6 Terrible Body Language Habits We Need To Change

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Psych2Go

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@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
In an effort to reach more non English speaking people, we have completed our first dubbed video here: kzbin.info/www/bejne/qKTPhKOshNKbsNk. If this channel becomes successful, we will invest and launch in other languages too. Comment below what other languages you would like to see psych2go in.
@Al-ui7uw
@Al-ui7uw 4 жыл бұрын
Malay maybe
@treznopresto4878
@treznopresto4878 4 жыл бұрын
How did you actually add those languages? Do you learn on it yourself or hiring volunteer?
@shoujo-rei
@shoujo-rei 4 жыл бұрын
malaysia ^^
@ssww3
@ssww3 4 жыл бұрын
I see you flipping me off got beaf jk
@SunFeathers
@SunFeathers 4 жыл бұрын
Hi 👋 😸
@autumnamort-murphy7233
@autumnamort-murphy7233 4 жыл бұрын
1. Slouching. 1:02 2. Holding a Defensive Position. 1:47 3. Not Walking with Confidence. 2:24 4. Appearing Distracted. 3:28 5. Too Much or Too Less Eye Contact. 3:54 6. Fidgeting. 4:44 I identify with every single one of these LOL.
@treznopresto4878
@treznopresto4878 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks :D this comment should get more attention, sadly flooded by those time travellers
@kshrvpz1587
@kshrvpz1587 4 жыл бұрын
Better to not go out
@littlebutterfly884
@littlebutterfly884 4 жыл бұрын
4:35 Temmie is in the sofa :3
@Eg-yf3lu
@Eg-yf3lu 4 жыл бұрын
I'm 1 and 2
@treznopresto4878
@treznopresto4878 4 жыл бұрын
@@71002 you talking to me?
@jaykaysdimple9718
@jaykaysdimple9718 4 жыл бұрын
If this lady had to be my teacher, I’d be getting straight A’s. Her voice is so calming and you never get bored of listening to it. Also not to mention how funny she is😄
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Haha, perhaps, we will make lessons in psychology with her voice. What do you think?
@DeltaLupi
@DeltaLupi 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go YES!!!
@anegidragon2275
@anegidragon2275 4 жыл бұрын
That would be awesome for a lot of people
@bonithechubbypotato5100
@bonithechubbypotato5100 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go yes :D
@lilytheplant_
@lilytheplant_ 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go OMG YES
@ory4991
@ory4991 4 жыл бұрын
Little hint for the eye contact thing: If you're in the middle of an little group, try to keep the eye contact to each one for 3 seconds while talking, this way, even if you aren't talking directly to someone in the group, they can still feel that they're part off the conversation, and not just existing there.
@prismmioouu
@prismmioouu 4 жыл бұрын
wow this is helpfull too. thanks
@nolitimere724
@nolitimere724 3 жыл бұрын
yea i actually do this too
@zackfoster8946
@zackfoster8946 2 жыл бұрын
Thanks.
@gingersnapuu444
@gingersnapuu444 2 жыл бұрын
making eye contact is so awkward sometimes tho esp if you're telling a story and everyone is looking at you lol
@leszz
@leszz 2 жыл бұрын
@@gingersnapuu444 the same feeling when everyone is singing happy birthday to you
@daahvuk
@daahvuk 4 жыл бұрын
For the fidgetting thing, people who have ADHD tend to do that and in a certain way, it helps them to stay focused because they think better when they are in movement
@eldritch-sys
@eldritch-sys 2 жыл бұрын
ya same for autism
@daahvuk
@daahvuk 2 жыл бұрын
@@eldritch-sys yep
@themaleskeleton
@themaleskeleton 2 жыл бұрын
@@eldritch-sys ADHD is on the spectrum :) /nm
@eldritch-sys
@eldritch-sys 2 жыл бұрын
@@themaleskeleton No it’s not? ADHD is not autism.
@themaleskeleton
@themaleskeleton 2 жыл бұрын
@@eldritch-sys Sorry, I meant that it’s related in many ways. Forgot my facts, I hope you don’t take it to offence :)
@anonymousblanketgirl9865
@anonymousblanketgirl9865 3 жыл бұрын
I wanna point out that some of these behaviors are things that some people with autism, ADHD, etc. cannot help, and those people, like everyone else, also do not intend to give off bad vibes or appear rude in an interview.
@susanoverbay8119
@susanoverbay8119 3 жыл бұрын
AMEN!
@paigemosher8697
@paigemosher8697 2 жыл бұрын
Exactly. So the problem is actually that society needs to be more accepting of those people and not enforce arbitrary rules that seek only to oppress those that communicate differently. We aren't the problems, society is. I will not apologize for being who I am because I'm smart enough to recognize that I am not, and was never, at fault in that regard.
@pluto4540
@pluto4540 2 жыл бұрын
@@paigemosher8697 beautifully said. Sucks that this will likely never change, at least not anytime soon, though.
@madisongerber132
@madisongerber132 2 жыл бұрын
I have ADHD and am always anxious about people mistaking my fidgeting with my rings and doing/ looking somewhere else for disinterest. In reality, if a teacher is lecturing or something similar, I have to be doing SOMETHING else, or I will retain none of the information. So I guess it's all or nothing. Anyway, Thank you for the video, it will help me mask better, because, unfortunately, society can't handle amazingly awesome people like me yet. (Saying that for all the amazingly awesome people with ADHD and autism out there) If you are reading this, neurotypical or no, have a great day!!
