both unemotionally available, it was meant to be

[@broke_block]

How do you post these incredible videos everyday? That’s just impressive

[@jazdeluce8317]

Omg this is so me :( people see me as distant but I'm just protecting myself

[@milkdrinker117]

I always wonder why it's hard for me to have friends like another people. Turns out I'm just ✨ *_emotionally unavailable_* ✨

[@debbyt.5205]

Me: *has no crush* Also me: *is emotionally unavailable* ALSO me: *watches this video* i n t e r e s t i n g

[@queenjulianalovesherfatban2064]

I don't really agree with the compassion one I agree with all the others but for me I feel uncomfortable crying sometimes but if my friend was crying I would support and have compassion for them. With my mental illness it's like i am kind and compassionate to everyone else but myself

[@ces4399]

I reviewed a past relationship I unilaterally ended two years ago. I checked off 5 of the 6 blocks. I chose correctly. If you can do at least 2/3’s of this list, get out while you can.

[@winstonthepooh9388]

I love the colour scheme going on here

[@ll3832]

I'm late😔 Anyway, I love the animations so much It's beautiful

[@waterdoeswork]

Smh you're late

[@ll3832]

@@waterdoeswork actually there were people before me so I assumed that I was late

[@galaxiajpeg2085]

Even if someone is emotionally unavailable, can they still change? I mean, it's not their fault that they're emotionally unavailable right? They can still be helped right?

[@ritzcracker3054]

i came hear because my ex girlfriend and i are taking a break because she wasn’t doing well mentally and i’m still in love with her

[@abyssal_phoenix]

I have the best crush I have ever had. It is so good I don’t want to tell her, since I’m 99% sure she rejects me. And in order to protect myself from a broken heart my body destroys my feelings for her within a week.