@julia20077
@julia20077 2 жыл бұрын
But I think the video was more for people without any of those. Like I have anxiety and its hard for me to be confident and not slouch so I get it, but like other can stop these habits
@misterhim7380
@misterhim7380 4 жыл бұрын
Alternate title: Psych2go calling me out for 6 minutes.
@jaykaysdimple9718
@jaykaysdimple9718 4 жыл бұрын
Lmao same
@wildbeam
@wildbeam 4 жыл бұрын
1 week*
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
We should have Amanda do that :)
@taylorshittbutt
@taylorshittbutt 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go hi
@boombap8007
@boombap8007 4 жыл бұрын
Yessir, it do be like that😂
@cj-ow3fb
@cj-ow3fb 4 жыл бұрын
#1: slouching *me who does school in my bed all day everyday* 🚶‍♀️ The animation is so darn cute btw 🦆
@decemberlotus
@decemberlotus 4 жыл бұрын
I have great posture & a bad azz & powerful walk!
@dyatzirys
@dyatzirys 4 жыл бұрын
@@decemberlotus cant relate 😔✋
@pupkemu
@pupkemu 4 жыл бұрын
My mom always reminds me to sit up straight but I forget ;-;
@ctrlaltmack
@ctrlaltmack 4 жыл бұрын
This is why my back hurts so much
@zycrophaxx1855
@zycrophaxx1855 4 жыл бұрын
yeah naphia is the best owo
@ICEcoldJT
@ICEcoldJT 4 жыл бұрын
“Optimism is a happiness magnet. If you stay positive, good things and good people will be drawn to you.” 🙌🏽
@justsomepandawithinternet
@justsomepandawithinternet 4 жыл бұрын
Smelly donke..,, *AAAAAAAaaAaaAAaAAaaaAAa*
@Taiyunn
@Taiyunn 4 жыл бұрын
I stay optimistic and everything bad comes to me-
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 жыл бұрын
Is that "magnet" or "magnate"??? (you might find it funnier if you look 'em up first)... ;o)
@MeemahSN
@MeemahSN 4 жыл бұрын
What if my positivity attracts pain?
@jude5912
@jude5912 4 жыл бұрын
that explains my life
@benbovard9579
@benbovard9579 3 жыл бұрын
Idk why crossing your arms gets such a bad rep...when I do it it's because it's comfortable and a way to show I'm relaxed in a conversation.
@cocomuffin4666
@cocomuffin4666 2 жыл бұрын
exactly!!
@infiresman4975
@infiresman4975 2 жыл бұрын
Same
@maayanona
@maayanona 4 жыл бұрын
I like how you put a bit more humor to the video than usually, but there are some comments that I think might suggest to some people that they're responsible for being mugged or ghosted or whatever. I think it is important to make it clear that poor body language gives no excuse of doing these stuff.
@alzahraaaljboori5756
@alzahraaaljboori5756 4 жыл бұрын
Her: “Slouching” Me: *Immediately straightens back*
@amphibeingmcshpongletron5026
@amphibeingmcshpongletron5026 4 жыл бұрын
...for 10-20 seconds before slouching back down again Repeat for entirety of life
@alzahraaaljboori5756
@alzahraaaljboori5756 4 жыл бұрын
@@amphibeingmcshpongletron5026 YUP 😂
@gwynethjaco7193
@gwynethjaco7193 4 жыл бұрын
Shh
@HelenavV_
@HelenavV_ 4 жыл бұрын
Me
@nt.5598
@nt.5598 4 жыл бұрын
Khahaa😂
@gorsens
@gorsens 4 жыл бұрын
“Being in a defensive position” *not me who was in the exact same position as the one on screen*
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 жыл бұрын
Funny... my "defensive position" usually involves a lot of running in tight circles and screaming "EVASIVE MANEUVERS! EVASIVE MANEUVERS!" It doesn't seem to help in job interviews either, but having developed the habit, I've found I'm a LOT more conscious of when I'm shifting into "my defensive position" now. ;o)
@nano2.038
@nano2.038 4 жыл бұрын
lmao what
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 жыл бұрын
@@nano2.038 Maybe, the next time you find yourself "getting defensive" in your posture before there's good cause for it, you can picture me "getting into my defensive position" (as it were)... AND then you'll lighten up and start giggling, like so many other folks waiting for their job interviews when I last "got defensive"... Comedy can be ALL about self awareness, and noticing the rules just SO you break them at the perfect time. ...who needed that job anyway? ;o)
@nano2.038
@nano2.038 4 жыл бұрын
honestly when im defensive im usually just get quiet and avoid all eye contact
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 жыл бұрын
@@nano2.038 A lot of people are. I go "full on comic" when I get nervous or defensive. As long as I can keep 'em laughing, they can't even hurt me if they wanted to. ;o)
@lyndaporter9156
@lyndaporter9156 4 жыл бұрын
Maybe instead of judging people so much how they dress, walk, talk or look, we should take EACH person as they are and discover through time. Realizing someone could be shy, had a bad day etc. There would be less suicides if people didn't feel they had to fit a cookie cutter world. We are too uptight over the wrong things! Not everyone can make a good impression. Just fed up with all the judging! Life is too short! YOU could be missing out on an amazing friendship because of being too judgmental!
@the_blackcat
@the_blackcat 2 жыл бұрын
Well said I too feel like people are so much into judging others that they even forget about their own behavior that could hurt others and it leads the others to feel insecure.
@MrsLovett
@MrsLovett 2 жыл бұрын
YES THANK YOU someone said it, why cant we just be our own people and accept everyone and talk to everyone equally. Some poeple get distracted easily so being disctrated is a problem for them, some people like to sit comfy and slouch a bit, doesnt mean they are any different from the rest.
@djdragons69420
@djdragons69420 2 жыл бұрын
Truly said
@emily.sibley
@emily.sibley 2 жыл бұрын
And you . Are an amazing person x
@dorathehomebody886
@dorathehomebody886 2 жыл бұрын
You’re kinda being hypocritical
@mellydoughnut
@mellydoughnut 4 жыл бұрын
*THIS CHANNEL IS LIKE A MOTHER! BUT ALSO LIKE A FATHER! ITS BASICALLY A HOME!* Its full of things you need and want to know on behalf of everyone who watches your channel including me thank you! You have helped me and so many figure out our struggles in life. I just wanted to Thank you for all you do.
@lovely_mc7414
@lovely_mc7414 2 жыл бұрын
I love how she still tries to put some humor in the videos, but still is calm and isn’t obnoxious
@sketchyskies8531
@sketchyskies8531 4 жыл бұрын
Did I just get flipped off by a marshmallow... I'm ok with that
@veonyxx
@veonyxx 4 жыл бұрын
Lol I thought that too
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 жыл бұрын
To be fair, as many of his/her brethren as I've eaten, it's understandable. ;o)
@marsp5636
@marsp5636 4 жыл бұрын
Omg😅. I've eaten very much of its brethren. They're good tho
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 жыл бұрын
@@marsp5636 Yup ;o)
@BethanyRoseOdell
@BethanyRoseOdell 4 жыл бұрын
ok, so im not the only one! They didn't cover it in the video! ..i suppose the bird technically/literally counts as body language...
@jlwest23
@jlwest23 4 жыл бұрын
Sad thing about this how many people missed out on some truely great friends and or relationships because said person body langauge was off that day.
@coffintears5821
@coffintears5821 4 жыл бұрын
The body says alot more than words unfortunately and people could take you the wrong way simply because of how your body talks
@tenacious7777
@tenacious7777 4 жыл бұрын
Me to a t 🤦🏿
@calahmcdonald9960
@calahmcdonald9960 4 жыл бұрын
True
@Nekotaku_TV
@Nekotaku_TV 4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but the fault is at the person acting because of it.
@KatiRyzi
@KatiRyzi 4 жыл бұрын
Only 8% of the way we communicate is through words the tone of our voice and our body language are way more important
@QuietlyMagnetic
@QuietlyMagnetic 4 жыл бұрын
We should never let our body language betray the confidence and sincerity of our words. Just as we should strive to be truthful and speak with conviction, our body should speak the same words with our actions.
@miguelulysses5469
@miguelulysses5469 4 жыл бұрын
damn that’s deep
@sgaf7001
@sgaf7001 2 жыл бұрын
Alternative title: "Stop being you." No kidding, I do all of these and I will keep doing 2,4, and 5. I don't see anything bad with those except the lack of interaction with people who will keep on judging you anyway no matter how much you adjust yourself. So, why adjust to that extent?
@emmalee8615
@emmalee8615 3 жыл бұрын
A lot of these are symptoms/aspects of being mentally ill/neurodivergent! Please don't be ashamed if you do these (cuz I'm very with you)
@lizziora
@lizziora 4 жыл бұрын
Hey, I'm that one time traveler that finds this animation too cute and loves the fact that there's subtitles! You know time traveling is a talent, no need to pay, you're born with it. You just need to exploit that talent. And it can be hard but you'll see it's a whole other world.
@enzo3217
@enzo3217 4 жыл бұрын
okay thx
@Kk-lt1hs
@Kk-lt1hs 4 жыл бұрын
What do you do to do it?
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the kind words!
@yesyesyesysa
@yesyesyesysa 4 жыл бұрын
how-
@speedycarrot6978
@speedycarrot6978 4 жыл бұрын
chileee
@edwardhyde7536
@edwardhyde7536 4 жыл бұрын
I would like to add that eye contact struggles are very common for autistic people! A trick I learned for eye contact is looking at the space directly between the eyes, one of the person's tear ducts, or shifting gaze from one eye to the other (less intense than looking at both eyes at once).
@hueningpotato5212
@hueningpotato5212 2 жыл бұрын
Thank you sm I'll try that out another time! I'm not diagnosed with anything but i struggle with it sm
@itsrozana
@itsrozana 2 жыл бұрын
@@hueningpotato5212 omg same
@venus-zi3ew
@venus-zi3ew 2 жыл бұрын
yes i look at their forehead haha
@OrangeSands
@OrangeSands 4 жыл бұрын
this is definitely my favorite animation. the lines are very soft, the colors don’t pop out, very neutral and very calming, the art style is super cute.
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you like it! Would you like to see more of this animation? :)
@my_life_be_like.
@my_life_be_like. Жыл бұрын
@@Psych2goyes pwease🥹🥹
@lirissayo3427
@lirissayo3427 3 жыл бұрын
Having ADHD, I have most of these habits, not by pleasure but because being distracted leads to look away, and fidgeting is hardly avoidable nya. Being focused on my thoughts has me looking at the grounds not to be distracted by people or environment nya.
@nappell
@nappell 2 жыл бұрын
Some of these are just making it seem like people are bad for being neuro divergente (meaning having ADHD, OCD, PTSD, etc.) or having jobs on computers, or just being someone like me who does a lot of crossing of legs, arms, and putting one hand on my hip.
@U.R.coolkid
@U.R.coolkid 4 жыл бұрын
This video made me self conscious. Specifically the ones about looking around and eye contact.
@rainearnstowski7049
@rainearnstowski7049 3 жыл бұрын
Turron!
@PlanetPsych
@PlanetPsych 4 жыл бұрын
It's funny how your body language introduces you before you even speak
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 жыл бұрын
I've often found it odd that people so willingly draw conclusions about you within 3 to 5 seconds of approaching you. ;o)
@charfree6888
@charfree6888 4 жыл бұрын
@@gnarthdarkanen7464 I think that is sometimes helpful for us. By quickly drawing conclusions, we are able to adjust our approach to them (maybe they appear to be not a very bubbly or outgoing person so I will approach them gently) or assess if they are dangerous or not.
@gnarthdarkanen7464
@gnarthdarkanen7464 4 жыл бұрын
@@charfree6888 Some of it's fine... BUT there's a tendency to get downright unhealthy, judgmental, or even toxic with the level of conclusions some people draw... ...anyway, I just find it amusing, considering all the "helpful advice" about not judging books by their covers and so forth. ;o)
@PhoenixtheII
@PhoenixtheII 4 жыл бұрын
@@charfree6888 People that are outgoing and bubbly are the ones to look out for, they love being the center of attention, and when their ego's don't get stroked... watch out.
@gargwinvinesnake6961
@gargwinvinesnake6961 2 жыл бұрын
Where to start? 1) Back injury, I try to keep my posture good but it's hard 2) After being attacked constantly as a child my defenses go up easily 3) Walking confidently lead to my parent thinking I had an attitude and brought on an attack. It was safer to scurry around them and be unnoticeable. Back injury doesn't help now that I'm older. 4) ADHD is a pain. If I spend too much concentration on concentrating on the person talking I miss what they're saying. If I focus on listening not looking I catch everything. 5)Eye contact was another trigger to my abusive parent. Add ADHD and it's hard 6) Figeting and ADHD are friends. I am also very nervous
@acmx72
@acmx72 2 жыл бұрын
2:25 i slouch when sitting, i don't have much confidence, but when i walk alone i always have a serious look, looking determined like i know exactly where i'm going, walk with a rapid pace (whish usually adds up to the fact that i'm always running late for everything) and with good posture. you want to look confident and strong so people won't see you as a vunerable target
@epicheetah9531
@epicheetah9531 4 жыл бұрын
Well, if the chairs I'm forced to sit in 5 hours a day didn't hurt my spine so much, maybe I wouldn't slouch. Sorry for the snappy tone, I didn't get much sleep last night. Also, I have ADHD, which makes it difficult for me to maintain eye contact.
@mangoface7914
@mangoface7914 4 жыл бұрын
Yeee a lot of these habits are extra hard to leave for NDs
@pentuplove6542
@pentuplove6542 4 жыл бұрын
I'm a very high fuctioning Autist, as a Child I was always at the adults section researching. I studied Psychology and body language as a child, self taught from my second home: The Library. Didn't help much as I maintained eye contact for too long. At 46 years old my Psychologist who diagnost my Autism stated my eye contact made him unconfortable. Good thing is I already knew Chinese don't like eye contact. I'm a Chinese Chef.
@Nightfire613
@Nightfire613 4 жыл бұрын
Me: “Oh cool, maybe I can learn how to have better social interactions and sidestep my autism!” Psych2go: *6 minutes of naming common autism body language* Me: “...dammit....”
@susanoverbay8119
@susanoverbay8119 3 жыл бұрын
This entire video seemed to just name off steps to take if you want to pretend not to be autistic. A.k.a. mask.
@daniellekathybea.714
@daniellekathybea.714 3 жыл бұрын
@@susanoverbay8119 Agreed. Seemed like a masking video for NDs.
@jellyfishathogwarts
@jellyfishathogwarts 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah… I’ve opted to continue being autistic instead :)
@grace478
@grace478 2 жыл бұрын
These tips have been reinforced my whole life... I have terrible social anxiety. I'm trying to work on them, but I wish there was more understanding for the reason behind these specific habits.
@glorydragon2597
@glorydragon2597 2 жыл бұрын
same :T
@jelli-tin8117
@jelli-tin8117 2 жыл бұрын
I find looking people in the face a lot easier than the eyes for a normal conversation, it shows I'm listening without making either of us feel too uncomfortable. I save direct eye contact for the heavier (or important) conversations.
@why-io2dz
@why-io2dz 2 жыл бұрын
Same lol
@Lola_LR
@Lola_LR 2 жыл бұрын
I love she says “sometimes” so much in the video
@AnimateTheArts
@AnimateTheArts 4 жыл бұрын
So many commentsssss The art is adorable thoooo
@marypatten7051
@marypatten7051 4 жыл бұрын
This was really helpful, especially having healthy posture, but what about people who are autistic or have ADHD? Some of the behaviors, like stimming and limited eye contact are habits that seem to be an inherent part of some people. Should behaviors like these still be corrected or should they just be accepted as the way that person is? I've heard that it's really stressful for some autistic people to stop simming or to give some people eye contact, and at the end of the day, they get burnt out from it, and just want to be accepted by others for the way they are. At least, as far as I know. It would be nice to have more videos about this subject.
@paigemosher8697
@paigemosher8697 2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, trying to force neurodivergent people to act the way neurotypicals like by controlling things like eye contact and stimming is ableist, no question about it. They can either accept how we're wired or mind their damn business- it is incredibly selfish of them to think we should be the ones to change when we are the ones who can't help the way we are. THEY can change, or they can just not talk to anyone ever again.
@HeadDetectiveLassie
@HeadDetectiveLassie 2 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same. I went from too much staring to almost no eye contact. I can listen better when I don't look directly at the person or when I'm looking around passively, and I fidget and stim constantly. All of these increased the older I got. My brain power is too focused on keeping me alive that it gave up on trying to keep me looking "normal".
@bloodycakes2451
@bloodycakes2451 4 жыл бұрын
Not walking with confidence and coorination. My ADHD self that keeps walking in shit unless she looks at the ground: how tho?
@smolmoru
@smolmoru 4 жыл бұрын
lol mood
@BludVap0r
@BludVap0r 2 жыл бұрын
The thumbnail was so cutely derpy!! This video was honestly just so nice and helpful, thank you
@swiftiesweet3172
@swiftiesweet3172 2 жыл бұрын
As soon as you said "slouching" I stood up straighter
@anjalipeddisetty8716
@anjalipeddisetty8716 4 жыл бұрын
I can’t find the crown emoji, Wanna know why? Because your wearing it, that’s why.
@sherlynnfung
@sherlynnfung 4 жыл бұрын
Oml this is a good one 😂
@anjalipeddisetty8716
@anjalipeddisetty8716 4 жыл бұрын
@@robot.boy_ no, I think it’s yours.
@anjalipeddisetty8716
@anjalipeddisetty8716 4 жыл бұрын
@@robot.boy_ besides, I don’t need a crown. All I need is for everyone who reads it to feel more confident about themselves ♥️
@Zumifey
@Zumifey 4 жыл бұрын
Ok i got offended
@anjalipeddisetty8716
@anjalipeddisetty8716 4 жыл бұрын
@@Zumifey hm? Why? What offended you? I’ll change it if you tell me what offended you if it’s necessary 🙂
@icaarus.
@icaarus. 4 жыл бұрын
Can we all just appreciate how there were doodles of Phil, Techno and George at 0:26? (For every mcyt fan)
@Ra1ny_skys
@Ra1ny_skys 2 жыл бұрын
Yessss and nice pfp
@Cyb3rV1sion
@Cyb3rV1sion 2 жыл бұрын
YES
@izzyy5699
@izzyy5699 2 жыл бұрын
i saw that and wondered if i say awake-
@rae_gun
@rae_gun 2 жыл бұрын
i was scrolling and i finally found the comment
@dadodem2157
@dadodem2157 4 жыл бұрын
Aaaand another secret video!🤗🙌🏽💕
@vivvso
@vivvso 4 жыл бұрын
How-
@enji9855
@enji9855 4 жыл бұрын
How did you get it? 🥺🥺
@fatimafont6109
@fatimafont6109 4 жыл бұрын
the heck.....?
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Good job!
@Webcorecat
@Webcorecat 4 жыл бұрын
@@enji9855 pysch2go has a patron you can check it out and pay to see the video early! =)
@-jupiter-3140
@-jupiter-3140 2 жыл бұрын
I don’t know how to stop looking away from peoples eyes. It’s not even just people I recently met, I still can’t hold an entire conversation with my best friend or parents while maintaining eye contact the whole time. My brothers are one of the most important people in my life and odds are I couldn’t tell you what color eyes they have
@pinkarielle5664
@pinkarielle5664 2 жыл бұрын
Slouching, not walking with confidence, and fidgeting 😅😅 I will try to stop those habits
@mysticallily3128
@mysticallily3128 4 жыл бұрын
“Defensive Position” okay then
@Winds-of-roses
@Winds-of-roses 4 жыл бұрын
my defencive postion is putting my knees on my shirt, and twisting my fingers
@mossycobblestone5317
@mossycobblestone5317 4 жыл бұрын
I've always had a "walk of confidence" I put on when walking to/from school, and I always know when someone is around. When I leave my house, I look up and down the streets, doing the same when I turn corners. My friends always found it weird, but I do it out of need for safety. I also hate walking alone, but I normally have to, especially to school. So yeah, I always make sure I know the normal time I leave and the people who show up around that time, and if I feel iffy about something, I leave 5 minutes early that day just to make sure I feel safe. And I live in a pretty good neighborhood, but that's what my mom+dad always taught me too do.
@bryan_yt4559
@bryan_yt4559 4 жыл бұрын
Hearing your voice is so relaxing like it’s so calm and positive 😭
@Kitschune24
@Kitschune24 2 жыл бұрын
I'm prone to everything listed (unintentionally). It's hard to act like you aren't nervous when you are, in fact, nervous. All the time. My mind forsakes me! Even when I'm not nervous, I feel like I need to do something with my hands; I tend to use hand gestures when I'm talking. Eye contact is hard; I feel very uncomfortable when someone is staring at me. Slouching is a bad habit, and walking confidently in public is challenging at times.
@farihamohamedhilmy4700
@farihamohamedhilmy4700 3 жыл бұрын
The one habit I can totally relate with was the part where I look away often. I gotta try to make it stop! 😪
@vainko.
@vainko. 4 жыл бұрын
agh i'm literally getting called out.. also 4:00 isn't that Yashiro Nene's eye from Jibaku Shounen Hanako-Kun? don't know if i overlooked it but it literally look like it is
@mitokii15
@mitokii15 4 жыл бұрын
Im about to say that:v
@Ghost-lz6ep
@Ghost-lz6ep 4 жыл бұрын
yes i does look like it
@cheryl_sprout
@cheryl_sprout 4 жыл бұрын
There’s also Tem from Undertale at 4:36 on the couch
@ДеницаНиколова-Кирова
@ДеницаНиколова-Кирова 3 жыл бұрын
I was actually looking for a comment that said that cuz I didn't know if I'm right or not 😅
@nishatferdouskanon3804
@nishatferdouskanon3804 3 жыл бұрын
I also thought that 😄
@josiah9712
@josiah9712 4 жыл бұрын
Don’t buy time machines in a mall! They are really cheap and never work properly
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Where did you get yours?!
@bonithechubbypotato5100
@bonithechubbypotato5100 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go i got mine off of Amazon. Its really good i use it all the time.
@whoisspook
@whoisspook 4 жыл бұрын
eye-
@Vilevic666
@Vilevic666 4 жыл бұрын
Que? What the hell is going on here 💀
@josiah9712
@josiah9712 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go I got mine from the dollar store, they have much better time machines. None of those cheap ones you see at the mall.
@fivepebbles876
@fivepebbles876 4 жыл бұрын
this video made me uncomfortable i have autism so i cant just stop fidgeting or look someone in the eyes its very stressful for me and i cant focus without it
@chrishabig380
@chrishabig380 2 жыл бұрын
Omg I love Rhett and Link sm I love how you referenced them.
@lukemason9850
@lukemason9850 2 жыл бұрын
I understand why people want me to look at them when they are talking, it is difficult for me to do so because i am autistic. Either I look away and listen very carefully or I look at them and forget what they said or cant listen to what they are saying. (looking someone in the eye is difficult for me, especially if I am doing it for more than 2 or 3 seconds).
@Webcorecat
@Webcorecat 4 жыл бұрын
Omg the animation is so adorable! Lovely voice! Ahhh love this channel
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much! Glad you like them :)
@lindseyclark2532
@lindseyclark2532 4 жыл бұрын
With the eye thing so I can't look away and I can't let look directly at them....i'll just I'll just leave 🤣
@SamElle
@SamElle 4 жыл бұрын
eeeek I have trouble with distractions!! I get distracted so so easily and people think I'm disinterested in them :(
@edgyedgelord477
@edgyedgelord477 4 жыл бұрын
If that happens please tell them you have trouble concentrating. If you want to you can talk to a psychiatrist to look into attention problems or even adhd. Hopes this helps you 🌠
@SamElle
@SamElle 4 жыл бұрын
@@edgyedgelord477 ahhh yes I hve been diagnosed with adhd! So I’ve been learning to manage it
@tiredstrawberrycream
@tiredstrawberrycream 2 жыл бұрын
i cannot stop fidgeting. what am i supposed 2 do i have severe anxiety over people staring at me lol
@Bingus.555
@Bingus.555 2 жыл бұрын
For a second there I thought you'd say I should no longer flip peoples off *sighs in relief*
@Kayla_VA
@Kayla_VA 4 жыл бұрын
If it weren't for Psych2go I would never noticed that things I do are bad for me
@Nekotaku_TV
@Nekotaku_TV 4 жыл бұрын
But most of these are only bad because of other (stupid) people, not that you're doing something bad.
@Kayla_VA
@Kayla_VA 4 жыл бұрын
@@Nekotaku_TV Hmm very true
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
We hope this video has helped you in some way! How many habits did you relate to?
@Kayla_VA
@Kayla_VA 4 жыл бұрын
@Lotte I agree with you and what you said made me realize alot of things
@bahahhag
@bahahhag 4 жыл бұрын
I love how comedic the narrator was in this one. She usually makes jokes in every video but I felt like she explored that much more here and it was quite surprising lol
@glenngoble4697
@glenngoble4697 4 жыл бұрын
Nobody: Psych2Go at 2:35: "Say what?" I don't know why this part made me laugh.
@a_narratee
@a_narratee 4 жыл бұрын
It made me laugh too 😆
@madara.n
@madara.n 4 жыл бұрын
Sammeeeee
@lifewithmatshepo
@lifewithmatshepo 4 жыл бұрын
True😂😂😂
@Spetlana87
@Spetlana87 2 жыл бұрын
If this person doesn’t have a podcast, I’m surprised! They have a calming voice and her podcasts would be so nice to listen to.
@needsmorecowbell1758
@needsmorecowbell1758 3 жыл бұрын
the speaker's voice is so soothing for all the videos
@trp
@trp 4 жыл бұрын
Instructions not clear... walked upsidedown to my interview
@frankm.6816
@frankm.6816 4 жыл бұрын
we can't all be neurotypical michal :) to my fellow fidgety/stimmy folks and ppl who aren't comfy with eye contact: ur good just the way you are
@genderlessthinguwu
@genderlessthinguwu 3 жыл бұрын
Thank you.
@catdragon2584
@catdragon2584 4 жыл бұрын
“Fidgeting” HOW AM I SUPPOSED TO STOP MOVING I’M ONLY HUMAN
@mehmetgurdal
@mehmetgurdal 4 жыл бұрын
Or you can strike a pose :D
@jordanlee9945
@jordanlee9945 4 жыл бұрын
Ah when I heard fidgeting I said 😐
@cuteteddy2697
@cuteteddy2697 2 жыл бұрын
I observed one thing in this video, her talking style was slightly different from the other videos. And I am pretty sure, that was because she was not trying to hurt the feelings of the people who have these habits; at all. Because it would maybe make them sad. So, she talked a bit differently ,for example "Crackers, not the snacks" and "drum solos might be entertaining, but leave them to drum experts" . ❤️❤️❤️❤️ She is soo good. ILY ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@thesonofgod2881
@thesonofgod2881 2 жыл бұрын
i love how this channel helps people for the fun of it... it makes me happy
@Memerama-uv6di
@Memerama-uv6di 4 жыл бұрын
0:45 THE DRAWING! It has Technoblade,Philza, and georgenotfound!
@ImperfectLioness
@ImperfectLioness 4 жыл бұрын
Heh, nearly everything you said, I do. I'm also severely ADHD, so I'm basically a walking fidget and general annoyance to those who take themselves way too seriously. 🙃
@Danteax
@Danteax 4 жыл бұрын
Requiring eye contact in conversations may be culturally normal, but it is ableist. Neurodiverse folks often find eye contact to be way too intense.
@dustin4547
@dustin4547 2 жыл бұрын
Why is psychology so fascinating and her voice is so calming
@yourlocalflatiron6124
@yourlocalflatiron6124 2 жыл бұрын
Remember people: people are very drawn to confidence, but not obnoxiousness :)
@kiesha9346
@kiesha9346 2 жыл бұрын
There’s a correct way to walk? Dang this world…
@joannaedwards6325
@joannaedwards6325 3 жыл бұрын
I'm a lucky woman as my boyfriend actually really hears everything I say AND remembers. But - - -as I'm into a long story or explanation he always starts doing something. . . fidgeting with some project or straightening something or moving around. GEEZE IT IS SO ANNOYING!!! Plus he often interrupts me. I love him but hate his conversational style. I guess the sharing at A.A. meetings has spoiled me. Never an interruption and attentive listening. My friend isn't an alcoholic so he doesn't know the 'rules of good listening'.
@paigemosher8697
@paigemosher8697 2 жыл бұрын
You sound incredibly self-absorbed, and I feel terrible for your boyfriend. This behavior really isn't as bad as you're making it out to be. Really, it's your fault for being intolerant of things that I can tell are beyond his control. No one should be expected to stay perfectly still and staring into your soul when you're rambling on and on and eating up precious time. He's a human being, not a robot. Human beings fidget and don't have long attention spans. I bet you have similar traits too, you just don't think they should bother anyone because "you can't help it" yet you impose this ridiculous double standard on your poor boyfriend. I feel like you guys need to talk things out- with YOU being the one that needs to listen more.
@diegobrando4578
@diegobrando4578 2 жыл бұрын
03:24 her laugh 😭😭💗
@lunamiku4166
@lunamiku4166 4 жыл бұрын
*Not gonna lie that Thumbnail looks adorable*
@Soobinsoobinyouknow
@Soobinsoobinyouknow 2 жыл бұрын
But the real problem is that people are too judgemental and people like me don't like the attention or being approached by strangers. 😞😞😞😞
@sudesallabas1735
@sudesallabas1735 4 жыл бұрын
yeah they really said “stop having adhd🥰✨”
@edgyedgelord477
@edgyedgelord477 4 жыл бұрын
I'm just thinking about how difficult society is for people with adhd or autism in this specific scenario. Can we also keep that in mind before we judge someone without asking 'what's wrong?'. Because it's OK to fix some of these habits, but if you meet new people or are going on a date, please let them know so they can understand!
@smidge7068
@smidge7068 4 жыл бұрын
just wondering if I'm not the only one but at 0:40 the drawing tab I can literally see technoblade, philza and georgenotfound in the small characters
@confuzzled1302
@confuzzled1302 4 жыл бұрын
When I was in 4th grade, it was a tough year, and I was scared of everyone. I was walking while changing classes and I bumped into a kid coming from the side I front of me and I jumped back and I was positioned like a person about to do some martial arts. The other kid jumped back and did the same thing. *respect*
@godfreypoon5148
@godfreypoon5148 3 жыл бұрын
Touching a person's face while they're talking to me... isn't in the list, so I'm good to go!
@cirno9999
@cirno9999 2 жыл бұрын
4:36 Did anyone notice that Temmie plushie on the couch? :3
@dullah1434
@dullah1434 4 жыл бұрын
Me: Needs to study for a test tomorrow Psych2Go: uploads a video Me: Just one more video...
@PlanetPsych
@PlanetPsych 4 жыл бұрын
Good luck for your test 2moro :-)
@cutedummyd7521
@cutedummyd7521 4 жыл бұрын
all the best!
@johnmarcusengreso7829
@johnmarcusengreso7829 4 жыл бұрын
0:17 Georgenotfound and technoblade wtf are you guys doing there!?
@vivekgogate3068
@vivekgogate3068 4 жыл бұрын
There is also one crewmate or impostor. ( Look in left side)
@vivekgogate3068
@vivekgogate3068 4 жыл бұрын
3:00 among us reference!! "There is one impostor among us"
@LenKunNow
@LenKunNow 4 жыл бұрын
and the cool s, and ph1lza
@RedFire789
@RedFire789 2 жыл бұрын
So i actually don't look at my friends or other people when they talk (only when they say a few words but not looking at them for a whole sentence) it just feels like i'm staring too much and i get embarrassed and too uncomfortable looking at them for "so long" even if its just a few secs- and i am usually by myself cuz i'm not a social person so when people come close to me i tend to either let them stay close or just move .
@cheesegorditacrunch
@cheesegorditacrunch 2 жыл бұрын
im so used to sticking my middle finger up for no reason at all like i cant stop
@colorfulquesadilla377
@colorfulquesadilla377 4 жыл бұрын
but I have ADHD and I can’t stop fidgeting, whenever I try to I stop for a second and then immediately go back to fidgeting :(
@miitanical
@miitanical 4 жыл бұрын
0:26 I see Philza,gogy(George), Technoblade, and Among us
@Psych2go
@Psych2go 4 жыл бұрын
Glad you notice :) Do you like them?
@miitanical
@miitanical 4 жыл бұрын
@@Psych2go Mhm :D
@erratic6312
@erratic6312 4 жыл бұрын
THE DOODLES IN THE BOOK AND THE “Technoblade never dies” EHCBHJWDC
@hollybear37
@hollybear37 2 жыл бұрын
I love how the thumbnail shows something bad yet looks so cute and child friendly lol
@Just-A-Nemo
@Just-A-Nemo 2 жыл бұрын
Ah so I am the perfect subject for mugging :) I walk with my head down, i fidget quite a lot, and I can't keep eye contact
@レイチェル-o8n
@レイチェル-o8n 4 жыл бұрын
KZbin: Psych2Go Uploads Comment: 21 hours ago with the word traveler Me: "tImE tRaVeLeR"?
@sarsharky
@sarsharky 4 жыл бұрын
No no its NANI?
@safieabdullah1072
@safieabdullah1072 4 жыл бұрын
Someone's comments are a week ago
@biggaylol5438
@biggaylol5438 4 жыл бұрын
@@safieabdullah1072 Yeah but H O W
@shawnasada2937
@shawnasada2937 4 жыл бұрын
Being aware and conscious of your body language is another challenge in of itself. But once you are more aware, the easier it will be to change these habits :)
@shawnlin3853
@shawnlin3853 4 жыл бұрын
exactly!
@rockybalboa6796
@rockybalboa6796 4 жыл бұрын
amen
@mrpinkfreak4168
@mrpinkfreak4168 4 жыл бұрын
Y e s
@mrpinkfreak4168
@mrpinkfreak4168 4 жыл бұрын
I have a habit of zooming off and thinking about space
@shawnasada2937
@shawnasada2937 4 жыл бұрын
@@mrpinkfreak4168 you must be elon musk
@DeltaChaosMix
@DeltaChaosMix 4 жыл бұрын
The pet goldfish... NO NOT THE ADDITIVELY YUMMY SNACK- 💥💥💥
@anomia841
@anomia841 2 жыл бұрын
I really realized that I need to look people in the eyes more often, I tend to avoid eye contact in every situation possible because I feel uncomfortable with it. But I also realized that it can get awkward in a conversation, especially when the person talking to me tries to make eyecontact and I just don‘t look at her. I guess this is my next goal for getting more social: More eyecontact.
@lanieharmon1345
@lanieharmon1345 2 жыл бұрын
Fidgeting is indeed difficult to overcome. And yes, I do have anxiety. But also a hyperactive mind. If I'm fidgety, it doesn't necessarily mean I'm nervous, though I definitely tend to do it more when I am. Sometimes it's just something to do while I'm thinking/organizing my thoughts. That being said, I understand it can irritate people or make them uncomfortable, so I try to keep it to a minimum when I'm not alone.
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